Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them move just like the looking buck bus things. And it's doing me true good at Steve has listening to moving together for Steve, please by, I don't join by, join me to be doing me. Have you gotta turn hurning in the moment you gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn out to turn turn the water the water. Come, come on your baby at it? Huh? I show will good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now? Wanting on this Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay. I was thinking about it this morning and I said, what can I share in a different way today? You know, it creates a challenge every morning to come up with something different. And at times, you know, I feel like I'm reiterating myself, and and I am, and I find different ways to say the same thing almost But I do that because you know, sometimes if you hear it a different way, it impacts you differently. I've heard people say stuff to me my entire life, but somebody came along said the exact same thing, but they said it a different way, and it struck a chord in me. It rung a bell. And so that's what I m to do. And you know, some mornings I play back some ones that I think are just memorable or order I want to reiterate. And it's nothing wrong with that. So I hope everybody understands that. Today though, I got one for you. I want to I want to ask you a question, what choices are you making? See, life is full of choices now as creatures. God is the God gave us the humans. Of all the creatures created, the humans, we have more of a power of choice than do any other creature He created. Fish have to live in water, they have to Men have gone to out of space. Men have gone underwater for days and weeks and months at a time. You know, I mean, we we got choices here. We we can we can live in a hot climate, we can go live in a cold climate. You know, most animals are created for certain regions, certain climates. They don't do well in this. You know, you don't find a lot of animals in the polar ice, But then you don't find polar bears down in the you know, South Arctic or a south equator, So you know what choices are you making? That's what I'm saying, because we all have the power of choice. Now, I've made some bad choices in my life. I want you to understand that clearly. And I still every now and then I'll do myself a disservice with another bad choice. But I have tried to narrow them down through life experiences and and and reduce the amount of major mistakes I make. But let me tell you something. You're listening to a person who has made major, major mistakes in his choices. In my decision making process, I have thrown myself down the cliff. I can't tell you how many times when I decided not to pay attention in college, when I didn't develop steady habits in high school, when I I chose this woman over that woman I chose man, I can't tell you, y'all. I did it. I did it to go over here and get with this girl, this woman over here, when I should not have. Clearly man should not have. But I made the choice to do it anyway. I made a decision. I did some things that caused myself to be homeless for a period of time. I made some decisions that messed up my credit for a long stretch of time, made some decisions that you know, just had people just kind of, you know, not even wanting to help me. So the question is what choices are you making? When I changed my decision making process, I changed the entire direction of my life. When I made a conscious decision to look at life differently and make better choices and better decisions, it changed my entire life. I decided instead of going down the path I was going on, I decided to choose life. First of all, I wanted to live. So I decided I wanted to choose life. So I'm not going to do the things that could bring about my demise or my death. I'm out. I ain't with this, this is not no. I choose life. Then I made another decision. I said, I choose life, and I choose it more abundantly. You know what that means. God comes into your life to give you life and give you life more abundantly, So that means just more of it. So I chose that. I said, Okay, man, I need to start talking to God a little bit more because the way I've been figuring this thing, Man has gotten me to this point, I ain't really cool with the point I'm at. See, eventually, you just got to be uncool with the point you at. So I chose life, and I chose it more abundantly. Then I chose to start showing mercy to people because I needed some more people to show mercy to me. See. Remember why I said I was going through a period in my life when it seemed like when nobody helped me, nobody seemed to exhibit mercy towards me. Well, I wasn't creating that much mercy myself, I don't guess. So I decided to choose mercy. I decided to choose forgiveness. I started forgiving people who had wronged me, who told me I'm gonna mount to nothing. I forgave them who tried to talk me off the path, who went by my mother's house and told my mama, your son, Steve he lazy. He don't want to work. That's why he out there struggling like that, trying to do that comedy thing. I wasn't lazy, man, I just say't want to work for you. I'm willing to work. Look at me. I work hard, trust and believe that. But I was not willing to work for them, or I wasn't willing to take the route they took, so they labeled me lazy. I'm not a lazy person. But I chose forgiveness though. I chose to forgive them because I didn't have time to break them. And then I chose moving forward. I decided that I wasn't gonna go back, that I wasn't gonna live my life in my past, that I wasn't gonna let my past determine who I was going to be. See I was who I was, but I am who I am, and I'm cool with both of them people I really am. I'm absolutely fine with the person I used to be. God got to save you from something, so I'm cool with that. But all that was the ingredients though that got me to this point. So I'm fine with my past. But what I do not do is allow my past to dictate what I am, where I'm going, what I can be. God forgave me, so I forgave myself. I chose to move forward, not stay in the past. I choose laughing. I choose laughing. I decided that I was gonna laugh more every day. I chose learning. I wanted to open myself up to new things. I wanted to open myself up to knowing something that I've never known before. I allow people to teach me things. I chose joy. I decided to quit seeking fun all the time and sit down somewhere and be all right with me. See, I ain't got to go and do no more. I ain't got to go out here and hook up with this person and get this in my life. And man, let's buy this and hook this up. Now, y'all come in here and we're gonna have some fun. Now. Man, I stopped doing that. I chose joy. I chose to be sitting somewhere with my girl with a cigar and I'm just all right, just me and her. I chose joy. Man. I see fun. You got to go do something to have fun, but joy joys with it. Joyce when you're sitting there with yourself because you didn't connected with your creator, you didn't found something with God, and you're cool with you now. See. I chose to be cool with me. What are your choices? You gotta make better choices. You make better choices, you have a better outcome. You change your attitude, you change your altitude. It all ties together, but we gotta make better decisions. What are you deciding today? Watch it? Okay, be careful, make sure you're making better to start making better decisions today. You're listening, Ladies and gentlemen. Now have your undivided attention please. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show on the Goal, full of life and vigor. I would like to invite all of you, all of you to join in today and spend some time laughing as hard as you can. I'm talking about that kind of laughter, that amazing kind of laughter, ladies and gentlemen. This is the Steve Harvey Morning showy and it begins Charley Strawberry. I'm talking about that, not Yeah, I be brought that what I do? Tommy eyes, Colin Farrel, that's all. They always look like that, Colin Farrell. I don't know, Hey, I don't know what watches right here? Junia hell no, what tire me? The food we're here, baby, that's how you're gonna be laughing all mort That's all we're saying. Yeah, all it is man. That's how you do it. Man. People don't understand you should if you want to stay young and you want to stay healthy, you should laugh really hard at least once a day. Now. The sad thing is the average person only laughs hard. I'm a matter of fact. I'm gonna give you a fact. I'm not gonna tell you that. I'm gonna give you a fact. Y'all, go ahead and talk amongst you'll say amongst ourselves, well, I like going on. I guess he's looking it up while we're talking amongst Hey. Let's let me ask y'all why we're talking about. Is it wrong for me to try to throw a Super Bowl a big game party without the big game being on? Can I boycott and throw a party the Saint hymn? No, just sitting up at your house with the wings with nothing on. I'm mad about it because the two teams that should be in it are not in it. That call against the Kansas City Chiefs which gave the Patriots a first down when it was fourth down, That that that rough in the passing, well, yeah, that right there was That was a horrible That was a horrible call. And then that catch that they gave that dude that clue nose of the ball was on the ground. I don't even know. That was another bad call. They were trying to They were talking about trying to play that game over no, trying to pay the Saints game. It's what they try. That the worst, the worst call in the history of football for a game of that magnitude. It was a worse man. Yeah, I guess I'm not boycotting because I've seen all fifty three of the Super Bowls. I'm not gonna miss it. I don't give a damn who in it? Okay, Okay, Cleveland one. Why would I boycott? Boy that would have happened to Cleveland? Oh my god, Cleveland. If that would have happened to click all right, listen to football, team wouldn't have got out of the stadium, so wouldn't been no damn super Bowl. Well, we'll talk more in football when we come back in thirty two after the hour. Something about Tom Brady. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening, all right, you guys, did you get it all out of your system? Because I don't think you can. Yeah, if this is major, everybody's talking about this, everyone is, well check this out. Though the New England's Patriots owner Robert Kraft, he's not mincing his words, saying Tom Brady is the greatest quarterback in the history of the NFL period. Okay, Harriot period. Of course, there were reports last week that Brady walked into the Patriots practice facility and declared himself the baddest MF on the planet. I love it. Confidence. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So Kraft says we're lucky to have the greatest quarterback in history. Yesterday, Patriots owner Robert Kraft had teamed up with jay Z, Meek Mill and seventy six Ers owner Michael Rubin for an event to launch the Reform Alliance, which is focused on overhauling the probation and parole system here in America. The goal is to free one million people over the next five years. Wow wow. And since he's become tight with Meek, we asked if the Pats would be playing Mills hit Dreams and Nightmares if they win the Super Bowl this year, to which it sounds like he says, of course. The issue with that Dreams and Nightmares was essentially the song for the was for the Philadelphia Eagles last season. Remember they beat the Pats and the Super Bowl. So I gotta ask the guys, Steve Junior, Tommy, is Tom Brady in your opinion the greatest quarterback in the history of the NFL, in the top three or the other two. I mean he and he's in the discussion for short. I just can't think of anybody who's won it the way he's won it as often as he's wonted. He's got to be one of the greatest quarterbacks to ever play the game. I just don't. So I can't name nobody that was better at it than him with the wins and big games. And yeah, well Tommy said top three, who are the other two? I still like star act from back into Roger Closer tom Brady. Tommy's the only one that say three. Who anybody to say somebody something like that. Huh oh, Rogers, I like, I like and Rodgers rod bad boy. Yeah, and Rodgers is a bad point. I just think tom Brad just for what he wins. He wins the super Bowl, Yeah, every single that's would make you. Every championships, he gets that. They find a way. But I think, I think, and I give you have to give great credit to this. That culture of his comes up with schemes. Man, but tom Brady when he go to that line and he put both them hands on the side of his helmet and he kills the play. It usually works. He's a bad boy. It's no, it's no doubt about it. What about um Joe Montana. He's a great quarterback out of Frisco. What was Frisco? Steve? Oh, he came after, Yeah, he was after That's where he's from. He was in Frisco, right, Steve young Y. He makes it hard to have Ji Julia. It's even hard to agree with him. Who is it? Who is it? Steve? Steve? You? Oh yeah, he played some ball. Listen to all not at all, man, I'm gonna tell you something. Another bad boy was bred far Yeah yeah, but I'm gonna tell you, man, do damn Marino. He didn't win, but our lord at that point can throw. But I'm gonna tell you that boy down there New Orleans Drew big oh man, Please understand he all that in the bag of chips. I want to keep just ripping this dude. Last year was the defense, then this year was the refs. Yeah yeah, yeah, I know he's hurting. They're the worst. So nothing's going to be done about the referee. Well those that referee is out of work? Is will Yeah, listen to me. If you're a player and you do that, you're gonna lose your job. If you're coaching you do that, you're gonna lose your job. Y'all promise you wonna see that referee Noumbo and the one that was in the middle of the field that turned around and looked and still didn't throw a flag. I thought everybody building saw it. So are they paid off or what? Nobility of what they didn't do it takes away from the game. It's like, well, what are y'all doing? But see, they've got to implement some plan now because we have too much technology and you can't determine games the way they determine them this weekend. You can't have such a blatant miss phone call I misplayed and then the last two minutes of the game cost a person a trip to the super Bowl. With all this technology, it wasn't a blown call. It was a no call. And it could have been anything. Could have been passing the fears, it could have been a face guarding, and it could have been helmet to helmet, but they didn't call anything. And then when you show it on the on the screen, people gonna, are you kidding? Me. Even the dude who did it, the cornerback for the Rams, he said. He admitted, Hey man, I was just trying to stop him from schood. Yeah, but you gotta respect the call. That's all I was taught. All right, Listen, go to Steve Harvey FM if you want to comment on what we're talking about. Ray here the football. Uh, who's the baddest quarterback in the football in the NFL? Ever? Is it Tom Brady? Is it Tom Brady? Coming up next? It is the nephew. Can you hear me? Nephew, run that prank is coming up next? Come on you Montana, Frank has dumb it. You're listening. Coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment news, Jay Z and Meek Mill just announced details of their brand new criminal justice reform and good news out of LA But right now, nephew Tommy is here with run that prank back. What you got for is nev dumb it, damn dumb it, damn. I'm talking to this lady. We're about to give a call and let her know that her daughter cannot go on spring break with the rest of the kids because her gray's and not up to Paul and you're gonna have to bring it all into the school that the time week. That's right, dumb it down, right running. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Kusha, please speaking. Who is this all, Kusha? This is mister Roland Barn, assistant principal here at academy or your daughter? A Usa goes, Yes, what's going on? Is everything okay? Everything is trying to uh well, let me be honest. It's not good right now. I wanted to call and actually have a private conversation with you about Aisha. Oh God, all right, tell me what's going on. What's going on? Ayisha? Well, as you know, um, spring break is gonna be coming up in March, you do not, right, Yeah, I'm aware of that. He's looking forward. Yeah. Well, we have a bit of an issue here. I have done some research and I used to doesn't seem to be doing well as she should be, living up to the expectations of the academy. And what we're gonna have to do this spring break is I used to will not be allowed to take a spring break with the rest of the kids. We're gonna need her to come into school. And there's several kids that are not going to be able to go on spring break, and I used to happen to be one of them. There's at least forty to fifty kids that will be coming to school that entire week that spring break is the most of the kids are out on spring break. You have to be mistaken. I mean, my daughters a straight age student. She is actually the only I USA at the academy. Man, and I you know, I've looked at her her grades in the past. She's had some great, so wonderful grades in the past, and I don't know what's taking place this seminster um that she just seems to have dropped the ball. And what we want to do is, you know, keep these kids focused. As you know, you have to be accepted to be here at this particular school, So you know, it leaves me no no other outlet but to have her come in and we're gonna buckle down and try to get them back on track. So I wanted to personally give you a call and let you know what's going long in I easta here at the Academy and we're we're this terrible. This is absolutely terrible. I mean we are here already in January and I'm getting a call that my daughter is not doing good, and now you're gonna tell me that she can't go on a spring break trip in March if she I mean, as far as I'm just string my daughter straight a straight as. She's an amazing student, she does really hard work. She always afford to going to school. And I get a call today that she can't go in March. Well, I mean, you gotta be kidding me. I mean, we're I don't. Are you going somewhere in March, ma'am? I don't. I'm you're saying going somewhere our trip? Or are you? Are you scheduling going on I'm not going anywhere. She's going on a trip. I'm giving her full permission to go on a trip. Okay, Well, unfortunately, I'm requesting that she's at school, So I don't know if your trip costs you a lot of money or if you can get a refund. But I'm calling you letting you know I need her there on March eleventh in the classroom so we can buckle down and try to get her back on track. No, what I'm telling you, I pay for the trip and she's going on the trip. I'm sorry, And no call because it's so late in the game. I'm sorry, she's going on a trip. No, m she's not going on a trip. She is actually gonna be coming into school and she'll beat it on March eleventh, from Monday to Friday. Now, I don't know who you're talking to. That's my child, I'm telling you, but she's your child, But she's my student. And right now, all of my students are gonna be that are that are not doing well in their in their classes, are gonna be there during spring break and they're gonna get their business together. What are you telling me like you're reprimmending me like I'm a child. Okay, I'm telling she's gone. No, she's not going on a trip. And you're telling me what you're trying to over rude my position, and that's what's not gonna happen. She has to be there. You might as well start looking for a refund because she's not gonna not be there. So I didn't need her there Monday through Fridy of swing break so we can get her back on course. Listen, I don't you think you're talking to I have the ultimate position over even you. That's my daughter. That's my daughter. I get to tell you you what I'm doing her, and she's going on that trip. You're out of here. Happens out not setting my daughter on the trip. Sorry, not happening. I'm telling you right now, she's not going on a trip. Is almost she's not. I'm gonna seek when I used to tomorrow and let her know where you're not gonna tell my daughter damn thing. I'm telling her she's not going on a spring break trip. Do you know why? Because of grade? I'm not up to bar. She needs to be more concerned about her rad and not going and hanging out. You're all of gagging around wherever you're sending her. No, it's not happening. I don't want all of my students with passing grade. And I'm a one hundred assistant principal and all my kids pass. What are you trying to convince yourself that you're important? Is I'm thinking me a break? He's like a baby. My daughter is going on the trip, and that's finally hear me. Okay, you know what, I'll speak with Isia tomorrow morning. No, you're not, Denis, I will now here's the deal. I'll leave you this, Kisha. If I used to does not show up Nday through for spring break, then maybe you're gonna have to find out Issia another school. You're threatening me. Now you're threatening me. You're threatening to kick my daughter out of school because of the spring break. If your daughter's not here doing spring break Monday through Friday, then she's out of here again. Please, I'd like to see you try to give me a break the scarca. I think this conversation is old. When my next conversation will be with Issha. Guess what she's going to spring break? She's staying in the school. You do something about it. I will have people pickting outside your your school. You're talking about nonsense. My daughter does great in school and she's going on a trip and that's it. And soul running through Friday start spring break. You're talking to who are you yelling at like that? Are you mine? I swear I got about over that kick your What the fuck is wrong with you? You know you're out of control? God? What you're talking to? You know what? You know? What? You know? What you told me about you? Do you know what you tell me? What did he tell you? She told me to plut phone called you, his nephew, telling me from the high but pressure over here. Oh like you good girl? Yep, that's awesome. Oh my god, I was really good to go over there. You up. I can't believe this, my god. Okay, I gotta ask you something. Yeah, I mean the baddest radio show in the lane without a doubt, Steve Harvey Morning Show right there. Anybody want me, y'all want me pranking anybody of y'all. I'm trying. I'm on the roll. No, we do someone, we don't, we don't. Okay, somebody give us somebody. Somebody in that phone. You give me somebody famous, baby, let me get somebody. How about Tyler? How about a prank? T all right? Coming up? Coming up at the top of the hour. Entertainment news right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Jay Z and Meek Mill just announced details of their new criminal justice reform project. This was at a press conference in New York City. They have joined forces with Patriots owner Robert Kraft, seventy six IS co owner Michael Ruben, Brooklyn Nets co owner Clara will Sigh, and more. Okay, the new group is called the Reform Alliance. CNN host Van Jones will serve as CEO, and Meek and Ruben will be co chairs. Meek called creating the Reform Alliance one of the most important things I've ever done in my life. If you thought my case was unfair, there are millions of others dealing with worse situations and caught up in the system without committing crimes. With this alliance, we want to change outdated laws, give people hope, and reform a system that stacked against us. I love that. Jay Z added, if someone commits a crime, they should go to jail. But these things are so disproportionate, and the whole world knows it. It's a humane issue. The new group will work to change laws and a state by state basis, while running a public awareness campaign. You can find out more at reform now dot com. What do you think about that, I'll tell you what. That's how you do it. Kudos to meet Meal and to jay Z and then to have the the real uh smart to partner. This is almost like when you're dealing with a football owner and a basketball owner and two hip hop artists. That's as about as bipartisan as you can get. Understand I mean, you're talking about cats from two different worlds. Now jay Z can participate in their world because he's at a level financially that puts him over there with them. But like we all know that our African American there are still things in place that keep us out of certain situations. And from time to time, racism real will rears ugly head and remind you of who you are. Now, it doesn't stop you, but they do things to remind you that systematic people I'm talking about racist, I'm not talking about all people. I'm just talking about people who are of power who are racist. They could they do some things to remind you who you are. So to partner with basketball team owners and a guy like Robert Kraft, very very powerful NFL owners, one of the top powerful people in the NFL, it's like, really really smart. That's great. Yeah, it really is good news. Hopefully some change. Well that's how we're doing. If it's just black people screaming, they won't listen that it really is. It's just slavery didn't end because black people were sick of being slaves. Because we were sick as we got on the boat. We were sick when we were sitting on auction block. We were sick of being in the fields from day one, from day one, we were sick of it. So it took a lot of African Americans, black people to rally, but they had to have help, help, And thank God for Quakers who helped along the underground railroad path, who helped who that were well meaning whites who helped conceal a lot of blacks and slaves escaping to the north a lot. Now there were a lot of a lot of people with hounds out there hunting them down too, you know, but you had enough good ones to get a lot of them through. And you know, it's a lot of a lot of a lot of tragic stories out there about people seeking freedom. But you know, this countryman has always always been a part of the pain of seeking freedom. And we're supposed to stand for freedom and justice and liberty, but it's they pick and choose who they give it to. You know, slaves had to fight to be free to escape to the north. You got people south of the border who trying to escape the situation that they have in South America and Mexico and for a better life, you know, asylum. I mean some people here man, because they're just trying to escape deprivation and pain, and misery, violence and crime. The majority of people who come across that border are seeking work and opportunity, the vast majority. And the truth of the matter is regardless as to how. They are masters at flipping the script, just like they did the brothers kneeling on the sideline. They are masters at flipping the script. The majority of the drugs. Donald Trump is saying, if we build a wall, crime will fall. That's his new rhyme today, If you build a wall, crime will fall. That's not true because the majority of the drugs that come into this country are from legal entry ports, not oh that drugs coming from Mexico. Don't get me wrong. Oh yeah, oh yeah, it's a gateway for weed. It's a gateway for meth. But guess what, that ain't where the majority of it coming from, the vast majority of it. And they ain't packing them over in backpacks either. They're driving through the at that gate. The most drugs come through that gate down there, That's where that's where the most come from. Legal ports of entry. Yeah, they come through. They can't catch all of it. Yeah, Now, people ain't backpacking that much dope crossing that cam does it? Man, come on, sad the way he's flipped the script on this again. But this is gonna come back to backfire on him. It's already working, it is, yeahctics Democrats knows him now. A percentage of people who agree with him in the Republican Party are much higher. But that's just because as a disconnect over there for some reason. But they need they need to open this government. Man, I know that these people. Oh my god, I know, I know. All right, Well, listen, coming up in twenty minutes. M the President Derek Nancy Pelosi to shut down the State of the Union address, and so she did. We'll talk about it coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. You're listening. Well in political news, Speaker of the House, Nancy Pelosi has shut down the president. Okay, so the government shut down and now Nancy Pelosi shut the president down. No wall and no State of the Union. In a memo to the President, Speaker Policy Road, I'm writing to inform you the House of Representatives will not consider a resolution authorizing the State of a Union address in the House of Chamber until the government has reopened. That's what you do for shutting my flight down. That's what you do for that potent and the government more importantly, Yeah, try me. It doesn't make any sense. But I don't know how Republicans forget that. This is what he said he'd do. It was all over the news. I'm gonna own the shut down. I'm gonna shut the government down when we shut it down out on it said. But this is what you can't do. You can't use that and hold all these eight hundred thousand people hostage for your wall. But you promised the wall. I know tomorrow they'll miss another paycheck. You promised the wall. You said Mexico's gonna pay for. But this is nothing to shut the government down over. I mean they said it's almost costing like six billion dollars to shut the government, to keep the government shut down. If he wants, isn't that what he's asking for? The down payment for what Steve? No, he wants the price of the wall five point six billion. But and the Democrats will give you something towards the wall, but they don't want to give you the five point seven because they want some of the money to go to legal entry ports. Uh. Yeah, for Border Secure, but is saying paying back the furloughed furloughed workers, it's gonna be about six billion dollars. It's gonna be about the same money. That's what I'm saying. Six billion. Yeah, this is ridiculous, I would say Nancy Pelosi. She is standing her ground on that. Yeah, I mean, come on, you know this isn't you're playing with people's lives here. He's always done that. If you read his book The Art of a Deal, he said this is how he negotiates. He puts something out there and he doesn't back down. But Steve, that's when you know when you're in, that's in business, and when you're in try trying to a by our companies and you know, more real estate and things like that. These are people, These are humans we're talking about. Yeah. Yeah, I understand everything you're saying. Huh what people don't understand everything you're saying. And what you're saying is true. But you have a man who does not know how to manage or govern people. He runs businesses. This ain't a hotel, This is a country. And these people don't work for you. These ain't your damn employees. Yeah, you work for us. Get it right right, all right, listen, we gotta move on. Coming up at thirty four after the hour. Excuse me, coming up at thirty four after the hour. Steph Curry and his wife put their marriage first before their kids. Plus Steve is going to give out some marriage advice as well. Well, yeah, I do too. Right after this. You better know it. You're listening, Harvey Morning Show. Celebrity chef Vaisha Curry, wife of Stefan Curry of the NBA's Golden State Warriors, says a sacred to staying married. You guys listen who are married, They say, the secret is to not put the kids first. This is trending everywhere everywhere. Aisha said that she and Steph got advice from both of their parents, and both of their parents have been married a long long time, more than thirty years. The one thing they both shared with us, they said, is just making sure that we put each other first, because when you become a parent, you want to put your kids first, and we do, but we do it to second to our relationship. She's saying, Ultimately, when our relationship is good, the kids are happy and they're thriving, and our family life is good. We have to put that into perspective and realize that it's not us being selfish, it's making sure we set a strong foundation. And I love this. I love this. This has been trending everywhere because a lot of people do not agree with this. They do think that you should put the kids first before your partner nine second. Ain't nothing wrong with being second, right, There ain't nothing wrong. But I mean, she's right. You have to build a strong foundation, and that's the marriage, the relationship between the two people who made the kids right. Steve, what they're saying, I agree with one hun do oh absolutely absolutely. Now do you have to care for these kids, love them and guide them. Absolutely. But the cornerstone of the family is the parents. If the parents break up, the family is fractured. The suffering starts from every level of every child's life. I want my mama, I want my daddy. Yeah, well, because you've lost focus of who you are. Were that got y'all? The kid didn't put you all together in the first place. Y'all might have came together had the kids, But the kids don't put you in a marriage. You should be married because you're in love and you can't live without each other. Well, you've got to tend to that. Even when you have kids. Mommy and daddy are first. Now they're very important and as infants, they can't live without you. So Daddy, no, he gonna get pushed off to the side because we got an infant who must be cared for twenty four seven, completely and totally dependent on us. Daddy, get that, Mama, get that. But you've got to service one another and continue the service because if you don't, Tommy said it, the marriage will suffer. If the marriage suffers, the family becomes fractured, and then what do we have. You have all the time you want for the kids, but you have fractured the family. And what I Easu Curry is saying, it's absolutely important. She's not saying that the kids ain't important, that the kids don't get to be thought of first. And Steve not only that, she went to some experts, people that they respected and admired, who had been together married for more than thirty years years. I think what she's saying it kind of goes against when you're a parent, your parent instincts that you're saying that the kids aren't first. You know what I'm saying when she said that, people are like, what, yeah, you know you don't put your children. People were so upset about this. They listened to me. They're not But you know what, people look, it's gonna take the world from the different opinions. So you can disagree with Aisha and be perfectly right with how you want to do it. We were talking about should boys and girls be raised differently on the show the other day, and a woman was adamant, you should raise a girl no different than you raise a boy. Why would you do so? I disagreed, that's the problem. You're treating your daughters different than your boys. They are different. I don't know if you noticed, but but they damn show very different and think totally different. They process information totally different, and they wired different. But it's nothing that she came up with. Is she went to some experts who would who had done it and it worked for them. You know, coming if I don't if what Tommy, I was just saying, if I don't go out to lunch with my wife, to a movie, to concert, if I don't keep that consistently going, we were slipping away from each other. We gotta have some fun. We gotta go out. We gotta kick it. We have to kick it fun, all right. Coming up next it is the nephew with the prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening, all right, guys, listen. Coming up in the town top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's today's strawberry letter, the subject neither one of us can be trusted. But right now the nephew is here speaking of marriage. Right now the nephew is here with today's praying phone call. What you gotta well, we've been talking about the Wow. We've been talking about the waw. Ain't so here what we fence to do. We're gonna see if anybody want to work the huaw. Okay, so that's right here, if anybody won't to work the Wow. This title is uaul workers. Okay, whoa waul workers? We got a course for that too. Days gonna open up how to repair clippers? Thank It's called cyr p here. It is, y'all, clip paul worse? What is it? Clipper repair? It's not about clippers, is about the Wow. Wow work us a hidiot? Hello, a lot of I'm trying to reach hobbin. Please, we're here, my name is Kevin. Uh, I'm calling from wall Workers Recruitment. Are you currently working right now? Are you employed? All right now, I'm not in front. I'm looking for from from work right now? All right? I'm sorry, what was it, immigant? My name is Kevin. Kevin. Okay, how are you doing? Mr? Kvin? I'm good, I'm good. You're gonna you gotta recommend it. Uh, somebody put you gave us your name that you might be interested in doing some work. We actually have a contract with the government and uh we at this point don't have enough manpower, and um, we're looking for for people that want to work. So this this bill is actually gonna probably start probably mid March beginning to March, and this this is gonna be a three to four year job. So if you're looking for some employment, we've got you. This job is gonna pay forty forty five dollars an hour. You're gonna work twelve hours shifts and at least six hours a day. And it's all construction. So from my understanding, you've done quite a bit of construction of that, right, Yeah, yeah, that's that. That is correct, sir. I've been working construction for the past like twelve years now. So yeah, that's great, thank you, thank you. Yeah, are you used to are you used to UM work with concrete quite a bit? Yeah? Yeah, No, I do everything you know, and you didn't have to do with construction on your men. We do. I mean, we want, we definitely want you to come in and we want to get you a physical uh make sure you're you're you know, in good shape to actually be a part of the company. We want to make sure you know, you're all fitting ready to go for March. So did you think this would be something you'd like to do? Yeah, this is this is amazing. So what type of practices here? This is UM. Like I said, we're all wall workers recruitment. I'm actually spearheading it. We got to deal with the government, so we're as soon as we get the green light. We just gotta make sure we got enough manpower and we're looking for great just say wall wall workers recruitment, wall workers quickly correct like building the wall, building the wall, building the wall at the at the borders exactly. And I'm sorry, man, I'm gonna have to pack on this. I mean I need to work. I mean, is there is there is there a problem, hobby. Yeah, here's a problem. I mean a Mexican American man. I got family that lives older than Mexico. I got family las over here, you know, in the States, like I don't. I don't want to be a part of that. I don't want to be a part of anything that compacted to do with but building some ball? Are you kidding me? You were excited when I told you we were paying you forty five dollars an hour for twelve hours chimps in six six, six days. I mean that's pretty good money. Of course, there's great money. But I wouldn't be a part of this book if you're paying me a hurry bucks an hour or a thousand bucks an hour. I mean, you know, I just respect them to my people, my brother. I mean, it just it ain't gonna happen. I don't want to part of this. I didn't know. I didn't want type of project. It wasn't so down. I mean, you must have said it really quickly, because I didn't patch what you said. And I don't know if you're catching what I'm saying. But I want no part of this. So you have a problem with building a wall and we're paying you ex amount of dollars that's gonna put um, you know, food on your table and take care of your family. You got a problem with Doug. I don't give a favor it put food on my table. I can make my money doing looking for some other words. I ain't gonna be a part of building some guy. WHOA. But it's gonna be saying what I'm saying. I am what you're saying. Well, we're doing. We're in the first place my family answer be slag right do you belong to that? Before? It was the point of the u A. All right? I mean, how about the border is because of big part of Mexico because of us. I mean, he betrayed us Mexican. But it's not cool, not cool? Okay. Questions are you calling Latinos to build this wall or are you calling are the racist school? I haven't. I mean, I don't know everyone's nationality, sir. You just came. What about the last name? How about that? So are you looking at this last name? I'm not looking at the last names. I mean, I know, uh, I assume that you were Latino on your name is poverty, I got that, but you have it's Javier, not Harvey. Only my friends your family called me Harvey? All right? Okay, um, do you have any friends or family you take? Might want to work the walls? Bro Yo, who are parents by? Nobody could be that dumb, stupid old I want how did you see the news? I mean, what the hot do you think I was gonna say? I mean you and everybody else that's a part of building this wall the water? All right? I mean, okay, he's suspectful. You really continued start recruiting that thing, you your dirty work? Me? Im, what about what about Louise? What about? What about your cousin? I mean, wo would he be? All right? But on the way that cousin Louis, cousin Louise, you got him signed up and he's the one that recommended me. Because I'm gonna pick it. I'm gonna go down right now up part of my mother. You're better enough. Tell me my cousin signed up already. No, I'm gonna tell you this. Your cousin Louise got me to play phone call you. This is nephew taught me from the Steve human Morton and show me. Oh my god, it crazy man. You guys got me good man, you got me, Hey, Harvey, do this for me? Man it in Spanish. Let me know this. What is the baddest radio show in the land? Like that Comet four man play too much due? What you gotta say to you? You about the wall? Wall? Your ass will turn what he let you have? Y'all go, y'all do concrete? Holland wait, man, wall that's while man, oh man, Wow, that might have been too far right down man. Yeah. Hey, you know what though, his cousin Louise put me up to it. He said, hey, get my cousin Hobby. You ain't working, He said, give him a call. Do something about the wall. Tommy. I said, okay, cool I put I put the wall on his Yeah, no, no, no, I'm surprised he knew what you were talking about. Car I held it. I was able to say it, but I don't know. You know, when you prank, you can actually say you're doubles. Oh man, But you out of character. When you go out of character, you when you come on back, it is baby, all right, thank you, thank you. Wall. We work in the fall coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today. The subject neither one of us can be trusted. Okay, but we'll do it. Get into it right after you're listening to the Stry Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice and relationships on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. And we could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read this one. Could be Yeah, buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you. Here it is the Strawberry Letter subject neither one of us can be trusted. Dear Stephen Shirley, my husband and I are in our late thirties and have been married for fifteen years. We've had some hiccups in our marriage and we went to counseling to fix the issues. I thought we were doing really good since the counseling, but here we are a year later, and my husband's insecurities got the best of him. He created a fake social media account and pretended to be one of my exes that I dated before we got married. He started sending me sweet messages Poe using as my ex, but I was very stern about letting him know that I'm happily married and not interested in him at all. In that way, I thought it was weird that my ex would still want me after over fifteen years of not seeing me. I was intrigued, but still not interested. But here's where I messed up and got caught up. I set a date to meet my ex who was really my husband, at a sushi bar for dinner. The day I was supposed to meet my ex, I lied and told my husband that I was going to dinner with my girls, but I didn't tell him where. When I pulled up at the sushi restaurant to meet my ex, my husband called me and explained to me how he set me up, and then he told me to bring my lion cheating behind back home. GAD. Now I was embarrassed and really really upset with him. I've admitted I was wrong, but at the same time, I feel like he owes me a big apology too. Then this is not normal behavior to trick your wife like this. Now we're back in counseling, but I don't think this marriage works for me anymore. Is it okay for my husband? To play games with me like this. Who was more at fault me or him? I want to get a divorce? Please help now, this right here? This is something right? Yeah, normally you know, I would definitely suggest counseling and some therapy to help get troubled marriage back on track. But it doesn't seem like your husband got any good from it when he was in it the first time. His deceitful behavior only made things worse because you got caught up in it, which turned into lying from you and possibly cheating from you on him. No, I know you didn't cheat, but this was a dangerous game he was playing. Yes, you both were wrong to answer your question, him for setting you up and you for lying to him and for going Uh, this is not normal behavior. You're right about that. Uh yeah, he he owes you an apology too. This is a mess. Like I say, I'm glad you're back in counseling. I don't know. It didn't work the first time. Maybe you guys should have chose I hope you chose a different counselor this time, because it definitely didn't work because that big set up he put on you. But um, yeah, you gotta be uh you can't be doing this. Okay, I don't care how good it sounds. You know, yeah, if you didn't cheat, but you lied and you almost cheated. Okay, So you guys are both at fault and two wrongs definitely don't make a right. Uh you want to get a divorce, that's on you, Steve who. First of all, let me just say this. These two people is sick of each other and have been sick of each other for quite some time because they've just become so bored with one another, so familiar with one another, because they've been married half of their life, almost they weren't able to experience any of the other things in life or partake of many things in life. So they've just been married. They've had a tough marriage, They've been to counselor several times, and they thought they had worked out. Well, your husband, let this insecurity get the best of it. So this dude creates a fake social media page then got on it and pretended to be one of her exes that she dated before we got married. Now that's fifteen years ago. Oh, they're in the late thirties. Okay, I got it now, I thought they was thirty they're in the late thirties, which means they could be about thirty eight, thirty nine something like that. Been married fifteen years, that's twenty three, uh, something like that. So pretended to be this dude that she dated before they got married, and you know, you were very stern. You let him know you're happily married, not interested in him at all in that way, and you can't thought it was kind of crazy that your ex steel wanted you over fifteen years and ain't even seen you. You were shocked and probably called. You know, since he ain't seen you, he don't know what he getting sold you, probably just as surprises he would have been the heads showed up, you know, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, you know, ain't none of us what we was fifteen years ago, and that could have bought on a lot of surprise. So anyway, you got intrigued but still not interested. But here's why I messed up and got caught up. I'll see right here, lady, now you're line. See, you got intrigued and you got caught up because you know what you did. You set a date to meet your ex who was really your husband, at a sushi bars for dinner the day I was here to meet my ex. I lied to my husband, told him I was going to dinner with my girls. I didn't tell him where. Then I pulled up at the sushi restaurant to meet my ex. Slash your husband. Your husband called you and explained to me how he set you up. Then he told me to bring my line cheat behind back home. I was embarrassed his wild love. I was embarrassed and really really upset with him. Girl, you better do it. You better do like me and do you better that scrill. You better take. The best defense is a good office. You better hair up and be madder than him. For I was proud of this girl right here, because if that ain't a dude move, I ain't never seen one. They call you cheating, but you mad to hell? You in my phone fault. All right, Steve, listen, we're coming back. We'll have part two of your response to today's stoop. You're gonna find something that's right subject. Neither one of us can be trusted. We'll be back at twenty three after right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve, let's go. Let's recap today's Strubberry letter. Neither one of us can be trusted as a subject. Boards Lady after my heartness letter here and a husband has some trouble, been married for a while, counseling her husband pretty insecure because obviously she's messed around. If your man is insecure, it's because you've messed around on him, and he's probably messed around on you. That's why both y'all went to counseling, because y'all both in trip. But it's insecurity got the best of him, so he created a fake social media page and he acted like he was one of your ex boyfriends that you dated before y'all got married. He started communicating with him, You started communicating back. He was trying to be stern with the tailor man. You wasn't interested that you had are happily married, and you had a husband and all this here, But you couldn't understand why after fifteen years this man still wanted you. He ain't even seen you. He don't even know what you can blow it up to me. I stopped that. I'm talking about her career. I know, okay, So you took it away. Help I took it like you would say it. We're seeing fifteen years people can blow up. You can become something you've always wanted to be, or you can just can't believe who you've become. Either way, you couldn't believe he contacted you at fifteen years but you still wasn't interested. You say you had no interest in him like that, But do you say then this way you messed up. You set a date with him. Well, if you weren't interested, what you set to date bo, you just wanted to see curiosity killed a cat that you took your kid a cat down to the sushi box? Set a date with your ex? Who really your husband? You lied to your husband, told him you was on head dinner with your girls. You pull up in the park at let your husband call you come here? And then you know what he said? What hey? Let me tell you something, will you? Who you think? I am? You down there thinking you find the hoss or sushi with old boy? Well, let me tell you some old boy in me. I set you up. I created an account and act like I was him. Now you bring your Lyne mass home back to this house. Steve Harvey, huh you know what you said there talking about huh? Okay? You you bring your trifling Okay, you bring your trifling cheating. Yeah, he ain't seen you in fifteen years. He don't know like I know. Don't back in that car. Come on back to this. You were sad, I'm gonna hurt you. I'm gonna hurt you. Huh. You heard me go on? So then this word got good. She climbed back in that car. I told her belt on that stage we are now she embarrassed because she just probably buttons off front of her blouse and got caught on and she was making a left turning to a blouse clean. She was real. I got really upset with him. Now I have admitted that I was wrong, but at the same time, I feel like he owes me a big apology to Are you for real? Hey lady, you gonna apologize to you. You're gonna be waiting a long yes time, but that he should. He tricked her. Ain't nobody in her. You can't get tricked if you ain't tricky. Yeah it didn't. You understand you can't get tricked if you ain't being tricky. Are you being tricky? That's why you got tricked? If you're stuck to your original slogan, I'm happily man, I'm not interested in you. You wouldn't have been down at the restaurant. You're good, Well, you're surprised he wanted to see you. Let me show you all of me? Then, OK? Yeah, all that just catching hell he watching her get dressed? Yeah, where you going? Baby? I hit a hand din, Oh my god, why you ain't all those space? Don't ask me about these sitting up in here? And I feel like he on me a big apology too. This is not normal behavior to trick your wife like this. Now we're back in counseling. What is y'all back in counseling? But I don't think that this marriage works for me anymore. Yeah no, because she was going down there to fix that sushi. But old big, old Cleveland's come through a little, a little hook in the game. Don't nobody want you but me bring your gass home that you don't do the hair whale? Nobody won't. I don't even know why you don't trying to act like you like sushi. You know your ass shouldn't have been going down to a sushi restaurant. You don't even like sushi. All we eat up in here fry fish. Now you're dying there with a little man like you eat sushi you don't even know damn sushi, you eat the right sushi. I don't think this marriage worked for me no more. Hell no husband playing games with me like that? Who was more at far? You for canning your ass down? Now me are him? I want to get a divorce, get one. You know y'all need a divorce and both of y'all need and a fail? What y'all needed a divorce and an a fail? You need to get on back down? Answer, but quit going suh, go down there, get you a big ass man. Got we gotta go? Email as their Instagram. I know your thoughts on today's Strubberry letter that sushi restaurant triving to meet a sumo restaurant, Steve Harvey, f M coming up in ten minutes. A girl from the Talk Sheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening show Ladies and Gentlemen without full a dude, shild unto Wood, Steve Harvey. I don't even know where to get started. It's so much nigans outstar with her. Okay, listen to me see back in the day, you know, And I'm gonna advance something that might be a little sophisticated, you know, because Sherlt scrawberries and I you know, we grew up Chicago, right. Can you just walk up to you and ask you what set you claim? Maybe that's Sherlt. You just ask you what's that? They like? Right? Uh? Okay, where are you from? She claims, Jesus, follow me, she claims Jesus. She's gang banging for Christ, she claims Jesus. Now the new gang is Nasa Pelosi. She's a gool man. Let Jason and Nasa Pelosi. They no drive by. I'm gonna put mine right on letterhead. You ain't coming here us speak about nothing out a head number three. I'm gonna be present. Get out of here with that. Then wait he first of all, letting people go back to work, because all that you're doing, you are spending in the same six billion. Does you asked for for water? Don Nobody won't that. They just said, oh, seeing then there's a hundred tunnels under the Mexico. Hundred tunnels Mexico saying, hey, we got all the time in the world. What you try to do me? They got so many tunnels, y'all ain't got the dirt, the feeling right now. You ain't got the wall. You ain't got you ain't got no plywood. We were not already got a hundred tunnels to your almost built wall that you really can't fit. Fish can't get Choppo out. You don't think we can get getting them Chopper was naked. Everybody out come. They say, we listen to Trump. By the look Stu, he gonna he not gonna get reelected because it's his supporter. See, it's not just our brothers and sisters in DC, it's all over the country. If Montana, it's places where he won. The dbeople are not going to work. Every place. I went through the airport, I hugged him and I said, thank you, thank you for coming to work. I want to thank everybody's coming work to be everybody, but they need to finish this. And Trump he played you much. You had the House and the Senate, and you're stupid. I'm sorry you're stupid. But didn't even bring this forward. He didn't bring it forward when you had the power to do it. Now you up against one of the shrewdest politicians in the game, Nancy Pelosi, and you shouldn't have a game. Our sister Maxine Waters. That count of power, So Peter Power, wie. There's a new sheriff in town and the name is Maxine Waters. I like all those papers in the box. Let's go. I love this right now. Almost made me want to stop being a Republican. But I got to be in the meeting, so I can go. You're gonna be in the meeting. I love being in the meetings. Now, Junior, let me change something. And they be trying to put me out, and I'd be like, okay, give me all the money I donated. Then, since you want to put somebody out, I thought, so, I ain't seen nobody to deal with Russian prostitute since the wire went off? What the hell? Hbo list Remember they had all the Russian prostitutes and that that tanker canist man that day gonna eat yours help, but don't sing yeah yeah man man listener. I couldn't even watch that. I was like, y'all you lost me with this. Oh let me say, Can I say something about the Hebrew Israelites and the Indian man and the children kids? Yes, let me tell you some. First of all, Pro Francis is embarrassed about what they're doing over the Po Francis and not send them to watch the DC to get involved in the altercation. And everybody know when the Hebrew is, when the black Hebrew is relized is talking, don't say nothing. Don't don't say nothing because you're not gonna win that back. You notice what they did, they smirking all in the face of the Indian man that's trying to be peaceful. What they did not do. It's crossed the threshold of the brothers that one. Okay, did I go too fund y'all gotta cry. You ain't seen nobody. You didn't see nobody go over there, whether where the brother Hebrew is relized with because they know what time it is, they know what time its smirking. You can get your little hat knocked off. See you're playing around, you can get your little hat knocked What what is the new saying, brothers, it's gonna get your gonna get your little hat knocked out. You play too much that the world is different. Well, I was well. C Carla told me to stop saying words with vows and too consonants. And I've asked you, Chryl she did. I don't even know where the valent constant it's about two cousins. And Colin would call you on a on a block number where you think it's like piece of hunter grum, call you to let you go your orders outside. Crazy. When she wanted to get you together, she would not call you on the number you've got. She would crazy and you'll be lying, hold that he with my piece. Oh Carl, Okay, okay, thank you? How you get this? How you get listen? Real talking? It's Joe Biden gonna run or what he needs to. Well right now, Cheryl, it looks like he's the only one that could really beat Trump right now. Yes, he looks like that. While I'm happy, I love comedy, but now we've got to get through the clutter. Yes, right, she's got to make it through the primaries. Yes that Iowa whatever. I don't know what all of that. Yeah, they get you together. Yeah, so I don't I don't know, man, I just I just don't know yet. Yeah, but I think she make a good vice president, don't you think to Joe Biden, no shade on her. I'm just saying, when we're trying to get to win in hand, we need an old school dude up there or woman up there. But really old school dude, and then have her be vice president, grow her in the presidency. We take control of the White House for at least sixteen to twenty four years. Did I just repeat the Republican strategy? Thank you, Cheryl. We got to get out of here. We love your we got gun everything. I'm going back in this Republican meeting, Charley, I got to go back. Get the knowledge. Coming up at the top of the hour, in Carlin is here with her Reality update. Right after this, you're listening to show Tommy do the Honors. It's that time. Getting ready. She is here Colin Farrell with Reality I shan't. Let's come on, come on, thank you nephew. All right, watch watch how much I know? Come on? Okay, let's talk about Celebrity Big Brother. Have you been watching that? But the mooch right, yeah, dude was with Donald Trump White House Communications for eleven days. Yeah, yeah, create on the of the Assault Convention. Mm hmmm. So anyway, so if you don't know Big Brother, it's a group what celebrity Big Brother? Anyways, reality show group of celebrities. They they live in this house for several weeks and the cameras and microphones that followed every move like twenty four hours a day, and so each week got too much money for this hill. Okay, check this out. Each week someone is voted out of the house, and the last remaining house guests on this edition of Celebrity Big Brother will win a quarter of a million dollars. So some of the celebrities include our guy, Anthony Mooch. You know SKIRMOUCHI. We've been talking about him, the former White House direct Communications Director of President Trump. He's good. Tamar Braxton, former NFL players. Is it really the Mooch? Yeah? Okay, let me tell you who else is in the house. Tamar Braxton, NFL. Former NFL player Ricky Williams, rick at Rick Yay, yeah, Candy Barszy know why he owned the show he had now Junior Candy Barris in Atlanta, she's on there. Uh huh. Olympic athlete Lolo Jones. Why everybody loved Lolo? Yeah? Yeah, okay, So let me just update you. The Mooch got voted off already. He's gone because what happened. You know, he didn't win Head of Households and you know, you know, Ryan I didn't think they won't have nothing in common with nobody in the healthy Anybody liked talking to him, No, they did. I don't know. I wasn't real thrilled about him being in there anyway fit in. Yeah, I didn't think he is. Yeah, I didn't think he was a good man football to Steve, listen to stand, I don't stick out the yeah. Yeah. So anyway, there's this beef going on between Tamar. I don't understand what's going on. I guess there was drama Tommy between Tamar and Candy before they actually got into the Big brother House. So they were arguing about little bitty things, and Tamar and and Candy were arguing about who's relevant in Atlanta and then being a star you know with reality TV. You know, it was just a crazy argument. I think Tamar went too far. She took it there, and Kenny was like, why are you going there? And then Kendy she just didn't understand it at all. And then Tamar was also mad at Candy for what happened on the Escape tour. Tamar was on the tour, she said Candy was talking about her and Tamar said she was going through a rough time in her marriage. Blah blah, blah. Take a listen. I have a little sound from that. Take a listen. Now, it's not going to go well because when somebody tell you how, when somebody tell you how they feel for you to laugh is because I wasn't trying to attack you, Okay whatever. I can't take this laughing. I can't tell with this laughing. It's hilarious to me. The fact that she's trying to make me this villain in her life, It's like totally ridiculous. Wow, man, Yeah that's Candy. That's what Candy was saying. I don't like it, man, she was crying. It was just a lot. I'm like what I've had Tamo on my show. She a lot. Now, she a lot. She breaks, she get into it with everybody. Only then she nervous man on on on your talk, man, I had several girls on the show nervous about it. I don't want to say nothing, Tama don't agree with yeah, because she'll go there, yeah. We Candy is usually the level headed one, right, carlok. Even on Atlanta Housewives, she's kind of getting into it. Yeah Candy there, Yeah, they're trying to push her buttons and she's kind of go you know she'll go there. I'm saying Candy is an angel about any by any means. But I'm saying this situation with Tamar just feel like Tamar's taking it too far. It's just not right. But Candy got real business. Yeah, she's successful. So you know, huh, Tamar has a career. Don't ask him to You ain't seen Candy? Candy coded? How you know her sex toy line? She does? Have you? I've been on the what I'm saying that you've been You've been on the website. You you've been shopping? Man, Hey man, did you uncle? Listen to yourself, but listen to me. You're married, idiot. It's certain things you can't say out loud almost you know. Please don't listen to your uncle, Tamar Junior. You just talking. Don't say nothing about your wife like your stupid ass. My wife don't know statements come that. You just don't say this boy wrong with him? Yeah, let's move on. I'm on a shop, but I got toy. What is you talking about? All right, let's move on. So that's celebrity big brother. You know, I'll be checking it out, and I think, y'all it's lolo Joe's I think she's still a virgin. I think she's like thirty six years old. Helo. Oh, I can't say no here, dog, I can't say I can Yeah, yeah, you can say something right here? Go ahead. Yeah, I'm not sure. I think so. I think I want to hear about he's gonna say. I'm not saying nothing. Hey, I mean she is really really a super sweet person I've had on my should Yeah I met her. She's really really a sweetheartvard person, and she's saving herself from mary marriage. Yeah, but we needs to hear this up though, I'm well, shut up. Will you promise you weren't gonna say anything from a running from Carla? Please continue? She's she's saving herself from marriage. Yeah, as it should be. Yeah, all right, Carla, hang on, Uh let's want me to come back. Yeah, we got to talk about Atlanta Housewives. Yeah, all right, More with Carla and her reality updated. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this you're listening show? All right? Uh, here comes Carla and part two? Come on? Tell me do they we only if we're gonna make Lolo. We're gonna make Lolo no celebrity big brother no, yeah, hey, Lolo and j Low cousins. Alright, here we go, Here we go, We're back. We're part two, Carla, the one and only with Reality update. Yes, thank you, nephew. Don't say nothing else after that. All right, we talked about Candy, Burris and Tamar and all of them on Celebrity Big Brother. Now let's move on to talk about Candy Real Housewives of Atlanta Ladies. Yeah, okay, Steve, So you know how you talking about they always go on these trips. Well, the ladies are in Tokyo and so this is a trip that Eva, she put together. And they arrived in Tokyo and Shirley, did you see that Marlow? None of her bags of all the people say, Carla, we could have written this if we wanted. You can't make and so Barlow's bags didn't make it. She was not not happy. Anyway, the ladies got settled in the old tell and Eva and the one of the new ladies on the show, Tanya, she's a friend. Anyway, they hired a Japanese tour guide to help them, you know, see the sites and you know, go around Tokyo. And so one of the things that the tour guide told the ladies was that punctuality and being on time is a big thing for the Japanese culture and it's disrespectful and an insult if they're late. So she was letting them know ahead of time. Hey, each day, Joe did walk in there and tell them, y'all got to be onbody from Atlanta. Tell them that we have CP tell right, they were supposed to be there at eleven, right, Carla right? So right. So the very next day, of course, they well, and Nity she's usually usually is out that late, but she was the one that was late that day, so she was, you know, she gave them a warning about their punctuality. So they went to see sights and they went to this act. They went to this temple y'all, so they had their fortunes. They were reading stuff about their fortunes and this temple. And the girl Tanya, she's been engaged for a while and so Ninie kind of told her that when she was reading her fortune, well maybe you should marry somebody else. So later on they went to lunch, so the girl Tanya asked Ninie what did she mean by that, because she was kind of offended that she would say something shot. Let me tell you, I don't know what you think you ought to marry somebody else? Mean, well, she was just yeah, but she was like, well, why are you going there? Why are you all in mind with my business and my fiance and you know, and Honi that Ninie just fired off. I don't give a blank who you marry the true Nini. For Nini got too much fresh on hall anyway, And and that was it because grag Her and Gregg were beefing before she got on the trip, and she wanted to get away from Greg. Gregg's was acting mean and you know, he's been sick and all of these things. So Nini was not having it. So anyway, I'll update you later. I gotta go hit me up at y Love Greg. All right, thank you, Carlin. As always, we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to show. Jay Z and Meek Mel just announced details of their new criminal justice reform project. This was at a press conference in New York City. They have joined forces with Patriots owner Robert Kraft, seventy six IS co owner Michael Ruben, Brooklyn Nets co owner Clara will sigh and more Okay. The new group is called the Reform Alliance. CNN host Van Jones will serve as CEO, and Meek and Rubin will be co chairs. Meek called creating the Reform Alliance one of the most important things I've ever done in my life. If you thought my case was unfair, there are millions of others dealing with worse situations and caught up in the system without committing crimes. With this alliance, we want to change outdated laws, give people hope, and reform a system that's stacked against us. I love that. Jay Z added, if someone commits a crime, they should go to jail, but these things are so disproportionate, and the whole world knows it. It's a humane issue. The new group will work to change laws on a state by state basis while running a public awareness campaign. You can find out more at reform now dot com. What do you think about that, I'll tell you what. That's how you do it. Yeah, kudos to meet Meal and to jay Z and then to have the US the real smart to partner when you're dealing with a football owner and a basketball owner and two hip hop artists. That's as about as bipartisan as you can get understand. I mean, you're talking about cats from two different worlds. Now, jay Z can participate in their world because he's at a level financially that puts him over there with them. But like we all know that our African American they are still things in place that keep us out of certain situations. And from time to time, racism will rears ugly head and remind you of who you are. Now, it doesn't stop you, but they do things to remind you that systematic people I'm talking about racists. I'm not talking about all people. I'm just talking about people who are of power who are racist. They could they do some things to remind you who you are. So to partner with basketball team owners and a guy like Robert Kraft, very powerful NFL owners, one of the top powerful people in the NFL, it's like really really smart. That's great. Yeah, it really is good news. Hopefully some change. Well that's how we're doing. If it's just black people screaming, they won't listen, that's it really is. It's Slavery didn't end because black people were sick of being slaves. Because we were sick as we got on the boat. We were sick when we were sitting on auction block. We were sick of being in the fields from day one, from day one, we were sick of it. So it took a lot of African Americans, black people to rally, but they had to have help, help, And thank God for Quakers who helped along the underground railroad path who helped who that were well meaning whites who helped conceal a lot of blacks and slaves escaping to the north a lot. Now there were a lot of a lot of people with hounds out there hunt them down to yeah, you know, but you had enough good ones to get a lot of them through. All right. Coming up next closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey, our last break of the day. You don't want to miss it coming up at forty nine after right after this, you're listening, all right, Steve, last break of the day. Please leave us with some closing remarks like only you can. This is to help you make ready for your blessings. Now, what I'm gonna give you is gonna be hard for most people to do. I already know that it was difficult for me to do. But a very very wealthy person taught this to me. I didn't think much of it until I did it, and boil, boil, boy, did it help make room for what God had for me? Not only that it freed me up. And I'll tell you what this very very successful people person told me. If I told you his name, you probably wouldn't know him. He's not famous. He's just extremely wealthy. And when I tell you extremely wealthy, I mean it. But if I said his name, you wouldn't even notice guy. If I showed you a picture of him, the average person wouldn't even know who he was. But he taught this to me. He said, in your journey, if you want to really clear the slate, get a fresh start, and prepare yourself to receive what all God has for you, you have to take inventory of the people in your life. And when you take this inventory, you are going to have to act as though you are God. You are a gardener with a grove, and your grove is your life. The things you want to bear fruit from God. Your trees. You want apples this season, you want lemons, you want grapefruits, you want peaches, you want pass plums. You've got to take care of your orchard in order to take care of your archard. I notice you've all noticed that from time to time you see the gardeners outside pruning trees. They cutting them back, They're clipping dead ends off. You know why, because that maximizes the growth of the good in the tree. If you take the dead, unnecessary branches off, the withering ends, it allows for the tree to bear more fruit. So, Steve, how do you take inventory of people? This is what he taught me. He said, you have three kinds of people in your life. He said, you have people who are you with nothing but bad news. All of us know them. Everybody has somebody that walks up to them and every time they start talking something wrong, or every time they give you a phone call, they bring you bad news. And the bad news don't just be about them. They bring you bad news about you. Did you hear that though they were saying about you down here and you just go mad. Have you ever had a person that every time they came up to you, you just felt dark because they just bought bad news. Those people that you have in your life, you don't need them. I want you to put go through your phone contacts and Everybody that is no good, that never moves your life forward, doesn't give you any helpful advice, doesn't help you aid you in any way, has nothing but bad news and want something for you. One side of friendships, I want you to put a dot next to that kind tax name, a black dot. The next person you have in your life are called sometimey people. They the fifty fifties in your life. They're cool over here as long as you're doing this, but they're not cool over here. You can take them here, but you can't take them there. You can discuss this, but you can't bring up that. You can lead them that way, but you can't show them the other way. Sometimes they cool what you about stuff. Sometimes they ain't. Those are called sometimy people or what we're gonna call fifty fifty people. Everybody got them in their life. When you have a fifty fifty person, what I want you to do is put an asterid by their name. That contact put in asterid, remember all the bad news people that's always bringing you bad news in darkness, a black dot next to their name. The next person is the fifty fifty person. They sometime they here, they ain't cool then put an asterisk by their name. The last person that you know are people who are very supportive of you, people who are willing to pray for you, people who always try to be uplifting, people who when they got news for you, they try to make it of the positive nature. A person who comes to your aid and your rescue. A person that picks up the phone just to see how you're doing. And you bet not mention that something's wrong, because here they come. It's people in your life, man, that you don't even have to talk when you're around them. You could just sit and be steal and y'all just cool like that. Everybody got that ride or die that I don't care what you tell them. They don't pass judgment. They just your friends. Well, when you have that person, and I'm gonna be real honest with you, it ain't a whole lot of them. I want you to put a check by their name, so you got a black dot next to the dark people who bring you none but bad news, negativity, something wrong. Every time, you got an asterid by the name of the people who are fifty fifty sometimey people, and you got a check by the people that's always supported prayer for bringing you good news. Now here's what you do. I want you to take everybody with a black dot next to their name, and everybody with an asterisk next to their name, and I want you to block them as your contact, block them out your phone, and block them from your email. If the family, block them from your phone and block them from your email. All I want you to have is people who have your phone number, that have a check by your name. You're gonna lose a lot of people, but guess what you're gonna gain a lot of ground. You don't have no idea how much time you waste with people in your life who are fifty fifty and always got bad news. If you eliminate them, you've cleaned house. Your inventory is clean. You now have cleared room to receive the blessings God have for you in this year. I dare you to try it. It works. It sounds cruel, it sounds like it's hurtful, but man, if you want to win, you gotta do it. Those are my clothes over drop it Babo for all Steve Every contests No purchase necessary, void were prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.