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Something funny my father taught me. He said, so when you've done all you can do, if you've done your absolute best and you look up and it didn't get the job done, take a deep breath and do some more. That used to bug me, man, when my father used to tell me, that's the son. When you've done your absolute best and you think you can't do no more. You've done all you can and it still don't get the job done. Take yourself a deep breath.

And some more.

And you know what I found that has worked every single time, every single time, because what my father knew was that what you think is your breaking point or what you think is your all in all, he says, son, it's just something about it. Man, if you just gather yourself, you got a little bit more. Everybody got some more. And I you know, I gotta be honest with you. It has worked. It has helped me greatly, and you know it, everybody does have some more.

You know.

I tell that to my sons all the time. Dad, I did my best. Well, let mess you something else. Could you have done anything else? Could you have studied a little harder, Could you have shown up a little bit earlier, Could you stayed a little bit later? Yeah, well then okay, that's what you should have done. Then see, there's always a way. But if you're going to create excuses, if you're gonna make them up all the time about why you don't get it done, I have a very, very sad a statement for you right now. You're never gonna get anything done. You're never gonna get to the top.

Not to the top.

You can get halfway up. Now, you can get a third of the whey up. You can get three quarters of the whey up. But if you don't have that little extra reserve in you, you're not getting to the top. The top is only reserved for those that have the wherewithal and the power to desire, the drive and the gut riching effort to get to the top.

The top is reserved only for the top. It's just the top. There ain't but one top. Then the middle done, ain't it?

You know?

The top, the top of the mountain half. It's a different view at the top. Things look different from up top. So if you want to get to the top of whatever your profession, your field, your career, whatever it is, you got to do extra.

You have to do more.

More is expected of you. More, but his what's really crazy, More is required of you. Don't live your life in a laxadaisical state.

Don't wake up.

Every day with the feeling of, well, you know, whatever happens happens. No man have a say so in your life.

You.

First of all, let me ask you something. Who has God named the person that God has given authority over you? Name the person? But who is the person? Nobody has domain over you? God didn't create that person. So what you sitting here for?

Man?

What are you sitting here for letting people who do not know direct your path? Why are you worried about all these people with what they got to say about you and all these people with what they got to think about you? When here's the news flash, they don't know either. All these people that you overly concerned about, all these people that you go into these answers for, they need answers to.

Stop. What are you doing here? Gather yourself for a minute. Here is a solution to all of that.

You have one source that will be there for you to the end of time, and that is your relationship with God. That is the one thing that's solid and for show. He's behind the wall. He's in your jail cell. He rides with you in the police car. He's with you on your job up at the school. He's down there in the board meetings with you, go with you when you travel on planes.

He says with you. When you're in a relationship. He helps you with your parenting skills.

He helps you. He's there to assist you. He show if you do the right things, he show you and guide you to your next job. When you lose your job and you think it's a rap. There's some good behind him. Man, God is always working on your behalf. To those that believe you, just gotta believe. He don't ask you for nothing else. Believe in me.

That's all He asks you to do. What you're tripping for.

Man.

And then when you make the decision to believe in him, and it comes out your mouth from time to time somewhere what you're worried about, what people say, what you're worried about, what they think for?

Why who are they?

They need God to you telling them you found something new that you're gonna give this a shot right here now. They got some yang yin yang and some yak ofty yakh to say about that when they need God too. That's what amazes me, man, about people sit up in here, man, be knocking your dreamings to look. If you're an atheist, man, do your thing, do your thing. But you can't create no laws? Why I can't do mine? That don't make no sense, Man, That makes no sense at all to me. You have the right to go be whatever you want to be. You know, if you don't you don't like the fact that I'm in school, got my head bowed down, and I'm saying a prayer for I take this test.

Just don't buy your head.

Don't you pray. But if some kids want to get together, that's some crazy mess. That's what happened in our schools. We took prayer out of schools, and now look at our schools. You send your child to school and someone else comes back home. That's a whole nother thing right here. That's not what I want to talk to you about. But I was just throwing it out because you know, hey, man, your relationship with God is essential to your success as a person. It's essential to your existence. It's essential to where you're trying to go and what you're trying to be. Because He made you. Why would you not talk to the person that made you to find out what he created you for. I ain't talking about your parents, who made your parents. This is God, we created in his image. Why would you not talk to your maker to see why you got made? That don't make sense to you. If you're sitting and gotten yourself in a situation, you sitting in the jail cell somewhere, you locked up, you doing some time, man, be a good time for you to reflect. But whatever your situation is, Man, God can get you through it. He can give you the strength, the courage to wherewith all the understanding everything you need, the wisdom to get you through anything you're going through. You just got a touch base with him. I need God every single day of my life. And what He's done for me man off the chain. But guess what He'll do the same.

Thing for you.

You're listening to the seed shall ladies and gentlemen, you know what. It's another day, another opportunity, another blessing, another gift from God. I don't know how you're looking at it, but I'm just just a suggestion just to look at it this way. I know you may be involved in something that's a little bit challenging. I understand that you may be facing something today you really don't feel like it. But guess what He created you just for this moment, this moment, right here, this day was marked on the calendar for us to face anything that's adversarial to you. He gonna work you through it, just like He's worked you through everything else. Keep the faith. Talk to God. He loved to hear from you. It's gonna be a great one. Today, Steve Harvey, Marty Show, Shirley Strawberry, Mississippi, Monica, Junior and the Legend that is Nephew Tommy Well Jr.

What's on your mind? Can I just oh, can I ask you somemer? Okay? Well, I mean I need I need you to be honest with me. Oh, I ain't what I'm not okay. Uh, these wives we have and stuff like that.

No, no, no, no, your wife don't don't no, no, see, don't ever do that, Junior, don't do what these wives we have. No, no, just go with yours because I don't need no fire starting at my house that ain't already on fire.

So go ahead. Okay, it's from y'all, Just asking y'all.

Do I tell them the days I have off because they take them and they fill them up with their stuff.

Yes, yes they do. Okay, Yes, why y'all didn't tell me? Don't tell them nothing I.

Told me and Tommy told you long time ago. You can't tell your wife everything.

We told that to you. I said on the show. You just can't tell them everything. Junior. Line line line line. I don'g So you told her you got an off day? Come and win.

I told her, I'll be off next next next weekend, right because I'm not doing a stay show next weekend. I got something I need to go do. And she said, well, why are you doing that? Go down to Target now? You know we can't go down there right now, I got to go down here and risk my life for shopping at talk. Hey, we're supposed to be brought where can we shop at?

Now?

No, we can't go down there to shut the d I programmed down. But everybody, you ain't gonna be able to get on no app plane. You're gonna be able to do nothing. They it's a it's a that president that over five million more people voted for the one they wanted. Yeah, he shut that down. It's part of Project twenty five. It's a mandate from the president to close down the d e I. So we can't walmart. D I gonna be gone all d I.

It's talk about it more today as well. We're gonna talk about.

It as it is. He said, it was what where am I surprised?

People are surprised. I almost choked. People are surprised, Steve, They really are? They really told y'all.

Yeah, man, what did doctor Phield say? In Madison Square. God, this country was not built on d I they knew it did.

People don't believe. Now they believe. Now they're starting to believe. Okay, all right, Junior.

You opened it wide open today or busted it wide open today? The show coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll run that bring Back with the Nephew right after this.

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Why this is Shirley Strawberry And I don't know if you know this, but I love my job. I love working with Steve and Tommy and Junior and Carla and Monica and Dave. Of course I love all those guys. We have a great time at work every day. Well, if you're a business owner and you want to hire experienced employees who love what they do too, where do you find them? Could be a question you had. Well, Zip recruiter is the answer. Zip recruiters technology shows your job to qualified candidates immediately, and ZipRecruiter smart technology finds top talent fast. Go to zip recruiter dot com slash strawberry to try it for free. That ZipRecruiter dot com slash strawberry. It is time nowt for the nephew to run that prank back what you got for us, neph Shirley.

We are going down to the church, and this right here is weed in the church van. Weed in the church van. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, let's go get dom if you would weed in the church bank.

Hello, I'm trying to read there.

Hello, hello them, couldn't see you.

I've read brother dare brother Dad? Oh listen, okay, yeah, this brother Scott from the church from about the Baptist Oh. Hello, yeah, I'll call you. I'm trying to get a little information about the church band. What's what's your schedule? Uh?

Uh?

Will you drive the church?

Ran?

What's what's your schedule? Uh?

I drive Wednesday, Fridays and Sundays.

Okay, Wednesday, Friday, this Sunday, now Sunday. What what is that schedule?

Oh, Sunday.

I usually start about eight o'clock in the morning, probably a little earlier, depending.

On some of the elderly people that I have to go pick up and bring to the church.

Make sure they get there okay, and get situated and make sure they're on time for the service and whatnot.

Okay, and then you take them back home after service. Is over.

Yes, I try to get all of them back home unless they got family members of something that come up there and leat them up there and want to take them to dinner the sun afterwards. But I usually get everybody back home.

Okay, Okay, Now this class Sunday, which is part of the reason why I'm calling you. Uh. They saying that some of the church uh members that was on the band this Sunday.

Uh.

They are complaining, saying that that the church vand was smelling like weed when they got on that Excuse me, they say the church van was smelling like weed when they got on there. And you are the person that was driving them.

Oh no, no, no, no, no no no, not not not the vand that that I'm driving.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't smoke weed in no vand.

Uh do you smoke weed?

No, I don't smoke weed. I mean not currently. I mean I have before, but I don't smoke weed now. And I would smoke weed before picking some people up to because no thirst. Now where are you carry from? Who told you this?

Well? All I know is what what was come down the pipeline. And they saying that that a couple of the members came complain see see now.

See this just happened last week about this pipeline. I want to know who the pipeline is because just last week they came in me talking about that I was using the vand to go places that I wanted to go to on my personal time.

Now I don't do that.

I don't do stuff like that.

Now.

I have had a past, I had a history, but I don't do stuff like that, and I wouldn't smoking.

No church fan, So are you seriously talking to what?

What? What? What? We're trying to We're trying to get to the bottom of it and see what's going on with you.

Elderly person said, do you know which one?

I don't know?

They love me Every Sunday then people tell me they love me. They say I'm one of the most respectful young gentlemen they've ever met in their life.

And so I really find it hard.

To believe that you you getting these type of complaints about me.

Okay, one of them saying like who we I don't know what that means.

Or nothing like that.

Look, brother, I don't know you too.

Well, and I know you don't know me, but I've been driving this van as as as a point to try to change my life and where I come from. So this was was something that I wanted to volunteer even though I'm getting paid to give my time to do this for the church. And now this is like the second instance where y'all and came at me on some stuff about like I'm trying to do something with this Vand now why would I disrespect the church van by smoking weed in it and then letting the weeds stay in there so other people could sell it?

Okay, so let me tell you what we're gonna do. We're gonna go out here to the church van to say we're gonna go out here today and open it up. Now, if we see any seed to anything around the driver or seat, then then then we're gonna We're gonna definitely uhna open the van up.

But I was raised in that church, man, My mama go to that church, my grandma see go to that church.

See the reason we even all left that church.

And you think I'm gonna mess up the by driving a ride in the van full of elderly people.

I don't know why they smell like weed, man, Now I don't I don't got the answers to these questions.

I'm just trying to.

Tell you that it wasn't me.

Did you have some weed in your pocket and maybe it with just smell it.

I ain't had no weed on me.

Stop trying to say like I had weed on me and you ain't gonna give me nothing. No, and we ain't had no weed on me. Okay, Now you ain't gonna mess up my name or my family's name in this church and disrespect us like this. Now, We've been helping this church for years, and I'm trying to tell you that I ain't riding around in no band, smoking no weed with no elderly people.

Did you ask any of.

The elderly people if they had any weed on them?

No? No, No, I didn't think about no eldly people having no weed.

So you just assume it's me what one of them got got home or something?

What?

What? What you know? What?

You know?

Who?

I think?

What?

Did you know? Who I think the weed belonged to? Ooh ooh, I think I think the weed belonged to nephew. Tell me from the Steve Harvey this man, damn you just got pray. Oh my god, you just got pray. What is this name? His name is brother, brother Lawrence, Lawrence.

Laws Oh my.

Larry called Larry, but Lauren, Man, I know Larry, Larry here in trouble with me.

I gonna hit him with the man.

Man, I got one more thing that I got one more thing to ask you. Man, what is the saddest and I mean the baddest radio.

Show in the land?

Man, Steve Harvey, Morning shown, man going on rest, man going on the chill out the rest of the day.

I'm try, man, I know I ain't gonna smoke Louise.

And man, you you have it ignorance at its best. Yeah, on this grade getting up tuesdaymanding that right, there was weed in the church band.

When we return in an hour, I'll have another.

Prank, same makeing the same stupid, same Timmy nothing on it.

You can bet on that. All right? All right, All minds clear.

Thank you guys. Coming up next it is as the clo or Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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All right, coming up at the top of the hour, we said we would talk about it. Target is phasing out its DEI programs and this has a lot of people upset. A lot of consumers and black owned companies that have products in the store. Will also talk about what Trump's most recent executive orders mean for Black Americans. Ahead of Don't Forget Next month is what Black History Month?

We'll talk about all that. It's black Trump on the top of the hour.

Right after this coming up now it is as the clo all right, h Colo. This is from April and Newark, who writes, I'm seeing a guy that is fifteen years older than me, and I love everything about him except for sex. He tries to buy me nice things just so he can tell me that I owe him. I want the nice things with no strings attached. Why is he so focused on the sex?

Why don't understand the question.

You're saying, he buys you stuff to tell you that you owe him all right, now, is he saying the stuff that you owe him is the sex?

Is that what she's saying.

That's what she's saying that.

Maybe listen to me. He just pointing it out. That's what it's all for.

Wait what.

That's that's that's what it's all of this for. That and nobody helping you out with your rent and paying card noes and then here sending these kids to school. If ain't no sex tied to it, that that's he just he just pointing it out.

Well, maybe that's what she doesn't like the fact that he points it out.

We got I buy cars and swimming pools and diamond rings for saying, wait a minute, are you buy what now? Cars, swimming pools, diamond rings for six Burking bags?

Six?

I mean, look, man, it's like this. It's it's it's a it's a it's a form of wining and dining. Now, the problem she has is you may not be getting the commitment that comes with all of that. Wives Do wives get the commitment? Husbands try to provide for their wives everything they ask for. You're just not getting the commitment. So he making sure that your The commitment he want from you is what.

You do to him. I ain't now yo, men.

See that.

Yeah that's now. That's tacky. It's tacky, but that's what he tying it to see.

So what he gotta do is he just gotta he just gotta expect it instead of reminding you.

Yeah, no, it don't sound good. It don't sound good. She knows. I don't want you to forget. That's what I don't want. Yeah, he don't need to. Too many nice things and no sex coming up, that's all right. Moving you like that bag? How much you like it?

Exactly?

You like it a lot? Me too?

All right?

Moving on to say you like that bag? Let me tell you, let me tell you how I like it.

Treva and Queens.

Right.

So my birthday is three days after Christmas, and my husband didn't get me a gift this year. He bought a new hot water heater in December and we agreed not to do gifts. But what about my birthday? Why does he get up tight when I say I expected a gift. You got that hot water heater for Christmas?

Better get it there and take that bag.

Listen to me, you see listen. Now, let me tell you something. What a woman says is not what she means never, So bruh, you gotta get used to that. Y'all said, we're gonna get this hot water heater, so we ain't doing gifts this year. That was for Christmas. She watered a birthday gift. I don't get the dish washing for appliances and appliances does not qualify. Trust me, I don't like your wife. No vacuum clean on the house. Can't give her no flash screen TV. You sitting up there, got the game on. It has to be a personalized item.

Now.

I don't know how old he is, but he should know better. Yeah, doesn't say see buying hot water heaters. That's an over forty thing right there, because young people don't even know.

I don't know how the water is heated.

They just.

You know, these as homeowners. These are homeowners right here. They not written these are homeowners. And how much do how watered?

He?

How water? He have messed up Christmas this year, God though, but they needed it.

The house needs Yeah, she needs a birthday gift, all right. Moving on to Chris in Detroit.

Chris says, my wife's brother came to my house, got mad at my wife and started yelling at her. I told him that he cannot talk to my wife like that. She told me to stay out of it. Now I'm mad because I stood up for her and she disrespected me. Did I overstep here?

No?

Not in your house, not in your house. Not in your house. Now, you y'all got that sibling thing going on.

I understand that, but you can't come in my house talking crazy to my wife. And I'm not loud to if I holler at her, I get check for hollering at her. But the hell you in here hollering at man? So she she was wrong for not understanding your side of it. That's what she should have said, was baby, baby, just let me and my brother work through this. We do this all the time. I ain't he ain't gonna hurt me, but it's gonna be some yelling. But I do respect you. Yeah, but he the husband, he did the right thing.

Yeah.

I don't care who you are, man, You're not coming up in here hollering at my wife. Okay, Oh, please understand.

Me that that.

Yeah, the husband is mad for standing and.

He should be, and she disrespected him. You ain't got nothing to do with it, and you should have been arguing with this food their whole life, all right.

Last one, Steve, Last one. It's from Mickey and Beaumont. Mickey writes, I got my boobs done, and my husband won't stop touching them. He squeezes them and pulls at my piercings to the point that they get sore.

He wouldn't want me pulling and tugging at his you know what? So how how do I get him to stop this?

Oh?

No, he don't care. He bought him.

He'd been waiting on them. Happy Birthday to me, Marry Christmas to me. You don't even want to stand enjoy that may feeling right now, it's it's like a new Yeah, I know, as could be aggravating.

He would get mad if I was pulling on his junk all the time.

No, he wouldn't.

But she's got piercing.

We'd be just sitting up here pulling find wo Well, you know she got piercing. Now, she done decorate it what you wanted him to do?

She got piercing. Yeah, So it's you don't.

Feel them up and decorated it.

Girl, How does she get him to stop? That's what she wants to know.

He gonna stop, stops brand new toy in the house.

All right, thank you, Clo. Coming up.

It's like getting a new refrigerator, DN, don't put no food in it.

Well, that have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning shows.

So many Minneapolis based Target will phase out its DEI programs that support black employees, black owned businesses, and LGBTQ plus inclusion. After hearing this, a lot of blacks took to social media to call for massive boycotting of.

All Target stores.

Social media influencer Tabitha Brand posted a video to make consumers aware of how a boycott would negatively impact the sales of black owned brands that are sold in Target stores. Tabitha brand has several products that are now being sold at Target. Research gathered for the Insider shows at nearly eight out of ten shoppers in the US shop at Target, and Target's typical consumer is a white suburban mother between the ages of thirty five and forty four with a household income of eighty thousand dollars. So here's a question, what do you guys think about this? If we boycott Target, do we boycott every store that has gotten rid of its DEI program?

And first of all, and then I believe Target was one of the contributors to the Trump campaign, if I'm.

Not mistaken, one of the biggest.

I think, if I'm not mistaken, So you are dealing with an ownership that is pro Trump anyway.

Yeah.

Oh, Now what you have to pay attention to is how many companies follow suit. He did what he said he was going to do, and and you boycotting Target. I mean, okay, if that's what y'all want to do, But what is that gonna do? Because she's absolutely correct the black businesses that have products in there, they gonna get hurt too. It's just a we're in a tough spot here, man, because all this is in Project twenty twenty five. You see this, Make America great Again. I kept trying to tell people, make America great again for who All you could do is push it back. And every time we push back, we pushing back into all types of stuff. The DEI is affecting college entry level stuff. They erased the nineteen sixty four Civil Rights Act, do you understand there's no more affirmative action, that's no more holding people to the eye to make sure the minorities are included.

Na.

Man, So now they gonna make America great again when it was greater for them when they controlled everything, and now they're back to trolling. They can hire who they want to hire, do like they want to do, and that's a that's a sad space win now.

And you got to think about it.

You're sir right, Steve, about hurting our black businesses. I mean, when you think about it, it's Tamitha Tabatha brand, it's Taraji p Hens and I think she has hair products in there. Tracy ellis ross with hair products than Target. You know, so you're gonna be hurting these people as well. We I mean, you want to do something maybe, but is this the smartest move?

And if you, if you don't get your products out of Target, where you're gonna go and wherever that's you going? Are they doing the same thing? Yeah?

I mean you got to look, man, this guy is doing what he said he's gonna do right and I and I said all along it will benefit the rich.

But I'm very deeply concerned about the common man.

You said that that's true, and and and and and and now.

It's starting to play itself out, and it's it's no holes barred man.

But they said day one, step, they said on day one, And that's what he's been doing. He's been in office for a week.

Man, he picking up people.

Ices that is out there busy picking people up, deporting people, or they down there, they're sending troops down to the border.

You know.

And and DEEI they getting rid of all of it. Because here's the deal.

If you don't have to understand what the civil rights movement and affirmative Action did, it made companies have to hire x amount of minorities and women because otherwise, now that you don't have to do that, you can put your people in place and they can turn a blind eye to all of the other stuff that.

Goes on behind closed doors in the boardroom, because.

If you ain't got no blacks and women in there and Latinos and everybody reporting, wait a minute, they're doing this, it can go unchecked. So now they get to put all of their white people in power and position and control the narrative.

Yeah, you're so right.

In a perfect world, we wouldn't need the e I. In a world without racism, we wouldn't need these programs. But because it's not a perfect world and there is racism, we have to include everyone. And that's what's been happening, you know, and now they're cutting that out. So we're gonna be left out.

If we I don't. I don't have the answer to that one.

America wasn't built on dee. I. America was built on the backs of slaves. So now let's just make America great degree yeah, for free and here we.

Are, man, So it's gonna be a long ride. Yeah, and you know, how do we fight this?

Though?

What is the plan to fight this? Do we have a plan to fight this?

The fight was at the voting box polls. See that was that was a fight and you lost that fight, so now you got to take the ass whipping.

So you know, I don't. I don't really have a plan. I don't.

I can't come up with a plan for this because he has. The entire Republican Party has bowed down to this guy, and nobody's fighting back. I mean, this dude is doing some ridiculous stuff too. Yeah, the birthright thing that he's trying to reverse that. If you're born in the United States, you don't become a citizen. He's trying to flip that. That's constitutionally not the correct thing to do, but he's trying to do that. And the Gulf of America.

Boy, it's coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. The Eagles and the Chiefs are going to the Super Bowl.

Size and the Chiefs. Yes, we'll talk about it right after this.

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No, not CUTIPI q s to us and Q sack. Jalen is not CUTIEPI is Q sack? Is he not going to the super Bowl?

Is not all right? Anyway?

He's going to the super Bowl with the Philadelphia Eagles. They're going to be playing the Kansas City Chiefs. What are your predictions? Will you be placing any bets on the game?

What do you think? They not in it? They so hurt cheerly.

Oh, that's why they're bitter.

I was wondering, Man, get over here with me. I'm from Cleveland. Expect not to go.

That.

You get over here and expect not to go. Now where you ain't going. Don't mean saying that because you ain't going. I told y'all, y'all wasn't going.

No.

The fact that the Chiefs and the refs beat us, It wasn't just the Chiefs.

Boy, we ain't got no time for that. It's the Chiefs and the Eagles, and you're talking about the refs.

Y'all out.

His voice is really now who you want?

You you want the Chiefs or you want the Eagles. That's what your question is. I don want no Chiefs.

He's upset, man.

I'm like the mayor g L G L E S Eagles. That lady spelled elish.

I'm pulling for the Philly this year.

Man. Listen.

I've been to Kansas City fan for a while because of my home. Came up in there and it's doing this thing. Jalen hurts. It's frat brother, So I mean, it's nothing, just I got to go with him. Plus it's Philly. Man, I don't think I got way more Douggie in the w D A S one on five point three. W D A S sounded like Philly to me. Man, I can't. I can't go gainst Philly. Way too much love in Philly Cheese, steak boys, part open, Phillip warms all day in boys just laying around.

We got we got two black quarterbacks. That's all I can Yeah.

Yeah, So you don't care who wins the Chiefs.

Or the I don't. I don't care.

I have a preference. Uh They're called the Eagles, and I do have a preference because, first of all, but I'm a little tired of Kansas City. I'm just a little tired of them.

The warm enough.

You know, this ain't no Taylor Swift hate or nothing like that, because I like little Taylor Swift, but I'm a little tidy and win win win win win for they ask yesterday, I felt so bad for Buffalo yesterday.

All right, so we'll be watching at the super Bowl Philadelphia Eagle Eagles and the Kansas City Chiefs.

How does she spell it again?

Junior E G l Eess egg Glass. All right, guys, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll see if you can complete some commonly used black phrases.

Right after this. You're listening Hard Morning Show.

So guys, this was on the Grios instagram page yesterday and we just want to see if you guys can complete some popular phrases.

These are.

Okay, hold on and we go. Junior, you're gonna answer first, so we can see what Junior is and all this because all right, here we go.

These are popular black phrases. See if you can complete them. A hard head makes a a.

Hard head, make a hard hitter. Wow, Wow, that's not what that is?

A hard hitterer, Yeah, because you mean you keep hitting your Head's gonnat, it's gonna get harder, you know, a harder head.

That's not what I mean. Sorry, Tommy, tell him what it means. Yeah, a hard head make a soft ass.

You didn't know that. You never heard that, your parents never.

Told you that.

Okay, okay, next one, Shirley, all right, this is number two. Only a hit dog.

Will scream, Tommy, only a hit dog will die. I don't see you're talking about.

I know that.

I learned this on the show Steve.

The word you're looking for is hollow holler.

Yes, I learned this on this show years and years ago.

If you throw a rock in the pack of dog, the one you hit is the one that hollered holler. Yeah, that's a real saying. You thought that was just him? Yes, it's a little different during screen, Yes, scream all right.

Number three, tell the truth.

For what?

For what?

That one?

That one though from him.

The devil? There you go, there you go, all right, But Junior win points for that one. Thank you? Learn I do I learned your job. Number four.

The only thing I gotta do is stay black and.

Stay black. Yeah, all I gotta do is stay black and be black. Up.

I love it.

I love it. Why are y'all you black?

And die?

Stay black? And that write these things? And forty two? All right, well people eighteen forty two. Y'all came over with this.

We none of us were born in forty two. People in hell want.

To get out, for sure.

I know what hot down there?

The can that won't be down there? They need to get out, That's what I think.

What is it, Tommy?

People in hell won't ice water, right, you get it? How they gonna get it down there? It's going to evaporate, just hot. Yeah, I know, Jai, that's why they won't it. Yeah. Number Never let your right hand, Never let your right hand what fall off.

Dog, Never let your right hand know what your left hand is doing.

Right.

They don't, they don't have, they don't talk.

These are popular black phrases that we're going through. We're trying to get on the ending of them. And see where Junior is in all this, because he's the youngest o black people.

Junior wrote these phrases.

Yeah, or at least you heard him in Black Homes Supporters.

All Right, here we go.

Number seven, caught between a rock and.

Caught between a rock and another one because gonna get you stuck. M hm, talk between the rock and a hard place. I think y'all making this stuff to make me like I don't know what I'm talking about, you don't. You ain't gotta make nothing up. You're doing a good job.

I'm day late.

You got that day late. You fined on this show. You will be a day late here. You ain't told Harvey where you at your side?

Here?

I know that?

Come on, come on, Steve Daylight dollar Shop. Yeah?

Why all right, junior, you have to know this one all right. Don't let your mouth write a check.

No, my hand does that. I write check in my hand, not my mouth. What's that that you.

Never heard?

Why? What?

What?

Why are we even back there? First of all, I'm offending. Why is we back there? I'm offended? All right?

Coming up next to its prank phone call from the nephew right after this. You're listening Steve of the Morning Show, coming up at about four minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and the subject is can we fix this fiasco? We'll get to find out what that's all about in just a few wait you hear this one, But right now it is time for the nephew and today's prank phone call?

What you got for his nest?

Getting counter of rough up in here on this one, Sharon that's right here on. Yeah, that's gonna be tight right here. You sent my wife pitches? Uh yeah, yeah, yeah, I seen him. I seen him. You sent my wife pitches?

Uh yeah. Uh.

We goin to get to the bottom of this year, cat dog, If you would you sent my wife pitches.

Let's go.

Speak the trouble. Hey man, you've been sending pictures of are your damn stomach?

To my wife phone? Hey man?

Have you been sending pitches of your muscles on your stomach to my wife phone?

What the hell is this? Calling me with this?

This fish right here is who this fisher man? My name is Fisher, but they call me fish. What I want to know from you?

Have you been sending pictures of your stomach to my wife phone?

Man?

I don't know dad, you're talking about plate boy, don't telling me with just about If I sing pitchures, ain't none of your business.

It is my business. That's my wife.

Then you say this, but you know it.

You must ain't got You must ain't ripped up like me or something.

You worried about it sending fishes this summer? Hey man, get you some fitiness.

I'm talking I.

Got some business. My business is my wife, man, And if you said it, let me.

Tell you something. I'm gonna tell you right now. I want to find you.

If the same muscles that's on her phone is up underneath your shirt, I'm.

Whooping your.

I ain't hard to find play boy. You can find me. And if I am sing fists to your wife, she must like it.

Plate boy, Hey man.

Ain't let me tell you no? You being disrespectful is what you're doing. You understand you've been.

You've been a little calling me on the phone with you. Better check somebody else about this here? For I had your wife brothering on my stomach.

Hey man? Who you hey? See? Who you calling up?

Man?

Who do you think you are?

Hey? Hey?

Who you think you talk? Let me tell you something?

Okay, tell us take time my phone about a picture that's because them?

If I find out them your muscles on my what?

What? I just leave?

You found my phone number? So I guess you can find me?

Oh boy, ain't you how about this? Here?

Where are you?

Let's get I'm hey, ask your wife where I'm at? Where she at?

My wife is at work right now?

If you think so?

How you think she got them on?

Boy?

Hey man, I tell you what when I find when I find you a little disrespectful?

Answer wife, where I'm at? Yeah? That was the new boy open. Oh it's security. You be ripped up like men.

Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles on my stomach.

I got right now to get these get this stommach right for your wife.

Hey, man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right, that's all right. How about this here. I know who your wife feels.

Now, that's all right. I know who's here too.

Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her. I'm calling her letting her know what's going on.

Take this out.

She liked my stomach too. Yeah, yeah, you're like that.

No, no, I'll tell you what. I tell you what.

She gonna like it.

When I get to her. I'm gonna let your wife know what's going on around here.

Say, man, you don't know nothing about my wife. My wife and your wife might be rubbing together home White.

You don't know nothing about my business.

Ay man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me. Man, I done told you.

Once come see me on what I will see.

I already asked you once where are you?

I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see this ripped up six pact that's your wife, like.

Yeah, all right, okay, okay, it's just a matter of time. Then all my.

You better go check your wife and don't be calling across man.

Okay, Well, I tell you what. I'm gonna call a Yanna. That's that's what I'm going to call a Yana. Baby say yeah yeah and slows you down. Now, Yeah, I'm calling your wife.

Call up here.

We can get it on the freeways and then and then I call your wife and get on my way.

Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now.

What I need is tell me what if you want to tell me play, I'm telling you right now, Pump, where you at.

Fuller going home?

Boy, that's where I'm at.

Now you got my wife name.

I want to know your name.

They call your fish or chicken the where they call you. You can meet me wherever you want to on boy, and we can say this ain't no steel to me. I deal with pup like you every day.

Okay, okay, not a problem, not a problem.

I'll be right how long you gonna be that, I'm gonna be that to your punk.

Okay, you look, I want you to take my name down so you'll know who you waiting on.

You got your what? Uh?

You said your name was chicken or something like?

Do you have a pin?

I don't need no pink?

Okay? Do you want to know who this is?

You gonna tell me who you was?

Homeboy?

I ain't told you my full name.

Chump, I don't need to know your name. You got my number calling me about a chatto off stomach or something.

It's muscles, it's muscles of your stomach on my wife phone.

Did the pictures?

How many sit ups do you be doing?

Did you look at the other pictures?

What other?

Well?

Okay, hey, hey man, hey man, I'm not finna be playing with you about my wife.

Man, I ain't playing with you. I'm playing with your.

Why okay, okay, I'm gonna tell you something about your wife. I'm gonna tell you something about your wife that you don't know.

If I don't know it, don't nobody else know it? Oh?

I know it? Me and her know it. When I just got off the phone with her. You want to know? You want me tell you what your wife told me?

Whatever? Man, say what you have to say.

I'm gonna say this right here, I'm gonna say this punk. This his nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your wife or Yanna got me the prank phone? Your ignorant man?

How stupid are you?

Hello this nephew Tommy, man from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your wife got me the prank phone?

Call you do you? Damn you? You are more ignorant than me.

This?

Yeah, boy, God, hey trouble. I got to ask you this man, answer this question for me. What is what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the leg the.

Only one with nephew imagine.

By you that?

Oh man, I trail man, you be easy man, go light on the y'all all right.

I'm all Steve habout say.

Come on, playboy? Did I do it?

Come on?

Come on, yeah, playboy, old playboy?

Did I do it?

Do that?

Oh?

My god? Why keeping it stupid?

Ah?

All right, the nephew gonna be stupid.

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I got a Lexington, Kentucky laying in the cut, all right? That is in March.

That's thirteen fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, four days Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday. That nephew is coming to town, Lexington, Kentucky. Be ready, be ye ready. As the nephew comes. It's probably been I think about five six years since I've been there, and I will be gracing the stage now, So get your ticket.

They're on sale right now.

As the nephew goes down his schedule while and uh yeah, that's that's what's happening, all right. And what did I tell y'all? That was February the eight, well in Memphis. But the seven. Make sure you tune in to that Ready to Love on the own network. It is fed Ready to Love Philadelphia, and I'm gonna surprise y'all. I'll save that for later, but the nephew gonna surprise y'all on Friday night the seventh. Y'all ain't gonna believe, y'all ain't the belief, but it's coming.

What you're gonna do. I know, I know, I got this is a surprise, hey man.

You know when you get ready to when you get tired of family feud, you know I'll let you boy, you know, because somebody got to take over once you get tired.

So you know, just put my put my name in the head, you know, just getting close. But you know you don't want to be like you don't want to be right after. Let somebody else come right in, right because I got that down, thick and hot homie hand.

It's hot. It's gonna be had walking out there right.

Behind me, all right, neph you, thank you?

Coming up next today strawberry letter, the subject can we fix this fiasco?

Right after this?

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All right, thank you nephew. Subject. Can we fix this fiasco here? Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty seven and my boyfriend is forty eight. We met at a club. We exchange numbers, and after our first date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He said it wasn't because the intimacy was so good, it was because he enjoys my company. I thought he was going to run off when I told him I have four kids, but he didn't. I have a twenty year old son and my daughters are eighteen, six and three. My first two kids are by the same guy, and my youngest two kids have the same dad. My boyfriend didn't judge me even after we had sex on our first date. We've been dating for almost a year, but now he won't speak to me after what happened Saturday. My ex best friend and her two sisters jumped us at a four year old's birthday party. I got hit in the back of my head and my boyfriend was pushed down, but he doesn't fight women, so he eventually got up and got them to calm down. My ex best friend told my boyfriend that I slept with her husband and he's the father of my six year old child, and then she just found out that my three year old child is by her husband too. I never wanted my boyfriend to find this out. He asked if I am still having sex with my ex'es best with my ex best friend's husband, and I was honest. I stopped sleeping with that man a few months ago, which overlaps with me sleeping with my boyfriend. It was a mess, and I thought, since I have been honest all along, I could be honest this time, but instead he said I have no morals and I'm not the woman he thinks I am. I wanted to curse him out, but I held it together. Today he said that I cannot be trusted after betraying my friend. Why can't my friend get over it? Why won't he hear my side of the story. Can this fiasco be fixed? No, this fiasco cannot be fixed. No one wants to be involved in your mess, or the fiasco as you call it. You left out the main reason this woman is no longer your best friend. You left out the fact that the man the father of two of your children, your four children.

Is her husband. You left that out.

Why if you were sleeping with your ex best friend's husband, would you take your.

New man to the four year old's party? I didn't get that. Didn't you think they might be there? You all have kids. This is craziness, And how could you expect him to act?

How did you expect this man to act after you left out that critical part of your so called honesty. Your actions speak to your character, and the fact that you were still sleeping with your ex former best friend's husband while you were with your new man just sounds crazy. I mean, this whole letter is crazy for what you've done and all of this. I think you need to sit down. I think you need to have a seat.

You really need to figure out who you are.

You need to stop worrying about that man and your ex best friend and all that, and just figure out who you are and what your next steps are going to be. No, he doesn't want to hear your side of the story. You have plenty of time to tell him that, Steve.

First of all, it ain't no right in here nowhere, especially from you. Bishop Brona down in Atlanta says something I saw online that really really helped me a great deal. He said, you have to be aware of people who play the victim in the circumstance that they created. Now you're the victim here. You're trying to be the victim through the whole letter. But you did just him. You know, you're thirty seven and your boyfriend forty eight, eleven year difference made At a club. We exchanged numbers, and after our first date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He said it wasn't because the intimacy was good, because he enjoyed my company.

First night.

First night, you just out there just you're just going at it, y'all having at it.

Okay. Cool.

I thought he was gonna run off when I told him I have folk kids, but he didn't. Well, if you'd have told him how you had them folk kids, I bet the hell he'd have ran off. It ain't the folk kids, it's the story behind the folk kids. So I thought he was gonna run off when I told him I had four kids, But he didn't, yah, because he ain't the whole story.

See.

I have a twenty year old son. That means you had him when he was nineteen. My daughters are eighteen, six and three. My first two kids are about the same guy, and my youngest two kids have the same dad.

Now right, there ain't nothing wrong with that. Ain't nothing wrong with none of this you.

Saying right here, except them two young kids you had, they had the same dad. You ain't tell him who the dad was, don't see. That's where this letter getting tricky. My boyfriend didn't judge me. He ain't judge you because he ain't know the facts, and you didn't give him the facts, or you would have been judged.

Even after we had sex on our first date.

Okay, Okay, we've been dating for almost a year now, but he won't speak to me after what it happened Saturday. Now Here where the letter get just take a hard left turn. Yeah, my ex best friend and her two sisters jumped on us at a four yr old birthday party. What we'll jump on somebody at the four yr old birthday party. My ex best friend and her two sisters walked up in the party. Saw y'all in, polled in on y'all eggs just walked in at a four year old birthday party.

Damn chucky cheese, Damn Ronald McDonald. See your ass, oh site on site.

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This woman met this man eleven years older her she thirty seventy forty eight. They had sex the first night. As soon as they had sex, he asked her to be her boyfriend.

He said.

It wasn't caused it intimate. Cause it intimacy, he said, because he enjoyed her company.

That's a lie.

It was caused the company. It was so intimate, that's why. And then you said you thought he'd judged you after he told you told him that you have folk kids, but he didn't. He would have judged you if you had told him how you had them four kids. It's not the four kids and the two baby daddies, that ain't it. It's the rest of it. It's that we find out later on in the letter. And my first two kids are with the same guy. My youngest two kids had the same dad. My boyfriend didn't judge me even after we had sex on our first date.

Well he would have if he knew the facts.

Though we've been dating for almost a year and now he won't speak to me after what happened Saturday.

Now is what happened Saturday.

My ex best friend, this, her girlfriend, and her two sisters jumped on us, us, you and him, the three women in that you're whooping up at a four year old birthday party. Do you know how mad you got to be to jump on somebody at a four year old birthday party?

Do you know how mad?

She said, When I see you, it's gonna be on site. I got hit in the back of my head and my boyfriend was pushed down. There's some big girls, man. They came up in there backing bus and big girls came up there, bushing you in the back of the head and knocking me in down. But he don't fight women, so he eventually got them to calm down. My ex best friend told my boyfriend that I slept with her husband and he's the father of my six year old child. Then she just found out that my three year old child is by her husband too. Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, you supposed to you supposed to get your ass with me, and she just found out too.

Oh you had another one.

I never wanted my boyfriend to find this out, now you know why, because he would have been judgmental. He asked if I'm still having sex with my ex best friend's husband, and I was honest or not. I love when people do this, and I was honest. I stopped sleeping with that man a few months ago, which overlaps with me sleeping with my boyfriend.

Are you tricky?

It was a mess, and I thought since I had been honest all along, I could be honest this time. No, you hadn't been honest all along. Let me tell you the lie. First of all, honesty is transparency.

You were not. You had four kids by two different guys. No problem with that.

I'm not judging you later. That ain't no problem now. When you got jumped on at the party, it's where it all got started. They rolled up in that chucky cheese and they were swiping that. Ronald McDonald had to get up out of there. What's that big purple or Brooke, what's that purple thing? Bonnie got his ass out the way that because big girl them came up in there. Hit you in the back of your head, push your husband down. He don't hit women, now, he tried. Now, what the hell going on?

Then?

When she told him you are the father that her husband, who is your ex best friend, her husband is the father of your six year old and she just found out he the father of three year old two? And I thought, since I had been honest a long no, you didn't. You weren't honest with him, You weren't honest with your.

Best friend, and you slept with your best friend's husband.

That's what friends are for, Keith shy. Yeah, okay, so I could be honest. But instead he said, I have no morals.

You don't.

You slept with your best friend's husband, which makes you hard to be trust.

And I'm not the woman he thinks I am.

You're not.

He didn't know you had did this. I wanted to curse him out. But what you cussing him out for?

Oh?

Oh, now you're the victim.

Once again, got to be careful of people who played the victim for the circumstances they created.

Now, are you not the woman I thought you were?

I started to cuss him out, but I held it together today, he said, I cannot be trusted at the betraying my friend. You can't, You can't. Why can't my friend get over it? Wait a minute. You slept with her husband and had two kids with him. What you want her to get over?

This?

Child's support got to come out of his money. Why can't my friend get over it? First of all, it's such a violation of trust. First of all, she thought, y'all all was friends. How could you do this?

And we best friends?

Man, I'm so glad you loved me, because if you hated me, what would you do?

Why won't he hear my side of the store?

He heard it?

What else you're gonna tell it? Can this fiasco be fixed? Sureley said it best. No it can't.

No, it can't be fixed. Better not see you down at talk. It ain't no more d I here we go. We'll whoop your ass at talk.

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We know who's going to the Super Bowl. We talked about it earlier. It's the Eagles and the Chiefs. But take this sad tone out. I have to because I just been Texans is not going.

That.

It's the Chiefs got a chance to make history again winning three straight Super Bowl.

Ain't y'all won enough? They You don't think they cheating for the Chiefs. You really don't think they're doing that.

Oh God, don't the referees be in the locker room root for the Chiefs before the game.

You can't see that.

Uh, I was from Cleveland though you've been losing so much in Cleveland. You just yeah, we ain't even had a game where the refs could have cheated for us.

That's bad.

That's what makes y'all in Cleveland like, y'all don't ever want to just get a new team up, You don't.

You just ride with with the brown Just about man, Cleveland, we ain't been in nothing.

Any No damn super Bowl buy no Super Bowl, AFC championship, but we lost that too.

Even now though, we gotta give it up for Jadon Dangers Man, for the Washington Commanders.

He had a hell of a season, hell.

Of a season, hell of a team, hell of a game. They're gonna be hard to deal with next year. But right now, yeah, he'll come to Mingles.

Yeah, and what about Josh all You said right now, what's happening with Josh Allen this morning?

What is it they need?

They need to gather around him, stay real close. So I'm telling you right now, man, that's suicide watch material over there. You gotta be careful with him.

He keep lose to the same team he hurts. That's three or four in the row. He man the same team.

That's like when people are trying to get past Jordan couldn't get past.

See what they have to do is.

They just had to outscore the Chiefs. M that's their only hope. They ain't stopping them. The chief Chiefs got some speed over that.

Dude xaber Worthy is so fast as wide receiver.

Then you got DeAndre Hopkins, you got, you got so many weapons, Travis Kelsey, they got they loaded over on offense. Man Chris Jones on defense for the Chiefs. They got everything they need to win three straight Super Bowls. I just don't want to see it happy, that's all I'm saying.

Well, it's it's it might not happen this year though.

Julia playing some ball man, Yeah, let's go ahead to Diagle's got a run game.

They're gonna be hard to play man o man. But I like Washington.

Man.

Washington go for it on fourth down like it's second down. They don't even care about the dawn. It is four for frive. We're going for God, going for it. That's what they do.

Sure, we thank you.

Coming up at the top of the hour, lady needs some advice Steve on how to get her money back from her boyfriend. We'll get into that right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, so Steve, this one is from Monty and Woodbridge, Monty says, my girlfriend butt dialed me and I heard her telling someone how I'm going to be gone Friday and Saturday, so she'll come by. Then she has another phone, so I don't know who she was talking to. I want to check the phone instead of asking her about it. Because she lies all the time. My frat said to let her do what she does and give up hope that she'll ever be wife material. Is this sound advice or not? What if she was talking to a female and was planning to visit her?

Okay, but let me ask you a question, though, bro, if you you made the statement in this question, you made the statement that she lies all the time. Now if you want to marry that, bro, if you can't trust her, now what your fred brother told you? What are you saying?

Yeah? And why she got two phone?

What does that usually mean? You got a work phone and a person's phone.

Well, if you got a work phone, if it's for work, then it's for work. But if you ain't got no other job, you just got a regular job.

But what.

What but you said she lie all the time, all the time.

He said, why are you winning your fred brother that said, she ain't wifey material, man, You.

Ain'tybody gotta keep telling me that.

Dog.

It's it's some good women out here, man, it's some good women out here. Man, ride or die, loyal, help, you want support, you get behind you. Fine, Yeah, you can find one of them. But be careful though, because she might not be on Instagram. A lot of them is filters. I ain't never seen more women with smooth ass faces.

I mean, he ain't. No, they smile, ain't no creases in their face. They're all beautiful.

Yeah, I been going, man, you got to look at the room that they shooting the video in and do kind of look a little suspect.

How did you find out they were filtered?

Oh?

Because I got all my kids know how to do all that. They tell dad that's a filter.

Oh yeah, so they told you. All right, all right, we have time for another one, Steve. This is from Janice and Bentonville. Jenna says, I'm dating a man that is living with a woman that's supposed to be his best friend. Her husband died in twenty twenty three, and she moved in with him This woman is frumpy and the direct opposite of how I look.

But I don't put anything past a man.

She cooks for him and cleans the house, and he brags on having the perfect home life. I asked if she will move out if we get serious, and he said he could not ask her to leave.

She has nowhere else to go. Do I make him choose?

Ask her question, Yeah, that's what's going to happen. Yeah, yeah, you can find somewhere to go. If you ain't know me, where would you go? Her husband died, that's all. Yeah, yeah, you know he died, and so so what died with him? The ability to take care of yourself, well, all your family?

What?

It's his best friend, he says, she's his best friend. I know you don't go for that, you know, men and women being best friend.

She's his us friend.

She cooks, she cleans, she do every.

She's frumpy.

Frumpy.

Well, it's like, you know, she's maybe a little overweight. She doesn't dress well, you know, she dresses you know.

Like close to lumpy.

What is is that in the same Just because they rhyme no, okay, it's trumprey rhymee with dumpy.

Yeah, rhyme, Umpty, Humpty Dumpky sat on the wall.

You know, everything I know about frumpty is all bad, you know, And then to put their in front of humpty, make it frumpty that because when you look at it, you be trying to figure out where's she from?

But there's something. She's got something because she's still there. They're best friends. She cooks and cleans, he has a perfect home life.

So he says, well, if y'all gonna move forward, he's gonna have to choose. That's all I can tell you here, you're gonna move forward if it ain't going nowhere and leave it like it is.

All right?

Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Tommy, congratulations. I'm so happy you're here because everybody keeps asking me, where is ready to love?

I don't know what to tell him. You tell them it is.

Time, Shirley. Let's let's go down the line.

We started out in Atlanta, then we did Houston, then we did Washington, d C.

Then what right after that we did Miami. Yeah, did Miami, and now.

It is time for Miss Piladelphia. Noah, barely Philly. It's jumping off Friday, February seventh. It is jumping off, So you do not want to miss it. You got to tune in and I Am going to be a huge surprise on Friday night. You do not want miss it.

You just tune in.

I can't give it up, but tune in because you're gonna watch that great things.

What what I'm gonna start wearing platforms, look bigger, I look hard. I actually look tall on camera.

Everybody, everybody sitting down.

You do a lot of sitting down on this show.

Yeah, but Steve, you know what be killing me about the show that I'd be going, who is he?

So got your situation?

What he's different on the show?

Intelligent? I'll be the advices would be shocking you.

Yeah.

Yeah, so let me get you straight. Yeah you're thinking what in your head?

February seven, Ready to Love You do not want to mince it? On the own network, Tune and baby, tune in.

Time got two.

Seasons straight out of Philly where those.

Ples are Well, gentlemen, I don't actually see it that.

Way, all right?

Coming up in thirty three minutes after replay around it, would you rather?

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It is time now for a round it would you rather? Would you rather?

Guys, listen to this one? Would you rather have sex with just one person for the rest of your life?

Would you like to.

Mix it up a little? Would you rather mix it up a little?

Say? Can we get sex today? You rather get the rest of life today?

Say?

All right? Moving on? Good answer, guys, good answer, no, smart answer?

All right?

Would you rather have a house without a kitchen? You rather have a house without any closet?

What?

Yeah, without a kitchen.

No closet? I gotta have your clothes just on racks.

I gotta have closet.

I gotta have that kitchen. I just turned one room into a closet and put it all in there. I've got to have a kitchen.

What a room you go to?

Where you're going a kitchen? Ain't no refrigerator. You ain't got mine?

Please question for you, sir, I said at a kitchen house with no kitchen. Yeah, I need my closet house. I gotta have my closet.

Yeah, all right, thank you, guys, thank you.

I'm so glad you like it these microwaves in the closet.

Would you rather wear nothing but suits every day? Would you rather wear nothing but jogging suits every day?

Which one? Jogging suits?

Yeah?

We knew you would say, all right.

I got it, every a jogging suit everything every day?

Yeah?

Yeah, one of these? He no, so we just have the war show. Just a Nike. You're not getting in the war show.

Would you rather have washboard abs and short legs or would you rather have a pot belly and long leg.

Well, come all times, look like you got your choice.

You could be me or you can be Tommy. I ain't got no pot. Better, you got wash you ain't tall either. You got their legs though.

All right, would you rather a baked potato?

Here's something you can relate to, Tommy, a baked potato with caviare or baked potato with truffles?

Be Hey, I'm a little big dog Tuesday.

Hey, Junie, you ain't never been to caveall cast y'all had.

What was that I want? Baked potato with the ruffles ruffles?

Is truffle ruffles? Potato chickful? She said truffles? She said truffles. She said truffles with your poe ass tuffle By said nothing about no damn ruffles.

With potato with the ruffles on it.

All right, that's today's round of when you rather came, I can't call you. Let's break up. The tab will close out the show with the one and only.

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Mom.

All right, guys, here we are last break of the day on this Tuesday. It's been a great day. It's been a good day. Thank you guys, Thanks everybody for listening with me.

Want to appreciate you.

Yeah, Hey, you know something in my clothes remarks, I'm gonna share with you something I've had to learn. Okay, you know, I decided last year that I was going to trust in God's timing, and and in making the decision to trust in God's timing, what I was doing was I was saying, I know that I have a plan, and I know I have goals and aspirations, but I wanted to be done as long as it's in line with God's will. So I made that a mission in twenty twenty four, and I was doing really well with that for a while, but I hit a spot where I really wanted something to happen immediately. Now I want you to know something that immediately that I wanted it to happen was back in September. It's almost the end of January now and it still hasn't happened. But remember, now, I had resigned myself to truck in God's timing. Any time you wouldtempt to do better or become better, or become more faithful, there's going to be a test to see if you really are committed to that. And I got to tell you something. I'm being tested right now. You may be under the same test. So what I'm learning and what I'm sharing with you right now is stay the course. What I've learned about trusting in God's timing is I've really learned that his timing and my timing ain't ever the same. That's been the tough one for me because I've set up here and said, you know what, God, it just seemed to me like it was going to happen. You come on and make this happen, because you see me down here and I'm struggling a bit with this whole thing, and you know what, something just keeps telling me, it's just a test of your faith. And keep trusting in my timing because when I make it happen, it's going to be better than the way you wanted it to happen. But I gotta tell you something, y'all, it's hard to do that. And then the devil comes into play, because the devil's mission is to rob you of your destiny. So then here comes the devil. It ain't meant to be. The answer is no, do something else, change your plans, give up, lose your faith. He ain't listening to you, he don't hear you. And that's the devil's job. And the devil wins so many times, man, because we just get tired of waiting. But if you stay the course, God has never been too late, as trying, as testing as this moment is for me. I'm okay. I'm still healthy. I still keep waking up in the morning. I still got hopes and dreams and aspirations. My blessings are in a I mean, man, if you write down everything God has done for you and everything God is doing for you, it's really overwhelming.

Now.

I know the thing you want might not be happening at the time you want it to happen. And I know that feeling because it's happening to me now. But don't you know he coming?

Man?

But the fact that you still have stuff that you're aiming for, that's a blessing. Man.

Do you know how many people have just given up lost hope, ain't got nothing. If you can wake up and still hope, If you can wake up and still have aspirations, if you can wake up and still want to make it no matter how it looks, you still want to get there, that's a blessing, y'all. If you're waking up and you still holding on, that's a blessing, y'all. If you're waking up and you have managed somehow to muster the strift to put your clothes on, get out of bed, and go ahead on anyhow, ye, that's a blessing, y'all. If you have muscled up the stript to put another footstep in front of the other one, that's a blessing, y'all. Don't let the devil fool you. You're doing the things that's necessary to make it. And it might not be happening for you right now, but that don't mean it ain't happening. For all you know and have you've learned in your past, God is in the background making moves on your behalf now. The reason it ain't happening right now because God is working some things out. Because when you ask God for something, you gotta remember it.

Ain't just you.

It's a whole lot tied to you. It's people that's got to be blessed. It's people has got to hear it, people have got to co sign off on it. It's people that's gonna benefit from it. And sometimes God holds us up because God saw things you didn't see. God heard conversations you didn't hear, and God got to show somebody. He teaches somebody else a lesson, but he using you to get it done. And the reason he using you because he know he can trust you, but because he know you got the strength to endure, because you've shown it to him time and time again. God only uses the strong to make demonstrations to the weak. And God takes you in your weakest moment where you have to then require on him and depend on him one thousand percent, and then He.

Show up and he show out.

So keep your faith, y'all, no matter how dark or daunting it might seem, keep your head up and keep your faith, because I promise you God is working on your behalf. He is man, He really is and I'm talking to myself right now because I know He got to be working on my behalf because it's out of my hands. And let me tell you something, when the decision that has to be made is out of your hands and you to turn it over to God, you can't put it in no better hands than his. Keep the faith, keep moving on, keep praying, and stay prayerful, Stay faithful. God got you. Those are my closing remarks today. Hey, y'all have a good way to talk to God to day you would absolute.

Here's Frank. I appreciate you saying.

God.

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