Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all bat all suit all looking back to back down, giving them just like themaking buck bus things. And it's touble y'all to be true. Good at Steve h guy listening to me together for sto bar quickly to listen. Mony, Why don't you join? Yeah? Yeah, by y'all joining with me? Honey, say you gotta turn yea very close you run you are you got a turn to turn turn lobby, got to turn out to turn? Want to go? Come come on your back now? Uh huh? I show will a good morning? Every about it? Y'are listening to the voice? Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harley got a radio show. Okay today you know this week I've just been on it, so today is no different what I'm trying to do. I'm telling you I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the principles of success. I'm more determined to help and guide and teach as many people as I can the things that I've learned. And I mean, man, I've been through it. I have really been through it. I kid you not. You know I used to say, Okay, God, you know why is all this happening to me? But as I uh, I've gotten older, I understand that was the ingredients. I needed the ingredients to be this cake. I needed all those ingredients stirred up. I need all of that different flavors, the stuff that I didn't think taste so good. All that stuff had to come into the bowl in order for me to get to where I am today. As much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients, little did I know God was making this cake, not me. But what he did was and you've heard you the old saying God could turn lemons lemons into lemonade, Well that's what he was doing now. At the time, it all had a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with some other stuff in it too. I didn't care for it. But little did I know, Little did I know, that I needed everything that happened to me to happen to me in the exact order that had happened, in the exact array of things that happened for me to have a knowledge I have today, the experience, the attitude, but so I could turn around and share that information. Okay, got that out the way. I've learned this. This, This is what I want to give to you today. I want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. Discipline determined your destiny, not your desire. You've heard me say this how many times on the show. Okay, here we go again, Steve, I got it. Faith without works, it's dead. But let me tell you something. To be a hard worker, you got to be disciplined. That's one of the hardest lessons I'm trying to get through to my sons that an undisciplined man is headed to a life of justice. I I can't even tell you, man, you've gonna throw yourself down a cliff if you're not a young man or a man that possesses discipline. Because they got something for undisciplined people. They got some street laws for undisciplined people, and they got some federal laws and state laws for undisciplined people. That's why them signs is outside on the freeway. We're gonna let you go fast, but seventy is the limit. Seventy fast enough, really, really, if you're disciplined enough of a person to leave your house at the time you're supposed to leave your house. Seventy miles per hour is absolutely enough. But if you're an undisciplined person, if you don't have the wherewithal to leave your house on time, to make to get ready to go where you want to go, see the desires where you want to go, the discipline is how you get there. You know, you understand. You can wanna go to see your family in California all you want, but the flight leaves at one eighteen. You leave your house at twenty or thirty. They told you you must check in one hour before your flight. Now, if you ain't got the discipline to get to the airport to check in one hour before your flight, leaving your house for if five minutes before the flight departs, what you think gonna happen? Your desire to go see your family in l A is going to be thwarted because you lack the discipline to prepare yourself and get yourself ready to do the things that you have to do to make your desires come true. I'm telling you, discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You can write down a list of stuff you want to do all day, but if you don't produce and show the discipline necessary to get there. What you think gonna happen. Huh. Okay, I want to be rich, Okay, I want to make four hundred thousand in a year. Okay, I want to be the best player that there is. Okay, but you'll want practice. See the cat that's disciplined enough to show up at practice, the shooting jumpers when everybody going home, that's the guy that's gonna be the best. The guy that puts us and that's never late for practice, the guy to study the playbook. That's the guy that's gonna make it. That's the guy that's gonna make not the guy that's talking crack I stalk the next smack. I'm gonna make the Pro Bowl, I'm gonna make the All Star Team. I'm gonna be All American. That's that's just what you're saying. You know, you can say a lot of stuff, but discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. So now let's talk about this discipline. What is that really, Steve, that's your work ethic, that's your hunger, that's that's your will, that that's what you do, that's how hard you're willing to demonstrate. See it's a live demonstration. Now, Discipline is how hard you're willing to demonstrate the attributes and the traits to be what you want to be. Did you hear me? It is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner that is above and beyond what they what what they say is necessary. Okay, let me see if I can come up with an example for that. So I was watching the NFL Combines on TV. Now, this is a good example right here. Now. You can want to be in the NFL all you want, but they got this thing called the NFL Combines where they bring in some of the top players at every position to come and they're gonna run a forty yard dash, They're gonna do a standing broad jump, They're gonna do a standing vertical leap. Uh. They're gonna do drills, running drills, cutting drills. They can determine if a linebacker got stiff hips by making him back pedal, point him in one direction and throw the football in another direction. How does he turn his body? Now you can say you can tell everybody that your college you want to play pro football. You tell everybody that your high school, you tell him in Peewee. You wanta play pro football, but they got tests for you though. It's called the combines. Now you get out here and you have a bad combine day. Ain't nobody trying to hear that. Let me tell you how excuses don't work with people when they're just trying to get when they're trying to win. In the NFL, the fact that you had a bad day at the combine and you don't run your best forties and you just keep telling them you could do better, they don't want to hear that. Because see, what ain't nobody gonna pay you for is to play on Sunday. And that's one of your bad days. Now, we were paying you to play on Sundays, but because you keep having these bad days, because you ain't disciplined enough to put in the work to make sure that your maximum can be put can be called upon at any time. Now you have to combine with some slow times that go on your record. You have to combine. You don't jump as high as you did when you was at the gym class. Well, hold up, man, this is show day now in the NFL. Sunday is show day. What they can't run the risk of is paying you your money and your bad day happen to be on Sundays after we didn't cut your check. No, no, no, We're looking for people who limit them bad days, who got the discipline to work hard, to make an effort for you. Understand what I'm saying to your folks, Please understand this discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You you can, you can want it all you want. But if you ain't working, if you ain't grinding, if you ain't greeting your teeth, if you ain't hurting, if you ain't sweating real bad, if you always somewhere, got to chill, You got to have a cold. One, you got to smoke one, you always, you gotta do all them things. Can't tell you something you ain't gonna make it. Discipline determine your destiny, not your desires. You're listening to. If you don't know, you need to tell somebody what you're about to do, because what does Steve High That morning show is on, baby, but your hands, Yeah, yeah, Steve is on vacation. And we're holding it down. Boy down down, boy, holding down, boy and holding it down strong, holding down, railing, holdly jown get more crazy. Holding it down is color around? Holding down? Color? I'm holding down, holding it down, holding down, holding down, hold hold down, number one, King of the praise, holding it down, holding drown, leave down, nephew till we ought to Steve baby what we do that once a week? That's why I didn't do it. Yeah, it's too early for all of that shame. That sounds like radio down. Yeah, yeah, denied. It's gotta baby reckon show that's going to be down. Okay. They talk from their throat, you say, as opposed to from their dire fragm. So what's the difference. What's the difference. Let's hear this conversation, junior. Okay, let's hear it from the throat and then the diet from I want to okay, go ahead, go ahead, give it, give the throw from the gut, from the gun, holding it down, holding it down, holding it down. We're holding it down, radio wrestler, holding down, hold it down, holding it down, from hold it down, hold it down. That is ignorant right there. You should be really a cartoon. I don't know why he's not. He has no boy crazy part about it. Jake to be fought it hold it down, Hold it down, hold it down. We gotta give you like they got SpongeBob. What's the what's the most popular? I don't know, Junior. We just make a cartoon Captain called it Junior. Why that? Okay? Junior, Junior, hold it down, hold it down, hold over here, holding it out? But Junior, how did you sound when you were a little kid? Accept that? Bertie Letty, how are you doing? And that is so crazy? All right, well, listen, guys, we have something really, really really big to talk about. We're going to tell you about are you smarter than nephew Tommy? If if so? Like we had to say that, right, if so, you could win Steve's one million dollar grand prize one million dollar grand prize, and will also tell you what does America's Bigger, Biggest Summer fear inside of something funny at thirty two after the hour, we'll be right back. You're listening Steve Show. We've been talking about it for a long time, especially him, He's been talking about it for a long time. Steve Harvey is on vacation. The crew is here. Hold on, you're doing yes, we are. Don't ask me to do that no more. I'll say it, Junior saying, and here's the other exciting thing. We're so happy to bring this to you. It is Monday, there's a lot going on, but starting tomorrow, guys, this is really really big. Tommy, this is big. We're gonna play. Are you smarter the nephew Tommy? Alright, alright, so here we go. Each weekday, guys, one lucky listener and Nephew Tommy will each be given sixty seconds to correctly answer our trivia questions. If you are smarter than Nephew Tommy, you'll win a one hundred dollar cash gift card. Plus plus you'll be given the chance to win, uh some of Steve Harvey's grand prize of a million dollars. Okay, I said one million dollars. If you can million dollars, okay, So listen, if you can correctly guess our four digit code in its exact order. If Nephew Tommy is smarter than you, you'll still win a twenty five dollar cash gift card. You can't play unless you register, so go to Steve Harvey f M dot com. Alright, this is gonna be right right here. Alright, alright, alright, watch me watch me. Alright, alright, alright, everybody, it's not even in the context. That's not even cool. Politician. If you promise you I'm gonna make you all proud on this show. You hear me. One more time of the game is called Are you staring? That's not funny, that's not funny. What's the game? Are you sweaty? We're going to give up so much money. We're gonna see watch my, watch my, watch my uncle come back, and all his money gonna be into Ain't nobody's gonna be bro like your attitude. I don't like your attitude. Alright, alright, listen, it's Monday, so coming up digging death jam and rubbing at any are in the building for Reverend Motown with today's church complaints and announcements. They're coming up right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We're gonna tell you how you can win a chance at Steve's grand prize of one million dollars one million dollars. All right, listen, this is if you're smarter than Nephew Tommy plus plus Guys and Entertainment News Tyler Perry check this out, makes Tiffany Hattish's dreams come true. We'll tell you what he did. But right now, Deacon deaf Cham and Reverend ad Noid are here with today's church complaints and announcements. Did you say, are you smarter? Just tickles me down there about indeansided funny that night that now I mean it, don't do it now, don't do it. We're gonna be so broken. I'm not gonna do this with y'all. An'tyway. It's time for church complains. If the jackpot joint of Jerusala change ching hallelujah, it will be me as well as add nor ad Nor. It has church announces and I have church complaints. Does everybody understand? All right, let me start this thing out. The Hearing Aid Ministry is asking that the sound man uh put less base in the sound. You blew everybody speaking uh last week when Brother Forest Dixon sung, I won't complain. So we're gonna have to bring bring our less base in there because they have blown their speakers when I want out, and now they are complaining that way too much base way too much. Yeah, go ahead and now here. There are plenty of tickets left for the hip gospel play I love it when you scream my name? But could you wait till I start? It's the gospel play say that love it when you scream my name? He could wait until I start? Plenty of tickets, stuff, a lot of tickets stuff. They're not they're not moving at all. I love it. There's a song. But I love it when you scream my name, when you wait until I start? Right in here, when you scream my name. Evening love that when you screen my name. But even alright at Nord, listen, the Baby and Dad a ministry. We'll be doing a child support fundraiser. We have two brothers that are three months behind and subject to jail time. So listen. Uh. They will be having a children's field that that's coming Saturday. But every child that's gonna be in the field, they has to pay fifty dollars to get in. Ye. Yes, we're trying to say this is about staying out of jail, raising money. I like it. I'm yes, exactly, go ahead, and now here we go. There'll be a meeting of the women who have no business trying to make a ponytail and ruin. You need to try to give it the twig minute business making you to pull your eyes up, gathering up that hair. You have no being meeting rooms seven stupid, you know, business making ad to make a pony. Well, talk to y'all. You got a man down rubber band that right, I can't keep it is. I'm loving it. I'm man, that's grunt. Your needs some help. You can see the root of a half girl. Listen, whoever stole the five gallons of breast milk from sister he shall one Dixon who lost her thermos. We need the breast milk back. She has triplets and she needs the breast milk. Yeah, the breast milk, uh thief. We would like for you to come back with the breast five gallons, five breast Yeah, that's a lot of yeah. I never heard of baby wine horse. Come on here. The women, the women who have no problem rocking a glitter baseball hat with any outfit the Women's Day. You know, I'm gonna hit the million in the in the door, but a little baseball hat with the fact all right now, listen, they are complaining in Houston, Texas. What's going on? If you are in a K eight, we are asking that you quit winning pink and green. The rest of the weekend. You are blinding and you are it with people at church with pink and green robes on. It's too much, it's too money. That's a lot of pink and a lot of brick pink and salmon, different pinks. Right, everybody, everybody here, everybody paink oh Man, no pink. That's what they had. And do what I bought. Don't worry about it. Go ahead at now all right. The brothers over fit, they who still dressed like the in high school with me? Why do you got your cane had backwards? Fool? I'm lit know you need to be lit on fire. I love it. Listen, uh uh. The Walker, the Walker uh Praise Dance Ministry would be having their first dance this come Sunday. All right. We are asking everybody on the front row to please move back doing the dance because you might get hit by the Walker. Okay, the Walker Ministry. I'm just saying that goes in the category and funny but wrong. Shut it down, add nod to come on the last one. Yeah, we gotta go out of church complaints here we go. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Yeah right, all right, Well if you guys think you're laughing Today Tomorrow that means Tuesday, July ten. We're gonna do it really, really big guys, all right, and we're gonna give you a chance to win Steve Harvey's grand prize of one million dollar dollars. I have my finger in my mouth when I'm saying that. Okay, just we know the movie. Alright, we're going to play are I'm gonna say this with a straight face. We're gonna play a game. It's called are You? Are you Smarter? Are you? Are you smarter than I don't know somebody? Are you smarter than Nephew Tommy? Each weekday, one lucky listener and Nephew Tommy will each be given six the second to correctly answer our trivia questions. If you are smarter than Nephew Tommy, you'll win a one hundred dollar gift cash gift card, Plus you'll be given the chance to win the grand prize of one million dollars. Yes, yes, uster, powers, that's what I was trying to You can't play unless you register, so please go to Steve Harvey f M dot com and register. All right, are you smarter? You Tommy? Coming tomorrow? What's what's what's all the laugh? Because signed up already. You'll show us, right, nephew, You'll show us, promise you all right? This is this is greatness. I love this story right here. Tyler Perry makes Tiffany Hannish's Tesla dream come true. Okay, So, Tiffany Hattesh we all know and love her. She's truly living her best life right now. Ellen Degenerous promised her a rented Tesla when she revealed that that was her dream car. Well, Tyler did one better. He took it a step further. Uh, he gave her one of her own. What I mean by that is he gave a Tesla. Okay, yes he did. Tyler snapchat at her. I wanted to give this to you and say you deserve it, and I'm excited for you and all that's going on. Love you, Tiffany. It's all yours here in l A waiting for you. Okay. Tyler then went outside. Yeah, he then went outside to show her the car sitting in the driveway. So Tiffany shared the post on the Graham to thank Tyler. The caption red and part I cried so hard I almost couldn't believe it. Thank you, Tyler, thank you. That beautiful story is race story, pob I like a portion not living. I like, yeah, he didn't just give me a Yeah, that's so from a from a lady who slept in the car. Now she was giving a car man. Won't he do it? It's really beautiful? All right? Another news Jay celebrity birthdays today. I don't know if you're ready for this one. O. J is seventy one years old. Okay, shoot, please introduce miss and he's gonna cut the cake. Please introduce Miss and it's time for newsday. Here's the news take a stand at that birth Okay, it was the story that damn cut the second. He's somewhere cutting up. He cut the lab whatever let him joke. Did you hear Jay when he said she's going to take a stand back seventy one though? See he's still in Vegas as far as we know. Yeah, you bet not throw him with surprise him. You bet you better have cupcakes. You don't want him cut cake. You can't have no lights off and little old Jay walk here surprised stab everybody. Okay, say, though, I really am excited about tomorrow. Though, I'm really excited about tomorrow, but you want to I know you want everybody know how smart I really am. And I appreciate this. That's why I'm trying. I'm gonna try and say it with a straight face from now on. You know, I think we're giving Tommy a hard time here. I really should be wearing both time glances. I'm smarty' oh man, okay, you got your look together. Boy, don't let near the time and show up tomorrow his own in pop And I'm just telling that, Yeah, show up. What give me an example of a question? Just get it tomorrow. Well, we're gonna do it. We're gonna okay, okay, we don't want to heads up, mart people don't need no heads up. Thank you, thank you. Yeah, okay, we're gonna see. That's right. Like I really think, I really think if I was the ever due family feud, I would get all two hundred points before the other person in the fast money, the fast money around, I would get all two hundred points all the number one else. I'm just trying to tell you about as bright as a box of right, all right, is right? All right, We're gonna tell you more about are you smarter than nephew? Tommy. Right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve Harvey on vacation. The crew is in and yes, yes, say it, held it down the neck. All right, listen this time tomorrow, guys, Tuesday, July ten. We're gonna do it real, real big. All right, We're giving away a chance to win. I'm gonna try to do this with a straight face. Steve Harvey's grand prize of one million dollars. That's right, one million dollars, million dollars. That's how we do it when he's on vacation. Are you smarter? Are you? Are you smarter? Al right, here's the deal. Here's the deal. One lucky listener and Nephew Tommy will each be given sixty seconds to correctly answer our trivia questions. If you are smarter than Nephew Tommy, you'll win a one hundred dollar cash gift card. Plus you'll be given the chance to win the grand prize of one million dollars if you if you can't correctly guess our four digit code in its exact order. So Carla, come on, guys, you want to practice with Nephew Tommy, Let's do this all right, come on, come on, let's go stay ready now, but stand first. Okay, just let y'all know E equals m. What does that mean that? What does that mean? That's Edward equals Charlie, Edward equals might your uncle's times too, average barber and average Barbara cuts ten to fifteen heads the day doing the math? How much hairs on the floor? YouTube YouTube YouTube d you know he don't know, you know he don't know. Ja one point to trash back you back, Tommy. What's the president's name? Donald Trump? Oh? The week than Okay, my question, my question? Are you fast? Yeah? Come on, carl you got one? I got one? What planet uh huh is closest to the Sun? Venus Earth or Mercury Venus Mercury Venus. All right, coming up, Brown is going to murder another hit that we'll be back at thirty four after the hour. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, Steve Harvey is out today, he's on vacation. The quirl gonna turn it over to you now, Junior, so you can introduced Jay, I mean, introduced ladies and gentlemen. Here to murder another hit is the one and own the hit murder himself, Jay Anthony Brown holding it down before we play the murder. It's going down to the Jay's five Comedy Club, fifty five eighty one West Manchester Avenue, Los Angeles, California. I got Mail Rolls, I got Mr. Springs, I got Corey Hernandez and Griff. Not the song right here, Grif, Griff, the song right here, dedicated to everybody we went to something school. Man. Yeah, hey, hey, that's up. But did you not know the lesson when you went back the next year? I didn't. Number seven Daddy headed to everybody who went to Something school on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all check it out, and it's time. Man. Ain't easy, and it's something what you can do when you try. You only wishes. My only wishes is you're not singing that song. Come on, I mean it's about people going to summers. Don't give the hell who is about? Okay, man, but that's not how we murder hits. Baby, you know we do it. You know what you got, what you got? Check this up? Okay, I'm giving that. Let me let me take yourself summer school to day. Check this out. Summer school in something luck time you mess up, no sense in crying and your school comb ass, getting your learn on while other kids aren't having some fun. You've building every cast, including your ama tree, your's that clash pown now picking history a little bit out of control. You had your chance, and what about to use your broke. I'm come on, man, and no more hitting, no chicks, and no more hand me with friends who say hit this. You're focusing hard. Need to pass. My mom and dad gonna get in that past normal watching TV, wasteing time. Summer school ain't cool because his white to wytsches. Summer to summer school in some time because his white toys your summer time you mess up. No sense in some time. This is like delicious. Im the time you mess up. No sex in crown, this is like delicious. I'm the cast summer school in some time. No sex. Whoa, yeah it's sexy. It's real sexy around the school. Yeah, I have to call in there. They're going right now, get down right now, in the right now. I used to go to get ahead though. That's some people go to go ahead, not most of them. Talk to You'll see tomorrow when you when people call and see if they're smart at the time, and you'll see that. You know you are you smart if you need to be in something school right now tomorrow? Boy, mean, but it's not that smart. What are your cocky, Tommy? What's the vice president's name? Yeah, man name? What's his first name? What's his wife's name? His wife name? You're way too deep first, you just ran the head Tommy. What's side shirt you wear? Seventeen and a half five? What number is this president? What number? Forty five? Good? All right, okay, y'all not going to get it here and get nothing taken. Do you know? Are your first cup? Oh? What's the bills? Very doughboy way side like that? Like that? I don't we have all? Don know? One hundred? Oh yeah? Are you smarter the nephew coming tomorrow? You're listening to the morning show? Who if you think today is exciting? All right, wait until tomorrow, alright, tomorrow Tuesday, July t Yes, we're gonna do it so hugely, so big, if that's a word. We're gonna give away a chance to win Steve's grand prize of one million dollars. Okay, we're gonna play. Are you smarter the nephew, are you spell me? Call a thought of this? Carl, thought of this? Alright, this little yeah, it's so. If you want a register and get in on all the action and possibly win this one million dollars by being smarter than nephew Tommy, go to Steve Harvey f M dot com to register. Do it right now? Okay, we want you to win. All right, man, are you smarter? Are you smarter than you to register and get in on some of this action again, go to Steve Harvey FM dot com to register. Here we go. All right, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, on sex, on parenting, and more, all you have to do is submit your strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. Alright, hold on tight, we got it, straw very Thank you enough you which is smart itself. You're so intelligent. Al Right, here we go. Subject. I want a sex relationship? Okay, is that a new term sex relationship? Is that in the Urban Dictionary sex relationship? All right, here we go, ever, Dear Stephen Shirley, I am a thirty one year old single mom fresh out of a nine year relationship with my child's father. After we broke up, I focused on school work and my child. I chose not to entertain any men for a while, and I deleted all of my social media pages. I pretty much fell off the grid right after my X and I broke up. We would get together there occasionally just for sex, but he started wanting more from me, so I had to cut that off. Now months later, I have a nagging desire to have sex, and that's all. I'm looking for a clean, honest man that's willing to commit to a sex relationship with me. I have thought about this, and I am definitely not interested in dating or hanging out with anyone. I just want the sex. I want this man to be completely committed to me for the sole purpose of sex. Do you think a man in this generation would look at me crazy if I presented him with this proposal? Or should I just forget about it and buy a toy? What should I do? Please? Help? All right, girl, you're gonna get so many men to sign up for this, more than more than are you smarter than nephew Tommy? All right, You're gonna get so many men to sign up for this. I mean, really, are you kidding me? Forget all that fear of commitment stuff and all that. This is something a man can seek his teeth into. Okay, he can definitely get behind this. Definitely, yeah, definitely commit to this. Yes. I understand you just got out of a nine year relationship, you know, with your child's dad, and and you want to focus you focused on school and work in your child and all that. But but to a guy, this is like an offer he can't refuse. Here, Okay, giving a cat cat nip and all that. So to answer your question, No, I do not think a man in this generation would look at you crazy. No, not at all. This is a dream come true for a man, all right. I think they will love it. I think they'll be very very happy. The question is, and this is what you have to deal with. Will you be happy? Can you be happy? I hear what you're saying in the letter. I get it, Uh that you just want the sex. I get all of that, But um, I just don't think are gonna want this all the time. I think you're going to want more as a woman after a while. You're going to want an emotional connection with this man in addition to the physical, because that's just how women are built, that we're built differently than a man. Okay, we're nurturers, we all we we like all the attention, we like the cuddling afterwards and all of that. Uh, you know, we we have to feel a certain way when when you know, when we're with a man, so a sex relationship, they usually don't work for us after a while, Okay, after a while. Like I said, I get that you're in a nine year relationship. You just got out of that. You just want to play around for a little while. But that's gonna get old, all right, all right, guys, Jay, huh would you say? Would you say here, oh you disappointed? I'm a woman. I'm a woman. Come on, Jay, you can't even look at it. I'm not even want to look whatever. Man, let's have your aunts. I need to use the phrase, I'm so disgusted with you. Right. I don't know what it is because all that you said it's true, but not all women, not all women bride of women who want this. Now, that would be one thing that would make this better. One thing. One thing. It's called grub loving. That means you call it up and it comes to you. I don't have to go nowhere like man, I'm saving gas, I'm saving time. When you want to start the app, I'm I'm hitting it and it leaves. You know what I mean to it? When it comes in, it's ready. It is ready. When when you are, your food is ready to enjoy. I want loving like that. No foe play none of that. No no no play, you get no damn play. You talk got to hug. I don't want to hear about your damn day. I ain't gonna tell you about my day, what I'm feeling where it's just going. That's going when we finished? You going home? About that? Yeah, man, that's what I want. I disappointed in you. I can't believe you said up this woman to ask what should I do? Should I should I be? Just? She just want sex, she'll want nothing else. Yeah, for now, I don't even know her, and I love her. You're about to give my about live. Ain't three to just call me? All right? Listen, guys, we're gonna have part two of your responses coming up at twenty three after the hour. You're listening to the Steve al right, we are in the middle of this strawberry letter. Let's recap this subject. Yeah, for the guys, the subject is I want a sex relationship at thirty one year old single mom wrote this letter. She's fresh off a nine year relationship with her child's father. You love her. Uh, they broke up. She focused on school, she focused on work, and she focused on her child. She chose not to entertain any men for a while. Uh. And she went off all social media. Okay, she shut all that down, so um. But you know, she and her ex would get back together from time to time just to have sex, but he wanted to have more from her and she didn't have more to give, so she cut that off. Now, it seems she has this nagging desire, kind of like a pull from within, just to have sex and that's all she wants to do. She's looking for a clean, honest man that's willing to commit to a sex relationship with her. And we've never heard the term sex relationship. That is new. She made that up. Uh. So she just wants some guy that's definitely interested only in having sex, that's it. She wants him to be completely committed to her for the sole purpose of having sex. Uh. And she asked the question, do you think a man in this generation would look at her crazy, look at me crazy if I presented him with this proposal? Or she wants to know should she just forget about all that and just by a toy? She wants to know what she should do. Nephew, you are up. You are looking for me. I am the person for this job. You are looking for me. You have a nagging design to have sex. And that's all me too. You are looking for me. We are looking for each other. I'm the man for the job. I don't want no talking, no hugging, no pillow talk, don't make eye contact, don't look at me the fact, as a matter of fact, listen, we will actually never say two words to one another. Ever, we won't know when I come in, we start, and by I'm through, I'm out. See you next Wednesday. That's how we do this. We're treating this like the yard man. We're treating this like the housekeeper. Don't they come once to week? Yeah, I'm gonna come once to week. Roll through there, tighten you up, and I'm sorry straight what you just do it? Yes, just do it and then just leave. Do it and just leave a man. I am who you won't no worry about no toys. I bring all that I got out of towards our rustband clones. I got all the talk. I'm gonna brain everything. I'm brain stuff you ain't never seen before. All right, I'm rolling up in there with a g I Joe. You ain't gonna understand the stuff I'm coming through there with. We're gonna be butt naked with a with a race track. You ain't gonna stand. I got toys sleeking coming down the stairway. What what's he gonna do? Let it come down the stairway. You'll see it playing. Jack's see the toys that I've been halping. You understand me. Let me ask you this, Tommy, are you at least when she comes in? Are you going to say hello? At least? So am I go? Are you going to say hello when she comes in? What ain't no hello? What what are we talking for? Matter of fact? Yeah? Jay, play huh okay, and I'm gonna play to mate. They always the woman's a great woman. I'm at the dog, Jake, come on in, plot, Let's get this out the way. That's the woman. That's the woman. He's saying this to the woman. Wait, wait, wait, we gotta go way back there. Just stay right here in the doorway, right here, right here, right all right, see you next week, next week. Thank you so much. Wait a minute, it was less than thirty seconds? Was good for me? Wasn't good for you? Well, we weren't gonna take you through it, shirty But that was the book ends, that was the beginning. That's all it takes. Okay, So so the lady who wrote this letter, I hope you're learning something about men. Okay, this is what you want from a man. I don't think. I don't think whatever out of this. Yeah, baby, let me, let's let one more thing she needs, no one more thing. You said you didn't win. You didn't took all your stuff on social media, baby, put it back up there. That's how you're gonna get you. That's how you're gonna get some that tipping calling ten digits just randomly trying to find hello, did you want I'm sorry, I have a good moment. I'm sorry. If you go to Time's Tips two thousand three at yahoo dot com, send me your pictures so we can see what we're working with. I don't care y S T I P S. And then the number two zero zero three, And I just said something, you tim pick, what do you mean? You don't care what she looks She could have one foot in one eye. Your not say nothing about my woman. I know that it's gonna be a problem. It's gonna be a problem. I don't care what she looked like. I'm not gonna see her face now, happen all this activity from the back? Hey, man, who in who in here with the pirate? You wan't say a day? Come on, wait, let's get out of here. Pirates, Yeah, get out, let's go back. We gotta take this. So I hope women, especially the lady who wrote this letter, the woman who wrote this letter at thirty one years old, I hope you're hearing how men really think. You don't want this. You really don't want up the lady know what you want to change? No, she might want this for a minute or so. You know you don't want this. And lord, judge, judy, she you will not want this. Okay, you don't want to us if she want it for a minute, let up, hand is me. I'm definitely trying to talk her out of it. All right, guys, we got we gotta get out of here. You can email us her Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM and this Thursday at one thirty pm, please join me for the Strawberry Letter Live after show. Drake is number one. We'll talk about that when we come back. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve Harvey is off. He is on a well deserved, much needed vacation. Can we say that the crew is all here, We're all here holding it down. Of course, Ja and Temmy is here. With weekend or vacation confessions. That's a little different, little different twist to it, nephew. Or you know, we just got through with the fourth of July weekend, you know, so you might did a little something over both with July weekend. You know you want to call and confess about so, you know, give us a shout. Eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve, it is weekend confessions. I'm not here to help you. I just want to hear what you're going through. Do not call in here and give me your legitimate name. You better make up a name, So say what you gotta say. You're comfortable about it, you let it all out. Feel good about yourself. Call me right now eight seven seven nine Steve alright, nephew, I love it alright, weekend or vacation Confessions. I love that switching gears. Yeah, we got to talk about this. Fueled by record breaking streaming numbers, Drake's Scorpion Okay, Drake is back hot. New album Scorpion opened atop the Billboard two hundred with the best sales of the week of two thousand eighteen so far, and also according to Billboard, Scorpion tracks generated seven hundred and forty six million on demand streams in its week. State side yes, one billion worldwide? Right, so now, Carla, there's also a world, yes world why a billion? World loved love Drake? Don't talk me worldwide? Hey? Does get on that? Yeah, he's doing this thing all right? So tell us about the dance though, that's what you know social media? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So there's like this viral dance craze that's going. I'm doing Drake's new song and my feelings. Okay, you're doing it. I'm doing it. So it has this like New Orleans sound. You hear it, right? The instrumental we're playing, right, now. So the beat is huge, you know, by a lot of local New Orleans rappers, but so inspired by the lyrics in the song and my feelings. There's a lyrics where Drake is saying, Kiki do you love me? So now fans they're showing off their dance moves and they're doing it all on like Instagram, Facebook, social media is everywhere. Lenge can you do any moves on that you want? Or you have to do well, it's a dance. It's a Kiki dance challenge day I can murder and that in the bathroom? Did you try to do it? I tried to do it yesterday too. I'm gonna do it with my daughter. You gotta get the young folks to show you look like okay, So go to see Harvey FM on all social media and we have folks on their doing the dance the Kiki do you love me? Dance if you will challenge from Drake's song and My Feelings from the number one album Scorpions, Drake is back on this I love you Drake Bill and streaming d right there. There's a song that called haters get on that you that man, Yeah, once you get that beat man, Yeah, we s that's big. That's big, that's what's going on right now. But you know, do you think you could sell You couldn't sell that, MANI because but the Internet has changed it where you can download way more than people are going to store and actually buy. I download everything now. Yeah, how many CDs? What the last new CD you bought? Oh my god, Scorpions? I remember when Best Best Buy closing the CD department? I was, I was what album I'm really loving too? In addition to Scorpion, because I think a lot of females into Scorpion. The Carters, Yeah, I have not heard that the whole break it's good. Just have you seen the video? What's your museum? What's your favorite on it? What's your favor track? Three? Like that? You know the track number is cold? Yeah? You know songs? Well, I just feelings like Okay, my favorite on is after Dark. Can I tell you an album I'm liking? Which one? Jabum? Yeah, c D, c D what don't say that? Okay? What is it? The Osi brother with all of money? Which was getting said? Don't say that? Tim j a track I'm dope please? Okay? I know you knew him? Yeah, I know him. Personally. Yeah, I didn't know that, ja, yeah, from that other show. I know some people. I know some people. J Yes, I want to ask you about this. Uh rappers real names that we're talking about. We have a lot of rappers and we know we know there they are performing names or the stage name, but we don't really know that the real name, government name. Yes, all right, for instance, for instance, you're ready, you're ready? Christopher Wallace? Who is that? That's Big Calvin Brothers Junior snoop, yes, come on, come on, keep it coming. Nathaniel Hail who's that dog? Who is that? Don't be mad? I forgot about Marshall Matthews his name Marshall? No, no, no, Christopher Ridges flu really yeah? Who else? You got? What? Old people wrong? Griffin wrong? That's you made better? Okay? Listen call that weekend Confession at seven seven twenty nine, Steve at seven seven twenty nine, Steve, we can confessions right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Alright, ladies and gentlemen, Steve is on vacation. The crew is here holding it down of course for him. Alright, Jack holding, but listen, don't forget the winning starts tomorrow at seven twenty a m. Okay six twenty Eastern times or six twenties Central time. I believe that is. Let me get my times right here. Yeah, we're doing a real, real big We're giving you a chance to win, Steve Grand prize one mill lion dollars. Okay with are you smarter the nephew Tommy? Okay, So we need you to hurry up and register to play because it starts tomorrow. The winning starts tomorrow. Go to Steve Harvey f M dot com to register. Alright, yeah, please, we want you to win. That's right, all right? Uh, and Tommy is here. The nephew is here with weekend and vacation. We extended it, right, nephew, Weekends and vacation confessions. Weekending confessions, you know, confession. Whatever it is you want to get off your chest that you did this weekend. You give us a qualiday at seven seven twenty nine, Steve. I'm not here to help you. I just want to hear what you're going through. Weekend confessions. All right, Let's go to the phones. Yeah, on line one, let's go to John John. Line one, John John, what's going on? I'm good brother, how you doing. I'm okay, I'm okay. Give it to me. Let's break it down, confess to me. Oh man, well did you that weekend it was I slept with three women? Yes? Yes, John John should be John John John, Yeah, you need to be bronzed. Walk me through, walk me through the walk me through the holiday weekend? Oh man, I was already. So look friend, you want me to come through alcohol boy friendly? Yeah, you went over out, keep going. Then I got another old call phone call, thank me what I was doing the day he invited me over. Then later on that night I got another as all three was him one day, all three was him? One day? You should be? So, So what is it about you, John John that all the women just you answer that you don't get shot down, answer that you will get shot down? Oh I know he kept going over there and blowing up your phone, John j Yeah, John, or the ones who adored you, man like you, John John? The first we got a boyfriend? What about the other two? They sing? They they just we got that type of thing that they just called when they want and you're going there and bring you gru ub loving man. What's what's that new world we got today? Sex. What's across the sex relationship? Sex sex relationship from let let's sit right there, John John, I ain't mad at you, John, you sound tired to don't answer that, don't answer none of them questions. He sound real tired, John, John John, I went over there and I went over there. Why do not worry about the energy. He made it through the storm a real quick, John John, out of selectybody's who you? Who? You fake? Who? You look like a little bit at that now? Carter? Yeah, alright, confessions coming up? Eight seven seven. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time for more weekend confessions with the nephew, because what nephew, I'm not here to help you. I just want to hear what you're going through eight seven seven, twenty nine, Steve. This weekend confessions or you know, since we got through just finished the fourth of July weekend, it could be you know, vacation, you know confessions. Okay, all right, well, let's go to line too and talk to Norman Norman. Is that you great movie? Norman Norman? Line to Norman. Okay, let's move on. We have um Curtis online for let's go to line for Curtis. What you said that is curly, curly curly? Yeah, what's your confession? Man? Oh look I did the old Horns on the line dance with Miguel. Mom you did you got with your girls, mama? Yeah, at the fourth of July cook out, Mrs Darky Mama. Okay, okay, take us through it. You got to walk me through Timmy had happened these Well, it was like this. I went to the bathroom and the mom's is bad. Man. Like like you ever seen that apple from the tree that looked real good? But the tree looks even better. Yeah. When I went to the bathroom, my mom's was in the room and she came on to me and it went down. Man, wh was where was your girl? That you're easy, Curtis. She was somewhere. She was somewhere outside eating something. Oh nope, okay, So it happened in the bathroom and what what well? And I guess it was a guest bad room bathroom swee or whatever it was. But yeah, look, man, I you had to do it, Curtis, curly thing twenty minute, you just miss it. That's that's some good ones, that's good. Unbelieving so you guys are encouraging him. We encouraging. Already done, seed was done, The deed is done. Currently, will you do it again? Oh if mom, if Mom's keep it to himself, will you know you don't think that's gonna get out. I ain't gonna tell unless her mama tells. You won't find out. Okay, Can I just say something? You, Kenny, you you're gonna have to buy Mother's Day gift? You know that around You don't have to. You didn't have to buy one before, but now now you you gotta get one. Man, sit there and not let the mom get some white diamond or something. Man, you don't don't buy one. Look on her payments dars. Alright, currently keep doing what you do behavior her mother. We have thirty seconds to go to. Let's go on line five, let's go to let's go. What's happening. What's happening? Real quick man, tell me what you did? Okay, so real quick man. I lied to my wife and told her that I had mandatory over time because I did not want to go to her family. But because my father in law cannot cook, he put and and and and uh living uhl on Roscoe Roscoe. Hold on, hold on, don't go nowhere, I gotta hit this. We'll be right. Harvy Morning Show coming up. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we are back in the middle of weekend confessions, vacation confessions with the nephew. Alright, and one on the phone. Roscoe on the line. Roscoe let us over here. He told his wife that he had mandatory overtime so that he wouldn't have to go through the cook out at her family's place because her daddy can't buy. We still got Rosco Roscoe, Yes, yes, all right, right, it all the way down to me, man. So you didn't go. I didn't go because our daddy and not cooked. He's been watching food. That word you want to put lemon pepper and lemons deesth and everything in the bro I'm telling you lemons that I've seen Lemons deess on the rib one time. I couldn't do it. I diuldn't do it. I listened, I got up, I put on the whole uniform like I was going to the jaw, and I got home that night. I wrote my hands on the brake pads because I'm a mechanic, so I had to picture up my finger nails. Look. Third, who lives on the golf course in a particular airline uniform. I can't say the airline because I give myself away playing golf in the airline uniform? Roscoe? Did she bring you a plate home? Listen? I told him they don't worry about it. I told don't worry about it. The bosses here that gave us a fourth of ju last sell the prison. So Roscool, she doesn't know that you don't care for her father's cooking. Oh listen, listen, I can't. I can't go there. I can't go there. If I let that cat out the bag, then she's gonna keep the other cats in the bag. So no, I ain't crazy, Roscoe. A good confession, Roscoe. All right, let's go to line six. We're doing weekend and vacation confessions with the nephew. Line six, Marie is on the line. Nephew Marie yet Hey, good morning baby, what's your confession? Good morning? How are you doing? Oh? We're good. Yes, my name is Marie. And I looked at the this is fourth of July, and my boyfriend, you know who's playing playing me? Out all day, so I just figured to go to the pool, right, So I went at the way pool and I'm sitting there. You know, you can't reach behind your back with lotions, But this nice man came up and he said, can I rub your back? And I was like sure, and he did it with lotions. The boyfriend's sister seen me and went to the boyfriend said I was getting my back rub with lotions. So I don't know what. There's a lie on the girlfriend to see me and she'll never like me again, or told a boyfriend the truth that I did get my Yeah, your sister was there, she seen me, and yes, I got my back reprelation. I don't know what to do now. Then the sister won't like me forever. So you ain't dating the sister. You want the sister. You want your man? Which one you want? And the other thing is somebody gonna know your voice? That's do. I'm in a messed up situation. Someone's gonna be on the news tonight. Yeah, but you but your back is fine. Yeah? And I missed that rub. I missed that rub rub yea. And you know what the twist is? Everything He was there with his girlfriend, a girlfriend and him got in a fight. All right, listen, we've got to get out of here. We'll be back to close out of the show. Thank you, Marie at forty nine after the hour. Wow, you're listening to show? All right, listen, today was great. I love today. I believe in living in the moment. But I can't wait for tomorrow, Dog tomorrow. It is going to be on at seven thirty at seven twenty excuse me, seven twenty a m. Eastern, six twenty a m. Central. 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