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Can I Date My Bestie's Brother?

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Emily has brought her own Dating Dilemma to this episode of The Undone, after she matched with a friend's brother on a dating app. She wants to know, is it ever ok to date your bestie's brother, or is it asking for trouble?

Also, these days it's pretty standard procedure to split the bill after the first date. But considering that the wage gap in Australia still exists, and the cost that goes into going on a date if you're a woman- is that actually fair?

Plus we read a Dating Diary from someone who was asked out by a man with a very strange request... Don't worry, we found out exactly why!


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Host: Lucy Neville and Emily Vernem

Producer: Emmeline Peterson

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