Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all back a suit, looking back to back down, giving them like theming bu things and it's not true good Steve has to mother for star, don't join Jo. You gotta turn hur, you gotta turn to turn them out, got to turn them out, to turn turn the water the water. Come, come on your thing, I show will good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voss Come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, keep saying it can't stop. Man, oh man, oh man, what a journey it has been. I thank God for every single step of the way. I learned to thank him for the bad times too, because it taught me something. All the bad times, all the failures, they became valuable experiences in my life. Every time I failed, I learned a little bit more about getting up. Every time I was told no, it moved me one step closer to yes. It made me stronger, it tough in my skin. It made me learn how to deal with haters. It made me learn how to deal with people who don't have your best interests at heart. Man, ain't y'all all out there feeling me on this one right here. It teaches you who is who in your life. It shows you who you can depend on and who you can't. And at the end of the day, what it's taught me most of all my hardships in my life, and it's really about me and God. That is the one factor that has been never changed in my life. God has always been the same for me and for you and for all of us. His word is true. It don't waiver, it don't shake. You can shape it, readjust it if you want to. It is really the way it's written. It really is. You have your version of it if you want to. But if you just read it the way it is, it's real clear. Ain't no loopholes in it. Every time you jump through a loophole, that's something over that written that that counters that. So it's what I want to get to today. Listen to me. You got it within you, Oh it's there, Just use it. Listen to me close. You got it within you. Oh it's there, Just use it. If you hear me clearly, I'm really fit to show you something this morning. You got it within you, Oh it's there. Just use it, Steve, what you're talking about. See, here's what's wrong with a lot of people. Here's who's stopping so many people. You keep looking. We keep looking for others to save us. We keep looking for someone else to rescue us. We always looking for some group of people or somebody to accept us. We keep looking for someone else's approval. We always looking for some group or somebody to deliver us, somebody, some group of people to give us credibility, somebody or some group of people who says we matter. We spend so much time right there, and when the cavalry don't come over the hill, when there ain't no saving and ain't no deliverance, and then you don't get accepted, and and don't nobody really come to save you, and the don't nobody vouching for you and giving you credibility. It throw you into something now, you into this little state of man. I don't know what I'm gonna do. Oh you got it within you? Oh is there? Just use it? You want to know what the real deal is, y'all? It's you and God, and it's the God in you. Man. I wish I could explain this right to you today. I want you to feel me on this right here, and when you shake everything out the way, get rid of all your expectations of people. The relationship you thought was gonna last forever, that didn't make it, the child that you wanted to be, this that turned out to be that, your friend you thought was your friend, that stabbed you in the back. You found out they wasn't the job you thought was gonna keep you and you'd retire on they didn't close down, gave you a pink slip. All of this, man, that death promised that somebody told you they was gonna loan you this money, and on loan day they say they ain't got it. Oh man, oh man, on man, this money you thought was gonna come through on this check, the check ain't there? Oh man? How many disappointments in life can you get? You thought you had enough credit. I was to graduate. You found out two weeks before you didn't. You can't grat all this, hit man, what's gonna happen? Man, look at the disappointment in my life right now. But let me explain something to you. When you get rid of all of that, guess what you really got? You got God, that's the whole enchilada. Baby, that's the ball of wax. That's the monkeys in the barrel, that's the bag of chips. Listen to me. If you got God, do you understand that that's sufficient, That that's all you need. Can you feel me now? You and God and the God in you, it's really what you need. Stop looking for all these outside sources for approval, to gain acceptance, to get credibility, somebody to save you. The cavalry coming over the hill. Why won't they recognize me? Why I won't they give me closure? Why they fire me? Why they foe closing on my house? Don't they know I'm laid off. When you get through it all, it at whining, It's gonna come down to you and God and the God in you. If God created man in his own image, God is a part of you, that is a peace of you. That's godly. I don't care who you are. I don't care what mistake you made. The murderer that's sitting in jail today because of a moment in his life that he's now paying for, has God in you? The biggest criminal When he gets through criminalizing or whatever you want to call it, he's sitting there by hisself. That is a peace of God in him that lets him know this ain't the way. This wrong. You can love his money if you want to put you out of line, and you're gonna pay at the end of the day, when I get through on this microphone, on this TV, all these articles, when I get through it, all of that, or to come down to because see, it ain't always been this way for me. Yeah, I've been trying to get here, trying to get that. Listen to me. It's been me and God and it's been the God in me. When I woke up a few years back and I realized that's really what it was, it changed my whole life. It changed my whole life. Your whole life can get changed when you realize that it's really you and God and the God in you. Really man. People disappoint you, You argue with people, You fall out with people, You break up with people, You divorce people. You got people who you thought was friends, all of a sudden you find out they're talking about it's crazy out here. You've been going, what's going on? What's really going on? But that's because guess what you got all yours banked on them? When you're gonna banking on the one thing that you can count on. God's word ain't changing. We got him. It's solid. If you pray, believe, work hard, don't doubt you get whatever you ask for. That's a fact that ain't no rumor. Speaple out here doing it every day. Now, if you ain't trying that, listen to me. You got it within you. Oh it is there. You just got to use it. There is a weapon available to man called prayer. Use that. See. I look at my life, man, whenever I get a little shaky, I look back. Or hey man, I ain't really talk with him too much yesterday. Oh tightened up. I'm just telling you real. You got a better answer. Oh oh, oh, I know what. Oh, oh my bad, Steve. Now, Steve, I ain't winning cause they ain't get me the loan or naw, Steve, I ain't winning because she left me. He left me. I ain't winning, Steve, because I got steck with these kids. I got a divorce. They fired me. How they foreclothes on my home. That's why I ain't winning. You ain't winning because you ain't praying. You got to pray and believe in work. That's the key. Come on, man, you got it within you. Oh it's there. You just got to use it. It's just you and God and it's the God in you. And what y'all gonna do about that? You're listening morning? Whoa two one, two three four? I got it? Uh, look at Hill? I got it? What you talking about? I got it? Wait a minute, look at Hill? I got it? Go ahead now one more time I said I got it. I wrote the song by myself. I got it. I didn't need nobody to help. I got it. He get it by myself. I got it everything. Don't rhyme, I got it. Mike missing next time? I got it? Dug it is on your mind? I got it? Yeah, yeah, ain't I got it? Does it hit right there? Thing anymore? Everybody? Rocke Walla just want to saw me to do the Ladd hit that he wrote. I got it. I wrote that by myself, and that way it can be normal or distribusual rights or publishing clears. It all is here. I gotta remember where you heard it from. Go ahead, do you take it away? That a little new hit? Be looking forward on album? You can look forward on Spotify, you can look forward on PANDORNELM. You can look forward all all the streaming devices and everything. Bert BlackBerry, I'm gonna be on Everything's gonna be on, gonna be on gm Oble, it gonna be on all you can get it down there, Kama, you can buy right next to the track. Ford gonna call it so Roscoe. We could say Alexa play, I got it. You say it's gonna be on Alexa. It's gonna be sorry, it's gonna be all of the Sidary. It's gonna be on her too. It's gonna be there. I'm Roscoe Wallen. Came y'all tuning in the motor um Roscoe Wallace. I'm the greatest on the songwriter producer single all time, the greatest loud single. I'm a born created Moden music. And they're just wanted to stop me and say good morning to you. Go ahead, Junior, Roscoe. What's going on with the case? Remember he was in the lawsuit that you know, the case took a horrible turn. They all do, took a horrible turn. Judge. What happened? Well, you know, my buddy got tight. I was fighting it as long as I could. REB gave me a all they gave me a public defender. Oh this white man ain't no runner to hit. I was just looking upside of his head out of here asking me question like no talking about something? Who is up? Sex? Ad me? Who the hell is Maxwell? Tom about heat? Thought it would coffee. I said, you don't get your head about He thought Maxwell would comment we had all kinds of pro communication. So when did it represent yourself? Well? When in the coat? We got in the augument the coat and I slapped him in front of George and the George, me and the whole case out. My bad head is right. We gotta go ros this story coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour. Nephew, Tommy's run that prank back right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it's time to get your morning started again. Would run that prank back and the nephew what you got now? I want my money back? Yeah, dog? If you would lean hello, I need to speak to Suster Felicia sou I okay, who is this? This right? Here? Is Glenn? All right? This is Glenn. I need this is brother Glenn. Can I speak to Suster Felicia? But I have complease. Okay, sir, how did you get my number? I got to a number form one of the deacons at the church. Okay, what deacon was that? I don't even know the deacon name. I'm out. Listen what I'm trying to ask you. I'm trying to ask you. Can you reimburse me for some money that I put in church on Sunday? Okay? Well, can you just calm down just a little please, sir? I'm look. Are you the financial person at the church? Yes? I am. Well what can I do for you? I'm trying to get my money back that I put in church on Sunday. I put one hundred dollars in church on Sunday and I'm trying to get my one hundred dollars back. Okay, what did you not get from your heart? I gain from my heart what I thought was gonna happen, but it didn't happen. Okay, help help me, help you what you mean did what didn't happen? What didn't happen? Sir? Okay, Pastor wasn't there, Goaster was not there on Sunday, and y'all had this guest minister come in who I ain't like him at all. But the dog on the offering was before he even got up to preach, So I didn't already gave my offering, which was one hundred dollars, And then I didn't even know Pastor wasn't. Now you know what I'm saying. So here I am giving one hundred dollars. I'm thinking, I know I'm gonna get the word when Pasta there. But y'all put this dude up. He coming from Don't nobody come from the Book of Ruts no more. He was at Ruth the Viticus. He was all over the place. I want to get my hundred dollars back. I ain't given to that, sir. Do you not read the bulletin? I mean, how often do you even come to church? I come to church often. I mean, what does got to do with any time? But if you were coming up often to read the bulletins, so you would have known that Pastor took a vacation. He took a vacation, so so everybody knew he wasn't gonna be there, yes, or the regulars, the people that come regular the church, they know that, sir. Okay, Well, I didn't know that, so I need I need to get I need to get my money back. Okay, what I need you to do? Though, it's calmed down. I'm coming. I'm just trying to say I want to get my hundred dollars. I'm not giving that sermon I got on Sunday. I'm not giving one hundred dollars for that. Well, sir, I cannot give you one hundred dollars back, Okay. We don't do no refund checks. I can't do that. Okay. I have to wait your paths to get back in because two people have to sign the checks. I can't even do that for you, sir. Matter of fact, I'm not even at work right now. Okay. So I'm not gonna give my one hundred dollars back. Okay, sir, Why don't you just call the church on tomorrow and then we can go from there. Okay, I'm not calling. I'm not calling the church tomorrow. I'll tell you what. You know what you know what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna come up there tomorrow and you're gonna give me my one hundred dollars. Either it's in a check or it's in cash. But you submister, our sister Felicia Pallison. You're gonna give me my damn money. Get care? I say, what did you just cuss me? I just told you that come tomorrow, I'm coming up there to get my damn hundred dollars. Whether it's in a check or whether it's in cash, I don't care what it see. Let me tell you something, sir. You ain't get nothing from us. You call him cost me asking for some money back. You done, man, You're giving your money from your heart and done, not a hard death preaching the word of God. You get because you love God. But you ever thought to me like that, I'll stepped you naked him. And you know what, you better be glad this ain't twenty years ago, because I'll accust you from a cuzzy. But he's saying, because you know what, I ain't no custian. But I tell you what I will do, young man. I see you what you say your name is again, I'm brother Grin, brother Glenn. When I see you, I'm gonna give you what the fellowship? Do you hear me? Do you come up from something? Because that's how you can't Gods people. You have been talking to me, Ignes since I picked up the phone. You ain't say Hi, man, ain't doing man? Can't having that? Make you just start? Comes and hide at me. You don't talk to people like that. You don't even sound like a Christian. I should don't do that. Don't you hear me? By now? You want some some people? You ask? That's what the words that you have? Not because you ask? Not you don't call your holing at me? Don't you hear me? I can't hear you come call you're cussing at me? Oh Lord help me? Can I, sister Felicia? Can I play? I mean, I just want to say something else? Tell you your man? Can I say something? You can't say nothing to me? But do you know what you need to do? Go get you some man? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes ma'am. But I but it's one more thing I just wanted to say to you. Ain't no, ain't no one more thing, Okay, But I just I just wanted to tell you this, sister Folician. I want to told you you ain't got to tell me, yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am, But I want to say this though. This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your girlfriend, sister Doris got me to prank phone call you. Oh who I am going to get Doris? Oh yes, I am Tommy, Yes all you no, no ma'am, no, ma'am. Stevens out of here with me. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm gonna need to have a prime And Mama was the do Yeah, I got to be private cat. Nobody here, but I got to share with her. Yeah, it's gonna just be me her and the lost. The police she's holdays, she say, my girlfriend is blessed, highly favored, saved, And she said, I want you to see if you can push her. But I didn't since the police and you you you wrote it out. I'm gonna tell you, but but you let me ask you something though. Twenty years ago, you you you, it had been a little different. Oh, twenty years ago. I had to pick you up and dropped you back down, looked at you and walks all you after I got to cussing you out. But that was twenty years ago. Thank the Lord for the liver. Who oh, my legs shaking, hings the police. I gotta ask you, what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Oh, I must say the Steed Harvey Morning Show. What me world's greatest stupidity? Is nephew telling me all right, world's great bats. Oh, there's there's a lot that want to want to stand up to want to wait. Wait, what did you say, Junior love that world's great talk about world's greatest stupid? Only only great stupid? No group of y'all, I'm the world's greatest began? Have you coming up next? Asked the CELLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey and the building for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment News fifty cent asked Oprah and Tyler to apologize to Monique because he's an her career. Yep, yep, yep. I was going to see her back for one uh. Also in trending Entertainment News, what Jesse Smollett is released from jail. He just got in there. Wait a minute. We're gonna talk about all of these stories at the top of the hour, but right now it is time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. CHRISTI and Southfield says, my boyfriend and I broke up because he doesn't understand that he can't have a female best friend. I may be scared or scarred, I should say, because I slept with a longtime friend of mine and that made me a firm believer that men and women can't be that close without crossing the line. Did I do the right thing around my tripping? Well, I've said it a hundred times on this show. I don't see the benefit of it. I don't know how it how it's going to work. I've seen it cause way more problems than I have be a benefit. Now you can say you can do it, but I'm gonna tell you right now, if the man finds the woman attractive, he's gonna be able to stand that lane. He can't stand that lane. We got were guys. We can't get stuck on the elevator together ten minutes it's high, can't have a sious talks about your love life, none of that. Can't hold you and comfort you, none of that. And what friends do we get? You're a friend, you're my friend. That's what you think. That's what you think, that's what we want you to think. Slip up and see what we bet You've never been my friend all along. It's what you're saying. Ever, it's gonna be some sexy consoling. I'm just telling you you talk about me and you should. No. No, no, I'm just talking about men and women in general. No. So you've never been my friend, my best friend. Can nobody like you like that? Just be your damn friend? Where on this show? Yeah? What? Why do men like to be in the friend zone? You married your ego, right, so you're married. That's different. You ain't. Marrid watched it on Christie looking over the balcony with somebody behind you. So to Christie, she's not tripping. She's right. He cannot have a female best friend. I'm moving on the coda In Atlanta, Coda says, I'm a newly wed and my husband is a basketball coach for a community team. He was supposed to be at a game on the other side of town last Saturday, but I walked up on him at a restaurant with some of his players. Why couldn't he call to tell me he was done early and asked me to join them for dinner? Why because it's a basketball team meeting? Yeah, dinner, won't wife? Or you wasn't at the game. What you want to be at the celebration? Mad at him? Fault. He was with his players at a restaurant. That's what coaches do. It's part of the team. Coda. You're tripping. He you can't go everywhere? Did that didn't have a lane? You have a lane? Oh? Want you down at the gym? Be quiet, shilly, You don't see this day. You don't see this. I'm just saying. I mean, I get that, you know he wants to hang out with the players, but he could have just called her and said, you know whatever, because she was expecting him to be someplace else. That's where's your consideration. Well, you rolled up on him and you found out what he was really doing. What's the big deal? And he wasn't doing nothing wrong lying, He wasn't for what her when y'all he went the boys, Yeah, but shopping is different when y'all shop, y'all. As for consideration to buy, y'all, y'all know every day he wouldn't ask you question. Shirley time for y'all. Nobody agreeing on this one. Uh all right. Titian silver Spring says, I'm at this cute guy at a house party and we exchanged numbers and he walked me to my car. While we were walking, he passed gas loudly and he said he couldn't wait to get that out. I was horrified, horrified, but he acted like it was normal. He's called me since then, but I haven't called him back. Should I go out with him? He's way molding that where that called from? That's that's on the first initial date. He ain't had no problem with that girl. He got so much stuff he can't wait to do that. That's just the car man. Yeah, you get up in that house. You ain't gonna leave what's up in there? That boy, that boy on the ears the day, If that's his putting his best foot forward, if that's his best first impression, you ain't here for a rude awakening lady the way, Yeah, how do you? How are you walking with a woman in past gusts loudly and you say I couldn't wait to get that out? Like we cool? Like that though? Cool? He didn't even try to play it off for nothing. I can't even do that in front of my partner, My dude, Yeah, it's a respect. Oh yeah, he didn't even do it. Say get down, they shoot. He's saying nothing something, so he's nasty, all right, Maurice, and Jolliett says, I'm twenty five. I'm dating a beautiful girl that is very self centered. It's all about her all the time, even during sex. If she is done, then we're done. And I've had many sleepless nights because she won't allow me to finish. I'm not very experienced in this area, So help me out. Is this normal for a woman to control this? No? Dog, get out now? Yeah, he's finishing and you ain't. And and that's just it. Yeah, it normally go the other way. If it's going this way, right here, you and for a life of disappointment. I'm gonna tell you right now. This is my strong suggestion to you, because you and all y'all dating strongly suggest I got it, she beautiful, got all that. I recommend this, Hi, did you get yourself aside chick? That highly recommend You're gonna let you finish, boy boy, and tell her what your problem is and watch the show boy you ain't gonna be tell how many times you're gonna get to finish side chick. I've never recommended that before, but you never have side chick get to finish just because she's self centered and you know she likes to move on. I've had them for less reasons than that show. So yeah twenty one, Yeah, yeah, Steve, Steve, can we talk? What talk? He's gonna hang in there with her because she's beautiful. All right, thank you, Cello. Coming up next, we'll have some entertainment news at the top of the hour. Right after this. You're listening to This Day Morning show. Okay, Well, fifty cents says he's on a mission to boost Monique's career. As we told you. Monique, of course, is accused Oprah. She's accused Tyler and Lee Daniels, the director of blackmailing her, black balling her, I should say not blackmailing. Those are two different things. Blackballing her in Hollywood. Now, fifty cent thinks it's time to let by guns be by guns. He wants to let things go. Tommy fifty says, I'm sure you know how you don't like to let things go Monique. We love Monique. I'm sure Oprah and Tyler would not want to continue to allow their influence to damage Monique's career. And this has gone on too far okay for far too long, wrote in the caption of a video post explaining the situation. He says, so now will be a great time to apologize, because I'm gonna put her back on. After the post, Fifty spoke with Tyler and posting an update. Tyler said he would never tell anyone not to hire Monique and he is happy that he decided to work with her. He also said that Tyler couldn't speak for Oprah, but he is sure Oprah is fine with Monique and has even brought her up for things Monique has no idea about. Tyler went on to say, I'm so happy for Moe right now, and we're happy too. That's what That's what's going on. She's getting back on. That's good though. Good, Let's move on. Yeah life, Yeah, Hey, So I saw fifty. I went to Houston Rockets game versus Phoenix last night, and you know, fifty lives in Houston. So fifty was sitting courtside and the announcer went over to him and said, hey, I got something for you. So the announcer for the game had him look up at the mascot. You know how they have the there's a bear that's a mascot for the Rockets. He was muscular. He had on the tank top was hanging upside down from the ride. You like it, and and the mascot was hanging upside that redid the whole man. Everybody was cracking up, the players, Chris Paul, Jalen Green. It was funny. It was really really funny. That sounds funny. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, welcome yeah. Loving the show, uh Power the Forest with Tommy, I love it, I love it, I love it, Yes, and other entertainment news. Jesse Small lets out. A judge found that because jesse H's offenses were non violent, the court would allow him to be released on a one hundred and fifty thousand dollars individual bond during his appeal. Now, under the terms of the one ivon, he won't have to actually pay unless he skipped his court court dates, So that's another good thing for Jesse Naturally, Special Prosecutor Dan Webb opposed Jesse's release. The way he sees it, there was no emergency that warrants the extraordinary relief of staying the sentence. He went on to say that jesse didn't provide any real proof that he was in real danger and used a curse cursory woefully undeveloped argument okay, that all of its art were underdeveloped. I don't know, whatever it was. Whatever it was, he didn't like his arguments and saying they weren't enough to keep him out of jail. Uh to or to sway the court and the state's response to the motion for relief. Either way, Jesse Smallutt is free. All right, how was your week? Jesse? When somebody asked him that, well, I was in jail. I was out of jail. Yeah, because I thought the punishment did not fit the crime. It was way too much. So good for him. Yeah, I don't think this period. Yeah, and I hope it's learned something right through this whole ordeal. You know, don't lie on, you know, come on, just get it together. We're glad you're out of jail. But were glad you out? Yeah? Well, why do you say it's too much? It's just too much. It's so many crimes going on in the country. This is this is really minor compared to everything else is going on. How many more crimes we got going on in this country? Just want more attention than this? Yeah, yeah, in this country out of this country. It's a lot going on in the world. YEP. I agree with you the same, Mandela. We needn't hit from the Civil Rights Act. Come on here about a footland? Same and what else was some But yeah, if you if you, if the time doesn't fit the crime and he's free, then that's good news. I do. I do understand that there's also other men, other people women in jail that aren't innocent, that didn't get the attention, the media attention that Jesse got ya and they're still behind bars. We got hash hashtags Free Jesse. Yeah, yeah, yes, he would watch no. And what I don't like about it is that they're people that are victims of racial crimes and all that stuff, you know, every single day, every single day, and then he used this particular situation to his advantage. That's what I don't like. It. Still didn't deserve the amount of time he got. But I don't like that that he he didn't kill nobody. I don't hear. I don't like that at all. Yeah, and that's why I say, yeah, I hope he learned something from this experience. And I'll get somewhere and sit down, try to revive your career, Jessie. And what did this from what we all think that this steam the attention that he was trying to get why he staged it in the first places, that we empire, empire And yeah, negotiations, Yeah, all right, coming up next, we do not have to turn our clocks back. What no more daylight saving time. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening. Well, guys, some good news. Congress, you now animously pass the Sunshine Protection Act. What is the Sunshine Protection Act? Well, it is a measure that would make daylight savings time permanent across the US next year. And yes, right, yes, and this would ensure Americans would no longer have to change their clocks twice a year. But but but the bill still needs the approval from the House and the signature of President Joe bite Law I never please sign this. If this is something you can do, no more switching clocks, more daylight hours, which is what we all love to spend outside after school, after work, more smiles. This is what we get um with permanent daylight savings time. This is Senator Ed Markey of Massachusetts saying this. He is the originator of the original co sponsor of the legislation. So what do you prefer, guys, you prefer spring forward or fall back? Like you know, sleeping, Yeah, yeah, more daylight? Yeah, so, oh, golf time. You know. I was listening to the lady that was presenting the build on TV the other day, and she said, it just doesn't make sense for all of us to have to lose an entire hours of sleep and rest just to spring this clock forward. That's ridiculous. So many people have lost an hour for no reason. We like it coming fun, just trying to come some more daylight. Yeah, it's one damn hour. It's oh we up now? Yeah? Yeah, yeah. I remember growing up in Yeah, in Chicago, it was like dark at four thirty dark. He got dark at four thirty up day. I was concerned, Yeah, thirty especially because man, it gets when that sun leaves, that cold just comes. It's wicked. It's dark and wicked. Yes time, my grandmother fall asleep on me every time, and get done. I can't hold no conversation and nothing. She's and then you know, Joyce called and right in four thirty thirty, but it's early, but it's late because it's dark. Look, you're gonna have a natural loss of sunlight every anywhere because of the rotation of the earth and all of that. You're gonna have a natural and I on top of it. ND make no damn dark at five to six o'clock. Yeah, cool, let's do it. It'll happen next year. So this is cool. Yeah, Congress can come together on that. They can't vote on that. Voting right back, I know thet thing, the little thing. Oh, they're gonna vote that. End you can have your daytime breath. So junior, what's your grandmother say again? And then you know, Joyce that came about. End all thirty five so certain, all right? Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine Steve. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time now to check Steve's voicemail. And if you would like to leave Steve a boy'smail, all you have to do is call eight seven seven twenty nine Steve. You could he hear your message on the air with us. It's just that simple, okay, So Steve, you're ready for our listeners. This caller wants to ask the clo a question. What's going on, Steve Harvey got a question for you? So, um, kind of in the dam a little bit in my relationship. So I wanted to propose for my woman, but um, I went to another woman for advice. Yeah. No, probably not the best of the situation. So um, there was a little a bit of you know, blirting going back and forth between lady and uh. My woman accused me of having some type of relations with it lady. Um, I wanted to do it as a surprise and not teller. But you know, we moved on from the situation. But it seems like every now and then the topic comes back up, and I was wondering, how can you help me out? Thank you well bro. As far as the subject coming back up every now and then, that's forever. Yeah, we don't, don't. I don't have a real answer for you on let that one is. Fuck ever, it will come up at some of the most inappropriate moments, but I will I will tell you, uh, every year on that day that it came up before the elephant minded women that they all will remember that exact day. If you had on a white shirt that day, every time you had on a white shirt, sh bring it. If one anybody has a name that starts with the same letter as the Carol you went over to get advice from, she'll bring it up. So the bringing it up, bro is gonna be forever. I do think you should move on with the proposal because in your mind it was a mistake you made, and you found out that you didn't need anybody's advice on you because the love you have for her, it's unexplainable and for anybody else to even try to understand it, it's just mind blowing to you. And you've learned that your love is much deeper than a conversation with another female and wife. And interject that into the relationship and you will foreverhol your relationship as a two handed circle from now on. Let the church say, hey, many many man, but I did. That's the same thing you told Carolyn though. But it's all right, Uncle Steve. Uncle Steve just helped you out. Brother, paying no to the ladies because your problem is Hello, this color appreciates you, Steve. Let's hear what they have to say. Hey, Steve, you know I listen to you all the time. My name is Nicky, and you know when I listen to you. You make me so so much better, you know what, because I have everything everybody against me where I live at and my family and everything like that, and just listening to you and your comb I just feel feel I feel feel good. It's just like you just make my days. You make mine, my dad, my job, when I'm driving in my cause everything. And I just listen to you. Thank you because when you say the spiritual things in the morning, I listen to what I'm like. What I listen to wordp just can and it's just to be about me with haters, envy, jealous. And I'm a single woman. I'm fifty three years old and I live by myself and I love I love God. I love God so much. Like get up in the morning, I say, got you fast on my house, thank you, and just the evilness I kid and I'm just so tired of it. But I'll just say every time I hear you and the crew there, I love you. Keep up the work by by oh wow. I have to give all that credit and honor to God Almighty because God places things on me to say. I'm not always even responsible for saying it. I'm be honest with you. A lot of times I don't know what to say, and then I'll lower my head and ask God to give me something. So I have to give all that credit and honor to God. That that part you see of me, that good part, that's that's the part that I allow God to reside and the Holy Spirit to take over for me. So that's all God. I thank you for recognizing that portion of the God in me, and hopefully I'll have more of that to be shown. I'm working on that though, because there's a large percentage of me that's not really a day. If you want to leave Steve a message, call his voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve, we just might play your message on the air. Coming up next, it is a frank phone call for today from the nephew. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today. The subject the backseat and the barbershop. We'll get into that find out what that's all about, and just a little bit. But right now it is the nephew and the frank phone call which you got for its nept today as you're not last. Yeah, you know that always kills me. Bought me this glove may have healing? How Which way is I could do any movie? That's the one I want to do? All right, then let me pay. Let me play three people? Which way is up? Preach old man and myself? Which got it? We'll pack? If you're listening to me, I could pull it off if you let me have every baby? Which way is up? The room? Matey? All right? This right here, buckle up and get ready, y'all. This right here is lunchtime. Dave, lunchtime, Dave cat dog. If you hood love, Hey, I'm trying to speak to uh, to speak to Alan. It is Alan. Who's this? Hey? Alan? Yo? This Derek Man took us out. Bro. You are Rachel's Rachel's husband, right, yeah, yeah, that's all. What's something wrong? No? No, no, no, no no no. I work this like I said this, Derek Man. I work with your wife Rachel. Right, you used you're a supervisor or something. I mean you just this about work something. I mean she's doing a good job and everything she ain't better. Oh no, no, no, everything is straight. Man, Ain't nothing wrong with the job. Everything's cool. At the job. This this right here, man is like what I know this man? And if you know, it just seems like every single day, you know, while she's on her lunch break, it seems like, you know, you would call all and and and uh and then blocked up the whole hour of a lunch break. And actually, you know, just be real, man, I'm just trying to come correct with you. It just seemed like you just cut in on all the time that I have that I had with her. Well you know, well whoa whoa whoa wa hold hold hold up on me, hold up, hold up, broke way you what are you doing at lunch with my lady? Sons? Like I said, you know, we just we're just spending time, you know, doing lunch time. But it just seems so rude, you know that rude rum rude you you okay. First of all, that's my lady. Okay, I can call her whenever the I feel like calling that. That's what I pay for that phone deal. I bought that iPhone five. I could get that calling whenever about please all right. Secondly, you ain't got no business being with a married woman alone at lunch. This ain't no date. You're supposed to be at work. No, we Alrea at work, we call saying we call workers. You know, it seemed like half the whole time I'm sitting in front of her. You know, we're supposed to be having lunch together, and she talking to you the whole Uka. What's what's your name? Be? Getting my name there? Derek? Derek? All right, Derek, you work at the same building, now, okay? You you would work right now? Huh yeah? I mean yeah, I'm here at the job and y'all work in the same flow. Because I can Finn to come and see you kas about to jump off way way different for you straight up. Okay, So don't let me answer something. Man, what is a big deal? I'm just string Okay. You look like you don't see her. You look like you don't see her when she gets home, you know. So why is it so important that you waste a whole hour of lushine holding up and you wasted ain't I'm talking to my lady, Okay, you understand that. Why don't you go out there and then you ain't got to worry about sitting up in front of me. Lady, that's my wife. I walked down the hour with that, we got kids, we got a house. We take care that. He helped me hold it down. On this you you you ain't you know it's like you you don't ever want to come in and do but they got so I've always want to come into somebody else's wife. And why won't you do this? Take take take this vice and see what it works, how it works for you. Go to club, church, library, grocery stole, wherever. Find your that and you get you a chick. You gave her for a minute, you call her for a minute. You wrote man stuff for a man. That's what real men do. You know what I'm saying. That's what I did. That's how I got my Rachel. That's the that's my heart. You're trying to sit up there in front of lunch with us every day for the past year. I'll tell you what, bro, It may not be today, it may man be the marrow, but soon soon you're gonna see me me. You're gonna have none of this phone conversation. It's gonna be a face to face you do through all of saying, Man, I ain't trying to come between y'all at all. All I'm done, Okay, Like I'm saying I'm not trying to come between y'all. I'm just saying, it's every day you call it man, What do you want life to pose? To talk to every guy day? That's what I really dude. You know what I most about that because you was you ain't no real all you know about it trying to highlight something, treat you don't know what it is to play. Didn't work like a real man, dude, to actually hold down a home, pay the bills, everything, the family, the kidsen, fixing the yards and fences, and you don't know nothing about that. All you know about it. You know, wife can't even go to work without like you, trying to step ahad. And I don't mean no guy because but it's okay. Like I promise you, I wanna be there. You're gonna see me, and I'm gonna see you. You know, I'll tell you what this is house, this gonna go. It may not be the Knight, but it's definitely not gonna go past tomorrow. Between now and then, you're gonna see me and I'm gonna see you, and I can't what's what's your say? Heard me? I would come see yo by tomorrow son. I mean you, Derek. That's your name, right, Derek? My name is yeah, you don't I always want to be both smiling facing my wife's face. I'm gonna do Rachel when I see it. She can please believe that. Please belie that talked to about a little friend at lunch and like the hell getting my nup anyway, I drops your know how to Rachel phone. But that's besides the more my blest farmer. Don Ain't that cool? I don't know. I ain't never heard of no dance before the day. And what's sudden you calling me talking about you was at lunch every day with wife and you know it's a friendly runch date. This word it really, I don't know how you just do friendly? I know about all that. You ain't fooling me. You got know like you who pray on Mary women all the time because they like you. But that, like I said, it's gonna change from sho okay, dog, here's here's what you don't know. What you all know is is Tommy Tommy be pushing up on the more than mem Tommy. Tommy is always pushing up on her. Tommy the one you need to be worried about you have Tommy? Who who the Timmy? Ain't dog dog dog nephew Tommy? Man, check this out. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harve and Morning Show. Your wife Rachel got me the pray phone call you. Oh hey, y'all? Did me many? I should have come down to you? Are many? I am? Now? I was gonna well, you know I was burn that building down. You don't even know. I'll pe tell me this this reprediction. Somebody gonna fuck you up for real, y'all. You just play much man, y'all trip it hey, man, check it out. You gotta tell me this man, what is the baddest radio show in the lane? Only the Steve Harvey Morning Show? Man? Of course? Who talk to me? Man to man? What do I mean when you're calling every day? Man? What do you want? What you want? You? Just what do you want? Don't My wife's son, Derek may not be but it definitely ain't going past tomorrow. Building down on you trying to have lunch with your wife and here you come called. He told, he said, it may not be today, but it definitely ain't going past tomorrow. Look at that time today gonna see me Yeah, I know guys like you sitting around trying to pray up on people's wives and stuff while they ain't around. I've seen your all unique roles. Need to get y'all stills, you know what. That's all right, that's all right. We will deal with it. Don't worry about it. We'll deal with it. He doesn't get and heard people say those exact words, Doc, you're gonna see me or you're gonna see might not. It ain't gonna go past tomorrow. But you're gonna see you Beaumont. You're gonna see me. You're gonna see me Beaumont Saturday night. You're gonna see me. Act a dog gone fool Saturday night on that stage Julie Rodgers theater. Baby got a few tickets left. The nephew is coming to town. You gonna see me, You gonna see everybody. Don't get to see stupid like this. You go see me. We see it every day. Thank you, f you. Coming up next, Strawberry Letters, subject the back Seat and the Barbershop. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for today's Strawberry letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please submit your strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry letter. We could be reading your letter ha live on the air, just like I gotta read this one right here, right now, could be yours. You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you here It is to straw up every letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject the back seat and the Barbershop. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a married woman in my late forties. I have a boyfriend that's five years younger than I am, and he's also married. He's a co owner of a barbershop, and that's where we met. That's where I met him. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks and he's got long work hours, so we have to have sex whenever and wherever we can. The first time we were intimate, it was magical. I made an appointment to get my lock shampoo, and I had no idea it would be done by a big, handsome man with magical fingers. Wow. We were the only two in the barbershop and he asked me to remove my turtlenecks so it wouldn't get wet. I knew he was flirting because I'd never been asked to remove my shirt to get my hair washed. I did it, and I leaned back in the chair with my ample bo some filling out of my black lace bra. He told me that he is all man and my breasts were making it hard for him to work. He leaned against me while he shampooed my hair, and I could feel it pressed up on my arm. It was at eye level, so as he shampooed my hair, I did what I had to do. Since then, I've been going by his shop a few days a week. When there are other customers inside the barbershop, we go out to the back seat of his car. We're either in his barbershop or on the back seat. I would love to stretch out and thoroughly enjoy myself, but he's always got clients to get back to. It's the quickest, most enjoyable sex I've had in a long time. I tried to arrange a meetup for us in the past weekend. This past weekend, and he said he can't see me outside of work hours because he's a family man first. How can he say this, after all the kinky things he's done to me. I offered to get us a hotel room, and he said, no. Why is he putting limits on our affair? Why is he putting limits on your affair? You haven't figured it out yet. You're just the back seat girl. Okay, he's not trying to have anything more than that with you. You were too easy the first day in the barbershop. You were doing too much. Then now you want to stretch out and get comfortable and what make love. No, he just wants to do you in the back seat of his car and get back to his clients. Okay, that's it. You want to turn things up and have a full blown affair or something with this guy, but that's not happening. You're just some merry chick he's got on the side. Stop trying to make this more than what it is. It's not. He's not gonna get too involved with you because he's a family man. First. That's what he said. You don't mean anything to him. You're not important to him. Isn't this obvious. He's not going out of his way for you. He's not spending any money on you any time. Really, other than the quickies, and he's not gonna take you anywhere nice. Well, where is your husband? Anyway? While all this is going on, I say to you, get your dignity back. Stop being the back seat girl. Leave this man alone. He's going to end it anyway because you're you're gonna become a problem to him. You're catching feelings you want more than he's willing to give, and that's not a good look for him, this married man who puts his family first. Steve. It amazes me how people send these letters in and they just start typing like his natural The subject is the back seat and the barbershop. Let me walk you through this unnatural natural. Let dear Stephen Sherley, I'm a married woman in my late forties. Okay, I have a boyfriend that's five years younger than I am and he's also married. You don't see how this letter is just in took so many damn terms, yes, and you know, just be typing like, well, okay, that's just what's happening. You know, I'm in my late fartis. I got a boyfriend. It's five years younger than me, and he married too. He's a co owner of a barbershop, and that's why I met him. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks now and he's got long workouts. He owns a barbershop, he's the co owner. So we have to have sex whenever and wherever we can. Right down what you have to have sex? But you don't though, See, you created this and now you're telling us something before you even told us how I jumped off. But I'm gonna tell you. Why are you having sex whenever and whoever you can? The first time we were intimate, it was magical. I had no want me to get my lock shampoo that I had no idea would be done by big handsome man with magical fingers. We were the only two in the barbershop. He asked you to take off your turtlenecks so it wouldn't get wet. He washing your head or washing your neck? Right? What if we head washing? Are we neck washing? Right? Right? What we're doing? So now he asked you to take your turtleneck also it wouldn't get wet. And you knew he was flirting because you ain't never been an ass to take your shirt off get your head washing. I did it and leaned back. Well, what you want now? You to lean back in the chair with your ample bosom spilling out of my black lace bra You just designed, you just you just described a porno movie. Wait, what that's a portal barbershop. Barbershop is a portal movie. The Pooh Hall is a portal movie. Hair washing is a point on movie. They don't have really catch your ass titles anything. You got your big bosom spilling out of your black lace brow. Then when we come back, I'll tell you what. All right, hang on for part two of Steve's response, coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letter. Subject the back seat and the barbershop. Will get back into it right after this. You're listening Stry Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject the back seat and the Barbershop. Well, he is married lady in her late port. He's got a boyfriend five years longer than her. He married too. He's a call onner the barbershop. She went on there to get her lock shampoo, and she didn't have no idea it was being done by a big, handsome man. He's a call onner the shop. He gets ready to do that, and then he tells her to take off her turtlenecks so it don't get wet. She knew the dude was flirting. She took her turtleneck off anyway, leaned back into shampoo boo shampoo, leaned back into shampoo bowl, and her ample bosoms was sticking out of her black lace bro She knew he was flirting, so I did it anyway. I didn't even tell him. Look, we can do this without getting my turtle neck where. Let me roll, Let me tuck my turtle neck into my blouse. You didn't do that. You took it off and leaned back and let him have it. He told me his old man and his breast was making it hard for him to work. He leaned against me while he's shampooed my head, and I could feel it pressed up on my arm. See all this is trouble. It was at eye level. So as he shampooed my hair, idea what I had to do? Hold on what? Because it was at eye level, You did what you had to do. Really, you know how much stuff out of had at eye level that I've had to avoid in my life, Like what you know. How many women I meet does at eye level your ass scots to ignore. If you do stuff just cause it's at eye level, your ass is. The tricky is to move it up to your eye level. You're sitting down at the banquet. All I got to do and walk by level. Since then, I've been going by his shop a few days a week. When now other customers inside the barbershop, we go out to the back seat of his car. We're either in the barbershop on the back seat. I would I have to stretch out and thoroughly enjoy myself, but he's always got clients to get back to. It's the quickest, most enjoyable sets I've had in a long time. I tried to arrange a meet up this past week and he said he can't see me outside of workouts. What holda, what are you gonna do? I can't see you outside of him. I'm a family man first. How can he say this after all the kinky things he's done to me. He done it till you're doing work hours. He's done it till you in the barbershop, share in the shampoopo and in the backseat of the car. I offered to get us a hotel room, and he said, no, why is he putting limits on our fare? Because you are in a limited of fail How your start is how you fit it. What you demand is what you get. But your ask for us what we give. Your ask for it. At the shampoo bowl, we gave it. You come up there a few times a week. You ain't gotta wash your locks a few times a week. I know that you come up there a few times a week to get washed. Not your locks. You come to get washed. And all the washing is going on in that backseat of that damn truck or in here when it ain't no customers quick coming up down three or four times a week. He don't want no room with you. No, you ain't room worthy. Why spend money on a room with All I want is in back of that car. As soon as these people get out of here, we're gonna be at this facebol you, the faith you, the face bowl, bather shop, back seat chick. You don't get no. You in your late forty you knew better when you started. Now you are, he'd told you, I'm a family man. First. Yeah, you just came up in here. This just happened. Appreciate it, but that's all this said. I don't even like you like that. You just at work, you would this just man, this just this just popped up out of nowhere. You're nothing to be, nothing else, lady could ask like Shirley said, you're nothing to go to dinner, y'all, nothing to take, no long walks at the park, y'all sitting on the park, bitch talking things out. He don't care about what your dreams and visions is. Man, I don't care about what did you talking about? You think about what? He just know you, Kiki, you will do anything because it's at eye level, high level, and I'm glad that ain't mind as you it's at high level. You know how much trouble I be in miss right? Everything right right, right, right right, man, I'm on the zoom right now with all my co workers all in at our level. You'll see me sliding in the DMS and stuff. I'm on no we level every boy, You lady lady gone somewhere what you write us? Yeah, I'm sure a husband. We appreciate the letter though, because it was entertainment. Yes it was Steve. Thank you post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM and Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six minutes after the hour. We got Sports Talk with Junior right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for Junior and word to talk. What you got Junior? All right, Shirlett, but as just let everybody know. April First Comedy Food, April Fools Comedy Jam coming to the Texas Trust Theater. Get your ticket at ticketmaster dot com. Earthquake Bruce Bruce, Bill Bellamy, Ryan Davis, and Seantay wayns Man. We're doing this coming up. Got about two weeks for the show coming up, so I'll be there. I'm ready listen. Uh. You know, free agency started yesterday and it has been crazy man. Football, Yeah, in football. Look what's going on with the Dallas Cowboys. They they're having some issues over here. Nobody won't play that, but you told him. Randy Gregory, Dieva's avin for the Cowboys, told the Cowboys on Tuesday, I'm gonna take the five years, seventy me twenty eight million guarantee. I'm gonna take that. I'm gonna play for y'all, but then come yesterday, sign it with the Denver Broncos. He he just I lied what I told y'all. But they don't have been having the worst offseason because they traded the Mark Cooper to clean the Browns. Then then he lost the otherwide receiver, Cedric Wilson Junior, to play with the Miami Dolphins. Now this didn't happen day. When when does your word mean anything in free agis I'm with the playoffs? The owners don't keep their word exact same deal, but just tell you know what I mean. Denver got a heck of a team and now they got Russell. Yeah, so he looking at his chances. The bigger I think the biggest mistake the Cowboys made was they kept the entire same coaching staff. And something's wrong right there. Because they have the talent. The Cowboys got one of the most talented rosters in football. The problem is the coaching staff and they didn't. They didn't make no change. Now I got the same hond he ain't none it. Let's talk about this man. What is going on with Baker Mayfield? What's up? What you need? I'm tell you listen when the Browns met with the Sean Wasson. Yes, he starts saying good buying things, he starts saying good by. But I mean, you know, it was it was nice what he did. But it's not a guarantee because the Sean gets to pick where he's gonna go. Yeah he does. But Bakers and says they talking to Dean, Well, you know, I just want to thank the city of Cleveland. It may be a chance that we end up with the Sean man, but you know I ain't. I ain't putting no, I ain't putting no, no, no, I ain't putting no, no, nothing behind faith because the Browns work. Yeah, it's just where we all and all that hope we didn't had. Y'all will forever be a part of my life. I thought about post yet tweet. You know, we really appreciate everything, all the nice restaurants in Cleveland. We loved him, all right, Thank you, Thank you for Sports Talk today. Coming up at the top of the hour, the Great Resignation continues. We'll talk about quitting your job. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The Great Resignation continues, and nowhere seems to be safe. Amad Pizza shop in Illinois was the subject of a TikTok where the users showed a sign at the door saying, all staff has quit, We're closed for the night. So Steve, Yeah, I mean, people are just quitting their jobs, Steve. And it really is an employee market right now. Lots of places are hiring. So why stay somewhere when you're unhappy? Should you have a rational plan before you just up and quit your jobs? What do you think? Well, I mean I quit my last job I had. I quit the next day after I wanted fifty bucks at a comedy competition. So I'm the last person I ask you, did you have a rational plan? Because I led directly to homelessness. Yeah. I don't really recommend anybody to take the route I took, but if you want to, I say go ahead. I mean, what did they quito? It's a pizza shot? How much they pay dude over pepper ni quito? See. But once I passed by your house and I miss your address, I turned the corner, eat the pizza. Uh huh uh huh. But with with that it was some sexual harassment stuff. It was a bunch a pizza shot. Yeah, I'm not take all this for no day over, No damn pizza. Yeah you said, you said pepper Rooni here, I am anybody wanted to meet levels. That's what you say. No, no immediately. Yeah, but it's happening everywhere. I mean, that's one incident in Illinois, but it's happening here. We love our jobs, We love you. You're the best. Monica says she's considered Quentin. She's still here the job or this job? Okay, this job. I thought he meant this job. Yeah, your best bus ever, Steve. The last job I hand was at Monarch Paint Company. Pay seven sevent walk right out of this yeah, seventh. No, because I saw that the manager of the store had been there twenty two years and the assistant manager being there twenty What do I look like staying here? I started next night? Really? Yeah? Well, well, junior experts say that if you do want to quit your job, you should talk to your boss. Okay, don't get emotional, don't get emotional. Go ahead and ask for your raise, asked to work from home, talk about stress, and point your dissatisfaction at the job. Okay, let's try it right now. You go ahead and pitch me for the raise. Go ahead, let's try. Uh, mister Harvey, I have a word with you, please, absolutely, sir. You know you know I've been here for years. I've been in four years, and you know everything I asked me to do, I do all my my my job description. Can I fits that? I think I fought more than capable? Okay? And you know another thing too, I even worked over time for you when you asked me too. Yeah, I've never asked you that. To go ahead, but you know, I just wanted to say this. I really believe that I should be making fifteen dollars hour. The seven fifty seven seventy five ain't working for me. I really, I'm a fifteen dollars Houray, employee. Leave, I'll give you that right away. Also, I'm getting the raise okay, you want on this show for show ye at sixty dollars a day. I was talking about working at the paint company. Yeah, yeah, because if the most No, no, no, I'm talking to you about this job right here. You're on fifteen dollars hour. That's sixty dollars a day. You got it? Okay, we need to do over now the fact. No, yeah, you're asking for a raise on this job. Now, go okay, all right, okay, yeah, you know, think about this, uncle, I think I deserve about a fifty thous dollars raise on this job here man. Yeah, and you thought wrong, you're thinking. Okay, well that's all I like to pay. I'm getting anyway, coming coming up, coming up, We're gonna interview Timmy for a minute. Okay, all right, all right, cool, all right, we'll be back with more how to ask your boss for a raise with the nephew and the uncle right after this. You're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. All right, So before we before we left out, we were talking about the Great Resignation, how a lot of people around the country are quitting their jobs and uh, you know, they're unhappy with their with their employment, so they're looking for other jobs. And experts say, you should talk to your boss, don't get emotional, asked for a raise, asked to work from home, talk about stress and pinpoint just what you're dissatisfied about at your job. So the nephew wanted to ask you, Steve questions. He wanted to talk to you about. You got one damn minute. We can sit down and have a conversation. That's how you ask why it's fine. It's fine. Don't get emotional. That's the first trying not to get emotional. I've been on this radio twenty mores with you. I'm just gonna gonne say. I'm just gonna gone saying I think I deserve another extra two hundred and fifty thousand. Now, so how the hell we gonna do this? Yeah, well you won't see you two when they want in this moment. Don't get emotional. Talk to your boss. Yeah, I'm talking to him. I'm talking back. PenPoint your dissatisfaction. I've been stupid on hill for twenty damn hill, doing the best, the best you pity in the world. The least you can do is give me an extra two fifty on this damn show. Hey, I can do far leash than that. If you're looking for leash, I can do way leash than that. This is not working, U. Whereas hey, that are right now coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll do a round of would you rather? Right after this? You're fired, Tommy. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. Time now guys for would you rather? Would you rather detect every lie you here? Or would you rather get away with every lie you tell? Don't be you really get away with every lie? You're probably doing that already. That's my whole goal in life, isn't. I don't need to detect no lie soon. That's what you're doing when you're talking. So I think we both lying. Everybody's lying up. Wow, that's a different world in which we live, all right? Would you rather be asked the same question over and over? Or would you rather never be spoken to ever again? What are you talking about? Ship? Just just let's just say one person for sake of this, would you rather or would you rather never ever be spoken to again? I'm going with be. Yeah. I can't keep I can't be here. Nah, hold on, come on, come on, come on now? Who we should? One question is is less? Can we do it? I mean, if I just hear that old and old and I'm good with, what are we gonna do it? Let's do it? Can we do it all that all the time over? But if the question what about while you're doing it? The question who phoned up? Is this? I'm here to beat? Yeah, But you can't hear a question ahead of time? No, Yeah, you don't know what it's gonna be, all right? Would you rather it be Christmas every day? Christmas every day? Or your birthday every day? My birthday? Christmas too much company, it's too many people. No christ Christmas I got to buy too much though. Hell no, let it beat my birthday here last year, I couldn't put that bike together, right, m that's too much. No. So Christmas is cool just being one day a year. But you want your birthday every day? Yeah? I mean, yeah, I mean I don't get nothing on either day, so they don't matter either. What be my birthdays? I ain't getting that nowhere? All right? All right, this is kind of crazy. Would you rather win the lottery but have to spend it all in one day? Or would you like to trip? Would you rather triple your current salary forever? That's easy, that's the easy. Would you rather win the lottery? Win the lottery but have to spend it all in one day? Or triple your current salary forever? It's easy? Which one? You won't triple my current salary? Trip ever? Whatever I tripple, you have won the lottery? Yeas all right? That's our all right, Today's version of would you rather coming up last break of the day, and of course some closing remarks from the one and only, our fearless leader, Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to show all right, guys, here we are our last break of the day on this Thursday. Head it into Friday. Yeah, yeah, it's been a good day. We've had fun today. Boy. You and Tommy really got into it earlier about those the rais and the job and thank you. Yeah. The first thing is said was don't be emotional emotion into it. I have it for you. I'm really undeveloped in my Christiani. If you come to me hard, I just don't know how to, you know, be soft with you. And that was Tommy asking for a raise going on, not gonna cuss me. I mean the big one too, I tell you YEA said I've been being up in here stupid for twenty years. Thank you, Steve, take us out. Hey. My closer remarks it that I want you all to be aware of something that I've found to be a little bit troubling sometime. It's the word karma. The word karma. I've been watching people and they tossed this word around so loosely and I want you all to be careful. Be careful of people who always use the word karma because they throw it around like like like like like they have the right too, you know, it's it's is Is there a karma committee? And who's on it? Who determines what's happening to you is calma? Don't throw that word around so easily because when you look up the definition of calm and you google it, and to throw you off a little bit, because it really has a lot to do with religion and and and certain religions in this world. That's where the word calma came from. So when people are always talking about, yeah, that's calma, what's happening to you is calma? No, that's not all the way, It's not always the case. Be careful of people who use that word a lot, because I have to warn you. Who determines what calma is? And how long does calma last? Have you ever noticed people throw that word around to keep you in a certain place, to keep you in a certain category, to keep you feeling a certain kind of way, even after you've moved on long from it. Real negative people have a tendency to throw this word calma around. I want y'all to be aware of this, man, because it's dangerous to let people do it. See, God has this thing called grace and mercy, and God passes it out to whoever asked for it. If you ask God for forgiveness for something and God gives you his grace and he forgives you, that allows you to be forgiven. God never brings it back up again, and you're free to move on. So you gotta be careful of people who talking about every time something happens to you, they relate it to something that you did before and they call it calma. That's not what it is, y'all. Listen to me. The vast majority of things that happened to you, it ain't calma. It's just life. What are you talking about. You lose a love one that ain't calma. You don't, you don't something happens to you negatively, that's not calma. That's life. It's called trials, it's called test, it's a challenge, it's a set up for a comeback. It's a lot of things. But it don't have to be calmer man. You know, listen to me. If you if you murder someone and you get sent to prison. That's justice. That's what that that's justice. You can call it calma if you want too, but it's courtiers. It's it's just justice. I notice a lot of people use calma to keep you from from from feeling forgiven. I know, on a personal note, that I've done something way back when I was a young man, And do you know that there are steal people in my life. When something negative happens to me, they refer back to that moment as calma. I don't let him do it to me. God has been forgiven me for the things I've done as a young man. He'd been forgave you a long time ago for the things you've done as a young man. You've had so many blessings that occurred in your life since you made that mistake as a young man, as a young girl, as a young woman. Do you know how many blessings you've had since you've made those mistakes. Then when something else, call life, pops up your way, here comes somebody wanting to relate it back to the time you had your baby, the time you left this man, you walked out of the city, and they want to call that calma. Don't let them. Do that. Listen to me, y'all. God is in the forgiving business. When He forgives you, don't let people keep you from being free of it by reminding you of a word that they throw a wound way too loosely called calma every time somehoppen you see on it and Calmas of be Calmas this, Calmas that coming? Who is it? Who are these people? Who is the Calma Committee? I don't go for that. I have no Calma committee that I answered to. I answered to my heavenly Father, and I suggest that you do too. So from now, when you ask God for forgiveness, and God forgives you, move on and don't let nobody on the Calma committee hold you to your former past and your former mistakes, because God has allowed you to move on and you should thank you very much. Those are my closing remarks. Hope you got something from it. Hey, y'all, listen, God willing will see you all tomorrow. In the meantime, talk to God He loved to hear from you for all. 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