Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all don't know. Y'all back a suit, looking back to back down, giving them like the milling bus things, and it's not true. Good Steve Hartley, I don't joy. You gotta turn out very You gotta turn to turn them out, turning, got to turn out to turn the water the water. Come, come on your thing, huh, I share will Good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show you know today I was thinking of what I would say today and it just dawned on me this way, and I just want to share this with everybody listening. You've got to get some help to make it through life. I cannot imagine where I would be if it was not for the help of my God, if it wasn't for his grace and mercy, if I did not have the ability to lean on him and all the times I've had to lean on him, which has become a daily basis. I have no idea where I would be, but clearly I know for a matter of fact, I would not be here today. You have got to get some help to get through this thing called life. I am begging you to look into it. Man, you've got to form a relationship with God. Without a relationship with God, this thing called life is daunting at times. I don't care who you are. I know I'm speaking the truth right now, because listen, no matter who you are, what job tighter you have, what aspirations you may have, I don't care what your educational background is or is not. It does not matter if you don't get a real relationship going on with God. I don't see how you can make it. So many people are faking and fronting out here like they got it going on, and you don't know, And you really don't know how many people that you think in your neighborhood had it going on because you saw a car pull up in the driveway, or the house look bigger, or grass is cutting nicer, and you only find out that a foreclosed your side on their house too. See, you don't know. The mask that people put on to parade around in is for appearing's sakes. So a lot of people you looking at that you think got it going on? Who might be the pattern of success that you want to trace? You got to be real careful with that because it may not be as it appears to be. But one thing is for sure, no matter what's going on in your life, I know that behind whatever mask I'm wearing, or I realized, or no matter what the appearances may be, that on the other side of me, I'm gonna be just fine. See. You may be outwardly people hating on you, talking about you, dragging your name through the mud. Look, man, people can say stuff about you. Most people talking about you don't even know you. They just participating in it. You can have that appearance going on, but behind you, within you, if you have a relationship with God, it don't matter because you can be all right. I've seen it get real stormy on the outside for me, but on the inside I just had to feel and I was gonna be all right. See. That's what the relationship gives you, man. It gives you the confidence to note that the things that you're going through are temporary, that it's just a space that you happen to be in. Like I said the other day, you got to remember something. The road to success is always under construction. You might as well get ready for that. If you're planning on changing, getting better doing something about your health. If you decide, hey, look, I just would like to live a longer, more prosperous life, or hey, I want to make X amount of dollars, or hey man, I'm gonna stop staying out in these streets and I'm gonna come home and treat my family where they ought to be treated. I don't care what decision you make. When you strike out on that road to success, it's under construction, partner. There's barrels out there, there's wide turns, there's detools. You know. It's it's me and out there holding signs saying slow down. Sometimes they put the stop sign up. You got to wait and watch people go buy you on the other side. Then before you can take off again. You've all been on the road with construction on it. It can be so frustrated. And the whole time you own that road. I know, when I'm on the road we could under construction. I'm always thinking of an alternative path. I ain't ever set in traffic under construction, man, and thought of if I get off on this exit, where would it take me? Not knowing, but just man, could I keep moving if I go that way? That's a dangerous thing sometimes, see, because oftentimes when we get off the road to success and we take that other path, we get further and further off course because we're nod tool sign for that. Just a decision I made on my own because I don't like sitting here sometimes I don't have the patience I ought to have, so I've taken some what I thought might be shortcuts. But I gotta tell you something, ain't no shortcuts on the road to success. Even the detour signs wind up taking you a little bit out your way. And look background. I remember one time I was coming from Las Vegas and that was some type of chemical spill in a truck and you could all see the smoke up ahead and very faint. So they detoured us through the desert and we had to go all the way around, and I drove, man like an hour and a half out of the way, and when they entered us back on the freeway where we were to go back to La as soon as I got at that exit to get back on the freeway, I looked right there and there the accident was. Now it was an hour and a half hour forty five all the way around in that desert, to get back to almost the same place. But it was the best way to go because see, that was the route to take. And that's what you got to understand about trying to make the right decision to be successful, that the road to success is always under construction. You're gonna have to go around a little bit, so could stop being in patient with it. I don't want to go around. IM gonna go this way, You go that way if you want to, just follow the detour signe. See, because somebody that came up this road before you have, somebody didn't travel the road already and they took the way around, and yeah, it seemed like it's a longer way, and you want to make that other decision. But stay on the road to success. It's under construction, man, that's just the way it goes. Don't lose your patience and try to create a shortcut for yourself. I'm gonna go away. Ain't nobody ever gone way? Hold a partner, you really thank you for going to do that. Listen. There's oftentimes a lot of rewards when you go the least travel path, but the road to success is the least travel path. That's what you keep getting mixed up. You keep thinking if you go another way, now, No, stay on the road to success. That is the least travel path. It's under construction. You can go out there with you with your machete. If you want to talk about cutting new trails. You think the road to success is under construction, take the other route and get that machette out and see how long you be out there trying to cut a path. Sometimes, Man, you just got to stay patient. The road to success has been traveled before by millions of people in front of you, everybody that has some setbacks in life. But don't get off the road to success just because you're having some setbacks, just because you see some orange barrels up, just because there's some men out there with vest on. What that got to do with you? Everybody, everybody that's trying to be successful, is on that road. Your relationship with God helps you guide yourself around the barrels. It helps you have the patience to go around that away. He gonna get you back where you gotta be. But you got to go out there so you can learn something. See, you need God to make it in life because the road to success is always under construction. He calms you down. When the barrels is up, he lets you know it's gonna be all right. He rewards you with the patience to finish because he gonna get you right back where you need to be and you can get on which where you was going. Okay, all right, yall, we're gonna try that today. You're listening SA Morning Show, ladies and gentlemen, let's get it all. It's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey man, let me tell y'all something I cannot tell you how twenty twenty two is going for me simply by waking up every single morning with nothing to start my day except gratitude. I don't check no text, I don't look at my email. I don't. I don't kennerbuddy, don't even if you know me, you know how to email me anyway. I don't do none of that. Look, man, I wake up and just start thanking him and I go down the list and it don't And you ain't got to worrybody getting redundant because it's the same grateful things to be grateful for. It's just a new way to look at it. Like, if you wake up today, don't you know that's a big opportunity than waking up yesterday. What that's a big gift, man, you are to thank you. I'm just trying to tell you, welcome to twenty twenty two. Make your twenty twenty two go a lot better with starting off each morning with gratitude. Now, Junior, what's on your mind? Uncle LEVI ask you so, and you know, just talking to you is always fun. I just got the question. I just want to know this because I know I got messed up, but up. How many whoppers you think you got behind line? How many whippings I got from my parents for lying? Yeah, Mike, you're like, well, because anytime I was gone, if I thought I was gonna get a whipping, that was a lie because I had to tell you something to try to fend it off. I knew why you called me in and I heard the accusation. But if you if you're talking to me, and if your conversation has the tone that this could be a ass whipping, I have to start lying at this point because obviously you bought me in here for some truth. You've called me in here for some truth. Boy, you didn't see them street lights? Come on, boy, didn't I tell you to go out. Not to go out in that street. Boy, I thought, I said, don't play on them steps? Boy? Did you throw that rock through that wonder? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to climb up in that tree? Boy, Didn't I tell you to mop down them steps before we was gone board? Didn't I tell you to rake them leads for you went out to play? Boy? Didn't I tell you not to throw that football over that by Miss Johnson's house? No more? All lease, all these once you brought me in and had a tone of accusation to it. Nah, I got to lie. I got to lie because I already know already no. And so now my parents, being the brilliant people that they were, they knew lies because I didn't know how to tell them at first. Like I don't know if you could see this on zoom, but like this is how I would start all my lives. Boy, didn't I tell you not to throw that football by Miss Johnson's house? I got to look off because I was searched for the lie. I would look right or left because I got to look for this line. And I'm gonna tell you so I had to learn over the years, lads of being focused whole yass still lie, don't blink, don't swallow some techniques to line. And so I turned into one of the top lines in the country because of that. But I want to answer your question, how many asses out and took for line? Probably about probably about hunting. That's nothing to be proud of, Steve. Answer the court truth level might be a little shot coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour was the Nephew and run that frank back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it is time now for the nephew and run that frank back. What you got for us? Now? Um, I got papers on that man. I got papers on that man, cat dog. If you would hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh this Phyllis, Yes, it is who am I speaking to? All right, Phillis? This is this is Jim down at the top. How I work out here with Clem your husband Clem clo Okay, yeah, okay, how are you? I'm good. He's slipped in fails today. What and he heard himself? Uh? He gotta leave a little shaken up here at the job. So what happened? What do you what happened. Well, I think he he definitely pulled something in his back. But we um, Now who is you? Now? I'm his wife, I'm I'm just my chilly, you're you're your Phillis. That's right, that's right. Okay, because we got listed that his wife is jam and we tried to call her earlier but we didn't get an I'm his wife, so I'm his wife. I don't know Janis? Who the hell is Janis? Janis is who he has listed for a contact? When when uh, when it's an emergency contact or something she happens. Now y'all got that mixed up? Yeah, Ill must have nixed that up somehow. He wouldn't have put no, no damn Janis as his wife. I'm his wife. Steal it. So I don't know who who messed up? But that ain't right. I'm the wife. Okay, Well it has her listened as the wife and call her as a contact if something goes wrong. Well, I don't know what to tell you is because i'm his wife. Now, I don't I don't know who messed up. Hold on one second, let me let me click over one second of a call coming to any one se jan it's on the dog on. I don't know. Okay, that was Janis what she said. She but she's gonna come out to the job, so you don't have to know. Now I'm coming out to the job. I'm his wife. I don't know who No Janis is. That John need to get it straight because commy, she says she's gonna come and take him to the doctor. Now she ain't come where. So I'm is white. I'm taking it. No, you don't let you don't lease my husband the note naughty. I'm is freaking white. So y'all need to say, y'all Ye Janis says she'll be right here in ten minutes. Well I'm right. I bet I beat there in ten minutes too, And I bet y'all been not release my husband and nobody. I'm in white. I don't know who No Janis is, but y'all need to get that straight. I'm on my wife. You tell Janie that she beat me there to all that sister produce some become very certificate papers or something to tell us to produce that I got the papers on that man. Okay, Well, I'm just saying, uh, Janiss, he does have her on the list. Man, so I can't What do you have on the list side, I don't give it. What's on the list? Who? Yeah? Name on the list? Man? Why would her name be above your name on the list? You know well, I'm not gonna play this little ring around the rosie with you. I got papers on that, man, so you better met Bessie. I best hold up until I get there. And cat y'all want some more problems. I'm gonna release him to Danners as soon as she gets deal. Sir, you've been at release my husband another buddy. All y'all lay out on the floor. So I'm gonna tell you right now. If my husband on, when I'll get that, it's gonna be some full blown going down. So your best just make sure I get that. This is a bunch of bulls, but it's gonna oom when I'll get down on her way. I don't got to hung up with you. I ain't got time to play with you either, So I'm all my way. Because you don't answer for this, Jannis might get a beat down, and your ass don't get them business as my husband thet there, Oh you mess your head here you are here, I ain't got trying to be growing back and forth with your playing ringing around the road. I'm a gown as woman I got, you said, go, I seem like I got some business to take care of over there. Okay, Well what am I supposed to do with Jannis? Like I said, you're telling that the home of cap I'm on my way. She's trying to represent like me, trying to be me. Okay, wife, you will you what? What do you? What do you want me to tell? Tommy who? Tommy? I don't even know the dolly who Tommy? That's me, baby, This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your husband Clemmett got me to Frank Fall called you. Okay, y'all, really okay, y'all, really, I'm okay. I don't know you to me, you stay your hands over there. I ain't trying to be praying with y'all like I'm trying to get by. What does I'm gonna get god? Y'all ask Hey, I got one more thing? There is your favorite? What's the laddest radio what's the baddest radio show in the layer? Those three thirty got papers on your man? Ain't this your seventh answer? Yeah? Yeah, I think it's seven. I think, yeah, we just celebrated seven. Don't truck But he know, yeah, he bet your nesto nothing. He knows all me and know how long they've been in? Come on? What in prison? What down down to the hour and the second? How many you've been in t twenty? You say that the June be twenty one? Lord, forty one years? Wait a minute, forty one? What do you mean forty one? Forty one years? I've been married since I was twenty four. The whole damn time I've been married. I even to be married or engaged the entire damn time for the one years I won't I won't live time for credits served. You give me all my damn years in this here? All right? Coming up next, asked the CLO. With our Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment news. Guess who's expecting baby number eight? What they still do eights? Yeah, yeah, just sound like Nick Cannon is. Yeah, yeah, that's right. We'll talk about it about it. Another one and a sexy new actor has been added to the Fast and Furious list. This is Fast and Furious number ten movie, and we got to check in with Tyrese to find out how he feels about it. That's all coming up, but right now it is time for asks. The CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building, ready for your love questions. Dorothy La writes, I'm sixty seven years old and my boyfriend is sixty nine. He's got bad teeth and most of them have been pulled out. Last week he got two more pulled on the left side, so it looks terrible. He's not at all bothered by it, but I'm ashamed. I know it's a money issue for him because his insurance is terrible. Why won't he let me help him? First of all, let me help you with a couple of things at sixty seven and sixty nine? Why are you using the term boyfriend? I don't even understand that, y'all. Damnns seventy? Well is a turn boyfriend coming from next He ain't just start having bad teeth when you're seventy. This has been a continuous problem. He didn't have got two more pull out the left What do you mean out of the left. The left side is the corner teeth missing. It's hard when the corner teeth is missing, that right there on the side where you smile, when you smile all the way and nobody grinned what you know more? You know? You know people smiling. Then when you smile all the way and you go and you see that gap, people going because man all his teeth missing on the side. And so now you've got to help him because it's an embarrassment and it do bother him. But see, since you still let him be your boyfriend, it ain't no consequences. So now when your man looked bad, ladies, and you claim him as your man. I hate to tell you this. I didn't create this rule, but you get blamed for it though how she let him come out the house looking like that. Women get blamed for a lot of stuff, ain't they fault? But you do get blamed for it. And there ain't no Steve Harvey rule and nothing. Uncle Steve ain't saying this, but I gonna get his ragged ass mouth fixed for we go anywhere else. But we're not going to church. We're not going down here to bingo, We're not doing none of this now, damn mother, you get your ragged ass mouth. Shop everybody, all right, shop everybody shop everybody. We hear that. Stop spitting on me. Go ahead, get your damn mouth moving onto Keisha and Charlotte. Keisha's is five years ago. I had a threesome with a married couple. It only happened once, and now I date their son, who's eight years younger than me. The wife called me and said her son is off limits. I told her if she called again, I'd let her son know I slept with his mama and his daddy. Would be wrong for that. Well, you ain't gonna wear about her calling no more that for damn show. She will not put in another phone call. That was an ultimate slap threat right there. If you call me one more time, I'm gonna tell him that I slept with your mama and your daddy. You ain't got to wear about her calling. No, damn mo. This is the only family in town, though. How small? When do y'all live in a village? Why do y'all live Charlotte, Charlotte, Yeah, Charlotte. Oh that's where they're from. Yeah, No, there must be in a subdivision, because Charlotte, big enough to get lost in. You can have a couple of people. You see it in Charlotte. You must live in a subdivision that's way out and ain't y'all ain't got no calls or nothing, because where's you? Keep going back over to that family. Family, everybody in that family cute mama to daddy, a little boy. Lady, you need to move around, he needs you. Never heard the time spread Joe oats? You spread him further, all right? Moving on to Janetta in Kansas City, Missouri, who says I went on a blind date that my cousin set up, and she said, the guy used to drink a lot, but he's doing better and he's ready to settle down. I had two glasses of wine while we were out, and he started judging me, saying I should stop at two. I wanted to call him a drunk and leave. Was I wrong for drinking? Well, he's an alcoholic and he shouldn't be around the temptation and now he trying to be up at him. He got a lot of damn nerves. But why did they introduce you to him? Because he's doing better now and he's ready to Okay, Well, I bet he is, But see nothing to settle down with me and then have your ask some relapse. Man, I was listening to this dude that drank heavy and he he had me laughing so hard. It wasn't funny. Yeah, well to me, it was. Let me stop that. I was laughing so hard. He said, I'm a strong ass man and he drank a lot. He said he's alcoholic, he's I'm strong ass man to dude said have you ever thought about going to a A? He said, AA is for quitters. Wait, man, this dude right here, he'd have propped himself up to the point where you tried as for quitters. Okay, that's wrong. For drink no, hele No, you had two glasses of wine but he couldn't handle it and he's judged. Yeah, I think I think you do. I think this should be your last date with the blind date. Dude, this ain't gonna work out. It ain't for you, all right. Teresia and Um Jacksonville says, I'm a thirty year old single mother and I'm in a financial bond. My child's dad hasn't paid child support in a year because he's unemployed. His wife makes good money, so I told him to ask her for the money. She called me and cursed me out. If they're married, shouldn't she want to help support his child. Nope, not at all, that's what you think. And legally it can't even it can't even happen. Legally, it's not her responsibility at all. It's his responsibility. He made that child. You call it, lady again, you're gonna get cussed out again and hard and next time. And legally, there's nothing you should do. And I don't know how you even thought you can't get support from this woman. Are you nuts? You got to talk to this guy that's on him? No? Yeah, all right, thank you. Cielo. Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Well, we want to remember beautiful Chesley christ former Miss USA, who passed away on Sunday morning after jumping from a building in Manhattan. Now, according to the NYPD, Chris, who is a native of North Carolina, was thirty years old and was crowned Miss USA back in twenty nineteen. She worked as an attorney seeking reform of America's justice system, and she was licensed to practice law in two states. Chris also worked yeah as a correspondent for Extra tv um and before her death. On Sunday, she posted an Instagram picture of herself with the caption made this day bring you rest and peace. Um Steve, I know you didn't know her well, but you did get a chance to work together work with her at the Miss Universe pageant back in December. Yeah, we just did it. She was the correspondent alongside Kelsey. Uh yeah, Chris um No grandma, what's his name? I liked the guy too, Elsey Grammar, no Nost Carson Crestle, Carsley Carson Crestley. They were side by side, so all my tosses went to them, and you know, we stood on stage and did the final goodbyes together, and after the show, you know, we were talking with her and her mother because her mom is in the forty fifties gorgeous woman, and were standing next to her and Margie was hugged and talking about hanging that sish. You know, we're in these fifties, we gotta looking good. We's laughing. So Laurie was standing there talking to it, taking pictures with it. You know, gorgeous girls that's just all be cheerful. You just never never know. And that's why, man, it's so important. Man when you call and checking people and you say how you doing, really find out how they're doing, you know, go deeper than don't. Don't just make it a superficial cart how you doing? Man, I'm hanging in there. Man, Hold up, dog? Oh what you mean you're hanging in there? What's what's happening with you? Oh? You know, got a couple of things? What you got, man, let's talk about it, you know, because if you're friends with somebody, didn't be their friend. I'm not blaming anybody for this because you don't know. But I'm just suggesting to people that maybe when we talk to our people, our loved ones and people we care about, the next time we ask them how they're doing and they say, I'm all right, you know, probe a little bit, pro probe a little bit. You know. When she calls, she's not doesn't sound quite right. My question to her is, okay, how are you sounding right now? Though? You know, and then she'll just break it down well blah blah blah blah blah, because she'll call all chipper and everything. But then I'm like, but how are you sound? What is that in your voice? I here? You know, yeah, so yeah, it's important, and you know it's important especially for men too, because men we don't like you know, like I mean, I'm a I'm in a text group with thirteen brothers. We all went to school together, man, and we all we always stayed close. And you know, man, we check up on each other, like we know, some of us are closer with the other ones than the other ones. And some of us like, you know, boo boo boo boo boom. So like I hear something somebody saying, I go, hey, man, I text the other dude. Separate man, check on kid, See how kid doing. Hey Man, call walt Man. Makes your walk good? Hey walt Man? Call Space. He what was happening? Because sound like he loved and you know, and we do all that. You know, we have a health seminars. We get on the A zoom call man. We have like health meetings, you know, the twelve of us, just to talk about health issues and stuff because all of us in our sixties. Man, Like I'm the I'm the youngest dude in the group. I'm the youngest one in the group. Now I turned sixty five after all of them. I'm I'm the youngest one in the group. That's crazy, man. And you know, we gotta check on cats, man. And I'm not I'm not saying that would end it, but if you gotta, you gotta check on them, man, just check on them. Yeah, that was such a sad story, man, because you know, you look at people and you think, wow, what could be wrong because they're gorgeous or something like that. That's not nothing to do with it. Man, that's sad, but it's nothing to do it. I wish that was it. I wish you know what, I've seen very very wealthy people commit suicide. You think, man, money, money, money fix everything. No it don't. It don't. And so sad, sad story. You know, people are have been calling me to get my thoughts and comments on it, but I just said, you know, I give my thoughts and comments on my radio show, and I don't like trying to be the first one when something tragic strikes, you know. And you know, they got pictures of me at her own stage, and they wanted to A guy called me, wanted to do an interview and all like that. Oh, man, this is this just happened. She got a mother, their family got to deal with some stuff. I'm not fit to be the spokesperson jump out front like I got the yeah, yeah, I asked Steve Dog just ain't just ain't asked Steve or the Judge show. Yeah, this is different, and so just pray for the go ahead. Tell me what makes that? What is it inside that makes you snapping it? Just just end it all. I'm just I don't I don't know the answer to happen. I don't know the answer, but I just pray. You've got to remember that the devil has one mission that's to rob you of your destiny. And he's a con artist. And if he can get you to think that it is hopeless that you have to escape. If you if the devil can get in there, man and plant that seed and let it take root, you you have a problem. You have a problem. I just prayed that other people in my life find that the strength to just always know that this too shall pass and to get some help. And therapy is real, man, And therapy is really really real. It works for a lot of people. Seriously, all right, all right, coming up at twenty minutes, after the hour, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to show. Well, it appears that Nick Cannon is expecting his eighth child, and it's a boy. Nick hosted a gender revealed party with mommy to be Bree Teazy, who just happens, just so happens to be Johnny Mansell's ex wife. The gender revealed party took place in Malibu, Mai j Yeah. Football player. Um, that's that's the only one I know. Yeah, this is her first child. It will be Nick's eighth child. Took place in Malibu this past Saturday. Nick has ten year old twins with Mariah Carey uh Um. Their names are Monroe and Moroccan. He has a four year old son, Golden, and a one year old daughter called Powerful Queen with another ex. He also welcomed six month old twins, Zion and Villier with another woman, Abbie d l Rosa. That was back in June of last year. And remember in last December he lost his seven child then to brain cancer. So he's expecting child number eight. I got three kids. That's enough for me. Nick listening, just call me because I want to know what you use it. Well, let me let me let me give you some help when you get this advice whatever whatever he wants to share with you, that's on him. Let me talk to you about last week. Yeah, I was just on this show. We had a good time. Let me just say this to you, Janie. There is something to call child support. Yes, and you're not gonna believe a chunk some money the FINNI me clipping off your ass. Do you think you think you was mad at your family members? Boy? When the well, let me tell you something. You who but eight? If I did you even think about that? H Oh you need to get some thinking. Oh you show me to get the thinking. I don't know how you didn't. I just want to know. Oh my god, stupid, I stupid for real even think about child Oh you can get all these women, you have, all the babies you want. Oh you can't get some chicks. You ain't even got to have a good line, Junior. Just go down there and tell just oh brother, I can get you start if it's someone's fact what you want. The ain't I talk to Nick. I'm right here. I can get you started if that's what you want. But let me tell you what come with it. I messed around. I got seven kids. All my seven kids was out of marriage. I've been marriage since I was twenty four years old. I've never had a child out of where. Luck. All the kids I had was due to marriage. Yeah, and I didn't have none of my kid's own purpose, not one. Yeah. All right, So congratulations once again to Nick Cannon. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna talk about holding grudges and letting stuff go. We'll be back right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Here's a question, how long does it take you to get over a disagreement? For example, there was the notorious twenty eighteen clash between Cardi B and Nicki Minaj that ended in a tussle. We all remember this, a tussle at the New York Fashion Week party and Cardie threw her shoe at Nikki. One month later, the ladies called a truce on social media. When Nikki tweeted let's focus on positive things only from here on out, Cardie responded on Instagram with the caption, all right, then let's keep it positive and keep it pushing. So here's the question. Do any of you have a problem admitting you're wrong or calling a truth? Or do you hold a grudge for a grudge forever? I think we all know who you who you want to address this to? Share? Who should answer this? Who? Who should? Okay, cool question, I'm stam A step to the side. Do you get out to way? Yeah? We know what you this thing on? Tommy? See right there? Do you have a problem admitting you're wrong or calling a truth? And do you I'm wrong? I got no problems admitting if I'm wrong at all? Wrong? What about? Hold on? Hold on, hold on, You're not saying wrong. If I'm wrong, I ain't right right right right, right, right right, that's not this problem. Uh, it's we gotta get him round to the I'm wrong. But now when you're right, though, Tommy, when you're right, and I've seen you right on several occasions, now post the question to him now when he's right? Sure? How long do you hold a grudge? Do you hold a grudge forever? Oh? Huh? I like that? Right there? I like that right there? Are you wor mad at someone? Right now? And for how long have you been mad? I ain't mad? Nobody I ain't mad at Nobodge whatever, but I will get you up out my life though I would do that. I will get you of my life. Well, can I say this about it? I'm not really mad at anybody right now in my life. But I'll tell you right now it's three. People can't walk up on me, and the conversation can't be number Hello, master, how are you anything else? It's that would they would have to open a conversation with hello, master, how are you? And seeing us? How? No, they ain't going to open it with that. It's only cracking sight. Yeah, a doc you ain't got. But one more wrong thing to say to me about me? There are three people in this world? Four four four four, it's four. I just said, so tell me you're not mad at anyone Mudge right now? Ye name, I just quit fooling with people. That's a that's a name. Just just quick fooling. Yeah, just be to him when you're seing. We just quick fooling work. What about just one person? I'm looking for a life and I know when I see him what's gonna happen. But his name is called When I see him, tell you right now, I see call. Yeah, I don't care if he didn't know, because he knew. He told me I wasn't gonna be nothing anyway. But when I see calling, I'm telling you right there he snagger tooth. Now I'm gonna wide that gap. Ye just want him to know, Car, I said your name. Everybody know I'm looking for you. When I see you called, I'm standing right now. You're missing the two front but I'm gonna take them insides out too. Now they' know exactly who you're talking about, because even if they didn't know his name, they know, they know, they know. Wait till I see Car, and you know I'm just telling you. From the Steve Harvey Mortin Show, I know I'm looking for your I see you're the only one I got a problem with. Well, I showed mister days of not having nothing to lose many social media man, Yeah, all right, I got nothing now. Hey, coming up next, and is the nephew who is the kindler gentler nephew? Now with the prank phone call right after this? All right, Frank, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject is how far is too far with my man. All right, we'll get into that in just a bit, because right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you got for us? Now, well, let's see how far I can go. Oh, we know, exotic delivery. Exotic delivery, all right, cat dog, Let's see how far the nephew can go if you would. Hello, Hello, I am trying to reach adriaan Adria and yeah, this is this is he How can I help you? How you doing? My name is? My name is was Shot. I'm with GPT, and we have a delivery for you. I'm gonna be arriving probably in the next I guess about the next ninety minutes. Are you Are you actually at the house, sir? Um? No, I'm not at home right now, but I mean you can just go ahead and leave whatever it is my my wife and you know kids can probably get it when I'm home from school, you know. So let me make sure I got the address right, Are you thirty eight North River Drive? Yeah? Okay, So is anyone there right now at all? Uh? No, nobody is home right now. I don't understand why I can't just just leave the package there for again. Well, this has to be this has to be signed. And I have you on here as the handler for this delivery, so I definitely I gotta get quite a few signatures from you. I got about five or six pieces of paper sheets that you need to sign off on. Are you? Are you? What time did your wife get there? Sir? She'll be the lady. What do you what do you? What do you mean? I'm a handler handling? What? What are you? What are you delivering? This is GPT, sir, this is Global Pet Transport. We have two peacocks, we have a seal, and we have a baby kangaroo that we're dropping off today. Okay, there's gotta be some kind of mistake, right, we have a dog, that's it. We don't we don't. We're not an animal sanctuary here. I don't. I don't understand what what you're talking about. We didn't a kangaroo. I feel, I mean, you're you're you're you're Adrian. It's correct. Yeah that's my name, man, But okay, and you're thirty eight North River Drive. Listen, listen. Yes that is accurate. But again, I'm not a handler. I'm not handling things. Okay, okay, sir, Let me, let me if there is some confusion. Your name is here, your address is here, So I don't see where I have a problem. Everything I'm asking you, you're saying it's correct, except now you're saying you don't want your delivery. It's not my delivery. Man. If that's what I'm trying to tell you, this is not I didn't order a kangaroo. I did even order these things. Okay, a kangaroo, a seal, and two peacocks doesn't make sense, man, two peacocks? Whose order is this? This is not my order? Man? You got my name? Okay, So here, okay, so here's here's what we need to do. Will your wife be here? Would be at the house within the next ninety minutes? She she she might be. But you know, what are you saying? What I'm gonna do is leave them here, Leave them at you at your place, and you can call the company that shipped them and you can figure out what went wrong or whatnot. But it is my leave these animals there. What what what is your what's your name? Brothers? What's your name? Brothers? My name is Roshan Rashane. Let me tell you something like now, okay, you're not about to leave no animals at my house. Okay, you're not leaving no peacocks. You're not leaving no kangaroos. You're not leaving no see. Okay, we're not having them in pettant zoo at my house. When I get you. My house was shot. Ain't no animals gonna be there. Okay, Okay, you know what? Who gonna figure? Okay, listen, let me get my wife on the phone here right, let me let me call my wife. Hang on, hang on, sir. I don't listen, sir. I don't have time for you to reach out to your wife, for you to try to figure out what you're gonna do about your kangaroo, your peacocks, your seal. I don't. I gotta make this drop. I gotta keep moving. I have other animals on the truck. I don't give up about your other animals. Okay, I'm gonna hold my wife. I'm if she bade ordered to damn cable would see okay, because I know I didn't order sh all right, we're out, okay, and she's not gonna sir, listen to me. Listen to me, sir. You can figure this out when you get home. Right now. I'm now about an hour out. I'm gonna drop the animals. Can you give something, sir? If if it's not yours, somebody will come back tomorrow and pick them up. Do you mean somebody gonna come back and pick them up tomorrow? I'm not gonna have the feeling my house not able you think I am? Huh, I ain't Mary Popper's man. I ain't out here doing nothing with these animals like this. You're crazy for shot. Please, it doesn't cont animal at my house when I arrived. So help me, God, so so so help you. Goud what you're gonna have it? The animal's gonna be there when you get there. Man, you're not feeling. You're slowing up my whole delivery route today. Okay. I ain't got time for this. I ain't got term of this, man, I'm not. But why you order? Why you order of Kangaroo if you don't want it? Now? If I didn't order them to Kangaroo, that's why I don't want them to Kangoo, because I didn't order them Kangaroo. Be telling me what's out worder? What's God want? Okay? This is the worst customer service in the world. I don't even a customer of yours. You're trying to tell me that I gotta kangaroo a peacocks and peacocks. You have two peacocks. You have two peacocks, Sir, This doesn't even make any I'm gonna do with those animals. Animals. I don't know what you're gonna do with them, But you're gonna sign. You're gonna sign this paperwork through. That's what you're gonna do. You outright if you think I'm signing that pork animal, man, I don't want to whoop your ass at your house in front of your wife and kids behind some damn animals. I don't, But you're gonna sign my paperwork you want. I wish you would try to whoop my I must have show my kids what it looks like to show up. It's poks, real, reckless. Can you show it up here with a damn caravan an animal like I'm in the ridiculous Okay, huh no, got my face, man, this is ridiculous. It's only one thing. I really, just only one last thing I need to tell you, to be honest with you. What is that? The only thing I can tell you now Adrian, is that I have nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morty Show. Your white bridget got me in the prank phone call you. Oh man, you gotta be kidding me. Oh man? Who wow? You don't want the delivery man? You don't want I don't want the kangaroo. Man. What are those animals together? Man, you gotta be high up your mind. One of those damn animals together? All right? Baby, give it. Tell me what's the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Let me hear, Adrian, it's a Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby tell me. Oh this was the part well made me laughs when you turned it and said, Man, I don't want to have to come over there and whoop your ass in front of your wife and kids about these animals. Man, hold on, wait a minute, hold on, you're gonna beat my ass and then drop these animals off? What a giraffe, a seal. I'm gonna show you what. Somebody to show up at the house. I'm gonna showing my kids Tommy, a kangaroo, two peacocks, and a seal. A man was He had worked trying to talk quiet because he was kind of cold, nose man, I had to go outside. Don't none of them go together? Don't none of them go together? Seal seal, The peacocks is crazy. I hadn't been around while peacocks befall, But that seal thought, yeah, I mean, you know, at least they birds, they stay outside, they'll walk around, they'll try to get you today surround. It's right quick, But that damn seal though, that's seal rough. Clearly, I ain't got nothing for him with water. It ain't cold out of here? What was happening? Because you heard the word exotic and you thought something else. You heard the word exotic. February tier eleven, twelve, ten eleven twelve, Huntsville, Alabama, Stand Up Live Comedy Club. The Nephew is coming to town, to Huntsville, Alabama. Take his own sale, rat nass, stupid, his own the way, baby baby, All right, all right, thanking Nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letters, subject how far is too far? With my man? We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice, on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. You never know we could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now, And you never know. It could be yours, could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you here it is Strawberry letter subject how far is too Far? With my man? Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been together for two years and we've been married for six months. I'm twenty eight and he's three years younger than I am. I have a seven year old son from a previous relationship, and my husband loved him to death. I started having sex when I was in middle school, and by the time I was a senior in high school, I was running with a crew of girls and working as an escort for older men's I loved sex and couldn't get enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than my husband because of past encounters with older men. After I had my son, I stopped partying and tried to make things work with my son's father. He soon found out about my reputation and he dumped me. I joined a church, and I guess you could say I got saved. I met my new husband at church, and I played the wholesome role the whole time we dated, and I even abstain from having sex with him until we got married. My problem is there's no way for me to suppress the fire that's deep inside my soul. I loved sex and everything about it. I've tried to ease my husband into my world gradually, and he says, each time we make love, it gets better and better. I was honest about my past, well, not totally honest about the number of men I've been with or about my bad reputation. I told him I learned a lot from an older man I was dating. He says he loves the kinky things I do to him, but the other night he got offended and asked me to stop doing what I was doing. This is a problem for me because I need him to match my freakiness in the bedroom and he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far is too far with my new husband? Please advise, Well, too far with the other person is whatever they say is too far. Okay, if your husband is uncomfortable and turned off, it's time to stop. I mean, you're too much for him right now. And whatever freaky offensive thing you did for him to him, he is not feeling it at all. You don't have to do or you don't have to show him everything you've ever done in the bedroom. We get it. You love sex, we get it, we get it. You guys can still have fun enjoy each other. But you've got so much experience in him, like you said, so don't expect that he's ever going to match your freakiness. That may never happen. I say, take it slow. You got to really take it slow with your husband. I mean, I know you said, you know every time you guys make love it gets better and better. But whatever you did he didn't like. He didn't like that at all. I don't think you need to do everything or show him everything, or tell him how many men you've been within the past and all that. You don't have to do that. You have plenty of time. You know in this marriage. You guys are so young to swing from the chandeliers later. But stop doing what you're doing because because it's turning your man off, and that's gonna be a problem in your marriage if you don't, Steve, I don't know how to answer this letter because you know what she did. I have some questions about what she's doing and what she's done, and then I think I have a solution. I'm not really sure how to do this letter. I can't solve your problem. Let me just start by telling you that I've read the letter. I've heard Sherley's response. I don't really have anything for you except one thing, and I'll probably wait till the second half of this letter to give it to you. But just let me tell you something. Your past has caught up with you. You've been having sex since she was in middle school. Now you got a three year old son by your former guy that you were dating. When he found out about your past, he dumped you. You got a seven year old son that you had from your relationship with a man before. After he found out about your reputation and everything, he dumped you. You try to make it work, you stop partying and stuff, but once he found out about your reputation, he dun't jump you. Then you joined the church, and I guess you could say I got saved. Well, see that's a little shaky thing to say. I guess you could say I got saved. No, you have to tell us if you got saved or not. If you're not saved, there's no problem. Most people aren't. That's not a problem. You can still be okay. But you have to tell us that and not know. We ain't got to guess you saved or nothing. Then you met your new husband at church, and you played the wholesome role the whole time you dated, and you even sustained from having sex with him until we got married. I don't know how you marriage you, but I don't know what y'all did or something have. Anyway, my problem is there's no way for me to suppress the fire that's deep in my soul. I love sex and everything about it, you know. And then you said I've tried to ease my husband and to my world gradually, and he says, each time we make love it gets better. I don't know what to do. It's I think you got to stop easy him into it. You're just gonna have to go for it. But you got a problem because you're not You've been honest about your pass but not totally honest about the number of me and I've been with, or about my bad reputation. I don't think you need to bring that up. Leave that and you pass, young lady. I told him I've learned a lot from an older man I was dating. He says he loves the kinky things I do to him. But the other night, here we go with the whole letter, he got offended and asked me to stop doing what I was doing. That's the part of this letter we got to get to. And this is the problem with me because I need him to match my freakiness in the bad room, and he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far is too far with my new husband? Please advise when I come back well and give you a list of things that I think is too far. That's all I can help you with. I don't know what you're doing, but when we come back, I do know what too far is. Yeah, it's whatever you say, it is, all right. Part two of Steve's response is coming up to twenty three minutes after today's Strawberry letter subject how far is too Far? With my man? We'll be back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. This is a freaky one right here. The subject is how far is too far with my man? Well, this girl who's twenty eight and it's got this man that's three years younger. She's got a seven year old son from a previous relationship, and the husband loves the little boy. She admitted that she started having sex when she was in middle school and started running with a crew of girls. By the time she was in high school, there was an escort for older men. She said, I love sex and I couldn't get enough of it. I'm way more advanced sexually than my husband because of my passing honors with older men. Lord, have mercy. This story is getting more troublesome. Then, after she had a son, she stopped parting and tried to make things work with your son's father. He soon found out about your reputation. He cut you loose. So after that she joined the church and say she got saved, And she met a new husband at the church and played the wholesome love roll the whole time. And they datedn't even up staying from having sex with him until we got married, when you did something to make him want to marry you. So probably he didn't go all the way, but you can learned enough stuff to where he wanted to marry congratulation. The problem is there's no way for me to suppress the fire that's deep in my soul. This woman loves sex so much, and she's tried to ease her husband into my world. Sometimes you need to leave your worlds behind, but now you want to drag him into it. He says. Each time we make love, it gets better and better, seeing that you didn't need easy him into it now. But then you said you're honest about your past, not totally honest with the number of men you've been with. Don't ever tell him that, and don't tell him about your bad reputation. Don't tell him that. I told him I had learned a lot from an older man I was dating. He says, he loves the kinky things I do to him. Here's what this letter is about. But the other night he got offended and asked me to stop doing what I was doing. This is a problem for me because I need him to match my freakiness, which may not be possible. You've been with men since middle school. This boy right now is three years younger than you. You twenty eight, he twenty five. You're taking him too fast. He asked you the other night to stop doing something that you was doing you. That's a problem for you because you need him to match your freakiness in the bedroom and he's reluctant to go all in with me. How far is too far with my new husband? Please advise? This is all Uncle Steve got for you. I'm going to give you a short list of things that we probably don't like. That's too far. Leave them tools in the tool box, go outside in the garage, coming in here with nothing, don't don't do that that little red box. Lead that thing shut. That's probably gonna be too far. You know, there's other things I need to know. Need to know this right here. None of my openings is to be opened. Hello, I just need you to know that none of my openings needs to be open. Don't do that too far too, I'm just going I'm just telling you what we don't need. I just you know, isn't something else? Stop asking me? No, I cannot lick my own toes. I can't do that no more. I'm sixty five. If I could be in my foot up that far, it'd be a mile. Na. I can't do that. Quick asking me, I tell you something else? This too far? Nah, I don't want to be choked quick asking me. Don't ask me to be choked, and stop asking me to choke you. I don't like your ass bugging out your head like that. It scare me. I don't like that. Stop talking to me about getting choked. Please cut your damn fingernails. This is too much. That's something else that, Bobma tell you something else. I don't like. I don't like quip marks. Stop doing that to me. I do not like whips. Come on now, I've been in here with you, but you're going too damn far. Now all this hell, this is not fun. I don't like that. Stop that hurts. I want you to stop what you're doing. Another thing right here, Your tongue is too damn long. I I don't know what I was going. Took me how long say this to you? But your tongue is too Yes, it is that this goes back to some things I said earlier. But your tongue is too damn long. And now I can't walk in your stilettos. Stop strapping them on my feet. I broke two pad heels. Stop asking me that I am going to tell you that. Listen to me. I'm just gonna tell you this. Listen to me, faby, not when you're going too far. My fist is just for fighting, That's all this fault. My fist. My fist is just for fight. Okay what I all these things up and the fir hands Jesus just for fight. We get it, and I want one last thing for you. Go come on, damn it quick brighting me everywhere. I don't like all that. Not everywhere. You can leave in your comments on Today's Crazy Letter on Instagram and Facebook at Steve Harvey at that too far for check the letter was too far. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up next int is Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it's time now for Sports Talk with Junior. What you got Junior, oh Sureley over the weekend. Time to tell you right now, two quarterbacks were tired from the nfail. Let me tell you, Tom Brady, hang it up Man twenty two seasons seven Super Bowl. But I'm glad it is Houston. We are rejoicing because the reason why we couldn't win because Tom Brady centers on every single year We've never beat him in the playoff. We're so glad his ass and hung up. I'm not even you're trying to blame. Yes, yes, I'm Brady. Yes, yes, yes i am. That's why. Yes. What was the Texans football record this year? Let's not talking about we are talking about that. We just talked about the No, No, I'm I'm talking about junior. Yeah, what was the record this year? Right here? Just tell it to thirteen and thirteen? How many times did they play Tampa Bay? Oh, we didn't play this team I'm talking about in the past. Oh, y'all didn't play Tom Brady this season? No, and y'all was four and thirteen? Yeah, well, good thing. Y'all didn't players ass this year. Let me say at the second go ahead. Ben Roethlisberger also retired. He did hug it up. And I know you don't feel nothing, you don't care nothing about being Roethlisberger c You know, man, he had a great career, but he was with Pittsburgh. I hate everything about Pittsburgh except mean Joe Green and Jack Lambert, Lyon Swan and Mike Tomlin. Okay, and this explained this about this whole rivalry y'all be having. But see Cleveland, when they heard the news being Roethlisberger was hanging up this Cleis, they put this in the newspaper. This was the headline. Long time Stiller's quarterback Ben Roethlisberger retires winless against the Browns in the playoffs. That was the headline. See we're gonna say goodbye. Yeah, the great quarterback all this hill. Winless against the Cleveland Browns in the playoffs. Winless, now bye. I appreciate you having a nice ass career, but you remember last year. Don't don't you go week? Damn show. Don't do with your monk assent better much? Hey, listen to me, man, We Cleveland people, Yeah, got no time. We don't do political correctness, damn show. Not fit to do sportsmanship, No time for that, man. We ain't one since nineteen sixty. Folk, here as we find to be spokesman about. Now all right, junior, thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about closure and why some men and women leave relationships without an explanation. All right, Oh you want to miss that right after this you're listening show? All right? So, Steve, I saw this video on social media media recently of a man who was honest about why he ditched women without any explanation, any closure. I know you say men don't do closure, but he said that the woman he ghosted was either too much for him at the time and that meant to him that he didn't measure up to her. So he was trying to explain and put a button on why you know he did what he did in the past or was he looking for the past of the path of least resistance here? No, I think women have to understand something, you know, Like I've always told them, I said, you know a lot of times when a man break up with you, a woman immediately goes to or what's wrong with me? That's not always the case. A matter of fact, the majority of cases, it's not anything to do with you. It's something wrong with the men. It's just to just brother online admitted that it was him that he couldn't measure up, that he wasn't ready, that he wasn't the man for the job. And that oftentimes is the case, and the reason men don't give you closure, it's because most men are not going to admit that, and no, don't know. Man want to come to you and go, you know, look, I just I just ain't man enough for you. You too much. Some men will do it, but a lot of men have broken up with women and just went, hey, look it ain't you, it's me, and then that's it. Yeah, but it means what this brother was saying, you were too much for me. You had some requirements. I couldn't live up to your your standards were too high. I'm not enough man for the woman you are. I can't feel the job application requirements out matter. I'm not ready for that. I want a woman who's less than you. I need somebody who's just less because you just too much now. And then they go on and they find women who are less and try to have relationship with them, and women get mad because how can he just move on and starting a relationship. Maybe he found less, Maybe he you know, stop blaming yourself wrong, Stop blaming yourself. It's your life. Because a lot of women something I don't care about closure, you know, they just move on and let you figure it out on your arm. And that's usually the case, because I wrote a chapter. Men don't do closure because normally we don't. And Tommy's exactly right. The majority of time we just walk, We don't know you nothing. You work through it out and then the most a lot of men ain't gonna admit to their shortcomings. And then me and we don't feel like it's our application. I mean, and in truth, what happened to us was we didn't work. Now we ain't got to get a seat now standing here and calling you back to explain why you know what that's gonna lead into. Yeah, at that moment when you decide not to do closure and move on? What is going through your what's going through the man mind of a man? What'sn't that? Who? Who wasn't that? Yeah? Who behind you? I'm looking. Yeah, it's over. So there's no guilt, there's no remorse. No what I got well, I got to be killed. I'm are. We're getting out of something that ain't working for me and you. I'm doing you a favor. I'm getting out of here now because this ain't working. You may think it's working, but all this is arguing and all this what I ain't what you don't do? And where was you? And all this here? No no, no, no no, So you ain't got to question me no more, and I ain't got to answer the question. I'm out right free yourself from having to wonder why I'm at any more? Good. Look, And that's really how a man looks at it. And that's a clean way to get out, because if it's over, it's over. The why to high come? What happened? Why not? We ain't got We'm really look, it's over. No matter what I say, you're not gonna like the answer. So how about just no answer? And that's usually how me and look at that too. Don't we already know why we're leaving? Yeah, of course we know. Okay, let me ask you this. Did you know when you met the woman? Did you know already know that she was too much for you? Or she was above your pay grade? Or you know the signs don't show up till later. Yeah, and then and then you got to understand, y'all find this clouds out right? Say that? All right, Wow, this is good. This is good, guys. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour, right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So Steve, before we left, we were talking about men and they don't do closure. They just move on. And a lot of times it is them, or most times it is them and not the woman. Did you want to add anything to that? You were saying you already knew when you met the woman. Perhaps, well it was too much for you when we meet a woman. I don't want to say game because it isn't every man that meets you not playing a game, but game on. We now have to see what it's gonna take to win you over. Now, if it's a lot, we'll pretend to have a lot, but we can't sustain the pretense, the pretension. We just can't sustain it. And you know, like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I got myself together. I'm holding I'm strong, I'm dedicated, I'm working. And then when she keeps that pressure up, this is what I'm looking for. This is what when did you or are you still looking for a job? Did you still how's the job hunt going? How's the business going? And they're gonna cause they're gonna because women gonna ask you because women want to feel safe, and that's an important thing for a woman. She wants to feel safe, and so in you coming alonger than her life, where's the security in this relationship? So it's not that she's a gold digger or nothing like that. She just wants to feel safe. Now, we've created the term gold digger to keep you out of our pockets and keep you from talking about that money. And women are stupid from falling into that trip, let me tell you, because you want to feel safe. And so now once we find out that these safety questions is gonna keep coming, we get nervous and we back out. Good information, good information. We'll have more of a Steve Very Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after and we'll do around or would you rather right after this? You're listening to Steven show, It is time now for around? Or would you rather? Would you rather wash windows on a skyscraper? Be? Or would you rather run with the bulls in Spain? He'll be b Yeah, I'm gonna give the bulls. I'm gonna I'm gonna get I'm gonna get on, i gonna get over a wall or something. Yeah, I'm gonna push some people in front of me. I can get I can get this bull off my ass. Trip some people of Trippe show. No, no, I've seen that. Ain't no where in hell, and it's no where in hell. First of all, I'm not gonna be able to wash your window. You up there already both my hands is attached to this rope and this safety device, so we're not watching where I'm not watching you wind to know, damn. And if you look outside, all you're gonna see is it's scared ass dude. I'm kicking. I won't end. I won't end. Man, open the way. I'm gonna pee on your window. I'm telling that's all we got. We got some other stuff. What is all these stands on my window? You know what? Open this window? Hanging up in that album? Man, I'm running with the bulls man, I'm not. You can put me in an all red pajama setting, make sure they see me. I'm loving with the damn bulls man. All right, here we go. Would you rather have a full time butler for life or one hall pass a month for life? I already no, I ain't gonna get that. Gonna have to hate this butler. That's what I'm gonna have to do for life, not for the confessed, and won't the hall pass ain't yet on this radio show with that? Have you learned nothing on the show, Junior? Yeah, learned that I'm gonna go with the butler. You're gonna have a full time butler for life. Okay, Well, I passed up the hall pass. You got hold hold. Let me ask you a question, though, Do she know about the hall pass? Huh? We know know about the hall pass. That's the whole concept of the hall pad that you give the mask. Thank you? Oh no, no, I'm not not not hell no, hell, I'm not gonna hear that every month. It's gonna, it's gonna that's who it's gonna. Yeah, it's the fifteenth who you're picking now her? All right, here's the last one, last one. Would you, guys, rather tell the truth for thirty days, tell the complete truth, no lies thirty days, or wear a lace front wig for thirty days call me ki looking like Rue Paul front. All right, coming up our last break of the day and some closing remarks from the one in the Yeah you're listening to the show, All right, guys, here we are our last break of the day. This is it a good day? A good day. Yeah, I've enjoyed it. What about you, guys? Yeah? Yeah, Oh, Judge Steve, Hello, yeah, tonight again, appreciate the support and love everybody watching George Steve on ABC eight pm Eastern, seventh Central, or you can stream it live on Hulu TV. Steve, that show is turning out, you know, Hulu, just more than I even thought it would be. I mean, it's so good, it's so compelling, it's so funny, it has all the elements in it comedy, you know. I mean, it's heartfelt, you do good. It's just a great show, it really is. I'm so happy for you. I'm so sorry. It's such a blessing, man, because you know what makes this show such a blessing is behind the scenes things. You know, I did a few weeks ago, my favorite couple of weeks ago, my favorite clothing remarkables to my haters, but in particular, you know, I've been in television a long time, man, I really have. I've grown a fan base in television. That's really when I look at my career, it's not a lot of people can say they've had the longevity and the success that I have. I'm not the biggest person ever in television, not by a long shot, but when it comes to being able to have a presence on TV and in so many different ways and formats, I've been really blessed man and graced by God to probably cover more types of shows than anybody. And one of the blessings behind the Judge Show was was the failure of two other shows. And it wasn't that the shows failed. The numbers were good. Little Big Shots was a hit, My talk show was doing well. Nothing was wrong with it. Dude, they have bad numbers? Are nothing. Somebody in the higher ups made a decision, and the decision was not only am I going to cancel this show, I'm gonna get rid of his TV career. That decision was made and I got winned about it. And I remember one time somebody asking me to fly to New York and just have a meeting to talk to them about staying on the air and saving the show and make some promises. And I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't do it, and I just stood fast. And the thing I've learned I was telling the crew earlier, I was listening to something online and I saw some actors gathering. One of them was Jamie Fox and a couple of other people, and one of them was Tom Hanks. And Tom Hanks said something. That question was something to the effect of, if you could tell your twenty year old self something that you wish you known, what would you tell yourself? And Tom Hanks said, this tool shall pass. And I sat down and I thought about that. Man, do you know how important of a message that is to get through your head? This tool shall pass. No, I mean, man, Look, even when you're on top of the mountain, this two shall pass. You ain't gonna stay up there. Even if you gotta hit show, it ain't. It can't stay on TV forever. And this tool shall pass. If you're in the bottom of the valley and you'd fail so low that it seems hopeless for you, this tool shall pass. All of it. The fatigue you feel, this tool shall pass. The lack of understanding you're getting from yourself and people, This too shall pass. So all the moments in my life. Tom Hanks said, this too shall pass. It passes. And when they got rid of those two shows, I was in the process of learning through experience of my life that everything that happens to me has happened in the order that God wanted to, whether I agreed with it or not, whether I understood the process or not I did. I finally came to the realization that everything God allows to happen to me is in preparation for something. I asked for. The cancelation of the Steve Talk Show and the cancelation of Little Big Shots all at once, And if you look at those numbers, those shows were doing wonderful. That decision came from somebody who was on a mission to get rid of me, that's all. It was pure and simple. And I don't say their names. I ain't got to say nothing. It's cool you did what you did, but this too shall passed. But little did I know that was all in preparation to clear the path hathway for me to accomplish some other things. So little did I know. Now I had the time to go to Africa and do family Feud and put on two seasons of the number one show on the continent. Little did I know that I now had a little bit more time to travel the world and increase my global brand and persona. I didn't know that's what God was doing, but he was clearing the way from me. And then lastly, next thing, you know, and I did that I had created twelve years ago, mentioned it in a pitch meeting, and ABC said, we want that show. I created the show, I owned the show. I'm the executive producer of the show, and I'm the star of the show. And that's the new Judge t Show. And guess what. Had I still been doing what I was doing, I would not be in this position today. This too shall pass. That's the grace of God Almighty. And you see me not taking no credit for this, because I didn't set this one up. He set this one up. See y'all to malle. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.