Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all have a suit looking like the back down, giving them more like the Millian buck things in it coubles me. True good it Steve har listening to the movie together for Studley, I don't join join me in doing me. Honey. You gotta turning to a you gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn them out, then turn the water the water go. Come come on your fad uh huh. I sure will A good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, today is simple. I got it together. I didn't have to. I gave a little thought this morning. I actually got up in um went to the gym, and I make time for that too. Man. That's but that that's that's that's that's kind of what I want to speak with everybody about today because I want to remind you and if you haven't heard it, I'm gonna share it with you. I want to tell you. I want to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort. You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out about trying is trying is just a noble way of saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best. Well, that's that's not exactly true, though, that that's that's not exactly true. You are, and I want to talk to you about that because I don't want you to be one of the people who just tried. See trying, I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something, You're gonna have to first try. But I want you to change your mind set from trying to getting it done. See, that's a that's a big difference. When you say I'm gonna get it done and when somebody says to me, I'm gonna try. Those are two different people I'm talking to. I'm really more apt to listen to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get it done, because trying to me, I know what that means. Man. And oftentimes when you've tried, have you ever noticed that you've not gotten it done? It's because when you go in with the mindset of trying, I'm gonna try. What try does is it allows you to fail. Trying allows you to fail, because if all you're gonna do is try, anybody can try. It's the person that has the mindset that I'm gonna get it done is the person who changes the complexion of things, who changes the outcome of thing, who gets a different results. I'm gonna get it done. It's very different than I'm gonna try. You know. Look, man, I know this sounds a little harsh, but you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old wise sayings that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man, you talk to anybody that took second place in the super Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try. The only way to gain God's real blessings is you have to try something. Stevie Backpedalin. Now listen to me close. You have to put forth an effort to allow God to put his finger on something to bless on your behalf. You must start to attempt now, insane getting it done, And I'm gonna try. That's a different of two different faiths to me that I'm just talking about me. Now. You may be different, so I can't I can't say this about you, but I can't say this about me. If I say I'm gonna get it done, I have a lot of faith in it. I am going to get it done because I just don't see failure as an option. A lot of times now, if somebody says to me, like the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day, which is thirty stones on the ice. If you're not familiar with it's very simple, and so I said, man, I'd like to give that a try. I went in full well knowing I may not come away from this little curling lesson as a person who could make the Olympic team. I just wanted to try it because I thought it looked cool and I always wanted to get it done well. I failed twice. I threw a stone completely into the other lane. I lost that little ice shoe, it shot out under me. But you know what, I kept trying though. I kept trying until I got four of them stones in that circle right where I aimed. But now had I give it up after I failed, after I threw that stone in the other lane, after I shot my shoe down all the way to the bottom side, the little ice shoe they give you, I never did it, but because I was trying something got me together a little bit because of my effort, and it caused me not to fall the next time, not to throw it into other lane, not to shoot my shoe to the back of the wall. All of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had I stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and I went back week after week after week after week. I promise you I could get it done. I could at least know how to compete in a game of curling. Might not be the best. I might not win the championship, but I could have got it done to the point where I could have competed in the game of curling. So sometimes if you're scared to say I'm gonna get it done, just go out there and get started. You know, learn from every attempt that you make. See, don't quit writing yourself off as a failure every time something don't go right. When I failed on that ice, I could have said, man, I can't curl, but hold up, man, I'm watching for other women out here, curl, for other dudes out here, curling, little kids out here, curling. Hold up, Pardner, you know, man. So I learned when I threw that stone on the other ice, when I when I fail, when when my shoe shot off, I learned from every attempt a little bit more about it. And then I said to myself one point time, man, I'm gonna get this stone in that circle. I'm gonna get this stone in this circle. And guess what I got it done. Now what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to you that you gotta get started, that you gotta put forth an effort. Give God something to bless. Oh God, bless me, Oh God, bless me. Bless you? What? Bless you? Where? Bless you? How? Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta think higher. You get God in your life, man, He allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I'm sitting up in debt. I came up with a plan to get out of debt in five years. I came up with this plan, right. I was sitting up and I was tripping on it. Now, I said, wait a minute, man, hold on, And this is what I came up with. I said, God created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains, the sky, the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, all of this. Man, Mount Everest the Gobi Desert, the Indian Ocean, all of it. Made all of it in six days, and then he rested on the seventh. So why am I taking to God the five year plan? If he can create heaven and Earth in six days, why am I walking in there talking about helped me in five years? How is it gonna take God five years to getting me out of debt? And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Dude, the math hill man, I ain't that big. You ain't that big. You ain't in that much trouble. I ain't in that much trouble. See, God got a way of showing you some things, man, but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man, you God will bless you a little bit and give you a little bit more courage. And then all them attempts you making is gonna and all this so I'll try. You know what that turn into. I'm gonna get it done. And at the end of the day, that's what you have to do. Because trying to pay your rent and not paying your rent, it's two different things. You can try to play or pay your rent or you can get it done. Now, how long you think you're gonna stay in that house trying. You got to go with the mindset of getting it done. And if you can put some stuff out there and give God a chance to put his finger on it and bless it for you the most stuff he can do for you. Quit looking around what everybody else gotten. Gonna get some of it for yourself. Okay, all right, you're listening to show, ladies and gentlemen, undivided attention. Please Steve varbe Morning show his own up and running rolling We are here. Oh man, what's up Shirley? Hey Steve, how are you doing? Okay? You say you come through what's so called? Hey, what's up y'all? Miss me vain? I wait to hear it, you know. Uh, Junior morning? Uh, what's had? Yeah? And the foodless favor. Glad to be in building, ready for a great day, you know what I know? I gotta send a special shout out to Jay Anthony Brown though he's such a trooper to me, trooper, he's such a trooper sick head. Really, I've never seen anything like that before. Yeah, I mean he's tackling this thing, you know, with some courage I haven't ever seen before, and I just wanted to shout him out and send him today. I mean he's doing uh, I mean man for dude, just dealing with this chemo like this and his spirit, I mean crazy good man. It really is man quick calling me. I know he TETs me like so just jokes. How you feel man, how you think our feet? Yeah, he can't call with condolences and none of that. Man were praying for you keep it up here. Yeah, he said he was filming everything. Everything. He's chronicling it, you know, and this is going to help so many people, so many people you know who may be in a depression or may be sad about what they're going through. You know, if you are, click on Jay's i G page because you will get a laugh. Yeahthony Brown called it was what be that don't sound like a person that's sick at all going not what he's going. And you know how we talk to Yeah, yeah, I text him. I know he's gonna cuss. I just text, but Tommy, he texts me three times because I wasn't answering him fast. I said, Wight. Yeah, you gotta love him though, because he is a fighter Wow, yes, he is, he is, he is. Praym healing from my family member Jay Anthony. That's right, that's right. Yeah, I've been Welcome back. Dan's mom, Carla, Hello in the building. Who Tommy, I've been through. I've been through. I'm exalted, but I have the sec Congratulations to my daughter and her two dance teams. The teams are called Regiment and Iconic. Out of eleven teams in both divisions, they won first place. That's what I was waiting for. Yes, yes, congratulations, championship rings, Miss Hobby and Crew, but rings rings though, Yes, But you know what, Steve, she said one thing that reminded me of you. I said, Tasha, do you get nervous? And she said, you know, I get nervous by mama and we in the back and they say, you know, y'all? Next, Yeah, everybody's true most feared words and entertainment man. All right, coming up with thirty two after the hour, guys, do you consider not paying taxes a sport? Well, guess who does our president. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to the show. The New York Times has obtained Donald Trump's I R S Tax transcripts from nineteen eighty five through nineteen ninety four, and reports that he's a big loser when it comes to business. Okay. According to The Times, Donald Trump reported losses in nineteen eighty five or forty six point one million dollars from his main businesses that's casinos, hotels, and retail spaces, and then continue to lose money each following year over the decade, to the tune of one point seventeen billion. In fact, on a yearly basis, it seems that Trump may have lost more money than almost any other taxpayer in America. To that end, Trump paid no federal income taxes for eight of the ten years because of those losses. So the president of the US doesn't didn't pay taxes for eight to ten years. Steve, what about it? Well, I mean, Van Jones was on my show last week and he told me the exact same thing. For the story came though. Wow, really yeah, he said the exact same thing. You're all right, well, taxes, I know it kind of gets you. Yeah, it choked me off. Not about you. Well, I thought you mean y'all said that you're talking about me. But Jones, no, I mean he said the same thing. I mean, you know this guy. You know, people don't. People don't understand, man, And I want you to understand. He really didn't lose that money. You know, you can write off a loss and make money too if you slick. And you better believe he was slick, because how would he live? Yeah, how would he have lived through losing a billion some dollars loophole? Oh? Come on, man, So he had to have some income coming from somewhere because you gotta keep paying for stuff. Now you need his account, Steve, that's what. No, I don't need that. I don't know. You don't. Now, I'm just gonna do do what I'm posted to. Just gonna losing my owncle behind no bill, just say Steven, because I like being free. Okay. Donald Trump is not in jail. He's the president. Thank you, Donald Trump, My uncle he black Donald. Hello. Hello, Yeah, I wasn't gonna let it lay out there right now? You having to go through that now? Well, the President of tweeted and admitted he took huge rite offs and bragged and compared his tax strategy to a sport. Most of us think of paying taxes as a responsibility. Hello, and not a sport. What is that. I'm kind of mad at that president, and I don't know. It's a game. The game to hear. Everything's a game to him though, and you lose. That's that's all that to him is that he wins, right, and is to him is a win lose situation. That's that's where the sport part comes in. You know, let me see how much I can get away with this year. Yeah yeah, but taxes help pay for things in the community that people need. Donald Trump don't care about what you need. We know that, Carlins. Yeah, you don't care about the fire department. Yeah, we know that. He've been down to the YMCA. Don't care about nothing. Yeah, yeah, that's why we pay our taxes for better communities to give back and think it's a sport. He needs his money to build things that make money, but to build enough things to lose money so you can write it off as a lass. But then say that you go write it off for years and so the money you're making. You all said, what you're making with your losses. It's a game. That's what he means by it being a sport as sport. Yeah yeah, yeah, I got about that. And you should you know, because here we are hard working Americans paying our tax dollars every year every paycheck, you know, working hard, giving you know, almost half our money back to the government. And it's a game. To him, it's sports. But you're our leader. Yeah, so are you leading by example? He don't give it down. He's not trying to lead. He just wants trying to win. Thank you. It has nothing to do with leadership. To him, it's not interested in leading people. He never wanted to lead people. See listen to me. When you want to lead people, you first learned to lead by serving. All great leaders throughout history have been greater servants. Gandhi was a great servant. Muhammad Ali was a great mean. Yeah, Muhammad Ali was a great servant of people. Uh. Doct King was a great servant of people. Barack Obama was a servant of people. If you look back at Bill Clinton, he did a lot of service for people. If you just look at it. Man, Donald Trump has never been in a community. Service of any kind doesn't matter to him. That's not what he's for. He's a capitalist. He wants to make money. And there's nothing wrong with that, nothing wrong with that as right, But the tax part. It's hard, man, it's really hard. Now. I disagree with the Democrats who want to tax the rich more. I disagree with that because you just got to get the people to pay what they're supposed to pay. That's your problem. Then I pay what they're supposed to pay. Now, when you come up with the text them more, you know what the boys gonna do. They're gonna find some mo loophole and vote Republican. Well, Republicans will tell you that they actually make more money when Democrats are in office. I hate to tell you that. Oh really, all right, I've heard rich boys say that, Wow, well we gotta go. Steve coming up, more fun with the nephew and run that prank back that's coming up right after this. Come on, come on, come on over. You're listening to Steve Morning Show coming up guys at the top of the hour, and entertainment news Carlo Carlo, Carlo, Wait till you hear this. A destroyer A Detroit street will be renamed for the late temptation David Ruffing. What about Otis anybody coming anybody right now? Not yet? Okay, all right, that's gonna happen next month. Also in entertainment news. We'll tell you big news about the twenty nineteen Steve Harvey sand and so FASTI vaut baby, but right now the nephew is here to run that frank back. What you got, nef phine for a pizza delivery? Now, everybody likes pizza, don't they? Yeah? Who doesn't? But even people in prison like pizza. Let's go here. It is pizza delivery. Do you know pizza? May I help you? Okay? So you all for me? Please? Yeah? Yeah? All right? Okay, So about this? So can I get your order pizza? You want ten pizzas? And what's on request? Was that going to be six? You poke up on me? Please? I need six cheese pizzas? Six cheese pizzas? On being crush? What's on request was a being being? Then six? See being crush pizzas? And do you want any other topics on that's her? No? I need to to meet lovers? That was that? Again? You can stick up a little bit. I was really having a hard time hearing you. I need to meet lovers two meet lovers? Is that? Yes? To meet lovers? Meet lovers? Pizza? Okay? And what kind of quest would you like on that, sir, h that's thick, big cross. You said you want to thank quest on that thick, so I'm having a really hard time hearing you. Can't you speak up for me? I need to meet lovers with thick crust, bad crust. Okay, okay, all right? And then the last is two vengjies on being crossed, two beggs, veggis veggieves veggie's two veggie two veggie on the foot, crust do do y'all delivered to um do y'all delivered to U gated gated community. Can you hook for a second for me? Three recess? Okay, sorry about that, sir. Okay? Can I get your phone numbers three four two there are six eight nine? Okay. I heard three four two dass six eight nine, but I didn't get the rest of those numbers. Can I get an area code or my number three four two d's six eight nine? Okay? Um, I need to get the whole seven bidgits and the area code, so there we can put you in the computer to try to find your location. I told you my number. My number is three four two Dad six eight nine. Okay okay, sir, um, let me get my manager on the phone. Excuse me, Um, he's giving me like six numbers. Maybe I'll take care of it, sir. How are you doing? Hey? How are you doing? I'm doing great, all right. I ordered ten pizzas, six cheese pizzas, two meat lovers, and two bedgies. I'm trying to see if do y'all have a problem delivered to a gated community. Oh not at all. We delivered to a gated community all the time. Let me just get a number for you in an address, right, my number? Three, four, two days, six eight nine, Sir, that's only six digits. We need seven digits. Well, actually your eric cold plus your seven digits. Okay, I don't I don't. If you just leave it with the guard, he'll make sure I get it. No, So, I don't think you're understand I need to have a phone number. Why I can call you. We can go in and out of the gate. That's not a problem. When I get that, I want to direct you can't go in and out that gate. Listen, you can't go in and out that gate, sir. I'm sorry, I can't hear you. Can you speak up something? Okay, I'm trying to get ten pizzas delivered and you just drop it off with the guard. Sir, I understand what you're saying. I'm trying to deliver the pizza to you directly. The guard is not who's getting the pizza, right, I'm delivering it. He's gonna he gonna, he gonna pay you. I'm I'm cool with the guard. He gonna pay you. Okay, where are you? Where are you located? Let's do this. Where are you located? I'm in La and Gola, and where's where's Angola? And Gold? Y'all don't know where? And go? I'm in and Go and Gold in Louisiana the penitentiary. So we can't deliver pizza to and penitentiary. Look, I ordered ten pizzas for one, six, sixteens pizzas, two meet lowers and two big Look. I can't be on this phone too much longer. Listen, Sir, I know what you're saying, but we're not delivering to Angola. Do you know where we're located? You gotta call somebody. We're in Dallas. Look, you gotta guard somebody in and Gola, Louisiana. Look, I'm trying to get these ten pezza. Look I'm late. I'm not going to go back and forth with you exactly, and I'm not gonna go back and forth with you either. We are unable to deliver this pizza to you, okay, Why because you are in the penitentiary, sir. No one delivers pizza to people in the penitentiary. People in the penitentiary can't order pizza, no, sir, they cannot. But we do not deliver to the penitentiary. And then we're in Dallas. Do you know how long it would take to get pizza to Angola? I don't give it. Let me tell, okay, who the manager there? I am the manager? You speaking with the manager? What's your name? Never what my name is? Just know that I'm the manager. Okay. Let me say this to you, just you to manage you there. If I don't get no pizzas here tonight, I'm going I get out. In three years, I'm coming down there, and I'm gonna you up. So you think you're talking to you, ain't gonna met up in three years. I won't be here for matter of fact, I just might stay here for three years. So when you come back, let me tell you something. If y'all don't brainy pieces this penitential and get it to the guard before he get off work then. But it's gonna be proud here now in order these ten pachers and everybody on the cell block is waiting on them, sir. I don't I don't care about you and your folks on your cell blocks. You are in the penitentiary and I don't even know why you calling. Are you on my phone? This is a business, okay, and I have a job to do. I am not delivering pizzas still penitentiary, y'all discriminator, Noby where y'all brain pachas more? We don't discriminate, but we ain't located in that goal. Unless you're gonna give me some petrol from my metro, I ain't coming. Let me tell you something. I want you to remember eating number three fold two dad six eight nine. If you see that gray painted on your eye all that damn pizza place, then you know my thing got out and I'm looking for your three pot two dad six eight nine. I don't give it about three po two six eight nine and seven pot three. What I'm saying is your grass if you come up here in three years and guess where don't drop the soul. Who who you're talking to? That's why I said who you think you talking to? Off my phone? I got I got one more thing to tell you before I get on three years the lands words, I'm gonna safe. You're listening, Yeah, I'm listening. Say what you gotta say? This is next You Timmy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your girlfriend got me to pray phone call you. Oh my goodness, you dropping me. You gotta be freaky man, Oh my god, oh god, this is life, Tommy. Don't nobody want to prison y'all want to I'm didna here, I come, baby. The nephew is coming to town. Tickets are running like hotcakes because guess what, you can buy them locally at the Miracles Closet and ge Q Fashion and people Abouttle because the nephew was coming Mother's Day weekend. That's this Saturday night. I would be there tickets own sale, red Nah. All right, nephew, thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour Entertainment news right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, So Steve, this year's Standing Soul Festival weekend. We'll be hosted at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino and where say it hot ass? That's right, Dominican Republic going down October ten through the fourteenth. This event includes luxury room accommodations, all inclusive food and drink. Steve, come on girl, everything everything you want to eat That pizza y'all been telling me about that I missed last time. I will not miss don't miss man, don't miss man. But I hain't at the Mexican restaurant like I was just I was in Spain. I was eating in the Mexican restaurant. Answer spinning. Uh, And you got tickets over fifteen events, Junior? What you got? Oh? You already? No, we got. We got the Tears of Joy commed is show. We said Tears of Joy with an I don't give a damn Jay what I say? Then we got Tony Robins and hosted by yours truly. Yes, mister tis the Joy comic show man. You ain't gonna want to miss it. It's gonna be eating that's right. And we have a Welcome to Paradise party with the Steve Harvey Morning Show crew. We're gonna have live question and answer, live Q and Polo Knight. Yeah, you got Apollo, I got a master classroom, y'all. Yeah, oh yeah, where's it gonna be seen? It had asked Pooty Cornall not bolted. But Dougie Fresh is gonna be there, genuine is gonna be there. Anthony Hamilton is gonna be there. I mean, yes, Carla. All we need is y'all to be there. That's that, That's all we need. Go to Steve Harvey, sand and Soul reserve your rooms right now. We did an incredible Mother's Day special that we gave a discount on that's still up. I love that. And we got a Father's Day special coming too. Really nice telling y'all, So come on, y'all, we're trying to make it available for you. Ye grand finale concept with DJ Kidd Capri and don't forget Harvey and Lisa Ray. Yes, don't forget Lisa Ray. And the unofficial announcement though is me and Lisa Ray's engagement. Well, come see where where you got to just say it for me, make me believe. Come to Steve Harvey standin Soul dot com or you can call eight hundred and six to eight four twenty eight twenty five. We will see you there. October tenth through the fourteenth. All right, guys. In other entertainment news of Detroit Street will be renamed for the late temptation David Ruffin. It's gonna go down next month. Yes, Tuesday, the Detroit City Council approved the ceremonial renaming of Parkside Street, where the voice of such classes classics as Ain't Too Proud to beg and Oh the classic my Girl lived in the nineteen seventies and the eighties. David Ruffin Avenue will be dedicated on June twenty first, joining Stevie Wonder and Aretha Franklin, who have been similarly honored by the city. So congratulation. Wow, yeah, very nice. Yeah, I love it. Uh huh. I thought Steve was gonna start singing when I said my Girl Now, uh huh. That's not the song. That's that's the one I sung, the one alland yourself. Yeah, all right, save time that my birthday. Time for today's headlines. We're moving on, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Trimp, thank you, Thank you, guys. This is a trip of the news. Let's get it going. As expected, the House Judiciary Committee voted yesterday to hold us Attorney General William Barr in contempt for refusing to provide the panel with unedited copies of the Mullet Russian meddling report. The vote was along party lines, twenty four to sixteen. Committee Chairman Gerald Natalis said it had to be done, especially in light of President Trump's last minute use of executive privilege to keep lawmakers from seeing the blacked out portions of the Special Council's report. This was a very grave and momentous step that we were forced to take today to move a contempt citation against the Attorney General of the United States. We did not relish doing this, but we have no choice the Attorney General bar having proved himself to be the personal attorney to President Trump rather than the Attorney General of the United States. However, White House spokesperson Sarah Sanders calls the Judiciary Panel's action a quote blatant abuse of power. Talks between the US and China mean while schedules are resumed tomorrow in Washington, Donald Trump has threatened to raise tariffs on two hundred billion with abee dollars worth of Chinese imports from ten to twenty five percent on Friday, The top US trade officials say that intellectual property theft and forced transfers of technology are two of the main sticking points. According to a recent poll, many year young people, most of them actually in the US, think the country's going in the wrong direction. A studied by Harvard Universities Institute of Politics exclusively for Time magazine shows that young voters from both major parties say they're concerned about the direction of this country is taking morally. Among young Democrats, sixty six percent feel that way, among their Republican counterparts at sixty four percent. However, while a lot of America's young people disapprove of President Trump, many young Republicans say they're not necessarily anti Trump, but rather alienated by the political system as a whole. And while many young voters are moving more and more to the left, many of the same age group and the GOP are actually more conservative than their older party members, considering same sex marriage morally wrong, and saying that immigration has done more harm to this country than good. Okay, and unfortunately not surprising news, a new study from the University of Michigan shows that white drug abusers who addicted to heroin and fentinhill stuff like that have had almost exclusive access to a drug that curbs the cravings for the highly addictive drugs called beauprey norpheme, And according to a survey of physicians and the prescriptions that they write, white addicts have been almost thirty five times more likely to be given that drug than blacks were. Some doctors point out that back in the two thousand, proponents of the drug said that bupre norphine was needed to help quote suburban young people, so bfre norphine was introduced as a quote private office treatment for private audiences with the means to pay for it. Finally, today's biological clock day and minus tick tick ticking. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steven Show. Tyra Banks made a huge return to modeling to grace the cover of Sports Illustrated Swimsuit for the third time. You guys see this. She looks fantastic forty five years old. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. She was the first black woman to get her own solo cover for the publication's annual Swimsuit edition. The theme for the issue is Shattering Perceptions. Tyra tweeted, this is for everybody that has been told they are not good enough because of their body, their age, their everything. Hashtag banks is here to tell you that you are freaking fear no matter what anybody says. Tyra retired from modeling back in two thousand and five, if you recall, after walking in her final Victoria's Secret Fashion show. She since turned herself into a media mogul. Tyra looks fabulous. Are you guys beach ready for the summer? For sand and soult is? Everybody? Tyra, she wasn't good enough. I'm beach building ready, beach ready, but wed the beach. I'm inside somewhere. I'm Cabanna ready. Okay, Yes, I'm deep in at the pool. Ready, y'all gonna have y'all shirts on, you guys. Guy's right, man, I put a night in. Man, Yeah, I don't want it to come up at all. Dude, you gonna put it, no nut, you can just safe depended under your pain. We're not in man parting kind of way. Keep this trait from coming up. That's funny, that's hilarious. The beach is gonna get whateverybody I give it. Okay, I'm like Tyra, you know, hey, we're good enough we're good enough. Everybody looks he looks beautiful. Yeah, her body looks fantastic. Yeah, she looks great. You can say that now. I don't let Tyre talk y'all out there. Anybody gonna be out there posing, y'all careful. Well, she does look great, and congratulations to all her success. I mean she's done so much, especially you know what America's next top model. She went back to Harvard. Tira said, were fabulous. Tyre ain't seen everybody you stop. He said, you are bringing fears no matter what anybody says, and that includes you. Steve Harvey coming up in thirty four after the hour, sleep veron refit. You ain't got to put on babies. All right, Steve, you're up next. We're gonna talk about this sleep versus wealth controversy. You're in hot water again. We'll talk about it right after this. Man, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here we go again with you trending in social media. This has been your week. Okay. You recently on your daytime talk show you talked about sleep versus wealth. This clip is trending. Let's take a listen to this rich people don't sleep eight hours a day. That's a third of your life. It ain't twenty four hours in a day. You cannot be sleep eight hours a day. You can't live in la and wake up at eight o'clock in the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the east coast. The stock mark had been opened two hours. They're already making decisions about your life. And your ass was sleep. The Bible says, he who loves to sleep, and the folding of hands, poverty was set upon you like a thief in the night. Who is he mad? Though? What is he angry? Because he kind of get it through people. Yes, because sometimes you have to show passion Tommy, Okay, sometimes that's what it takes to wake people up. Sometimes. Okay, hold on, But why are they mad at that? Though? But I guess because of your tone, you sound a bit of aggressive to people, you know, I think that's what saying. And let me say something to y'all. I'm not apologizing for being passionate, and you don't. And I'm not apologizing for being passionate. I'm not apologizing for trying to help people understand what it really takes. I'm not apologized for that. I don't I don't even understand that and that no more, I don't even care really man, But I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what. I'll tell you what go to sleep? That it's it's a scripture that says that, yeah, that if you love to sleep and the folding of hands, poverty was set upon you like a thief in the night. That's a scripture. What you man is, Steve, because because I said it loud to you, yeah, yeah, oh you ain't want to hear it that day. It's not a man, amen, Amen, What do you want me to be some little weak punk ass dude, because I'm not. I'm not. I'm grown ass man, hot ass pooty comes. That's what I said when nobody man about that. But I's got to be so hot down man. I'm telling you right now that I will not apologize for because that was me trying to get it through people's head exactly. Let's hear it again. No, I ain't got hit people. Let's hear it again. Many people understand it. People don't sleep eight hours a day. That's a third of your life. It ain't twenty four hours in a day. You cannot be sleep eight hours a day. You can't live in that la and wake up at eight o'clock in the morning. It's eleven o'clock on the east coast. The stock mark had been open two hours. They're already making decisions about your life. And your ass was sleep. The Bible says he who loves to sleep, and the folding of hands, poverty was set upon you like a thief in the night. Now let me hear you say that slowly, with less aggression. I'm good with it, because you know when you were being raised, when you were kids, and your parents talk to you a by not being lazy girl, and that's all you're saying. Yeah, and you quoted the biby. I mean, come on, you quoted the Bible. We all were raised like that. We couldn't sleep all day in our parents' house. We couldn't do that that. We just could not do that. Get up and do something with your life. Yeah, I don't care, Yeah, but just get up. You come in the hours you're supposed to sleep. Can I sleep on sad? I mean, damn, where can I get some risk though? I'm just I just want to know. Can I snore any point in my life? I'm a hustler all day, but when can I guess some rest though? Tell me how much I oh kiss my behind? Ain't nothing wrong with me doing text if you're straight hustler, So you have really lost focus. I'm a hustler and I'm all over this country hustling, so you can miss me with that, Julie, You're wrong, Tommy. He said if you were sleeping, you wouldn't be in text down. He was giving your ignorant answer compliment. Yes, what is you hollying? Fun? If you would just stay a little more calm, that's passed. You need to calm down. Why is you holly? Why don't you gonna get yourself some mo Damn risks people ignorant? You got probably out of him, Junior. I ain't pobbizzing, No, damn body. We're listening to me. Yeah, I just podgized not to give him another compliment. I'm next. I'm next. The crazy one is up with a prank phone call right after this. Whoo you're listening stry morning show coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. I got a good strawberry letter for you today, guys, hang on to that for that. But right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you got net, Diva Louns, Diva Louns. We are headed to Montgomery, Alabama. That's where it is, Diva Loud. Let's run that. Yeah, Lonette, I'm trying to um. You don't want to own the Diva Lounge? Right yeah, all right, okay, my aunt trying to um. My ain Phyllis was trying to get an appointment. Say yall rejected her or something like that on getting an appointment for let this pass. Said that she wanted to get get in and get get her hair dead. I'm sorry, sorry, nowhere rejected her right now, I'm not accepting any new clients. Hold on, so what do you mean you're not accepting no clients. That's the part I'm not trying to understand, because my ain't feelers. You know, she didn't call up there like two times. From what she's telling me about she can't get in there, uh de allounge, that she can't get in there and get her hair done, because every time she called, they saying that they, you know, ain't want nobody take her give her an appointment. Sir, I am the only salast at the dev Allounge, and right now I am not accepting to anyw clients. I am so sorry for your aunt, but there are other ones in the area. But right now, I am not accepting any new clients. No, hold on, hold on, wait, wait man, No, my ain't one that she want to come there that I'm just saying this here, ain't trying to get her. We've done. She can excuse me. You just cursed me out for north parent reason. I can't. I can live that because basically, what I'm trying to say is I don't understand how it is you can't get my any hair done. She trying to get her. We've done so she can be right for church. So I don't understand the problem. But the problem is you're attacking me. You're gonna call me talking about your damn what's the damned a partner, but you're cursing me out. You don't get an a partner with me talking to me like that. Now, okay, so what excuse me? Let me talk because you just cursed me out. Now he's gonna hear what I have to say. So I'm not accepting any new clients at this time. Now, she could have called, but right now I'm not. I'm just not accepting any clients. I apologize because there's nothing else I can do. I work because you know what, I already know the deal, because I didn't already asked round town. You you got all the everybody over there, got all these big time cards, beamers and rains, rovers so them to people them only the people you do. You can't do. So let me tell you one damn thing. I don't discriminate. I don't get damn what you draw. You dut down four, piss off all I care. I got the white now star my damn said his book, and I cannot take any more you plug. There are a thousand dawn towards in Montgomery that you can go to. Let me, let me, let me, let me say, let me say this to you. Uh what's your name again? Lawte? Let me tell you this right here. Bring I'm gonna bring up there. I'm bringing you you. You're gonna shut up while I'm talking. Hey, look, I'm gonna braying my Anie up there talking. I'm sorry, no, no, but you ain't gonna just reject my Anie. She's trying to get an a different Okay, hold on professionalism is about to go out the door with your Now, I have been right to be professional with your that you just called me, But you you assist on cursing me out, and I haven't done anything to you. I have sen said so I cannot take on any new clients, but you assists on cursing me out. I assist, I assist on somebody doing my anti hair. Somebody, dam I not the damn salion. You won't get it done. Kill im. Oh no, you're gonna. You're gonna do it, because I'm gonna bring my anie up there on side do it. I'm gonna do it. How you gonna make me what you're gonna You're gonna do what you're gonna do with somebody gonna put somebody's gonna put this wen. I'm telling you now, I can go from debo to one hundred real quick. I'm trying to be professional with yours. But right now that's one out the door, because right now you did so disrespectful to let me say this again, said I'm coming up there somebody putting my anty weaves and huge weed. Sorry, I don't do weed. I only do short hair. That's what I specialize in. That's my strength. So you definitely have to find another salit. I don't know we killing it? Who got a hanselon? Don't do no weed? Who do this? I don't do who? Damn you don't make no damn said? We kind of damn he styles you just a short hair style that don't make no damn sense. Well that's what the specialized me. As a matter of fact, I'm damn good at it for a round. If you you research me, you're already done your damn research on a round. Google me. That's what you do. Google me. I have bad session, So don't care you what I tell. Let me say this. Look at don't come for me now, because I'm ready for you. You know what, I'm not even gonna be sending here, going back and forth with you. I'm gonna say it is sandy, I'm coming up there and somebody gonna do my anty weed. But bottom line, how we're gonna be done for church on Sunday? Oh do you think you talking shoe? You listen to me, I'm so time of your pocket. If you don't win around asking everybody about me, you're talking to know that I don't do nothing but short hair I don't know that we not ask to do me damn your eart hair? You ready, your eye can go to hell, that's what you can do. Because I don't go about you. I firs to be professional with you, which is stupid and isn't it hell? And then your well she gotta be qutit to hel to me? What's stupid? Don't call me no more because I don't. I don't appreciate you calling my damn sound phone. I don't know who. Clearly he'll get you my damn knock because this is a damn FID the number I hadn't even given no damn by then he signed damn carding my dawn ficker lit I listen because in my Parker lot I don't might have showed the lord me watch you hey, hey, let me you know what. Let me just tell you this here. Tommy one gave me your damn number, told me that if I talk to you, you would do my ainty hair. Cool Tommy Tommy one, gy, I Y, yes, you do? Yes? You do? You know nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marter Show. You know him, don't you? Oh gosh, do you have a few Timmy from the Speed of Party show that be me mis lonetto Lord Jesus, you are so tell you something. Dammy and Paul told me Lonetta is real cool, but she's twenty five percent ghetto. Oh oh my god, I'm gonna tell you this. Why you're Tommy, You're gonna get your business because you told to me. I don't know. Listen, I'm from the hood, so I am. I'm gonna have my farmers to come up there, start with my brother Rich. You know, all of us been sorry. This has been a crazy serious for me. But I love you and I love the show. You know what. I'm coming to Montgomery, but I'm gonna stop by this. Steve Allowns, you got over there. We all had it one up in Montgomery. You gotta do this for me. What is the baddest radio show in the list? Steve Harvey warning show. Got a little upset with me? This? Can you blame her? That's that's that's that's a prank, gone gone, gone, very very good. As long as somebody cussing at me, that's all I need. That's all. That's when you've succeeded. That's when I have succeeded. I have one, all right, and I'll be in Texar Canna okay this Saturday night. You can buy your tickets at Miracle's Closet or GQ Fashion. They are on sale right now, Texar Canna. Ye bet, I don't say. All right. Up next, it is today's Strawberry Letter. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to the stew Hey, listen, it is time for the Strawberry Letter. Before we get to it, we want to remind everyone if you have some relationship issues, If you have some problems, uh, you know, write us, okay, email us at Steve Harvey FM dot com. Write Steve any kind of issues, right yeah, yeah, relationship, yeah, but don't have Steve for money though not those kinds of issues are Go ahead, ask for it. Tell me what I read it on that you hear my response on the hell we're doing financial request letters. No, we're not anyway. Write to us. Email us at Steve Harvey FM dot com with your strawberry letters, okay, and we could read them on the air. We read yours. Buggala, hold on TI, we got it for you. Here. It is the straw Married Letter, all right, subject I want to call it quits after twenty one years of dating. Dear Stephen Shirley, My life could not be more complicated. I'm a thirty six year old woman and I've been dating the same man for twenty one years. Yes, that's right. He's my boyfriend and we've been together off and on since middle school. He was my first love and my first sexual encounter. We have three teenage children, and we have been through all of the ups and downs that married couples have, but we've never been married. He has never wanted to get married. I wanted to marry him when we were in our twenties, but change my mind because he was not treating me like a queen and making me feel like I was the prettiest woman in the world. I was thinking because he never had to commit to me in marriage, that he started taking me for granted. For many years now, he has not paid any attention to me. When he's home, he loves his video games. We rarely go out to dinner, and we've never been on vacation. After twenty one years, I'm done with trying to make this relationship work. It's like I'm roommates with my best friend that I grew up with I want to call it quits, but I don't know how it should be easy? Right since I don't have to divorce him, how do I end things with my best friend, lover and father of my children? Help? All right? Something that you said in the letter about he doesn't treat you like a queen, Well, I say, if you really believe you're a queen, then act like it. I mean, do what queens do. Put yourself first and stop allowing him to treat you that way, just any old kind of way. You know why you have to put up with his foolishness. I have no idea for twenty one years, and yes, he's taking you for granted because you let him. If he doesn't want to marry, you leave him if you want to get married. You know, why are you wasting your life with him? Twenty one years of your life? I understand you know that he may have a special place in your heart because he was your first and you know he was your first love and everything. He's the father of your teenage children. But it's time to, you know, just start using your head in this situation. Keep your heart out of it for a moment in this relationship, because it's going to continually get broken. So I just say stay woke. You know, you have to know that it's okay to feel how you feel and be fed up and one out. It is okay. You can walk away. I don't know what your living arrangement is or anything like that, but either you can pack your bags and get out, or you can pack his bags and tell him to get out. Now's the time. After twenty one years, Steve, Well, this is a crazy letter man, Yeah, because it has a couple of problem points in it, more than a couple. I want to call it quits after twenty one years of eight that that's an alarming number of years for dating. I want to call it quits after twenty one years of dating. Wow, twenty one years. You ain't got a ring, a proposal, a promise ring, nothing, You just dating. But things is happening in this relationship that goes a little bit past date. I'm thirty six years old, which means you've been with this man what I love since you were fifteen. Okay, Uh, that's right, and he's my boyfriend. You're not supposed to be anybody's boyfriend after college, that's ladies, you're not supposed to be somebody's girlfriend. After college. After college, this stuff has to start meaning stuff. Get all that way with stuff out your system in college. After college, it aught has started meaning something to you. Uh, he was my first love and my first sexual enclowner. Well that's good. You were fifteen. That's good. I'm not saying it happened at fifteen, but right at least that's good. We have three teenage children, so you're having babies while you just dating. And you've demanded nothing, as you've given this man three children. You've demanded nothing, and you've been through all the ups and downs that married couples go through, like what what like? Threaten threatening to divorce, threatening to never see your children again, threatening to take everything you own, threatening to take half of his income due to child support. No you haven't, No you haven't. That's what happens with married people discuss leaving. Your discussion of leaving, like Shirley said, requires nothing unless you're in the state of California. Then you got problems now. But we've never been married. He here's the line. He has never wanted to get married. Well, ain't he been doing what he want to do? He never wanted to get married, and guess what he ain't ta where the hell is to surprise at this man ain't ever wanted to get married, and guess what he ain't married. I wanted to marry him when we were in our twenties and change my mind because he wasn't treating me like a queen. Listen to me, He still don't treat you like a queen, nor will he ever treat you like a queen. You have gotten what this man at the best, what was gonna give you three babies? And it took you twenty one years to get that. He has not treated you like a queen. He will never treat you like a queen because he don't do nothing he don't want to do. He didn't want to get mad and for twenty one years don'g gonna he ain't This writing is on the wall. You say in your letter, my life could not be more complicated, or it could be more complicated. You could be married. Oh it would be a lot more complicated if you were married, So your life could be a lot more complicated. But because you ain't married, like Shirley say, you can jam walk off and he would have to pay for them kids. I got the rest of him when we come back. That notice right here you're talking about all right, we're gonna have two of your coming up at twenty three after this man knows what he talks about. You're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show. If you haven't already picked out the perfect one eight hundred Flowers bouquet for mom, you have to act fast. Beat the Mother's day rush and save yourself some time waiting in line by visiting one eight hundred flowers dot com today right now. 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They beautiful kids. They're gonna grow up to become something absolutely wonderful, almost willing to bet. But as for you, what you've gotten from it has been what he said he wasn't gonna do. He said he never wanted to be married, and guess what, he ain't married. And this little you're talking about, you've been together twenty one years. Since they've been together, off and owned since middle school? The hell do that mean? I keep telling y'all, men don't do off. You always say that men don't do off. We own somewhere. If we offer you, we own to huh wow. If we offer you, we own to huh immediately. Period. That's how men are built. Does that make us wrong? No, I'm just telling you that's how we built. We don't need no time to ourselves go up in the mountains and find ourselves. No, we go over to her house and find ourselves that evening. Okay, so now you wanted to marry him when you in your twenties, but I changed my mind because he was not treating me like a queen. And I'm telling you he still ain't treating you like a queen. And I got some more news for you. He will never ever treat you like a queen because you are not his queen. He's not your king. So why would he treat you like that? And why would you keep expecting to be treated like a queen when he has never performed or acted like a king. He can't be a little monkey jack. He can't be the jack jack on your side show he uh everybody else? Oh my god, there's a queen bowed down. But they can't come do nothing for you because they ain't the king. Now, she said, I was thinking because he never had committed to me in marriage, that he started taking me for granted. No, listen to me again, you said he never after he said the queen lyne and making me feel like I was the prettiest woman in the world. I was thinking because he had never committed to me in marriage, that he started to take me for granted. No, you reverse that. He's taking you for granted because he ain't got to commit to you in marriage. I'll just flip it. That's all. That is why we got to commit to you. We're gonna take you for granted here. We ain't married to you. You can't make us do nothing. We're not married. And you keep saying your life couldn't be could not be more complicated. It would be a lot more complicated if you was married. For many years now, he has not paid any attention to me. That's because you're not his queen. Let me go in the house and not pay attention to the queen of that house, and see how long I'll be sitting up at till about I'm the damn king. For many years now, he has not paying attention to me. When he's home. He loves his video game and that's what he pay attention to. All you gotta do to know where you're staying with him? Man, what do he pay attention to if he don't pay attention to you? What? What? But you say he loves his video game? Sitting of that stared at that screen though ain't it because that's what he loved. We rarely go out to dinner for what, ain't you eating? Nothing? House? And we've never been on vacation after twenty one years, and you're not going anywhere. Listen to this right here, y'all ain't been nowhere because he has no plans of this going anywhere. Oh godly, listen to me, ladies. When a man don't care you know where, it's because he don't see this going no where? Do you. I'm teaching you how men are hurts me. If I'm carrying you know where, it's because he don't see this going nowhere. Bam, news flash, print it, put it on Twitter. Yeah, it's like I'm roommates with my best friend that I grew up with. That's a great analogy because that's exactly what you are. I want to call it quits. Okay, now we're okay. Now we're getting down to it. But I don't know how well won't you just do what he's been doing nothing? Because he paid your attention in years, he's been off and on. He don't want to get married. So now all you gotta do is take everything he's done and just do it to him, Stop paying him attention, stop wanting to go out to dinner with him, Free yourself from the loser, and I bet you a winner come long and want to take you out to eat and probably take you somewhere. You ain't even been on a vacation, your grown ass woman ain't never been on vacation one years twenty thirty six years old. You ain't never seen where y'all live, North Carolina. You ain't been the South carelin, your ass ain't been the South Carolina. The damn damn you live in. You live in, You live in Florida. Ain't been to the beach. Yeah, we'll just drive over that man. Well, he don't take me. No. Uh, I don't know how it should be easy, right since I don't have to divorce him? How do I end things with my best friend, lover and father of my children. Let's just go over these three things that you're claiming. Is he's your best friend, he treats you like your best friend, or you claiming him as your best friend. You need some new friends because you don't know what best friends do. Best friends care about each other. He's your lover, he ain't paid attention to you in years. So even if y'all do get to love him, ain't it all just about him? Hello? And he's your father, your children, which he will always be. Eat that ain't gonna change now. You make him continue to be the father that's for damn show. But the best friend and lover he out. That's my response, Strawberry, let him kiss him? Why we gotta get out of here? Email us us your thoughts go to uh my girls Shirley. Okay, coming up in ten minutes from the talk it is our girls, Cheryl Underwood. Right after this listening, coming up at the top of the hour, Carla's Reality Update. But right now from the time, come on, Steve, my girl introduced her. Sure, Steve Harvey, listen to me, Oh, I ain't never heard all that, the whistling, the clapping, and listen to me. Okay, I got let's get into this politics death for a minute. So did anybody get that income tax free fun back? Why you ask, sir? Because mine is shorter than it's supposed to be. Listen to me, everybody telling me about this great economy and everything Trump doing. He ain't the businessman y'all think it is? How the hell you lose a billion dollars. You got to be the dumbest. Okay, I'm sorry to lose a billion dollar. Warm buffet was like hold up cluse a bill billion? And then way he lost a billion dollars. Ain't pay tax an eight year. Somebody needs to go to jail. Listen to me. They need to stop playing democrats and listen. Y'all can subpoena everybody. You won't. They need to be an up and down vote on the impeachment. We ain't never had a president this damn flagrant. Then the fat dude wasn't nic bar he up damn looking all crazy time I contempted what then the sun his little raggedy son. This is my opinion. Don't call in the steel. I want to show his son Tim. I'm gonna plead the film. I thought you saying only rats flee the film. So Donald Trumper, you say your son is a rat. See I get all the stuff, Julius, I get all the I'm a Republican. I be in the meeting. I don't just be in the back eating savages and Cole Slough. You know what I'm saying. I'll be listening to stuff. Okay, because they do have. They have a good food Shirley services. Listen to me, white we will have at the Republican meeting. They have cold cuts. They have cold cuts, Tommy. They have josephlle bros Steve. They have three beans salad. They have three beans. Salad is good for you. They have a jello mold with fruit chunks in it. If you would like to hear more of these hilarious shenaticus, come to the heart for funny bones. Is it a funny bone or is an improv? What is it in connecticuts? What is it? I'm being Connecticut. I'm being heart for Connecticut. What is it? Y'all? Look at up, looking up? Okay, but it's a comedy club and heart for I'm gonna be there. It's either funny bone or improv. But back to the white people Republican money. It's funny. Thank you shunning scribberries and for that I owe you a good third of dollars. I'm that thank youths. That's right. Oh, listen to me, child, and you gotta the good beans. But they'll be making it cold. I'm gonna cook my beans. They have coln bread with it. Little child, child, a little pepper call it. Yes, I'm still black State won brothers. But this is the problem. The politics is getting real and thorough. Joe Biden is overhead eating tacos with Garsetti and they're making plans in Los Angeles. Listen, this is the dude, This is the only dude that can win. White man the white man. Let him take their little shirts off and fight each other. You know, Joe Biden still got that smoke son problem in about Okay, did I go too far problem? I'm sorry? What let him drink bud wise in and fight each other? What is the problem? We just got subedinity with the fight. So what listen, we need a new president right now, and it can't be Pence. It can't be Pence. Not y'all don't want Pence as the president, do you? Y'all don't want Pence? No, no, no, no, so and we don't want Trump's no more. And we can't wait till the election. Everybody talking about don't impeach, wait till the election. We got that level. He running country to hell in the handbasket. I ain't never asked for why you don't just do what Nixon did Trump and resign and then throw up the peace side on the helicopter. Am I going too far? Am I going too far? He just needed to be out there. You need to be careful because anytime you say something, try to help somebody lively get it. Steve listening to very careful just because you ask people to get up out the bed and get a job. Now you everything but a child of guy, and you used a good scripture on proverbs. You let him. He went to the word the Old Testament where we've been delivered from Trela all time at all Steve said was get your ass out of Connel. Say what what? How to ask Pouda Connor not not pot to Connor, poony Connor. He will be yes. I thought he had found out my stripper name from the coper box, from the wood, from the comer box. That used to be well, really I was a lingerie model at Afftation. Yeah, well now I want to taste kid, and I was really at the high shaper round. Well, you know, back in the day. Let me tell you a little stir. Back in the day. You know, when you're trying to make money, you used to model the lingerie and you had to take it off, right, But I was horrible at it. You know, remember when you used to watch Sanford and Sun, and remember they had a slapping White was on. Now you know I looked more like slapping across between slapping right and high five White and Penitential lingerie and listen to me, you better come on till me, come on time. You know, Penitential is our favorite movie. To to be content. That's right, that's right, that's right, that's right. Listen to me. But the morning this story is. The morning this story is. We need everybody to fill out their census forms when the census come out of twenty twenty. We need you to not just register the vote, but we need you to go to the polls. I don't know if we got along the way in this country that have the president acting like a dictator and doing everything that no other president could ever get away with. The Republicans need to get a spine and they need to stand after this dude. And the Democrats need to go on and do what they gotta do. We got them if they do the right thing, am I. That's missus Spike Lee man him WoT today? Steve Harvest out of bed and you'll be a millionaire, get out of bed and you'll be suc I don't know how the way to put it to people. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for being passionate, but I'm not. Do you and the people updad as mad because they sleep. I'm just stay sleep. Yeah, all right? Coming up at the top of the hour, Carla's Reality Update right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, tell me let's go buck a loop. We got it. She is here, the one and only It's reality update would call a ferrel. Okay, thank you. I did it different that time. Yes you did. You said buckle up too, just like the strawberry a lot of We're gonna buckle up for a reality update. I love it. I love it. All right, guys, here we go. First of all, y'all know I'm back. You know I've been gone. Honey, Dan's mom in full of facts. So again I shout it out my daughter earlier. I want to do it again, shout out to my daughter Tasha. They are champions, y'all day, Yes, yes, yes, yes, right Junior. This past week we were at Walt Disney World in Orlando. Madarta competed her team two divisions over eleven teams combined, they won first place both teams. So shout out to Team Regiment, Team Iconic, fantastic job. And this is this is why I'm bringing this up because I know they're dance mom and dance reality shows. But a lot of parents that are listening, Tommy, you're you're involved with this too, parents that are parents of student athletes. You know you got your football players, au volleyball, track, baseball, dance, cheers, soccer, all of this. This is how you just every weekend you're on the role, you're dealing with it. I want you guys to hit me up social media at lip Spark, Carla, let me know what you're dealing with, what you're going through. Shout out your child's sport and we could talk about parenting student athletes, because child, I'm exhausted. All right, that's that. Moving on, let me switch gears right now and talk about love and hip hop Atlanta. What has happen girl? Okay? So, Rashida and Kirk they planned this couple's retreat. They went to a cabin, they invited their friends, some of the cast mates on the show. Child Rashida admitted to cheating on Kirk back in the day. What well, what what back in the day. We didn't get a name, Junior, because you know last season, you know Kirk, you know he cheated on Rashida and had a baby and all that. Remember, we kept talking about that. So she admitted that she cheated on him early in their relationship. But they had forgiven each other. I don't know, Junior, but they had forgiven each other. They said there in a good place in their marriage and they wanted to you know, help their friends to grow in their relationship and talk about forgiveness and all of that. So anyway, you know my favorite girl, you know, I love me some young Jock Shirley. Oh yeah. So anyway, his ex Carly, she was invited to come to the cabin to go on the trip, and you know she was invited with her fiance, but she broke off that engagement last week. I already told you. Yeah. Yeah, So anyway, Carly was there. Now you know, Tommy, Carly used to you know, date young Jock, but young Jock is there with his current girlfriend. So Carly took it upon herself to let his current girlfriend know. Yes, very messy, but she wanted to let Kendre know that her man Young Jock has been unfaithful and uh listen when Young Jock's girlfriend Kendrew confronted Jock about it, I love Jock. Listen, look right, she is lying. It's all false, it's lies. I'll put this on my moment. I'll put this on my kids, and I put this on your father, Rest his soul. Your name been tattooed on my ginger tool for over a year. Name shin't say what. I wanted to go board to show my lady. This was hose. I tattooed Ken dru on my carl If you saw my you just saw it, said Kendra, right down the side of it. You know what I'm saying. Done, But I apologize that you were even placed in that situation me and Carly. That was old news. Have you been true to me, Ken, I have been true. I've been honest with you. Baby. You know you know how you know, you know the happy you bring me. I know. I'm just letting you know. I don't playing with playing with you. I just don't want no problem with right now. Go ahead, boy, go ahead, boy, I submit you crazy. That is one of the funniest clips I've every man. That's great. I love young man. No, no, if you would have saw it, can you do that? Hey? Oh no, we can't do that. Time did that? I ain't guaranteed even but it's sad. Yeah, but so you But listen, guys, you know you have to just really salute Jock. He's really trying to make this relationship with Kendrill work. And Kendrall's a boss, she's a lawyer, she's a professional. So she's not having it. She's not playing games with him. She wants to know. She loves the sky, seems like and um, she wants their relationship to work. And like you said, Shirley, Carly was messy. She didn't even have to say any of that. She didn't have to go there. She didn't have to say that. And even everyone on the cabin on the relationships with with you know, they were with their significant other. They even some of the women called her out and said, Carly, you know what that was foul. You're kind of foul with what you were doing. Yeah, but what you were doing and what you were saying so we would get to see anywhere this is carl Away, What do you want to go to pund I don't know and what importantly, who put kids? That's what I need to know. It is a small letters of big letters curse yeah, lowercase you know this h So anyway, so that is you know what makes sure you hit me up at lips my Carl. I gotta tell you guys, because everyone loves to talk about this stuff on social media, So hit me up and don't forget. Finally, we are loving shout out to Tracy Edmunds. We are loving people playing ye show. Love this show. Lauren London putting it down. She's a bad girl. She is so convincing in this role, so I love it. Tracy Edmunds. Games People, you're lassing that hotel room. She was about the business. Games People played Tuesday nights on b ET nine eighth Central. Make sure you check it out. We got to support our shows that are produced by us on the network for us on b ET. You got it, So everybody make sure you support the shows and we love us from Lauren London. You know that already. So games People play b ET Tuesday nights and that is reality up ate. He put Kendre all the way. If you're back on love it, how you just hold your leg up and just say, hey, mate, tattoo. Well, well you know what I mean, sleeping pills. I got to take us to do this right. We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. Can we all say out, hain't even cheat because if she see it, who is kid? Yeah, you're listening to. Golden State Warriors basketball star Steph Curry's wifei Isha Curry, was on red Table talk with Jada Pinkett Smith, and i Isha shared her insecurity if her not receiving any male attention. According to The Shade Room, Iisha spoke to Jada about how they deal with their husband's groupies and all the attention their husbands get their husbands get from women. Aisha said it bothers her when she sees other women gushing over her man, but that men don't do the same to her. Take a listen to This really bothers me, and like, honestly has given me a sense of a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that yeah, like there are all these women like throwing themselves, but me, like the past ten years, I don't have any of that, Like I have zero. This sounds weird but like male attention and so then like I begin to internalize it, and I'm like, i's something wrong with you. But I'm gonna tell you something else too, when your radars turned off, because I dealt with that for years too, like and I was young, like you yeah, like oh my god, yeah, I mean because I don't want it, but it'd be nice to know that, like someone's looking right. You ever think for one minute that it ain't know some men out there looking at you like I wish. And I'm gonna tell you who knows that more than anybody? And so true. Her husband knows that more than anyone. He knows what he has. He knows that's why he tried so hard to get you. But you know what, I'm loving her more and more every time she speaks out. I love the thing she says because she's so real, she's so transparent how she feels about about certain things. Like she said that she and her husband, she and Steph put their relationship first. Remember, they got some trouble for that. They got clapped back for that because she said their relationship is the most important one because if their relationship doesn't work, then they they're not good for the kids. They're not good for all of that. So, you know, people criticized her for saying that she's just an open book. I like her transparency. I like who she is inside. She's a good person and she's a very real person and a real woman too. And her mother in law was on the show as well, so when they were talking, because you know, her father in law, Aisha Curry's father in law was a professional ball player too, her mother in law, they were both talking about what they went through as being married to you know, of course Ayisha and her mother in law still married, but being married to these professional athletes and the group or the group and the boppers and you know, all that that they have to deal with. Doc Rivers is his daughter is with uh yes, Seth Curry. Yeah, yeah, yeah, so this there's one big basketball family. Yeah, it's all good. But I mean, for her and women you know like her, don't let that shake your confidence at all, because you're still who you are. And sometimes I understand you get lost in the sauce a little bit, but you know, you know, you just got to be reminded. Look in that mirror every day. Yes, he got me. Yeah, I'm all. You know, I am a woman. Hear me, roar all of that. Say whatever you need to say to get your confidence back up, because girl, you got it. You're strong. People love you, women love and respect you, and and men too, and men think you're beautiful and you are beautiful. Don't ever doubt yourself, you know. Yep, yep, A woman needed to hear that. Yeah, absolutely, all right, more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening to the stew All right, so Steve. This year's Sandon Soul Festival Weekend will be hosted at the Hard Rock Hotel and Casino. And where say it? How to ask pony criminal? That's right, Dominican Republic going down, I tell her ten through the fourteenth. This event includes luxury room accommodations, all inclusive food and drink. Steve, come on, girl, everything everything you want to eat. That pizza y'all been telling me about that I missed last time. I will not miss it. Don't don't, man, But I hain't at the Mexican restaurant like I was. Just I was in Spain. I was eating in the Mexican restaurant. Ansle spinning. Uh and you got tickets to over fifteen events, Junior, What you got? Oh you already? No, we got. We got the Tears of Joy comedy show. We said Tears of Joy with I don't give a damn jay what I say. Then we got Tony Robins and hosted by yours Trueling. Yes, mister, tis the Joy comic show. Many you ain't gonna want to miss it. It's gonna be eating, that's right. And we have a Welcome to Paradise party with the Steve Harvey Morning Show crew. We're gonna have live question and answer, live Q and a a polo night. Yeah. 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We will see you there October tenth through the fourteenth, All right, guys. In other entertainment news, of Detroit Street will be renamed for the late temptation David ruffin It's Gonna Go down next month. Yes, Tuesday, the Detroit City Council approved the ceremonial renaming of Parkside Street, where the voice of such classes classics as Ain't Too Proud to beg and Oh the classic My Girl lived in the nineteen seventies and the eighties. David Ruffin Avenue will be dedicated on June twenty first, joining Stevie Wonder and Aretha Franklin, who have been similarly honored by the city. So congratulation. Wow, yeah, very nice. Yeah, I love it. Uh huh. I thought Steve was gonna start singing when I said, my girl, No, that's not the song. That's one. It's the one I like. I sung the one IV. All right, we'll be back with our last break of the day, and of course Steve's closing remarks, don't go anywhere, We'll be right back. You're listening to all right, Steve, what an incredible day. Here we are, last break of the day. Closing remarks, It's time let's go. Uh. You know, um, I came to work this morning and early in the day they played on my show a clip that's trending that I didn't even really know what's trending until I got it work this morning. I didn't know because I don't I don't follow the internet because I worked till late at night. You know, I work, I work all day. I worked till late at night. So I found out that I'm trending. And what's happening is a lot of people seem to be upset with me because they said I was my tone. I was yelling at them and telling them that rich people don't sleep eight hours. Here's here's a part. People don't know that. Every day, after every show I do, I stand in front of a crowd of people and I say encouraging things to them. The video I saw, as a matter of fact, Steve Harvey recently, a recent video. I had a beard in the video. I took my beard off a couple months ago, at least a few months ago. And so, you know, they got this video and they say that Steve Harvey's talking to people and he's wrong about what he's said, and yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But what people don't know is what was said before and what was said afterwards. And I take every show I do. I don't care if it's celebrity, family feud, the talk show, it doesn't matter. I stand there every single day and I try to say something encouraging to people. And everything I say to people it's with the intent to encourage and enlighten. And on that particular day, I happened to be talking about the scripture that I had read, and somebody had asked me earlier in the day. You know, I just I'd be so tired. I don't want to do this, And we had got into a discussion about it, and I was trying to be passionate to the person to explained to them that I got that you tired, but you got to press through. If you want to be at a certain level. Now, if you don't want to be at a certain level, I even say it in a conversation, this conversation ain't for you. And then at the end of that I do a survey. And there's a scripture that I'm paraphrasing. This scripture that says he who loves to sleep in the folding of hands, poverty was set upon you like a thief in the night. That's in the Bible. My father was a coal miner. I was taught to work hard in mind time. I don't know anything else. If you know another way to become successful, you should write a book about it. If you are if you come up with a book called success Made Easy, Breezy, you should sell that book and make a lot of money. But I, Steve Harvey, only know one way to be successful. That's to work my tail off and grind really really hard, which I do. And so when I talk to people, I have to talk to people from my perspective. I can't give you another perspective. I can only give you the one that I have, And I try to encourage people to wake up, get at it, chase your dreams. You know, dreams are nothing until they put on work clothes. If you're just dreaming, you're just dreaming. But until you put work clothes on, your dreams they just dreams, you're really not going to accomplish anything. And so I just try to encourage people to do that. I just try to get people look at it from a different angle. So this that I'm saying to you is just to say to you that that's the attitude you have to have. If you want to be successful, you have to be willing to get up in grind and hustle. Being extremely successful or if you got aspiration to being a millionaire or successful entrepreneur, or climb the top of the corporate letter, you got to do extra. You can't do what everybody else does and expect to get something that they don't have. If you want something that no one else has, that other people don't have, you got to do some things that other people don't do. That's an encouraging thing to get But the devil being as busy as he is, and his job is simply one thing to rob you of your desk. To me, he has imps that go to work for him on the day to day basis, and they thrive on the Internet. So they take bits and pieces and start calling you out your name and who he think he is when you miss the entire message. Now, so now you don't get to hear the point of what somebody said. You get there the comments about what they said about who said it. Well, I'm not discouraged about that in the least bit. I have to continue to do what I'm called to do. And I understand that part of the reason that God made me successful is to share my theories on success. Now, my theories on success don't apply to everybody because everybody don't want to hear it. See, some people don't want to hear what it takes to make it because they ain't willing to do what it takes to make it. So now they don't want to hear you telling them that they got to do something different. And I understand that it's not for you. If you want to sleep eight hours, remember y'all, that's a third of your life. Now tack on the fact that you got to wake up and eat, you got to get dressed, in shower, and you got to drive somewhere. All this is time on top of the eight. How much time is left in your day to get to where it is you're trying to get to. That's the thing that's the message. Now, me talking loud and sounding like I'm angry, that's passion. Most people from the hood note when somebody talking loud in this passion. But when you get on that internet and you text it and you type it, you're just trying to destroy. I want you to understand that you will not destroy. You won't stop me. I'm fine with it. I've really gotten some tough skin. As a matter of fact, I want to thank a lot of people who have hated on me, because you've really made me developed the skin that I've needed to do the things that I've been required to do. And I appreciate it. I really really do appreciate it. For those that for those that love you, no explanation necessary. For those that hate you, no explanation acceptable. Y'all have a great week, enjoy yourself. I'm gonna be right back at it, and oh, by the way, I won't be going to bed until late tonight and I will not sleep eight hours. That's all that's right, nice, right now. For all Steve every contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. You're listening to show