Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving them just like the milling bus things and it's not true. Good Steve Hart, don't joy you gotta use that turn be hurting you gotta turn to turn them out. Turn't got the turnout to turn turn the water the water. Come come on your baby, huh I show will good Mart and everybody y'all listening to the voss come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvin got a radio show, keep saying it can't stop. Man O, man o, man, what a journey it has been. I thank God for every single step of the way. I learned to thank him for the bad times too, because it taught me something. All the bad times, all the failures, they became valuable experiences in my life. Every time I failed, I learned a little bit more about getting up. Every time I was told no, it moved me one step closer to yes. It made me stronger, tough in my skin. It made me learn how to deal with haters. It made me learn how to deal with people who don't have your best interests at heart. Man, ain't y'all all out there feeling me on this one right here. It teaches you who is who in your life. It shows you who you can depend on and who you can't. And at the end of the day, what has taught me most of all my hardships in my life, and it's really about me and God. That is the one factor that has been never changed in my life. God has always been the same for me and for you and for all of us. His word is true. It don't waiver, it don't shake. You can shape it, readjust it if you want to. It is really the way it's written. It really is. You have your version of it if you want to. But if you just read it the way it is, it's real clear. Ain't no loopholes in it. Every time you jump through a loophole, that's something over that written that that counters that. So it's what I want to get to today. Listen to me. You got it within you, Oh it's there, Just use it. Listen to me close. You got it within you. Oh it's there, Just use it. If you hear me clearly, I'm really fit to show you something this morning. You got within you, Oh it is there. Just use it. Steve, what you're talking about. See, here's what's wrong with a lot of people. Here's who's stopping so many people. You keep looking. We keep looking for others to save us. We keep looking for someone else to rescue us. We always looking for some group of people or somebody to accept us. We keep looking for someone else's approval. We always looking for some group or somebody to deliver us, somebody, some group of people to give us credibility, somebody or some group of people who says we matter. We spend so much time right there, and when the cavalry don't come over the hill, when there ain't no saving and ain't no deliverance, and then you don't get accepted, and and and don't nobody really come to save you, and there's nobody vouching for you and giving you credibility, and throw you into something nw you into this little state of man. I don't know what I'm gonna do. Oh you got it within you? Oh is there? Just use it? You want to know what the real deal is, y'all? It's you and God, and it's the God in you. Man. I wish I could explain this right to you today. I want you to feel me on this right here, and when you shake everything out the way, get rid of all your expectations of people. The relationship you thought was gonna last forever, that didn't make it, the child that you wanted to be, this that turned out to be that, your friend you thought was your friend, that stabbed you in the back. You found out they wasn't the job you thought was gonna keep you and you'd retire on they didn't close down, gave you a pink slip. All of this, man, that death promised that somebody told you they was gonna loan you this money, and on loan day they say they ain't got it. Oh man, oh man, on man, this money you thought was gonna come through on this check, The check ain't there? Oh man? How many disappointments in life can you get? You thought you had enough credit. I was to graduate. You found out two weeks before you didn't. You can't grat all this, hit man, what's gonna help? Man? Look at the disappointment in my life right now? But let me explain something to you. When you get rid of all of that, guess what you really got? You got God, that's the whole Anchilada, baby, that's the ball of wax. That's the monkeys in the barrel, that's the bag of chips. Listen to me. If you got God, do you understand that that's sufficient, That that's all you need. Can you feel me? Now? You and God and the God in you, it's really what you need. Stop looking for all these outside sources for approval, to gain acceptance, to get credibility, somebody to save you, the cavalry coming over the hill. Why won't they recognize me? Why won't they give me closure? Why they fire me? Why they vote closing on my house? Don't they know I'm laid off. When you get through it all, it at whining, it's gonna come down to you and God and the God in you. If God created man in his own image, God is a part of you, that is a piece of you that's godly. I don't care who you are. I don't care what mistake you made. The murderer that's sitting in jail today because of a moment in his life that he's now paying for, has God in him. The biggest criminal. When he gets through criminalizing or whatever you want to call it, he's sitting there by his self. That is a peace of God in him that lets him know this ain't the way. This wrong. You can love his money if you want to, but you out of line and you're gonna pay at the end of the day. When I get through on this microphone, on this TV, all these articles, when I get through with all of that, you know when it comes down to because see, it ain't always been this way for me. Yeah, I've been trying to get here, trying to get that. Listen to me. It's been me and God and it's been the God in me. When I woke up a few years back and I realized that's really what it was, it changed my whole life. It changed my whole life. Your whole life can get changed when you realize that it's really you and God and the God in you. Really man. People disappoint you, You argue with people, You fall out with people, you break up with people, You divorce people. You got people who you thought was friends, all of a sudden you find out they're talking about it's crazy out of here. You've been going, what's going on? What's really going on? But that's because guess what you got all yours banked on them. When you're gonna banking on the one thing that you can count on. God's word ain't changing. We got him. It's solid. If you pray, believe, work hard, don't doubt you'll get whatever you ask for. That's a fact. There ain't no rumor. People out here doing it every day. Now. If you ain't trying that, listen to me. You got it within you. Oh it is there. You just got to use it. There is a weapon available to man called prayer. Use that. See. I look at my life, man, whenever I get a little shaky, I look back, or hey man, I ain't really talk with him too much yesterday. Oh, tighten up. I'm just telling you real. You got a better answer. Oh oh, oh, I know what. Oh oh my bad Steve. Now, Steve, I ain't winning cause they ain't get me a loan all naw, Steve, I ain't winning because she left me. He left me. I ain't winning, Steve, because I got steck with these kids. I got a divorce. They fired me. How they foreclothes on my home. That's why I ain't winning. You ain't winning cause you ain't praying. You got the praying, believe in work, that's the key. Come on, man, you got it within you. Oh, it's there. You just got to use it. It's just you and God, and it's the God in you. And what y'all gonna do about that? You're listening show. Everybody around the world. You are listening. I ain't me morny show high. I want you doing that. We are listening to the Steve Hary Morning Show. Yeah we go. I'm about to introduced them to you. We're gonna start with the lady. Yeah, make the show real brazy yet I'm dude to know. Ain't with the beginning of the show. She need the one with the boys. She the lady's choice. I'm talking about shall talking about shall come on? Last? Running down? Here we go, let's move in on. Ye got another lady on the show. I ain't ever ever owned the phone running from out west. H make us do our best. Yeah, yeah, can't start the meeting with the white folk. I have come back. Tell us what we don't mind? Make the dollar? H I'm talking about collar, make a dollar. He's talking about collar, running down, running down, running down, Steve run running down some mountain. Here will go. He starting to do it. I about to introduce him to it. Yeah. By him out of Houston. Fifth Wall didn't know he didn't have the right coat. I Barden moved up in the world, dressed enough for all the little girl. Hey hey, got a suit on every day. Heck, and he like the money he made. The man he won't ruin. Yea. You know I'm talking about Julia. Yeah, Julia. Huh Julia, Julia, Julia, running down, running down, running down, still go this is next one? Uh came in a trade yoh yeah, with on another show. Then he left one damn day. I have more wear everything looking round out of he could actually cooking. We let him talk on this show. I ain't been silence no more. Everybody think that he on the round. I everybody know that he from the ground. But I'm talking about my main man. I hain't named damn any brown down, round brown brown, brown, brown brown brown. I'm brown, brown, brown brown. I'm brown brown round, running now, running now, running down, feed some more. Here we go, Here we go, here we go. You know they say that as but not Lee. But he got the less sist of us all. Damn. They're stupid in her phone. I think he failed when he was a baby. Somebody, maybe I don't know, stupid as he want to be. I think he is. He got a princess what we call him. I think it is stupid ass he can't be. I think he's hid the ham that everybody talking about time tomat time, ladies and gentleman. That's to Steve Harvey more than make a song out of anything. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Now, it's normal for people, you know, to get nostalgic about things from their past. A lot of us do that. Like the Slinky, remember that toy, the Walkman, remember the Walkman, ArKade games and even suits and hats for men, Remember pac Man and all that. Yeah, yeah, I still played pac Man. I can't play the new games. They too complicated. I can't play none of the sports games like NBA Live or Madden Football. I don't know what wi the ab they guilt, the ad they roll. I can't get. What about being nostalgic about how you raise your kids, you know, with discipline and all that, things like common courtesy, like manners, things like that. As to come back, Yeah you're gonna get the whooping? Yeah yeah, did you? I'm telling you're gonna get a whoopping your kids growing up still. Yeah, well you think they ain't in jam? You saved them, temmy, I tried to beat him worse than my mama beating me. H, that's pretty bad. They ain't. None of my kids got it like I got it. I ain't. No, but our parents before us really got it too. But we got it. I think we were the last of the kids that got serious beat down my kids, my kids and generation well some more. I really I really pledged my son. Yeah, I pledge. I pledged. So what fright is he? They ain't cussed? But they could. They could go ahead and get it. They could, they could. Technically they should actually be in But I do wish manners were more prominent like they used to be. I mean, you know what, I'm really proud of, though, I think all of my kids are very, very mantal. Manners are important everybody. Yeah, she's so sweet, daddy. You know you have great kids on your ass, and you know it. She got a lot of clapback going on. You ain't heard nobody come up to you. I can't talk at your daughter talking talking. He's crazy. This man never Steve. I ain't seen it either. Oh good, you've just heard I just have people go. Can I talk to you? I just can't do it. No serious about her business though, y'all, Brandy, are you run your foundation? So she's serious about what do you? What else do you? Guys? Wish will come back like products because they said iPad, But I mean you know why wish curl free marsterizer would come back? What active curl for yellow bottle red? Right? Yeah? A kiss kings ye ch chess king, marry go around. Yes, yeah, I want them to come back. But I don't want to have to have the money I had back. Don't I want to come back poverty? Yeah, I have no desire for that to come back. What was the famous what was the famous advice your dad gave you about being for the best thing you could do for pole people's son is not be one of that advice. I listened to that real close, especially coming out of homeless people gonna talk about, man, why you work so hard because I'm running running fun? What I ain't running fun? Nothing? I'm running from. Yeah. I'm not gonna be back in that position no more. Right. So, now what I did was if I become homeless and have to live in a car, I now have cars you can live in. Yeah, there you go like it? Why? Yeah? So you can put god bottle, you got shelter, air conditioning, okay, TV. You know you got one of your card got computers in it. Yeah, WiFi all that. Do you know that they had a little card you can buy and you put it in your system and you can have your own WiFi in your car? Yeah. Yeah, it's it's Limos that have that. Not Limos, but cars car service. How you get it though, It's just a little program that you buy, you put it in your car, and then you have your own password to your own WiFi. When you go way out, you know you still have WiFi. I knew there for my son. You don't have that in the pre owned. No, you don't have to say. You don't have to say yeah, but wait wait what what Carla not have to say she said you don't have that in the PreO. You could just say. You could have just said you don't have that in your car. That's all you had if you Tommy, don't worry about that ghost. But it's pre owned. I'm just asking when you get when I got the car, they have concierge service in cars. Do you have out of yards and I don't know he pressed the button. And you have concierge. Certain that are people who will make flight reservations for you, dinner reservations. Fight excuse me, Steve, excuse me? Do you have that, Tommy in your ghosts? That ain't what you wanted to say. The old owner got it with you ain't got the subscription. I tried to figure out Junior why he looked so surprised, Steve. But they have they have everything available you could programs, you could purchase. Now. The concierge is free in a certain car, Okay, like a row. I want to say it. I just want to tell you what's Yeah, they have they have a concierge service. Okay. They guarantee you reservations no matter what. They take care of flight reservations. They'll tell you anything you want to do, you can. You can go out of the country and they'll make a reservation for it. Okay, they have that service in cars. Tommy's looking it up right now, aren't you. Yeah, Tommy, that's why I get quiet. Uh huh, what Timmy, don't you have a date coming up? A tool? Don't you have some? Then? Now you can buy tickets to it. Did they book your flight? That's what Steven's his flight now, they don't do budget flight. All right, all right, we gotta go right Frank back with the naphew coming up. We'll be right back. You're listening to Steven show nephew in the building with run that. Frank back, what you guy? Now? I want to date your mama with it. Mama's need love too. I want to date your mama's running cat. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach I'm trying to reach miss Burns. This is James. This is her son. How are you doing? Man? My name is Gordon Gordon. Just recently joined the church man within the last month, and I was trying to get in touch with with Miss Burns. One of the members gave me a number, but I guess they they must have gave me the wrong number. I guess it's is this a home number or what is this? A hell of Hello? Who? Who? Who is this again? My name is Gordon Gordon. I'm a new member at the church. Yeah, this is this your number? Yeah? Man, this is my phone number. I'm James. I'm my son. Oh that's your mom. Okay, that's your mother. Right, all right, Well, yeah, my bad man. I was trying to get in touch with miss Burns. Now is did you have a sale or a home number somewhere I can get in touch with Miss Burns? Wait to time, I time me tell you your name is what Gordon? Gordon? Gordon not just joined the church, man, so I might not have met you yet. James. Okay, Well, God bless you man, Thank you man. I appreciate it because it anywhere I could get your mom's home number from. I mean, you're just joined the church. I mean I don't I don't see why you wouldn't be able to talk to it. I mean, is there anything there a message I could pass on to it? Thom Uh, Well yeah, I mean I'm trying to see if it's all right for uh, for me to take her out. I've been seeing them for the last Hold up, Hold up, hold up, hold hold about you. You You were just saying to you a new member to the church and somebody gave you or they were attempting to give you my mother's number, and you're asking me if you could take her out. Man. Well, I wasn't asking you. I thought I had her phone number. I guess they give me your number. Bout mistake, you know that's my reason for Carl. I thought I was gonna get her. I want to take her out, you know, maybe to dinner or something. Well, I'll be quite honest, man, I just came back home from overseas, from fighting and everything. Man. And uh, I mean, you know, my pops just passed away not too long ago. And I ain't you know, I ain't too keen my mama going out with somebody and beside you, you don't even sound like you. Hey, she in the sixties. Man, older you man, I'm thirty six. The hell out of you? You how old man? I'm thirty six, I'm thirty four? What is you doing? You do realize my mom is pushing sixty, right? You know what, man? I look at it like James, Right, James, I look at it like it's you know heyes, ain't number but the number, man, It wasn't your heart man, And how you carry yourself? You know? Yeah? But hey, but my mama ain't no cougar like that. And I know she ain't coming after you right now. I remember telling me that she trying some new things at this church, but going out with this thirty thirty. How do you you do a baby? Man, I'm thirty. I'm thirty six. Dude, Man, you like my brother. Something man ain't nowhere in the world. My mama gonna be days okay than James. Let me say this man. First of all, I ain't even know I was calling you. Second of all, I'm calling and speak with her. I'm not calling trying to get permission from you. Miss Burns is a grown one. Whoa whoa? Whoa talking about now? I don't think you're every man. I just came back from fighting overseeds. My pops passed away not too long ago. I am the man of the house. Let's get that straight right now, all right, I don't care if I'm still living at home or not. I'm the man of this house, all right. You calling the ass my mama on a date, you might as well just stick the church dog, because you know, as I said, be blessed, But it ain't gonna be no blessing from me to you. I tell you that right now. I'm not looking for a blessing from you at all. Bro. You might no, but I respect the fact that you've been overseas and you've been fighting for this country. Okay, But if I decide I want to speak to Miss Burns about going out, I think Miss Burns has every right to decide if she would like to go out with Gordon's or not, if Gordon wants to take her out, I took up. Hold up, look, bro, I don't care how old you say you are. All right, number one, you're too young, as I already mentioned. All right, this ain't going down with you and my mama. I'm straight up, hey man, that's for your mama to decide, do dog you you bringing up my mama. You're letting the word your mama come out your mouth again. That's gonna get you up, all right. I don't know where you're from. I don't give how old you are. I'm pretty sick. I know what church my mamma go to and and it ain't gonna be her and you you ain't gonna be asking her out, all right. I don't give what it take. I would show up on Sunday, catch up in the Pufeit or wherever you're gonna be sitting in the back of the choir. It don't matter. Something's going down. You are not gonna get with my mama. Like that. You got that. That's up for your mama to decide if your mamma want to go out with me out dinner. I ain't looking long with this, man. I'm I'm deciding it right now. It ain't gonna happen. I told you before, be blessed or get your whoop. You got two choices, all right. I didn't fight sees three years to come back and also deal with my daddy dian and then come back. I'm suffering from PSD. Dog, I don't know what I'm gonna do unless you want to get it like that, suffer from one a PSD post traumatic stress syndrome, and I will release all that on you got that. I don't play hey, man, listen, I don't want no trouble. It don't matter to me. You can tell you. Okay, Look man, listen, I ain't trying to have no trouble about you. Man. All I'm gonna say is this right here. I'm I'm gonna I talk to you mom on Sunday. Okay, you ain't gonna talk to me? Are you not hearing me? Man? I'm okay, I'm crazy right now? Okay? Can I say this? Can I say one more things to you. Man, So you explode, you ain't got nothing else to say. I got one more thing before you explode. Man, if you're listening, Yeah, man, James, what hey man? I want to tell you this. Man, This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning To show your mama. I got me the prank phone call you get them out of here. Who hey, man, this is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man. Your mama told me. She said, my son been overseas, He've been fighting. I'm glad to have him home. She said. We gotta get him back getting the spirit of a lamping. Man, my mama, are you Are you kidding me? Man? We got you good. We listen to this show overseas. Man. First of all, I gotta say thank you for fighting for this country. I want to ask you one more thing. What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land. Man, Nothing but the Steve Harvey more than this show? Like like like, let me tell you something. So I'm trying to I'm working on this prank, y'all. I'm trying working on this for hard man. I ain't got the guy in number yet as soon as I get him. But I'm trying to call this guy and ask him, is if you you know? Do you man? Are you tired of your wife? You're so I come gither you know, and we got we could see what are you tired of your wife? If you are, I come gill. You know what I'm saying. We're gonna do what he listening to me, Gonna get this phone call, right, I got it. Trust Junior got it. I got it. And I love going after the people that says he will never get me. Yeah myself, okay, okay, So what is what she told? Yeah? My husband saying you'll never get him. Cool, that's all that's my fuel right there. Yeah, get you. She's elaborate pranks, so you come up with in your mind. That's from the left side of my brain. Fair. I don't really use to write that much. We know it's not bald jealous. Wow, admitted it. All right, We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening Steve Morning Show. All right, it's time for something funny. Let's go with Junior's truth to be told, and then I'm gonna give you guys a list of words. Steve, you're in on this as well. Uh, let's start with the letter b okay that you guys are constantly messing up always. You know, people think that if you don't speak with them, then there has to be a problem. Yea. You know they think that they really do believe what's wrong with you? You know. So I get a text message from a family member that read, when family and friends go through life not speaking, they will come a day to regret it. It's called the funeral. Well, I want to respond to that family member, real civil truth be told. If I go first, what you're trying to hope to do? If I go first and I don't have read it to regret it? Really, the fact that you sent it over there and you still haven't got a response, what that means. I'm not mad. I just don't speak to you like this. No, I don't have time like this. This is people to understand. If you text somebody and you look at your text law and all other text messages, yea off from you, Dave respund He can't you a message back if the last message you got for me was married Christmas? We just don't talk that that's not my fault. If you keep telling people to tell me that you said call you, guess what I ain't called. I just won't you understand that I'm not mad at you. I just don't have to talk to you. So you can be mad if you won't do Yeah, okay, it is called the funeral. But then, knowing you and why I'm not talking to you, I won't even be mad when I should. I can get up here with confidence a lie like everybody here lies a great indivision. Some one who lived beyond a mean a life changes. I could get up that lot with the best off. That's all I got to say. Figure out, I'm not talking talking to you, send a bunch of I'm not talking, just talking. Sometimes it's good to cut people out, you know, I ever said everybody should not be in your life. Hello, I'm doing all right? These are words? Yes? Yes, did you guys constantly mess up? Ever? No, it's just no, it's all right. I believe. So. No, you're standing wrong that it is that I believe. So it is taking keeping I believe. So, how is that so hard or bleeding? I like that I'm about to come. That's so wrong, it's about together, about to go. I've been long enough Now I'm about to go. What you gonna do about to about to go? I'm about to go, guys, Okay, right, and and about this word about it's about by the way about it's about to go down up your head? Yeah about? Yeah? All right? How about this one? Bring one back for me? As in can you bring one back for me? Wrong? What what did you say? Bring one back for me? As in? Can you bring one back for me? When you go to stove you an episode and bring back one too? Yeah? Ye all know that sounds all right? Can you back that up for me? Please? Is the proper way to say it? God? It's back up? You're out too far? What to do it? Back up? Backed up? Backed up? Right? Back up? Its sound that's even mold like? You don't like that? Let me go off, director, Okay, teach you how to talk, how to talk and I'm must use words now. I want you to say it, okay, say it didn't happen. It didn't happen, blowing that blew it miss that whole opportunity your blo Okay, this you guys, get this mixed up all the time, messed up panties blooms exactly what the you know what that is? Hanties? Yeah? Yeah, what would make you? I got what would make you? Leave a fight? Leave a club real early. So you're in the club, you're having a good time. You gotta get about of Oh let's go. They're about to fight, about fighting, about to fight. I gotta get up in here because I feel like they're about to fight or fense to fight the fight. It could be fixed fixing. Okay, okay, say this, Steve, you will not be that make sense. Everybody understands, everybody. I've been on the shelf for seventeen years with you in particular, and you want to say by words, I gotta fight. Ask me, I can't say the same thing. You will not. You will not. Then we're about to break. We will be right back. We are about to go to break, to go last one. Okay, gorgeous, gorgeous. You know, all right, We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening show. All right, Steve J. Anthony Brown, who you've asked to be ignorant today, is here with phrases that will break up a friendship. Basically, these are roommate rules. You mean you got on your own. You might have to get a roommate to branch out. But there's some rules you should live by if you get a roommate. First rule, if you don't put it in the fridge, damn it, don't take it out the fridge. How about that? Yeah, at work, work, same thing, samething. You and your significant others should not haul the living room. Take that nasty stuff to your bedroom. Okay, all right, people live here. Other people live here too, all right, Yeah, don't go in your roommates room for a damn thing. Okay, why are you in here? What you're doing in here? Ain't nothing here for you. If your girlfriend or your boyfriend like eggs, bacon, cheese, alcohol or whatever cereal, make sure they bring it with their ass when they come over. Okay. If if that's what they like, ain't make sure make sure they got that in the bag when they come in the door. Okay, that's all I'm saying. If your boyfriend, for the las, if your boyfriend man man likes to play video game, you need a big screen TV for his ass in your room. Okay, I like that. This is this is a good rule right here, we all should to buy it. By Nobody who is a roommate is allowed to date anybody that's been to prison. Nobody. You gotta make sure you hold in your room. You know you gotta. You gotta check all your stuff off because he no, we can't. All right, even you got a Christian roommate and you're not a Christian. Let me tell you Christian something. Who who ever sleeps with, who who ever sleeps with, ain't your damn den Okay, okay, the last one. If the rent is due on the fullast, the foliast, we agreed that they paid the rent. We don't want to rent on the second, third, fourth, fifth, six, seven, eight, nine, ten, eleven, thirteenth, fourteen, fifteenth, sixteen, seventeen, eighteenth, nineteenth, twenty one, two, twenty six, twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine, thirty. We wanted on the FoEE. Okay, okay, it's going down July the eighteen to break Out Art in Comedy show at five three three Clemson Road, starring Miss jess Amy and Ushuli Jan D. Brown. Go to event Bright to get your tickets. We got music by Dayton, Dayton, Louis Show and Nick day and night. Get your tickets, go to event, right, y'all? All right, we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, it is time. It is time. Bring him on in here, the cello Chief Love Officer. We have some questions for him. He stay ready, all right? I love it, and then you don't have to get ready right. This one's from Donna in El Paso, Texas. She says, a year ago, my husband was deployed and he was told he would be away for eighteen months. Six months after he left, I ended up having an affair with his stepbrother, and I got pregnant from our first encounter. His stepbrother and I never messed around again after that. But he wants me to have the baby and he will raise it. My husband just told me he's coming home next month, earlier than expected. So should I tell him about the pregnancy now or should I wait until he gets home? What? When do you think this is gonna be a good time to tell? Yeah, I really don't have a suggestion for you. I don't know how with his brother in law, step brother, she had an affairs stepbrother. Yes, yes, yes, his stepbrother, and she got pregnant after the first time. Yeah, and now he didn't told you. He wants you to have the baby, and he gonna raise it. He'll raise it. I have no comment. I don't know what to tell you. I really, I don't know what to tell you. Yo, this dude can't get his ass will soon just didn't get home. That's what's gonna happen. He thinks understand that that's going to I don't know. I don't know. You know, Uh, but she's so cavalier about it. Should I tell him now? Or wait? What this relationship? Yeah, but tell somebody that's coming home from the service. That would be a good day. He'd been deployed thinking he got a wife at home. I don't know what to tell you, but no, you got You're wrong. I have nothing to tell you. I don't know when you should tell him. I really don't. That is no good time. All hell gonna break loose when a man come home. Though it was the stepbrother. Your best to believe he gonna have something to deal with. Yeah, I don't know what you're gonna have to deal with. You don't have a marriage anymore. So I hope that fleeing was worth it, and I hope his stepbrother won't you. Yeah, he doesn't move. Yeah, the stepbrother the father of your baby. Yeah, this is crazy, all right, so we'll move on, Steve. This is from Tye and Jack's hunt. Would you say, Junior these questions? He gonna be asking you? Keep putting no weight? All right? This is from Tye and Jacksonville Steve. Tye says, I've been married for seven years and my wife is my everything. I work hard so she can stay home every day and have a good life. Two months ago, I saw her on I saw on her credit card statement that she'd been running a room at a nearby hotel. She said that it was a mistake and she would call the hotel to dispute the charges. I believed her, but then I got a message on Facebook from a man that said my wife had been paying him for sex, and he thought I should know. I have not confronted my wife yet, but I'm trying to find this dude. Steve, how should I handle this that you can answer this one? I mean, man, I don't know what I'm trying to find this dude. First, of all, you're not married to the dude. You and the dude took no vows. Your whole problem is your girl, if there is a problem, now, it sounds quite strange that you would discover this charge. She says she's gonna call the hotel and dispute it. And then right after that a guy calls and says that your wife has been paying him to have sex with her. That's a big coincidence. So now me, I would do a little me personally. I would do a little forensic science gathering of information, you know, stuff like that. I don't know how you do that, but you know, you know, you could find out if she was really there not. But your whole problem is with your wife. Your problem ain't with this dude. But then his motivation for calling you and telling you that is I think you ought to know. I can't get that call, all right, thank you, and none of them what I wanted to really say, trying to have the nephew is here with today's crying phone call. Right after this you're listening, coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after it's today's strawberry letter. Oh, I got a good one for you today subjects. I can't stand a sorry man. All right, that's the subject right now. But that's not the letter. I don't I don't write the answer to the letter. We'll get to that in a minute, but first, the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you got for us today? Now? Raymond in the cloud, Steve's all time favorite, Raymond greatest in damn prank. That's your goat. Uh all right, let's go catch up. Hello, Hello, Hey, who can you hear me? Yeah? Ball? Who's there? This Raymond? Speak up? I can't hear you. Who this this Raymond? Man? Speak up? I can't hear you. Who is this Raymond? Raymond? Raymond vond is my sister brother? Yes, what's up? What's up? Man? What's up? Somebody them broke in the house, taking the house right now. I'm in the hold on, hold on, hold on, man, I'm damn I batter. Can't hear what you're saying. Somebody? Then? Why somebody them broken house? And why they hear you're whispering? Because they're in the house right now. I'm wait a minute, wait a minute, you're saying somebody there broke in the house and they steal in there. Somebody, I'm broke in the house. I'm in the house. Now, hold on. You're saying, somebody that broke it to you damn house and they steal in there. Yes, what you're doing? See nothing there? Why you ain't calling the police. I'm in the closet. I'm in the closet and I'm trying to get somebody to hold on. Hold on, Well, I don't know what to do. Man. You're saying, somebody in the house, in your damn house, white, now, Okaya, where you live at? Where you live at? I'm hold thirty six straight because I'm at thirty two and a half. You know what. Hold on, I'm gonna call them lossin'. Wait wait wait, wait wait man, you know what what Wait a minute, don't call them, please, you've seen you to the house somebody for no piping to kill you, and you're talking about you don't want them arrested. We got some illegal stuff. Don't call nobody. Don't wait a minute. Wait wait, nah, you're saying, hold on. You're saying, don't call the damn loss you have, don't go to the house. Don't call them. Cousin week they got it that's a Nickels in the hould o doing? Man, what you gotta Man, you know what is bad? Do you know what you're seeing your up in there? That's probably while they're in the house. Now you have set you up in the house. That's you, isn't there there? That's I guarantee you that what you what you got in there? And you know what, Man, let me tell you something. I'm gonna tell you the best thing to do even doing the people in your house right now, you need the jumpers, let me call them. Man, you need to let me call the damn Low because I'm gonna tell you right now you can't get dona do that. I'm gonna put you know what, Man, I'm gonna tell you. Don't call back. You'll say down now. I'm gonna tell you now, I get called the Low, I can call the long hold on. I can get my wife the call right now. Don't call the police. Don't call them because it's too much lega my wife. Don man, But I'm gonna tell you something. Honestly, I can't do it. Thank you dame for to go down there. No, I'm gonna tell you something. I could call this Food's contend to me. Don't even call the damn Low. You know what, man, looking good dog, call to be honest with you. I'm I ain't gonna go down there. I'm gonna tell you right down now, you know what. The first thing I'm gonna tell you Now, Now, I ain't gonna take my down there first of us. They may be tapping my damn lying and I ain't got to do with this. You're gonna get done. Listen, man, Look, I could call it nine one one baby. Look, go ahead and call them, because you know what, You're gonna get your kid out there, and they don't know who you are. Man, you know what, And I ain't gonna still on this one with you so they can find out, you know what, don't it's like call the Lot. I ain't getting that. I ain't man, you must get damn fool. Ain't gonna get an that one. So I'm gonna call you what you can do. Got I call the Low after they had my wife right now, you know what. You may not like it now, but you appreciate me later, because you know when you to get your monk heads. Wait a minute, wait a minute, just west, but I think damn sign I think, man, you know this is some crazy got you to set your I'm gonna try to shoot up for one, don't get up my calling. Damn low, damn fool. You gotta keep your monk heads in that closet. I'm gonna tell you right now, you're a damn fool. You walk out because I gonna tell you now, they show gonna gell your stupid you know what. I ain't gonna lie to you. Man. The only thing I can tell you, damn, I'm called the law. You're gonna go down, and I'm gonna tell you not. I ain't going down with I don't know why you really even call me unless you want from help, because I'm gonna tell you right now, I ain'twer the jump of the eyes myself nor my damn family. Only thing I could do I could help you out in one way. I'm called the law. Now, my wife got a cellphone. What you want me to do? Will you get me? You must be a damn boot. I'm not all. I ain't going down. I ain't going you know what. Man. Look look, I can't get in there, and my wife did atre to call the police. I'm gonna tell you right now they're gonna calm. Can't you can you? Can you hear me? You can hear you? Your damn mouth shut up? I'm shut him? Can you shut your damn mouth right now? Can you hear me? Shut out? I don't know when the heights that's why they shoot the shot him. Don't peek out that damn dope. Can I say something? Man? You need to shut your damn mouse. Don't flu This is nephew timing from the steam even Harvey more to show you know what you just got pranked by? Man? Y'all just got you, y'all some dirty I do dare well? Man, do you just got pranked by your boy? Win? Damn man? I'm sweating like hey, pin up in his damn house with drawns oh, man up here, want to play with man? Look at here, boy, I'm sweating like here. Why are you sweating? It was from the dock because I damn should know when to come down to the house. That's a show. I know you weren't coming to I heard it in your voice. I say, okay, you know what. He ain't coming to get me. Man. I'm gonna be here right now. Man, I might need to take off some work boarded here. Hey, let me ask you something, man, what is the baddest radio show in the land. Can't be nobody but the Steve Harvey's Morning Show with Nephew Tommy with It's Crazy. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Are you talking about Veranda brother? Black women? Women? Wait? Women? They were yeah? Man, you lie, shut you damn out shut. You're gonna You're gonna get your more cast killed right now. Listen to what you want me to do. I'm calling law, but that's all I can do. I ain't coming down there. I ain't coming down there. I ain't got nothing to do with this hill. I'm calling law. What you want me to do? What value Verrenda? What you want me to do? I don't don't know how you come up with him, Tommy, I really don't. Left side. Surely, let me explain something to you. A lot of people use the right side of anybody. Yeah, I use the majority of the time, okay, And that's where all the creative stuff is on the left. And a lot of people don't know that. A lot of people don't know how to go there and use that side. Some people are just stuck on the right. You know I'm just happen to be blessed like that. Well, thank you for breaking that down in your brain to the left. Okay, everything he does in his brain to the left. That's all right, thank you left brain people. All right, up next, it is the Strawberry Letter. Subject I can't stand a sorry man. We'll get into the letter right after this. Whatever, that's not the letter. You're listening right now. It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you needed ice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey f M. And click submit Strawberry a letter. Okay, we could be reading yours live on the air, just like we're gonna do this one. Ready, nephew, let's go. Let's go buckle up and old on tight. We got it for you here. It is just your very bletter. No, Billy D Williams was here, Yeah not hey, let me be Billy D when I want to be Billy date. Let you be great? Yes, all right, here we go. Thank you s Steve. Tommy remind me of Woodrow saying from this you have free subject I can't stand a sorry man. Here, Stephen Shirley. I'm a thirty six year old single mother of four who met a very handsome army vet at work back in twenty sixteen. After dating for six months, he told me that he had to move out of his rental home because the owners had sold it, and he asked me if he could stay with me for a while. Against my better judgment, I agreed to let him move in temporarily. A month later, he was laid off from his job. Two months after that, his car got repossessed, so he was unemployed and did not have transportation to go job hunting or to go on job interviews. While he was out of work and was not bringing money into the household, he cooked and cleaned and did all of the yard work, but I had to constantly prompt him to do these things. I got fed up with coming home and seeing him on the couch playing videos, so I gave him him an ultimatum to find a job or lead. He has a job now, but he only makes enough money to take care of himself and there's nothing left for bills or groceries. This has put a major rain on our relationship and intimacy because his lack of ambition is such a turn off. I need for him to get out so I can move on with my life. When I talk to him about moving, he said he has no plans to leave anytime soon because he needs to save up some money first. I already have four children and I don't need a fifth child. Stephen Shirley, please help me figure out how to get this grown man out of my house. Well, you're absolutely right in saying this. This grown man has got to get out of your home. He really does. Sometimes. You know, we as ladies, we're just a bit too nice, aren't we, And we don't listen to ourselves, to our intuition, do we. You sat against your better judgment, That was you telling yourself you shouldn't do this. So you already knew when you allowed him to come into your home. And I don't care. No one is that handsome, no one. All right, he's taking advantage of you, he's taking advantage of your four kids. And now you know you cannot allow him to do this any longer. You gotta let him know today, today, without any hesitation, without any second thought, that he has to go. If you're nervous, if you're a little you know, apprehensive about doing it. Please have someone with you, preferably a mail or two or three. You gotta have someone with you when you tell him. You also have to change the locks on the doors, all of that, pack his clothes, whatever you have to do, but this man has to go. Okay, you've gone over and beyond the call of duty with this vet, and there's no need for you to do anything else except for show him the door the way out. Steve Well, this letter don't make no sense from the beginning. You're thirty six year old single mother four. You met a handsome army vet at work in twenty sixteen. After dating six months. He said he got to move out his rental home because they sold him. Then he asks you could he comes stay for a while. See me right here, I'd have already started counting people in rooms already. See y'all you got four kids that you love and take care of you thirty six. I don't know what you stay in with all in rooms, but I would have just started counting rooms and people. A month later, he got laid off from his job after he moved in, then got his car repossessed. See if you got put out your rental house, your next move should be to go get another rental house, not to come and leach off this woman, single mother trying to make ends me. I mean, just right there, Why would you burden her with that? Now? She didn't know how burdensome you was gonna become. And then you went on and proved it. A month later you got laid off from your job. Two months after that, the car got repossessed. But how they repossess his car? He ain't it worth so they know where it worked. He ain't it work and he ain't at his house called they took the house. How they know the car was over there? Job. I'm just trying to I'm telling REPO people, ain't that good? Yeah? Man? How did they? But in the third month, though stupid. Then he wasn't out of work, He wasn't bringing it no money into the house. He tried to cook and clean and did the yard work, but you had to constantly prompt him to do things. Then you coming home, he owned the couch playing video games. So you're told him to find a job or leave. He got a job now, but he only makes enough money to take care of himself, and that's nothing left for Bill. The groceries. I don't understand this. What is he doing with the money if he ain't helping you with it? The card note gone, the rent gone, and he still ain't pitching it. No, he ain't. Sorry, man, this dude right here is he's a little worse than sorry. But you you can't help this woman at all with these folk kids. Whatever money you're making on to go into the pile to help out, you've been living on it for months now. He has put a major strain on our relationship and intimate Hell, no, I won't sleep with nobody broke. That's up in here. I'll slept with a broke land before. It's got to be hard here and here. Won't all this from you? What? Come on now, let me have it. Come on, do it to me, Come on home. Put your leg over here. Hey, you ain't working. Not putting my leg nowhere? This is all I'm doing. Don't touch me. No, that's all right, Steve, hold that thought. Okay, we're gonna have part two of your response to the letter right after this. We'll be back at twenty three after you're listening. Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject I can't stand a sorry man. Sorry man made him here in the military mood him and he fell out, lost his house. She moved in with her. He loses his job, then took his car. He ain't paying rent. He paying at the lay and at the house watching videos. You coming home. You're getting frustrated. And now you say that him not working and chipping in. And he got a job, but his job. Don't let him chip in because he needs all money for herself. It has affected yo into us sleeping with a broken man. God, that's got to be it has you was broken fople slept with you though, and it had to be What did you sleep with me for? You see, I'm homeless. All my stuff in my car. We can't go nowhere without moving stuff. I had stuff in the passenger seat. Yeah, but you still need love, you know, love you get, get a love of somebody and give you something back. Looking too, Pope, people do each other. I mean yeah, they do it all the time. Yeah, they do it too much too. They really need to be somewhere sitting down. Then they mess around health baby and everybody up in here, Poe. Now now the baby don't even know what reality is. No more. He just struggling because y'all have made the Iggnorant asked to sitting poe ass little baby sitting up in here telling about why we ain't got no TV. That's what the baby says. Where are you going with it? Mama? All these candles forward here? Man? Damn mama was having it. Why do we eat these corn flakes with this tap water on it? Mama? For dinner? Mama? Did we have corn bread yesterday? Pop? Why I got to get hit every time I asked bout this corn bread? Pop? Okay, damn my hands. Nothing about the damn corner. I'm in the letter. This is the letter. The damn kids is complaining four Mama. I can't play the video game because here now Mamaca Drome told me I can't sit on couch why TV? Because he playing Madden? Is he really a vet? Steve? I wanted to ask you that. Yeah, yeah, here, but he giving them a bad name. That's just like cops is cool too, until they started getting bad name for some bad cop. So anyway, I already have four children. I don't need a film. Stephen Shelley, please help me figure out how to get this grown man out minds. I have a solution. You don't feel secure with him around. All you got to do is say that anybody at the court and you will have a restraint in order. He can't come within a hundred yards at that hour. And all you want is a restraining order. He got to go. You know you asked him to leave. He says he had to. This would killed me about side. Yes, people, you asked him to leave. He said, he has no plans to leave anytime soon because he needs to save up money. Some money first. I don't give a damn what are you? Save it and go save it at your mama house. You got partners, go save it to one of the army vents house. Go back to the army and they ain't got bags for him or nothing. I don't know how I work, but seemed like they want to let you stay in the bag. Re sign up, do basic training again, that a game six weeks, Get on back down that pass island volk Brad, get yourself signed up. That's it, lady, you need a restraining order. He's worthless, and get the restraining order because you don't feel safe. That's all you have to say. You don't need a court date. You just need to restraint. Ain't that puts his ass out? You ain't sleeping with him, no way. You know. He asked y'all having sex? He talking about whose is it's the banks, not yours? Ask me who banks? Yeah, it's a lot going on. So that's why I'm for her. It's trifling, Yeah I do. She's just thirty six, she's got four kids and this man, and you know she met this dude. He armed event You thinking, wow, discipline, Yeah, exactly, That's why I asked you that exact discipline people soldiers, military people are disciplined, people of honor, respectable, you know, you know, man, they know how to complete the task, their teamwork. That's what I've always thought of when I think of military people, how they function and react in life. I know a lot of military p really really good folk man up early yea early dog. I'm talking about man. Yeah, neat cant he go on the upraising his voice on that Nott movie. Who You Holding? So now I'm working as just couching. Move it, you move it? This is crazy, you know. Yeah, she's got to take care of her kids, four kids, she's thirty six, She's just thirty six years old. He's not lady. Yeah, Shirley, you said Tommy was hands. You ain't seen me on my show. But I'm sexy. You ain't seeing me, man, Sureley wear glass. Shut up? All right? Listen. Then when they describe, y'all said that ain't time. We gotta go. Guys, you can eat ls or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey FM. You're listening to show, all right, Steve, it is time for comedy Roulette and Jay explain it to us. Damn to roulette. This where we take bad subjects. We put the subjects on the wheel. We spun the wheel around and around and around. Where the wheel stops, we'll do the damn thing. What are the subjects? You're ready? Here we go. Number one, I apologize baby. This is the first time this has ever happened. Number two, Well, when is the baby going to sleep? That is me? Number three? How long is he going to stay in the sixth grade? Once again? Number four, Well you're big and bad. Come on down here. Okay. Number five, I didn't get fired. They just tripping at the job, didn't they tripping? And here's a bonus number six. If you buy cheap stuff, it doesn't last. All right, all right, all right, it's been a day when you want Jay, you did not want number one. I apologize, baby, this is the first time this has ever happened. That one. You know, the problem is you. You is the problem. I take concentrate because of you. You're doing something to me make me lose my concentration, and whatever it is, stop it. You need to focus. Was personal that I wanted to stop. Man, Okay, well look at, look at I want to apologize. This has never happen volt but me and the microwave went off at the same time. I want to say, I'm sorry. No, I was through. Listen, listen, listen, listen. I apologize. This is the first time this has ever happened. I dreamed I was peeing, all right, That's why we both laying here with saying, this is the third time I was being in my dream. When you're twelve, you can't have come on, baby, baby, baby, I'm sorry. I didn't know it was your mama, Dale. I had no idea. Al Right, listen, I'm next more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening show, Lock them up, all right, Lock them up? Okay, everybody knows somebody that's considered good people. You know good people. Oh, keep to themselves, always speaking. My theory is lockday ass up because they can't be trusted. They up to something, up to something, you know what. People like that. The people who are always helping old people, always going over there. How you doing, miss Johnson? You got enoughded? Lock the ass something. They up to something something, you know what I'm doing. People who drive the church bus, singing the choiet, just so good to help out. Lock dass up, something going out here. I'm going on you driving the church was? I don't trust you? Damn people up to something? You just driving the church? Was? You ain't getting bad like that? Ass up. People have a party. They have a party and tell you because the ignorant, right, he ain't never heard of. Don't bring nothing, Just bring yourself. Oh come on, lock dass up, upset with it? Steve up him, up him and share a lock into his party. People who see your trash cans out by the curb, then you leave and they roll them back up to your house. Just gonna be nice. Lock them up, lock dass up. Body asks you to roll nobody damn tash the first person at work, you know, the first always that works. You have the light zone. Make sure the internet is working, you know what I mean? Got donuts for every damn body? What's that about that sounds like you comment is only a comment in break. People don't come to work and speak to every damn man. Make sure, cubicle, how you doing today? I want your weekend at your damn didn't have my weekend work? What you up to? Why you got to know about people's weekends? People are always looking out for you, you know, like if you go out of time, they make sure to get your newspapers. Man stuff lest my stuff, Pilot, I don't need no. I don't know you're gonna do my man? Why are you looking at my man? Ye? Did I ask you if the mail man keep living at that damn it? You do the same damn thing. Yeah, you do the same thing. I don't like for my mail, the pilot. Know what? People are always having baked sale? Oh we kind of raised money for the neighborhood. What is that about? You bringing baked goods at your house to sell to people in the neighborhood. You're up to something. You don't know everybody in the neighborhood. Yeah, you know people who bring soup over to your house when you're sick. I heard you was under the weather. I brought you some soup. Nobody asks you for no damn sup Yeah. Yeah, So your car broke down and somebody just pull over and fix your car. Damn always picking up the tab always, I get it, I get it. I got too good jobs. What is that about? I got to give him a side out about you buying Sally? Yeah, babysit about can't be n diet anybody asks you to be nazy? Oh? Man, man, what about it? I'm a woman. I dropped something on the floor and the guy picks it up. I ain't picking it up up. That's a true statement, that's a true state. All right, we'll be back with more of the Steam Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening to show. How are you guys feeling about this whole mask confusion mandate situation going on? What break it down to me? Lay it all the way up? Well, you know see the Yeah, the CDC came out with the rule that if you've been fully vaccinated. You don't have to wear your mask indoors, Yeah, indoors. But then some stories say you you do have they want you to still wear your mask inside, you know. So it's kind of confusing. And the other thing is how do you know who's been vaccinated or not? You know, it's we're on the honor system where we have to believe people. I'm wearing my mank yeah yeah, yeah, I'm because I don't trust people exactly, and it's too many people that's just dumb about this whole thing. So I still I still wear my mask. Yeah yeah, Now I'm fascinated. And I told you I ate Chitten's for thirty eight years, so I'm like completely protected and you believe them. Thirty eight years of chitteness has prevented anything from taking hold and my system at all. Get running up out of it, flu fluke going down there and run up into that rhythm. Chien j more. Get out of here, you're a crazy speak your ass out of here. The vaccine and chitten hi, Hell, I'm gonna get COVID one. The more of the Harpy Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour. Don't say chitlings anymore? Right after this, nobody saying that you're listening morning show? All right, Steve J. Anthony Brown, who you've asked to be ignorant today, is here with phrases that will break up a friend. Basically, these are roommate rules, and when you got on your own, you might have to get a roommatee to branch out. But there's some rules you should live by if you get a roommate. First room, If you don't put it in the fridge, damn it, don't take it out the fridge. How about that? Yeah, at work, the same thing, samething. You and your significant others should not haul the living room. Take that nasty stuff to your bedroom. Okay, all right, people live here. Other people live here too, all right. Yeah, don't go in your roommate's room for a damn thing. Okay, that makes sense. Why are you in here? What you're doing in here? Ain't nothing here for you. If your girlfriend or your boyfriend like eggs, bacon, cheese, alcohol or whatever cereal, make sure they bring it with their ass when they come over. Okay. If if that's what they like, make sure make sure they got that in the bag when they come in the door. Okay, that's all I'm saying. If your boyfriend for the ladies, if your boyfriend man man likes to play video game, you need a big screen TV for his ass in your room. Okay. But this is this is a good rule right here. We all sh you to buy body. Nobody who is a roommate is allowed to date anybody that's been to prison. Nobody. You gotta make sure your room. You know, you gotta go. You gotta check all your stuff off because he no, we can't. All right, If you got a Christian roommate and you're not a Christian, let me tell you Christian something. Who who ever sleeps with, who who ever sleeps with, dain't your dad, I've been Okay, Okay, last one, If the rent is due on the foast the foist, we'll read that we paid the rent. We don't want to rent on the second third, four, fifth, six, seven, eight, ninth, tenth, eleven, twelfth, thirteenth, fourteen, fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteenth, nineteen, twenty, twenty one, twenty two, twenty three, six, twenty seven, twenty eight, twenty nine, thirty we wanted on the foet. Okay, that's okay. It's going down July the eighteen to break Out Art in Comedy show at five three three Climpson Road starring Miss jess Amy and your Shulie j D. Brown Cold the event Bright. To get your tickets. We got music by Dayton Dayton Lewis y'all and Nick Day and Night. Get your tickets go to event Bright y'all. All right, we'll be back with the cloth. Today has been a good day. Um, we'll be back to clutter show yeh. With Steve's closing remarks coming up at forty nine after the hour. Right after this you're listening to all right Steve, here we are last break of the day, and of course it is time for you to leave us. With some closing remarks. I want to give you some encouragement on your role to success. I've often said a million times that the role to success is always under construction. That you can expect the pitfalls, to set backs, the detools, the working men at work, so forth and so on. Well, what I want to remind you of is that you can win if you can fight through the clutter. And one of the best ways that I can give you to fight through the clutter. You have to have a relationship with God. Odd I mean, it's just really the best way to fight through the clutter because you really don't know how exactly to become successful. You really don't know exactly how, I mean. And the reason I know you don't know exactly how it is because you've probably aimed for something that in order to achieve it you really do need God's help. So it's nothing wrong when you don't know exactly how you're going to make it, because what that means is you have aspired to something so great that in order for it to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help. That's where you want to be. You want to be on a mission that keeps you awake at night. You want to be on a mission man that makes you wake up early. You want to be on a mission that requires you to pray constantly. You want to be on a mission man where you seek the advice and help of other people. That's in a higher position. You want to be on a mission where not achieving it becomes absolutely unacceptable. But to get there, you gotta fight through the clutter. And the biggest form of clutter in your mind is the actual figuring it out. Can you remember back on how many times you've tried to figure something out your life? Your next move, who to call, who to talk to, whether to try to sell them, how to sell them, what to buy, how to buy? If you go back over all your life of you figuring out my next move? Should I go to school? Should I not go to school? Should I get a degree in this? Should I not get a degree in this? Should I apply for that job or this job? Should I go over here because they pay a little bit more but just has better stability. I don't know, but you've constantly been trying to work that out. That's exhausting and it keeps your mind cluttered. I was reading in my daily meditation, how when you clutter your mind up with the how to you remove God's presence in your life? Because He's always hovering and standing close by to come in and comfort you and be beside you and help you make these decisions. But if you never invite him in, if you never invite him to make the decisions, if you never allow his presence to come and calm you down. Man, sometimes you just need calming, you know. When you could deal with a lot of this stuff that you're going through a lot better if you will had just a calming effect. The calming effect, that's the peace you get when you form a relationship with God. God calms you down because you know he got your back, you know he's in control. He know he got your best interests at heart, you know that he's behind the scenes working on your behalf. When you have that type of relationship, it cools you out. You can chill. You can't do anything about tomorrow, so worrying about it doesn't affect it. Now. I'm not saying and sitting here that you're not supposed to plan, that you're not supposed to have dreams and aspirations, because you do. But in all my dreams of aspirations, all the things I want, I've had to learn to be flexible because what I want and what God has for me it is oftentimes two different things. But can I share something with you? The thing that God has for you is way better than anything anything you could possibly plan. You can't figure it the way he does. His thoughts is way up there, man, his ways is way up there. You can't outfigure God. God can take a very very dismal situation folks and turn it into pure gold for you when they are lining themselves against you. If God is with you, who can be against you? So let them line up. If you know you got a relationship with God, and you know you're not over there by yourself, why would you be afraid of someone lining up against you? Let them line up. You're talking to somebody who knows this all too well. They have lined up against me in numbers. But guess what, they can't do nothing to me. God don't a lie. And even if you do do it, it doesn't mean it has the effect of the desired effect on me that you wanted to. And so that's the same thing with you. Because of this relationship with God, you don't have to be in and react to every time somebody don't like a picture or make a bad comment or put a false falsehood out there about you. You don't have to react to all of that because you have peace in a relationship with God. You got to form this relationship, y'all. You have to. It's imperative to who you are. Any thing about formally relationship. You don't have to clear with nobody, but you ain't got to even tell nobody you're doing it. You can show them a different you. You don't have to make an admission. I'm talking to God every day, trying to become a better person. You ain't gotta tell nobody that. Just do it. Just do it. That's all you've got to do. All right, those are my closing remarks. All right, drop it, it's drop thank you sir. Yeah. Can I tell you? 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