Geraldine’s mum Anne didn’t like Ted* from the beginning. But Anne found it hard to put her finger on exactly what bothered her about him. That’s because Ted’s behaviour was a complex web of expectation, pressure and manipulation, more commonly referred to as coercive control.

Coercive control is a pattern of conduct employed by abusers. This is violence that happens slowly. It doesn’t come out of nothing. It is a gradual building of cruel, threatening and intimidating behaviours. Together these subtle acts combine to strip away the victim’s sense of self worth, their loving relationships and their personal and financial freedoms.

Some Australian state governments are exploring ways to make coercive control a crime. But it’s tricky. How do you define violence that is so hard to prove? The impact of physical violence is so much easier to measure.

In this episode of There’s No Place Like Home we introduce you to Geraldine and unpack the debate on whether coercive control should be a crime.  A question on which key groups in the women’s safety sector are divided. You’ll hear experts from both sides - with a particular focus on how this issue affects Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.

With the help of experts, advocates, practitioners - and of course Geraldine herself - we’ll answer the question: Would criminalising coercive control even make a difference?
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Content note: This podcast includes descriptions of domestic and family violence and may be upsetting to some listeners. If you have experienced or are at risk of domestic and family violence and/or sexual assault, you can call the national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you are not feeling safe, always call the police on 000.

*Not his real name.

Geraldine&rsquo;s mum Anne didn&rsquo;t like Ted* from the beginning. But Anne found it hard to put her finger on exactly what bothered her about him. That&rsquo;s because Ted&rsquo;s behaviour was a complex web of expectation, pressure and manipulation, more commonly referred to as coercive control.
Coercive control is a pattern of conduct employed by abusers. This is violence that happens slowly. It doesn&rsquo;t come out of nothing. It is a gradual building of cruel, threatening and intimidating behaviours. Together these subtle acts combine to strip away the victim&rsquo;s sense of self worth, their loving relationships and their personal and financial freedoms.
Some Australian state governments are exploring ways to make coercive control a crime. But it&rsquo;s tricky. How do you define violence that is so hard to prove? The impact of physical violence is so much easier to measure.
In this episode of There&rsquo;s No Place Like Home we introduce you to Geraldine and unpack the debate on whether coercive control should be a crime.&nbsp; A question on which key groups in the women&rsquo;s safety sector are divided. You&rsquo;ll hear experts from both sides - with a particular focus on how this issue affects Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people.
With the help of experts, advocates, practitioners - and of course Geraldine herself - we&rsquo;ll answer the question: Would criminalising coercive control even make a difference?
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There&rsquo;s No Place Like Home is a podcast by Future Women, made in collaboration with CommBank which is supporting long-term financial independence for victim-survivors through<a href="http://commbank.com.au/nextchapter"> CommBank Next Chapter</a>. Content note: This podcast includes descriptions of domestic and family violence and may be upsetting to some listeners. If you have experienced or are at risk of domestic and family violence and/or sexual assault, you can call the national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you are not feeling safe, always call the police on 000.
*Not his real name.

This is the story that starts where others end. After the headlines fade. After the crisis hotline call ends. After you walk out of the shelter doors. When survivors face the brutal, yet hope-filled work of rebuilding from scratch.

We know that leaving an abusive relationship can cost everything. Your home. Your money. Your job. Your kids. Your health. The life you thought you'd have. Putting the pieces back together can take years, sometimes a lifetime. And what comes next is rarely discussed, poorly understood and absolutely critical. 

Recovering from domestic abuse and family violence. It’s not just about surviving, but thriving.

There's No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing reveals the innovative programs across Australia looking beyond the immediate crisis. This season, meet the mother rediscovering joy with her children after their perpetrator robbed them of it for years, the survivor turning her pain into a career to help others escape and the local heroes building safe houses to create spaces where women can finally experience "this huge sense of freedom”. 

For the first time, watch these powerful discussions on video or listen as audio. Hosted by Sally Spicer and available wherever you get your podcasts. Made possible with support from CommBank Next Chapter.
Learn more about There’s No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing 
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If you or someone you know is affected by domestic, family and sexual violence, contact the national service 1800RESPECT for free and confidential counselling, information and service referral. Call 1800 737 732, chat online 24/7 at www.1800respect.org.au or use the text line on 0458 737 732
If you or someone you know is an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander person in need of a culturally safe support line, you can call 13YARN (13 92 76)
In an emergency, or if you are not feeling safe, always call the police on 000

There’s No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing is an FW podcast made in partnership with Commonwealth Bank, who through CommBank Next Chapter, are supporting people within Australia experiencing financial abuse, even if you don't bank with them.

This is the story that starts where others end.&nbsp;After the headlines fade. After the crisis hotline call ends. After you walk out of the shelter doors. When survivors face the brutal, yet hope-filled work of rebuilding from scratch.
We know that leaving an abusive relationship can cost everything. Your home. Your money. Your job. Your kids. Your health. The life you thought you'd have. Putting the pieces back together can take years, sometimes a lifetime. And what comes next is rarely discussed, poorly understood and absolutely critical.&nbsp;
Recovering from domestic abuse and family violence. It&rsquo;s not just about surviving, but thriving.
There's No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing reveals the innovative programs across Australia looking beyond the immediate crisis. This season, meet the mother rediscovering joy with her children after their perpetrator robbed them of it for years, the survivor turning her pain into a career to help others escape and the local heroes building safe houses to create spaces where women can finally experience "this huge sense of freedom&rdquo;.&nbsp;
For the first time, watch these powerful discussions on video or listen as audio. Hosted by Sally Spicer and available wherever you get your podcasts. Made possible with support from CommBank Next Chapter.
<ul>
<li aria-level="1">Learn more about <a href="https://www.futurewomen.com/theresnoplacelikehome/">There&rsquo;s No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing</a>&nbsp;</li>
<li aria-level="1">Keep up with FW on<a href="https://instagram.com/futurewomen"> Instagram</a>,<a href="https://www.facebook.com/FutureWomen/"> Facebook</a> or<a href="https://au.linkedin.com/company/future-women"> LinkedIn</a> and join<a href="https://futurewomen.com/pricing/"> FW</a>, a professional movement for women who work and women who want to work</li>
<li aria-level="1">Learn more about <a href="https://www.commbank.com.au/support/next-chapter.html">CommBank Next Chapter</a></li>
<li aria-level="1">If you or someone you know is affected by domestic, family and sexual violence, contact the national service 1800RESPECT for free and confidential counselling, information and service referral. Call 1800 737 732, chat online 24/7 at<a href="http://www.1800respect.org.au"> www.1800respect.org.au</a> or use the text line on 0458 737 732</li>
<li aria-level="1">If you or someone you know is an Aboriginal or Torres Strait Islander person in need of a culturally safe support line, you can call 13YARN (13 92 76)</li>
<li aria-level="1">In an emergency, or if you are not feeling safe, always call the police on 000</li>
</ul>
There&rsquo;s No Place Like Home: Paths to Healing is an FW podcast made in partnership with Commonwealth Bank, who through <a href="https://www.commbank.com.au/support/next-chapter.html">CommBank Next Chapter</a>, are supporting people within Australia experiencing financial abuse, even if you don't bank with them.

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