Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back all suit looking back to back down, giving them move like theming buck bus things in it. Me good it Steve ha listen to movie together for STU. Please, I don't joining me. You gotta turn, you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn, got to turn them out, to turn turn the water the water. Come come on your baby it uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody you are listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay, here we go. You know what's important, What's what can be a huge part of your success is if you if you find a balance, if you find a balance in your life. That's that's been very important for me. And I've really never phrased it this way until now, but I was kind of thinking about it after my wife and I mean we set up one night recently. Man. You know, I often come on here and this is kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I try to remind people about that most important relationship between you and God. And that's that's the apex of it. That's that's the that's the top of the crown. You gotta form the relationship with God. If you don't, everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband without God. It's hard to be a good family man without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man, it's hard to be hard to get through this thing called life without God. So that's clear. But at the same time, you can't talk about God. Twenty four seven. You got to go to work. Come on, man, let's just be real. I ain't your past, and I ain't at your church, but let's just be real about it. You know, if people tell you got to keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that, that's that's a true statement. Gott to keep your mind stayed in that area. I don't not here to tell you how to live, but you got to keep your mind stayed in that area of God, of doing the right thing, caring about people. That's what I took it as. Now, I could be wrong. I apologize if I'm not saying that the way you've been taught. I can only do me now. But after that, you got to go to work. You got to have some fun. You gotta take care of your business and that's to balance. You have to find so it. Once you focus on shooting up your relationship with God, you got you gotta balance this now. Now you got to allocate some time. I don't care who you are, for your family. If you're gonna have a family, you got to allocate some time for them. See, we can't just marry these women or make these kids and then neglect them. And fellas, especially if I'm talking to me and out him, ladies, you can listen to. But listen. If you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and you can't seem to get it together, let's just go over a couple of things. The first two things, if you find yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it together and reach your goals and get to where you want to go. Let's just do a check how is your relationship with God? And then next how much time are you taking to allocate for your family? Now, your family don't always live in your house, but if you made them, they yours and the responsibility to them is never lessen because you don't stay that no more. Because you and the girl broke up, you and the woman don't speak a man that don't ever release you from the obligation feel me when I'm telling you this now, because I'm not telling you something I'm wondering about. I've had to live through them years. So two things you can start looking at. If you're not where you want to be, and you ain't, you ain't really solid. You can't figure out why you keep spending your wills. Have you just done a random inventory? Man? Have you just checked on your relationship with God? Have you checked on the time you're spending dedicated towards your family, your children that you've created. If them two things is out of saint man, that I can tell you right now, you can go on and get to explain in yourself away just like that. A man, how come you ain't where you want to be? Mancuz man, I really ain't. But if you really ain't, then you really ain't. The third thing is you got to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got to handle your business. All of this, man, is the way it works, and the order the order is God first, family second. Then you got to handle all your business. But as me, and this is what we do. If I don't handle my business, I can't take care of my family. True statement. But if your business is in front of your family, you out of order. Nah. That's all we're talking about now, ain't it. See that's that's all we really saying here now, fellas you know, you know, I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know, let's let's have a real conversation about being better. You know, if you have created these children, you got to handle your business. You may not like the girl no more. You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might go your own way, But what that got to do with the child though? Man, you got to handle your business. They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation, man, And God ain't letting you off the hook for that. Try it, Go ahead and try it, and thank you. Gonna get off the hook with that because you're not man, You just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, why are you coming like that? Because I did it like that. I did it, man. I was over here trying to reshape my life, getting myself up on my feet when I was a homeless man and trying to come back. Man, I thought I had to take care of me first and then so I can neglect it, care about them kids. Man, that ain't high work. Man, God keep us knee on my neck for a long time for that one right there, until I finally learned the lesson hold up, man, put these phone calls in, Go spend some time, do something. And then it started turning around for me. You know, I can't beat there all the time because I am out here on the ground in the hustle. But at the same time, Man, some more phone calls, some more letters, somemohaha, he he's something, Then take care of your business. Man. You got to work hard to be successful. You know. Sometimes I don't put that in there. I just live in and I expect my sons to emulate that. But I gotta talk to him all the time. How hard you got to work to be something. It's an all out of salt on it. Man. If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You gotta wake up every day trying to get there. And you can't get tired of it because it's it's it never ends. You're gonna always be this way. That's how life is designed and set up. You got to be a hard worker, man. If you're always looking for some time to chill and man, I wanta go do what I want to do, you ain't gonna make it. In order to be successful, you have to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing, and work is the thing that most of us are uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill, man. I wish I could kick back with a cigar man all the time, but I can't, Man, I can't because I got to work. Then the last piece of the balance balance piece is you gotta take some time out to enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you want to be, you ain't got a lot of time to enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even. It's a whole lot of God, a whole lot of family, a whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling. The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business, or your God. If the chilling is equal to any of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man, and go to work like a man. Do what you post to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship, work on your God, work on your business. And then when you chill, you might not chill is long, but you show gonna chill bigger. You're gonna ball bigger babies. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, man, have your attention please, today's show it's dedicated to the men and women of the military. Today Steve Harvey is dedicating this show to those brave soldiers, those men and women, those career military people in all branches, the baby, the Air Force, the Army, the Marines, National Guards, all of y'all, Man, appreciate your service. Man. Hats off to you. This show is dedicated to you. So anything you hear ignorant today, it's for you. It sound like we're find shots at somebody, it's for you. If we are going to take shots today at somebody dedicated to the military this morning. So right on, all y'all down at all of the bases around the country, all be more to show Jackson Brad's baby. Yes, yes, oh man, I got something to say. When you get to me. Come on. I just said, say a base, Colleen, thank you, Carling fort Hood. Were just holing our cities. That's where say a base, Tommy, Oh Cobra, Christie calin for rel Good morning, Steve, what's up Jay Kay nephew. And I'm married to a military man. So you Shirley's out today, everybody, She's six, really really rare. That's rare, rare occasion. Shirley's you never ever see Junior's out so far today? Two oh he could be so were sick. We just ain't heard. Yeah, play for Junior. At the same time, look for Julia. Just wanted to see if we're over here looking for j Anthony brown is Hill. I don't understand why they're not here. I'm the one with cancer. I'm here, Come on, shut out all, shut it down. I'm sick. I can't whatever. Yeah, Ja, what kind of council. Luke Kemia, I'm here with Lukekemia. I'm here. Yeah, okay, And you are a soldier and what to do? What to do? Top of the morning. Let me say this, you put you put everything out there with the UH, with the military. Let me say this, UH. I have a foundation called Miles A Given we get back the wounded veterans. This coming next Monday, a week from today, I will be having a golf tournament in Houston, Texas at black Horse black Horse Comedy, I mean a black Horse, a golf course, and I promise you this will be off the chain, got a lot of events coming out, got a lot of people playing this right here, gonna be number one. It's a shotgun thoughts at nine. You want to find out more about it, go to Thomas dot com. That's what I do. I give back to Waldo. Yes, that's so outstanding. Yeah, good black Horse, my white horse, ja black Horse nor MoMA nickname black Horse. Okay, all right, coming up at thirty two after we'll find out what the crew did over the weekend. Weekend review. Right after this you're listening to show. All right, so it's Monday. Let's find out what the crew did over the weekend. Let's start with you, Steve. Would you do this weekend as well? I actually played golf this weekend. I wouldn't done. I wouldn't took lessons at a golf course that I won't say the name and spit again spot down that Friday, Sadday, Sunday, and took lessons for three hours each day and then went out and played nine sometimes eleven. I just had a good time. Man, I myself, question about your golf lessons. Now that you're taking lessons, what do you need help in h you know, memorizing the lesson must repeating the lesson. Okay, go oh, it's a hard game. Ain't anybody talking trash in golf? Uh? Please? And they don't play on Sundays. Please, all you got to go out there with him. It's gonna be a bunch of times they're gonna be going, oh damn, I don't know what. I can't do this. Too many hours a waste. No, it's fun, I mean, but four hours of like nine two hours, three hours, nine holes, four hours you're supposed to be finished with eighteen Well you're not, you think, but not necessarily. But it's really good ball in the rougher Lott. It depends on how many balls in the water. Jay, I've only played twice and ended up with the same ball that I started with. I've only kept the same ball twice. I was one time I was with Bruce Smith and I kept the same ball, and then one time I played in Florida and I kept the same ball. But only twice. Never, what do you like about golf? The grass? It's only a foursome and nobody wants to pitch you. We're not a celebrity on the golf course. Nobody like that. Oh he's a celebrity out there. We played and I forgot what island we were on. What was we in umber? We at man? These people they was on a boat and Satan Island. Steve said, Cayman. Oh my god, they was coming out of nowhere on this boat. Save Harvey, Save Harvey. Yeah, it just be it'd be a little bit sometime. But golf course is one of the sanctuaries where and most of the guys out there they're so focused on what they're trying to do that they don't give a damn who you are. You guys are holding out over there. Sorry, we've seen Can you be quiet, I'm trying to play school day. Man. You know you changed though you You used to smoke a cigar on the course, but you don't even do that. Numb you wait focused, I wait till I'm through now. Oh yeah, yeah, I discovered I'm not good enough to smoke and try to play. So one at a time, one at a time, one at a time. You can ruin your cigar smoking experience with a couple of bad shots. Yeah, I would like to smoke and play golf, but I wouldn't be smoking no cigars. So the day they don't allow that out there. I think get the woods. You can smoke whatever you want. Time. They don't allow that. Somebody gonna smell it. You got Yeah, this weekend I wouldn't see. I wouldn't see a movie called Get Me My roy Cone. If you want to know anything about Donald Trump, you need to go see this documentary called Get Me My roy Cone. It's where he got his attitude from. This guy represented him when he had tried to keep black people out of his apartments in New York. It's a real good documentary. And I saw Rambo to kill Counting Rambo really hot. Oh my god, it's really hot. Yes, that's what I did this weekend movie. Oh he still got it man. Yeah, yeah, there's a lot of time. You you don't know what he need. He needs subtitles, but he ain't going with him, but he needs him in there. Man, he eats subtiles. But it's a real good movie. Though I met him a couple of times. Yeah, he's a good guy, real cool dude. You know he's the highest paid guy over at Paramount for residuals for Rocky and Rambow. I've never gotten a residual. I wouldn't know what that. Yeah, you do you gottum think like a man? Stop it, man, you think we're not gonna sit here and act like you going through a pole moment. I know you're not gonna act like that. I didn't get that from that, Tommy. I just said, I don't know. He just sitting and he not getting residual That is not true. He's getting residual Yes, every time that movie. Do you get residuals from things like a man? Me? He no, no, no, no, Why are you so soft spoken? Yeah? Yeah, do you get residuals from think like a man? It was my book. Okay, so that's a yes, because the book still on the chelf making money. He's still getting money. Ye, thank you, Yeah, okay, the movie still come on, it's still yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I saw you, Tommy, I actually saw your scene. Do you get checks from it? I don't get what he gets. You ain't write it. Yeah, I checked me like thirty dollars, thirty two dollars, thirty realty or they ain't not from the movie though. You were in the movie too. Yeah, but I got killed in the second one, so I don't want to We both got j was in here all right, we're coming up next. We got church complaints. It's Monday, Remotown Deacon Death Jam in the building. Right after this, you're listening to show, all right? Coming up at the top of the hour. In Entertainment News, we'll talk about some highlights from the Big I Heart Radio Music Festival this past weekend. It was in Las Vegas, and we have an exclusive backstage interview with Alicia Keys. Plus we'll talk about the Primetime Emmy Awards last night. It was a hostless just like the Oscars. So we'll talk about some of the highlights, winners and nominees. But right now, it's Monday. Time for church complaints. Revermotown Deacon Death Jam. Excuse me, you don't deacon yeah, oh, when they say church complaints, you don't. You don't moan for our mom Okay, I didn't on nobody moaned for our mold. Well when are you going to mow? When you get out the moaning? Wait, do you can we try it again and let's let let's share you know what I mean? Or let us a call introduced her. It's Monday. We make sure now that time okay, okay, we are here for this most gregorious tantawaitius what sponificous moment m realizing that all of things work together unless the complaints. It's two or suveal let us begin whiffle church complaints. Coolhead All right, Pastor d the Cam Newton head Scarf Ministry is they are asking for the church to pay for him to be flown in so he can show them how to tie the scarf on appropriately. Cam wants twenty thousand dollars for the visit. We don't have it in our budget, but it's YO call, Pastor, but they want to. They've scarts keep falling off and they don't know how to keep make it hold on like Cam's the hand holes. I'm for some reason, we haven't trouble with this right hill because Cam Newton football player at all. It's one thing for him to be injured this year coming out ere we dressed as credit Garble. It started to trouble us trying to find out if Cam is going through something that it is anything we need to do to int see baby intervention. We are praying for Cam and his health and all it looks like, and more than his health, were gonna pay for him to come in at night. I need to let him come in for what deacon, I must not be. They want to learn how to tie the scarf so it don't fall out like he'll he'll, Oh, it wasn't that. I wasn't listening. I was not carried. Yeah, we move on to the neckle now, go ahead, all right, listen past, we gotta issue here. Our last all white party of the year was a disaster. Brother Clement Journe again was the person over the event. He invited two hundred white people to the party. He thought that's white. An all white party was, but too, I was the black people and all the white people. I was looking at each other in an outrage. The member asking for a redo. Even now it's after Labor Day, they still want to have a party. We be in a church. Must be open to our white brother now, and we're gonna have to be a little more claire next time we say all white party. To him, it was all white to them, but to the rest of the blacks it was confusing. It's either it's we just gonna have all white parties or black out parties. Either way, we got to be or clear. Go ahead now, moving right around past the eye let's see here out here it is p I is throwing a Gucci party to reinstate them back into society. You can now get back to the GG. Pastor, do you want hill Gucci Rod? Finished the one that we started but we stopped. How do you want to move on? I'm so damn confused with TI. I don't know when we boycotting. What we boycotting is the boy cart who put him in charge? Your boy cards? And I just don't know what to say about this. Now ordered my Gucci Rod sometime are going out. They told the order We're gonna be delayed because or TI wanted to not do Gucci h but I told him to put the two gs on my sleeve anywhere in our warden. When they thought told me that was gooch, I told him it was good God. All right, Pastor, I listen. We have not found out who it is. Whomever it's putting I owe you notes in the offering envelopes will be that with Pastor. The deacon board is UH wanting for missing to suspend them from the church for two months. It's YO call. But whoever putting these I owe you notes in the u alfering Nomlope we were gonna find them, but we want to have who It was last week the full government employees that we have kids to church and they said they was gonna give us our old us because h the national debt was over a trillion dollars and they could see or add that. They said, when Trump reduces the debt as he promised, or the start to pay it, tis until then is our old us. And just so you understand that we had two hundred of them this past weekend. They was all from the all from the white people that we had asked to come. The wheelchair swimming team has their first swim meet this coming Saturday. They are asking for our prayers as well as three lifeguards for desperate man just Y Well figuring out what we're gonna do that that we're gonna let most of the water out the pool coming out Entertainment National News two feet of water. They're gonna be everything you're listening show in Today's Entertainment News. Big I Heart Radio Music Festival twenty nineteen. It was this past weekend in Las Vegas. We have to give a huge shout out to Alicia Keys, R and B singer her She's a bad girl. And Chance the rapper. Chance got the crowd all into Yeah yeah, he got the crowd all into his performance. He took him to Chetch nephew also Steve our buddy, Yeah yeah, yeah, our buddy, Ryan Seacrest. He had an exclusive backstage interview with Alicia Keys, and he asked Alicia Keys if she how does she feel about people talking to her about their opinion? So take a listen. I do ask people not to give their opinion less and then less they're asked for it. Though no one in here no opinions, opinions, But don't you think like, wouldn't you think like if I said, hey, how do you like my outfit? Then it's cool if you're like, oh, you know what, I love it? Or I don't like it someone. But when people are just like I don't like, like I didn't ask you, I've edited all those people out of my life. The job cut them out. And then Brian asked Alicia Keys about casting her friends Michael B. Jordan's and her music and her new music video Show Me Love with Miguel. So take a listen to Alicia telling Ryan all about that I love that video. Take a listen if you haven't seen it. It's hard to describe, but it's uh. I call it a visual sonic experience. It certainly is, because I think that's the only way with with some precipitation, a lot of elements with right, but that with Miguel so cool, Michael B. Jordan, isn't the videos always husband, Marco, Miguel and I are on yours. You know. I personally went out to my friends and I said, I really have this particular vision. I really wanted to show this particular vision that you have. If you haven't seen it, go see it right now. And I and I wanted it to feel like different sides of this experience of life and love. All right, we love you, Alicia Keys And In other entertainment news, Okay, guys, last night, the seventy first Annual Primetime Emmy Awards were last night. Homer Simpson, Anthony Anderson. They opened up the Emmys. The show followed the footsteps you guys of the Oscars and was hostless and some of the winners and nominees included a building. So now I'm assuming everybody's going hostless because we're so politically correct now, we can't find anybody that people like that hasn't done or said anything that someone finds offense. That's where we're right. We can't give you can't give people second chances. He's a comedian or she's a comedian. No, No, you're right, No unforgiving society going on right now. It seems that way some of them. Yeah, yeah, it really is, Steve, You're right. People deserve an opportunity to host and be a pardon. Yeah. So anyway, Billy Porter, Tracy Ellis, Ross, Viola Davis, Alton K. Sterling. Last night and the Emmys said goodbye to Game of Thrones. The show is gone, John Snow and them, because you're still unhappy, you wanted to come back and end again one last episode the Five Jane I didn't care up man, Yeah, but they put John snowback on that wall. I was mad, Jane on talking about why would I go to the wall and they ain't no more White walkers don't get us and dragons burn damn wall down. All right, Time to move on, Steve. Let's get caught up on today's headlines, please, ladies and gentlemen. Miss An Tripp Okay, thank you very very much. Yeah, one of the dragons did burn part of the wall down, that's true. Anyway, This is answered with the news President Trump arrived in Houston yesterday and pledged to help those parts of Texas affected by the recent torrential rains courtesy of course tropical storm Meldon. We're making the federal government totally available, so you'll let us know. Any questions, you'll let us know. But you know, that's happened, and they made a lot of progress, and hopefully now it's going down pretty good. And people here just fix it up. They get used to it. They fix it up and be nice if they don't have to get used to it. For a little while, we had Harvey, and now we have this. Yeah. By the way, the UN's holding a climate change summit in New York today, however Trump is not taking part. The President, meanwhile, is still insisting that nothing in proper transpired in a phone call this summer with the Prime Minister of Ukraine. The first time you heard about it, he said that he denied it, and that's fake news. Now he says he did, but it was okay the government Whistplower reportedly says that Trump actually tried to pressure Ukraine into investigating potential political rival Joe Biden's son who has a financial dealing in that country, by threatening Ukraine with the cutoff of funds and stuff. House Intelligence Committee Chairman Adam Schifft tells CNNDED, if nothing was wrong, president can clear it up. That's the case, then why doesn't the President simply release the transcript of that call? And I don't know whether the whistle blower complaint is on this allegation, but if it is, and even if it isn't, why doesn't the President just say release the whistle blower complaint. Clearly he's afraid for the public to see either one of those things, and we're determined to make sure that the public does. Trump claims that a president's conversation should not be challenged because he's the president. According to the website the Route, the clothing company, the clothing chain. Actually, H and M under fire again over the way they depict black children in their ads. Reporter CAREW. Daniels says, this time it's a picture of a young girl with her natural hair pulled back into a totally unkempt ponytail, just grabbed and thrown back there. But unlike the last time, and H and M had little black boy in a sweater that read coolest monkey in the Junger Rima that one where all the Swedish based H and M. This time is not apologizing and it's not removing the little black girl's picture that is H and M. The World Health Organization says that nations must start investing more in providing healthcare for those in low and middle cancome countries. The United Nations Organization says globally five billion people five billion with the bee will lack access to even basic medical services come twenty thirty unless the issue is addressed and soon. Colin Kaepernick's Nike ad has won an Emmy as Outstanding Commercial. That's a Nike ad that features Kaepernick's face, the light Nike logo and the words believe in something, even if it means sacrificing everything. Speaking to that the Exonerated five, they were kind of awarded because the film When they see Us that one and Emmy and adopted the box office Dalton Albey to down twos. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show You're listening to show. Antonio Brown was released from the New England Patriots and announced that he is quitting the NFL because the league is corrupt and has screwed him out of millions of dollars. The Patriots released a statement and said, had Antonio Brown not sent intimidating group text messages to the female artists who accused him of unwanted sexual advances, Antonio would have played in yesterday's Patriots game. Now, the artist's attorney contacted the NFL and the New England Patriots and said that Antonio Brown violated the league's personal conduct policy, which prohibits stalking, harassment, and other forms of intimidation. Well, Antonio Brown, you know, he tweeted up a storm after that, saying, among other things, that he will not be playing in the NFL and that these owners can cancel deals or do whatever they want at any time. So you know, this story was trending all week in long So let me say first of all, Steve, tell me what you said about this, what I said about Antonio Brown. A lot of people say, well, he's really not that educated, and that's that begs the different. But what he don't have this is just my opinion. It's common sense and you can get that anywhere. You don't have to be that educator that have common Yeah, you can get that from your mamma, them from Auntie right right yea. And now the next timmy, what did your wife say it was okay to do It's all right to shut the blank up. Seriously, it's okay. But you know, man, this guy is so infatuated with social media like he thinks. See, let me tell you something, man, this guy, Donald Trump, got everybody thinking that they're just as relevant on social media. So now he tweeting out stuff foreign policy, stuff about the Emmys, stuff about rappers. This president is tweeting about stuff ain't got nothing to do with the government. Then he talking about his personnel, and he's got people thinking that everybody is relevant on Twitter. And antonio' brown thinks he's relevant on Twitter. He would be more thought of as relevant on Twitter than relevant in his job or his profession. And this is a very very sad case of a person committing a career suicide. This is a really a guy that's self destructive and he's not taking advice for anybody. He doesn't have anybody around him in his ear going, yo, waity man, you've fen to do what you fin to say? This about who you really think that's smart. And I think this kid man has duck himself in a hole that's gonna be pretty difficult to recover from, especially in NFL. He's cutting off your nose to spite your face. So yeah, well, okay, fellas, let's keep this conversation going. Coming up at thirty four after the hour, more on this Antonio Brown situation the NFL. Right after this, you're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. The Patriots released Antonio Brown for sending intimidating text messages to the artist who accused him of sexual misconduct. Antonio said he was quitting the NFL. He also tweeted, we will see if the NFL Players Association will hold them accountable when they can just avoid guarantees anytime. So what Antonio was saying is that the Patriots signed him to a fifteen million dollar deal with a nine million million dollar guaranteed signing bonus. Antonio was scheduled to get five million dollars. Yeah, he was scheduled to get five million dollars today today on Monday, if he wasn't cut. But Antonio Brown went further and took aim at the Patriots owner Robert Craft, saying that there's a double standard for him and and other NFL players or big wigs, if you will. Antonio was citing, you know, of course, Robert Kraft's arrest after he visited a massage parlor that was allegedly part of a prostitution ring. And you guys were talking about this. Yeah, can I tell you what I told Junior, because Junior and I had a bet. Junior said that, you know, it was no big deal that he would get picked up by another team, And I said, Uber won't even pick his ass up. How about that? Yeah, even if that Antonio Brown get picked up by another two, he lost half his money when he went to New England. They can offer him peanuts now if but it's going to be very difficult because of this last text. And I don't understand the texting, because it's the texting that got you in trouble in the first place. Because this girl who bought these civil charges against him has incriminating texts against him. So when this new girl came out the artist with what she said, he text her, yeah, dog, they sent this to the NFL, yeah, her attorneys, yes, the artists. Yeah, this is this shows the disrespect to women of the women that you're involved with. So that doesn't help. It's a disrespect. But also what makes you think that authorities are not going to see your text messages? Why are you threatening a woman? Yes? Man, this climate does not allow for that. Are you nuts? What's wrong with you? Man? Tommy? It doesn't matter. It's all right to shut the blank up. Well, I was gonna say, even the climate. It doesn't matter the climate. What he has done. You know what I'm saying, his behavior towards women. You know, he's lost endorsements, Nike has saying hey, you can't be a part of our organization. And now these football teams are saying the same thing. You are. You know, New England gave him an opportunity. They wanted to let the investigation play out and see what happened. They allowed him to play. And then you send intimidating text messages to this woman who did not go to the police and follow police report on your sexual misconduct. Yes, yeah, seriously, man, So you pick up your phone and your friends. It was a group text message, so you're the people that work for you. You're saying intimidating things to this woman. So her attorney is a going to the NFL and the Patriots and like this guy still works with you, And was the pictures of this woman's kids on this text too. I heard that he mentioned their kids because on Instagram he was going on Instagram and talking about her income. And you know, just it was wrong what he did. And you know the Patriots saying, hey, you can't play for us. And then now you're attacking Robert Kraft. You think he gonna pay you. You're talking about the man that could possibly pay you not gonna get them. It's hard to help a fool, you know. Seriously, that's why the NFL Players Association it's gonna have trouble with this one, because these people don't just not pay you. They're gonna point to clauses in the contract that any behavior get your mental to the brand, the football team or that NFL shield can cost you your job and your income. They're not just taking money, man, without they're go to court. They got long money to go to court. This is really a sad case. Well, we'll keep an eye on it. Coming up next though, Nephew Tommy is here with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after today's Strawberry letter. The subject is I should curse him out and call his wife. Wow, but right now, no, hold on, you're gonna just run over that time, hurt. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So be with us. In four minutes after the top of the hour, the Strawberry letter subject, I should curse him out and call his wife. Curse me out. I mean, I'm doing with it. But what what are you calling her? She ain't got nothing to do with it. We'll see, we'll see. Steve's gonna read the letter and I'll respond, Shirley's out today, because come on, nephew, it's your time. You're here with today's Frank phone call. What you got? Give me my change for a hundred, Give me my change for a hundred, all right? When you go to the strip club, if I give you a hundred, that don't mean that hundred belongs to you. I need my change for a hundred. Let's go get Hello. Hello, trying to reach Regina. Please speaking, Hello, Yeah, speaking, This is Regina. Okay, Hey, you did a bachelor party for me and my boys, like about two weeks ago. Okayan, Sean? You remember, Sean? Yes, yes, okay, now listen, when you you were doing a lot of lap dances at night? You remember that? Yes? So how did you get my number? How can I help? You? Need a party done? I mean, what do you need? Okay? Well, no, no, it ain't nothing like that. I'm saying. You know you did a lot of lap dancers. Do you remember that? Yes, okay, we'll listen. You know that night I was at the party, you did some lap dancers for me. But okay, what I wanted to tell you was that the lap dances you had did was the lap dancer was ten dollars? Am I right? Right? You will be correct, yes, okay, ten dollars. But I accidentally I thought I gave you a ten dollar bill when I really gave you one hundred dollars. Okay, you know I need Actually, what the reason why I called you was. I'm trying to I'm trying to get that you know, I'm trying to get that ninety dollars back. Wait a minute, let me ask you something. First of all, how did you get my number? Well, the dude that um, who is dude? Who's that through the back. You know, the guy that hooked y'all up as far as doing the bachelor Billy Billy, the ones that got y'all to to come and do the bachelorette party. Okay. What I'm trying to you know, tell you is is that I got the number from him, Okay, okay, and he told me that I could call you and try to just talk to you about it. Okay, And you want me to give you See I gave I had tipped you. I was I was really feel to pay you ten dollars, but it was one hundred dollars bill. So what the reason what I'm saying to you is that I want to get the other ninety dollars back. I'm not giving you no damn ninety dollars. Excuse me, I'm not giving you your damn ninety dollars. On. Wait a minute on, I don't even think you understand I wasn't trying to give you all that money at one time. I need to get that money back from you. You don't understand ten dollars, that's it. The other money that I was blown to be. I ain't get my change back from you. I might give you no change back nine dollars a dawn till I'm not giving me back. Nobody be giving you no damn hundred dollars at one time. What's wrong with you? I'm not giveing no damn nine dollars back. Then you should what what you was doing because this should gonna give me my money. I'm hug I already told you I wasn't even trying to give you this money I wouldn't get I was trying to give you ten dollars. That's what I was trying to give you. I'm not giving you that bang back. You're not getting nothing you should be I don't want your wife and your kids. Hey, lady, listen, you don't even understand what what's going on right here? Let him I you should have been asked. I wasn't trying to when nobody is trying to get you no money. This a misunderstand it. I mean dollars. But now look, I'm already saying I was giving ten, but not get that belong to me. I'm not given you're calling me working me up till you're not a dollars. I'm not giving you your man. I'm gonna give you a tip, but i ain't giving you no ninety dollars tip you did, you got no having you till dollars ain't lady. Look, I'm not gonna city and going to go ahead with you all this. Look, I want to get my ninety dollars back from you. No, first of all, if you call me lad with more time, I'm gonna come find you and kick up first of the ball. I'm not giving you a dawn then and dollars back. Thanks for the trip. You shouldn't been the first place, Like I said, keep home. That's fine, lady on the reil. I ain't trying to go back and forth with you. I was. I'm saying is it's been a mistake. I wasn't trying to give you no hundred dollars all. That was a mistake. I just want my money back, and nobody tripping with you giving my money back. I'm not giving you a death than back. I'm not giving you nay. That's your problem. You didn't go home and tell your life what you did with the extra dollars. I'm gonna trying to get you what I told you. I won't ninety dollars five to come fam me then. Don Simons come tim me condimn it in If you don't come simas for you you you don't try to get your ninety dollars. I don't want my money from you? What I want you? Why don't you? Don't you cup ahead and when you sign my random me No damn nanny dollars? I bet you that one. Where are you gonna play me my ninety dollars? You know damn nning does no asking them? No? Give you no Lenny down, thank you for the damn kill you ain't you You're gonna you donna give me? You're gonna give me my ninety dollars. You're gonna do that? You come ahead for then I'm gonna gonna get change that you might get you off my phone? Why I come cut you? Can you say dass? Don't call me with it? I got want more thing I want to tell you. You listen to me, Listen to your Are you listening to me? I one more thing I need to say to you little kids. I got one more thing I need to say to you. Are you listening to kill? Don't call me with that, Dyn Listen to you. I'm killing down? What you got to say? You kids? Right? I said, I got one more things to say to you. Are you what you got to say that? Which is it? Nephew tom Me from the Steve Hobb and morn and show. You just gotta prank by your girl friend? Who listen? Hell, Hello, Hello, Hello from me? That makes you get your killed. I'm gonna cutting you in your baby good Come on now give it to me, Give it to me. You play too much. You didn't see hospitals with Jennifer Local and see it tomorrow so I will find out what husband is all about. Let me put this out there, huh. I am hosting a gala for my boy, Will Packer, celebrating one hundred and twenty fifth church anniversary. It is in Saint Petersburg, Florida. Bethel A. M. E. Church is going down this Saturday. I will be in Saint Pete hosting this for my man. My one and only Will Packer is going down and the nephew is hosting the gala. I will be in Florida hosting it for my man. So if you got tickets, so be it. If you don't, you might want to get something nice. That's good. What did you you see? He dropping name? Keep your boss you see that though, Jay, Yeah, na dropping. Yeah, he dropped a name. You see that, Steve will Packer, you see that. You drop some a name. You see that. I'm talking since he got that show, you know, Ready to love Baby, we will be watching. I can't wait next for you. I can't wait for season two. Update us too, I'm update You'll gonna le y'all know high school? Yeah, tell us what's happening? What happened last season? All right? Coming up top of the hour on the Strawberry Letter, subject I should curse him out and call his wife? Coming up not necessar. You're listening show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationship, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. You can submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit draw Barry Letter. Let's go, nephew, buckle up, been hold on tight, We got it for you. Here it is Mary Letter. Well, Shelley's not here, everybody, So we're gonna do it a little bit different today. I'm gonna read it and I guess we go. How are we doing this today? Carler? You read it? Here we go? Subject I should curse him out and call his wife. Yes, Dear Steven Shirley. I've been married for almost twenty five years. My husband and I have been through a lot, but we're still together. I have a situation that I need help with, and it doesn't involve my husband. A year ago, a guy at the gym came on to me. It was fun at first because it was all hugs and kisses, but then it escalated to sex. We were intimate on several accoun asians and each time I was so ashamed. It went on a couple of months before I tried to end it. I have a real problem, though, because now I can't get this joker to leave me alone. I avoid him at the gym, and he just won't leave me alone. He tries to hug me, grab my booty, or anything just to touch me. I will admit that he's charming, so I gave in a few more times, but that was it. Though. Now I need him to understand that it has to stop. God warned me of the consequences of my actions, and he has been too good. He has been too It does a word missing. I'm guessing I'm assuming that he has been too good to me to keep doing something he has told me not to do. Yeah, that's a word, miss it. I thought about reporting my ex lover to management at the gym, but that may turn into an even bigger issue. Plus, this man has a wife and a kid in college, so I don't want to do anything to hurt his family. I told one of my good, good girlfriends what was going on, and she suggested that I curse him out real loud, make a scene, and then punch him real hard. Knowing this man, he will be turned on by all that. Jesus, I just want him to keep his hands off me, and pleading with him is not working. What can I do to get him to leave me alone? How about threatened to call his wife. I wouldn't actually do it, but do you think it would work? Please advise? Let me just say this before you answer. Caller, Lord Jesus, okay for real? I mean you know the only way out of this situation is to cut all ties with this man. Number one, you need to change gems. That's number one. Number two, no social media. You have to resist all the urges and all the temptations to get with this man. I'm talking on friend him on Facebook, on tweet his Twitter block him on the Graham I'm nothing, no contact with this man at all. You need to figure out what's going on in your marriage. Why are you getting with some random guy at the gym to have sex with instead of your husband? Twenty five years you've been married to this man. What is it? Are you bored? This is a fantasy for you. This is just not cool. You are making some very very bad decisions. You're lying, and you're cheating, and you're in a full blown affair and you're husband. It will destroy him. It will destroy him if he finds out. You have to resist the temptation to see this man because you know in a letter Steve, it was like she was just so, you know, we kids, and then it happened a couple of times, and then it happened a couple of times again. This is serious. This is nothing to be taken lightly. You have to fight the urge to get with this man. And if you involve his wife, this may not go the way you think it's gonna go. She may involve your husband. So my advice to you is to avoid all that change Gems, resist the urge and temptation to get with this man, cut off all contact completely or else you're gonna have a big problem on your hands. Steve. Uh, this is crazy, Yeah, because she's sister. I don't really believe this letter. I don't. I don't even see why you're writing. I don't. I don't believe because it's too much. You've been married twenty five, so you got to be grown. I'm assuming let's say you got married at twenty or twenty five, you gotta be in your mid forties to fifty something. So you met this guy to gym. He came on to It was fun at first because it was hugs and kisses, but then it turned into sex. Now, you said you was intimate on several occasions, and after every time you was a shame. You know. He went on for a couple of months before you tried to end it. Now you say, the problem is you can't get this man leave you alone. So you avoid him at the gym, but he won't leave me alone. He tried to hug me, grab my booty or anything. Just to church. Well, he's been hugging you, y'all been having sex, so I'm pretty show he's had his hand on your booty many times. Then you say. After all that, I'll admit he's charming. So I gave me in a few more times. Okay, wait a minute. Wait, you either trying to get out of this or you ain't. But all he got to do is grab your body, your booty because he charming now and he back in. So but that's it now, though, Nah, I want this to stop. Here we go with this one right here. God warned me all the consequences of my action, and he'd been too good to me to keep doing something he'd told me not to do. He was good till you fo. You did it. M We'll be back, all right, Steve. Yeah, Part two of your responds at twenty three after the hour. You're listening, all right, Steve, Today's Strawberry Letter. You want to recap this, this foolishness. Here, this woman been married twenty five years ago, messing around with this dude. It's this gem and she hadn't told him. He wants it to be over with, but he's so charming. He grabs her booty and all this head. Next thing you know, they'd had sex a few more times. So now but this is it though, Now I wanted to stop, and then God warned me of the consequences of my action, and he'd been too good to me to keep doing something he'd told me not to do. Okay, now let's let's let's go over this slide. Whether God has been good to you or not, which he has to all of us. You know, sleeping with this man is wrong. So now you want to act like you're having this real religious moment, which can happen, can be true. But come on now, if you either you want to stop or you don't, but it don't sound like you do. Then she said, I thought about reporting my ex lover to management at the gym. What what? What? What's that gonna do? He don't work, got the gym, He just go to the gym. Management ain't got nothing to do with this, got to do with what the hell is the gem? Go, sir, sir? What are you doing? Can't keep grabbing her ass like that even though y'all been kicking it. Yeah, but call it is said, why don't you switch gems because you like the attention? You keep going back down to this gym. Now you said you're gonna report the management, but that might turn into an even bigger mess. Plus this man's got a wife and a kid in college, so I don't want to do anything to hurt his family. What okay, you know you can just end it. But then you said, I told one of my good girlfriends here, wouldn't let it get real hood? What was going on? Her girlfriend suggested that I cuss him out real loud and make a scene and then punch him real hard. Now, you don't think when they press charges against you that your husband gonna want to know why you punch this man real hard? And custom Mountain. That's an ignorant ass response. Then you said, knowing this man, he gonna be turned on by all of that. Now, obviously you hit him pretty hard before. And yeah, obviously she's hit him pretty hard before because she said, knowing all this, this man will be turned on by all that. So they're they're beating on each other now, chop me, punch me, oh baby, doing some more. Yeah, that's what's happening. That's what that means. That's yeah. I just want him to keep his hands off me, and pleading with him is not working. What can I do to get him leave me alone? Carlinson, to change gems and stop messing with us? How about threatened to call his wife. I wouldn't actually do it, but do you think it would work? Oh yeah, it'll work. Call his wife. He'll leave you alone then, But like Carlin said, his wife's gonna call your husband. See what women ain't gonna let you do is you're not gonna come up in here and mess up my happy home. And then you some famous man once told me one time, you can't kill my dog and expect your cat to live. So now when you go over here and ruin this man's house, you think they just gonna let you you exist in your happy home? Are you nuts? Lady? This ends as soon as you say it ends, But you go to the same gem looking for him because as you like the attention, stop playing. You're a grown ass woman. If you tell a man to leave you alone at the gym, how far can it go at the gym? You're end the gym. But what happened is you keep meeting his ass somewhere at the most dawn. Yea, yeah, stop, then y'all do it. Y'all doing your gym workout down at the Double Tree. See yeah, see that one's happening. All y'all workout is down at the damn double tree. Y. So now don't don't don't come to me with all of this righteous stuff you got going on, because lady, nobody's buying it. You're doing this, and this is going on. You don't even need to write us a letter because this end when a grown woman in it. Grown women know how to end relationships. Y'all know how to do it. And this is not a game. We don't have no advice for you. Just do what you're gonna do. But you're gonna mess around. Your husband gonna find out. It's gonna be a bigger problem than that. That's all I got to say about. Well, thank you, Steve, you said it. Psha comments on today's Strawberry Letter. Thank you for us gump on Instagram, at Facebook and Steve Harvey FM. And you can check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six after the hour. Toughen it Out, Jay, Anthony Brown, you're gonna tell us about this, toughen it Out, telling it out? Yes, a new book, another book, a rope. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, Jay, quickly you are here with what toughen in the boot? I wrote another book. My latest book gets You might be tuughing it out. If chapter one, you might be tuughing it out. If you've been riding on your sped tile for six months, you might be tuughing out chapter four it is a good chapter. You might be tuughing it out. If you make dishwashing liquid, when you put it in war and let it dissolve, you might be tough it out. You just put you put soap, put soap in the dishwashing liquid and you dissolve. You never had that done, Okay. You might be toughted out if if if your debit card gets turned down at the dollar store, you might be teching hard. Yeah, god, yeah, that's pretty tough, you man. Yeah, you dollars chapter of this chapter eight. You might be toughening it out. If you got one light bulb and you got to take it from room to room. I'm talking about light bulb in hill. Hey. Hey, I'm trying to see the toilet tissue. I got a chapter on that. You don't have tollar paper, you got napkins from Wendy's mc dunn. Chapter fourteen is a good chapter. Pill If your pillar, your pillar that you sleep on is a rolled up power in a sheet. Man. Now you talk, man that I got. You might be toughing it out if your glasses then broke in so many places you're just picking up the lens looking through what you one most see, y'all, you close it out. You might be telling it out if you can only put a dollar in sixty cents and your escalade. You toughing it out? Man, Let me get one sixty on pump two please one six year escalade. All right, let's have some more fun coming up at the top of the hour. Comedy Roulette. The fellows are in the building. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for comedy Roulette. Come on, Jay, quickly set this up. You take some subjects, put them on a wheel. We can make it fun. And we down to three comedians, but we can do the damn thing because that's what we do. Steve's comedian, ty comedian, and I'm a comedian. All right, comedians, here we go. We have three new categories on the wheel today. Comedians. Here we go. Things you say to women who have a mustache, baby, here we go. Excuses people make who don't like to Oh, okay, excuses people make who don't like to fly. I got it, I got it. Yeah, that's a good one, all right. And finally, excuses people make not to go to the gym. Let's spend the wheel, christ let's go, we go. It been not laying on mustache. I'm gonna leave you do the mustache, then we go. Excuses people make not to go to the gym. Love it. I'm gonna start it off. People make not to go to the gym. Don't none of my workout clothes match, so I can't go down there. You know what, man, they didn't have no parking up front. I just I just went on back to the house. Man, I can't park way back then. Yeah, that's that's that defeats the purpose people make not to go to the gym. Yes, yeah, the reason I don't go down to the gym, I ain't fat, as him not comparing the fat that size. I ain't, But I ain't got that. I ain't excuses people make not to go to the gym. I don't like the sweat in front of other people. It's just not good for me to do that. So I'm not gonna go through the gym. It's not sexy. If you're not gonna do you know what? I would have went, But I got that jock hitch thing going on, and I just just serious. Yeah, it's too much on me right now. I just I don't have to go later. I just waited put some calum. I can't. I can't people not to go to the gym. It's excuse people make not to go to the gym. I want to work out on that e liptical that but that my liptico that. But I want but I don't know how to announce it. So I ain't gonna go down. I'm announcing committing it up. No, it's not come out to me, you know what. I was trying to lose some weight, and then I started realizing that I just I just like being fat. I just ain't going I'm cool with me. You know you're good. Yeah for people. Excuses people make not going to the gym. All the trainers down now they fit and trim, how they know what to do For somebody like me, it can't relate to me. I can't relate excuses people make not to go to the gym. When I go inside a place where people work out. My asthma kicks up, so I can't go that I ain't gonna that's me, that's me, that's me. Ja imost don't go. I was gonna go, but I wanted to go to the steam room. But but they be naked in there. I don't know. If I ain't, I can't. My niket ain't ready for the naked. I'm not good with excuses people make to not go to the gym. They don't have no hand seniz in now. I didn't see none last time I was there. Yes, excuses people make not to go to the gym. I just don't feel comfortable putting a towel on my butt. That's been on somebody else. But I just don't when you right, I like that one. All right, guys, thank you. Coming up next, we got music, more fun, more foolishness. At twenty minutes after the hour. You're listening Hearty morning show, right, Steve. You know it's Monday, after all the football games. Watch the game yesterday? Yeah? Yeah, well let me talk to Tommy first, Tommy the Texans one. How about the Texans baby, Yeah, he's the Texans one. That quarterback that boy there. Let me tell you something. Desha is coming into his own. He is doing his thing and he's confident about himself now. And I hate the fact that we went in at the last second. That's bothering me. It Whin does a win. But I think that they got to get to the point where you could put the game away in the third for the top of the fourth quarter instead of instead of going down to the last second of the game, and you got everybody in Houston having a heart attack. You can, we can be better than this, but it's won. Well, let's talk to you about your Browns. What a battle, Baker Mayfield, Oh Dawn, come on, talk to me. It's gonna come to Joe. You got a good squad, you really do. Yeah, Man, you that a good team. What do you mean you can't win them all? How about we can't win at all? How about Steve? How about molding one in a row? How about that? Hell? Yea, all right, we'll be back at thirty three after the hour. Angry Browns fan, you're listening to show the Big I Heart Radio Music Festival twenty nineteen. It was this past weekend in Las Vegas. We have to give a huge shout out to Alicia Keys, R and B. Singer her She's a Bad Girl, and Chance the rapper. Chance got the crowd all into Yeah yeah, He got the crowd all into his performance. Also Steve our buddy, Yeah yeah, yeah, our buddy. Ryan Seacrest. He had an exclusive backstage interview with Alicia Keys, and he asked Alicia Keys if she how does she feel about people talking to her about their opinion? So take a listen. I do ask people not to give their opinion less and then less they're asked for it. Though no one in here no opinions. But don't you think like, wouldn't you think like if I said, hey, how do you like my outfit? Then it's cool if you're like, oh, you know what, I love it? Or I don't like it someone. But when people are just like, I don't like like I didn't ask you. I've edited all those people out of my life. Cut them out. And then Ryan asked Alicia Keys about casting her friends Michael B. Jordan's and her music and her new music video Show Me Love with Miguel. So take a listen to Alicia telling Ryan all about that. I love that video. Take a listen. If you haven't seen it, it's hard to describe. But it's uh. I call it a visual sonic experience. It certainly is, because I think that's the only way with with some precipitation, a lot of elements with right, but that with Miguel so cool. Um, Michael B. Jordan is in the videos always husband, Marco, Miguel and I are on. You know. I personally went out to my friends and I said, I really have this particular vision. I really wanted to show this particular vision that you have. If you haven't seen it, go see it right now. And I and I wanted it to feel like different sides of this experience of life and love. All right, we love you, Alicia Keys and and other entertainment news. Okay, guys, last night, the seventy first Annual Primetime Emmy Awards were last night, Homer Simpson, Anthony Anderson. They opened up the Emmys. The show followed the footsteps you guys of the Oscars and was hostless, and some of the winners and nominees included Billy Porter, Tracy Ellis, Ross Viola Davis, Alton K. Sterling. Last night and the Emmys said goodbye to Game of Thrones. The show is gone. John and the ending because y're still unhappy. He wanted to come back and end again one last episode. They got great five, great yield. They just stopped Jay that season. I didn't care, man, Yeah, but they put John snowback on that wall. I was mad, Jaye don't talk about why would I go to the wall? And they ain't no more White Walkers don't get us and dragons wall down? All right? Coming up, Steve is up next with today's closing remarks at forty nine after the hour you're listening to. Okay, Steve, it's that time closing remarks. It's been a good month. You know. I want to I want to encourage people, but I gotta tell you the truth about it. Um. You know, um, it's it's sort of all. I've decided to go forward with the truth as I've learned it, and I've decided to ignore they sayers and people who don't want to hear the factual part of how difficult success is. But if you explain it to people and they understand that you've gone through the hardships of trying to become successful yourself, when they face hardships, I think they can see it better for themselves and Dean sand has told me one time. He says, Steve, stop throwing the life raft to people swimming away from the boat. He said, just throw your life raft to them. People they want to be saved. And so and that's saved in just an analytical sense or an analogy that he was using in terms of people who want to be motivated or encourage or given the tools for success. So in light of that, here's something else I want to remind people love, because people don't like to hear about the uncomfortable side of it. You know, they want to just go. You know, I want to sleep long as I want. You gotta get this much sleeping. Okay, fine, fine, fine. I had to come to that resolution after speaking the truth about sleep as I know it. As I know it, I can't tell you anything I don't know. I don't know how to be successful sleeping a third of your life. I don't know anyone that made it to success sleeping a third of their life. I just don't know anybody. Now, if you're wealthy, you can sleep eight hours, but if you're trying to get there, I just don't know anybody that's done it that way. And that's all I was trying to speak about. So what I'm about to share with you now is another thing. See and I want you to understand something about when you see people with what you consider convenient lives. Convenience is built by inconvenience. It's just the way it is. Convenience is built by inconvenience. If you want to have a convenient life, you are going to have to inconvenience yourself on many, many occasions, and it won't be just some every now and then. In order to have a convenient life, you are going to have to spend a great deal of your current life being inconvenient. It's the only way it's done. For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. That's a scientific law, but it's also a spiritual law. If you do good to everybody, good will come to you. If you do evil to everybody, evil gonna come your way. So convenience is built through inconvenience. For every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction. So if you put out evil, the equal and opposite reaction will be the equal is you gonna get evil to the opposite is is you won't be putting it out, It'll be coming back to you. So do you understand what I'm trying to say? So, if you want a life of convenience, it is built through inconvenience. Another way to look at it is and what I just had to come to terms with all my journey to success. And this is not a negative, y'all. It's okay because success is very, very hard. It just is. Man. I wish I could tell people it's not hard, but it is. You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable. If you're trying to be comfortable, you're going to have to get okay with being uncomfortable for stretches at a time. I'm sorry, I'm sorry if that doesn't sound right to you. But if you talk to successful people, they will share that information with you that you have to be comfortable. You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable. Because it's uncomfortable to become successful. It's inconvenient to become success us for it really really is. But these are things that you have to be willing to cope with to get the equal and opposite reaction. The equal part is this, The opposite part is this inconvenience will become convenient. That's it's just that's the way it works. Man, I wish I could. I don't know if I'm saying it to you the way I want to deliver the message. But I'm just trying to get you to understand that it's okay. But in your moments of uncomfortableness, in your moments of inconvenience, you can rest assure that God is with you all the way that God didn't say your life would be easy. Faith doesn't make it easy. Faith makes it possible. And all you want to know is that what I'm going through will create the possibility of me becoming successful. Then I'm willing to go through the necessary pains and gross and everything to become successful. And if you got God in your life, he can give you the strength, the power, the will to endure anything. With Christ, all things are possible. Faith doesn't make it easy. Faith makes it possible. You've got to understand that. That's my message today. That's why I want everybody together and we'll talk some more. Have a great week. He was very profound. Saouy' here, y'all listen, talk to God. 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