Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all have all suit looking back to back down, giving them more like the Millian buck bus things in the cubs. Me tu good it. Steve har listening to the mogether for study. I don't join by join me in doing me. Honey. You gotta turn, you gotta turn to turn them out, got to turn out. Then turn the water the water go. Come come on your back. Uh huh. I show will come on, and everybody you're listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a radio sill. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Sometimes when I chuckle like that reminds me of my oldest brother to pass the where he used to laugh like that. It's kind of funny how jeans get passed down through the line. I don't know why I told y'all that, just want to share with you, that's all. Wow, all right, I'm all good one to day. You know, I was, as always always kind of ask God to help me, you know, um, and and and and I had I had gotten off track a little bit because one of the principles of success. I want to share with you all today is a law of attraction. And that is a very very serious principle. It cannot be ignored. The law of attraction. And I'm I'm not going to be able to explain it to you as well as the books secrets can, or as well as some people. I can only articulate it to you the way that I see it. The law of attraction is very very real. The law of attraction is a principle of success. It is something that everyone has to adhere to. Now, whether you know the law of attraction or not, it does not make it not exist for you. This is the case where ignorance is not the excuse. The fact that no one told it to you. There is no pass for this one. The fact that you never heard it before it does not allow you to do it any other way. So let me see if I can put it to you best I can. The law of attraction, the law of attraction, to put it real simple, is the thing that you focus on, the thing that you talk about. The thing that you think of is the thing that you draw to you. It's what you attract to you. That's basically the law of attraction. The thing that you talk about, the thing that you think about the thing that you focus on, whatever it is that is what you attract. The law of attraction does not differentiate from positive and negative. It only does what it does. What I am saying is this in the law of attraction. No matter what you think of, no matter what occupies your time, no matter what you say, or no matter what the focus is, positive or negative, the law of attraction knows neither one. It just attract exit. So let's use some examples here. I can just the best example. Always uses me that way. I ain't got to figure out nothing. I can just tell you my side of it. I was in a lot of debt one time in my life. This is before any of you knew me, so you can understand. In case you're not thinking, I don't. I don't want you to think that this conversation is about your income level, cause it's not. It doesn't matter what the income level you are. The law of attraction works in all aspects money, family, relationships, job, career, love. It just works that way. Okay, here's the deal. I kept saying, Man, this debt is killing me. I got to get out, and I thought that was good enough. Man, this debt, man everywhere I turned, I see debt. I got to get out, man, I got to get out of debt. Man, this debt is killing me. Man. That's all I see is debt, and I got to get out of debt. That's what I thought was a good goal, to get out of debt. But what I kept saying was, you know, I kept talking about debt, and you know what it kept doing. It kept attracting debt to me. So guess what, so I could get out That's all. Is that crazy? Is that crazy? So it kept attracting debt to me so I could keep getting out of it. That is an amazing law to understand. What turned it around for me was I started claiming a life of abundance. God, I am seeking a life of abundance. I want to have more than enough. I want to be able to help other people. I want to have money to donate to causes. I want to have money to help other people in program. I want to have enough money to not only send my children to college, but maybe if I meet another boy or something, I can help another child. I just want to have a law of attraction so that I be able to provide my family. The lifestyle that I want to provide them. I want heavily father, to be able to be an example of your goodness and your grace in my life. That is what I started saying. And guess what, that's what I started attractive. I'm going to have a great relationship with my children. I'm going to be the father that I always wanted to be. I'm going to be a good father. I'm going to be a good husband. Now, I am going to do the right things. I am going to be the type of example that my sons can look no further and go. I can be like my dad. I want to be able to be a place, a beacon of light and home for my daughters to come to. That's what I started saying. That's what I started attracting to my life. The law of attraction does not care if you want it to be positive or negative. The law of attraction just attracts whatever it is. You focus on, what you think about, the words that come out your mouth. That is what the law of attraction is. You cannot overlook this principle of success and expect to make it because of the fact that you've never heard of the law of attraction. Because of the fact that you don't know how it really operates, it does not make it not exist in your day. You can start today attracting the right things to your life by changing what you say, what you think, what you focus on. Change the focus, change the thought, change the words that come out your mouth. And guess what you change what you attract to yourself. You have got to ask yourself why is it? Man? Man, let me tell you something. Somebody said to Bishop Jakes one time. They said, man, everything you touch turns to gold. He said, no, I just don't touch everything. Man, This it's crazy. Come on, man, he has a focus. He has a focus. See, he ain't just everywhere. Bring me any idea, let me try that. No, no, no, man, he has a focus. He has a law of attraction that's working, where he's attracting things to his life that that's positive that he can't ask not to say, Bishop Jakes don't have problems because we talk often, and man, he have them. Oh, please understand. And he's not trying to attract the problem. But what he will attract is the proper solution for the problem. And ain't that all you need? Sometimes God did not say that it would be easy He just said he would be with you. And if God is with you, who can be against you? God will make your enemies your footstool. God is powerful man, His word is true. He do what he say he gonna do. Now, all we got to do is do some of what we say. We ain't gonna do everything. Just do some of what we say. Okay, here's the deal. God is going to do everything he say he gonna do. You and I just got to do some of the stuff we say we're gonna do because he already know we ain't gonna do all of it. Yeah. He clear on that. He clear on that. I ain't smoking no more. Yeah, okay, cool, Yeah, maybe not, you know, I ain't. I ain't. I ain't gambling no more. Okay, maybe not, maybe not maybe now I'm quick custom right, okay, cool, all right, thank you. You're listening to morning show. Ladies and gentlemen, man, have your attention, please, Steve Harvey Morning Show us Underweight. I am your fearless leader, your aprimonious, your guak quarious capri ConA stilacious super catual, a fragileistic all do I believe that's who I am? Good morning ship, Hey, Good morning, Steve. I'm gonna morning a sister Carlin, Good morning, brother Harvey. I ventured to say hello, brother killed morning up and without father. Dude, that's a man who needs no introduction. Have been with me through the thick and the thicker, or man who is made a living complaining ladies and gentlemen. I introduced to some and wish for you the others please or put damn hands. Yeah, and any booty that comes up out of your unday will put it together and booty hand cleavage cloud? What is that that? Three different clouds? Oh? Digon death, Jake, thank you, thank you? Yes, all right, how y'all doing that? Hey? How about good man? Pretty out there this morning? Pretty good? You know what you need to start your day off sometime get You need to get people's attention. You know what they call is al ROYD. Smith taught me that's one of the greatest radio dudes in the business. What's up, al Roy? If you're out there, somebody know l Road tell him Steve Arby shouting him out this morning. Al Roy is the reason I'm in radio today. Al Roy was the first one to discover that this guy should be doing radio rush. Huh, l Roy Smith, I'm talking to people who don't know. Y'all always tell me to explain that. Al Roy Smith actually taught me how to do radio, to put it into some type of structure. I wasn't instructured, but he told me you'refactive own radio because you're compelling. I didn't know what that meant, so I asked it. He said, no, you are must heal radio. People tuned in because they don't want to miss nothing you got. He said, that's compelling radio, and the great ones are compelling. He's said, if you want to do this for a living, stay compelling. So what I just did this morning that was hell you what did you learn, junior? We'll have nothing find out that that opened was compelling. Coming up at thirty two after guys, a rude woman was escorted off a plane for fat shaming people. We'll talk about it and some of your worst flight experiences when we come back at thirty two after Right after this, you're listening, Well, it's becoming pretty apparent that people just don't know how to be civil to people anymore. I'm I mean, we're not civil to each other. Take for example, all right, the latest shocking incident that has now gone viral. This is of a woman who was escorted off the United Airlines flight after she fat shamed two passengers, calling them two big pigs. Wow. Yeah. The video posted it was posted on social media shows a white woman ranting about having to sit between a black woman named Norma and her boyfriend. A woman complains that they were squishing her, calling them two fat pigs. Here's a little bit of what was captured of what the woman was saying. Take a listen to them. I know I'm gonna do this for the next four hours. This it's just impossible because squishing me freaky thankyous. I don't have my choice. At least I'll keeping warm. Excuse me? Can you find her another seat? Because I will not be verbally abused by this anybody else. Yes, I will not be verdually abused by anybody. I'm not tryl rating there. I can't. I can't sit here because it's both so fake. I'm live tonight. I can't. I can't even stand. Do you want to phone? I've been standing of any place or place I need sad should be shaven, so terrible shall I'm not playing? Why don't you sit, I kniss my fat Okay, who who can? You can have the birth to come back? I'm like reporting imports a flat. Remember I don't try nobody. I mean I travel every week scramp and I'm not having it. I am not scarting my new year half with this type of negativity. What baby back? She says, she flew with Miles. She didn't have a choice, but at least they'll keep her warm. They're squishing choice with Miles. You can still pick your seat. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I didn't know problem. It wasn't the two wrong black people. Yeah, they heard her saying that it was perfect. He did. Oh yeah, see that right there, that was perfect. You had the perfect too, nice Christian folk. But she kept complaining, so the flight attendants they kicked her off. They should have put it in the bathroom. They kicked her off. But did you Your sister went off and said, I can't should have made a fly between them though it was nice though. Yeah, yeah, I just raised my elbow a little bit, knocked that phone down on that flow pressure. Can you believe that thought? She was saying that in this day and age, Carla, Unfortunately, I can't believe it. I'm tired of people saying I can't believe this. I can't. It's happening. It happens every day. Okay, it's trickling down from the White House. You've been on a plane with drama jumped off. H I have been on the plane where these two people behind me were so into each other that they got up and went to the bathroom. I saw it. I did it. Yes, I don't know. I wasn't in there, but I'm they were in there long. Yeah, over each Other's when I tell you, all over each other, all over each other. Yeah. But that the plane, and when we got off the plane, she went. I guess it was her husband who met her, because she went right to him. Honey, No, no, I'm not lying when I tell you this actually happened. Yes, person on the plane, she mading that weird. It's not her. No, that wasn't her man. No, No, when she got off the plane, that was her man, Steve. Was her worst flight. That's crazy. That is crazy, right, Yes, because we were getting offended because they were all over I'm telling you, all over just two freaks. Freaks. Get a room. Yeah, I didn't see it. I didn't seen people in first class, argue like Craig, just don't space above the overhead space. I mean they feel entitled. So I didn't seen some some serious arguments, right, Steve, I know you have something. He didn't been in there. That's we had to say something. Oh you're talking about like flight experience, flight experience. I ain't had no worris. I had too many of them to have the worse. Give us one, Yeah, I've had. I'm sitting next to people, you know, when Obama was running for president. Story, Yeah, that one, right, there was an interesting one. I didn't I wouldn't I wouldn't move. Sitting in first class, sitting next to this really cool white guy. Man. We have a great conversation and we're just talking. Man. We laughed a couple of times, and he was sitting against the window win first class. He said, uh um, now ask you something you're not you know, I guess I'm not you know, saying one way or the other. You know, Uh mind? If I asked who you who? You? Who? You? Whore? You voting for him? I said, yeah, I said, I'm I'm voting for Barack Obama. So I was interested. He said, you know, I don't know how it's I just want to ask you a question. You are you voting for him? Did you have a reason why you're voting for him? I said, uh, yeah, yeah. He said why is that? I said, you know, he's an African American. He said, you're you're simply gonna vote for him because he's a African American. I said, yeah, yeah, you don't have you don't care about the issues, not man, I mean not, I mean voting for him causey black. I said, let me ask you something, though, is that the very same reason you ain't gonna vote for his? Ass looked out that. He didn't talk to me for three hours, and he kept his face pointed at the window. Was hurt. Now I'm riding just looking upside his head because I'm waiting on him to turn around. Look here, partner, Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, you care about the issue? Now? You vote for him just because he's black? Yeah? Yeah? I said, let me ask you something. Is that the very same reason why you ain't gonna vote for it? Boy? He looked out that wonder all right? Coming up next it is a nephew with running that brank back right after this. You're listening coming up at the top of the hour. Guys, it is so cold in Chicago. Get this, Steve. The Chicago River is frozen. Man rozen downtown. Yes, Yes, plus an entertainment news cop spot see some persons of interest on the surveillance video In the Juse Smalllett case, Nick Cannon is going to host for a couple of days for Wendy Williams. But right now the nephew is here to run that prank. Back what you've gotten? Next? Drug test? Huh, let's run it. Drug tests. Drug test. Yes, they're gonna run next. We're gonna have to take it, drug test, run it, hit it. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a fath please, this is hello. This is Officer Rodgers from the Probation Department. Yes, sir, listen, now you have been on probation for a little over a year now, all right, faith? Yes are you correct? Now? You're supposed to be serving two years probation too. All right now? Um, giving you a call, actually bringing you a bit of bad news. And I hate to do this, but you you came in for a couple, um, a couple of weeks ago and did did a drug test? Am I right? All right? Now? I don't. I hate to bring you some bad news, but the actual drug test that you took has come back positive. That's a lot. That's a lot. That's a lot. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Now, you came in a couple of weeks ago, you took a drug test. This drug test is actually come in positive. Now, what I want to say to you is this, you're gonna have to Actually, my test wasn't positive. You got hold on a second. I either need you to come in to me or I don't, and I don't want to save you embarrassment of having to send a car out to pick you up. Now, embarrassment you're talking about, sir. I gave you some was good, ma'am. Right now, I got you have a positive drug test? You have you you you come up positive. Man, Now you gotta we use the one that you brought us now. Must have been the wrong one. Couldn't have been, man, sir. I'm sorry, sir, but I wouldn't have gave you no bad year and it just wouldn't me. Man, I don't want to have it back to jail. I don't even know how you would call me with this nonsense. I got children, I'm trying to do right. I don't know why you would call me. I wouldn't have gave you no bad That's not me, you sud fly, ma'am. Listen, you have to come in and do another three months now, Oh sir, y'all can come pick me up. I can tell you right now. I can be in your hand if you want me to. Ma'am. Your yearine has come back positive of drugs. Now, I don't. I don't know any other way to explain it to you. You've been actually evidently using drugs again. First, I'm trying to tell you I don't use no drugs. I've been clean for a year and some months now. You got the wrong. That's not my How do you telling you that? How do you know it's not yours? Ma'am? It's got your name on the lid. Every thing you have come back positive, whatever dinner, you put your name on it. Because that ain't came back would have came back good. You can't tell me and tell me I gave you some man can and tell me that that's a negative, sir, that's a double negative. It's not a double negative, it's a double positive. You've actually come back positive. Fay he has written here on the actual cup. Maybe yeah, I'm more than one faith. No, no, we don't have more than one faith. You're the only faith. I've actually double checked out myself. You need to either come in or we got to come out. And all you're behind in here, Well, I need you to come right now because I got the right Now, come right now out. Are you trying to tell me that if I come and pick you up and take your year and now your YearIn is gonna come up negative? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, I'm telling you that you're a double positive. With that, my yurin is gonna come up negative. Man, I hate to I don't want to come out all year in in front of your family, but you're actually gonna be coming in and you're gonna do three months. That's all I can tell all you confident, sir, you got the wrong stay ellen or you got the wrong it's one of the two. Might be both. You got the wrong, you got the wrong stake. I'm letting you no positive, no positive. I'm trying to tell I got kids. I man, I ain't had no positive. Listen, ma'am. I'm telling you one more time, you either want to come in or want me to come and get you what you want. Let me tell you what I want you to do. I want you to find out who you have, because that ain't my don't pounding, No, I'm going tell me nothing about you got some some that that is not good. I gave you some good at times. I got to y'all, y'all keep picking up people, software kids and folks. Y'all had me says time miss much chance. Now I'm hot. I've been giving you say I want to with me, I'm dad. I ain't giving a bad I'm probing no more like that, and well is my pumation off? You say your name is what my name is, Officer Rogers. I don't know, Officer Rogers. Like I said, you might be the reason why it came back pad, You might be the reason I need to speak with mister. That's my formation. Officer. Now I have clean at a hard times. You shouldn't be calling me. I should be calling you because I'm gonna evidently I'm gonna have to come down and hary behind him myself where you can bring your and when you call yours with you here, let you know I'll have no time to you can come to my job. I got you got let me know what. There's one there's one more thing that I need to bring. Come all right, now, come on, I got one more thing I need to say to you. Are you listening to me? What is it? Sir? This is Nephew time me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got prayed by your sister Alan. I know one thing, y'all play too much. I'll play too much. I'm coming to give mister rogers. She gonna get that hell out of me thinking I was doing drus and didn't know about it. Pay with people like that? Okay for you? All right, Hey, I'm not I'm nervous to it's your sister. She putting me up to it. Baby. Well when you ever see her, you see what she looked like. I'm gonna beat the hell out of her. I got one more question for you, baby. You got to tell me this. What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, the steam Farm, the morning shows, you got the people on sometimes just wow, everybodyn't took one phone. You don't get tagging cuts out of minute man. It's part of the game, Baby, part of the game fifteen to say exteen February Baby the Nephew, that is Valentine. Tonight I will be in Kaleen, Texas. There's a brand new comedy club. It's called Twice as Funny. Colleen, Texas. To all you troops down there, you know I support you very very well, y'all. Come hang out with the Nephew February fourteen, fifteen and sixteen in Colleen, Texas. Tickets on sale right now. In the very next weekend, West Palm Beach, Florida, twenty twenty third and twenty fourth, the Nephew will be in town at the mprov in West Palm Beach. So back to back Colleen and in West Palm I'm on my way. If you're going forensic file, they just take just a tear drop. Yeah, get all up. Just don't forensic five. They don't miss nothing. Is this how Tiara? Could we'll let you know who kills result? Give us ten minutes, Lui pretele Thomas get through talking. We got it all right. Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you the cops. It's five persons of Interest on the surveillance video in the Jesse smaller case and definitely work and could they do me one fate? What's that? All right? All right? Right after this, you're listening to life threatening cold grips much of the US. The Chicago River is frozen. Whoever thought that would happen? There's no long time yet. Yeah, meteorologists are saying this is the coldest air in a generation. There's a state of emergency which has been declared in Illinois, in Michigan and in Wisconsin. Please be safe out there and listen to your city officials as to when it is safe to be outside. Okay, because it is not safe. It is not safe. Also in today's entertainment news, cops investigating the Jesse Smallett attacks say they finally have a lead from the surveillance video, but they are gonna need to some help from the public. They're going to have to hear from the public to help locate the persons of interest. Chicago PD say detectives were unable to find the camera angle that revealed the persons of interests that are one for questioning in the assault and battery, But they are and they're careful not to call the people's suspects in the case just yet, but police have released the images of the persons of interest Jesse. Jesse, of course, says two men and ski masks jumped him, beat him up, dallast him with bleach, and left him with a rope around his neck before fleeing. He says they yelled Maga country as they got away. Wow. Yeah, this is still, you know, one of the biggest stories out there, and it has um you know, everyone in entertainment has has weighed in on this situation as well. I think even Nancy Pelosi um really texted something. Yeah, it's it's gotten it about the president. Oh no, no, no, not yet. Yeah yeah, let me check the Twitter time because that's only way he communicates with him. Yeah. Yeah, he just can't say it. It goes months without a check last night. But you know what, they're going to find these people because they're gonna stay on it. Because there is all camera everywhere in the downtown area of Chicago. It's not hard to find two guys show up on one of these cameras going in the area or vicinity with the same clothes on when they go in, same clothes on when they come out That's that's all. And then we gotta do some research. We're gonna do some other camera they're gonna do some other stuff, but they're gonna find them. Yeah, they're gonna How is Jesse Jesse doing Uh, he's recuperating. He's out of the hospital. Good. Yeah, yeah, Steve. They had your video on TMZ talking about it. They talked about Terrence Howard, you know Jesse's co stars, to Roger p Henson, like you said, all the celebrities, everybody, no for me, They asked one. You know, man, I all I posted. I didn't think that much of it because you know, I had read Bishop Jake's response and I've seen a couple of videos and that's that's not the way I am. And so I just did the one I did, and it went kind of crazy, man, because I can't tell you that. The people of contact me about it, you know, yeah, wanting to make it a story. I don't want to make it a story because it ain't about me. He's just such a likable guy. You know, everybody in Hollywood and even politicians, they really like him. He's an activist, you know, and he stands up for what he believes and Yeah. He's a cool guy, a smart guy, you know guy. Yeah. Yeah, his whole family, the small lets, they're showbiz family journey. His sister, you know, she's also in the business. So yeah. Anyway, but um, we're watching the Story, of course, and another entertainment news and political news. Nick Cannon is going to temporary fill in as host for Wendy Williams. All right, Steve, let's get to the headlines please, ladies and gentlemen, miss and trip, Thanks very much, everybody. This is a trip with the news. A huge swath of the US is still dealing with deadly, deadly, below freezing temperatures and winshow factors, you're chilly, just talking about what's going on in Chicago, what's going on in the Midwest and the plains. They're especially urged to get to local warming centers in their areas. Schools and businesses are closed, airports are all but shut down. There are no mail delivery yesterday, and at least eleven states and at least nine states say they're not going to be delivering mail today either, as the day's high temperatures in the plains on the Midwest, especially up Midwest, well below zero, so far eight deaths are linked to this current situation, and not much change in the weather is expected today. Of course, the New York Times Lawi's for the family of Stefan Clark, the twenty two year old unarmed black man shot to death and his grandmother's yard and Sacramento, Califor on your last March. That family has followed a longful death suit accusing the cops of racially profilingly young father for a crime he didn't commit and using excessive force. The suit says the cops failed to identify themselves, they gave no verbal warnings before they shot Stefan Clark twenty times they claimed he was holding a gun. He was holding a cell phone, though, and the suit accuses the police of doing nothing to try and save Sufflon's life as he bled out on the ground. With the current stopgap government funding deal expiring on February fifteenth, the committee of both Democratic and Republican lawmakers have begun negotiations they actually began yesterday, aimed at passing a longer term financial agreement across your fingers there. Meanwhile, there is another deadline coming up, this one in March. A US and Chinese negotiators have begun talks aimed at settling the now six month old trade war. A March second deadline has been set for the two sides to read sub kind of an agreement. Otherwise, the Trump administrations threatened to hike up tariffs on close to two hundred billion dollars worth of China these products. George's own Stacey Abrams has been selected to deliver the Democratics with bottle to President Trump State the Union speech next Tuesday. Abrams, the black woman who ran and almost won the governorship of the Peach State last November, considered a rising star in the Democratic Party. Republican Brian Kemp you may remember one the election amid allegations that as a Secretary of State he was kind of in charge of the vote and he helped suppress the black vote by disallowing scores of voter registrations. Ten days after the election, Stacy Abrams stopped protesting the vote, but she never conceded. By the way, female legislators are going to be asked to wear white to show solidarity reach with each other during that speech. By the way, by the President, top Officials and Nations Intelligence Committee strongly disagreeing with President Trump's boast about what he's been able to accomplish with the North Koreans despite ongoing negotiations, The Director of National Intelligence says Kim John Ill does not appear to be willing to completely dismantle his nuclear program. Finally, Today's National Hot and Spicy Food Day, No food Love it back to Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show all right. During a press conference in Atlanta, Steve. NFL Commissioner Roger Goodell broke his silence yesterday finally on that controversial no call during the NFC Championship game. Take a listen. You know it was the Rams against the New Orleans Things. Take a listen to this. Officiating is part of any kind of discussion post game. It's never a good outcome for us. We know that our clubs know that, our officials know that, but we also know our officials are human. We also know that they're officiating a game that moves very quickly and have to make snap decisions under difficult circumstances, and they're not going to get it right every time. As they say, they're human. We have worked very hard to bring technology in to try to make sure we could do whatever it's possible to address those issues. But techology it's not going to solve all those issues. The game is not officiated by robots, it's not it's not going to be Wow. So is that because that sufficient? Steve Man? You know, look, do you think more technology would help? We have to because these games are too important, We're gonna have to make use of technology. It's only fair. Well, see it is not fair. See look, if a player accidentally drops the ball, his team has to pay for that. But Steve, it shouldn't be about technology. It should be about when it's a no call, a coach should be able to say, you miss something over here. Well I don't think that's but sir, if if you miss it, don't we have to go to replay? Oh? Definitely that I'm not saying that's what I'm referring to as technology. I ain't saying we need drones, you know. Yeah, you're talking about replays, more replays on certain calls. Is that what you're saying, Steve? Yeah, I mean we have the technology. We got those end zone cameras, cameras, we got everything to see if a person really clawed across the goal line. We can we can see if the football really went through the goal. We should really see if a penalty was a penalty. We don't need the more camera angles. We just need to go ahead and just review this play. I think the coach say, hey, you missed him. It is well like, for example, if you could throw a challenge flag, okay, in the last quarter of a game, you should be able to challenge a call. In the second half of a game. You should be able to challenge a call. That's what I'm talking about. I do like that, all right, Okay. Coming up at thirty four after the hour, we're gonna switch gears here. Relationship dating questions for the man Steve Harvey as we celebrate, yeah, the tenth anniversary of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. When we come back you're listening to all week we are celebrating the tenth anniversary of Steve's book, Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man. Steve, Congratulations again and now it is time to ask you some relationship questions from Steve HARVEYFM dot com. These are from our fans. Here here's a question. This one was submitted by Erica E. She wants to know, what are your thoughts, Steve and your dudes and don'ts of social media dating? She says, well, we can only assume that she means when someone hits you up on the DMSU in the DMS and also, Steve, what are your thoughts on online dating? Well, I'm okay with online dating because I think what it does is it gives a woman not the ability to hunt, but the ability to say I'm available to be hunting. You know, I've said it a million times. Women don't like to hunt, they don't enjoy hunting, they don't know how to hunt, they don't like it. But what women are, They're the absolute greatest attractives on planet Earth. They're the greatest attractives. But if you live in a restricted environment, Let's say you go to the same church every week, go to the same PTA meeting, you go to the same grocery store, and you got same circle of friends, and y'all have tied so and Soul's house. How many men you think you're gonna meet? Single men don't walk up in churches every weekend. They just don't. You know you're not gonna meet them after Saturday night. You know you're not gonna meet them at that same grocery store you go to whenever you go. You're saying, come out of your comfort zone. Ladies. I'm saying you have to come out of your immediate circle, which could be your comfort zone, so more men can know you're available. And that's what online dating does. It allows you to put up a picture at a profile, up a real picture in the truth picture, a current picture, what you really look like, and be that person. If you meet the gown line, then get you another phone that's just for these dates that you meet online, and before you go meet them, get yourself on FaceTime. Stop meeting people without facetiming. Let's stop catfishing people pictures that are not you. Yeah, nobody gonna sit there there and coming in that ain't you on a picture? Right? That ain't happen for him? You know? And so what about like on the DM, Like, you know, I can't hit somebody up in there, so I don't know how to DM. So I don't know. If you want to DM somebody, you know, go ahead, if they want to respond, go ahead a direct message. Yeah you can do all of that, but you know, use your brain at one point in time. The old fashioned way is still what's gonna have to happen, even when you get through DM and swiping right, swiping left. Guess what. In order for this to turn into something, boy has to meet girl. That's someone. Girl has to like what boy says. Boy has to have something to say. The analytics begin, the feelings flow, and then you see where it goes. But we've changed it. See we're so instant. It's it's it's instant booty. Now everything's it's instant booty. I mean, and it's and it's to the detrimental women. Guy's going, oh man, cool. Yeah, I look at how easy it is now for guys it and I go, wow, sounds funny, but it's not funny. I mean that that's a real to say. No, for real. I look at how easy guys get women now, yeah, and I go wow, that was not the way it was for me. That they have to work for, right, Steve, I mean absolutely absolutely. If it's easy, come, it's easy go, if it's easy to get with, it's easy to split with, we don't we don't we If you act like you're passing out chewing gum when you choot chewing gum and you get tired over what you do. Yeah, spit it out way but see but see, Steve, when you say things like that today to these millennials and others, uh, they think you're being old fashioned, old school too, you know. They think that that's why the question is about social media. And now that's that's why I understand. But at the end of the day, when you get through with the technology part and the ability to meet a person online or whatever, guess what steel has to happen. Boy has to meet girl. Girl has to like what boys say. Boy had to say something to say that's becomes a physical exchange. Until that happens, y'all ain't got nothing. Yeah, all right, we'll go to Steve Harvey FM and submit your relationship questions. Up next, it is a nephew with the prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter. For today's subject, your online friend is overstepping boundaries. That is the subject of the Strawberry letter. But right now the nephew is in the building with today's prank phone call. What you got now, no ant chokes. H No ant chokes. Okay, why are you be saying about it? No ant chokes? Running? Hello, Hey man, who whoo? Who is the person I need to talk to about? I got a pizza that's been messed up? Who do I need to talk to? Well, you can talk to mecha. What's going on? What happened in pizcha? Nobody puts some nanchobies on my pizza? Black people? Nanchobies? Man? Who who? Who? Who would do that? Who would put a channels? That settles out with the language that Pal? All right, you know if you got answer movies on your pizza, he just must have gotten mixed up with another one. I'll send you another pizza. It ain't a big deal. But I ain't asking anchovies. Man. Might fact, let me ask you, so, what the does the ant shoby any damn way? It's like a sardine. That's what a n chovy is. Okay, Pal, take a sardine. Hey, hey, hey, let me tell you something. Man. First, what's your name? What is your name? I'm Gino. I'm Gino. So you're the owner of the damn Pizza place? Yeah, I owned the damn pizza place. And I don't need people calling me that cursing in me because there was a mistake, you know, mistakes happened pal where things go on in his life. And then you're getting some ant chovies on your pizza A right many? Okay, So here's the deal. I don't have a bunch of guests coming to mind or all the pizza and every last one of them got anchovies on them, you know what I'm saying. So I got an issue with it. I have spent over fifty dollars with you, with these pizzas in the great wrong that nobody likes anchovies. No black people, you know, man, chrophies. Man, Okay, hold on, I'm almost certain I've served and chovie peach the black people before. Okay, the black people that I know don't eat and shobies. Okay, Well, then we'll send you some pizzas without any d chovies on them. You know what I don't like you. I don't like your attitude. You know what, man, Remember you didn't cut me with so much attitude to start with. You wouldn't get no attitude. Okay, okay, look at it. Don't get your okay, don't get you what did you do you know what did you just did? You just threaten me? I said, don't get show. Why do you think you're talking Who the do you think you're talking to? Face? I'm talking to Gino the owner? Right please there, that's right, that's right. You don't tell me you're gonna kick my phone. Okay, pound you know where the pizza is? You know you just calm down, do you do you? Okay, that's it. I'll tell you what. Man, in the next three to five minutes, open to walk down there and kick you little fine putting me hand shobies on here man having a little pump us attitude like you think you can't get joys. You come on down here, okay and we'll see. Do be a favor, go yourself and I want your road in on. Okay, I'm bringing it on down here. All right, we'll take care of it there. Stop staring. Man shobes up gets it's all right. Pou okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, cool, all right, cool, okay, okay, okay. You'd like to say, okay a lot, do you what your words? Okay? You need to have somebody there which you when I get there, because I'm proud of you, je open. Yeah, you don't shake it in this boat's pound Me and my aunt chovies. We're sitting here scart out of our minds right now, okaying me up. Dealt with clowns like you my whole life. Please let me tell you this it do you do? You know who you're talking to? I pocketed something an idiot who don't know how to talk. That's what I'm talking, tough. No, you're talking to nip him talk from the Steve Harvey Morkli Show. Mister Gino, you just got break. You're telling me I'm throwing F bombs all over the radio. You're topping the bombs all over the radio. Baby, who I want to know who did this to me? Because they're getting some F bombs. You have a guy that works for you, he says he works five to close. Andre. You gotta you gotta Drede that works for you. Yeah, I gotta Drede that works for me. Andred's gonna be sending some time in a walking freezer. Uh. People don't need anchovies. Huh. Black people don't need the anto. Baby. Hey, I gotta ask you this, mister Gino. What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Your show. The baddest radio show in the land is the Sea Barby Show with the Morning no One. I man, I'll be sad. I'm going to send yourself pieces. I'm sending that station dozens of pieces with a double an trovies on every one of them. I had a meeting with Terry Kennedy and I had a meeting with Reginald Hutling. Ok. The movie produced both of them Love and Chovies. We were at the same table and both of them love and chovies. I've never met a black person that liked anchovies. Sat out and had lunch with two people that wanted and didn't answer. You ain't handing dog because all of us had ordered to seizear salad. And they got said, mister, how you want anchovies? I said, no, no, got around the original. He said, yeah, yeah, I like a boat with a small bowl. And Terry Kennedy said, I like the same thing. You were just looking at them like what I said. Hey, man, did y'all hear what he asked you? Now? He said, do you want and chovies? He didn't ask you did he want your bout the salad boat over. He asked you did you want and choken? I love anchovies. I said, y'all got to be kidding. Wow, I got ready tell him. I said, look, it's a table over there with two white people at it, and it's a big table. Y'all go sit over there. But there white people didn't like anchovies. Y'all get y'all ass back over, go back over there and shoes fourteen fifteen to sixteen. I mean Kalleen, Texas at the Twice As Funny Comedy Club Twice As Funny Comedy Club, Lean Texas, fourteen fifteen sixteen. That's Thursday Friday, said it. That is Valentine's night, bring your loved one out to come hang out with the nep you and then't following. I am in West Palm Beach, Flaid at the Improve That is February twenty second, twenty third, twenty four, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. It gets on sale right nine. No an chokes just like that? That, No an choke at the comic clip. No thank you boy. You want to see somebody with an upset stomach after that. But that is what what is in Caesar dressing right for your salad. Yeah dress. Huh yeah, I mean yeah, that's that's the taste. Yeah, the derivative, because I know, Junior, I need Caesar with no ass. You got that information? Uh right here in my head. You act like she cured a disease salad. It's not that big of a deal. Where were you got that information at the restaurant. I'm just saying, I'm I'm never heard of that. Anchovies and season dresses. I didn't know that was I mean there, yeah, it's something. Yeah, yes, now we got to stop each season. No, you like dresses, so it's good in the dress because some places I always tell you we have anchovies in not dressing. Oh that's funny. You just can't lay the little funking be had out there in the open. Why I can see it with their little gamey ass. That's what you're not finding do. But this little fun piece of fish, I don't know where he I don't know where part of the fish he from. I think it's from fish. I think anchovies is actually fish, but it's the inner lining of fish. But really that's what I think antovis is. I don't really think it's a whole fish. Think it's fish intest I think now, I just think it's the end right inside of the booty of the fish that would be kidding all around the lips. No, these ain't the guts. This is the lip area of the fish. But that's any right there. That's what I think of what I'm gonna put out here. But you like it on your Caesar dressing. I like it in the dressing when you grind it up. I can't look at it. I only want fish. All right, listen, thank you, we're going We're moving on to the Strawberry Letter coming up next, subject your online friend is overstepping boundaries. We'll get into it right after this you're listening to. All right, guys, it is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, on work, on sex, on dating, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read this one written Now, buckle up and hold on tight. We got it. Call you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. Subject your online friend is overstepping boundaries. Here's Stephen Shirley, I need some advice, although this may not be your area of expertise. I am twenty seven years old and I met my partner on a nationwide Facebook group. They have a lot of groups on Facebook, just so you'll know, they have traveling Facebook groups, a lot of groups on Facebook. So but that I'm just telling you because I didn't even know what a Facebook group was at first. But anyway, because of the online group, my partner and I have mutual friends across the country. One friend in particular is trying my patients by blatantly hitting on my partner in direct messages DMS and leaving racy comments on my partner's posts. Sometimes my partner's comments can look a bit flirtatious too. I'm concerned that this friend is going to try to make a move, and my partner is very naive, so this is a big problem. I have told my partner how I feel, and I basically gave them both an ultimatum to stop communicating. But my partner says that I'm just overreacting and it's innocent. Our relationship is good, but in this age of online dating and quick hookups, this is getting on my last nerve. I do trust my mate, but I feel like there is too much going on nowadays, and nobody cares about being faithful in staying in a monogamous relationship. I don't want to start a lot of drama. But our relationship was going great until this other person started being disrespectful. My partner and the friend are planning to see each other next weekend at a group function, and there is no way that I'm going to sit by and let this friend take what's mind? What should I do? Take what's mine? What should I do? Can my partner be trusted? I'm worried. Please help. Well, from the sound of it, you should be worried, because honestly, this sounds like a relationship with only one person in it, and that's you. I mean, yeah, you seem to be the only one concerned about your feelings. You have told your partner how you feel and what bothers you and all of that, But he continues to keep in touch with this guy who keeps with this other partner who tries to hit on him. But you say your partner's responses to the other guy, Uh, looks like he's flirting back with him with this other partner. Your partner is not taking hmm, what what you keep saying him? Well, because to me, this sounds like it's it's two guys. It I could be wrong, it could be a girl and a guy, but it sounds like to me because he said partner and he's not saying him or him or her or her. So I'm just saying that, So it may not be. All right, I'll I'll start over. No, no, no, you think it's two guys. I just heard what you were saying. Yeah, I think it's I was just trying to get clear. Yeah you are, but I had to go right. Oh, go ahead, And as I think it's your guys, it may not be. But anyway he's flirting back or the partner is flirting back with your partner. Your partner is not taking your feeling seriously. And not only that, your so called partner is planning to see this other person this weekend. That's such a red flag to me. That's why if you guys are in a relationship, is he making plans to see someone else? That's why I say you're in this relationship. It sounds like to me on your own, I think you know you say you trust him. But then at the end you you ask, can your partner be trusted? Is again, is this really your partner? The only thing trustworthy about this is that he told you that he was planning to go on this weekend with him. Now you know, if you want to consider that trustworthy, he's because he's still going. So you know, if you're not going, you don't know what they're going to do. What should you do? You say, I mean, I think first you have to understand that you don't own this guy. You say you're not going this partner, You say that you're not going to um sit by and let his friend take what's yours. Well, again, from his actions, he doesn't seem like or your partner, doesn't seem like he belongs to you. All right, he's kind of just out there. You know, he's with you. You say he's naive, but he's also you know, doing things with this other partner as well, with this other friend as well. So I don't think this is a relationship. You're taking it way more seriously than your partner is. Steve. Steve, Yes, you're up, you're up going out there. It says I need some advice. Although this may not be your area of expertise. Who does say, oh girl got clean because this show ain't. Now let me just stop by saying this, Let's just be one hunted chop my expertise in relationships, I have found I'm almost effective when I'm discussing what goes on between all the female and the male. That's been my specialty, desk, what my book was about. I always my specialty is empowering women. So I think the opening of this letter is very telling. It says I need some advice, although this may not be your area of expertise. Now. I ken't waiting on Shirley to say she's somewhere in this letter, but she never said Jill said he. And that's where I started asking what, Shirley, what it did? I miss some of these letters, And Shirley's absolutely right. It sounds as though these are two men because of the term my partner was a lot or of same sex, because I hear that a lot when same sex relationships are referring to each other as my partner. So, okay, I do the best I can't. It's a relationship, okay, But you know I have to be honest because I don't. I don't know the parameters. I don't. I don't know if the parameters are the same. I don't know. I'm ignorant to it, so I don't know how it works. But I'm just gonna say this right here, Uh, Dave, somebody is trying your patience by blatantly hitting on your partner and direct messages and leaving racing comments on your partner the post, Hey partner, I think I think something about the pop off and then what I think? That's what I think. Yeah, these is all dudes right here then probably gonna pop off like quicker you line go, Well, we come back. I'm gonna on the commercial break. I'm gonna go into prayer, come back with my answer, and hope I ain't got much time to give it. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at twenty three after the hour. Today's subject your online friend is overstepping boundaries. Your online friend is overstepping boundaries Again. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up right after this. You're listening to all right, let's recap today's strawberry letter, and Steve, we want to hear part two of your response. The subject your online friend is overstepping boundaries. Well, this twenty seven year old person is in a relationship with another person. They're in a Facebook group with some other people, and so since they on this online group, his pardoning in them them have oh Steve Harvey, what spit it out? Uh? Them people? That the people that's in the Facebook group, they have mutual friends. And so one of them is trying your patience by blatantly hitting on his partner or the other person's partner, because they dming them and they leave in racing comments on my partner's post. And sometimes my partner's comments can look a big flirtatious too. There ain't no looking flirtations. It looked flirtatious because it is flirtatious. Now I'm concerned that this friend is gonna try to make a move. And my partner's very naive. So this is a big problem. Ah, So you your partner don't know nothing. That's what naive is. Ain't help to the game. Green wet behind the ears, got simlac on their breath, that's what that means. So now this is a big problem. You don't told your partner how you feel, and you don't gave you then gave both of them an ultimatum, so you to just went on. So where did you do this? Hill? You just went online after Facebook group and hey, hey, you and you keep on him, keep on him. That's what he said. You hear it? Yes, So after you gave him that to stop communicating, your partner came and told you that you just overreacted, that this is innocent. Now, then you say, y'all's relationship is good, but in this age of online dating and quick hook comes, this is getting on my last nerve. Then you come back and you say, I do trust my man. Okay, there, what's the letter? You're confusing me? But I feel like there's too much going on nowadays and nobody cares about being faithful in staying in the monogamous relationship. Okay, then you don't trust him, and then maybe y'all's relationship ain't good. You said it was, but it ain't. You asked. You gave both of them an ultimatum. Ain't nobody stop? Your partner told you you're overreacted. I don't want to start a lot of drama rama see that? Ain't wait? All right, let me just keep it. But our relationship was going great. Until this other person started being disrespected. My partner and the friend are planning to see each other next weekend at a group function. Damn well they just they just in your face with it. Your partner and and this online friend Finn to see each other next week. It did function, But there's no way I'm gonna sit back and let this friend take what's mine? What should I do? Whether it sound like it's gonna be asked? With that sound, it sounds like I'm gonna be answering. It's good about to take a whole new function. Dude, you feel to go? You find to go the show and tell this ain't hide and see just hide and go get it. Yes, don't stop, get it, get it. Come on, y'all, let's get with it. It's the monkey show feeling. Get up in here. You know how I feel about monkey man crazy trying to sit down and let this free and take course? Man? What should I do? You know what you gotta do? Dog? When you get to the event. You got some star swinging? What ss he walks in the door, Roll your sleeves, turn that corner like you on Jerry Spring taking their rings all, get your rings out the way. If you got shoes on with a too high here, get them off, come around that corner, bath foot it and win me on it. Whoop, whoop it not. What you're gonna do is not just like on spring on your partner gonna try to break y'all up? Okay, I show wish I could tape it. I don't know where the group function gonna be, but I can get a camera crew over there. If you just tell me when it is somebody pushing up on my girl, I wouldn't told him not to push up on my girl. Y'all say this just relationship, right, Yeah, it's a fight. Now you're pressing up on mine. I wouldn't ask you not to, and you keep on. So when I see you what I'm supposed to do, well, I guess you have a point there. I just have a discussion if you put it that what discussion I told y'all. I told you top of this damn letter. I didn't like it, and I want to stop. You're talking about you being innocent and I'm overreacting, and I ask you all that. Yeah, now, y'all are planning to see each other at the group function? His partners doing the most or yeah, busy this function. I'm coming in in flat. I'm not wearing this. I'm coming in with flats. I got some doche slippers. I'm gonna just turn this corner and just it is what it is starting, all right, Steve, we gotta get out of here. You can email us your Instagram us, your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey. F M. It's Steve right there, see you at the function coming up in ten minutes. Our girl from the talk to one of m Le Cheryl Underwood. Right after this. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, put your hands together for Sheryl on the road. Let me tell you something, Steve Harvey. Listen to me, son, you really know how to make one of them self a videotape when you own somebody's side. What you sent out about the Jesse Smalllan was exactly what a lot of people is feeling that we back in this brother, no matter what, godawmn, he didn't deserve this. This is bigotry and racism in America. You said it exactly right, Steve Harvey. And you got your angles good too. See I'm not good at the angle that I don't do it, sirless. I don't do it because too much neck in my video. So I don't think gonna take me serious. I don't really know how to do itself. Really I don't either. But you did it good, Steve. You said when we felt and you had an angle that made you look attracted, it was a good video shop, it was it was it made me well, you said he was attracted. It was a track I like the salt and Pepper Beard. Tommy, you don't a lot of us rocking that, you know, if I don't shave mine, you know, they'd be like rocking that, Steve. But that we just saying we loved just a smile lad and we were gonna find out get to the bottom of this. Now, wait a minute, what's that girl that's what that girl that looked like? What's that girl over at the at the White House? What's the girl that dude? What's her name? Baby? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, Now that I'm called almost because she said God said Trump need to be president. She said, God said he's gonna be president. First of all, who you're talking to? Because Trump on pastor say he ain't been there in years. That's already say his name on the roll, but he didn't show up. Hit pass. Let me tell you how white Bass to get your heart. Wasn't even that Bible study. They talk about him so hard, said, last time he was in here, he got married to Malanya. That's last time he was in here. And then let me say, it's so much stuff about to come out on Trump's They got him, they got him, they got it. This is gonna be the best and the worst. Yeah, you will believe when you see it, because they had so much stuff on him already. Gotta building what you gotta build a real case on Trump because he'll slide out of something you don't get, and they want that power by any means necessary, you know what I'm saying. So you really gotta get when you get Trump, you gotta get him, and then get him on the on the state level, because he can pardon himself on the state level anyway. So get him. You know, I'm gonna sit back letting Nest Pelosi just handling, because she handling it already. Oh it's cold outside. I would be in Saint Louis. I'll be in Saint Louis at Helium, So you know, at the that's the club. That's what it's called. Thomas and Julia's. Yeah, it's in Saint Louis Good Comedy Club. Y'all need to get over there. They got they got yeah, they got the bag. Listen. I got to go pick up that bag in this cold That's right. I got to go get it. So come see me this weekend. But get your bring your pets in it, you know what I'm saying. And look out for your neighbors and people that don't have him and everything, you know, because you know, black dogs be chained to a tree. Bring the dogs in the Chicago River froze over. I couldn't believe it that it froze over. Black people so cold blooded they out there when they dress you off, flighting on you the shin listen to me. Oh, we like to mark the passing of James Ingram, one of the greatest singers in the world. That boy can sign he was in when he made y'all gonna be that the good Church record, y'all. 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That's about that's about the polar cat and and now the cold weather is seeping down. That's what global warming? Who wait, somebody just asked me, Oh, well, I'm a Republican. I can say that I'm a member of the party. If they stopped cashing my check, maybe I'll stop talking and showing the stuff. But wait, you say, women, somebody want to know who I got in the super Bowl, the Big Game. I win either way. I win either way because I prayed for the Rams and the Patriots to get in there, but I didn't want them to win ugly with the helmet. But up against the Saints, man, I don't. I didn't. I didn't like that. That's that's not how you play the game. You know what I'm saying. You know, I slept with a lot of football players, telling girl, get it take. Some of them got rings, and some of them didn't know how to go all the way, how to win. I tried my best. I gave all I could, you know, mind, body, soul. So you go out there. You can win. You can win. You win. You know it doesn't have a man listen to leave it with football players. You got pad, helmet, jersey, No bottom, No that right, Tommy bottom. We got a girl, girl, whatsoever. We gotta get out of here. Thank you so much, Thank you. Kay Jim Hill coming out coming up at the top of the hour, Cheryl Underwood Carlos Carlo's reality Update. We'll see you lady. Thank you, Cheryl. You're listening to Let's go Temmy. All right, it's that time. Getting ready. She is here. Carlin Farrell with Reality Update. Okay, thank you, nephew. Okay, Crewe, Celebrity Big Brother is off the chain. Let me just say that's crazy. Listen, Junior. So you know Olympian Lolo Jones and Tamar Man they were about to fight. They got into it in the Celebrity Big Brother House. So after Lolo called Tamar the B words strong, Yeah, it kind of jumped off. Take a list. What you need to do was halm down. But you need to do was calm down and stopping nightmare right here, because I'm telling you right now, I've always had your back, but I can't take every day I have my back. You don't have to have my back. I'm a big girl. Well then let's right here. I'm right here, I'm right here, I'm right here. Was Lolo was saying that to Tamar world class, I'm right here, man. Lolo was not scared. She was not scared. She was not backing down. So she's saying I am right here because Tamar, you know, she was like she from Baltimore or whatever her. So Lolo was just trying to let her know she wasn't backing down and she wasn't scared. And then towards the end of the arguments, as you know, it went on, Tamar basically say you you got one more time? You know everybody always gives and then exactly, it's Tamar scientists, what kind of chase is that on her head? But she had these futuristics glasses back to the future something I don't know what, but you know what, don't see when you don't really won't know, and everybody get one more Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I see what you're saying. Johnny Wallace Sucker punched me in the chest in the eighth grade. I said the same thing, you got one more time. Didn't hurt? Hell yeah, I couldn't bleeve he punched me third p. I didn't say that to fifth classic to get my wind back, I say, you know, hey man, you got one more time. I gave him one more because you know that one right there, that was effective. Yeah yeah, Well, tensions you know, have been building up in uh in the house. You know, this is a game they're trying to win. Two hundred and fifty thousand dollars, So you gotta be real strategical what you're doing. Folks are making alliances with certain different house guests and trying to win head of households or you don't get voted out of the house. So folks are lining on each other trying not to get evicted. So that was some tension between Tamar and Lolo Um. After that, they're still there in the house and they apologize to each other. Yeah, they squashed to be But let me tell you who's playing the game strategically. Kato Kalin. He he still anything what he's in the house. He's a celebrity in the house. Yes, he's on the show and he was had a household recently and Tamar exploded on him. They went back and forth and Cato he couldn't reveal to Tamar his plan. So his plan was to get rid of another guy, the Olympic swimmer. You remember Ryan Lochtey, Yeah, right, remember him? He suspended from water. Well he's going back to the Olympics though in twenty twenty in the water right now, did he bade he do all his women in the park. Well, anyway, Cato was trying to come Tamar down because she just can't really reveal your plan to everybody. You know what you're gonna do, who you're gonna get rid of. So the bottom line, they kind of talked Cato and Tamar. At the end of the day, they all had to vote as to who would be out of the house. Cato wanted Ryan out the house his plan work because Ryan's good, he's athletic, So you want the weakest people to stay in the house. You don't want yeah, and athletic up in the house, so they wanted him out. So yeah, Loo is still there. I'm still there. But that's that's the mindset that Cato had got what he wants. Ryan was out, and then he let tamark. You know, he had to let her know this was my plan. So you know, she just got to kind of let things happen and not just kind of go off on people to see the big picture, or she could be playing everybody too. So you got yes, she is, Yeah, Tamar crazy, but she got everybody watch a celebrity big bro. I even want to watch I've never watched the show before. I even want to watch came out last night. Yeah, Tamar is almost must see TV. That to her. My friend says, she's not. She would not watch the show if Tamar wasn't on it. She was on the show, yeah, she's yeah, she's, she's. I wouldn't need that, wouldn't tune in Kada right right. But you know what, Carla, I see why Anthony Scaramucci is gone. I see that. Oh no, he didn't fit in at all. He don't even need the money. Yeah, he had to go. So I know this is a question, this is wrong, but hit me up social media at lips bar, Carla, who do you think would have won the watch? Won the fight? Lolo or Tamar? Baltimore's on taple our call right there. Uh huh, there's lot of lines of Atlanta. Quickly, let me get to it. Baltimore strong, Okay, you think Tamark. Okay, you say, Lolo, let me talk about real housewive seconds. It's hard to fight for thirty seconds. Yeah, I'm right here, y'all, still on the right here. I get my attention now, to get your attention, I'm right here. Well and back to that. Then, when she said I'm right here, Tamar was saying, you know, like you said, Steve, you got one more time to say that. So Lolo was like, well, I'm right here. So then Tamar was like, well then say it, like save the b work. She did. No, I mean it was kind of like yeah in the first time, Yeah, because you heard me. Yeah. Anyway, we ran out of time, so we'll talk about Real Housewives of Atlanta next time. Time to go. We'll be back at twenty after you're listening. In political news, Kamala Harris is CNN town hall meeting brought in ratings, uh big ratings. We don't know if Kamala Harris can bring home the presidency, but she can definitely pull in those ratings, and we hope she can bring in the presidency as well. Okay the senator from California. CNN town hall brought in almost two million viewers Steve two million. That was seventy five percent more than the network's four week ten PM average, and the one point ninety five million people were the largest That was the largest for a single candidate town hall in CNN history. Baby girl, Girl, Okay, all right, Madam President. The event also drew in more young viewers, an average of one hundred and eighty six thousand adults under thirty five. That's great. Yeah, you know, it's very smart of her to get out front because she's the only one right now. Nobody else has committed, so she has front and center stage. She's on all the interview She's all we're hearing from the other people. I just don't I don't know. I've seen some of the other candidates just talking about it. I like the guy to send Anto o'neou the Texas. Yeah here twins? Well what his brother, dude? Because I because when you vote for twins, go for somebody got twin. You vote for two people. Yeah, because it's crazy do something. Everybody gonna thinks you ain't you about twins? Yeah, you got to watch them twins? You know. But like I said, you know, I've looked at a couple of people, So I've looked at the women that's running in Some of them are I like a camel. If if Elizabeth Warren wants to win it, she's gonna have to take another approach because she's like close to Hillary. Hillary talking about she might go again, but that wouldn't be She won the election by popular vote. They just didn't take care of the electrical Excuse me, ain't pay the bill. We're just sitting up the dog cause of your stupid ass. The Starbucks a smart right, Yeah, but he's a third party. Did you know what Donald Trump said about him? What did he say? Trump saying he's not gonna run he's a coward? Wow? Does it? Wow? Wow? Should sound bite? That's what the guy told me. He said he pay his rent with Yeah, I always just go low and just yeah. He makes it all about him. He makes it all about him all the time. Yeah, right there, franchised out. Yeah all right. Well, uh this Saturday, Steve, we have to tell everybody that you will host the NFL Honors at the Fox Theater and Atlanta. It starts getting serious today because today is rehearsal. Uh huh. So I'm rehearsal on Thursday instead of Friday because after I finished rehearsal tonight, I have to go to Miami for the Grand cardone times ten confidence speaking in front of thirty five thousand tomorrow Friday night. All right, Jesus coming. Then I come back on Friday night, Get up Saturday morning, go do the wo'll run through for the Honors. I'm working on my monologue. Okay, I haven't had a chance to do it. I got a guy to help me. All right, Well, you'll be doing that. It will be televised on CBS at nine pm Eastern on Saturday. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening to show life threatening cold grips much of the US. The Chicago River is frozen. Whoever thought that would happen in a long time now, Yeah, meteorologists are saying this is the coldest air in a generation. There's a state of emergency which has been declared in Illinois, in Michigan, and in Wisconsin. Please be safe out there and listen to your city officials as to when it is safe to be outside. Okay, because it is not safe. It is not safe. Also in today's entertainment news, cops investigating the Jesse Smollett attacks say they finally have a lead from the surveillance video, but they are gonna need to some help from the public. They're gonna have to hear from the public to help locate the persons of interest. Chicago PD say detectives were unable to find the camera angle that revealed the persons of interests that are one for questioning in the assault and battery. But they are and they're careful not to call the people's suspects in the case just yet, but police have released the images of the persons of interest Jesse. Jesse, of course, says two men and ski masks jumped him, beat him up, dust him with bleach, and left him with a rope around his neck before fleeing. He says, they yelled Maga country as they got away. Wow. Yeah, this is still, you know, one of the biggest stories out there, and it is you know, everyone in entertainment has ad in on the situation as well. I think even Nancy Pelosi um really texted something, Yeah, it's it's gotten about the president. Oh no, no, no, yeah, yeah, let me check the Twitter time like that's on the way he communicates with Yeah. Yeah. He just can't say it. He goes months without a check last night. But you know what, they're going to find these people because they're gonna stay on it. Because there is all camera everywhere in the downtown area of Chicago. It's not hard to find two guys show up on one of these cameras going in the area or vicinity with the same clothes on. When they go in same clothes on when they come out. That's that's all. And then we got to do some research. We're gonna do some other camera. They're gonna do some other stuff, but they're gonna find Yeah, they're gonna have to how's Jesse Jesse doing. Uh, he's recuperating. He's out of the hospital. Good. Yeah, yeah, Steve. They had your video on TMZ talking about it. They talked about Terrence Howard, you know Jesse's co stars, to Roger p Henson, like you said, all the celebrities, everybody for they asked one. You know, man, I I posted. I didn't think that much of it because you know, I had read Bishop Jake's response and I've seen a couple of videos and that's that's not the way I am. And so I just did the one I did, and it went kind of crazy, man, because I can't tell you that the people of them contact me about it, you know, yeah, wanting to make it a story. I don't want to make it a story because it ain't about me. He's just such a likable guy. You know, everybody in Hollywood and even politicians, they really like him. He's an activist, you know, and he stands up for what he believes. And yeah he's a cool guy, a smart guy, you know. Yeah. Yeah, his whole family, the small let their showbiz family journey. His sister you know, she's also in the business. So yeah, anyway, we will definitely be keeping our eye on this story and keeping you posted. Coming up it is Steve Harvey and his closing remarks as we get to our last break of the day. We'll be back. You're listening, all right, Steve. Here we are last break of the day. We've had a good day, Thank the good Lord, and take us out with some great closing remarks as you always do well these remarks. Um again is in the vein of encouragement. I want everybody who's interested in becoming successful or more successful, anybody who's interested in becoming happy for the first time or becoming happier than you are. I have a couple of points for you that can be very helpful. Point number one, align yourself with like minded people. You know, I want you to understand something. They do exist. They do exist. People who think like you exist. Now you may have to move out of your current circle of friends to find them. Fine, but do yourself a favor this year. Align yourself with like minded people. Find someone man you. They got groups for everything, or we talked about, got Facebook groups for everything. They got all types of you. Everyone to Fire has a song that says, gonna find a few to always walk with you. Many people claim don't always bleed to say, listen to me. You can find somebody who thinks the way you do. So that's the first thing I want you to do. Align yourself with like minded people. The next thing I want you to do to really really help yourself out, get committed. Get committed, y'all. It was a funny thing. You mind if I share this story? Uh uh? This morning Junior came in and he was a little late for our writers meeting, and Junior had on baseball hattan, you know, sweatshirt and slaxon. Junior looked like he got ran over. And I said, Junior, you are right, and he said, yeah, yeah, I don't confined man made it in. Sorry about that. I'm a little lady. Wasn't that late, But you know, he apologized being late and everything, and I was looking at me, just wasn't his self. Eyes was half masks and had that baseball head on your street he said, man, Uncle, struggling man. He said, Man, I don't know how you do it. He said, I don't know how you do it. And I had to give Junior a talk. I said, you know what, Junior, because I have a job where I can't call in on I don't have an option of not showing up. I can't be late. I have to show up and I have to be on point. Because the job I have, I have no option. I'm either on radio, I'm on TV, I'm on set, I'm on camera, I'm on Mike, I'm on somewhere. So I can't afford it. So I said, Junior, you know what I do. I come in here and I bring the best me to work that I can possibly be. I don't. I try not to let people see me in a dismal state, because so many people are looking to me for inspiration, and so many people are counting on me to have a good day so they can keep working. So if I have a good day, everybody else can have a good day. If the person at the top is having a bad day, it trickles down. And as I talked to Junior, I went on and got dressed for the show. I got in the barber chair. Damn my thing. I looked up at lunch break and Junior came into my dressing room. He had went back home. He put on a suit or tie. He straightened up. He came in. He was bright. He was shocked. I said, Junior, what's up? He said, after talking to you, I went home and started over. He said, I just started over. Man. He said, you told me something that you can't let him see you in a dismal state, that you you got to practice being ready. You got to be on ready set just in case they say go. He changed his clothes and came back. He looked like and you know, he said, I'm back. I'm back, man, Junior back, and he was happy. And he walked around and set all day just like that. And Junior's energy has an energy that's contagious, Like he's such a person that brings such a light into a room. People like seeing him come around. You got people like that who you love to see come around because they light. They bring a jovial this to the room, or a lighthearted that's gotta make everybody feel good. Rather be that person, I don't whatever want to be the person where when I walk in the room. Oh hell, he come, what's wrong now? Just like a black cloud followed me in the room? Not gonna be that. You can be the best you. But you gotta get committed, man, You gotta you gotta get committed to being a better you. You gotta make a conscious decision that this year you're gonna be a better you. But guess what. That decision is totally up to you. It's completely yours. Ain't nobody not allowing you to be a better you. There's some people, there's some things are gonna come up, throw on some roadblocks, but nobody can stop you from bettering yourself. If you decide that you're gonna smile more today, no matter what happens, guess what, you can get the grinted. If you decide today that you're gonna meet more people today, you can start shaking hands. The decision is yours, y'all. But those two things, if you align yourself with like minded people, and if you get committed, be committed to being a better you, start with simple stuff. Man, I might have a better attitude this year. I might have a better attitude every day. I'm not gonna come to work with no silur look on my face. Be a better you. It'll carry over into every aspect of your life. If you start your day off being the best you you can be, it'll carry over every aspect of your life. And if you become a better you, you're gonna have a better life. That's the real deal. That's it. Keep talking to God, pray, ask for guidance and assistance, and see if God don't show you the way. That's my remarks today. Drop it, you gotta pick it back here. We're out, Steve. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.