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Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all ball suit all looking back to back down giving them ball just like amazing buck bus things. And it's touble y'all do me true good to Steve hardy guy to me together for Stu bar quickly, hobby, why don't you joy? Yeah, yeah, y'all join with me. Honey, sat down, turn Yeah you got to run. You gotta turn, you to turn about, turn you love, you got to turn out to turn turn water the watery. Come come on your thing, mckat it. Uh huh, I sure will come on. And everybody you're listening to the voice, come on dig me now. Of one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. I got a radio show and got something to say to man. Thank God for it. I thank God for my life. I thank God for her. In the midst of storms, he calms, you know, somebody, somebody sent me something. Yesterday. I was going through another trial in my life. You know which is life is going to always be that? You know, it's a it's a I think I think the things that I say on the radio, I want you all understand that I do so have to put him into practice all the time, all the time. And uh, I was going through something yesterday and I don't know how I'll be going through it, but I'll be fine however long it takes, because I have something, Man, I have something. I'm gonna share it with you. A lot of you got it, but I don't. I don't think sometimes we appreciate it until we have to use it. And and the thing that we got is prayer. Prayers available to every single person. Prayer is so important, man, it's so important. I'm not afraid to say it though. It's it's so so important to you because it's such a comfort, it's such an island that you can go to. I was going through something yesterday and somebody close to me knew about it, and they sent me something in the middle of it, and it said simply that God does not guarantee us a life free from trouble, but he does promise to be our refuge in the midst of the storm. See. And that was and that was so cool for me, because you know, oftentimes I'm on the radio and I'm talking, and I know you all think you think I'm I'm talking to you, But like I said, oftentimes oftentimes I'm just talking to myself, man, too, because I'm just like you. I'm just a human being trying to get through. I happen to come under attack, as does everybody else. I got trials and tribulations just like everybody else. So when I'm talking, I'm talking to myself a lot of time, and all of us are faced with things. See but but but the beautiful thing. And one of the things I've always said that on your way to success, that's going to be our position. I've always said that the road to success is always under construction. I have always said these things, but I also after I also have to hear these things, and I even whoever I am, and all of us have to apply these things. And see what I was sitting there going through it. Man, somebody Texas to me, it just simply said that God does not guarantee us a life free from trouble, but he does promise to be our refuge in the midst of the storm. And you know, man, what prayer enables you to do. It's have just a little closer relationship with God. It allows you to former barricade when necessary. It allows you to have a place to go when necessary. It provides you a place of shelter when it gets real, real windy, and real real funky for you, when the bullets and arrows is flying, there's a place that you can tuck yourself. I always like to refer to it as under his wings. I like get tucked under his wings when the bullets and arrows is flying. You know, I do realize Man through my life. And I've been taught this over and over and over Isaiah forty three one and two. That's someone to the effect that you can walk through the fire and you will not get burned. Norma kindling set upon your clothing. And what I learned from that scripture, y'all, what simply this that if you do have this relationship with God, are you if you are making an attempt to be righteous, trying to live your life to the best of you ain't stepping on nobody, trying to hurt nobody. You're giving God some glory, You're talking with him. You know you're making some mistakes along the way, But you know what I'm saying, You ain't. You ain't just mailing it in. You are consciously trying to be a righteous person. Then there's a promise that he gives to you that he would be there for you. Now here's the promise. The promise says something just like this, that you will be able to walk through the fire and not get burned, normal kindling set upon your clothing. Now what that means to me, my interpretation of it real simple. That God is some things are going to happen to you, and when they happen to you, it's not his doing. When when you come under attack, when you when when when the haters come from you, it's never his doing. But he gonna walk with you though and allow you to walk through the fire, and you will not get burned. That's amazing, man, because I got a little fire going on right now. But guess what, they can't consume me with it, because in their attempts to do what they do to you, to me, to anybody is trying to go somewhere, mind your business, in their attempts to do what they're setting out to do. His problem with that. Now, if you've got God, if you use this little weapon of prayer that it gives you, he'll provides you a refuge, but he'll let you walk through the fine. You will not get burned. Now a part where it talks about won't know kindling set upon your clothing. That's kind of like if if you've been in the house that's been on fire before, you know that that house has been on fire. You can walk in and sit on the walls. It's a smell in the air. You can see the damage. I mean, a house thats been on fire until the repairs come, the restoration, you can walk in there and know that there's been a fire. Weeks later, after the house has been on fire, you can walk in because you can smell it, you can see the sieinge marks. But here's the difference. Howse is you know I'm talking about just structural buildings that they don't have ongoing relationship with God's ain't talking about your temple at church or nothing. So please don't go there. I'm just telling you a fact. Our house does not possess a soul. A person possesses a soul. So your relationship with God is it's where your refugees. So now here we go. Now, even though you're walking through this, fine, you won't get burned. But when you walk into a house that's been burned, you can see it kindling everywhere, soot everything. But oh my goodness, when you have a little walk with God, when you got some faith in him, hear what happens to you, y'all when they come for you, when they attack you. The part that it says you won't get burned, but the no kindling, that means when it's over, no kindling was set upon you that are being There won't be no soot on you. There won't be no seeings marks on you. You won't smell like you've been on fire. You won't even look like you've been nowhere near a fire. But the whole time the fire was raging all around you. But there's a place that you can go when your life is on fire, when you come under attack, there's a spot. There's a spot if you know God, if you if you're just trying to be right, if you just go over there and get over that buying just a little bit, y'all, if you just send up some earnest prayers and and pray it and mean what you say, there's a spot you can go that you can tuck under the wings. You're listening, Steve Harvey, Welcome to the ride. Yeah, Steve Harvey, Martin show all day. Uh, everybody won't hurch how five bye? Do on say child bye? Uh? The way you walk and talk, slow it down, it really sets me off to a five alarm child, Yes, s it does. The way you squeak and tea knocks me to my knees, come out smoking, baby bear and curve. It really eracts my nerves. And I'm so excited child. Yeah, oh w Bush, That lets me know hard gonna get your w Yeah with jams with jams Man, you got me on the head man jams jams Man, Steve? How hard would they jam? And though when they recorded this, do you understand me? When you went to see them live, you was at a It was a party, man, the whole everybody in the joint was on the same accord. What nobody mad? Averybody getting no fights? Shuggle footnel diamond on the trump and look at him clean? Were they though? On stage? Oh? They was outfit. None of that in the stove. All that was made. All of them have made day clothes. All their sisters Sugar, Sugar had a sister, could decad jet do feathers, put feathers on it, man, they would lt D. You can't buy that in the stove. Somebody got to make them in them costumes. So they gave you a show, is what you're saying, Lord have mercy? Man? Was you that when the winning five came down in them teeth peas Man? And I like how you always said you dressed. I dressed for the group I was going to see. Yes, your gear of the group was that you had the feather in your front that the five they came out of the tepeas I crossed the treat of my car cut off. My car cut off, so I palled across the feed in the field. You know that would do okay? Now, that was the time I went to see a R T D. When I had a purple cape on flag brother platforms. Just imagine now I can't see it. We never found out what happened to the car. You just got out the car so he wouldn't be late to the concept. I can't miss the show. I know my car cut off. Sometimes when I get back to your knee rests had some water in that radio. I had to stop like every ten mile. I had six gallons and it freeze in my car and six gallons of water well in my trunk at all time. What about your day? Did you take a date? Now? I had the money for a girl with that one? How much? How much? Two fifty? I know date? But I can't miss him though. I had to get out there. Man Richfield Collinson had no date goes that's six uh uh? My had in cape on ball Batman, what's up? They called you bat I ran past the dude bat man, what's up? He had his feathers on, but he had him in a big hat. You know. We all wore themes, and my ticket was well up in the air, and I just waited to the show got started, and just all I did was stare down stairs and see if I saw a gap in a in a flow seat. When I saw it, I came down the aisle just doing the moves that the band was doing. Act like I've been there hading a cape on. So everybody thought I was part of it. You know, Well he just jamming, and I just ease on the about four seats and speak to everybody, high five them. Yeah, man, watch the whole show with that. Ain't your seat? Yeah, but you know you ain't there by the time LTD or er Wind come on your ass ain't come yeah, because they headline that all them with radio winner seats. I knew all that. Let me answer, who would who would open up for shows like this? Well, I mean you know, like what what you mean like the opening act? Like what what other acts would open up? Okay? Like okay, like like like R winning five or have con function in front of it? Church Mary, you're listening, We come back. Y'all can ask me about any group, I'll tell you if I've seen him in my experience. I've seen everybody I love. I've seen everybody I love lot Okay, everybody I love. I have seen lot all love. I ain't never all love? All right? Last war come back? Can I jump on in him? Yeah? A brother concert? Hell yeah? Hell yeah? Grade tent to that one? Yeah? What were they doing? I had a cane. I'm off the cane, but concert. All I had was a walking stick and I made it, Yeah, carved out little slits in it so I could glue the jewels. Only cane because I didn't had the money for the canes that him and his brother had because his brother the big ones in the back they had came. So I had to have a cane. So I had a walker stick that I had in the country and I just put slits in it and I superglued the red rubies. Got me some green stuff look like emeralds. Got me some cut glass look like diamonds. I had. I had a staff. Now listen to me that that stlf was the same staff I used in the church play. It had multi function. That was the same one Moses Church play. When I was Moses, Little Moses, did anyone compliment you on your what they man? That's cold when you get that made this man? You made that man all that live little man? Because I was always young, because I've been loving music my whole life. So I took all my summer jobs, say my money go to concert, so I want to see the island. But I ain't had nobody with me then either. That was six dollars in the way in the hell I take. Though. The first time I saw O Jays was different, though I snucky in to see them. That was that was that? Yeah, that was on fifty fifth. There was at fifty fifth at Smitty's on fifty fifth and I rolled my bike down now and crawled in the basement and came upstairs and saw the o j Because my brother Nem went, my brother Nem went to see the concert. They told me I was too young to go. So I rolled my bike down and I crawled in the basement at Smitties and came up stairs in the back. Yeah, yeah, I got caught here. Yeah, I got called to dude, tell my mom kick your ass a little man. You know, my brother was over there, my brother's son, and my brother said, no, you're gonna put him out, but you're whooping his ass. Now I agree with you. He gonna go out of here. You ain't fitting whooping. That was my brother, not heavy and heavy say I'm gonna kill you. When I get at the house. I'm gonna tell mom and him you're down here. But I'd already heard three song. Come on, Wow, guess you've got your pusen meet him out. You are whoa bab Come on, you've got your hooks and me And then that went off, and then I was sitting there and then the little jess let me make love to your baby something standing back there with tears in mine and that's when a little bouncing Come on, little man, where your ticket at? Huh? Where your ticket at? Check your before I kick your look I looked over there, made I contact my brother, my brother, are you doing it? I'm feel to beat your No now, my man, no, no, you ain't f w with his hands. You can start to try to whop my my damn brother. Have it? Boy, said, okay, put your hand on that little dude right there when we get home on tail mom, alright, how you get down here my bike? I don't know if damn bike and ride her red riding down one twelve late at night, said to night, all right, thank you, thank you, je j ja. Let me make love to your dog. Come on, boy, I'll be good when we come back. Thank you. Sweet. That entertainment coming up next, it's the nephew and run that prank back. You're listening, Steve Harvey morning shout alright for eight minutes after that, welcome back to the ride. You on this going back down memory lane? Day for me? Many bob ro like concert ro. I when you see the gap band, man, how was that? I came in there as a cowboy with the hat on, in the boots best chaps, buckskin boots shirt with the shingles on it? Did they ever think you were in the group? I had on? Definitely head on the pole. Version of all my look made now all my little little man whole version of yeah yeah yeah, because you know it called my sister cousult. She wasn't the seamstress or nothing. She could just so like put a button on something and I would just press off. Put these shingles. I had took some stuff off my mom a pillow one time, had got told and I took the ring up round the pillar had them shingles on it, and I had I saw that across the front of my chest so I could head them. So I'll make my own Westernsurance. So I had pillar free and hanging off my ship. That was That was my Western Yeah, that was my you're a designer here, yeah, because I ain't had no money man, no money man. All right boy, all right, here we go. We're gonna running that prank back. This is a worker's come workers come. Yeah, Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach your vincent. Good please. Who's calling? My name? Is uh Ed from the human resources? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely, what's up? What's up? Well? Benc one of the first of all check on you. We know you're got injured here at the job. How are you doing so far. Yeah, man, I'm I'm making it. Man. You know, everything's cool and uh, you know, I don't know how long. The therapy is going pretty good though, but I'm not right. I'm okay, therapy is going pretty well. Yeah, it's they say, I'm doing all right. The pain level about maybe a fix still, but it's getting done it though. Okay, listen, Uh, have you been getting your your check on time? Yeah, I've been getting a man, and I appreciate it. But it really helps, man, because you know, I ain't able to work right now. They said it's gonna be a little while, so I appreciate that. Y'all the one defending the check, yes, sir, Yes, sir. We all want to getting the checks out and want to make sure that that's definitely getting there. So you're yeah, it's good. It's all good, man. I appreciate it. I appreciate it. Okay, let me we've got a bit of a problem that we wanted to check out. Now. You haven't been doing any any strainuous? Uh no, no, no, no, I ain't been. I ain't. I ain't been working at all, man. I just you know, I've just been taking it either. I can't do nothing really right now. And they told me I could do nothing, all right, and then you do know the rules are that you're not supposed to do anything to jeopardize your back. Correct, Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm straight. I'm straight. I ain't been doing nothing. Man. Okay, well, let me let me say this to you. We do have some um surveillance cameras that are showing us that you've you've been doing something straining with I ain't even been going nowhere. Come about surveillance cameras. I don't know how they go nowhere. Well, No, the the strainguous work that you're doing is actually at home. At home, I'll be inside. I don't I don't do nothing outside. I don't way, I don't even boby cue man, what you know what you're talking about? Streaming? Okay? Have you, uh, Vincent? Have you have you've been having have you been having sex at home? What's the kind of question? Who is this is just a supervisor or something we're kind of Let me talk to the superviller that ain't know your dam. I'm with human resources. I don't get man, excuse me, dog, but I don't mean disrespect you that because you're paying me you know looking out for me? Do I mean you can call me and and just say any common like that? Man? About have you been having kind of call you? Do you having sex at home? Save that? Ain't none of your business? Dollar? Have have I been having sex or not in it? What kind of mean? Let me talk? Who's your supervisor? Man, sir? I'm the supervisor here to human weren't wrong with my attention? And we actually have you on surveillance. You've been you've been having sex? Now you can download it. I know not you know hamers in my house? I know that? And and who are like that? Anyhow surveillance for me? You're not supposed to be having sex. You're is hurting? O mean you you even have a man? You've been you've been not having no damn camera? And my what's you're thinking about? Uh? You've been surbatus for me and having say that's a damn lie, sir? What's your name? What? What? What's your name? Man? Sir? And who ad because I'm look I'm kind of be nice. You're picking me off as you and her sir sir? Here it is and we find out. I'm gonna I'm giving you a warning. No I don't need them. I'm giving me your warning. You let me find a damn camera my house telling me I can't handle sex and all that I have spects if you're that is string you with work and you're putting it on your back and we're paying you, we're paying you a damn about what you're paying me and what you ain't paying me. You're gonna call my damn phone tell me talking about you gotta some Natan's camera and my house. That's okay, Well, sir, sir ben sick, let me say this to you. Don't what you don't need. You don't need to say nothing to me, but but last name and then you're supervisor name. That was okay, and you don't need to worry who the supervisor is. You need to make sure that there's no more sex going on until your back is healed. Look, you don't have to cut you out and hang up on your man. I don't have time for this man, y'all because y'all tell what y'all do, because y'all doing some people. Y'all think y'all can do illegal to talk to people. Crazy man, when y'all coming them, I don't appreciate that at all. Man, This is I don't know who y'all think you'll ears down there, y'all do something for them. I think y'all can just call them and say anything. Man. I don't like that, and I ain't trying to be disrespectful, but you've got me heated right now? Man? Is that not no cameras in my house? Did you understand that I'm gonna tell you once and one time only, no more sex what you put your talking about? I'm sorry, man, because I'll tell you one day that you think you're giving up some money. Now, I'm gonna see y'all I catch a camera up my house and you ain't know how never paid? Uh pay me no more? You're gonna pay me one big Checkdow. I'm shooting out of y'all. Now you understand that, I understand I need. I need you to understand one more thing. Are you listening to me? Man? You go aheah man, I'm y'all got me easy, man? And then after this here, don't even call me no more telling him because it's ridiculous. Okay. Are you familiar with letter man? Familiar with what? Literally? Do you know? Literally? You're coworking letter. Yeah, what about him? Literally got me the prank phone call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve arp and more than show Filson. But you've been play man, get out of here. Man, you're about to have me the lord talk about my check and man, No, man, what's up? Man? This is y'all. Have me going out? Man, y'all have me heed it. But I'm well, I'm gonna kicking. It's not to be calling that he on the phone. No, he ain't on the phone. Man, I'm sweating like a tom so I'm still getting my damn checked. That that's what that means. Y'all have be heated? Boy, I thought, what's up? Man? Nice and here from y'all. Man got me though, Man, y'all got me. I got one more question? Man, what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the last of course, no doubt. Man, it's a Steve Harvey Morning Show, always will be. Especially y'all don't got me like this year you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, as we go into the we move into the question of the day. We want to know what's your deal breaker? Okay, we've all been there, hot date, You're all fired up, looking good. Then something happens it's bad breath and knowing laugh and it's a psycho turns out to be a psycho date. You mean, sureley, what's the deal breaking for for leaving a date? Not a person, just leaving a date, or it could be or a relationship. Yeah, deal breaker moment can cause you to back away slowly, even if you're in a relationship. We want to hear what your deal breaker is? Okay? Call us eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, what is your personal no exception deal breaker? What's youah, you know, you know what? Oh yeah, non negotiable too there yeah, but yeah, I mean yeah, bad hygiene, bad teeth, all of that. Well, let's just say, let's let's let's make this the questions. Other than cheating, what's your deal breaker in a relationship? Other than cheating? We know, cheating, it's gone. You can't cheat on that. Yeah, well that goes without saying exactly. So, other than cheating, what's your deal breaker when you meet a man or a woman? When you meet a man or a woman, what's the deal breaker? Okay, that's the question. Eight seven seven, Steve, eight seven seven. Let's go to line five and talk to Denise out of New Jersey. Hey, Denise, Hi, what's up girl? How are you doing? All right? How are you doing? You know we're doing good. Denise got a nice voice, Denise, What is a deal breaker for you? If you're sitting there and you're dating a man, you meet him other than cheating, what is it that you just can't tolerate? It's over him taking a phone number? Him? What taking the phone number you mean of of someone else, of another woman? Yes, oh you're gonna let that come between us? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh if he takes another phone then yeah yeah what if what if you took the number he's gonna call and just pray for like be a pro warrior. Yeah, I'm not falling for that. Stupid pretty good that happen. Like I could take a guy's phone number and nothing's going to happen. But he the guy takes a girl's phone number. It's a it's a different story like the guys. Listen, listen. The guy that I took the number from he had intentions, but I had no intentions. He was just going to be somebody for me to talk to because me and my guy were going through something. Listen, I like, I like light skinned guys, okay, and this guy was darker than the black sox I'm wearing right now, and he was Honestly, he was not my He's not my cup of sea at all. I did. I was not attracted to him at all, but he was somebody to talk to. So there, no what that's time and tim I said that, no, no, oh no, no, I'm I'm white and I'm only attracted to black eyes, light skin, black eyes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, but Steve, Steve, you're all right, thank you, thank you. You don't have conversations with dog skin people. Shut your black ass up and kill you. Shut up, go ahead, head too. I know that's like I like, I like your Yeah, a lot of light skin. Ball don't don't don't. Yeah, And you're physically fit to you're in shape, you keep yourself nice. I like that. A lot of sisters is listening right now. I'm gonna stock he's losing cool points, sisters. I'm fine about his big lips. Oh, I like those two. Yeah, I'm just trying to throw you off a little bit. What about it, old big old white ass knows it got all right. Hey, everything is good about Steve. I'm sorry, Let's go back to this dog dog. You took the other guy's number. He was dog skinning, and and my guy got he got all bent out of shape about it, and I'm like, I don't understand. You see how this guy looks. He is nothing I would date in a million years. And you're getting all upset because men don't think like because because I wasn't taking the number to be with him. I was just taking the number because, like I said, me and me and me if my guy were going through something, and he was like just someone to talk to. Okay, but all black men and gonna react that same way he did. Light skinned, dog is shot, tall, fat, We're all gonna react the same way, the same way. You're all going to be mad. I took this ugly guy's number. Yeah, yeah, white and hispanic Asian. But then explain to me why that I'm not attracted to this guy. I wouldn't. I wouldn't. Well see he doesn't he doesn't well see he doesn't know that though he don't know that. Yeah, I could see if he looked like the Rock and I took his number. Okay, then I could see him getting upset, like, right, I wouldn't take the Rocks number because there's something would definitely happen. Oh, something would definitely happen, so I wouldn't take. Well, let me ask you a couple of questions. Let me throw a couple of people. How about Denzelle Denzel back in the day. Yes, definitely, he's just looking a little too old and lately. And I'm not young either. I got a thirty one year old son, so you have listen. I'm five foot no, I'm five foot four and four pounds. I wear a size six, and I am physically fit. I well, now about the day of dogs fault are also physically fit. Like if I'm physically fit, you need to be physically fit too. But now don't come at me with a belly. Okay, yeah, but see, hon't know. Now listen to if you five fold and adds if you're in a six, yes you you didn't. You don't pack a lot of stuff in this six now, yes? Kay? Alright, alright, okay, okay, I got you, I got you. Okay, So okay, let me ask your question. If you were a celebrity. Which celebrity do you closest resemble? See, I can't, honestly, I can't think of anybody that at my age as good as I do, like physically, like my my, my shape, it's just like your face. Listen. Okay, okay, hold hold on, hold on, I help you out. I'll help you out. How old I have blonde hair? I'm going to be fifty this month, you're gonna be fifty. Okay, jay Loo, She's Spanish. I'm white with blond hair and green eyes. Jennifer Anison, I'm I'm more attractive than pretty. I think she's pretty. You know, I'm saying there's a difference between somebody that's pretty and some of the that's track. What is what? What is the difference? Because I don't know that Mu's pretty? Yeah, pretty pretty attractive? Yes, only do pretty. It's like cute. Pretty is like cute. I'm a good looking person. I'm attractive. Oh you're not cute though I know I'm not. I'm not. I'm not like the pretty type. Yeah, I love trucks at you ps. You know what I mean? Pretty girls don't do that. Oh, but I'm not. I'm not lesbian looking or butch looking or anything like that. All y'all have been thinking someone wrong with you. Just stay tuned because you're gotten to feel a little bit better about yourself. And now, all right, hang on a second, Steve, we're gonna take a break right here and then coming when we come back, we're gonna continue our conversation with Denise. All right, hang on, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. I taught me back eighteen minutes after that. We're gonna finish you with Denise. It's interesting, it's interesting. One more time. Go see the movie get Out Man. Please Denise, but listen, let me tell you. I want to tell you this real quick. About two weeks ago, there was a young black boy that worked at UPS. He was twenty two years old, and he wanted to sleep with me. He was begging me to sleep with him, and I was like, listen, my youngest son is your age. My oldest son is thirty one, and I have two in between there I am. He's like, come on, please, come on, I'll bring some wine to work. We can drink it in the park a lot. I'm like no. And he was a good looking He was a good looking boy. Too, he really was. It was about if it was about thirty years ago, I might have I might have went for it, but right, yeah, but you did think about it though. Well, you know, I walked by one day and he lifted his shirt up to make like he was wiping face, and he showed me his like abs and stuff. Yeah, and it melted you. It was cold in the building. He wasn't sweating. I don't know why he did that. He just wanted me to see what he had. And you know I did for a split second. I know you did. Yeah, just I know you wanted him because interesting though it would it would be I know it, girl, who are you telling? You know? Because you know what I'm saying. If he caught feelings and then his mother probably would have come here and it just would have been and that would have been all out had and that didn't happen. So you already know not to be called na trip because with them a little young as boys started catching fielding, didn't hear a mama code that happened you haven't been happened before. Now. She didn't been in the fight down there at the plan exactly had all that I'm telling y'all did what I do. Let me tell y'all the key to these phone calls is listen. If you let listen, you can hear the story. You can you can help him unfolded. You can unfold the napkin phone him and asked him why he was so attractive to me because he like he like light light, light skin. Yeah, that what with him? You need to go see the movie out because I'm gonna tell you so, like, let me ask you a question, like, let me see like in dress elbow? No, no, no, no, there's too much like his features. I don't like his features. You don't like Blair Underwood. Um, he's got a nice body. He has a really nic body. So probably I wouldn't I wouldn't take his number. Yeah he is, he is, but you know they're there are always exceptions. Okay, but this guy was out of tape Westley Night. She's like Michael Elias. How about how about how about how about westlest Night? No? Absolutely not no, no, you set codo. How about the dude, the big man dingle dude. And I'm a dale oh Jiman Hansu jim hun And you mean I don't know? Yeah, I what he meant? He used to be a Calvin Klein underwear model married to h Yeah, you said, but you meant no, I'm mean always using the wrong words. You have your crew there to help you out. I know, I don't worry about the wrong Yeah, I said, Miss Columbia to find that often. One baby dumbass went right on out there the other day though, and then winter a la la. Yeah, okay, how you like me? Now? You know how? I know you are right to see because my parents are racist and they love you, not just parents. Just what a revelation you love. That's what I'm talking about. That's that's see. I told you they don't really like me too much because of my choice and men, so we really I don't think too often. But you know, yeah, bet not take his ass over to the house. Huh. And I was just saying, because you can't take none of them over to the house. It's always it's always a problem. They're always you know, it's just it's not worth it. You should so about that. You should have a show about that. They have a lot of shows about that. Yeah. Yeah, it is ridiculous, Hell yeah it is. But they like they counted me out thirty years ago. Once I got pregnant at biracial baby. They're like, you know what, you gotta go once you have the babies, because we can't have any chocolate babies in this house. That's right here, Yeah, sitting in him, because I was thinking about I shall appreciate it. You know, I was gonna have all the dark sky and people put out my family. I'm not having it. I told I told my daddy when I was eight, I didn't want his ass coming up to the school. Don't you come up here and see about me setting up in him with your interests open looking as I ain't give a damn. You ain't family. They didn't put you out here. I'm gonna put mine out now. Let's just all be funky together. That's right, you know what you're being like. I'm gonna call Wesley and I'm a tail Western, take my number. I chilled, damn, chill dog. Well this has been interesting. He's not dark, He's not you know, he's like middle Jeffrey Harrington. I'm the hands and have not. I don't know if you guys watch that. Oh yeah, okay, black as watching. I'm watching. I'm gonna tell you right now, I don't watch none of chel I don't watch none of that, but I only watch white chill. I'm not gonna shut up in here. I'm not gonna do it. No, you're not You're black one. We gotta go. Yeah, we have to talk to her again. Yeah we do, Denise ye wonderful dollar. Thanks for calling. We dog, You're welcome, Steed. I love you, guys. Pay black now. I love him to tell him keep watching family feud, I will. I will, but tell him though, if some of the families is gonna be dogs, kid, you're listening to show what they already still early, We're gonna go to the phone. All hell. Yeah. The topic is we want to know what your deal breaker is in a relationship. What will you not? Yeah, y'all got eight seven sevens. You just got to learn I'm too dark. That's a deal breaker. You knew not to talk? He was quiet, shut chocolate. Ask when you're talking in you way past calm, so call us eight seven seven twenty nine. All right, as we go into this, we move into the question of the day. We want to know what's your deal breaker? Okay, we've all been there, hot date, you're all fired up, looking good. Then something happens. It's bad breath and knowing laugh and it's a psycho deal breaker moment can cause you to back away slowly, even if you're in a relationship. We want to hear what your deal breaker is, Okay call us eight seven seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, what is your personal no exception deal breaker? And Mr Harvey? Hello, third, Hey, what's up? And how you doing? Man? I am doing well? Good morning Morning show. You know, I actually I didn't want to take a moment real fast into Harvey that your morning in wanting answer is actually the highlight of the show. No offense all of you guys, but your morning information. It's like almost Bibble said it to me, and I'm still stuck on when when he was like, if you pray for gratitude, it will then affect your attitude with the raise your altitude. I'm still lying on that right now. So I'm just very very grateful that you're in the morning on my commute, and I'm kind of mad that you're not in Calu you no more, But you know, I got to see you like a like a day later. But that's better than nothing. That's Okay, I appreciate you man, no problem. So because answer the topic at hand. One of the deal breakers to me is lyne because you know, everyone makes mistakes, but it really all offends. And once you do after that mistake, that makes a difference. And and and like my case, it uh takes a different kind of person to be wrong and and know you're wrong and admit to that wrong not knowing what the album is gonna be. So if you tell the truth, anybody could make it through anything you work together. So talk about Yeah, you know, line ain't no deal break for me. I adn't take a little lot. Yeah, I had a girl told me in college she loved me. I stayed with it for a whole Yeah, I know, good, Well I shouldn't you really feel strongly about me? Every time I came over that she went damn. But if somebody's like, you know, was gonna cheat on you or do you like know whatever? And to to the truth, you know, I mean, cheating is still cheating, It's still gonna be hard. But to tell the truth about it, what I mean knowing that might be more apt to me to say okay, but I might feel say no, but just a better. You know better. Look, I appreciate that, man. Good. Look, appreciate everything you said to stay up. Man, No problems. You don't have blood. I tried. We come back. We got prank phone call. Don't go on the well you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, coming up, y'all top of the hour. We fact we got Strawberry leader, but a nephew. What you got doctor's visit? Uh? Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a Roger Belton place. He's not here. May take a message. Um, My name is uh Mark, ma'am. I'm calling from the clinic from Dr Robert Good music down. Hold on, I'm sorry to say that again. Okay, can you hear me? I can hear you now. I'm trying to reach Roger. He's not here. Okay. I'm calling from from the clinic from Dr Robert's office and trying to get some information to him. When do you know when you actually be in? No? Actually I don't. Um is everything okay? Uh? Well, you know everything's fine? I mean not nothing. I can't be handled. But um we we're trying to actually get some information to him so that he can actually come back in for the results. Okay, well I don't I don't know when I can. He's supposed to be here now, I'm not sure when I can tell you you're gonna be back. Okay, I'm sorry I didn't ask you earlier. Man, who am I actually speaking with? This is his girlfriend? Uh and your name is Okay? So uh Jan? You don't you said you don't know, you know, you don't have an idea when he'll be back. No, you it's trying to make me kind of get a little concerned though, No, no, no, wow, Okay, I'll tell you what. This is the number that he actually loved us to give him a call on his results, and we're not getting an answer. I don't have another number on hand. Do you have any specific time I can actually call back and maybe I'll get him again. I'm you're making my my stomach is getting nervous right now? What what is what is the problem? Well, actually you know what his man is. Mr Rogers came in for to take a few tests, and he took some tests and we actually have the results in and we'd actually really like for him to come back. Anything about I'm sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you, but I don't know anything about any tests. He hasn't told me anything about going to a clinic or anything like that. I see, So what kind of test are you talking about? Well, I mean, I'm I'm not really not at liberty to give you any kind of information unless you're actually on the paperwork. So you know, it's not even something that I can just us unless the patient has signed off that you are the next of kin or the person that can we can actually give the information to you. Do I do? And I'm pretty certain, I mean the way we operate in this house, so I'm pretty certain that that I'm on the paperwork, so would be Um, we pull up Roger stuff on computer here and I'll see what I give me one second, please, Okay, okay, let's see now, let me scroll down for next of kin. Okay, I got a Janie. That is me. I mean everybody called me jam, but that's me Janice. Wow. Okay, sell me your name again? I'm sorry, what's your name again? Mark? Mark? Like I said, I'm the clerk here at Dr Robert office. I guess I am at liberty to tell you what's going on. Mr Roger came in and took some STD test st D yes, and I guess at this point I should just maybe both of you guys should come in and wait a minute, everybody and everybody we can find no no, no, no, no no no. I need you to finish what you were just saying. Well, that's what I'm saying. Man. What has happened is he's been diagnosed with UM as well as you gotta be kidding me. You have got to be kidding me. I'm not hearing this, I am not. Do you do you understand what that means? Do you understand that he lives in my household? Do you understand that that means that he has been dipping somewhere else? Because I have been not doing anything that would even come close to bringing something to him like that. So it's how parent that this man has been outside of my household and doing when he has no business doing and bring it back in. Man. I'm not I'm not at liberty to making any accusations like that. I cannot say anything like that. All I can say is I'd like for both of you, you know, it'd be good for both of you guys to come in and because tell you about it. This is something treatable it is curable. Um, I don't care about it being treatable or curable. What I care about is the fact that he apparently has been somewhere it with some trick and brought something back home to my household. That's what I care about. I do understand that, Mr Jannis, I do, but you have to understand my position on what I'm trying to do. I'm just trying to reach it out and and well, listen, you happen to call my household. You just happened have to be on the end on the other side of it. I'm sorry you're getting most of it. But I tell you what what you need to do is you need to make him an appointment and I will meet him there. He will be wait wait, wait, wait when he wait a minute, I'm sorry. You need to make him an appointment to come out to take a look at these results you're talking about, and guests who will show up at the door before he gets there. Me that's I think next kid. Wouldn't better for you just to tell him what's going on. Since you know this is the plan you need to give him. You need to give him a call and to give you a cell phone number. Okay, I got it. Okay, you call him and set a twelve new an appointment. Trust me when I tell you, when he walked through that door, see my face, he will know. Okay, Mr mis Chellas, I'm not trying to create to let Mr Roger know that we need him to come actually into the building. Could give to about the call. All I know is you make that appointment. I would get there before he gets there and his own I'm telling you that's how it's gonna wrong. Do you understand me? Ms Ms Jellings. I can't allow any chaos to be going on in the building. I cannot allow that because you're created. Let me tell you something. I don't care. I could care less about what you feel about it and what you can and can't do. All I'm telling you is you called my I call looking for Mr Rogers. You called his suit to be white correction correction sud to not be white. I got one more thing I do need to tell you, though you know what I can't deal with another thing. I swear to God don't tell me anything out, but I do have a make your appointment. That's all I care about. You make you make your point, But I need you to ask to somebody when you come to the clinic. I need you to ask for one person and then they will take care of you. Who do I need to ask for us? Okay, you need to ask for nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show, because that's who I am. You just got branked by your husband Roger. You know what, Tommy, I listened to you. Everyone know. Oh my goodness, I am so embarrassed. And wait till I see right all right? Oh my god, I am, I am all. I'm done. I'm done. I can't believe you. I got I got one more thing. I gotta asked. What is the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show in the land, the one I wake up to every morning, the Steve Harby Morning Shows. Name to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It's that time. It's that time. Buckle up and hold on tights. Wellberry letter, Subject, this one's a mess right here. Subjects oh the tangled web we weave. Just Steven Shirley, please help. My boyfriend and I have had this on again, off again relationship for years. When we're together, we really have the best times. When our relationship is on the rocks. It's really on the rocks. I am a thirty seven year old with four kids. I am thirty seven years old with four kids. I am through having children, but my boyfriend is thirty eight years old with no kids. He wants me to have a child with him. But I've had all the children I want. My oldest is fifteen years old and my youngest is nine. After nine years, the baby factory is closed. This man has a six figure income and provides well for me and my kids. I know he would make an awesome father, but I just can't do it. We had a huge argument over the issue and we broke up about four weeks ago. I missed him so much that I did a very stupid thing to get him back. I told him I just found out that I was pregnant again. He was so excited that he bought me a one and a half carrot diamond ring and promised and proposed to me in front of my entire family at my parents recent fiftieth year anniversary party. I've been faking morning sickness and everything. Each night he kisses my stomach and tells me that I won't be sorry that I've made him the happiest man on earth. I can't hide a fake pregnancy forever. I'm hoping to continue bonding with him and fake a miscarriage. My hope is that we will be married and he will continue to stay with me afterwards. I know that I have entangled myself into a web of lies, but I don't know how to get out of it. What do I do? Signed web of lies? I promised you this one was really. This is a man, I mean, this is this is beyond stupid. It's just a real soap opera. You know, why are you doing this to this man, this good man, this man who takes care of you and your family. Tell this man the truth? Uh, this is so selfish, so cruel, This is just ridiculous. I say, tell him right now, tell him no more kids. Tell him the truth. You don't want any more kids. You've written it so beautifully, so plainly here for us. Let this man go on about his way and get somebody that does want to have children with him. All this lying and cheating and more in sickness and deceding, conning and faking and shaking that you're doing. Who are you, I mean, who can carry out a lie? Like this, What kind of person are you? And if this is the way you get a man? I really feel sorry for you, lady, I really really do. I just say, tell him the truth. You owe him that. And if he leaves, he leaves, and he's gonna leave you, Steve, or he should leave you. Question, are you crazy? That's really what this latter should be entire Am I crazy? The answer to this right away is yes, something is deeply wrong with you. I'm gonna tell you something about me and that you may not have filtered into your little plot. I know someone else who's pulled the same thing, and it's living in the life of misery right now. I have seen it with my own eyes. Listen to me. You have blown it. I don't know how you can fix this one. You have really, really blown it. You have faked a pregnancy, gotten this man excited. This is all he ever wanted. He's so excited that you would give him what he wanted that he's now giving you what you wanted a wedding day, which is what you want. In front of your family at your mom and daddy's fiftieth wedding anniversary, big moment for them, big moment for everybody happy happen everybody in that crime. Mama can't believe your luck that after folk kids, you didn't finally find a man that's willing to take you and all of yours. Oh man, oh man, oh man. Now you get in an argument, tell him you ain't having no more kids. Y'all break up again, because this is the one thing that's obviously a deal breaker for him. So to get him back, you tell him you're pregnant. He come back, get your ring. Now your plan now he is to fake a miscarriage. In this letter said, you've been faking morning sickness every morning and everything. Each night he kisses my stomach and tells me that I won't be sorry. Let me tell you something about men. Once you take a man this far, he kissing your stomach. See, we have been bought into the thing. Now. So now Charley's telling you the truth. You have to tell the truth. But I must tell you this. When you tell the truth, you have a major problem. You think that if you play this miscarriage out, my hope is is that we will be married and he will continue to stay with me afterwards. That's where you don't know men, Because let me ask you something. What is about to make this man stay with you after he finds out you to faked him, after he find out you to lie to him, and after he finds out you evil because what you'd have done is evil? Now, what's gonna make him stay with you after that? Because I've seen me and drift off for a whole lot less reasons. You have given him the reason to drift off. Good luck with that decision. You really are an idiot. We'll be back with more for the idiot when we come back, all right after the break at eighteen after the Hour, A Part two of Steve's response to today's Crazy Strawberry letter. We'll be back. You're listening to Steve. We're back were black all right right after? You know what? This letter is so field, with so much triflesness. Um, I'm not even dealing with the fact, man, that you don't want to have a child, which is your absolute right. You're a woman, You're the one got to carry it and do all the work. You have every right not to want a child, and everybody got to understand your wants. Well in this case right here has created a dilemma for you. But that don't still take you away the right that you have as a woman, the right of choice to even decide to be pregnant or not. Okay, so now that you've decided not to get pregnant, to get this man back, you don't fake the pregnancy. Now, this man that bought you a ring, proposed in front of your whole family, kissing your stomach at night, he go the devil men in it. Now you're gonna fake a miscarriage. Wow, So now you're feel to toss this guy down the hill with your baby dead. That's that's what you're fel to do. So okay, ho ho, we're having a baby which we ain't really having. Hey, the joy, the ring, the ceremony, the stomach kissing. Now your solution to fix this is I'm gonna fake the baby's death. That's what you're gonna do. Okay, come on, I mean really, that's what that's what we're talking about here. You know, I could dress it up for you can call it something cute miscarriage, uh, malfunctioning, uh, interpretation of life, the bitterness of life. You're gonna fake the baby death, that's what you're gonna do. Now, how do you what medical procedure doctor paperwork? Can you provide for this man who is gonna want to stand by you during this miscarriage and possibly go to the doctor with you. I'm assuming you're gonna have a miscarriage while here at work, and then that's just gonna be the end of it. And then he gonna say, well, let's go talk to somebody to see what happened. And then what you're gonna do? See, you gotta tell some mola's in here this you really? Now, you gotta have your uncle Willie come in and act like here m D when really all he do is drank m D. See you you really fit running yourself into something right here? You really? You really you're a trip lady. The best thing for you to do is get out of this now and just tell him, look, I'm not really pregnant. I wanted you back. I'm sorry. That's you have to you have to. You have to tell the truth. That's nothing wrong with that. You have to tell the truth. I'm sorry, I lied forgive me and hope it can go from now. But if you go into this fake miscarriage, you you you're doubling your walls. We'll be back. You try and get pregnant. We'll be back. I don't know, won't to all right? Today's Strawberry Letter is posted on Steve Harvey dot com. It is always You can tweet or instagram me your thoughts at my girls Shirley coming up after the break at thirty four after we're going to the phone, you're listening to Steve Harvey thirty four minutes at that. We want to know what your deal breaker is. If you're out on a hot date, are you dating somebody? You're all fired up, looking good, something happens. What is it that's a deal break up for you? Eight seven seven twenty nine. All right, let's go to line four and talk to Chevelle out of North Carolina. Hey, Chevelle, Hey, what's going on? Ll man? Let me tell you something. My boy had a Chevelle. I wanted one so bad? Is that a car? Oh? Yeah? My nickname that works is heavy ship that. Hey, let me ask something, Chevelle, other than a man cheating? What's a deal breaker in a relationship for you? I mean, you know, like, if you meet a man and you find out this, what's a deal break? Let's see other thing to do? Oh? If he ain't working. That's a deal break. Come on head and chev yo. No romance without the findings, that right. I like that. You gotta have a job. I'm not mad at where you live. Where it's called a hot Is that out of Is that out of side of Columbia? No, it's outside of you. Okay. I'm forty five minutes from Suffix, Virginia. I'm like two hours away from Roley, three hours from greens Borrow. Oh you're on the north side. Yeah, okay, I never heard of that. I missed that. What what route come through that? Thirteen eleven? You way off in there? Age? Yeah? What did that come down to the party? You gotta get on something else? Yeah, let me ask something girl. Do it? Good? Lord, g P come do it? Go over to the n do it? Can you come off the Yeah, you can come up on ninety. Are you planning on visiting there anytime? I just trying to get a good idea where it is, because huh sounds like well, I just like no way at first, because if I'm coming down south and then when I get to do I get to eleven or thirteen first you're gone, and then I get off and then I must let me see, I get off the freeway and I go right right, Okay, I know where it is. Now. Y'all got a dad queen. Yeah, we have a dairy queen. But William m hm. See this is how y'all know walk off through this. But I'm just trying to tell you this is how small it is to another. Let okay, let me let me let me say this to you. To traffic lights and three stop signs. Yeah we got that, got you that? How far you got to drive to the Walmart? I'm only ten minutes from Walmart, but it's in the city limits on the outside. Who who all? Who all come there? So y'all go there? Who are Walmart? So we get a lot of people? Okay, well who what? What's what you're drawing from? Because y'all ain't got enough people on the Okay, some more town's gotta come. I know it's small, but they ain't putting no super Walmart in there for a small town. Do people come down from suffing business to um the green barroom? We would go like the Greenville rocky down. Now, let me ask you something, Greenville, Have you been to the attic down now? Open in the attic I passed body, but I never been. I know the point of sisters. You should perform in there. That's what I'm trying to tell you. That's why the concert I was in there two weeks after roof Nil was in there. It's a pleasure to finally to y'all. Girl. That's why I'm spending time with you, because you the only want gonna get in from that little last time, right, anybody else from there ever get every single day, Chevy, you know you called an ignorant show. You do know that, don't you? Every morning? Thank you? We appreciate your girl, Thank you so much for having show at all. Yes, baby, we're George you waye mo thing you enjoying us? All right, Chevy, have a great day. Alright, Ladies and gentlemen, keep the calls coming. We love them. Uh. When we come back, we're gonna tell you who's heading up the Essence Festival. Kevin Durant is out and the Nicki minaj Remy my Beef is Oh it's way out of control. Now we'll be back. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show, all right? Coming up next, Uh, we're gonna tell you who's headline the Essence Festival, and then Shirley got some most of Durant is out for the regular season. Durant Kevin Durant's man. I hate to see these cats get injured, man, but they said he could be back before the seasons. Over to him. Shirley got some most of Yeah, that remy my Nicki minaj thing out of control. We'll talk about it right after this. All right, we want to say, yet again, congratulations to Chant the Rapper. He's gonna make his Essence Festival debut as a headliner, all right. He's gonna be there along with the Boss, Diana Ross, Mary j of course, and John Legend. Fans can also see Mr P b J, the Chicago Kid, Jasmine Sullivan, Jill Scott, our Girl Mystical, Carla Mystical. Don't do that when she says this because it's Crane. That's gonna be nice though, Yeah, super don't. All right, here we go. Two thousand fourteen n v A m v P. Kevin Durant, who of course signed with the Warriors this past summer. Kevin suffered a knee injury. This one's pretty bad. Great to mcl sprain and tibial bone bruise is what he has and that will keep him out for a while. Wow Steven teammates, Yeah, one of his teammates. I did that. I saw it. I mean, I love the boy man. I don't want nobody to get hurt. I want everybody else fool speed. I want everybody on the flow. So whoever we're in, ain't nobody injury. Let's go. You got to come through Cleveland. That's what all this is about. You got to that baby, no questions asked about it. I heard he was in a wheelchair and everything. Kevin Durant. Yeah, we'll get on out. Well, chill, I don't want to hear it. Come on, don't suppressed this. Well. You know when Cleveland lost, we love you know was hurt. You know all injuries and party game. But I don't want to rent hurt because a little brother. I don't want no player hurt. I want these boys stay healthy up fools be. But when he come back, when he all that whatever is playoff. Let's get at it. I'm okay talking. Yeah, I get better, Kevin. Okay, here's this other story. This thing is so ugly and out of control right now, this remy man, NICKI Minaj Feu. This beef they've they have, it's really gotten out of hand, all right. I mean you got distracts, you've got dating rumors, you've got fake fear, fake rear in accusations. It's just ugly. You know, a lot of celebrities are commenting on it. Actress Vivica Fox is not she's she is not here for women beefing with each other. She does not want to have that, okay. Instead of feuding, Vivica says that women should work together and make that money. She says, womy Remy is amazing and she's an o G, so you have to give respect. She says, I just don't like that when you see them beefing against each other. I believe there's room for both of them. You'll get it together and make this money. That's you know, the song I'm all the Way Up Tara Squad All the Way Up. Yes, she's on that show on that song with Fat Job, and it was nominated for a Grammy this year. Yeah, uh huh. It was show Me a Picture of Monica and she's on Love and Hip Hop, the New York version of that franchise. But the one I'm saying that then you got a fake butt con well yeah, really saying that about Nikki and oh that's a cool trick. Yeah, whatef bro It goes on the way back to so like two thousand seven before really mine went to prison and they would dis in each other with the long Ye she was in prison for like six years. She got into it with a woman that worked with her, right, one of her employees, over some like three thousand dollars or something. I think that she thought the woman from yeah that woman, yeah, yeah, but yeah, we're not clear exactly how this one started or something. I think one of them thought someone said something about her or something and then escalated into this fuge. It was a beef before that though, was something I've been beefing with a lot of people. Ain't shotting on him anyway. Ladies, please get it together. We love you both, all right, Yeah, I'm with Vivica. Get it together. Ladies. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time to go back to the phones. We do want to know. Here's a question of the day. What is your deal breaker? We have all been there on a hot date in a relationship. You know you're in it you're looking good for your date. You're all fired up. Something happens. I don't care if it's bad, breath, you, your partners. You's always been a deal breaker for me. What steve my entire life? What if she smokes? Oh yeah, smoking is definitely woman smoke. I've never dated a woman who's smoke. Yeah, not cool. You can't small to a lot of women that smoke. Yeah yeah, but once they turned around with that cigarette, man, I just I lose it. Yeah yeah, not that they would have dated me anyway. I'm just saying they probably turned around the blue to smoke in my face. Getting about your junior. What's the turn off for you? What's your deal me? I'm easy you any one I was trying to now not doing thank h I'm a right. If you like me, I like you. I just had to deal with the cos plan. Okay, anything everybody needs somebody loved one of your eyes. Ain't working with that. Put their glasses on, let's ride out. There's hope, there's I clearly don't have it all together. I have no room to be. No one's perfect. You know what a deal? But a girl with sunglasses on a long time ago, she's pretty cute. Okay, took the glasses off. I didn't know where to stand out with you. I'm trying to talk to and make eye contact. I kept walking around the circle, just ke circle. I was just trying to what your eyes. I was targeting me. I cannot what about it? Man lives with his mama? No, no, no, no, no, no no no you miss wives and earnest and hey, did we get the nephews? Did we get your deal? Brecord y'all already? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. That should be everyone. That should be number one on everyone's list. M And I can't stand a raggedy mouth? What is that? What is dead? Okay, we get it? Wow, alright, Well that's the question. What's your deal breaker? What is your personal personal no exceptions deal breaker? Call us eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. Let's go to line three and talk to Maryland out of d C. Hey, Maryland, Hey, Steve, how are you okay? Good? How you doing? Maryly? What's going on? And a whole lot going on? I'm just it's just a pleasure to be able to speak to you. You truly a man of God. I enjoy your radio show, your talk show. Family, You I almost none of that. We all made mistakes in the past. But Mr Hawk, I want to say this you nobody's cool. Those are haters. They are haters. They don't know about God because God says we must forgive Stepny times, Stepny time seventies. They don't mean you're no good. They're not your friends your friends, and you ain't not you you in you are you're not getting that your time? I like you like that? Right? No, No, it's you are. You are saying what is the proper way to say? Anyway? Right? I want to thank you many. Let me ask you a question, though, Marylyn, what is the deal breaker for you? If you dating somebody and talking to somebody, what what could they do or say that's a deal breaker other than cheating. I have no respect to his mother. Oh wow, that's a good. Yeah. But if you don't respect your mother, how are you gonna respect me? So you don't have a cut card, because if you would rip your mother's head on, while you wouldn't rip man you want to gave birth to you? Come on, so you cut my head off, you cut hers off as well? So will any man don't care about his mama can't really care about another woman. Correct, you can't. That's a true statement. Yet to meet one. I know a dude that's had a uh what do they call it? U dysfunctional log tumultuous relationship with his mother. This dude, they've never been able to keep a woman. You can't do that because, man, you can't get on with your mama, dog and you're a man. You can't respect her. You don't respect me. Your mother is the first woman that can be wrong in your life, and you just gotta be okay with it. Hello, mama, want to go swimming today? You ain't going down there? Mama? Why because I said so? Damn ask me why? But now I said, I'd be mad at my mama. But that's my mama. Can't go down now. That's right, Thank you, Marilyn. All right, when we come back from the break at eighteen after the hour, Pastor Motown Deacon deaf Jam Yes, what Steve, if you got bad feet? Oh really, you go Eddie Murphy and boomerang man, if you've got bad feet? Yeah, what's bad feet? Like corns and bunions or deal with that? That comes from hell? Okay, yeah it does, especially but your toes can't be shooting off in different directions and unidentified with both of your Both of your toe nails need to resemble one another. I have another one over there. I can't stand if you've got a big, giant baby toe, just as bigger than the big stick. All about the straps on the shoe. Man, I saw a girl crossed the leg got a club man shels from spaghetti strap shoes. Her baby toe looked like a throne, like it was having conversations with people at the ball. Baby toe, Haad is only drinking everything. You're listening. We come back after this. Steve has more on his deal breakers. Lord Jesus who We'll be back the back of your hell yeah, back of the hair got to be together. Oh yeah yeah. You can't walk off and I go the kitchen part you know, yeah yeah yeah yo yo yo, walk to me and walk away. Got to be the same. Yeah, I like to. I mean that falls under a groommate. Woman gotta have her hair together, even if it's a natural hairstyle. It's got to be pretty. Yeah, gotta be pretty. This lady working this clinic, Me and my wife go to man her froby. Nice man, I know, I know a girl guy hell on her back. That's that's I don't like. That's not sexy. But you do like a wide back though. You always like a wide back, though not like a wide like he like a woman back looked like a van. I'm out of just open to do. Yeah, I mean you don't like broth. It's like opening two dolls suicide, big old b off back look like the president gent so sweet at the hotel back, wide back, okay, woman good? But tell me what this fascination with that? Tommy, you always say that. I don't know. I just like a wide back. It's wide, gotta have your hands done. Yeah, okay, yeah, I don't do that. You know, if you do everything, I ain't with all that. That's something you mean like polish, some sort of poloshy. I don't like all that all natural. You don't want to do polish. You can't do no polish and no per Come on, now, come on, I need something, Give me something you can y'all do A female with a with a goal too, Yeah yeah, I can't. I need it before Well, that's all like it like me at the time, like I ain't hand the money I had to go with like men. You know, had initials in it. I was cool. I don't know, forget a name. I had her initials in the gold. Yeah, you didn't know. You didn't get that in there? Oh? Sure? Are you with the two booze? Okay? I just need that. Yeah, okay, you know you ain't saying initialship, name A B and the gold to go to a B. Yeah, or the Martini glass, the Martini glass, you know, let's throw back. Okay, I forgot about that girl. Yeah, hell no, you ain't no where to. I don't get what it was. I couldn't have took her to my mama's house gold to so what she want to be? A man? Only man's get gold teeth. Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama, Mama. I'm writing the drug deal in here. Everybody got gold teeth and the drug dealing. They are the ones I know it is poking. Tell drugs, class little boy, brother tell sale drugs. He said, brother sale drug All of them got gold teeth. Don't bring them in here. We come back from the break at thirty four after the hour back to back, big back Jams, Tommy back wide back jams. You're listening to Steve Hardy Morning Show. Thirty four minutes after that, let's get to these back to back jams. Come on, cat, I try to stay with we come back. We're gonna have time for just one more thing. Hang on, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, try when we come back, this is it. We got time for just one more thing one month, all right? All right about deal breaking? Yeah, that was the question of the day, Tommy. Yeah, big big panis. I can't do big drawls. I can't. It's got to be throns. I cannot do big drawls. Well, that's too much with too personal. We don't care. I don't nobody want big drawls. That's just it's just so unattracted. So you like big backs, but you don't think, yeah, big draws, go with big backs. Do you think fit in fide back and Thorne? What big honey have on? Do you always wore throne? There wasn't. Let's just start off with come oh that was they was bloomers. It's just at about three steps because I want, yeah, big draws, man, but you're like wide backs. That doesn't make any sense. I don't want you to come. Wide backs is fine, but big drawls kills it, don't. I tell you something else. I don't like a woman that cusses in call. Both of us can't be sitting up in here. That's one of those double standards. Yeah, I'm cussing already, So already, you guys can't be sitting over there. You ain't got no damn vocabinet. You got the same damn vocabulary I got. This ain't gonna work. I'll tell you something else. That's a complete turn off. I don't like women that slab. If we're talking and you just started slab, I just want what. Who does it mean? They're just drilling the club by the met all kind of women just sitting over there. It's just slobbing. Okay, maybe they were drunk. I don't know. We'll close your mouth, do something. I don't know what you need. Woman that slobbers, Okay, yeah, I can see how that would be a deal break for sure. What that's not? That's not cute, right, I see it at all? If what you're just saying, my cord popped out, my head said. We're still reeling over what you said. Yeah, I don't like slobbing, like okay, alright, I really don't like tommy. You know what happened when we on the road. I meet a lot of older women. So a deal breaker for me is me and your age, Me and your son can't be the same age. We just can't. Because she meet me and she said this, my son he got he got a full go t too. But he's looking at you like my mom my, mom my, mom no no, sun. Yeah, I don't. I don't like. I don't like the eyebrows cut off and then you drew drew on back on there. That that scares me. That has always been a stick well that could be fixed. Though. You're gonna break up? It raining your ex question you got washed off? I'll flog. Yeah, all of a sudden, it rain. Now she just suddenly shut. Time you look at her, it looked like she's saying, huh, your eyebrows, Hell, your eyebrows. Boy, this is an ignorant list right here, big big white bags slobbering D yeah, D is a complete huh you mean girl? I met this girl mouth about twenty too. Man. She was fine. We were talking and she kept pushing her teeth back. She said, I'm sorry. I had an accident when I was young and it just ruined my whole mouth. So I wear dentes. Dentes, well, I don't know how to handle this, handle it. You didn't have any sympathy for us. I wasn't driving the car. Well, maybe they she just needed an adjustment, or they didn't fit her mouth properly. She need to get them fixed, cause we're talking. And you started pushing them back up in there slide. I kept looking at I kept damn keep pushing her teeth, and I just saw come a little bit too far. She was talking to got something, just got black teeth. How you just talking and all of a sudden you got buck teeth, didn't back. Yeah, I'm just standing at her. I had no idea it was dentes. So I'm stand out and I don't know what to say in your life. But the whole time we're we're eating, my lips ain't touching at all. That's how I'm looking at her. A deal break. Now, let me just play something to you. As soon as we get through it. This me and you have seen the last of me. I'm not over your house. And I look over there on the nightstand, and there in the job no wonder, I said, good lord, I hear you, girl. Oh I see what was happening. Your breakfast wasn't break getting desserted as soon as this meal over me and you is too. What were you saying, Junior? What I don't like a woman got more muscles than me. Know, we we get busy and you flip me up when you won't want no, sir, I want you not easy to over? Why is my lead going up? What is this shut up having to do her voice? She's got muscles, might man, it might okay, alright, boy, I love you. Guys are picking and the muscles slobbery though I'm not over that one. So was that the ditches girl? She would just be talking and all of a sudden she would just go and then you know what, I just became talk time because the teeth was slipped to the front. That's when I knew Todd noticing, well it's about that time because we haven't take no more. Can have a nice weekend? Damn talk fix, I mean talk to your money. Yeah, I talk to you Monday, y'all have a good weekend for all. Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary void where prohibited participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey dot com. You're listening, name Horday Morning Show, m HM,