Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them more like the million bucks things, and its cubbing me through good it. Steve listening to the movie Together for study, I don't join join me, be doing me. Honey. You gotta turn you gotta turn to turnow, got to turn out to turn the water the water go. Come come on your back, dad, I share will a good morning everybody. Y'all listening to the voice come on dig me now wanted only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, here we go. I was working out. I was talking to a buddy of mine, and I was telling him something that Bishop td Jake's told me one time. I heard him say it. He said, I would hate to die and not do the thing that I was born to do. I would hate to die and not do the theme that I was born to do. Man, oh man, oh man, man. That hit me like a like a like a pile of bricks man, because it made me feel so grateful that God has allowed me to live my life this way now. And I'm talking about grateful for all of it, the good, the bad, and the ugly, and I have had all of them. The person you see today it ain't always who I was. It was on the inside of me, but it hadn't externalized itself, if that's a word. It hadn't been brought out. It was in here, but it was under development. Who I am today was a process. But like I said before, don't trip Hem through with me yet. Even today, I'm still an imperfect soldier for Christ. Today I still fall short oftentimes, but I'll tell you what, I'm ever grateful for the life I have. And you know what, I want to encourage everybody today to explore your possibilities. I mean, man, explore your possibilities. Why would you not want to find out, discover, or know what it is God got for you? Why would you not want to achieve or accomplish all of your possibilities? Now, as I ask you this question, I want you to know that the devil is busy, that he plays mind tricks. So as you hear this, I already know he's saying to some of y'all, Yeah, Steve, that's easy for you to say, But I didn't get myself in this situation right here. Ain't nothing too hard for God? Nothing, nothing and see. So as you listen to me, try to try to get your mind open to this. Why would you not want to explore all of your life's possibilities, what's possible with your life? And I'm talking about from right where you are right now. I'm not asking you to change, I'm not asking you to do anything. I'm telling you this is a fact that God can get you from right where you are right now. Broken, misled, misguided, misunderstood, mistaken, all of that, misfortunate, all of the missus you've been talking about in your life. You know you. I missed the lottery, I missed my ride. They fined men, I missed the deadline. I didn't get it miss pop. People just miss stay self to death. If you've been all in missus, God can get you from right where you are. God a home run hitter. I'm here to tell you that he's a home run hitter. He's all put him over the wall whenever he wants to, all the time. And you can be a recipient or some of these home runs. He'll put the bat in your hand. But you got to swain. Now, listen to me. You got to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You got to stop holding yourself down with beating yourself up. I was listening to George Myers on TV the other day and she said that she was talking to God, and she said that she had kept asking God to forgive her over and over one of her prayers, Lord, forgive me and for something she had done, and she was telling it to somebody. As I remember the story she was telling, she says she was telling that to somebody and minister or something, and the minister said, hey, hey, hey, he heard you the first time. See a lot of us we keep ourselves down and back because we keep beating ourselves up for the mistakes weed and made. But God is in a forgiving business all day long. He forgives you time and time again. He won't hold you down about it if you don't hold yourself down about it. But I'm gonna tell you one more time. The devil is busy. So what the devil do is he makes you think you ain't worthy. He makes you think that you've done something so despicable that you can't come back from it. He makes you feel like you're so low you can't go up high. He knocked you down and make you feel like you've been knocked down harder than anybody else. You can't get up, he wrote, you so deep down in that ditch you can't see over the edge. God can come get you from no matter where you are. I know a lady. I know a lady personally. The doctors told her you got sixty days tops a year and a half. Lady, she was still here. I'm telling you, man, you ain't in no hole too deep for God. Magic Johnson to tell you that. Listen to me, you ain't in no hole too deep for God. Steve Harvey can tell you that you ain't in a hole too deep for God. Tyler Perry can tell you that. I can name you some people. Bishop Jake can tell you that. I could tell you. Kenneth Alma can tell you that. Bishop Kenneth Olman I could tell you some people. Kirk Franklin can tell you that. Donnie Mcclerkton can tell you that. I just know some people personally, man that they've been in a hole. Joel Oldstein can tell you about it. I know some people man been down, been in a hole so deep. I bet you Paula Deane can tell you about it. See but but you know what, then here we go, see we see see you know see we don't. We don't like to talk about that because now we want everybody to pay extra hard for some mistakes they made when clearly and excuse me for being a new Christian, but there is a prayd that I've been saying since I was a little bitty boy, and it took me till I was a grown man to understand it. Forgive us our trust passes as we forgive those who trust passed against us. So see, it ain't my job to hold nobody down, to keep my knee on somebody's neck. Who am I? I'm gonna need some forgiveness in a second here, probably today. See so all this, you're holding people down with the way you feeling bout the man. She shouldn't have said this, and she will never get it. I never support this again. Man, Get up, get up and get real. You're for real. You think you ain't fit the need forgiveness? Real soon? You ain't finn to make a diabolical mistake in your life. You don't think you are. I have thousands of them, probably gonna make a few hundred more for I get up out of here. So I've decided to be in a forgiving business because I want God to forgive my trust passes as I forgive those who trust passed against me. You understand. See excuse me for being a new Christian. I get I get tired of talking to to to people man supposed to be saved and talking about their christian I don't want that type religion. Man. I ain't in that, no more. I ain't in that. You can call me wrong if you want to saying how you want to say. I ain't in that no more. I ain't in all that. You can feel how you want to feel about me. But I got proof that God work in my life. You know, I can't hardly get it out sometime when people ask me something about deeper on the inside of me, about my soul and how I used to being, and my journey and my trip because people don't know the trip I've been on. You ain't been on one worse than me. But you know what, you ain't in a hole too deep. God can't get you out of. Man. I wish. I want. I want people to remember that man, God is a redeemer, He the great I am. So if you ain't got nothing. Now, what you asking for? You know you might not have nothing because you ain't asking for nothing. Could asking God to get you out of debt and ask God for a life of abundance. Then you take the money and you get out of debt. You keep asking to get out of debt. You keep being in debt to get out of Come on, man, what you asking God? Fault? I'm just tripping today, that's all. I'm sorry. I apologize. You're listening to show people get read. There's a train come in. You don't need no ticket. You just get home, boy, ladies and gentlemen, the train is here. Shirley Strawberry, Hey, good morning to you. How you doing? Steve colorfool morning and June morning with nephew time you're debuted, Uncle Steve. What's happening, Steve? I'm ready ready for who ever you won't. Yeah, you know that's what I want to do. I'm gonna do all hard hard Roscoe does it. Christmas carols? Oh goodness, yeah, I'm gonna do a few Christmas carols. We don't have a thirty four break. You better do. That's what you better do. Come on, damn shit through the snow. Oh a one horse. Oh, Bushley, it's gonna take a long time. Oh what fun to ride in a one horse? Old Busley. Oh jingle bath, oh jangle bath, Oh jingle jangle all the way? Yeah, okay and old what fuck it is to ride in the one horse? Oh but Chali? Yeah, uh huh hey, Hey, how about joy to the world. I got jaw I got to the world. It's about him. Oh joy to all the boys and girls. No jaw yea to the world. Oh joy, Oh the boys and girls. Dad, the halls a father, falla la la la la la la la the season to be job falla la la la la la la la. Nah. We reach y'all gay apparel la la da da Dad. Okay, man, Yeah that's good. Yeah, christ back off? Can you do silent nightfall? We come back and Santa Claus is coming to him. I need that and let us rude off and rude off. All right, all right, we're coming back with uh. Steve sings Christmas Carols hard at thirty two after right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. We are back, Steve singing Christmas carols. We're all in the Christmas spirits. Steven singing him but his way, and you know he sings hard. We had clown singing Christmas Carol. We had a request for silent night, Steve shine night, when night hard on the mic, ohli is calm, messing thing it bright, run round your your mama, mama and your child. Wholy so tender tender and shide look nah ho nah, break it down, Oh calm who it bride? Route off the red nose? Okay, which what version you d dancer and press up and calm me and cupid Dan's done up and blixing, Yeah, somebody and vixing who but who clame boy in the Christmas the most famous, that damn famous come on that damn famous rain deal. Oh oh who whole route off? Damn no rain deal? Come on, boy had a very shine No, yes he did, yes he dad, And you saw you come on the thing. You wouldn't even see all right now, you wouldn't even what you do. All of the ring time with that one, all of the rain. Yeah, used to laugh and call him names. They never let Paul rude. They routed you didn't right the game, little thing boy. Then the one fucking Chris mussy Sata came to say Hey, Rudo, which you damn no so bright? Why did you bring your last on over here? Got this sleight tonight? That was the jail, Thanks so much for let me do it. That was good, Robin. The quintessential Christmas song This Christmas Johnny Hathaway Dinner dinner, dinner, dinner done. I'm running due dune, dude, Hey gone, missle too? Who I'm gonna to get to know who you're better? Ye? Did hear Chrismus? And as we trimmed the tree, your eze where I wall be? He did? He did? Chris must fire side is blade sin bri high and we're caroling only I said, we're Carol lying. Come on, boy, Carol, I said, we're Caro lying a little knight. And this Chrismas what you best? I said, this Chrismure, not next one. I'm talking about this damn grinning right, yes, dancing boy, Twitter Fields, what's the song? Well? The weather outside is right, let us know, let us let us you want to hear boys, don't matter, it ain't gonna be the same. I just want I just want it is snow. You got the boys, letty snow? How about Santa Claus is coming to town. That's the one. Say o clock coming to town. Yeah, saying the clauster coming better not powder, better not cry, you better watch out. I'm telling you. Why say a closeter coming, time said saying up close, comment to time one more time, said closing coming the top. Oh yeah, said the closing coming the town, come on saying it said it close the town. When did it coming? Saying it close? Why did you do it? Said the closing coming to town? Were late? Said the closing coming to town. Sad talk. Cloe is coming, come on, come on in here, hurry, he's coming to time sand close brain from coming the now you got right after this, you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment news. People are still buzzing. They're kind of upset about this. Cardie be An offset split up. Ask Yeah, they're done. They're married too, right and they have a baby, little baby. Culture Well right now though, the nephew is here to run that prank back? What do you have for us today, ne king prank? Bring my breath back? Yeah, yeah, yeah, bring my breath here it is ready. Hello, I'm trying to reach Oliver yeah, this is him. Hey, you married you you engaged in Madison? Right, Yes, I am. There's a problem with it or something? What's up? No? No, no, no, no, My name is Ricky. Man. Have you heard about the last person that she was engaged too. Well, she kind of spoke briefly about you. You know what. Man. First of all, let me just say this, congratulations. Okay, let me let me be the first say that. Congratulations for y'all getting engaged. And I hope it worked with y'all. Okay, Okay, here here's why I call uh, we got we got a situation at hand that we kind of need to clear up between you and I. So what is me and you got a little conversation we need to have about property? Well we're talking about property? What property? And the property we lived in? What are you talking about? This is my property? Okay, Now I'm not talking about your house or nothing like that. Oh I've got some property over there that belonged to me, and I'm trying to figure out how we can rectify the problem. Well, I'm quite sure if there's something not to pack up or whatever, you can come and get it. I don't know what do you have over here in my house, that yours. Okay, the ash the ashwald breast that she had belonged to me, the breast. I bought her some breast implants. Man, I ain't know nothing about nor the breast in plants. Okay, you might not know nothing about it, but the bottom line is I spend ten thousand dollars on some breasting plants, and I want my property back, buddy, man Jeeves. No, man, you're not getting back. What are you talking about? Pressing plan? I ain't know nothing about that. Man. Man, I understand you not knowing about it, but I'm calling you like a man explaining it to you know, I'm trying to let you know. You know, I bought her some breasting plants. Now that's my property, not just like just like when it don't work out with with U, an engagement don't work out, you want your ring back? Well, I want my breath back. Oh no, man, if you had gave a ring, you can get that back. But that's just the man. What do you I mean? Come on, man, you ain't get back. Hey, man, I'm getting them back. Oh. I'm gonna be over there every other week being happy with without in bought No No that ain't. That ain't what's gonna happen. No, no, no, brother, that ain't gonna happen. Now. I don't know what you're calling for about ten dollars dollars the breasting plague you ain't getting you come over here if you want to. When you with somebody, when you lose them, you lose every damn thing you paid for. So if you bought us and you're done, you should have bought when you got married. You know what I'm saying. You should have waited, then bout the damn tell them mine, I'm gonna be over here. That's what I'm gonna do with your breast and plans. So your money was well spent. You ain't get back. Move on in your life, hey man, you don't tell me whin and win when I supposed to buy thought I buy someone I feel like it. But the bottom line here them breast alone to me, No, no it's gonna work. We'rena somebody gonna pay me ten thousand dollars one way or the up. Oh no, no, you ain't getting nothing back here, man. You got to move on with your life. Man, when y'all broke up, y'all running together. No motive left with us. She walked away with a man. That's it. That's over. I'm sorry. Let me say something to you, man. I'm coming over there. I'm coming over there and have a conversation with Madison about this, because that's whoever darely. I need to talk to you. No, you're not talking to nobody over here. You're talking to me like you say, man to man. I'm letting you know. Man, your loss, your loss. Man, you don't get nothing. I can't even get my number. You get money. Let me get your number so I can call you back when she on the way home. My number on the breath, number on the breast, ten thousand dollars. That's your number. Yeah, okay, Well I'm gonna check it. I'm gonna show check it, and I'm gonna look at it every day because you ain't getting nothing back, brother than mine. You're lost, man, it's over. Let me ask you this, man. Have you even bought the ring from Madison? Yeah, I've bought the ring. That's what you do when you get engaged. I paid the ring, is brother, I must ring calls about nine thousand dollars. That's a nice ring fee. The breast calls more than the damn ring. You're a cheaper man, man, you man, I mean I was about to win you tell about Look, dude, she going then breasts ain't yours no more? Man, you don't get back here if he was weing a pair of shoes or something ikey that back? So what na? What nah? Hey? Man? All I'm gonna say is this here. I'm pun it. Come over there and have a conversation with Madison about my breath because the breath bloss to me. You're not coming over here hitting nothing. She ain't even here, But you can bring your over here. You come over here with your chest pushed out, I'm gonna push it back in for your brother. Don't I got two breaths over there? You tell them the five thousand dollars I won't both for man, Look, you ain't getting gise you. You call every ex girl friend you break up with wanting, But I call the ones that I'm in bought breast flap. Thank you. That's a good damn wedding gifts. I guess you don't. Hey, man, don't don't let me tell you something. Don't you touch my damn breasts? You mean, man, here. Man, I don't know who the hell man? Hey, you even get on my line? Man? Who is this? I'm the person that on the breast. Do you know who this is here? You don't own nothing over here. Man. You didn't took the loss on their brothers. You didn't took a straight loss on them. Man, you got partner? Who is this? Man? He lost it? Man calling my phone. I'm gonna tell you right now who this is your partner? Yeah, I'm who is this? This is nephew Thomas Steve Harby Morning Show. Your girl Madison got me the prankball called you? Oh man, what you ain't it cold? Where you cold? Ma? Ain't somebody? But damn me? This is it? They real? Aret it out of here? I know I know who you're supposed to know, what you married. I don't know why are you asking me? I'm still what you told? What you bust the man? You still got me? Must real all faith you so like hap? Where y'all cold? Man? Y'all y'all need to stop that. Man. But I listened to you last creeper. You gotta laugh stuff. I never thought i'd get got. Hey, Well, what's the baddest radio show man? Steve Harming Monell. That's the truth. He got me, good man, you got me? How is that? How was that? I'm just saying, how was that? You push your boy? But he was going off in my prespect, That's all I'm saying. Hey, this Saturday night, I'm in Detroit, Michigan. That's Dcenter eight Saturday Night at the Fox Theater and we got a star study crew, rod Man, Dominique, John Pops with a spoon, Lavelle Croff at an earthquake and hosted by Yours Truly or Detroit. That show, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I gotta be prepared. But it is an all star comedy. Feel it? Anybody funny? So I'm excited. You're gonna have fun. We're gonna have fun. You gonna laughing? Nothing else? Come on? Whatnot great? Do you think that's something? I'm gonna be great Saturday Night? I think come around once a year. On. Man, that's that's the nephew right there. He got to ask you a question first? What wasn't the great? Who don't want you got to lift it? You gotta lift the buck, you know, I just started Tommy when you're on vacation. Okay, Junior, just did you. We didn't even miss you because he did you. So what does that mean? I don't I don't know. I just know that's love. That's love. You get yourself shirt, Tommy saying that be a good shirt. But I like when Junior says, huh huh, same huh. Y'all, y'all want your breast back. Ye ain't a great Ain't nobody fooling at me? Come on now, I don't hear y'all greatest, all right, coming up the top of me hour, Thank you, guys. Entertainment news Cardi bing Offset splitsvill we'll talk about it right after this. You're listening. Well, it's all over social media. Cardi B revealed that she is divorcing Offset, although she did say it may take a while. She posted to Instagram a video announcement while topless. I don't know what that has to do anything, but she did make the announcement when she didn't have a top on yet. Cardie says, we hadn't see anything wait a minute now, yeah, but we knew she was topless. Cardi said they're better friends and business partners than lovers. Take a listen, so everybody been um bugging me and everything, And you know, I've been trying to work things out with my baby father for her minute now. And we're really good friends, and you know, we're really good business partners, and you know, she's always somebody that I've run to to talk to, and we got a lot of love for each other. But things just haven't been working out between us for a long time. And it's nobody's fault. It's just like, I guess we grew out of love. But we're not together anymore. I don't know. It might take time to get a divorce. And I'm gonna always have a lot of love for him because he is my daughter's father. And yeah, oh little baby culture Battle had a kind of love afterwards. That's good. Yeah you wrong with that? Yeah, Rumor Mills working over time it is um in the wake of their breakup, Offset bro Um. Yeah you were rooting for them. Yeah you always want you always root for love and for couples. Yeah, you do. It was the bad lives. You want to comment on this, No, I mean, you know, I like Cardi being off, yeah, really pulling, you know. You know, of course, whatever wrong, they ain't gonna get a chance to heal. Course, you know, look, well that's kind of what Offset said. He wrote that, y'all one uh. It has some thinking that he's blaming fans or the media for driving a wedge between he and Cardi b U, while others are saying that Offset got caught cheating via text wanting a managea without Cardi b Well, how to do it? That's a room? Yeah, two weeks after she had the baby, so we don't know he wanted without her, so two o them win? He needed to wait on her? Is that it's never a right time? Oh no, no, I'm just gonna say that because you're married, yea, yeah, yeah right, you look like you're ready to get into something up. Yeah, ye was like, oh he didn't want one? Then? What like that has something? Right? He? You know what he know, Betty? Why would you think you could? That's so you know what? Who are you? Y'all? Don't think it's could have been lives broke them up? Huh? Telephone rang all the time? Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, they just had a baby and took them because the voce may take a while though, I don't know what that means exactly, but yeah, but she's way more famous now than he is you know that, Yeah, way more famous. He's known all over the world. Cardiges a rock stars though yeah, yeah they are. They just sa it really is sad. I hate to hear stuff like that. Yeah, all right, Steve Um moving on. You know, a lot a lot of things are going on in the news, so it's time for today's headlines, pleasease and gentlemen, Miss ann trip. Thank you very much everybody, and good morning. This is the trip with the news. Well, you know, yesterday was all over television and all that. Our forty first president, George Herbert Walker Bush was given a state funeral in Washington's National Cathedral, where dignitaries from around the world joined all five living presidents, including President Trump, and paying their final respects. The eulogy was given by former President George W. Bush, who describes his dad as a great and nobleman who taught him a lot. He showed me what it means to be a president who served with integrity, leads with courage, and asked with love in his heart for the citizens of our country. George H. W. Bush was a diplomat of unmanned skilled, a commander in chief of formidable accomplishment, and a gentleman who executed the duties of his office with dignity and honor, and George W. Said his father was the best that a son or daughter could have. A private memorial service being held today in Texas at the elder Bush's Presidential Library that's in College Station, Texas. He's going to be buried there next to his wife, Barbara and their daughter Robin, who died at a very young age of leukemia. Whi Nson's incoming Democratic governor is accusing that state's Republican dominated legislature of playing fast and loose with the law and trying to override the will of the people. The voters passed. The voters specifically, they said that they passed legislation now designed to dilute his power and the power of the new Attorney general, who's also a Democrat. Governor elect Tony Evers blames a handful of people who he says desperately want to cling to power. GEOP lawmakers held their votes in the very early morning hours yesterday when most people were asleep, making changes that weaken the incoming Democratic governor's ability to make rules and even enact laws and GOOP Assembly Speaker Robin Voss explain those moves this way. The situation that we are sitting in right now if we do not pass these proposals is that we are going to have a very liberal governor who is going to enact policies that are in direct contrast to what many of us believe in Well. Outgoing Republican Governor Scott Walker has ten days to sign those bills into law. Meanwhile, something similar going on in Michigan with the lamed up Republican governor and attorney general there, lawmakers work feverishly in Michigan. The past bills that would delay a minimum wage hike and also scale back paid leave requirements, something that was supported by the outgoing GOP Conservative government despite critics who said it was unconstitutional. Legislation pushed through as residents made their displeasure known to them outside the state House, chanting we voted blue and not for you. Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin n Yahoo was facing indictment and now a third corruption and bribery case is really Police said they got enough evidence to charge Natan Yahoo as well as his wife, with bribing a telecom giant in the Jewish state and exchange for positive coverage of his administration on its news website nat Yahoo calls the accusations a witch hunt. He says they're orchestrated by the Israeli media and insists he's innocent. He also says they're political and stuff. Ohio has become the first state, by the way, to allow you to pay your taxes with bitcoin. Get with that, I don't know. And finally, today is National microwave Day with the push shop a button you can give your food put. Apparently they call it a pop to pin in certain parts of the world. That's right in micro wade. This has been and trip for the news. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show? All right? Yesterday, Steve, you told us about one of your favorite Christmas memories about collecting pop bottles in your brand spanking new red radio flyer wagon. That was a way for you to make money. Right. Well, Forbes has come out with this year's list of the top ten highest ranking YouTube stars. Now, this list includes the biggest earners by taking into account their video advertising profits, merchandising deals and other revenue sources, and everyone on it is on the younger side. Okay, but The number one spot goes to a get this seven year old boys kid? Yes, the toy review having. You've seen him yet, Oh you've watched him. Yeah, he's just a little kid. His name, he's a blogger. His name is Ryan. He reviews cool playthings under the name of Ryan Toy Reviews. And he's like most of the kids his age, he loves I'm gonna tell you, he loves legos and trains. But he also has seventeen million followers. Okay, no, seventeen million, and he has he had a good haul. Last year he breaked in eleven million dollars. Wow. But this year he doubled that. He made twenty two million. This year old, he's seven. I'm not going to school, Steve Harvard. Steve, Steve Harvard. Is that's your sign? What? I'm going to school? Fun? I'd have made it already. Yeah, what do I go to school for? Y'all? Went to school and I'm doing better, y'all? Yea to school. You've been opened up some damn toys. Seven years old, that's first grade, that's what That's what Jodan? That first grade? Uh, seven years old and everybody making twenty two million? You know enough? For me. He's seventeen hen that two million, seven years old, seven years and sit over there with your ass. Don't even be potty trained for all. Let's go right there. Let's just gonna let him use it right, twenty two million, Just clean it up so we can keep this boy happy. But I mean, talk about doing something you love a kid reviewing toys that's gotta be having and you're making money out of Come on, that's some smart parents. Yeah, that's credit to get that. You should do the Cavear review. No, they no kids from to watch me. He got seventeen million kids just talking about people. He didn't mean kids. Black people not gonna tune in the Cavea. They're not gonna They're not gonna do that. That's not well. You gotta get all racist, nephew, I can get all ready. But I'm just saying I want my people to follow me, and they're not gonna follow me with no cavyalls. Coming up at thirty four after the hour, we're going to talk about the awkward moments. Why did you guys see this between President Trump and his predecessors at former President George H. W. Bush's state funeral Right after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Former President George W. Bush was brought to tears as he eulogized his late father, former President George H. W. Bush. George W. Delivered an incredibly emotional tribute to his dad, which ended with him getting emotional. Take a listen to this, a gentleman who executed the duties of his office with dignity and honor. So through our tears, let us know the blessings of knowing and loving you, A great and noble man, the best father, a son or daughter, hit a half and in her grief by a smile, knowing that Dad is hugging Robin and Holy Mom's hand again. Well, he made everybody cry. Yeah, I did too. I watched it. It was quite moving, quite moving. Yeah, And it was some, like you say, some awkward moments when President Trump, Yeah, when he came in and shook President Obama and the First Lady Michelle's hand, they were sitting right next to him because they were sitting in the front row. And Clinton. Yeah, and then President Clinton and Hillary Clinton were sitting next to them. Hillary was looking straight ahead as if she didn't even know President Trump was in the room. Steve Hillary Clinton. Yeah, and Bill Clinton looked over there, but he didn't extend his hand and Trump didn't either, and he just sat down and it was it was a pretty awkward moment. You know what we missed? What we missed A whisper look on camera. Yeah, that's that. Grit your teeth and talk, you know what I'm saying. That was that. Yeah, and the memes and social media went to town. Yeah, he didn't hands I don't really know. I don't really know. I don't gonna do the hand ship. And you didn't talked about me and everything. They were as though they were they were. Yeah, yeah, they really were. Yeah. The first lady, Michelle Obama shook President Trump saying, and you know she said recently she would never forgive after the birth of movement. Yeah, yeah, she said she would never forgive him. And then he and Hillary that was the first time they had seen each other, what since the election? Yeah, the same and they said yeah, yeah, yeah, it was something else, quite awkward. A lot of sanitizal and Jimmy Carter was only here hoping anybody said something to him, just anybody. He was holding strong. He did not say nothing to me. Jenny was playing and by the same token. Then when President George W. Bush walked in, he shook everybody's hands, gave Michelle Obama a piece of candy. That's their little thing, you know. He went in his pocket and handed her a pizza candy. Yeah, as he shook. Wait what I was If I was, I was a Barack Obama man, don't formal mister don don Trump said an see your ass outside. Yeah, we got grit your teeth. Now I know how to talk with my mouth hanging over outside, so you don't even know what I said. See, I can do that without my lips tip. It was some tense moment. Yeah, but all in all, such a classy funeral, such you know, filled with just grace and elegance and such kind words spoken about the former president. You know, how much of a gentleman and a fighter and a leader rock out of What is your ass here? Well he was invited, Steve, did you you know it's just a formality. You could have stayed yes, because they said George George H. W. Respected the office of the presidency. No nobody hit on like, no one. That's what y'all would have been whispering, what right? Then? You know, okay, No, I have to tell him that though, but see him outside though. Yeah, yeah, but we've all done that before. But I just tell him no. What hey man, I'm gonna just be real with you when this all over, get your head on the swivel, because I'm gonna run up on your ass like I'm gonna run up on your ass when this is all. But you know what, this happens a lot though. It's always somebody come to the funeral that ain't supposed beat it. And we've all told you we've been up next to it is a nephew with a prank phone call. Coming up right after this you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour, or right about four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letters subject the Minister wants more than my times. All right now, let him use you, Let him use I know that's right. But right now the nephew is here, the King of pranks is here with today's prank phone call. What you got now, give me my change, but a hunted Give me my change, but a hunt arrested. I'm talking to this stripple, That's what I'm talking. Yeah, but you're looking at me though, I'm right. You ain't the scripple. No, I'm not in this call what okay, give me my change when you're not angling? Now you know if you're stripping, ain't nobody get you know? Hunted? What? What? Right? Now? When I will? Not? Where I go? You just chick loser. Yeah. You don't make it rain, You make it drizzle. You make a shower sprinkle. If you give me some coins, I'm making hay let's run. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Regina. Please speaking Hello, yeah, speaking, This is Regina. Okay, hey, uh you did a bachelor party for me and my boys, like about two weeks ago. Okay, Sean, you remember Sean? Yes? Yes, okay, now listen when you you were doing a lot of lap dances at night. You remember that? Yes? So how did you get my number? How can I help? You? Need a party done? I mean, what do you need? Okay? Well no, no, it ain't nothing like that. I'm saying. You know, you just a lot of lap dances. Do you remember that? Yes? Okay, we'll listen. You know that I ain't I was at the party. You did some lap dancers for me? But okay, what I wanted to tell you was that the lap dancers you had did was the lap dancer was ten dollars? Am I right right? You will be correct, yes, okay, ten dollars. But I accidentally I thought I gave you a ten dollar bill when I really gave you one hundred dollars. Okay, you know I need actually what the reason why I called you was. I'm trying to I'm trying to get that, you know, I'm trying to get that ninety dollars back. Wait a minute, let me ask you something. First of all, how did you get my number? Well, the dude that um who is due? Who was due? That through the back? You know, the guy that looked y'all up as far as doing the bachelor Billy Billy, the ones that got y'all to to come and do the bachelorette party. Okay. What I'm trying to, you know, tell you is is that I got the number from him, Okay, okay, and he told me that I could call you and try to just talk to you about it. Okay, And you want me to give you See, I gave d dollars I had tipped you. I was I was really feel to pay you ten dollars, but it was one hundred dollars bill, So what the reason what I'm saying to you is that I want to get the other ninety dollars back. I'm not giving you no damn ninety dollars. Excuse me, I'm not giving you your damn ninety dollars. Old on, Wait a minute on, I don't even think you understand I wasn't trying to give you all that money at one time. I need to get that money back from you. I don't think you don't understand ten dollars. That's it. The other ninety that I was blown to be. I ain't get my change back from you. I might give you change back that nine dollars a dawn till I'm not giving me back. Do nobody be giving you no damn one hundred dollars at one Time's wrong with you? I'm not giving no damn ninety dollars. Then you should watch what you was doing, because you shouldn't gonna give me my night. I'm I have already told you I wasn't even trying to give you this money. I wouldn't I was trying to give you ten dollars. That's what I was trying to give you. I'm not giving you nothing back. You're not getting nothing. You should be. I don't want your wife and your kids. Hey, lady, listen, you don't even understand what what's going on right here? Let him You should have been asked. I wasn't trying to one of my money, trying to give you no money. This a misunderstand it. I mean I do. But now look, I'm already staying. I was giving ten, but now you get that belonged to me. I'm not giving you're calling me working me up. Come on, you're not as I'm not giving it your man. I wanna give you a tip, but I ain't getting you no ninety dollars tip. You did, you got no hiving you was ten dollars, ain't lady. Look, I'm not gonna sity and going to it. I go ahead with with you all this. Look, I want to get my night dollars back from you. No. First of all, if you call me lave with more time, I'm gonna come find you and kick y'all ticking a ball. I'm not giving a damn million dollars back. Thanks for the trip you shouldn't been on the first place. Like I said, keep them home. That's sign lay on the rail. I ain't trying to go back and forth with you. I was. I'm saying is it's been a mistake. I wasn't trying to give you no hundred dollars all right, that was a mistake. I just want my money back, and nobody tripping with you giving my money back. I'm not giving you a death thing back. I'm not giving you back. That's your problem. You didn't go home and tell your line what you did with the extra dollars. I'm gonna trying to get yall walk. I told you I want twenty dollars. FI sigmons, come signing, Come sign it in. If you haven't never back, come simars. If you know you you don't try to get yall ninety dollars. I want my money from you. What I want you? Why don't you said, don't you up from here? When you call my man? Let me no damn lenning dolls. I bet you that one. When are you gonna play me my ninety dollars? No damn ning does no ask me that? No, give you no let down? Thank you for the damn kill you. Ain't you you're gonna you're gonna give me. You're gonna give me my ninety? Don't you're gonna do that? You come in here for? Then we won't little change that? Please? You don't get you on my phone? Why I can't cut you? If you says, don't call me with it? I got one more thing I want to tell you. You listen to me. I can't listen to your one. Are you listening to me? I one more thing I need to say to you, little kiss Rock. I got one more thing I need to say to you. Are you listening to link? Kill? Don't call me with that day? Listen to you? I'm killing? Do what you got to say? Little kid Rock? I said, I got one more thing to say to you? Are you What do you got to say that? Which is it? Nephew Tommy from the Steve harp In Morning Show. You just gotta pranked by your girl friend? Who is this? Hello? Hello from me? That makes you get your I'm gonna cut you in your baby and I'm all right that'd be good. Wow? How is that? Now? You're doing? Junior? Doing you? Oh? I didn't even do my We came out with the question keeping stupid baby? Hi, now I do that? Hi? Ask somethingbody? Hu? Who put us up? Them? All? Great? Is the uncle, the greatest of all times? Let me push this day D Summer thirty first Houston, Texas Baby dal Hughley said the entertainer on Nance J and the one and only nephew Tommy. No, I ain't gonna saying no. Damn Steve harp I said, you don't get that. He had to get all the rest of them damn people off that show. I'm in the Steve slot. Now that's Houston, Texas. Hold hold hole, don't ever don't ever say how you're working with two kings. Now you're talking about you and that you UK. That ain't cholot. That's my slack. Okay, we gotta go, guys, man, did you finish? I finished? All right? Thank your nephew. Up next, it is today's Strawberry Letters subject the Minister wants more than my times. All right. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. Guys, and if you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex, on parenting, and more, please please Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry letter. We could be reading your letter just like we're gonna read this one right now. Never buck it up and hold on tight. We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letters subject the minister wants more than my todds. All right, Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a twenty nine year old single female and my dad is a well known pastor. I moved back home after college and I've been a big part of the church family since then. I help out with the youth ministry and I get along well with the youth minister. He is five years older than me and he's married. The youth minister and I always had great faith based talks and I looked up to him as a spiritual mentor until recently. Two weeks ago, after service, he was walking me to my carb and he said we need to talk about sex and salvation and I was like, say what. I reminded him that I was abstinate and did not want to talk about sex at all. He said he needed to confide in me because he is a natural born freak and he's ready to leave his wife because she can no longer satisfy his sexual needs. Then he said there is nothing wrong with having sex before marriage, that God created sex for men and women to use, not abuse. He told me that every man in the church talks about how I am a brick house and it's a shame that I won't let anyone show me how to use this gift to my advantage. He said, being sexually active is a natural thing if experienced with the right person. He said that he could show me all of this mess that he said goes against everything that I've been taught. I know I may sound slow, but could he be right? And I'm saving myself for nothing. I am somewhat attracted to him, and the thought of him teaching me about my body and sex is enticing. But he's married. What do you think is it worth the weight? Or should I go ahead and get a little experience from someone that's willing to help me? Wo? Wow? This guy is a minister. Uh well, he should know better. He really should know better. And he's a youth minister on top of that, so he's leading our youth. What he's doing is tempting you, and I got to ask you please don't take the bait. Don't listen to him talking about how he's a natural born freak who's ready to leave his wife because she can't satisfy him sexually. What does that have to do with youth ministry? And he's married on top of that. You know, this is why they say, and this is why you have to please know God for yourself, and don't let anyone tell you their version or their interpretation of the truth. You can read the Bible just like he can, and he can tell you these things, but you have to read and there what it says. If you're a Christian and you want to do what it says, you're in the church, so hopefully you know you would want to lead by example. I mean, you know, yeah, sex is natural and all of that stuff, but we also have a thing called self control. Now I'm speaking to you because you're in the church and you're around the youth and all the stuff. You know, and he should be leading the youth, not trying to mislead the youth with what he's talking about. He's trying to have sex with you and he's married. Okay, all of that's wrong. No, you should not let him give you this experience and all of that. He is wrong. He's got a wife at home. If I were you, I would tell my dad what he's doing and let him know that this youth minister is trying to lead you down the wrong path as well. Steve, Ah, I'm not going along with this total naive conversation. She never said she says she was abstinent, right, she never says she was a virgin. Yeah, she says she's abstinate. Yeah, So let's let's look at this a little bit different. Twenty nine female, Fine, come home working into daddy's church. Now youth ministers five years old, and you'll always had great faith based talks, you know, you always looked up to him as a spiritual mentor. Yeah, and then he was walking you to your car. Then he said the one thing that I don't know how he put in the same sentence, but he said, let's talk about sex and salvation. Let me immediately make a statement that it is filled with corruption, sex and salvation lost and found at the same time, glory is what we're talking about with sex and salvation. All right. You know that's like saying the booge man ain't really that scared let's talk about sex with a married man, and at the same time, let's sprinkle in some salvation. Preacher, I would venture to say, come on him now that this young man wants to bide it wants to a laid down in any kind of pass, not where the Lord lead him, but where he wants to go. Because how in the hell is we walk into the car and all of a sudden the subject of sex and salvation pop up on down. It didn't come out of nowhere. She had been devising this, planning it, nurturing the moment. Land in wait and Bush walked you to the car. He said he needed to confide in you because he is quote unquote a natural bone freak. Yes, that's from the NBL Foundation. What's that? What's that mean? Right now? There is the natural born freaks of a male. I mean now he's ready to leave his wife because she can no longer satisfy his sexual need. Anybody ever wanted she might not be satisfied. You know, sometimes we want to say that they can't satisfy us no more, when it's actually us that can't satisfy them. No, we come back. We're gonna get into this thing way deeper than you gonna want us to get in there again? All right? Part two coming up a SE's response right after this at eight twenty three. You're listening to show, all right, does Steve Let's recap today's Strawberry letters subject the minister wants more than my time? Yes he does, he won't, huh. He walked up to her car and in the same sentence, he said, he wanted to discuss six in salvation. Yes, let's talk about it. I want to talk about freedom and sleeve. What you know, since we're talking about stuff that don't go together, you want to talk about six and salvation? Right? Will Ain't that about nothing? Let's you and I into this. He told me that he needed my attention because his wife could no longer satisfy him sexuality. What was that? Sexual wilder? Wild sexual wilder because he is a natural bone freak, a member to the NBA, and he's ready to leave his wife because she can no longer satisfy symphony. Then he went on to say, listen to this lie. There's nothing wrong with having sex before marry. Now you know that ain't technically right. You know that, mister minister. And for you to miss guide this woman is really you're going to heal faster than you need to. No bout right now, and said that oh, ain't nothing wrong with having sex forul marriage, that God created sex for men and women to use, not abused. He also said when you marry to cleave only unto her and to leave all others. But you hadn't still he help in your face, leave it. He told me that every man in the church talks about how I am a brick house and it's a shame that I won't let anyone show me how to use this gift to my advance. Well right now, He said that being sexually active as a natural thing, it just come out natural. Sometimes you're just sitting there all of a sudden something natural. Help. You're just sitting there just feeling all natural. Next thing, you know, naturally is everywhere natural. Now you looking at it, now you naturally slowly? Now you drooling. Now you're saying stuff all is natural. He said that he could show me all of this mess that he said goes against everything that I've been taught. It go gets what he's been taught. I know I may sound slow, but could he be right? And am I saving myself for nothing. I am somewhat attracted to him, and thought of him teaching me about my body and sex is entyson, But he's married. What do you think Is it worth the weight? Or should I go ahead and get a little experienced from someone that's willing to help? Girl? First of all, letting me help you understand you don't need no help. Come pastor uh, I'll say that again. You don't need no help. Just continue being the fine young woman that you are and know that real help is on the way. See God gonna send you what you need. He's not gonna let you live without it. So hold on, stay away from this married man. That's a dangerous trap. He's not leaving his wife. He's lying about that. He may be a natural bone freak, but you don't need to find out how freaky he is. He would put you in a no win situation, young lady. There's nothing to gain from it from you at all. It's all a win win from him. Tell him to kiss your behind, Tell him to take your behind, put it in the box, kiss it and don't miss a cooner. Tell him that hell is awaiting him. Tell the past, Tell your daddy the past. That's what I said. Tell your daddy. That's really all I have to say about this. Well, thank you, pastor. Do we want her to send a picture? Though the times till two thousand and three at y'allhood that comes? We just see this brick house? Do you get any pictures in there? You've been pushing any pictures? Make it? Boy? Do I tell them on what it gets loaded? I need to know because I'll give you the cold because I can't use it no more. I give you the code. You realize you're married, stupid? Last thing I'm am stupid? No that last statement. No, No, that's not the last thing you are. Thank you uncle. You're gonna stop saying last thing I am in stupid? That's the very first thing. Well that was a good answer. Step Yeah, you know, that's all I need. She's looking like that lady you got to be Yeah, she's twenty nine. Come on, that walked to the car with something. Yeah, I need to let it come about your mouth, have the path and to bring you down. Speak about sex and salvation? What alright? Like you said, say that, let's talk about freedom and slavery. You know, come on, they don't go together. Sex and salvation. She's said the let go against everything she's been taught. That's because it is yeah, cat food the dog Poodle's talk about that, talk about the Yeah. All right, you can email us or instagram us your thoughts on the Strawberry letter for today, it's Steve Harvey f M. Now coming up in ten minutes from the talk. It is our girl, Cheryl Underwood. She will be right here. Don't go anywhere you're listening, all right, coming up at the top of the hour, it is Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce our girl from the top ladies and Shelly Underwood. Alright, put two wise on the state harvest. That's right. I put an s on it too. Listen. Did y'all see the funeral? We did? Yes, we did. Yeah, I ain't seen I am hat. This ain't no real funeral. I ain't seen at. I ain't seen glue. No, that's a real funeral. That now they had would they had a black preacher um, They had a good quat. It was good. It was good. It was very loving. I thought. I thought Henry Clinton kept it real. Yes she did. She list this ain't your pugh get this step in I'm like, yeah, right in the church. I like the fact that the Obama's was like, in the name of Jesus, covering me Lord, they were about to said the Carters trying to act like they didn't know what was going on. They were like, oh, what time is it. They was like, I wonder who made the potatoes out of the report. They was like the Trumps was trying to act like this day, this day home church, and it was like that's right, that's you know, yeah, And then what can I just tell you something? A Bush forty three, it's really growing into a great uh previous president or whatever. He's really fun And I just loved them. Yeah. I don't care if they think it's a breath man, I say, it's a peppermint. That's the only thing you passed, either peppermint or butterscotch. That's the only thing you passed in church for somebody to snack on when you're doing it in church. So I'm just glass, tom Ay, you better speak up for the butterscotch, especially if you gonna eat breakfast and your summer growling. You're waiting for them communion crackers to come around in that wine light. Had I congratulation Adie murfred I had the tenth baby. Yeah, yeah, congratulate hey, I yes. Interview mayl B on his children, and she spoke really, really highly of Eddie Murha. She said, that's the one you love. That's yeah, that I want you, that's I want you love. That's beautiful. I want Eddie Murphy to make some own music, you know, because I like if I was a king and party all the time. Was a girl part all that time. But that was a cut junior. That was that was a cup right there. While we're talking about comic Stephen, do you better stop at Steve Harving. He almost made me drop my microphone. Stop playing Steve. Why are we talking about comedians? Congratulations with Kevin Hart Awards. Yeah, yeah, it's big, but he somebody as tall as the statue itself. It's going to host. That's gonna be fabulous. Kevin is gonna do it for not new job. But we always happy to see black people do anything, you know that they normally don't be wanting us to do. I host the Daytime Emmy twice with Mario Lopez. I'm just happy that Kevin Hard is doing something. He gonna kill the game. And we gotta make sure we watch it, and everybody with a Nielsen box gott to watch it so that this number one with a bullet, number one. We gotta make it happen for him. We can do that. We can do that. All said it Cardon beat On broke up already. Yeah, so they went half on the baby and now they didn't broke up. What happened? I don't understand. I mean their rumors said he was cheating, you know, yeah, text trying to get him another you know, well, what's wrong with that? What's wrong with you? That's what listening without without his wife though without let me tell you something. Listen to me, Carlins and Sherlas. Yeah, I'm a man and he and he wanted to bring another man to the bed with us. That's a three. That's a good day right there. It's usually never another man, never what that's only three something I know about or me and agislm. But three times that's what what? Man alive? Yeah? It three times? Yeah, breth as much I just fall out. That that's make my stomach go down. Praise anything, man. What I should be able to do? I should be able to do that. I should be able to do. What was y'all talking about? What y'all talking about befo my hands? What was i'll talking about? What I missed? Everything that you just talked, just said, we talked about last ya everything? Yeah, yeah, yeah, And y'all ready for them, y'all ready for Mary Christmas, y'all ready Yeah. Yeah, we're in the spirit, that's for sure. Definitely absolutely as praise the Lord. That's Jesus birthday. I mean, we know August, but you know, you know what, we celebrate it though. That's right, we celebrate all year around Charlotte Scribberry and you know really unknown fact, you know it's really August. Listen, well you read the vibele. You know I think the Lord was a virgo, you know, for real, for real though, you know what I'm saying. And let me tell something al but listen to me. Black people don't believe in Christmas until you hear temptations Solid night and Donny Hathaway. This Christmas, it's not it's not criminals, and Christmas just ain't Christmas without the one you listen, New Year, just the new year, the reason you look you love. Go ahead, Steve Harvard, that's right, that's right. I was singing that song, and then Edie le Hurt came up to me and said, look at man, you can't be singing lead. I haven't asked you what I have asked you nicely listening, and then I messed it up. Then the messed it up where you can't even sing babies cold outside, they'll make no sense. Rudolph got bullet that that wasn't even what it was about. But the ain't nobody mad that? Then the Charlotte Brown thanksgiving Franklin, the only black person, Charlotte Brown, what's sitting by himself in a l on the other side of I don't know about to care about that, little Franklin, little black boy we got. We're not margin for Franklin, though, Oh you were gonna march for Franklin. Thank you, Cheryl, We love you as always. Happy Holidays to your girl, Marry Christmas. Thank you, Marry Christmas to you. Coming up at the top of the hour, Carla is here with Carla's Reality updates. Right after this. You're listening, all right, let's go, nephew, Let's get it. Let's get it. She is here Colin Farrell with reality date. Okay, thank you, nephew. Here we go, everybody, Real Housewives of Atlanta. So I remember last week when I told you about Shamari Devot that's married to Ronnie Devote from new edition BBD. Well, you know his wife is on the show. And last week she talked about the open marriage and that her and Ronnie had an open relationship. Well, she told Ronnie about it, and he was like, you and he got to tell everything. That's right, right, he got to tell it all. And she was like, she's not ashamed of who she was, and she didn't mind, you know, letting the women in the group know and the audience know what happened in their marriage and that they're cool now. And so that was that. So it's like, Okay, Ronnie Davout, welcome to reality TV. Yeah, he's out there now. It's out there now. And moving on. Kendy Burrus, we heard from her friend Carmen. So Carmen and them were kind of gossiping about Porsche's new man, Dennis, and they're saying that he broke up with his ex once he got with Porsche and that he has his ex name tattooed all his body, and Candy and them were just trying to you know, insinuate you know, the streets are talking about Porsche's man. So anyway, Candy told Nannie and Cynthia, because you know, Candy and Porsche were you know, really beefing, you know, a couple of seasons back and even last season, they weren't really talking to each other. But Nini told Porsche about the rumor about what Candy was saying. So Porsche made it perfectly clear that she does not care. She does not care that her man had tattoos and all that was before her, and she says she's probably looking at that woman's name on his body every day because he has so many tattoos. And plus, Porsche's point is Candy don't want nobody talking about Todd, so she kind of wants you know, all that style. Yeah, which is you agree Steve about Yeah, thank you, yes, all right? And then finally, let me just say, this guy's not so much good news for Greg Leeks Nini's Yeah. On this particular episode, he received news from Indie Anderson Hospital that is in Houston, one of the best cancer hospitals in the in the world, and he was getting care there, and the doctors called and said that they still test show that there are some cancer cells in Greg's body and the doctors are recommending cheal therapy. And previously Greg had decided that he wasn't going to do chemo therapy. He wasn't going to take it in his earlier stages in his battle against colon cancer. So, uh, you know, still praying for Greg and uh you know, prayer of healing you know. And Needy is right there. She got him a chef and trying to change his diet and nutrition and trying to get him to eat healthy on the show. So we got a chance to see that. So praying for Greg. So is he going to change his mind you think and and do the chemo now another is he gonna do it? I don't know. Yeah, on the show, they really haven't said it. You know, he talked about his faith on the show, and then he was upset his faith. You know, he's questioning now what's going on because once he received that phone call, you know, so he is still battling cancer. So we'll see. Wow, we're gonna pray for him. Because people were sitting talking when he made that statement, Carla, people were, yeah, saying that he should have gone gone ahead and accepted the chemo. It was chemos therapy. Yeah, that's a very big and personal decision, you know. And and a lot of people say, you know, I've lost my mom to cancer and I saw her go through a chemotherapy and radiation all that. And people say, you know, if the disease doesn't kill you, the treatment will. So you know, you have to respect him wanting to do other options then going to chemotherapy. So yeah, you know, prayers are going out for Greg Leaks. Yeah, and switching gears here, let's switch gears. Let's talk about a show. It's a dating show. It comes on the Own network on Saturday nights. It's called Ready to Love. He talks about Nephew Tommy, our very young one. I didn't I didn't know I was an og. They called you on the show. Yeah, I did not know I was gonna hold you. I took it a fisi at first, like true Tommy. When we talked about this earlier in the week, Tommy and for those that missed it, Nephew Tommy. He talked to some of the male contestants on this show, the new dating show that he is the host of. It's called Ready to love, and he talked about Tommy had a moment where he talked about you, talked about your dad and being a good husband. So if you missed it earlier in the week, I want to play it for you again. Take a listen. I know there's been times out of your marriage, your relationship that you came to a point where it's like, with damn, can I deal with it? You know what I can tell you on that is I had a father that never left my mom, never did nothing negative to my mom. My daddy left here three years ago, was with mom, mom to the end, to the end. So that's all I know. I ain't going nowhere. I'm to the end because I grew up like that. I grew up with a father in my house who was real and I didn't know nothing about leaving or going nowhere else. We had hard times, we had issues, bills, this and that, so I don't know nothing else. I said, I'm forever. Wow, that was real, right, that real, genuine moment. That's what you were saying. Still don't believe it's him that I really, I really don't. I'm sorry him talking. Ye. No, I don't know how they do that. I promise you. That's not I saw him saying it. I don't care what you did it. That's will talking, will pass. We're proud of you, Ready to love. I'm not proud, Yes you are. That's him, Steve. All need to look at this thing close. I've seen it a couple of times. It's him. I'm forever. Oh he acting, Come on, junior him. I just like what he said in life. You know, hit me up on lips By Carlo, were running out of town with reality Update. We could talk about Real Housewives of Atlanta. Ready to Love Kardashians. I got it all for you at lips By Carla. Will be back at twenty after you're listening. Okay, Steve. You know, there was a time when cheating was defined as either you were sleeping with someone else, or you won't or you weren't. That it was just that simple, right, Well, then things got extended with subcategories like flirting, like kissing, like texting, like porn, and whatever else can be described. But listen, whatever else can be described as vying for the affections or attention of someone other than the one you're you're committed to. Okay, Well, now there's a new one. Guys. It's called financial cheating. Okay, financial cheating down for me. I think I might be guilty of this. I've never even heard of this, but I just the words. Okay. Psychologists define it as any purposeful financial deceit oh, between two or more individuals who've got a stated or unstated belief in mutual honest communications around financial matters. So here's some things to look out for if you if you suspect your spouse or your mate of financial infidelity pretending a new purchase is an old one. Jack, See right there, I knew, I knew this was Oh yeah, it's just when this is me, this is us right, Saying you bought something on sale, oh when it was really full price? Done? Is financial cheating? Oh my god, this should have been number one. Hiding purchases and hiding receipts. Oh oh, fellas y'all go through that jacket. Jacket. My wife don't do that. She just put the stuff in the closet. I can't tell wasn't Yeah, yeah, okay, and I show ain't looking for no receipt So I missed that one. Yeah, you put in the trunk first, and you know then when the coast. Yeah, the coast, then you move it to the closet. Okay, here's some other things when you know someone is financially cheating on you. Hiding credit card statements. Oh I wish I could talk right now without why y'all saying? Because I want to say something I can't. That's why I'm saying. Uh, having a secret credit card, you know what, I tried to hold it. I hope she listens. I hope she listen. Oh you did it, Oh, you you did that. Oh. Here's another one. Having a secret stash of money. That's how you know you're financially cheating on your part. Here's another one, Steve keeping a raise or a bonus secret, not telling your spouse about that. See if you like to go to Vegas gambling money away in secret or winning. Told her that I had won these jackpots, and she go on the side of the bed and get all these tickets. I'm gonna cash he's in. Ain't no need of you giving them back what she took your tickets? You getting ready do what? I'm gonna cash these tickets in some of these some of these are she thought they token the token these chips you're talking about chips. Oh ship, how much we're turning this in, Steve, you got a lot of money right here. We ain't got to go back and lose all this. Hey, listen to me. Listen to me, me, and you come to Vegas for two different reasons. You messing you're not touching the main reason. I'm out. All right, we'll be bad. You put them damn chips down with more, step away from them, step waiting about your ticket with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening Stry Morning Show. All right. Before we left to go on break, we were talking about financially cheating on our partners. Uh, this is a new form of cheating. When you're financially um cheating on them, you know you. So cheating has been extended. Yeah, yeah, there's not just sleeping with someone anymore. Financially yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, I got I'm listening to this second. All right. Here's here's one. Here's the number one one. I think if you're financially cheating on your wife or your spouse or whoever, taking money out of savings without telling your partners, that's big, right there. I don't do that. Yeah, but that's big. I think this is really a serious one right here. Have you No, I haven't we we you know, played around with the other ones. I mean sure, I've hid some shoes and dresses and stuff like that in my close of course. Of course I don't know any woman who hasn't done that. Uh, you know, pretending someone something I have on that's new is old. Oh this whole thing. Oh I've been had this. Yeah, yeah, yeah, just got pay attention to me. Yeah. I did not just sit down in the closet with price to but this taking money out of saving Steve without telling your partner. You can't do that. But our savings is connected to two signals. We can never touch our savings without the signature of the other person. How much? How much? In the man probably like how be quiet, like it's calling you. You don't want to listen to here? How much it's like it's over, it's so, it's so five times. Oh we know that. Put that out there. It's over five gave this. So you're saying, so, you know how sometimes your savings account, you have your checking account, and if you want to move some money to your checking account. You're saying that neither one of you guys can move it without the other one's permission, Like you just can't sign and move it on the savings on the state savings account. You gotta have an accountability account between people. Okay, this is what I was gonna ask Steve. None of them in line with that, because I always think this. I love how you break this down. When you say you should have four different pounds if you're married, break that down because I mean, you've talked about it, but to keep the marriage happy, if both of you are working, or one of you is working, whatever the case, you bring that money together and you put it together in the joint bill pay account, and you pay all of your bills out of that house, car, gas, electric, everything that takes to run a house, you know, lunch money, you know. Then each one of you have an individual account where you get an allowance and she gets an allowance, or she gets an allowance and you get an allowance. That money is yours to spend until the next paycheck, and neither one of you can save what the other one spends their money on. And then you need to fourth account, a joint savings account where whatever you all agree is to save you put it in the savings account. That requires two signatures to move. So you can deposit money all you want one person, but you can't take it out without signature of both people. That will help you save. Oh, I got a question, I say, Hey, I can't answer. God, I just want to know what you do when somebody has opened up or create a car that you didn't know nothing about. Wait, hold on, hold on, we can come back here. Yeah, we have one that American Express. We have one more break before we get to closer. Okay, quiet, all right, we have one more break. That's our last break of the day. And Tommy has a question for his uncle when we come back. Right after this. You're listening to show here we are last break of the day. We were talking got into some pretty deep financial stuff, Steve. You were telling us some you know about the four bank accounts that the married couple should have. Yeah, that that keeps a lot of peace in your house. It really does. I found that to be true. You have a joint account, whether one of you or two of you work, you cold mingle the money, or you put it all in there. You pay all your bills, then you determine what each one each other as allowance is she gets her money, he gets his money, and they have an account. Neither one of those can check on what the other one is spending out of that account. That's their business. And then you need to join account where you all put your savings in. But in order to move it, you could deposit, but you in order to move it it takes two cents. Let's go back there. Let's you ran over something too fast? But what is your allowance? But what is y'all allowance? That's look like you know it ain't that. I don't even know why something has to have to allow you. That's your money. But what is your allowance? Though? Go ahead? What is that? Charlie? They allow the hunt a month? Are timing up? Down hundred dollars? Shit? Anyway back to what you wait? No, no, no, no, no, your allowance is a hundred kate, No, Tommy, just go you Holly, No, he said, no, go back to what you were saying, Steve, we'll do with your nephew. So you were saying about yeah, go ahead, go ahead about them about the four bank accounts? Very interesting, Yeah, it just does it just holds it down. A guy talked that to me. Years ago, and it really helped because it goes down confusion and financial infidelity, and it allows each one of you to have some form of individuality while you're married. Yeah, look, you want to pay your household bills together, but just getting married and then your bills, then my bills. That's a hard way to work. It would be smooth if everybody put all the bills in one pile and put both moneys in one pile, and then pay those bills together and then gave each other an allowance and then save whatever you was gonna say it would you? It would cut down a lot of arguments. Yes, it would financial art this for my friend, my friend, Yeah, I know somebody, my friend he fouled out that his wife had a credit card that he didn't know nothing about. And when he found out, he was furious. What would you advice would you give my friend? Well, let me ask you something. The card that was gotten without your friend's knowledge. Did it throw the family into something? No? Or did it just throw him in and threw him into a lot because why because he didn't know it? She makes decisions right, Yes, But isn't that financially cheated like we're talking about earlier. Ain't that fact. I don't know if it's cheating. H When did you make the rule that she got to come to you for every single dollar? No? No, no, my friend, no plea, don't do that, my friend. Now I'm not saying he your friend. He my friend that he decided that he would make the rule, right, He don't. He don't, he don't. He's not making no rules about no money like that. But what it is is he found out about without her telling him, you know, and then when I mean, then when he found out, you know, it was it was just it was it was bad really for a week. And so when he found out how did he found out? He found out because he told me he found out when he was on the phone checking on his credit card. The man on the phone told him, well, we got an issue with this other card right now. And then he said, what other damn card? And then that's when he found out that there was another card that existed. And when when when he found that out was it's it's confused. It's just immense Steve and the friends in air quotes right, all quotes, The all bills have been paid. He paid the bill. Yeah, I mean my friend paid all how much? How much did your friend when girl run up only by ten M? What she buy? That's what the hell my friend? Excuse me? I want to know? Yeah, yeah, right, he doesn't see anything around. Oh, you ain't seen nothing new in the house. He ain't seen nothing new. He is an air quote because we're masters at that, all that going to DC and working, all that, going to Colombia and telling joke at Yeah. Well, well, Steve, what if for Tommy's friend? Well, I like when people spending money before they get it before what I like when people spending money before they get it? That's always excited. I used to do that that keep your ass on it for show. Those days are over. Yea, So tell me you have anything you're gonna take back to your friend. What are you gonna tell him based on what your uncle? The advice your uncle is giving you. Well, he didn't really get no advice. He didn't say don't say nothing about it. He would just ask me how much this mount was? He? But he really say what the friend should say to his wife? Well, I mean it's really too late. Don't you think you could say something? But how you think? How are you gonna keep it from turning into an argument. Don't she take the stuff back? I'm not going what woman do that? And every man won't help if I take it back. Your best to believe I'm getting something. It don't fit if I go back, that's what. Yeah, yeah, we're not returning. For Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.