Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all back a suit on, looking back to back down, giving them more like amazing buck things. And it's not doing me true good it. Steve has to move together for ste please by I don't join join me to be doing me. Have you gotta use turning, You gotta turn to turn them out, turn got to turn out, then turn the water the water. Come come on your back at it. Uh huh. I show, well a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, nothing changes about that, Nothing changes about that. Man. I was just so getting ready to come on to air this morning. I was just thinking, man, I was just having a reflective moment of just how really good God has been to me. I just it's it's it's man. Let me just say that again, how really good God has been to me. And here's a cold part. In spite of myself, you understand, in spite of all my shortcomings, in spite of all of my flaws and and and and in spite of all of what anybody has said about me, God, through his grace and mercy just keeps me anyway. So many of us are exceptional people, but we refuse to just go ahead and be exceptional. We settle for the ordinary. We follow the pack. We try to fit in. Man, oh man, oh man. You know I've heard my wife say this to my children all the time. When she's scolding talking to him, she'd be talking to him about leadership. You know, why are you following everybody when God clearly made you to lead? So many of us are born, and so many of you are born to be exceptional people, but we always trying to follow the pack. Why would you try to fit in? Why would you try to be like everybody else be ordinary? Why would you follow the pack when God has created you to be exceptional? The key word in exceptional is accept you. Have you ever done this right here? You know? Everybody did that accept me. Everybody felt that way except me. Everybody said that except me. Everybody won't wanted that. Accept me. Everybody went over that except me. Everybody jumped in except me, accept me. See why have you saying that in your life? If you were not to be exceptional? See, you got to say everybody accept me at one point in You're to I don't know who ain't done it. You know everybody wanted, everybody voted no except me. See, so you're not You're not created to follow the pack. You ain't created to fit in. You ain't created to h you know, to be ordinary. You will create it to be exceptional, as exceptional as your fingerprint on your finger is. You were created to be exceptional. Why not make this the year that you go ahead on and be exceptional? Why won't this be the year that you decide in your mind? But just has to be a decision that we make. Now we're not following the pack no more. We're not trying to fit in no more. We ain't settling for ordinary no more. We're gonna be exceptional. But you know, you got you got to go ahead and follow that. You got to get on the exceptional path, because that's what you were created for. Why be ordinary? You know? But all of this this comes to it has to start with a thought. You got to first think something thought to become things. A man is as he thinketh that's all you will ever be. So what are your thoughts today? Why not have exceptional thoughts instead of ordinary thoughts? Why not have exceptional thoughts instead of fitting thee in thoughts? So why you want to be like everybody else? Why you want to be ordinary when you could possibly be extraordinary with a change of your mind, a change of your venue, And you don't have to be any other kind of way just because my mama was this way, my daddy was this way, this the school I went to? This? What race I belong to? This is my sexual preference, this is my this, this is my dadd Why? How many? How many? How many excuses you need? I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You? What's it gonna be this year that we let another three hundred and sixty five days slip by without improving our condition, our place, our spot, our life, the quality of life we have. We cannot afford to keep letting all these years go by without changing. You're an exceptional person. How many times have you set up and said, everybody did that? Accept me? You know I was only everybody jumped in accept me. I told him I knew it. Everybody voted for that, accept me. And now look at it, man, it seemed like everybody went that way, accept me. Okay, do you get it? Do you understand what's being said? To you that don't accept me is because couldn't it be? Because you're an exceptional person, and it's time for you to take control of that. It's time for you to start thinking different. It's time for you to start acting on what you think. It's time for you to start doing something about it. It's time for you to stop taking each and every day that God gives us for granted and letting them go by the wayside, like you got plenty more. Well, you may have plenty more, but guess what what you're wasting the ones you got for I got you young, and you and you feel like you're gonna live forever. Dah, okay, cool, But let me ask you something. See here, here, here, here go the part about pose you do live? See see everybody willing about dying. But I got news for you. Suppose you keep on living. You want to keep living in the condition you in now. You want to keep living with the money you got now. You want to keep living with the relationship you got now. You want to keep living by yourself like you are now. You want to keep wanting the right relationship, the right man, the the right woman, but you keep getting the wrong one. You want to keep doing that for the rest of your life. Problem ain't dying. It's problem is if you keep on living. Who wants to keep on living just the way they are right now? And if you can say I'm cool what I am, just the way I am right now, it ain't cool. This conversation ain't for you. I ain't got no problem with that. You know you wanna say. Greatness ain't for everybody being exceptional, ain't for everybody becoming extraordinary. It ain't fun everybody. Heck, becoming successful ain't fun everybody. I got it. And you can come up with a way to justify your non existence in your ordinary life all you won't. And that's fine and dandy. I ain't got no problem with it. Because some people just gonna be regular. Some people just gonna follow the pack, follow the crowd. Some people just wants to fit in. But if you're not that person, if you want to be extraordinary, if you want to be exceptional, if you want to be if you want to dad to be great at something, and you got to change your mind set. You got to get with your creating, find out what he created. You fault. You gotta quit thinking of things just in your own thought process. You know, lean not to your own understanding. I don't know what that is, but it's in there somewhere. Seeing once you lean, if you lean to your own understanding, you know what it's gonna do. It's gonna limit you. Man, it's gonna limit you. Why not see what God got for you. I would rather know what God got for me than to think of all the things I could because I can't out think him out and tried it before. All right, it's just the beginning. We're gonna have a good one. Man. Let's go. You're listening, everybody. It is Monday and you are listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Our balls slept in because he worked late last night. But he'll be here. He'll be here, Ain't that Ray? That is right? Jay Anthony Brown. He is on his way, the one and only mister Harvey. But we call it. Yeah, he's gonna be Ain't gonna man up? Call up around? How you doing on the Monday? Baby? What's up? Jay? You heard it right? Jay, learn it right. I'll be looking at me. I know, partner and my my writing partner in my hospital partner. What up, Junior? What's going on. What's going on? Bad buddy morning everybody? Last, but not least, he is the king of pranks. What's up, Steve Turning? What's going on? Man? Want to you want to do? So here? Ain't he ja? Yeah? Last time I saw it? So let me ask when you get here? Yeah? Yeah, that's what I wanted. Is he gonna had at green mana door coming to America jacket on it? He excuh, was you don't look like coming to America? Part file If that don't that's why that was the head guys. Remember when I asked him what he was gonna wear, he said green cheese. Remember that it wasn't blue cheese this year. It was green cheese. Uh huh. So this is it. That was go chay and Gabanna. By the way, Tommy, thank you. I didn't know. Don't chake about it. It's don't do that normal. That's what that was. That was, don't do that. You don't like it, you don't like it. I really it was not your flavor. It was too much gold on it. I mean, he really could have been Bishop don Juan last night. He really could have been. Only it was or something like that, maybe a crown with a match Yeah, crown, I mean, was the gold part croquee on it? A crochet on it? Croque brocade, crochee, crocheted. That's what I'm telling about. No, I don't have I don't have a picture of the pants. Was the pants matching pants? Because I don't have a pan? Oh? Stop that, Jay, Now you know better than that one going down? I didn't see the pants. I couldn't see the pants. I got the three quarter shot. Okay, we saw that, But I'm just going on the here's what happened. Here's the thing right here. If you hit him with a stick, candy or Popeye, I'm telling you, man, oh my god, he's gonna kill me. I know he's I'm with you. Look closer, closer now, swing we love yeah, green cheese, because he'd be dressing, right, he'd be dress, he'd be crochet by Crokay. Are you doing all right? Steve is definitely on his way. He overslept a little bit with all the festivities going on with Missus Universal last night. Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll have our weekend review and find out what crew did over the weekend. That's coming up right after this. You're listening to show, all right, So guys, Steve will join us probably in the next hour. He is, well, he's up now. He overslept this morning and jacket off definitely. Well, tell me when he gets here. He's gonna of us all the highlights of the Miss Universe pageant. It's the sixty eighth annual Miss Universe. Dilgeant Steve's done it for five years. He did it last night Tyler Perry Studios in Atlanta. Um, you know it was cool. Did you guys watch it? Cool? Yeah? Okay, yeah, pretty girls on the man, oh yeah, smart, beautiful winter, very beautiful women, very smart. Yeah, pretty girl at one man, that girl at one oh yeah, miss gorgeous good yeah yea yeah. Well, um, well we'll wait and let Steve fill us in. You know, he has some behind the scenes stuff to tell us about as well, and he's going to tell you guys about the jacket as well. It was Dulcha and Gabana. Tommy, uh it is Can he take it back? Can you take it back out? You know you back? So what happened over the weekend? Yeah, so we'll see what a lot What did you do over the weekend? Jay movies. Oh would you say what you say? I saw this. I saw the Irishman again, which oh yeah, the Irishman, the Irishman. No, I didn't say I didn't like it, and I saw mister r Here's my problem with mister Runny. How was that? Yeah? What was that? Can't nobody be that damn nice? I mean nobody? No, I mean was he was? He was? He was nice? Was he like that? Nicest man you ever wanted me? I mean, there's there's nobody on the face of the earth that's that damn nice. But wait a minute, Jay, I have not seen the movie that was Those were different times back then, now people that beautiful day on the neighborhood. Yeah, but nice, nice and perfect are two different things. We're not. You're not saying he's perfect. You're just saying he's really a nice man. Yeah, hain't nobody to write that many nice songs, all this soulful, snife polite. He's very blite man. I'm just saying nobody to be that nice, But what was it? Was? Just too nice? Was Eddie Murphy's character mister Robinson? Mister Yeah, that was more true to life. Mister Rogers, I will see that more true to life. Yeah, yea, all right, Well I'm glad. I mean, you know, we all grew up on mister Rogers. Yeah. Um yeah, okay, let me tell y'all this. Can I tell y'all what I did this weekend? Yeah? I had a master class. You know, your boys stepping out there now, master class. I was a masterclass at Prince George's Community College in Maryland. Okay, so your boy, you know, you know, we did a masterclass that's theater, radio, film, television. And your boy was flying in then, and all the students was asking your boy questions, you know, because I'm telling y'all I'm intelligent like that, y'all y'all standing Jay. It was. It was students and they were asking questions about film, theater. They were, you know, they're majoring in radio and television. And you know, the nephew came in there and did the dog on thing. That was Thomas Miles. Jay, Thomas Miles cold player. Well what about nephew, Tommy? What did he do? He didn't do? And let me tell you this. Thomas Miles also hosted a holiday gala sponsored by Eco. Yeah, Eco PGC. That's explored career options in Prince George County. You understand, not only did he do a Thomas Miles do a master class, he also hosted a gala. Then he took Timmy and everybody else in his head on Saturday to the African American Musicum that boyle oh wow, person like you don't know him? Yeah, I know they rade separately in his head. They do in his head. Yeah, in the same car. Jay. It was crowded, it was we were all in there, but we rolled. I would tell you this, man ahead, you don't have anything else you want to share with us about it. I can't think enna all right, because come here with us some great news. Yeah, thats congratulations. Cool. Y'all need to go to the museum though, man, I'm telling y'all, the Smithsonian African American Museum is a treat, a treat, treat treat. You gotta go. Oh my god, right there. And the sister that took me around was such a historian. She knew backwards for what was going on this. I gotta go back. You can't do it one day, Yeah, that's what I heard. It takes two or three days to really get through now. Huh. Yeah, you started to bottom. You started the bottom of the building and you work your way up. Slavery is at the bottom, and you work your way up. It's amazing. We black people are amazing. Let me just let me tell you that we are some amazing. See that's good. You had a good weekend, had a good weekend. Yeah, you know, ready to love kicking, Ready to love kicking. But my numbers are looking good. Okay, Thomas Miles is doing the dog on thing. Man. I just tell you, I look up to him. I'm telling me right now, Thomas Miles. Alright, what'd you do this weekend? Called? What'd you do? I was dance mom this weekend, said I was dancing this weekend. I was. I was doing that too, dance mom. A dark had a couple of competitions and recitals this weekend, and I went to a birthday party. So I was dancing and I looked fabulous. I must say. Alright, girl, alright, girl, what about you? I went to Chicago visited. Did you go stand at the Peoplehouse again? It was so cold there, That's all I have to say. It was so cold. All right, listen, coming up next. It is Monday, so you know, church complaints are untapped. Deacon dev Jam Of course, Reverend Motown is out right now, but uh, Reverend Adnoid and maybe Deacon Junior will be in the building with church complaints. Right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. Guys in entertainment news, Marlin Wayans has opened up about Bill Cosby. Also, Eddie Murphy thinks ten children are sexy, and Steve is on his way. He's gonna join us to talk about last night's Miss Universe pageant. It was hosted by Green Cheese last night. Right now, though it is Monday time for church complaints, let's go Deacon deaf Cham. I thank he's so Candy, Shirley, I am Deacon deaf Dam. Reverend Motown is out of commission at this time. He'll be in momentarily, but I don't think he'll be in tip and church complaints, But sitting in with me is the one and only Reverend Adnoid. Everybuddy, are you? Are you sure you're up to it? Dick? Reverend add a clear clear? Now? I don't think you're really clear, but we'll deal with it. Take a netted pot if he would get one and take a respirator. Family Lord, all right, we're gonna get down in the business. I have some uh major church complaints going on. I remember that. No, are you up to helping me with it? Up to helping you with these and see we could solve the problem that you have. Let's see what you have. All right. We have a major issue at night, Sister Brenda Dixon, who is bipolar. We are asking please don't buy her teddy ball for Christmas. That's disrespectful, uh, because she is bipolar. I'm sorry they did that last year and buy her teddy ba. Don't do that. That is disrespectful, okay, and all the members need to know it. But they are always trying to buy her teddy bad polar. They don't understand what bipolar is, so they keep buying hood damn teddy Bear. Okay, so two would listen to two damned. That's the look, fools, that's not what bipolar is. Okay, it don't mean by two damn teddy bears. Okay, stop it, thank you so kind stop it. Listen. Uh the deva cuss the deva cuse journey again Baby Jesus in the Christmas program last year now, last year he was eight pounds five ounces. A year later and now the boy wait ninety two pounds. They say it's impossible to wrap him in swaddling clothes and get him him in the main este But that is the youngest kind we have at the church. We have nobody to play jeans of that now, and he is the lightest child that we have. So we checked the weights of all the other children, and he's up under the weight of other children. And what we have decided to do instead of rising him hook, we're just gonna shine a light on his ass when that part come up, so we won't we won't be able to lift him in the air, so we'll just shine a light on him and that. But no, he's rising up some kind of way, laughing at this. So you want to raise him up and maybe put a flashlight behind him. How do you want to do? The flashlight behind him, and then the shadow will shine on the wall and that will looks like he is rising. Okay, that's what we're gonna do. Now you're talking more d light. What kind of light do you want? I'm talking battery flashlight that will shine on his ass and then will show it and it'll shoot. He'll be big on the wall on the right. And then okay, it looked like he go over. He can't go lower. Here's something else, brother had Now we got a situation between two of the brothers that they going any Brother Jollivette and brother Cartwright need you to settle a dispute. Since you're sitting in I need Joe hell. Brother Cartwright keeps telling Brother Jollivette that they had cause. In the Bibbler Cardames, brother Jollivan told him that he was out of his mind. Now listen to him. Now, Brother Cartwright says, why in Acts chapter two doesn't say they wore all in one accord, so they were in absolutely right that he is not lying. There was one accord back in cut that they were in agreement. It was all in a chord. R. Peter Matthew James John Right. Now, listen, we got a problem here. The Death Ministry is complaining the new persons complaining that the Death Ministry is complaining. They the new person that does the sign language, sister Wretha Kirkwood stut Us with her sign language, and Death Ministry they're staying an extra thirty minutes after everyone else has gone because they the sermon is late getting to them. She stutter us with her hands, and that's the problem is she has cramps in her hands, and so when she's signing, she has to shake out the cramp, right, and it looks like she's given another sign, but what she's doing is shaking the cramp out, and it's throwing the death people off right, And then then that's yeah, And she show her the cramp and cramps her fingers up and then she shakes them to try to get it out, and they go, I heard that. So one of them said that I don't know who didn't, but at night, now hold on, hold on to yourself. And that's when I again didn't pay good money for her. Go right ahead. The liling pop Minister has a sucking convention that's coming sad. They know we have some better suckers at this page, and they won't come forward. They're asking that, never man, you started, it finishes, finish. It's hard for me to do it. My sister call and look at that. We're gonna discontinue the Lillipop Ministry from this point. Oh never man, no, I try, I try. Let's go back to cars in Biblical times in one call. That was the first card. All right, thank you, guys, thank you so much. Coming up at the top of the hour, entertainment and national news and probably Steve Harvey coming up right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Ladies and gentlemen, do we need to yeah? Do we need a drum roll? Please? Yes? Drum and roll it, ladies and gentlemen. He is here, the one and only the host of the sixty ninth Annual Women's Universe has the one and only Steve Harvey. Only only five count the last five, Yeah, the only only the five count about them sixty nine. I don't know what they was doing. I don't know how they was doing it about none of that jacket to work? Now now I didn't bring it to work. It's where Jack, What are you gonna do? Well? Actually, the first time I've ever done this on the inside of the jacket is said the two thousand nineteen Miss Universe paget, who was written on there. So for the first time ever I've had I had the winner signed the inside of the jacket. Oh from South Africa. Hey man, you know what it was with that with that young lady. You know, this year they made a real conscious effort. I don't know if you noticed it, but this is the first time we've had all female judges because you know, that's such a that's such a movement to empower women. So they said, okay, cool, so skip this some guy sitting that time up. Man, she had the best walk in all like that. Um, those women were sitting there and when that question came up where you had to put your headsets home where it actually had to you had to not only answer the question, but you had to have a better answer than your competitors. That's when that girl from South Africa started putting some distance on everybody because that girl right there was smart. Not only did she have an incredible background story. Not only was a girl cute as a button, but that girl was smart and all of her answers were just like even the crowd that wasn't you know from South Africa. You could just see their faces like wow, wow, yeah that girl wo man, that crowd went off when she wore oh deservedly, so they were saying yeah yeah, and all the girls were happy for her because all the girls liked her. Pretty girl I was surprised she wasn't in it. I really was. I was surprised. I have a question, serious questions. Since it was held in Tyler Perry's studios, was there more of us than this year? Yes, yes, yes, just the most, just the most black people I've ever seen it. Miss you know, but now know this, when the tickets went on sale, in one hour, they were gone. What in one hour those tickets were gone one a testament to you or the fact that well it's just the paget man. You you know, Puerto Rico knew that they had a contest, the Philippines and Thailand. That means the world to those countries, not Puerto Rico, but Puerto Rico was there because just you know, in America we are such a large I mean, Puerto Rico is a part of America, but it's such a large contingent from that island that you know, they were there in large numbers. But it was really man just the Asian Pacific country short for that, Thailand, Philippines, all those those countries there that miss universe is they let's stay super Bowl. Wow. Wow. So I guess when we come back, um, we're gonna go to headlines and now, but when we come back at some point the guys want to talk about the jacket, Steve, ain't no problem. They can't gog them or whatever they want to, all right, but right was introducing bring in miss Anne please, ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne Shrip, thank you very very much. And yeah, that was a beautiful pageant, Steve, he did a really great job. This is Anne Trip for the News. FBI says no arrests have been made in connection with Fridays shooting at the naval Air base in Pensacola, Florida. A gunman killed three people before he was shot and killed himself. The shooter identified as a twenty one year old member of the Royal Saudi Air Force and he was apparently on the base for training, along with a number of other Saudis, and the FBI's Rachel Rojas says they're all being question Our main goal right now is to confirm whether he acted alone or was he the part of a larger network. We currently assess there was one gunman. Other Saudias Is said to be cooperating, but the FBI says they haven't settled on a motive. However, they're now saying this morning that the motive was terrorism, that this guy had gone on Facebook and talked about how he did not appreciate the US backing of Israel. The chairman of the House Judiciary Committee, Gerald Nadler, says that the legislator he could vote on articles of impeachment against President Trump before this week is out. Natalis says that the committee's preparing for a hearing later this morning, right around nine o'clock our time on the East Coast time, on evidence gathered in a three hundred page report issued by the House Intelligence Panel, a report which Natalis tells CNN Stay the Union, concludes that Trump put his personal and political interests in dealing with Ukraine over those of the country, and then refused to cooperate with the Congress. President Trump says that his personal attorney Ruigiliani is going to deliver a report soon to the Congress and to his Attorney General, William Barr about the information Trump says that Giuliani uncovered during his latest trip to the Ukraine. Because Trump says, quote, I hear he's found plenty, Ruigiliani reportedly repeatedly made what have turned out to be anyway unsubstantiated claims about supposed interactions between the Obama White House and Ukraine. Several administrative officials testified during impeachment hearings that Giuliani was pushing purely politically motivated conspiracy theories at the expense of the interests of the American people. Get this. A woman has started a petition to keep Pro Football play Hall of Famer Michael Vick from serving as one of twenty twenties Pro Ball Legends Captains. So far, the petition's got about two hundred and twenty thousand signatures. The Legends captains would act as mentors for the Pro Ball players d while leading a specific team's offense or defense. The NFL announced that Vick would join fellow Hall of famers Terrell Davis, Darryl Green, and Bruce Smith. Michael Vick served eighteen months, you may remember, in federal prison after can be convicted of running what prosecutors called a cool and inhumane dogfighting ring and then lying about it. The twenty twenty Pro Ball takes place January twenty six in Orlando. Finally, Disney's Frozen two was tops at the box office for the third weekend in a row. I'm going with you, Anna, No excuse me. I climbed the North Mountain, survived a frozen heart, and saved you from my ex boyfriend. So you know I'm coming. Brought another thirty five million. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, last night it was the annual Miss Universe path Jennet was hosted by our very own Steve Harvey at Tyler Perry Studios and for the first time that's right, Uh, Steve, we saw you rock in your green and gold jacket. Okay, so tell us about that please? What I mean? This jacket out? How did this come about? You know what I mean? What could I tell you? You know it's green, it's money, you know? Uh huh what crochee on that gold part with that crochete on that who made the jacket? Don't do? Who? Don't shake? Abe? Well? My question is this, since Miss South Africa signed the inside of the jacket, could you wear the jacket inside out? I mean I think why would why would want to wear this? Well? Because it has the winners? She's yeah, now see what you want to do? Jay? No, see you just that's the inside. It's the pika boo A portion of a plus. If I decide to later on put the Universe jackets up for auction for charity here to have more value, I had the inside of last year's jacket would have had all the stars on it and the galaxy. I had the whole universe only jacket. He was blue and had all the Schwarski crystals on it. The inside had every country's name of the Miss Universe contestament, not their names, but the country. You're not listening to me. I'm saying, if you would wear the jacket one time inside out, that would increase the v that would increase the at once one inside out by Steve Harvey. Now, who wouldn't want about it? The late Great Tim Willis boo uh in boomerang uh John John Witherschool, John Witherspoon, John with late Great John Witherspool wore his jacket inside out after coming out the bathroom the first room that we di's appropriate to wear the jacket that way. And your your jacket ain't boomerang. You you mo like coming to America. Princess a Moonda, You mo Princess a Moon Obviously you be in the size that you are. You had a problem with the jacket of some sorts because it was so long. I couldn't even see the pan. I still don't know what could of pants You had a right yet. First of all, the jacket wasn't long at all. It just looked long because you short. It was really a regular side super coade. It really was like as all of my other Dohaker battle suits, which you've never said that, But then Broidery gave it a longer, more tapered look. That was the design. I can feel the hate in Yale show to head. Hey, all right, coming up in thirty four after the hour more Miss Universe highlights coming up right after this. You're listening to all right, Steve. You made it in after a big night last night with the Miss Universe pageant. So tell us now what happened with Well, you can explain it better than I can, for sure, So tell us what went down with Miss Malaysia. Well, see, people, you know I've been hearing that this stuff is trendy, but people don't know how this works. First of all, when I was reading the teleprompter and I said the Philippines, it was in reference to the picture which had actually won the costume which we in the silver that was Miss Philippines. The mistake that got made was the lady that was standing there from Malaysia asked me for the mica, said excuse me, Steve, can I say something? And I handed her the mic and she says, I'm not from Philippines, I'm from Malaysia. Okay. First of all, lady, you're not supposed to be talking. You're supposed to just stand here with your outfit on. But since you asked for the mic, I gave it to her. So then since she did that, I just tried to play like it was a mistake in the teleprompter instead of putting her own blasts and going you weren't supposed to be talking, yeah, because then my next reference was gonna be her. But she didn't let the whole thing play out because there was supposed to be another costume came up from a Canada that had all green marijuana leaves on it, and that joke was supposed to be that ain't the Canadian maple leaf. I didn't know snoop Dog was designed and outfits now and then it was another joke. But the miss Malaysia lady when she asked for the mic. I mean, the producers were going, why is she talking? But I didn't want her to get no trouble, so I turned around and said, man, y'all did it to me again? It's say the Philippines right there, And I just took that so it wouldn't be on her. Yeah. Yeah, such a gentleman man. It's always a backstory to what is going down people. But you know, people on the internet, they got nothing else to do. Steve makes another mistake. I didn't make no mistake. I read the teleprompter and she didn't give me a chance to reference the lady and the silver who was the actual winner from the Philippines. I said, we have here the winner from the Philippines. Now. Before I could turn and point to the screen, Miss Malaysia said, Steve, can I say something? Okay? That was out of the ordinary. That ain't what it supposed to be, right. People are reacting to what they see on TV live TV, and so like you said, here comes the headlines, you know, trending today. You don't do nothing, then, I don't think jacket, you don't do nothing. You know, Timmy, your sense of fashion. It's quite different. You know, they don't make everything in g I Joe fashion. When you shop at and why I shot at in the grown Middi sexual timming, they have things like this. You understand, but but you know, I mean you ain't. You ain't at this level. So you hauling uphill this high? Really, I don't really want to hear you. We could take this time to address the Cartil comment too, which is if the jacket trending, I wanted no, no, the jacket, See Timmy, you don't this ain't for you. Jacket hot for you? Don't it's too big for you. You thought the jacket was too long, You didn't get the design. You You're gonna be fine. Here was the deal with the cardtail comment and this way and people that's trending about this, they need to wake up because they don't know the reality of it. The reality of it is the reason I have twenty four hours security at my house now is because when I did make the mistake and say the wrong name, I had so many death threats from that group of people and I said that, and I can't tell you how many articles. So when I said it on TV that night, it wasn't nothing new. And the reason I have security at my house today is because they were driving by throwing notes over the gate saying who they were. And that's the dumbest thing you could have did. And you're gonna pay now that right there as a fact that ain't got nothing to do with it, now, you know. Was I joking last night? Yeah, I was joking last night. But if you want to trend about that, that type of trending, don't even bother me. It really really don't, because that's just the reality in my world right now. And back to this jacket right here. Okay, okay, we're talking about that when we come back down. All right, we gotta go. Steve coming out, little people talk about you. It is a with a bank phone call. Brank phone call coming up right after this you're listening to show coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today, subject why is her husband so insecure? Right right now though, nephew in the building with today's prank phone call. What you got nev let me chick. Shoot, I'm trying to give any green jacket green jacket prank Let me see what do I have today? Did you just lick your thumb and turn the page? That's funny. Come on, I serily no green jackets, because we're gonna go with my tail. My tail. That's it right there, my tail going. Okay, okay, hello, hello, I'm trying to reach mister mister Kenney's. Yeah, this is how you doing. I'm actually calling you from the seafood house. You you you came and had I waited on you. You came and had dinner over here the other night. Yeah, I'm about two nights ago. Yeah, I was your food. I was a service. Um, everything was good. Um, I don't. I don't have any complaints. I always enjoy when I come there. Um I don't. I never got a phone call from you. Got everything all right? Yeah? Yeah everything. So I'm actually uh, I don't know if you're remember me waiting on you, but I actually waited on you. Okay, okay, how you doing? I'm good with Would you say would you say that my service was was was pretty good enough to par Yeah? Like I said, man, everything was excellent every time am I come there. The food is great, the service is good. Um, I have no complaints. Everything is is good okay, good good deal, A good deal, mister Kennedy. Listen you you if you don't mind me asking, man, if you really thoroughly enjoyed the service as well as the food. And I'm assuming you you come here a lot, so I'm assuming you you really like the food that we put out, if you don't mind, because if I can ask you a question, if you don't mind, sure, okay. If the service was so good and you enjoyed everything, why why why you why you took me the way you did? Excuse me? Why did I do well? You know you you you you didn't even even close to ten percent? You know I would just I just you call. First of all, let me ask you something because I don't remember giving my phone number, writing my phone number down on any survey. I didn't. I've never taken a survey. Lord, have I gotten a call from you guys? So how did you get my phone number? Well, I'm just giving a courtesy call, and I'm just curious about you know, the courtesy. Hey, that's fine, but how did you You didn't answer my question? How did you get my phone number? Because I didn't give it to anybody there. So you you you've done something to to obtain I went on it. I went on and the research and whether it took the kid a number, So yeah, I did. I you know, it was just a bother to me that that you took me the way you did. Well, it's bothering me that you calling me in the middle of the day asking me about a tip. First of all, uh, you said, how much did you say I took you? Yeah? I got five dollars tip and your your meal was at least eight is something plus dollars. You you've done all this research and you got the wrong number. You got the wrong damn number, because first of all, I took more than five damn dollars. I used to work for Chips, bro, So let me explain that to you. I used to work for Chips and I know what it's like. And then five dollars is No, you got the wrong tayy. You don't done all this research for nothing. No, no, you you missed, kiddy, I waited on you. I'm kiddy, but but ye you an't got the wrong kidds don't chiplal damn five dollars. When I go, I balled, baby, I go to the people out because I want to entertain my people. You know what I'm saying, so I don't have to see the problem I'm having. You know, you you you you're bringing your people and you want a ball and everything. But you you know you're balling with them, but you short changing the waystyle. I ain't short change the damn Look you complaining about five dollars. I give you five dollars. Get off the damn phone. Now, would I give you five dollars for us? I don't chiplo damn five dollars. But I got plenty of money. I got plenty of money. I don't need you to call me tell me how to damn kill. I told you man, I used to work for TIMPs. I don't need you to call me. You would think you would think that if you would, you would think that if you were somebody that worked for until that you would know how to come in and tip somebody leaves at least fifteen percent. Man, I can't even understand how how you come in you balling you but you know you didn't brought a couple of people with you, and you leave me with five dollars. Look here, man, ain't leave you. I told your stupids. I ain't leave you with no five dollars, man, I left that at least twenty five dollars up in that thing called. We're hosting some people and I want to show my gratitude for something, and you calling me about the wrong damn tip them out and the wrong person. You don't have got the wrong person and calling got the wrong you, mister Kenness. I remember waiting on you and two other people when you came in there. When you're in there with two other people, Man, who the hell are you? How do you know my damn business? Anyway? Who who the hell are you? Because I'm because I'm the one that way, I don't tell yourself the only way, the only way, the only way we could really rectify it. Won't you do this? Man? Won't you come back up here and bring me the tip that I deserved. I ain't coming no damn where I told you. A matter of fact, when I come up there again, I'm gonna look for your you give me your name, and you give me your managing name, because matter of fact, I'm gonna call up there and come up the other day because I don't appreciate you calling my damn fall by some skill and I know botter damn well, I killed good money. Okay, we'll do this for me, do this for men. When you do come up here to day, when you bringing me my damn put money, I'm gonna give you a tip. I'm gonna give you a till quit calls the people about it tip and maybe make some better service and you will get a better till. I'm brain your tip. I'm gonna you the tip of my shoe up, y'all that one of my brain because you got I get into the job today at Barbara Clark. I ain't look here, man, it ain't no problem. That's perfect. Because I get off at five. I'm gonna come down there. I'm gonna turst. I'm gonna talk to your managers. Then I'm gonna hand you the little special money tip money you won't tell. I'm gonna whoop your in the parking like. That's what I'm gonna do. You know what I ain't worried about to get I want to tip. I'm gonna get you a tip. Quit talking people by the damn tip. That's what you stopped doing. That's your tip. And see you know tissing me off now j I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna whoops. That's what I'm gonna do. Okay, then i'm gonna tell you you're gonna I'm gonna do what I need to do a time. Hey, what ain't, man, I ain't worried about nothing, because let me tell you something. If you whip the same way you timp, I ain't worried about the damn thing. Now check this out. You got the wrong number, but you got the right. But I'm gonna come down there and I'm gonna let you see what it is, plam. See how I try to conduct myself in a nice matter and be professional, but you don't about and you're gonna get it. I got you till when I'm bob. You better weed. Come come down then beat you. That's what I'm gonna do. You're gonna get the real I'm coming down there soon as I get off from work. You better not bring it down now, you bet, But you ain't got to worry about me. He ain't. What's your name? What's your name? Do you? You? You you gotta be in the paper? I remember your name? What's your name? My name? Tommy? Tim me? What because I'm I don't tell me who. Nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got right what hey, man, this is a nephew Timming from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your boy Richard got me to pray for call you go. You know what, y'all? You got my damn pressure up, man, y'all some steak. I'm gonna I'm gonna get. I'm gonna get both of y'all time, y'all be cause y'all ain't right. Man. You got me holing in the dawn dealing. My employee's looking at me. Man, he ain't gonna be me at like this. I'm up here talking about a meeting. So we it coming to Christmas party together, man, And you got me y'all. Man, Hey, kiddy, man, I gotta I gotta ask you though, baby, Come on, man, what is what's the baddest that, I mean, the baddest radio show in the landing the Steve harved Morning Show. Man. Hey, man, Hey, listen, take all the employees to the seafood house. Man. Hey, I'm scared to go down. And now they might they might be scaring. They gonna with me. It might be a difin over. They're gonna be pulling out they kills nine. They're gonna they gonna got the boss. We got it man, y'all got me, y'all got me. Hello, gotta get a Frank Stone. You got to get a brown. I'm not gonna say it. I'm not gonna say it. I'm not gonna say it. Said Jay said, can't damn it jumps up here that pay a lot of money for it. What is it that's so funny to us? That was want make your funny? Really Friday d CMER twentieth Baby, you want to get some more funny, come get it at the Holiday Comedy Jam. That's the twentieth of DCMMER. That's Friday Night at the met Philadelphia and Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. 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Here's Stephen Dear's Stephen Shirley. I am happily married and my wife and I have two kids. The problem is I have a female friend from college. My female friend is also married with two kids, and she lives in another state. We hardly ever see each other, but we do keep in touch. Over fifteen years ago, she and I had sex. My wife knows we were intimate in the past because we all went to the same college. The other day, I was talking to my friend on the phone. We chatted about reality TV shows. I congratulated her on her anniversary, and we talked about our children. We didn't talk about anything that we couldn't discuss in front of our spouses. My wife is cool, but she's no fool. She knows she has nothing to worry about. My friend's husband is nuts so cool. He got upset and called my house. He spoke to my wife about my friendship with his wife. He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she was not. I think he should talk to his wife instead of calling my house and texting me. I shouldn't have to deal with all of the fu and f your family texas, he sends me. I know, so I cut my friend off completely. I changed my number and blocked her on social media. My wife told me but that this lady is my friend, so I should not just cut her off like that. What do you think is cutting her off the right thing to do. If my wife doesn't have a problem with our friendship, why should he. I don't understand why her husband is so upset. Is so insecure? You know he might be insecure, but it doesn't matter whether he's insecure or not. He has a problem with you talking to his wife, simple as that, and that is the bottom line. Whether your wife is okay with it or not. He has a problem with it because you don't know what's going on in their house. You don't know what she's telling him. You don't know if he knows that you guys had an intimate relationship in college, all that is probably messing with him and he doesn't want that to ever happen again. He doesn't like the fact that another man is talking to his wife. You got to give him that you did the right thing. I'm in agreement with you. Cut it off. That's the best thing to do. Sorry that you're friends, but she'll have to understand that if she's truly your friend, that it's best for her marriage, and it's best for your marriage as well. Even though your wife is cool with it. Just cut it off. Form a bond with your wife. If you need to talk about TV reality shows, you guys talk about that. Whatever you guys need to talk about it, do it with your wife. It's just dangerous ground when you form friendships with the opposite sex because it can lead to other things. It doesn't always do that, but it can lead to other things. And that's I think what her husband is talking about. Yeah, like I said, he may be insecure, but it really doesn't matter. Stop talking to his wife. And you've done that, so you're, you know, okay, sorry that you lost your friend, though, Steek, I can't I can't believe this letter. What's wrong? Let mean, dude, what's what's what's wrong with you? Now? Dog? Man? And man, let's take Shelly out of this for a minute. You should just wrote this letter. Dear Steve, she drag Shelly into this fault. Man, we're talking about the problem between you and another man. What you're talking to Shelly about? This fault? What you're talking to your wife about it fault? The problem between you and another man? Damn dog? How old are you? You're this fifteen years ago? You're in college. You ate to you in your late thirties, you're thirty five. You got to be nuts. Let me tell you why you open the ladder with I'm happily married, my wife, we got two kids. The problem is I got a female friend from college. Well, damn, I got a problem. We got to alleviate the problem. My female friend is also married with two kids. She lived another state. We hardly get to see each other. And dog, are you listening to yourself? We hardly ever see each other see each other for one I'm just asking this, just a question. What did you see each other for? What you're talking on the phone. What you need to see each other? Fault? But we do keep in touch. Here we go over fifteen years ago. She and I had sex. My wife knows we were intimate in the past because we all went to the same college. What you're trying to tell me, though, that the reason you had sexual hood because all y'all went to college together. You know how many chicks I went to college with. I wanted and I couldn't get. So if that was the rule because we went to college together, you know how much sex out of here? Well we in college, Come on, man, Berndy's park Man Housing, Little this girl in college, Man, I could go down to the list of girls I was in little with her. College ain't gave me the time of day, but we was in college with cats. Now. The other day I was talking to my friend on the phone. We chatted about reality shows. I congratulate on Anniversity. We talked about our children. We didn't talk about anything. We couldn't discuss them front Housepouse. But the key to this whole thing is We didn't talk about nothing. We can discuss them one ouse, front housepouse, but spouse wasn't on phone. You write anything you want this letter, but what your wife and her husband was not on this phone call? Right, because we're just going on what you're telling us. My wife is cool, but she's no fool. She knows she has nothing to worry about. My friend's husband is not so cool. He got upset and called my house. He spoke to my wife about my friendship with his wife. He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she was not. You don't understand this. See, bro, you calling his wife? Hit figure, I can call your wife. See once you're talking to the man wife. The man got the right to talk to you, old wife. You see that? That's all this is, this faul. I'd have seen this played out a lot of time. Yeah, and the need of you getting mad by dude talking to your wife. Are you over there talking to his wife? That's how this work. Now. I think he should talk to his wife instead of calling my house and texting me. You're lucky he whipping your ass holding right there? Better be lucky. Were just going to texting and talking, got your ass yes, take us out and discuss this with such as you're listening show all right, Steve, back to the Strawberry letters subject why is her husband so insecure? And this was written by a man. And this man then wrote in here where he opened a letter, that I'm happily married, my wife and I got two kids. The problem is I have a female friend from college. Okay, we've identified the problem. You know it's a problem. So now what what you're writing a letter for? Bro? I mean on the real man just see his business man to man. You out of line on this one, not now you. And now she's married, she got two kids, she lived in another state. Y'all hardly ever see each other, but we do keep in touch. Over fifteen years ago she and I had set we were intermitted in the past because we all went to Saint College. What I can name the kicks. I went to college and we didn't have sex. What was her named berneath? What beneath Paul? Okay, look in the severn, Bernie. I thought you were trying to get me any trick. What was her name that? Hesitate? Hesitated? Hesitated? But let me say this, Steve, let me ask, No, I ain't no ask me nothing. I can't ask you a question ahead because you know a lot of people there are two schools of thought of us. A lot of people think that you can have a friendship with a member of the opposite side. You didn't already had sex with her. That ain't friends. No, fifteen years ago, I don't give a damn, But there was fifty years ago. You had sex with her. You didn't elevated the friendship to somewhere else. Yeah, it is somewhere else. Since you wanted it, then what's stopping you from wanting now? You do remember having sex with her, don't you? Yes, because you mentioned it in the letter and now to your husband. Her husband got a problem with it. My friend husband is not so cool. He got upset and called my house, spoke to my wife about our friendship with his wife. He was hoping my wife would be upset, but she was not. Now listening to this part, I think he should talk to his wife instead of calling my house and texting me. No, no, partner, you call his wife. This man now has the right to call your wife. That's how this work. Ain't no, you can't call my wife no more. But you steady calling mine hould up partner. That ain't how this work? He texted strong and can you text it? You can't text my girl and I can't text your girl. How this gonna work? He's talking about this texting though, I'm surprised it's just texted. What am what? He's saying, you and your family? Where's the ass with me? In this left that's mixed. I'm reading this matter. I don't see ass with me here nowhere, anywhere, because once you tell me, if me and my family here comes, then we got to get to doing what you're saying. I don't understand this right here. But he's so damn stupid. So then he says he don't understand all the F you and F your family texts. He wanted you this Jesus called warning shot. Hey man, you and F your family? Now that F your family means you interfeld with mine? Yeah, yea. So now since you don't give a damn bey him, I'm running mine over here. I can't possibly care how you running yours over there. So now here come to F you and the F your family. I'm telling you, this dude is clean. The dude that's insecure is clean. And you better think the lord is just Texan one more time? Where's the where is the ass in this letter? Because the ninety percent of the men I know, I know, and maybe I know the wrong type of men, but men I know. It's already than elevating this here looking in different cities. Yeah, because we're trying to find somewhere to meet right now. Yah. Now, so I cut my friend off complete because you know why you cut him off completely, because you know you're wrong, because you know the man to fied the warning shot. So you didn't cut your friend off completely, change my number in block, turn on social media that he was to watch this right here. My wife told me that this lady is my friend, so I should not just cut off like that. What do you think your wife's gonna get your ass? Yeah? And I see this is why a woman have to step up and be a woman. Now, See, real women have to Women have a different responsibility than men. Real women go, okay, let me keep my husband out of danger. Let me keep him out of harm's way. That's why a lot of women don't come home with news to their husband about something a man saying to him, or something that a man saying to him at a party because she know I gotta protect my husband because just because of man law, he gonna go down here and do something this laby. So now this is where your wife need to stop all this. I don't see why you can't be her friend because she ignant too. Now, both of y'all, egn't ask people that's married together and somebody gonna get their ass on igness, So he is and his wife, okay, both of them. Now it's cutting her off the right thing to do. If my wife doesn't have a problem with our friendship, why should he? Why should he have a problem with it cause you screwed his wife. The whole reason he got a problem with you is because you screwed his wife. Yea, well back in the day she wasn't his wife. I don't give a day we find out we know who it is. Yeah. Oh but now y'all talking, So now we automatically got to wonder what he talking about? Then why are you listening? All right? Well, I think we get the message. Thank you, Steve. All right, post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f M on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast where you ask well on demand. Of course, coming up at forty six after the hour, some trending Miss Universe news. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. See if you hosted the Miss Universe Annual pageant last night, fifth year for you live from the Tyler Perry Studios in Atlanta. There was some beauty full as always, a beautiful, beautiful women, amazingly smart and intelligent women representing ninety countries competing in multiple categories. It was fun, you know what, man, I was really pulling for Miss Iceland. She was very pleasant. All the girls like Miss Iceland. I thought Miss Haiti was really really good. Haiti was really really good, and my sons felt the same way. My sons was going with Haiti and Iceland. That's what they were Miss South Africa one. It was really really good. And I gotta tell y'all, man, because the way they did the judging, if you notice, like I said earlier, it was all women judge and the pageant, and the focus really was on those questions and answers. Now you had to have the poise, you know, you had to walk with the poison grace. You had to pull off the evening gown. You know, the swimsuit is not who looks the best in the swimsuit, It's who carries it in the swimsuit. It's not this is not this. Ain't that type of deal anymore the way it used to be. That's all women judging it. And there were some very very sharp sisters judging that thing, man, and they focused on the answers. And that's where South Africa shine. Now the bonus side. The girl was pretty. That girl was pretty, man, and she walked it. But Lord have mercy when she talked, that's really where she pulled herself apart. Wow. And she was beautiful man. And up close that girl was pretty. Man. We were so happy. I went backstage, took pictures with it and had to sign the inside of the jacket is really good. Swimsuit was about. You know, if they make me go in the back one more time for the swimsuit, I'm a quinn say that again. Why the hell I got to go into back due to swimsuit from the back. But I think it's best though, I really do. I think it's best. Yeah, we need to see my face. Okay, uh we mentioned this earlier time to get back to the foolishness. You know, it doesn't take long on this show. Coming up at the top of the hour, side piece holiday gift ideas. Yea, nothing, no, sorry, nothing, all right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening show, all right? So the guys are here. I'm assuming this does not include you, Steve, No, absolutely, you know the hell it don't. But I know how you he he don't like to be in foolish what happened, but this green jacket change changed. He used to hate fella hate. If you'd have seen How to Miss Universe pageant people was oh my god, you check it? Oh my god. My sons asked me, could they have the jacket? Oh? Tommy, you don't you know you're not at this level. Why am I talking to you? I don't know why you got a green jack with some Dawn crochet on it? What you talking about, Tommy? You can't be with Tommy, Tommy, that wasn't croche. I know it's don't check gumbo? Whoever made him check gumbo? When you can't say it's because you can't get it. Come man, let's just go on, all right, all right, time for side piece holiday gift ideas. Guys. Now, yeah, this is where you talk. Yeah right, just get well, let me think now you know when you have a side well start this off, Jay, Okay, we have we have gift ideas for side pieces male and female because they wanted to be spending the holidays alone by themselves. So so to beat the rush on what to get your side piece, Tommy has come up with some suggestions for men and women who are side pieces. Gifts you can give them take it away Tommy. Well, you know it's a few things you know that you can. You know, you can, like like one ticket to see Hambleton. You know what I'm saying. You know yourself. Yeah, yeah, it's very Yeah, you know, you buy yourself. She can't take a friend, a male friend, No, a friend type of one ticket to Hamilton. That's all you need. Why don't you do that? Send her half for a large pizza with everything on it and a note that sayd when you eat this pizza, just know I eat the other half. Merry Christmas. Yeah we see what Now you eat your part? How about this hill? How about this hill? Send her scarf? My hat and gloves and some long jaws with a no that save you gonna be cold and lonely when I'm not there, So keep warm, baby, very Chris, Yeah, yeah, yea love right there, but says I love you. That says I love you. I'm thinking about you, and I got things to do. If she goes for this, that's what nobody said. The word stupid. That's that's wrong. Okay, okay, fellas here go on, fellas, Fellas, that's what that's what you can do, Fellas. Send your girl, send your side piece of bra from Victoria's secrets and let her know. We'll pick the bottoms on Decenter twenty seven, just the top something man. Yes, but we're gonna we'll get them. We're gonna get them bottoms after Christmas, say the day after, because everybody when returns Tommy, no, can I give you one? Come on, that's what I've been waiting on. Come out by a deca cards so she can play Solida. Ain't nobody gonna be over there? Hi, guys, side peace, holiday gift ideas, Thank you. Coming up more of today's trending stories on The Steve Harvey Morning Show. That'll be coming up for twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Morning Show. We're back with more side piece holiday gift ideas by Tommy and Jay. And when we went to break, Steve chimed in and helped tom. I just I wasn't help you with a gift idea. That was not helping. I just wanted to, you know, put something in the bag. You know, Junior single, you got one? Oh yeah, because you're gonna be alone a lot. You're gonna need all six seasons of a DVD of Martin to watch because you need to laugh. Why you got yourself? Yeah, now you know, now you know, Junior Jay, y'all know. Now there's some ladies got some side pieces. Oh yeah, yeah you know that lady. Okay, So ladies, this is what you do. This is what you do. Send you send your little side man, send your side man a hotel key? What a note that said the room is ready, is already paid for? All right? See you on the twenty seven. Haven't ready for Mama, because you can't do nobody can get out of this, can't do nothing. On twenty field, car give you, Cristal, I give you another one. Tell me come on, come on, give her a half a missile toe. Yes, and just say I know you know I'm over here kissing. Well, when I do see you, you get the other had All right, we got more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This ignorance coming up. Also some trending news at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, you made it in after a big night last night with the Miss Universe pageant. So tell us what went down with Miss Malaysia. Well, see, people, you know I've been hearing that this stuff is trending, but people don't know how this works. First of all, when I was reading the teleprompter and I said the Philippines, it was in reference to the picture which had actually won the costume which was in the silver that was Miss Philippines. The mistake that got made was the lady that was standing there from Malaysia asked me for the mic and said, excuse me, Steve, can I say something? And I handed her the mic and she says, I'm not from Philippines. I'm from Malaysia. Okay, First of all, lady, you're not supposed to be talking. You're supposed to just stand here with your outfit on. But since you asked for the mic, I gave it to him. So then since she did that, I just tried to play like it was a mistake in the teleprompter instead of putting her own blast and going you weren't supposed to be talking, yeah, because then my next reference was gonna be hurt. But she didn't let the whole thing play out because there was supposed to be another costume came up from a Canada that had all green marijuana leaves on it, and that joke was supposed to be that ain't the Canadian maple leaf. I didn't know snoop dog was designed and outfits then come, you know, Timmy, your sense of fashion is quite different. You know they don't make everything in Gi Joe fashion. When you shot at and why I shot at in the Grown middlesexual, Timmy, they have things like this, you understand. But but we could take this time to address the cartail comment too, which is another is the jacket trend? Come, I want no the jacket? See, Timmy, you don't this ain't for you? That jacket help for you? Don't it's too big for you. You thought the jacket was too long, you didn't get the design. You You're gonna be fine. Here was the deal with the cartail comment and this way, And people are trending about this. They need to wake up because they don't know the reality of it. The reality of it is. The reason I have twenty four hours security at my house now is because when I did make the mistake and say the wrong name, I had so many death threats from that group of people. And I've said that and I can't tell you how many articles. So when I said it on TV that night, it wasn't nothing new. And the reason I have secured in my house today is because they were driving by throwing notes over the gate saying who they were. And that's the dumbest thing you could have did. And you're gonna pay now that right there as a fact that ain't got nothing to do with it, now, you know, Was I joking last night? Yeah? I was joking last night. But if you want to trend about that, that type of trending don't even bother me. It really really don't, because that's just the reality in my world right now. All right, coming up, our last break of the day and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, we'll be back at forty nine after you're listening to morning show. Here we go a last break of the day. It's been a good day. Huh yeah, yeah, yeah, busy ye yeah. Getting close to Christmas, guys, getting close. Yes, we are all right, I'm talking about ye oh junior. Yeah, you know, we get to that age now. They don't buy you gets no mom. Hey junior, junior, let me ask you a question for the holiday. Do you have somebody special man? Yes, sir, okay, yes, she's gonna get you something different over here. You know, how do you do well? More importantly, you're gonna get hurt something right, absolutely? Okay, good, Yes, it's gonna be one of them side piece. ID turn your head, you need me call me. I got out, Damn my god. All right, Steve um on that note. Crazy thing to follow that, but it's all good. Do your clothing remarks with your jacket on. Yeah, you know, I really do understand where you're coming from. I understand. I'm gonna let you have that because you don't know, Steve, you brought the flying this baby as all it surely huh, I was a right, Yeah, it was a girl who when I put it on, when I knew it, were no doubt in my mind what was going on? And you were giving us a hint already. When I asked you earlier last week you said I'm going to be a green cheese. You said, huh, yeah it was when I put it on, I tapped it up. Yeah. So anyway, Hey, you know what I want to say in closing remarks today, I want to remind people of something. Okay, don't let other people steal your joy, you know, always man, Just take your positive attitude and going about your business in your life. Too many times, man, you allow outside forces to incorporate and to get into your mindset or your day about something that really has nothing to do with you. Stop allowing people to steal your joy. If you're in a good mood today, being a good mood today, if somebody comes along with some bad news and you just happen to have to sit there and listen to it. Just when they get through giving you the bad news, just say, you know what, I'm gonna pray for you and I bet you things, or turn around and just go on about your business. Don't drink that. Don't allow other people to put they trash in your trash can. You don't need it. See, your trash can is only room for what you have to put in it. If you allow other people to fill up your trash can with they trash, when it's time for yours to go in there, it's full and it overflows in the stays sitting around you. Don't let people steal your joy. If you're feeling good about something, keep on feeling good about it. If something has brought you joy, then keep on feeling joy about it. If you've got some good news, don't let nobody counter it with some other news. If you know that you've done the right thing and somebody comes along with a different opinion, be careful of people's opinion, especially when you didn't ask for it, because they're usually sent by that other force to put their opinion into your space to help ruin what you already had going it. Ain't it amazing sometimes how you be going along and say it and you get a call or a text or something. You know, I don't know if you thought of it this way, or you know, I heard what you said, but I was thinking this. Don't let that happen to you. What they think and what they have to say shouldn't matter to you. If you've done your best, if you've done the right thing, if you're feeling good, if your spirit is feel with joy, if you're in a good mood, if you're just having a wonderful day. Don't allow anybody to come along with their opinion their thought and try to change it. You have to remember what's going on, and that can be from anybody. It can be a phone call and text, It could be on social media, it could be anywhere that's not your business. Remember something that I had to learn a little while back. It don't matter what they say, because what they say don't matter. Keep on pushing, don't allow it to affect your day, a positive spirit, and realize that the law of attraction is always at work, even for them. Whether they know it, acknowledge it, realize it, or accept it, the law of attraction is real. So if there's a person in your life that's trying to put bad energy out your way, you have the right to not accept it. But all they've done is brought more bad energy their way. You know, some people call it calm or you know, what goes around comes around, But actually what you put out just bounces back. So if you see person getting a lot of breaks, it's because they've probably given people a lot of breaks. If you see a person who's always being forgiven, it's probably because they've forgiven just about everybody. If you see a person that they're always talking about but they seem to bounce back somehow, it's because they've probably been in the conduit of a piece of pie that has allowed people to come through them and for them to bounce back. What you put out is the thing that you receive most. The law of attraction is real. Keep on smiling, keep on striving, never cease from doing good. God will bless you for that. Y'all have a great weekend. I did the Universe Popped off file. I'm on to the next mission on my way to Africa, y'all. Oh see you back. Gotta go back. That bars to take care of for all. Steve every contests no purchase necessary, void where prohibited Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 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