When Lucy posted a confession about someone 'settling' in their relationship on Instagram, she got tons of messages from people who related. We thought we'd unpack the concept of settling in a relationship, and in life.

Lucy and Em also discuss the exclusion of diverse shades of foundation in Australia, and  for Dating Diary Lucy describes the one night stand that changed her standards forever.

The End Bits 

Click here to read Why is it still so hard for women of colour to find their foundation shade in Australia? by Erin Docherty

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au

CONTACT US

Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386

Send us a voice memo to podcast@mamamia.com.au 

This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson 

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

When Lucy posted a confession about someone 'settling' in their relationship on Instagram, she got tons of messages from people who related. We thought we'd unpack the concept of settling in a relationship, and in life.
Lucy and Em also discuss the exclusion of diverse shades of foundation in Australia, and&nbsp; for Dating Diary Lucy describes the one night stand that changed her standards forever.
The End Bits&nbsp;
Click here to read <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/australia-foundation-range-inclusivity/">Why is it still so hard for women of colour to find their foundation shade in Australia?</a> by Erin Docherty
Have a confession? We want to hear it: <a href="https://forms.gle/E8Z2oL8uxHgrYEyG8" data-stringify-link="https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fforms.gle%2FCMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9&amp;e=ATP9K3v9qERN53ZsySVwQPGnfJxAfKlVXGjGNLn7cqehVwjGeMctQh41OQmWMgdOe-cVLwGm4Va4vUybiWAP-g&amp;s=1" data-sk="tooltip_parent" aria-describedby="sk-tooltip-17382">forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9</a>
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.&nbsp;
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem &amp; @lucymneville&nbsp;
Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/mamamia-lonely-girls-guide-newsletter">The Lonely Girls Guide</a>.
If you want to share your dating story email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au
CONTACT US
Via our PodPhone on 02 8999 9386
Send us a voice memo to <a href="mailto:podcast@mamamia.com.au">podcast@mamamia.com.au</a>&nbsp;
This episode was produced by Emmeline Peterson&nbsp; Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

When you’re in your 20s, everything feels complicated. Which is where The Undone comes in, a show about navigating the “adult” world without a GPS, friendship, love, sex, personal politics, and... air fryers. Meet Emily and Lucy. They work at Mamamia and they live together in the inner city. They spend their days trying to work out how to turn the oven on, why their dating lives are such garbage fires, and why sometimes their tiny daily struggles seem just as insurmountable as the world’s biggest problems. Every week on The Undone they’ll be sharing dating stories and talking about the biggest issue in their world, because... nothing is simple in your 20s.

When you’re in your 20s, everything feels complicated. Which is where The Undone comes in, a show about navigating the “adult” world without a GPS, friendship, love, sex, personal politics, and... air fryers. Meet Emily and Lucy. They work at Mamamia and they live together in the inner city. They spend their days trying to work out how to turn the oven on, why their dating lives are such garbage fires, and why sometimes their tiny daily struggles seem just as insurmountable as the world’s biggest problems. Every week on The Undone they’ll be sharing dating stories and talking about the biggest issue in their world, because... nothing is simple in your 20s.

The Undone

How To Know If You're Settling

Hi besties! I'm back in your ears with a mini dating diary confession AND some exciting news. We've got a brand new podcast for you. It's called Things You Didn't Learn In School and you can listen to it right now! 

Listen on Spotify here

Listen on Apple here

We learned a lot of things in school that we’ve never actually needed to know in real life. Meanwhile, important things like how to nail a job interview, how to do taxes, and whether buying or renting is a better financial option were conveniently left off the curriculum.

That’s where we come in...Comedian Bec Melrose and your bestie (Em Vernem) are here to walk you through the lessons you’re too embarrassed to admit you still don’t know. So come and give us a listen. School is in session xx

Hi besties! I'm back in your ears with a mini dating diary confession AND some exciting news. We've got a brand new podcast for you. It's called Things You Didn't Learn In School and you can listen to it right now! 
<a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/6LbXGFJ67BPcZRmS6Ui23o">Listen on Spotify here</a>
<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/things-you-didnt-learn-in-school/id1707977942">Listen on Apple here</a>
We learned a lot of things in school that we’ve never actually needed to know in real life. Meanwhile, important things like how to nail a job interview, how to do taxes, and whether buying or renting is a better financial option were conveniently left off the curriculum.
That’s where we come in...Comedian <a href="https://www.instagram.com/becmelrose/?hl=en">Bec Melrose</a> and your bestie (<a href="https://www.instagram.com/emilyvernem/?hl=en">Em Vernem)</a> are here to walk you through the lessons you’re too embarrassed to admit you still don’t know. So come and give us a listen. School is in session xx

We've Got A Surprise For You...

After 67 episodes (14 recorded from home) The Undone is coming to an end. In this final episode, Lucy and Em reminisce on some of their favourite memories, from the funniest to the most important.

But don't worry, Lucy and Em aren't going anywhere. You can follow them on Instagram at @emilyvernem and @lucymneville to keep up with what they're up to.

Thank you to all our listeners for tuning in every week, submitting dating diary stories and confessions, and being a part of the show. We'll miss you.

THE END BITS
To listen to all the episodes mentioned in today's episode click here.

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

Audio Producer: 

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

After 67 episodes (14 recorded from home) The Undone is coming to an end. In this final episode, Lucy and Em reminisce on some of their favourite memories, from the funniest to the most important.
But don't worry, Lucy and Em aren't going anywhere. You can follow them on Instagram at @emilyvernem and @lucymneville to keep up with what they're up to.
Thank you to all our listeners for tuning in every week, submitting dating diary stories and confessions, and being a part of the show. We'll miss you.
THE END BITS To listen to all the episodes mentioned in today's episode click <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/podcasts/the-undone/">here</a>.
GET IN TOUCH:
Feedback? We&rsquo;re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at <a href="mailto:podcast@mamamia.com.au">podcast@mamamia.com.au</a>
Have a confession? We want to hear it: <a href="https://forms.gle/E8Z2oL8uxHgrYEyG8" data-stringify-link="https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fforms.gle%2FCMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9&amp;e=ATP9K3v9qERN53ZsySVwQPGnfJxAfKlVXGjGNLn7cqehVwjGeMctQh41OQmWMgdOe-cVLwGm4Va4vUybiWAP-g&amp;s=1" data-sk="tooltip_parent" aria-describedby="sk-tooltip-17382">forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9</a>
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.&nbsp;
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem &amp; @lucymneville&nbsp;
Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/mamamia-lonely-girls-guide-newsletter">The Lonely Girls Guide</a>.
CREDITS:
Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem
Producer: Emmeline Peterson
Audio Producer:&nbsp;
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you&rsquo;re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We&rsquo;re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

Bye B*tches! Farewelling The Undone

'Pegging', Thanks to Married At First Sight (MAFS) is currently trending in google searches. But don't worry, we've got you sorted and we're going to save you that google search. So what is pegging and how do you start the conversation with a sexual partner around it? 

Also, Em gets vulnerable with us and shares more on her vaginismus PLUS a Dating Diary of her very own. Was Em 'love bombed?'. 

THE END BITS

GET IN TOUCH:

Feedback? We’re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at podcast@mamamia.com.au

Have a confession? We want to hear it: forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9

If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review. 

Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem & @lucymneville 

Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter The Lonely Girls Guide.

CREDITS:

Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson & Rose Kerr

Audio Producer: Leah Porges

Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.

Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you’re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We’re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

'Pegging', Thanks to Married At First Sight (MAFS) is currently trending in google searches. But don't worry, we've got you sorted and we're going to save you that google search. So what is pegging and how do you start the conversation with a sexual partner around it?&nbsp;
Also, Em gets vulnerable with us and shares more on her vaginismus&nbsp;PLUS a Dating Diary of her very own. Was Em 'love bombed?'.&nbsp;
THE END BITS
GET IN TOUCH:
Feedback? We&rsquo;re listening! Call the pod phone on 02 8999 9386 or email us at <a href="mailto:podcast@mamamia.com.au">podcast@mamamia.com.au</a>
Have a confession? We want to hear it: <a href="https://forms.gle/E8Z2oL8uxHgrYEyG8" data-stringify-link="https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fforms.gle%2FCMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9&amp;e=ATP9K3v9qERN53ZsySVwQPGnfJxAfKlVXGjGNLn7cqehVwjGeMctQh41OQmWMgdOe-cVLwGm4Va4vUybiWAP-g&amp;s=1" data-sk="tooltip_parent" aria-describedby="sk-tooltip-17382">forms.gle/CMPWyPdQY3KNbepm9</a>
If you like the show, subscribe and leave us a review.&nbsp;
Slide into our DMs @theundonepodcast @emilyvernem &amp; @lucymneville&nbsp;
Click here to sign up to Em's newsletter <a href="https://www.mamamia.com.au/mamamia-lonely-girls-guide-newsletter">The Lonely Girls Guide</a>.
CREDITS:
Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem
Producer: Emmeline Peterson &amp; Rose Kerr
Audio Producer: Leah Porges
Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.
Just by by reading our articles or listening to our podcasts, you&rsquo;re helping to fund girls in schools in some of the most disadvantaged countries in the world - through our partnership with Room to Read. We&rsquo;re currently funding 300 girls in school every day and our aim is to get to 1,000. Find out more at mamamia.com.au

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