Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving them like theming bu things and it's not me true good Steve Hartley Joy, you gotta use that turn hur You gotta turn to turn them out, turning, got to turn them out, then turn the water the water. Come come on your baby, huh. I show will a good morning everybody. You'll listening to the voice? Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Y'all do took of me what I said? But I do like I say always. It just is a constant reminder of how good God has been. So my question to you is what's stopping you from having the life that you want? What's stopping you from having the life that you want? I know a lot of people who have given up on achieving the life of their dreams, but I know they'd still want them if they could get to them. But they just allowed to settle for so many reasons. So who I'm talking to is you today? What's really at the core of stopping you? What is that? Is it your friends or your souls? Is it the fear of what you think somebody else will think of you if you decide to change. Is it what I used to call the call of the while? Is it the fact that you keep thinking that the thing that you're doing that's providing you these momentary moments of pleasure that really ain't really good or healthy for you, You don't want to stop doing that because you've got just a little bit more something else you want to do. I call that the call at a while. You know, it's just out there. Them streets is calling you, Them lights is calling you. You know, them girls is calling you. Them guys that's on the wrong side keep calling you. You can't seem to make a decision by the right guy. You keep picking the wrong guy all the time. What is it that's stopping you from having the life that you really want to have? So whatever the reason you're choosing, that's the reason that's stopping you from having the life that you want to have. It's no good because at the end of the date, here's the real ill. See, God is available, and God is available for all of us, and God has a plan for all of us, and God wants to vary best for all of us. That's the truth of the matter. So now what we're gonna do to get started having that life? First of all, if it's your friends, I want you to understand something your friends can't save you. A lot of your friends offer no real help for you. Most of your friends don't have the answer themselves. I mean, it's just a wide range of reasons and misery love company. So usually when your friends are in a bad position, they kind of like company in that bad position. Your friends ain't going to church. You're gonna be their friend. They don't really want you to go to church. You know your friends don't pray, so why would they offer up prayer as a solution to you. You know, your friends don't really really get the fact that if you treat people better, people would treat you better or so what's that? So your friends are a lot of times the reasons, you know, to peer pressure of what and then the thought in your mind of what they're gonna think once they find out I don't do what they do anymore. Who cares what they think other than you? I mean, really, you can't let what somebody thinks if you stop you from having the best life you wanted to have. If I went by that theory right there, I wouldn't I wouldn't even be on this mic this morning. I would have never become a stand up I would have had I listened to the people around me who clearly told me when I quit my job to pursue this, boy, don't you quit your job? You got a family, Boy, don't you do this. You ain't got no bit dad, ain't ain't no security in that. Get yourself a job, Go down here and whet your brothers go to work over here. I heard all of that. I didn't let that stop me from pursuing this. Why would you allow that to stop you from pursuing your relationship with God so you can have the best life you could possibly have. You gang bang because they've convinced you that this is the family situation and love that you don't have, and they've convinced you that this is your only way, your only source of getting over And then you drum up these ignorant reasons man for staying with it. But they sound so good when you're listening to everybody else you're surrounded by telling you why we gang banging while we're holding this blockdown? Why we slanging this thing here? Right here. Why we're letting it go like this here? You keep listening to them when all in your heart of hearts you know this ain't right. You already know, but you allow that form of the call of the wile, that wanting to be accepted by a group of people who trying to get you to accept a way so you can further they progress. To even prove that you worthy to be around them, you got to commit some type of crime to even prove that you're worthy to be around them. Then when you get busted on the crime, what happens to that where your family had? Now they don't come down there to see you because guess what, they can't turn an idea to death at a law enforcements center. So now your homies can't come visit you. And then you know your family back out here, they ain't taking care of your family because it's all about them. Then you learn that what is it to stopping you from having a life that you always wanted to have? What is it? Why are you a repeat offender? Why do you keep checking yourself back into that institution? Why? Man, why won't you get it together? Why won't you give God a try? Why won't you disassociate yourself. Why would you continue to be a part of a revolving door system and becoming the farm system for these institutions that ain't got nothing for you? But you keep going back in there. And then every time you go in there, and then your little homies or your gang banging, little silly little friends try to make you think that's a badge of honor. Therein't no badge of honor. Man, that's one mode. What's one more scratch on that record, That's one mold, That's one more nail in that coffin. That's one step closer to that third strike where you ain't gonna ever get out. It's one step closer to that graveyard. You keep on. Why would you not give God a try? Why would you not go and see what your life could really be? What is it that's stopping you? Because see, I got news for you. There's nothing like waking up free. I don't care who you are. There's nothing like waking up with the joy in your heart. Now, if you ain't gonna be free, get the joy in your heart, the satisfaction of knowing that you accomplishing something with your life. Help somebody behind them bars, get in the program, show these young cats when they come in a better way. But don't you dare sit there man and just ride it out, and man, just go and get the fullest life that you can have. What you know what it feels like to wake up and be on your way somewhere, knowing that you have something to accomplish, that you can change somebody, that you can stop somebody from going down the roads you went down. It's a whole lot of ways to make your life better. But why would you not go and have the best life you can have? What is it that's stopping you? Really? Really? So you think that Satan really has your best interests at heart. That Dela thing your mama kept telling you about praying, you wasn't listening. It was you. But you know, it ain't ever too late to get back to that. It ain't ever too late to turn around, It ain't ever too late to get your life together, it ain't ever too late to seek God, and it ain't ever too late to pray. Don't forget to pray, don't be ashamed to pray, and don't be too proud to pray, because prayer changes things. Prayer change people too. I'm a witness to that. Ladies and gentlemen, let me have it. I'm talking about that thing called attention. A matter of fact, the way I want that attention is in the undivided. I want it undivided. You know what that means. Don't split it up, don't have some of it going over hell and the other going over there. I want your undivided attention. Do I have it? Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. The reason I ask for is to give you this information that the damn Steve Harvey Morning Show is now officially old and cracking, and your ass is Hell. That's the decision you made, and since you made it, we are help to deliver. We will not let you down. I am committed today to be who God made me to be, and that is something else at times. Thank you, ladies and gentlemen. Charley Strawberry calling for real that damn junior nephew Tommy and behind the seeds, the lady with the forehead the size of a dinner plate, straight out of Mississippi, with enough room on her forehead to put the state on it four times, Mississippi, Misissippi, Missippi, Mississippi spelled out in all of the damn letters Mississippi Monica, and please follow her at Monica at Mississippi Monica and follow her today and increase her viewership. So when she asked me to pose on that little ragged ass encounter hers, somebody will see it. So if you just go to at Mississippi Monica and please follow her. So when she take my picture and somebody gonna see it, I don't like posing for five likes, she stopped. She's way more followers than that. She actually got a cute little Instagram page. People telling me, y'all to do more like your staff dude calling him be putting up personal stuff on that, but I don't like it anyway, how y'all. Lips By Caller at lips By Caller. Also, you could follow Shirley on at My Girl Shirley and then it's at the Nephew Tommy Experience. Well look at you. Yeah, I said, I know stuff, y'all. Y'all think I don't be paying attention. Yeah, Well, Junior kind of hurt me those day because he opened up. He was doing a live I G Live and he was deprest and I thought he was having a crisis. So I cut it off. I was a present. Yeah, you gotta look at it all. You know why was on that back porch on vacation. It wasn't. That was a bad point. That was a backroom top sack. You know what. You know what man need right here. Told me to get the nail, backroom back forward, Get him, Junior, get him? All right, we got house, Junie. When we come back, you give your Instagram to coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the crazy CLO. Right after this, you're listening to morning show. All right, it is time now for asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. But before we get into that, um, Junior, can you give your Instagram your social media information? Please? At Junior shm miss ju n I man, no, man, my uncle he told me to go. He always told man, go out, to leave your best like you work hard, go enjoy it. Did didn't he do? See me? He enjoyed my life. I'm on the damn backboard. Can't You're depressed and I'm depressed. Well, I thought you was at your honest house. None of that was true. Tops or some trees look like forgot you forgot right all right here we go, Celo. This one is from Keyana in Hampton, Virginia. Keyana writes time in graduate school and for the past year, I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six and he's nineteen. He wants to be my boyfriend and said he's going to marry me one day. He's exactly the type of man I want to marry, but I can't get past the age difference. I feel like I'm robbing the cradle. I broke it up, was broke it off with him earlier this year, and he almost flunked most of his classes. So I believe him when he says he loves me. It's age that big of a deal when you think you love someone, please help Well, uh, if it's a deal, if you want it to be a deal, it's also a deal if you make it a deal. And here's a deal. This is for sure. If he stays alive, he won't always be nineteen. That's for shal So. And now with that being said, yeah you yeah, you rob Craiger. He's down in nineteen. He's a real freshman everything. You put some of that senior citizen thing on him and he well, you know, to hit him. You know, that's an older woman. Now he's flogging out of school because he either he didn't got it or ain't getting it no more. But either way, he'd flogging out of school. So when you know, yeah, union, but no, I don't think you have to be worried about that. You know, if he's a good guy, he's a good guy. You know, go forward, you know, all right, But when you take him to your daddy, Oh, he gonna be a little different. All right, We're moving on Michelle and Tampa, says. My fifty nine year old mother recently got a citation for indecent exposure because she was trying to have sex in her car. She told me that it's my fault she was in the car having sex because she has no privacy at home. I moved in with her during the pandemic after I lost my job. Her apartment is small and the walls are thin, so I suggested that she'd go have sex at her sorry boyfriend's house next time. She cursed me out and told me to be out of her house by next month. How can I fix this mess? What? Well, First of all, you told your mother to go have sex at her sorry boyfriend's house. When you in her house, Come on, man, you stoopid. You ain't got no help, you know you you can. You completely out of line. So now she won't you out because she would be having sex in her house. But she tried to be decent to you, so you wouldn't hear the thing. Wall she in the car. Now she got a ticket, and it is to me it is your fault. It ain't really your fault because she still didn't have to be in the car get busted. But you ain't got no right to tell her go over your side boyfriend house. The sovereign person is the one that's living in their mama house. What that ticket? Car? What is that? I ain't before I've been in the car. But the police, well I did get busted one time when I was young in the car, but when the police came up, I had time to get it together because I had naema on the windows? What does nick do? Break that down up? What does that do? You just can't see any wonder? You got the cold cream on the Oh okay, oh, I gotta try that. See listen to and then if you put cold cream on old windows, the other windows fall up way quicker, m oh, I'm doing that. You might not stay, but you should have got the degree. O you y'all y'all being how y'all don't know these things I ain't never had. I ain't never heard of a Yeah, well, I know all you gotta do is all you gotta do it be uneducated. Here we go, moving on, Veronica, you gotta learn some here. So I learned everything they didn't teach in school, So I saince I wasn't picking up nothing in school. I learned everything else that wasn't taught at the school. Degree. Welcome. I'm I'm gonna do a book on little things you should have learned instead of can your ass down after that school listening? Yes, please don't say that. All right, Here we go Veronica, and Augusta says, I'm twenty seven years old and I live with my twenty five year old boyfriend. After some trials and tribulations in our relationship, he said we should have an open relationship. I told him we should just break up because he can't stand it when I see other guys or if I stay out all night. I love him and I would love to be monogamous with him. But as long as he's seeing other people, I will too. What is the benefit of having an open relationship? Should I dump him? Ain't no benefit. It's to be fit to both of y'all. Y'all can see what y'all want to see, and you can see whoever you want to see. That's the benefit of an open relationship, which ain't much of a relationship except y'all know each other doing eat other people and y'all doing each other. That's all it is. That's the benefit. In a nutshell, you know, he mad because you he don't want you going out with nobody and staying out all night, and you want him all to yourself. Both of y'all ignorant. So should she dump him? Dum? What you gotta dump before? You're doing what you want to do and he doing what he want to do. When you dump him, what's gonna happen? Maybe she'll find someone that wants some anogamous relationship, but we gotta go. She can go do that now, all right? All right? Thanks thanks Clo. Coming up next to the nephew with run that prank back right after this you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour, Miss Anne is here with today's national news. Also an entertainment news fifty cent uses Michael K. William's death to promote his TV show and his liquor brand. Uh yeah, yes, tasteful taste. Listen. Yeah. Also another entertainment news, our radio brother big Boy, Big Boy got a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. We'll talk about stories, yeah, at the top of the hour. But right now, the nephew is here to make this laugh. Would run that frank back? What you got nat all right? Turn to your neighbor and say, neighbor, it is pranking time, all right. And the title is the preachers Wife. Amen, la, Amen, Amen, Amen again one more time. Amen, there might be one today. If you don't start, let's go care. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach a sister Angela, Sister Angela, please, how you doing. My name is Brother Clayton. I'm calling you from our greatest Baptist Church. How are you doing this morning? Oh? I'm fine, I'm fine. Yeah, listen, I know that your husband, Reverend Jonathan, is actually one of the candidates that we may be choosing to be our pastor since our past pastor has stepped down. Yes, yes, yes, I'm very proud of my husband. I think you'll make a very good candidate. As a matter of fact, here at the church, we've been asking a lot of the deacons and assistant ministers here have been asking different questions, different things that they would be doing once they became pastor, you know, like your first one hundred days. What would you try and change here at the church or try and make better? So to speak? Yet, but but what my husband, he's not here right now. Did you need to speak to him? No, not right now. What we decided to do, Uh, sus Angela is actually called the wives and ask them a few questions. Oh, okay, that's a little different though, sure, And we don't we don't want to take up too much of your time. You know. A lot of times, Uh, if a pastor is stressed at home, nine times out of ten, he's likely to be stressed at the church. So I guess, my, my, My biggest question to you is is your husband stressed at home? Uh? No, not that I know of. He eats regularly, he's on a good diet. You know, he gets goes to the doctor regularly. He gets his physical um pretty good at home. I don't have a reason to believe that he's stressed. He certainly hasn't brought anything to my attention. Okay, No, No, I don't. I don't. I don't. I don't, I don't. I don't think you follow me, s sus Angel. What I'm saying is he's stressed behind closed doors? Is he stressed in that fashion? Um? I'm not. I'm not too sure I follow you. You say behind closed doors? What exactly did you mean by that? Is he is? He's stressed in y'all's relations Is he stressed? Are you asking me about my personal business? Brother? Well, what I'm saying is if he's stressed at home, he'll be stressed at the church. And if he's stressed at the church, then the members are stressed. Then the congregation is stressed, So the stress start with you. Excuse me. If you are making sure that he's all right at home, he's gonna be all right at the church. I'm sorry, brother. What was your name? Brother Clayton? Brother Clayton. I appreciate you m conducting whatever interviews you guys need to conduct with the candidates. Wise, I do think that's pretty much personal territory, and I really don't want to answer those kind of questions. It's not personal since the Angela when it's so many other people involved. That's why I'm asking you the question, is your man stressed behind? I could assure you, yes, that my husband is not stressed at home. If I get your drift, he is not stressed behind closed doors, brother, and I would appreciate you if you don't call with these kind of questions. Are you asking other candidates why these kind of questions? Well, I was the one dedicated to call to give you a call, and that's the question that I decided to come up with because I want to know if a man is gonna be stressed, because if he's gonna have tension at the church, then then the congregation is going to have tension. The church is gonna have tension, and the church cannot move forward in the direction on withgreaton. My husband and I have been married twenty five years and they've been twenty five good years. If you get my drift, okay, he is not stressed at home, and whatever goes on at home, my husband has sense enough not to take it to the church. That is not something he's gonna do. So you don't see about anybody else being stressed at the congregation in the pulpit nowhere. Okay, we ask it together at home, and I appreciate it if you don't ask me those kind of questions, but sometimes ask me, well, sometimes a woman does not realize that a husband is stressed. You understand that there's a possible way that you don't know that he's stressed. So how can you get let me get your phone. A matter of fact, let me get your full name. What's your first name? Let's just go with brother Clayton right now, could you please answer this question? How can you guarantee that he is fully not stressed? Brother Clayton calling the Lord real quick? Hold on, Brother Clayton. I'm an honorable woman. I'm a woman who stands by my man. Okay, but you are asking me some questions that very personal, very private, very confidential. You are asking me questions that that a question is the safety of my marriage. Okay, my husband is not stressed, and if I don't send him away from my home stressed? Okay, how do you know? But what are you doing to make sure that this is less stress? Clayton? I'm about to end this phone call. Okay, now, if you know, we're not gonna end this phone call until that we know we I need to know that Reverend Jonathan is not stressed at home. They put they assigned me to talk to you, and that's what I'm gonna do, and I'm gonna leave. He is not stressed. I don't know who told you that the man is not stressed. If he had to stress around you, I bet you. I bet you he stress because you're stressing me right now. Now we're both stressed out. How can we understand that that man is not stressed. That's the end of this conversation. Do you understand me? Give me your full name right now, give me some intimate details, and then I'll give you my number to cross the line. You wait till my husband gets here. If this is gonna cost him a candacy, does this so be it? We'll find another church. I'd have some choice words for you right now, Brother Clayton. I will give you my name right now. Do you have a pen? Yes, I'm gonna write it right now. The letter N N is in nancy E P. I know how to spare that talk faston N E P h E W got a name? Is that nephew, your name is Nephew Clayton. My name ain't nephew Clayton. My name is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your husband, Reverend Jonathan. Hold on, you said, this is nephew Tommy, this is God from the Steve Harvey Mourning's your Your husband got me to prank phone call you. Oh Lord, I'm gonna kill it. O Lord that I don't need that. Oh didn't trust me, sent me this morning. I can't believe I let him get me, you know, planks before. Oh my God, Tommy, I will tell you if this was twenty five years ago. Brother, I cussed up a storm. I'm so glad. I'm a save woman. Well listen, listen. Can I ask you one more thing? Yes? What is the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Morning Show? Oh Lord, all right, nephew. Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment and national news for you right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve. We have to say congratulations to our fellow radio brother. We love this guy. He's radio legend. Big Boy, big Boy, Big Boy, yes. So yesterday I'm Big boys fifty second birthday. He received his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame, presented to him by doctor Dre Cool. Right, Yeah, yeah, congratulate Yeah, big Boy it is has been a radio icon for almost thirty years in his morning show is syndicated by Premier Radio Networks. I mean he deserves that. He's been around a long time and he does great radio LA Radio. He's a legend, Steve. So we just want to show Big Boys some love. Love boy. You know, somebody somebody has sent me something, but I would tape so late I forgot to do it. Somebody asked me to send a video the Big Boy for his birthday bass or something, and I forgot to do it. But if I got a couple of minutes, I would just like to say to a man who we started out as competitors and we ended up becoming friends while we were both on competitive stations in Los Angeles, and the show of force that we did one time was we were doing something to curb violence in schools out in LA and me and Big Boy was on the stage at the same time, and everybody knew we were supposed to be competitors. But when men and Big Boy stood up and hugged each other on that stage to show unity amongst us, that a whole auditorum a kid stood up and that changed me and Big boys relationship from then on, and we became instead of competitors friends. You know, we still had to do what we had to do, but that was never an ill words said on my show towards him, and never an ill word on his show towards me. And I respected that cat, and he's a bad boy and one of the best I've ever seen. And his studio actually inspired the studio that we built in Atlanta where we had our studio home base in Atlanta, because I went out there saw that, I said, man, that's cold. The only thing was he worked the board and I was dedicated to never pushing a button without a check. That was the only damned plea. Will not act like I know how to do this engineering thing that was lost. Congratulate somebody telling him I gave him a big shout out this morning. Will do absolutely. In other entertainment news, while fans of Michael Kay Williams have been mourning his death, fifty Cent has been using it to promote his TV show and his liquor brand. Um. Taking to instam, he posted wide opened emojis along with a screenshot of the breaking news of Michael's death and the caption this is what fifty wrote. Damn. If you didn't see Raising Kine, check it out. Fentenol is no joke killing the clientele. For those of you who don't know PowerBook three, Raising Kanaan is the stars show based on fifties childhood and queens. He also added our rip Michael K. Williams and he spelled his name wrong and then followed that with just hashtags promoting his kannak and his wine lines. It was pretty distasteful and he got a lot of He took it down. He took it down, and then he tasted the headline trended again. Come on, yeah, stop it downright, all right, Steve, Ladies and gentlemen, miss a trip. Thank you very much, and good morning everybody. This is entered with the News and ABC. Washington Post poll shows that only forty nine percent of Americans asked think this country is now safer from terrorism than it was before the nine eleven attacks twenty years ago. Of course, of nine eleven anniversaries Saturday. As you would expect, planning is well underway by the New York City Police Department by the World Trade Center in advance of this weekend's twentieth anniversary. John Miller is an Depart's Deputy Commissioner of Intelligence and counter Terrorism. We've seen the call to action this year be louder and better organized from terrorist groups than we have seen in prior years, which is why he says, even though there are no credible threats out there right now, there's plenty of reason to remain vigilant, and that is what we are doing. A new Texas law banning abortions after only six weeks is being criticized by many in the country. One of those, New York Congresswoman Alexandriocazio Cortez, or AOC as she's called, who tells CNN that the six week limit just shows Governor Greg Abbott's quote deep ignorance in case no one has informed him before in our life. In his life, six weeks pregnant means two weeks late for your period and two weeks late on your period for any person. Any person with a menstrual cycle can happen if you're stressed, if your diet changes, or for really no reason at all. In other words, it's too soon for most women me to even know that they're pregnant. AOC says she's sorry to have to break down biology one on one on National TV. President Biden is putting is putting up eight nominees for federal court judge ships. His choices are diverse. For instance, A Lucy Coe would be the first Korean American woman to serve on the US Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit. Judge Cole was nominated for the same position by foreign President Obama, but Republicans sat on it and did refuse to take a vote on her. Another Biden pick is African American Superior Court Judge Holly Thomas. Early in her career, she worked as an appellet on appellet cases for the Civil Rights Division of the Justice Department, and Bidens also nominated California Court of Appeals Judge Gabriel Sanchez for a federal judge. Of these judges, by the way, are lifetime positions once they gained them. And finally, na NA that's what Black lives and civil rights demonstrate, as sang in Richmond, Virginia. Yesterday's the stature Robert E. Lee was taken down a remove from a city square that humongous statue erected over one hundred years. Go now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Mourning Show. Trending news out of Atlanta, Lenox Square Mall, with luxury brand stores like Neiman Marcus and Louis Vatan will roll out a youth supervision policy. This means all visitors eighteen years or under must be accompanied by a parent or adult twenty one twenty one years of age or older at all times after three p m. Any unsupervised youth under the age of eighteen must leave the property by three pm, and both youth and adults must carry identification. This policy comes to just after multiple violent incidents at the mall, including shooting, armed robbery. The mall said this is to the response of the community who want safe and a pleasant environment and a family friendly environment to shop in. So you know what, look, look, most of us live in Atlanta. I agree with that policy. Now, it's a shame that there are good kids that have to be hurt by this. It is really a shame. But I am telling you, man, that mall used to be a great place to go. I can't tell you that how many times me and Margin and went upstairs on the top of that escalator and had done at that steakhouse right up there. We don't go up there no more. We don't go up there no more. I can't tell you how many times we used to go to Neemon Markets to sit down in the cafe and have lunch and stuff like that. We don't go up there no more. And that was in Nemon Markets. Because they shooting in Nemon Markets. It's a damn shame, man. So we don't want nothing that bad. I can't run the risk. And it's just a shame, man that a few mess it up for the minute. But the few is a large number though, see that few to where they started having to put metal detectors at the gate the door because just people just carrying, you know, they're carrying and and and that's it's a sad thing, man. But that mall, then, Nix's Mall, was such a cool place to go. And they got nice shops in there, nice stores, fils, really nice places to go in there. And it's it's just a few that have messed it up for many and so I'm okay with the policy, man, And until we get this thing under control, we we gotta protect the innocent. I'm sorry. Yeah, they said that demanded some kind of change. You have to do that, but that crime spills over. It's not just in that mall. They come into that area to do what they want to do. You know, man, you can't do that, And I'm sorry, man, the riff raff gots to go. Yeah, So if you're on it keeps going. Man. Your company by an adult with I D Yeah. All right. Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll tell you about the HBCU week. We'll tell you all about that with our special guests Rashaan McDonald coming up right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Multi Emmy Award and NAACP Image Award winning TV film radio producer Rashawn McDonald Ladies and Gentlemen, is the host and producer of the HBCU College Day Tour, which stops in three states in September, including the canvases of HBCUs in Alabama, North Carolina, and Georgia and the first event stop is launching in Alabama. Ladies and gentlemen, come on, Steve, do it like you do. Ladies and gentlemen with whatever voice I have, put your hands together for the older creative and soul survival money making coversasions, whether you want to have them or not, Da damn U shown them? Mac Donald? Yeah, Man, Man, man or thank because see I emailed Steve he's in DUBI to come on the show to talk about hpc you College Day even when we're back. Immediately Man said, come on the show. Mac. Let's do this because I'm trying to change lives, and only way you're gonna change lives with an event like this is to come on the show, like to Steve Harvey Mornings. So I talk to friends and also friends who have also went to HPCUS and understand the value of what I'm trying to do in the month of September at these three stops. Yeah, absolutely, I guess. So like okay, so, so tell us about this college statement what you got called? Well, what happened is I'm doing something that is first of all, it's free, and you know we got COVID happening right now. And so we're providing facial masks to everybody. We also will be testing in certain locations, also providing hand sanitizers. I want to get that out the way first. We have a clear understanding that there will be social distancing we will from finding masks. We're respecting like five thousand people at Alabama State, five thousand people that went to Salem State and North Carolina. Then in Georgia, we're gonna be in Atlanta, Georgia, in the bed that call it the bed of HBCUs where you have more halls, Bare Hall College, Clark Atlanta University, Mars Brown, and Spellman right here in Atlanta, and we're actually gonna do be COVID testing. But what we're trying to do Steves and team is that it's a free event and I'm bringing military recruiters, corporate recruiters, people will offering people jobs and HBC schools, And what we're trying to do is get these high school students and juniors and seniors and young adults we have made a decision in life. They can come there and they can register on the spot, or if they don't want to go to college, they can go military opportunity if you want to go into space one boy, aviation technology. Anything is available at these three locations. And that's why I'm so special. Its free, and that's why I'm offering, and that's why I want to make people understand that you can start your dreams at HBCU College Day. Military recruiters, corporate job recruiters, they would be back there taking application for internship. And also the HBCUs. The beauty of it is that I'm a different HBCUs and they're allowing other HBCUs to come on their campus and set up shop and recruit qualified Tier one students. That's what HBCU College Day is all about. And I'm so proud to be able to say that we're doing and promoting these staatee. Harvard Morning Show. Okay, so let me answer this question. So when you speak about scholarship opportunities for what do you mean by that people understand about the scholarship opportunities. Okay, all HBCUs give you an opportunity to day roll. Some HBCUs you don't know because you know you don't need an SAT and act scores. Some of you do. If you bring your SAT scores and ACT scores in your high school transcript to an HBCU college day event. Then they can register you on the spot and if your grades and your scores qualify you, you can get scholarships on the spot. That's what I mean. Scholarships that are four right, scholarships on the spot. Those are the opportunities that we are making available because HBCUs do recruit tier one students. H b C U Awards dot Com. Let's go now, everybody, HBCU Awards dot Com. Call your young relatives, everybody you know that's been thinking about it, considering an opportunity here. It is a chance to get its one stop location. Go to hbc YOU Awards dot Com now and change your life. Sean McCloud, appreciate you calling the same. I love y'all, man, Thank you for the time, man, and get where any We love you. Thank you all right. Coming up next the nephew with Today's spraying phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today, the subject my husband likes other women. What all right? We'll get into that in just a few, but right now the nephew is here with today's spraying phone call. What you got for us? Now? All right, y'all, y'all gotta stay wit mean Now, This one right here is dp C a dp Department a D. This is dead person could action age and what did it stand? Dead? He writes? But what you wanted to how's we gonna talk about it if I don't see it now? So it's a prank and it start with D. Yeah, okay, but it's really live though. You're gonna love its Dead Person Collection Agency d d C. Hey, let's go cat diggity. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Darrel police z Darrel. This is uh Tony with DPCA. We wanted to give you a call. How are you doing today? Uh? Well, what what's what's the company? Uh? DPC? Aight? What what that mean? Uh? DPCA is a dead Person Collection agency. We actually collect uh money from those that have been that have that are deceased, but people still old them. Are you familiar with um Carlton who passed away six months ago? I know him? Yes, he could do. But what do you want from me? Though? Okay, it's been brought to understanding that you actually owed mister Carlton Fisher twelve hundred dollars? Is that correct? Nah? Nah? We're talking about nah? Okay, So how how though, as mister okay, let me let me get this, let me get a clear understanding here. You actually worked with mister Carlton Fisher, correct fact? Yeah? Is that right? Yes? Okay? So have you borrowed money from mister Carlton Fisher before? Why are you asking though? I'm asking you a clear question, sir, have you borrowed money from mister Carlton Fisher before? I don't feel like I should an though today? Your business though? Oh no, it is my business because I'm with the collection agency and it's been brought to right attention that you owe twelve hundred dollars to him. I don't know what you talk about any even send me no letter, so I don't even know what's going on. I'll repeat myself again, Sir, my name is Tony. You send me a letter through you send me a letter, Send me a letter though I haven't sent you a letter. I'm telling I don't know why you call me that if you don't send me no letter though. Okay, sir, you owe this money to mister Fisher. See, I'll understand. I don't understand. You didn't send me no letter though, and then you're gonna call me though definitely don't send Okay. So here's the deal, sir. If you don't play the twel liner, we will come and take something. We will confiscate something of the same value. So I'm letting you know send me no you you even even send me no letter though. If you do that, I'll call the police because he didn't send me no letter though. You not saying what I'm saying makes no sending No. I'm hearing what you're saying, sir, But at the end of the day, you're not hearing what I'm saying though. You shouldn't even be talking to me right now. You gotta send me a letter though. That's how it is. A bills. He did not inform you anything, right sir. You owe you owe the twelve hundred dollars shirt. We both know that you're saying you're skipping a step right now though that's what I'm saying. Friends, it doesn't matter about the step, sir. You know what you owe, and I'm just gonna let you know. I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. I'm gonna let you know this. We will come and compensate something of the same value. Well, let you know, but I'll let you know first though. You cannot do anything without sending a letter. You did not send me no letter and send me no nothing though you call me. You're harassing me right about now without even send me no letter. That I was saying, like, this is the deal, this is what happened, This is when it's due. YadA YadA, even do that, Okay, So let me let me say this to you. We do know if you have a two thousand and seventeen pick up truck, we do you threaten me. I'm just letting. I'm letting you know we're picking up something of the same value or more. Okay, you turn me now, that's not that's bull threatened me now. Didn't even send me no letter. You just called me up staying like I owe you now, didn't even give me no date like. Its make no sense though, sir, this is DPCA, this is what we do one pass. I don't care if you got your government agency. You should be sending me a letter. Sorry, you owe mister Fisher twelve hundred dollars. He's now deceased. We are going to collect this money. All we're gonna collect. What I'm saying is you skip the step. You skip the step. You did not. You did not inform me that I owe mine to him. You just tell me right now on the phone. You should wants to send a letter though, sorry, do you want to send us to send us the money or do you want me to pick up even know what you're talking about though? Are you talking about my truck? You're talking about my truck. No, no no, no, no, no no no, we're not doing that. No we're not You're not touching my truck right about now. You know what I'm saying. Now, that's it. We're done. We're done. If you come on my truck, I want to with you. Hear what I'm saying. I don't care what dollars it's twel dude, I'm telling you right now, you can't send me the letter. Now I'm angry. I'm gonna tell me your truck come at me. I will come at you hard. I'm saying, baseball bats all that. Don't with me, don't with me. You'll get jump. I'll jump you. I'll jump y'all take your truck. Hear me? You'll stay a boy from me? Sorry, not all, man, I'm not I'm not playing either. So are you doing? Yo? Yo? Yo? Yo? Are you listening though I'm listening to you? Are you listening to me? You're the person you don't know the type of dude I am? Man? I you know, yo? You sound man comfortable right about now? Good? Don't be uncomfortable. You know what I'm saying. Okay, I'm I'm gonna let you know this. If I don't get this money by today, then then you might as well start not sleeping the night because there's a strong possibility what your car, your car not be there? In your car, I'm I'm playing it as clear as possible, sir. Twelve hundred dollars are your car. Your truck may not be there in the morning. This is your car? Do you want to be there after the next one? Though? What are you trying to say? What are you trying to tell me? What you're trying to say? What are you hit? We heard, we heard, we heard from me exactly, dude? When can we expect? When can we expect the twelve hundred dollars I'm telling you right about now. Don't cockle my car. I'm doing that, all right, I'm doing with you. Don't cou my car. Don't fut my card. Don't okay, card, So you don't call me back? All right, I'm done, mother hung up? Call him back? Call him back, man, call him back. Who you think? Who you think you hanging up? Pall man? Who you think you hanging up? Call me again? You call me again? You damn right on me again again. I'm waiting on the twelve hundred dollars. Okay, Now I told you this. I told you. I told you that. Now now you're getting me angry though. Now you're getting me angry though I told you this. Don't call me all right, send me the letter. You don't send me the letter They telling about taking my truck. I'll you up. Okay, you up? Okay, you know what I'm gonna doing. I'll tell you what ware you gonna way gonna do, though, wa gonna. I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna tell you right nod ware you gonna. I'm gonna let I'm gonna go hang me, come get the truck. I'm gonna let timm me come get the truck. Who I'm gonna let Timmy come get the truck. I don't know who Tommy is? Which Tommy Tommy who? Tom Me? Tell me baby, not you Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Baby, your boy Trevor at your job got me the prank phone call you man, he always be listening to y'all too many. Gosh, oh, I hope my Paul office sat here right now. Man, you want paro, I'm no comment. Okay, all right, there you go. I'll tell you what this This has only comment. I want to tell me this what is the baddest? And I mean the bandage radio show was in the land, Baby, give me tell me who isn't it the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Y'all bunch of crazy mon BP were dead first agents A good idea to do that, huh yeah yeah, I mean get your attention right away time. It's like this caller, there are a lot of people. There are a lot of people who have passed away, and people old those people. You know what I'm saying. People old those people. And just because someone has passed don't mean you don't steal owe them. If they loaned your money, you still owe them this collection though. Yeah, that's all right. We gotta go, nephew with this foolish final Coming up next, my Strawberry letter, the subject my husband likes other women. We'll get into that right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter. I've on the air, just like we're gonna read this. When you hear that right here, right now, buggle up, hold on tight, We got it for you here. It is a Strawberry letter. Thank you. Nephew's subject my husband likes other women. All right, Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm married to one of the finest men in my whole town. We've been together twenty four years and married for eighteen. He was my high school sweetheart and we married young and had two children early. We started having sex when we were sixteen, so he was the only man I'd been with until recently. He has cheated on me, and I forgave him because I had checked out of our marriage and was going through a little depression. We didn't go to counseling because he refused to go. Instead, he offered me a hall pass to make up for what he did. I may have been depressed, but I'm not crazy, so I told him no thanks, and I went out and had an affair on my own discreetly. There's no way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing on the side, because he's now checked out of our crazy marriage. It's nothing for me to find him on the couch with his feet up, talking to another female and gossiping with her like their girlfriends. He goes shopping with his sister and his mother all the time, and they have even stayed out of town to go shopping at an outlet mall. My sister loves to come to me with a bunch of rumors about my husband, and she tries to stir up mess. But I'm not that concerned about what my husband is doing. She suggested I call his mom and sister and ask about the shopping trips and see how long my husband is really with them, or if he ducks off to go see a female. I don't have the energy for any of that, so what if he likes other women, I'm cheating because I wanted something different, So I see why he might be interested in other women. My husband and I have been best friends for almost twenty five years, and that's what's most important to me. Am I wrong for not caring what he's up? Tom? I don't know what this is, but it's certainly not a marriage. I mean, this is a joke right here. Why don't you guys just put yourself out of your misery. You're cheating, He's cheating. This marriage, unfortunately, sounds like it is run its course. And you ask, is it wrong that you don't care anymore? Well, I'll only say yes if you plan on staying married to him. But this is why people get divorced because they don't care anymore. They don't give a darn. What good is it being married if you don't care about each other? Okay, your marriage is just pathetic at this point. I mean, what are you holding onto? Is it the memories from back in the day, the habits, what's comfortable? Is it just familiar to you, you say, your best friend? Or are you waiting for a miracle or for something to change? I mean, what is it that you want. You're tired and bored with you know, with each other, because you guys simply neglected to do the work that it takes to keep your marriage strong. I mean, the two of you have given up on yourselves, You've given up on the marriage, You've given up on each other. What do you what do you want? And what does he want? Do you guys even have any idea? I bet you both know what your side pieces need and want. I bet you do. And yes, his mom and sister are definitely covering for him. I think when he hangs out with them, if he won't go to counseling, why don't you just go on your own? You know, if you feel like there's something salvageable about this marriage, as long as you're still married, there is a chance. It's not too late. Marriages have come back from all kinds of bad things. I mean, you say you don't care, but I kind of think you do. Otherwise, why are you writing us steve this marriage, oval dis marriage or I ain't no saving this. This is not salvageable. And the reason I'm saying that it is because it's too back and forth, and there's more folthing back so I don't really know where we're going with this, but let's just give you my take because I'm anna the little bit of hate shade in the early beginning, because I don't like when that a start like this, Dear Steven Shirley, I'm married to one of the finest men in the whole town. Oh that's how you're gonna. You're gonna, you're gonna, You're gonna come to me with that. I'm married to one of the finest men in my whole town. Well, let me knock you down a little bit, because town means small populated area. So now, if you was married to the finest man in the city, you might have something right now, but you're married to the to the finest man in our town. Once again, town small populated area. My ranch was in Little Elm, population six hundred and thirty people. Hard to find a fine person out of six hundred and thirty, you got to give just somebody got ahead of title because out of the six hundred and thirty people that lived in the township, all of them weren't adults all. I'm one young and a lot of them probably used to be fine. So I just wanted to say that and get that out the way. That's a little bit of shade and hate and been together twenty four years man eighteen high school sweetheart, started having sex when y'all was sixteen. Y'all tied each other by now, it's the only man you ever been with. And until recently, oh later took a tourney. He has cheated on me and I forgave him because he's the first time I had checked out of our match and was going through a little depression. I'm not really sure how to read that. I don't know what a little depression is up next to a lot of depression most people I noticed the depress is just sad ass people. I don't know how you be a little sad if your ass is just saying hold on, Steve, hold on, we'll have part two of your response. Just say about this. Let coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. My husband likes other women is the subject. We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject my husband likes other women. Yeah, okay, here we go once again. Let me I'm gonna just read let it tear apart. I go to Steven Sherlon. I mad to find his men in my whole town. Once again, I'm told you about the little town. Still you know? So what you know? How many y'all stayed? At two hundred? It's easy to get the title when it are two hundred people. Okay, So you married to the little finest man and atal been together twenty four years, married eighteen. He was your high school sweetheart. You got married, you had kids earlier. You've only had sex with him. You started having sex at sixteen. You checked out the marriage. He started cheating on you, and you forgave him because you had checked out of your marriage. That's the first time somebody checked out the marriage. So while you checked out, he checked out two. So y'all been checked out, y'all got married early. All this is understandable because you was going through a little depression. That ain't really why he checked out. You know that ain't really why. But you always trying to give a man an excuse for why he messed up, So I guess you can let him have that, all right. We didn't go to counseling because he or he didn't want to because see here, don't see nothing wrong. I told you you checked out. He been checked out. He cheated because he wanted to. Instead, he offered me a Hall pass. Now, ain't that a guilt trip? So since I cheated, you can go out and cheat to make up for what he did. Now, you might have been depressed, but you ain't crazy, So I told him no thanks. And then right after you told him no things. See that's another thing. You checked out the marriage. Then he cheated on you. Then he turned around gave you a hall pass. Then you told him no thanks because you ain't crazy. But you went out and had an affair on your own, very discreetly. So now you didn't check back out the marriage again. There's no way he'll ever figure out what I'm doing on the side, because now he's checked out of our crazy marriage. Okay, now you checked out, you cheating. He's been checked out, but you think he ain't. So now he didn't checked out again. Then you say it's nothing for me to find him on the couch with his feet up talking to another female gossip we win her like their girlfriend. Then here's the part where it got all unbelievable. He goes shopping with his sister and mama all the time, and they stayed out of town to go shopping at an outlet mall. Who go with their mama and their sister to a damn outlet mall at the time? What black dude, you know, go out of town with his mama and his sister go shopping at an outlet mall? Who do that? And you know, once again we're back to how small your town is. How the hell you got to go out of town to find a damn mall? That's really a small town. If you got to go out of town to find an outlet mall, do y'all stay in the village. Yeah, My sister loves to come to me with a bunch of rumors about my husband. She tries to stare up mess and here's another telltale sign. But I'm not that concerned about what my husband is doing. This is a woman who's completely checked out. See is all these check out red flags in this marriage? She suggests that I call his mom and sister asked about the shopping trips. See how long my husband's really with them? Or if he ducks out to see a female. Here's the next line. Now, all these lines sum up the letter. I don't have the energy for any of that. Red flag checked out? Next line? So what if he likes other women? What fla? What? What? Oh? Wife says? So what if he likes other women? All these sentences right here is to tell tale in this whole letter. Next sentence? You ready for this. I'm cheating because I wanted something different. What listen to the sentences? All of these is back to back. You're ready for the next sentence. I see why he might be interested in other women? What any of these sentences by their self? It's damaging evidence, but she put them all in the same paragraph. Ain't back to back to back? You're ready for the next one. This is the one that's absurdd. My husband and I have been best friends for twenty five years, and that's what's most important to me. Are you nuts? Y'all friend? Y'all best friends that don't give a damn about each other? Am I wrong for not caring what he's up to? Now? You ain't wrong with you? You don't care? How you wrong for not kid? You don't care? I told you at the top of this letter. This marriage is over. It's been over. You're not in a marriage, y'all is some mess y'all sitting up somewhere, y'all roommates. He got his feet up on a coffee table, talk coffee table, talking to other girl. You in the house, ain't no consequence, Ain't nobody busting, no ass, trail over nobody head you know, or nobody at all. Y'all got all the windows in the house. Yeah, I can drive off. Ain't none of his times flat, Ain't no sugar, any gas thing? Post your comments on today. Well when you need I'm right here. That's right. You're listening to show all right, coming up at the top of the hour. It's Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, please introduce our girl from the Talk Girl, the Talk Star. Undo. Thank you, Steve. Now that's an introduction, Steve Hobby. That's why we are best friends. In my mind for real, were tight. We brothers were to gather. Okay, listen, Steve so clarose, Well, you know me and Steve. You know we we we're brothers. I mean we're sisters and brothers, but we just like that. We don't like that short describe. Stop trying to get in the middle of my relationship with Steve, Steve, since you're my best friend in my mind, right, I need love advice by me and Junior, so we keep firing going at Junior. Hello Junior, Okay, there it is right there. Okay, now to keep our relationships strong, hot, passionate. What advice would you give me to keep my relationship with Junior strong, hot, and passionate? What avice think? A lot of things that you are when you come on the show, shrill? I think you know, like you and I are friends. We've been friends for a long time, so you don't have to say your best friend. In my mind, I'm not your best friend, but we are friends. You know, I'm pretty sure in my mind you are my best friend. Well I know, but you know you can't call me with just anything. You know, ain'tthing to talk about all that. So, you know, best friends talk about anything. You can call me if you got a real problem. But if you got a little problem, I probably you know I ain't gonna answer. But you know we are friends because we've been together for a long time. Yeah, the relationship between you and Junior, I think I'm gonna have to intervene here and do some counseling. I'm not sure if the two of you are on the same page at all. You're incompatible. Don't know. I didn't know. Hey, hey, wait, they ain't not see right there? Tommy command and got in here and made the ultimate statement, y'all ready you are not ready to love between the two of y'all slash age difference, slash direction. I know Junior is too young for me. I know that it takes a lot of vinaments, it takes a lot of exercise. I've been eating through some vessels and nutrients and things because he's very, very young for me. You know, cereal, I have over here in the house right down, because he's very young and the sex is amazing. I will tell you that he didn't knock my wig out about three full times, and I had an anchor down like RuPaul drag Race. I had an anchor down stair. Knock that out. Share we gotta go for real. Coming up to the top of the hour, Carla's reality update. Thank you, Cheryl, Bye bye. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, come on, Tommy introduced her. She's here. I got it, I got it, watched me work and Shirley, I don't need no help. I'm just letting me know that early. Okay, ladies and gentlemen, getting ready, buckle up and hold on tight. She is here, Carla Farrell with what reality update coming in? Hot. I didn't need no help. Go ahead, Carla, Yeah, yeah, yeah. She took her from your nephew. She took her right back, right back. Thank you, Shirley, thank you. Here we go, We're Housewives of Atlanta. I just want to start off and say that some of the cast members from the past and present season paid their respects at the Celebration of Life ceremony for Greg Leeks and Ninie thanked everyone for their love and support, including you know, the fans and the viewers. So Nini posted pictures from the repass or the Celebration of Life ceremony. So there you go, Real Housewives of Potomac. So Candice, she went too far where she blamed Ashley for all the drama that popped off on the trip to Williamsburg, Virginia between Wendy and Giselle because she went too far, and then she kind of told Wendy with the rumors about Eddie and the cheating. So we all know about this from that long trip. Anyway, they had a dinner and Candice just had it with Ashley, so she just popped off at the dinner, called her forehead wide body just fehead Ashley on the cool, got a big old forehead on the table. Oh my gosh, it's all all forehead. Yes, yes, yes, yes. But Kansas is getting a little backlash on social media because they said, you know, Ashley is saying that she body shamed her, and you know she did. She went too far with that one beforehead you was on it. You was right, right, Junior, Yes, just hollering. All right. So Robin and Giselle they have a podcast and Robin said that she was not surprised to see that Giselle and Reverend Jamal Bryant are not together, and that she said she never saw that, she never saw them together and they just really have too much drama from their past. So it was kind of you know, Robin, you think Robin always, you know, that's her girl. But when she said that, I was like, all right there, Robin. So there you go with that. Real Housewives of Potomac. All right, let's move on to I am ready, Shirley. I am counting down for the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. I cannot wait, but listen to this, Tommy, listen to this. They are going to start this season off. This is just season two with your girl gen. While they were taping, she gets a phone call from her husband telling her that the Feds are about to come to the set and arrest her. Yes, sir, yes, sir, And they do just that. The Fens show up. Yes a girl. Yes. While they are taping the show, they are charging her with She targeted elderly victims throughout the US and generated they call them lead lists, so they were sold to other participants. So it's basically a federal telemarketing fraud case. And so we will see what happens this season on the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City. But I like on one part of the promo, I guess Jim was arguing with one of the housewives and she said, fraud and I love this housewife she married us. She was like, fraud. I know you ain't calling That's what they ain't. That looks like, I know you're not calling nobody or fraud and quickly get ready. Thirtieth season Dancing with the Stars. Kenya Moore from the Real Housewives of Alanta. Yes, we'll be on. Yeah, your your boot will be on their Junior. Also check this out Becky from Full House her daughter college admission scandal. Like uess, she gets to be on Dancing with the Stars. So we'll be watching hit me up. That looks by Carla And what's you guys, Shirley? All right, thank you. More trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. A twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to the Stave Morning Show. All right, did you guys see the viral video of this sixty one year old man. He was on an American Airlines flight to LA from LA, I should say, to Salt Lake City. He was growling like a dog. Yeah yeah. He was pulling his mask off and on his face, on and off his face. He also gave flight attendants to the middle finger. He cursed at them and in addition to screaming God, bless America. The man was arrested and American Airlines thank the flight attendants and the other passengers for being so professional. Thank God. So here's the question. I know you want to jump in here, Tommy junior, what would you have done. If you were on this flight, you fly a lot. What passenger on here? Yeah, if you were on the flight, well carry Ever, since I saw the lads that jumped off, I care duct tape now, so I am prepared for my flight. I will duct tape your butt to that seat now, and I know how to do it. And I duct tape that mask on his face too. We can fly on up out here. Yeah. Absolutely, I'm with timmy out because what I do is I put mad dogs down. That's what I did. You want to put like you crat your asses on the ground down? Boy, I got him. I'll go ahead and fight a plane. I got him. I'm saying, okay, how do we go? All right? Thanks guys, I feel safer. Now. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time now for asked the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey. But before we get into that, um, Junior, can you give your Instagram your social media information? Please? At Junior shms j u n hms man. No, man, my uncle he told me to go. He always told man, go out to leave your best like you work hard, go enjoy it. Then didn't he do? See me? He enjoyed my life. I'm on the damn backboard and you're depressed, and I'll depressed. But I thought you was at your honest house. I didn't know none of that was true tops or some trees. I don't look like you forgot right. All right, here we go CEO. This one is from Keyana and Hampton, Virginia. Keana writes time in graduate school and for the past year, I've been having sex with an underclassman. I'm twenty six and he's nineteen. He wants to be my boyfriend and said he's going to marry me one day. He's exactly the type of man I want to marry. But I can't get past the age difference. I feel like I'm robbing the cradle. Is age that big of a deal when you think you love someone, please help. If it's a deal, if you want it to be a deal, it's also a deal if you make it a deal. This is for sure. If he stays alive, he won't always be nineteen. That's what sean. And now with that being said, yeah you, yeah, you Rob Craig. He's down in nineteen. He's no freshman everything. You put some of that senior citizen thing on him, and he well, you know, to him, you know, that's an old woman. Now he's flunking out of school because he either he didn't got it or ain't getting in no modi. But either way, he's flunking out of school. So you know, no, I don't think you have to be worried about that. You know, if he's a good guy, he's a good guy, you know, go forward. But when you take him to your daddy, though, he's gonna be a little difficult. All Right, We're moving on Michelle and Tampa. Says. My fifty nine year old mother recently got a citation for indecent exposure because she was trying to have sex in her car. She told me that it's my fault she was in the car having sex because she has no privacy at home. I moved in with her during the pandemic after I lost my job. Her apartment is small and the walls are thin, so I suggested that she go have sex at her sorry boyfriend's house next time. She cursed me out and told me to be out of her house by next month. How can I fix this mess? What? Well? First of all, you told your mother to go have sex at her sorry boyfriend's house. When you in her house, you stoop? All right, John, When we come back, last break of the day and Steve's closing remarks, you don't want to miss them. We'll be back at forty nine after you're listening. All right, Here we are our last break of the day and Steve, yeah, you can take it away. Here it is. You know, I was thinking something that's helped me in my lifetime, and it was a difficult lesson to learn for me, but I finally got it together years ago, but it took me some time. I must admit I spent all of my twenties and thirties not understanding this, and even a little bit now, just mostly twenties and thirties. So I'm gonna share it with you, and I want you to understand that I'm saying. I'm saying all this in love. You can't share everything with everybody. You know that that that really seems so simple. But I can't tell you how many times you inadvertly damage yourself, your opportunity, and your journey by not understanding this real simple rule, you cannot You cannot share everything with everybody. You can't. You can't share your visions with everybody because they don't really care. Then everybody's not genuinely interested in your career, goals, your visions, your hopes for tomorrow. A lot of people you share stuff with don't even understand the thing that you're telling this in your imagination. They don't even get it. And I understand they don't get what's in your imagination because it's something they could never ever possibly imagine. And basically, the number one reason you can't share everything with everybody is just real simple. Most people don't care, you know that. Just sit up and listen to you and look just as concerned as soon as you walk away. Don't give you the idea, the thought you had another another moment of consideration. They don't care. But do you understand something they don't have to. It's perfectly okay that they don't see your vision, share your vision that it's okay that they're not genuinely interested. It's okay that they don't understand what's coming out of your imagination. It's perfectly fine that they don't care because there is really no one else more critical to your journey or your success than God. Nobody. There is no one living that's more critical to your journey or your success than God. Period. Now, if you're blessed and you got a supportive spouse Jack Pott, that's bonus. Or you found someone in your life that you'll ride or die, that's bonus. Or you got one of your friends that's that's what you through thick and thin, and it's hard to find them, but they exist, then that's a bonus. The rest of the people really listen to me, they don't matter. They don't matter because they don't matter. It doesn't matter what they think, say, feel, or give you back because it's irrelevant, non important, significant to your journey or your success. You've got to get this through your head because I spent too much time sharing everything with everybody, thinking I was sharing it in hopes that they might have a piece of information from me. The majority of people I shared it with didn't have nothing from me. I wasted time sitting up there, and then I'll tell you something else that happened. You can tell your big dreams to small minded people if you want to. And now you've given one of the devil's imps the information that he needs to provide obstruction. That's a sad thing, man, But I want you all to be aware because sometimes we seek the wrong people's approval and you end up wasting time. Why does it matter matter to you what they think of you when they don't even care about you? What does it matter what they think of you and they don't even know you? Do you know? Some people post stuff on social media and be just as happy what they picture, their little caption, and you put it online and you're just saying, man, I'm having a great day, or man, I just want to show y'all something that God has blessed me to share with you all. And if you mess around and read your comments, here comes somebody on your comment page that then took your perfectly well intentioned caption and your picture that you meant no harm to anybody post it, and here they come with a bunch of negativity. And now all of a sudden, your day is off course because somebody says something about you that don't even know you. People's opinion of you is none of your business, nor should you make it yours. That negative comment that they put on your timeline in your comments section. If you had never read that, do you know you would have went right on about your married day? Do you know that that blessing you posted would have still been your blessing? Do you know the intent that you posted it with all good will to share something with somebody, to put a positive spin on their day. It would have still been there. But oh no, no, no no, you allowed somebody to matter who don't even matter. Stop telling everybody everything because everybody don't care. Get that through your head. I don't care how fine you are. Somebody don't like you, and it's okay for all Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. 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