A parenting expert's caused a fuss by saying we should be asking our babies for consent before changing their nappies. Some parents are angry, but Holly's on board with the idea.

Plus, is asking party guests to give your toddlers cash in lieu of a gift uncool or genius?

And we speak to psychologist Jocelyn Brewer about how to deal with video-game-obsessed tweens.

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The question parents should ask before changing their baby's nappy

Psychologist Jocelyn Brewer, on Digital Nutrition

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Your hosts are Holly Wainwright and Andrew Daddo. 

With special thanks to Jocelyn Brewer. 

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This podcast was produced by Luca Lavigne.

A parenting expert's caused a fuss by saying we should be asking our babies for consent before changing their nappies. Some parents are angry, but Holly's on board with the idea.
Plus, is asking party guests to give your toddlers cash in lieu of a gift uncool or genius?
And we speak to psychologist Jocelyn Brewer about how to deal with video-game-obsessed tweens.
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<a href="http://www.digitalnutrition.com.au/">Psychologist Jocelyn Brewer, on Digital Nutrition</a>
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Your hosts are <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/holly-wainwright/">Holly Wainwright</a> and <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/author/andrew-daddo/">Andrew Daddo</a>.&nbsp;
With special thanks to <a href="http://www.digitalnutrition.com.au/">Jocelyn Brewer</a>.&nbsp;
Buy any book we mention at <a href="apple.co/mamamia">apple.co/mamamia</a>
Share your nails and fails with us. We want to play them on the show, please. 02 8999 9386.
Or fling us an e-mail. tgm@mamamia.com.au
This podcast was produced by Luca Lavigne.

A weekly look at parenting as it truly is: confusing, exhausting, inspiring, funny, and full of surprises. Join Tegan Natoli and Libby Trickett every Monday as they discuss all the disasters and delights of parenting with a healthy dose of advice from our trusted experts.

A weekly look at parenting as it truly is: confusing, exhausting, inspiring, funny, and full of surprises. Join Tegan Natoli and Libby Trickett every Monday as they discuss all the disasters and delights of parenting with a healthy dose of advice from our trusted experts.

Imperfect stories from the frontlines of parenting.

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My Nappy, My Choice

In case you missed it, (which would be highly unlikely) the Arj Barker comedy show caused quite a stir in the media last week. Tegan has very strong thoughts about babies at gigs, and Libby is Switzerland.

But there is one thing they both agree on, yes kids are kind of annoying when in public places.... But it's usually their own parents that find them the most annoying of all. 

And in recommendations Tegan is now a full blown gardener and Libby has found the perfect picnic rug for a family.

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Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

In case you missed it, (which would be highly unlikely) the Arj Barker comedy show caused quite a stir in the media last week. Tegan has very strong thoughts about babies at gigs, and Libby is Switzerland.
But there is one thing they both agree on, yes kids are kind of annoying when in public places.... But it's usually their own parents that find them the most annoying of all. 
And in recommendations Tegan is now a full blown gardener and Libby has found the perfect picnic rug for a family.
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Producer: Grace Rouvray
Audio Producer: Scott Stronach
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Planes, Escalators & A Comedy Show: The Mum Juggle

Ever thought about how to dodge a surprise baby once your family's set? While the usual suspects are contraception or the ol' snip for the guys, more women are opting for sterilisation. This week Libby and Tegan talk to a mum who just had the procedure, how she reached that decision and the reactions she's getting.

And later on they dive into a heated debate: Can you bail on a school concert right after their kid's performance? And who's the real arsehole here? Let the showdown begin!

You can read Hannah Mansur's article here.

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CREDITS:

Host: Tegan Natoli & Libby Trickett

Producer: Grace Rouvray

Audio Producer: Scott Stronach

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Ever thought about how to dodge a surprise baby once your family's set? While the usual suspects are contraception or the ol' snip for the guys, more women are opting for sterilisation. This week Libby and Tegan talk to a mum who just had the procedure, how she reached that decision and the reactions she's getting.
And later on they dive into a heated debate: Can you bail on a school concert right after their kid's performance? And who's the real arsehole here? Let the showdown begin!
<a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/sterilisation-surgery">You can read Hannah Mansur's article here.</a>
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Host: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tigga_natoli/?hl=en">Tegan Natoli</a> &amp; <a href="https://www.instagram.com/libby_trickett/">Libby Trickett</a> 
Producer: Grace Rouvray
Audio Producer: Scott Stronach
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Sterilisation vs Vasectomy: Whose Job Is It?

With all the awful news over the weekend and the last few days, here at the mothers group in your ears, we wanted to help you find the tools to talk to your kids in age appropriate terms.

You can read Gen Muir’s article ‘How to talk to children of every age about the Westfield Bondi Junction attacks, according to a grief counsellor.’

If you or someone you know is in need of support contact help is available:
Lifeline 13 11 14
Beyond Blue 1300 22 4636
1800RESPECT  1800 737 732

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CREDITS:

Host: Tegan Natoli & Libby Trickett

Producer: Grace Rouvray

Audio Producer: Leah Porges

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

With all the awful news over the weekend and the last few days, here at the mothers group in your ears, we wanted to help you find the tools to talk to your kids in age appropriate terms.
You can read Gen Muir’s article <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/how-to-talk-to-children-westfield-bondi-junction-attack/">‘How to talk to children of every age about the Westfield Bondi Junction attacks, according to a grief counsellor.’</a>
If you or someone you know is in need of support contact help is available: <a href="https://www.lifeline.org.au/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwlN6wBhCcARIsAKZvD5g_xb9MMAt9CLjxMl7D2mJwHQi1pd3OCfiNo43-lZG-Vu7le05jvqoaArtNEALw_wcB" data-stringify-link="https://www.lifeline.org.au/?gad_source=1&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwlN6wBhCcARIsAKZvD5g_xb9MMAt9CLjxMl7D2mJwHQi1pd3OCfiNo43-lZG-Vu7le05jvqoaArtNEALw_wcB" data-sk="tooltip_parent">Lifeline</a> 13 11 14 <a href="https://www.beyondblue.org.au/" data-stringify-link="https://www.beyondblue.org.au/" data-sk="tooltip_parent">Beyond Blue</a> 1300 22 4636 <a href="https://www.1800respect.org.au/" data-stringify-link="https://www.1800respect.org.au/" data-sk="tooltip_parent">1800RESPECT </a> 1800 737 732
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Producer: Grace Rouvray
Audio Producer: Leah Porges
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

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