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Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. If y'all don't know, y'all all the don giving them more like the milling bus things and it's to be true. Good Steve listening together for Stu. Please, I don't joy. You gotta turn you, you gotta turn to turnout, turn got to turn out to turn to turn the water to the water. Come come on your back now. Uh huh. I show will a good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, oh man, oh man, God being good to me. Man. I can't explain it all really, you know, I want I want to remind everybody or something that I need reminding of myself all the time. And I'm I'm dealing with a couple of things now and I had to remind myself. You know what I have to remember. I have to constantly remind myself to stay in constant communication with God. Constant communication with God. You know sometimes you know, I have a tendency and maybe we do all the people. I don't know, but I know for me that when it's going okay, I slack up in sometimes having conversations with him because I'm not coming to him on the daily with something that's pressing us something, and I find myself slacking up in the communication. The danger I have learned in that is this, I think, you know, I mean we've all heard old people say, you know, you got to stay prayed up, you know, and you know prayed up means you know you got some store it up. You just got an abundance of them. Where you don't you're putting it in. Because what happens is is when you're not in constant communication with God, when you're not constantly praying, doing those good times, that allows for the enemy to slip in and do the little things that can be upsetting. And then the next thing you know it, you get several little things in a role. Now you got an issue you dealing with. You know, I have to remind myself when it's going like that, Man, have I really been praying though? Have I really been in constant communication with God? Because you know that that helps God against that little bitty stuff coming in. Sometimes it's big stuff, sometimes it's major stuff. But I've noticed, man, that when I get on a more of a smooth plane, in life, I have a tendency to slack up in that department, and that ain't the time to slack up. I'm really learning that I have to stay in constant communication with God because it enables me to ward off those little things coming up that can get in the way. And so I just wanted to make you aware of that as I'm learning it myself, that staying prayed up is important that you try to stop prayers, you know, you try to you know, have some prayers in the bank, so to speak, and just constant communication with Him because it'll just safeguard you against a lot of stuff back doing you. You know, I just wanted to make sure you understood that because on your journey, it's gonna be many obstacles. I've said this a hundred times on the show. The Road to Sessus Always under construction. I say that all the time, and it's to let you understand that it's not going to be easy, but we can make it more difficult than it has to be. You know, when you go out strike out on the journey, you know, Uh, let's say I got in my car. Let's say I'm in New York and I get in my car and I say I'm going to LA. I know, if I drive west and continue to drive west, eventually I should get to California, or I may wind up in Portland or Seattle or something like that. But if I drive west, I'm gonna eventually get to the West Coast. Now wouldn't it be smarter though, if I mapped out the route, which saved me a bunch of driving I don't need and figuring that I don't have to calculate when you know the way to go. You know, if you know you want to cut cross on the twenty, or you want to cut cross on the seventy, or you want to cut cross on the ten, you know you got to devise a route. Now, if I want to go visit some people I know, then I know I got to I need to go down. You know, I might go through on how I'll come down on the eighty, then get on seventy one and take that all the way down to the Tin and then ride across. Or I might take it to the twenty cut through Texas and then and then let it link back up on the Tin. I know a lot of different ways, but guess what the best way is to map it out. You can go anywhere, but if you go with a map, it's more precise. You save yourself a lot of time. And that's what prayer has taught me that when identify, continuously pray that I stay, I stay in a prepared mode, I have more idea of where I'm going. I'm more secure with my route. If you just take off driving heading west, yeah, you'll eventually get to the west coast if you out east. But guess what though, had you mapped it out, you can see when you're veering off, you may stop, come out and not be paying attention. Next thing, you know, you're on a route and you go on another way. You're going north when you could easily still be going west. You've got to constantly be aware of that. And I'm just pointing that out to you because I know that on your journey, a lot of times you get sidetracked. And part of the ways we get sidetracked is we lose out on that very the very beneficial resource of prayer. We lose out we die. Connection with God get strained. The thicker you can keep the cord connected to God. If you thin out your communication with God and instead of having a big thick cable. Now you're dealing with a thread. You know, a cable is stronger than thread, and so it just decreases your opportunity. And so you know, I wanted to just make you aware of that, and you know, to ever be encouraging to say to everybody out there and just keep your head up. It is going to be dark days for you. There are going to be situations where it's going to be daunting and hard to face. But man o, man o, man everybody has to face these challenges. Everybody get dark sometimes. You know, look, if you didn't lose, if you didn't lose, you wouldn't even appreciate winning because if it all went your way all the time. Do you know how complacent and content and how easy life would be if it just went your way all the time. So when it kept going your way, you wouldn't even appreciate it because guess what, it's been going this way the whole time. So what life does is it has its checks and balances. These hard times are coming, and you need the hard times to appreciate the good times. You need the clouds and you need the rain to appreciate the sun and the flowers. It's just when it comes to prayer, though, just stay prayed up, stay constant with it, because the challenges of life are coming, whether you prayed up or not, they're coming. Understand that you could pray every day all day. When you get through praying every day all day, something gonna happen to you. That's gonna be challenging. Now. I would rather have been in communication with God on a regular than wait till every time something pop off to have to go to and reintroduce myself. Okay, it was over at a little around the board with it today, but that's how it came to me. So that is I ain't mad at it. Y'all have a great day. We're gonna have good one the day. Let's go, ladies and gentlemen. It is here that Steve Harvey morning, Sewan, this very very blessed morning. Oh God, thank you Lord for waking me up today. Man, I shall appreciate it. So listen to everybody. Start with gratitude. It changes your attitude and that produces a entirely different altitude. Oh man, it's all about the tube this morning, baby. It's the three tudes. Gratitude, Attitude, altitude, Yeah, I just made that up. I'm gonna put that on a T shirt. No, I'm not. Please, don't nobody do that. Your mind, you can go with it or not. Yeah, but nah, just out there now. I did that wants before. Man, I did something. Somebody stole the domain as soon as I said it. That com We end up having to pay them five thousand and get it back. Wow, So I said, Okay, ain't no problem that it won't have him again. Took they took that, no gonna here, Well they didn't think of that. Yeah, me and Timmy tried to get that. Ladies and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry, Califf Real, Mississippi, Monica kill Space better known as Junior and the legend that it is. Nephew Tommy. We are here, Junior. What's on your mind? Let me tell you this, uncle man. You sixty five, holly successful, You've had a storied life. You've been in everywhere around the world. Like what is your drive now? Like why do you keep doing it? Well? You know, to be honest, man, it's a couple of things. First of all, I think I've been so blessed that the work that I do doesn't really feel like work. Now, it's challenging to do at times, as is everybody's job. That awesome things about it, that's not pleasant, and it requires a discipline to do my job, to be on time, to get up every morning, to be cheerful even if you're having a bad day or something goes wrong. But I've been very blessed in that my work is actually my passion. So that's a big part of it. Secondly, I'm working on my legacy. What you ass when the Lord does call me home. I'm working on what they will say and remember about me. And I'm telling you right now it has nothing to do with comedy. And then thirdly, if Marjorie could just stop shopping, that's never gonna happen. I could, you know, and look at some type of out gate still and it ain't really heard. That's just her, you know, It's it's really you know, when you're at kids, man, and they out the house and you think they gone, they don't. They ain't gone. They still need help, and they still have request of you. And these requests ain't simple no more, ain't no Can I use the car? Can I go over so and sole house? It ain't that no more. It's wave biggest help me with my business? No, anybody helped me with mine helps hell knows. All right, don't stop shopping, Marjorie, keep it going girl. Coming up next, it is a nephew, and run that prank back right after this. You're listening show, all right, it is time for the nephew to run that prank back. What you got for a snap, I'm gonna run not prank back? Insurance and if you would, cat dog, come on insurance, let's call it inshurances. Is Joseph. How can I help you? Uh? Yeah, Joseph? How you doing? Man? I got you? Um do your number? Uh? Well, so I give me your card to me. You have an insurance company, you might be to help me. Absolutely, we'll love to help you. We'll love to help you. Okay, listen, I'm um, I'm seeking some insurance. I'm what all insurance that you guys had? What what all of you all cover? Oh? We have all of my building in Charance to have a home insurance. We have life insurance, fire flood. We're pretty much uh, we have everything exactly what happ insurance you we're looking for? Okay, we'll see I need I have my own business, my own company people. I like that. Okay, what I what I'm want to What I'm trying to do, man, is I'm trying to make sure I have insurance for the people underneath me. Oh okay, your employees. Yeah, exactly exactly. I want to I want my employees to be insured. Okay, you know, like if something happens to them, they can get they can get workingmans comp you know what I mean. I want to be to accommodate them that way. Is that? And are you able to help me out with something like that? Yeah? I am able to help you. I just need to ask you a few questions. How many How many employees do you ask right now? I have? I got six? Well, I got four that's working full time. I got two that that worked predominantly on the weekends. Okay, so I got let me think real quick, let me I got settlement, I got ice jasmine thunder. I'm sorry, sir, um, sir kemmy and annigans him uh smitty okay, okay, um um what type of fantasy as sir? Uh? Well, I'm I'm I'm more of a UM, I'm a I'm a PC and um I'm sorry dc uh personal consultant pretty close up, pretty close. That's that's that's pretty close. I'm I'm I'm a pleasure consultant. And what it is me I got um, you know, I got jack, Sir, I'm sorry, did you say pleasure consultant? Right? Right? What what that is? Man? Is you know I pleasurized people that want to be pleasurized, Like I have girls that may dance for you or some may come out and, uh do other things for you at private parties, that kind of thing. Are you trying to Are you trying to ensure strippers or call girl? Well, I mean, I mean I'm trying to ensure what I'm trying to shoot. I mean, I give all my girl ten ninety nine at the end of the year. I don't I don't know what. This is an insurance company, this is a reperable company. We don't ensure call girls strippers. So I'm trying to ensure my product. I mean the way it kind of me is right now, everybody got to look out for themselves, but I got to ensure what I need to ensure so in case things go bad, man, I can bounce back on that. I understand that, sir, and I do. I mean, I'm a businessman just like you are, sir, But we don't ensure call girls strippers. So so hold on, I got your car. Man, you're trying to tell me that now you can't give me no insurance. We can't ensure call girls are strippers. Okay, okay, tell me what type of dud they perform? What you mean what kind of do I mean they think? On the application? I have to put down what type of duties? We're gonna put down down exotic dance? You know? Uh? And see since they are there for people that like uh need to have some personal attention, man, you know, we just put something else down, like you know, counseling. You know, he's prostitutes. You want to ensure prostitutes. I'm not saying that, man, I'm not stop saying that. Don't say that normal. That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying, that's what that's what they are. Well, why don't you put down PC man? Why don't you Why don't you put down pleasure consultant for man consultants? So we don't do that here, Um, I don't know how to help you. Sure we don't do that here. You can't ensure a prostitute, then I tell you don't say that normal. I told you this right here is a PC. It's a pleasure consultant. That's somebody that gave me this business card and told me that you'll be able to take care of me. And now here you he is coming back saying you can't see this is when it's starting to be some for smitty name. Uh, sir, you don't have to refrain from using that language. No, no, no, no. They're telling me that you aren't able to ensure me. Man, you don't want coming back with some bogus right. We don't ensure any type of ghetto mess prostitutes call girls. Um, that's some street junk that we don't do here. Hey, man, listen, I was told you can ensure me, and guess what you go ensure me. I'm gonna go back and forth. What you dog? I'm gonna come down that to your office and I want to I want these papers filled out so I can sign them, so I got office. Look, man, we don't ensure no prostitutes or no are no strippers. Okay, so we don't do that, and you're not gonna come down to my office with this ghetto mess. We don't do that. Who do you think you're holling that? Man? You you don't know who with? Now, don't left this corporate over the phone corporate point fool you because I can get gangster. Hey man, I don't know who you think you now. We don't do that here, Hey man, let me tell you I'm on my way down there. Okay, do not come to this office. You come to this office. I'm coming to the office. You're gonna show my girls for me now. Somebody that gave me your card and told me you can take care of me on the low, and that's what you're gonna do now. I need my damn in showing for my girls. Dog. That's all I'm trying to get it. Don't you bring you to me? Stems. We don't do it and I will not. And if you bring something, You're gonna get you. What I mean? I got one? Who are you talking to I'm talking to you now, trying to be nice and I trying to be professional. Question. Don't you bring up to my office or keep you you ain't sending them? And filler land man, I got one more things I need to say to you. You listening. Yes, what you got to say to me? Joe, I do not and short pressitute. Okay, what do you have to tell me? I got to tell you this best is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Mart and shown you just got pranked by your boy. Oh my god, Hello boy, I cannot believe. Hey, y'all got me. Oh, Let me ask you this here, man, Let me ask you this here. What is the baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. I'm done, I'm through. I'm thing you should be yes, and we're done with you thinking Nephew coming up next, it has asked the CLO with Chief Love Officers Steve Harvey in the building, ready for your love questions. Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. In today's Entertainment Report, the Crown Act has officially passed in the House of Representatives. The Maury Show is canceled, so we never know what who's the father? That's right? And Ben and Gen about a fifty million dollar home. We'll talk about all of these stories at the top of the hour. But right now it is time for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building. This one's from Sean or Shan, I should say in Tupelo, Chan says, I have a girlfriend that stays at my house a lot because she gets in fights with her boyfriend. I told her that we're going to do a roommate situation, and she got an attitude. If she's here for weeks at a time, is it unreasonable to charge her? Well, you know, we running into that same situation on this show right here, and so like this is like right up, I at it right you know, you know I would say this, I would say, actually, it's gonna get into some type of charges. Yes, it's not gonna it's not gonna start right away. Seat that seat. It's the mindset of the person that does the favorite. It usually the changes earlier. Y'all, yeah, you can stay here, girl, come on, you can stay here. And then you know one of the people the couple, Hey, I'm gonna gonna do something and forget that that they're gonna forget that the guest is there and they're gonna walk and go whoa, oh, I ain't know. Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot you. And then he gonna go he gonna go back up stair and go how long is she gonna be here? And then you're gonna start getting questioned, and then you know, he gonna go in there, you know, to get his favorite little snack. It's gonna be gone. Hey, baby, baby, baby, what I'm telling lunch me, she made a sandwich and then nah, you know, and then you get out, you got all yeah, and then you got this, and then you get this my head, hollong, are you're gonna be in now? Once he can't get in that bath and donate that sandwich, I'm scared him. At night, they're gonna start charging. So yeah, yet a charge is coming. The charge is coming, Okay, so it's not unreasonable, all right, thank you for that, Clo. Moving on to Trenise in Franklinton. For Trenise says, I'm in my early thirties and my husband is not ready to have children, so he got me a puppy. He doesn't help me with the dog, and he doesn't want it to roam freely in our house. Is this a sign that he won't help me with our kids? Either? Wow? Well, I'm gonna tell you this. The puppy as wonderful as pets can be. Sometime, that ain't no baby. No, I'm gonna just tell you that right now. It ain't even close. I don't know Haiti, how he didn't got away with the sucker mood is loan. But you taking that puppy be instead of that baby, Okay, I'm just here to tell you that ain't the same thing. He got you the puppy because he's not ready to have a child. But he didn't really want a puppy. But he don't want a child more than he don't want a puppy. He doesn't want animals, pets, children, nothing. He doesn't want anything. I don't I can't say that he ain't gonna help with your child. I don't think that that's a sign that he won't. Maybe he just don't care for pet. But you all probably should have had this discussion before you got married. Yeah, because it is totally the responsibility of a woman to carry the child one thousand percent. You know you can hear in that time I'm laying your animals coming. Oh, I can hear the baby kick or the baby kicking, because even after wild. We get tired of that. Baby is moving again? Yeah, yeah, you know, only kicked ten times. The eleventh time with the thrill is gone. We be beginding me. Wow, being pregnant, that's one of the best parts of pregnancy. Well, you know, and I mean I can't. I'm telling you what you all do. Having a baby is just an amazing accomplishment. And it seems to me like, oh for me, a horrific experience. Yeah, you can never do it. Oh god, men can do it. But this man in particular, I know the baby kick, baby, baby kicking, get it out takes me now long. You're just five months, sir. Calm down. Yeah, I can't get gas without going through some things. Yeah, I'm not growing anything. Moving on, You're gonna love this name, Steve. Moving on to Flossy and Harlem. Flossy says, I've been dating a married man for close to ten years and his wife is ill. I've been sending food over there to them, and he's appreciative. His daughter found out and she called and rudely asked me who I was. Should I tell her or keep the peace? Keep the peace, keep the peace, just a friend, keep the piece. See why you want to know. See, listen to me. Your motive for helping has to remain pure and clean. Your motive can't be because now you're mad because you've been the number two for ten years voluntarily, I may add, Yeah, don't about you, so now you want it. Yeah it's me. I'm his mistress. I'm helping your mama. Yeah. That's that's how you get shot at at Stuarts, Right, that's how you get shot at at the Stone. Okay, so no, this is not about you. Let's pray for the woman. Yeah feeling. Yeah, stay out y'all. That sending food over there. You know you could be one of the reason she's still sick in the food. Answer that one floy I watched forsic five floss. Your ass is now own blast. He turned to a suspect. You suspect. Now you're just a mistress. Your answer is now suspect. Moving on to Bam in Ohio Bam Rights. I'm married and my husband's parents lived with us in our basement. I was in the basement doing laundry and I saw my father in law taking matters into his own hands. I tried to look away, but he noticed me. He keeps making jokes about it, and my husband and I are uncomfortable. How do we move past this? See bam, there's the people downstairs that's always creating a problem. Again. But that's what I was saying before one of the earlier ones. The people that own the house gonna come down and the guests gonna they're gonna run into him and bump into him. Now and he down there taking matters into his own hand. I know what you're talking about, and now he joking about it. I don't know what his ignors to see. Oh you saw that? Huh oh, you know, look threw me a little bit, you know, a little quick with it when they called me, you know, quick drama. Thank you. See l O coming up at the top of the hour. We got some entertainment news right after this. You're listening to show. This is great news, very good news for black women in the workplace. The Crown Act has officially passed in the US House of Representatives. The new legislation seeks to end race based hair discrimination. CROWN, which stands for Creating Respectful and Open World for Natural Hair Love It. The legislation passed by two thirty five to one eighty nine, with votes largely falling down party lines. The bill now heads to the Senate for approval, where it will need support from at least ten Republicans to pass. President Biden has urged Congress to pass the bill. So that's really good news. Now you can wear your hair, your natural hair, finally discriminated. Yeah you think to think, right, Yeah, you know. It's just it's amazing that we we have to vote about our hand. We gotta give commission about our hand. We gotta be accepted about our hand. We gotta ask them can we do this here? So I ain't excited about that at all, not at all. It's it's really a damn shame. But why y'all passing laws and bills? How about the basic one to vote the same way you do? How about that one that's that should have something that ain't got a damn thing to do with how you how what your hair looked like? Can we just vote the same way everybody else? Why do we have to keep voting, have this voting law? That's the track of this country. Man. So you know, hey, I tell you what, we didn't get them voted at. Let's let them wear their hair? How they want at that better. No, no, no, don't, don't. Don't all our rights? Now we're tired. Ain't nobody telling white people how they wear, they have eat, They don't have a bill, do they know? No? All right? Moving on, And after thirty one years of determining whether you are or you are not the father, Maury Povich is retiring from television. The Maury Show is ending in September. Maury is eighty three years old, and he explained that his retirement is long overdue. This cancelation marks the end of an era for daytime TV. So how do you gonna know who they daddy? This is tragic. I don't understand this here because before that envelope comes out, she's one hundred percent sure he is the father. And when they open it up, he is not the father. But I love what they take off him. Rung. Yeah, yeah, they see what backstage look like. If they ain't right, let's let's let's let's this is an opening for us. We can start a whole new TV show right here. Who is the daddy? And that's all we do was just Franknees results side. This is great right here, it's a business. This, this is great, and then we get you get your bodyguard, boom he over there. You know, can we gonna need somebody? Could y'all have somebody who hoops somebody there Boom now, and then then you can spin off and then Boom have his own show with them boomi isms. You know, you gotta look at it just like this, better than Dick Clark right here. Man, you could really be something with this head. And then the possibility speakers so we could run. Yeah, I'm gonna be the camera guy. I'm chasing, and I think the spin on the show should be we give We have like a panel of judges, uh, and each judge it's given, you know, five thousand dollars and it's on their little screen in front of them, like on Jeopardy. How much you don't want to give them five thousand dollars? And every time we have a contestant come up, wouldn't we we have three game show judges who are really contested. We're gonna make it a game show, so we're gonna have three people that can come on the game show and they're given five thousand dollars every time we have a person come on there and find out who the daddy is you can bet your money or daddy you can, and then you can bet several ways, like on draft Kings you can bet is it your daddy? Yeah? How many times she gonna be on herefore we find out who the daddy is times, Well, we're gonna we're gonna bet on if the dude gonna be happy or sad because it ain't his Oh man, Yeah, then we're gonna bet on if the dude that's backstage who it might be. We're gonna bet if they're gonna fight, and we didn't, it would just there'll be a hell of game for your column. Like you know, they showed the beat baby, then they show the two people sitting there. You gotta look at the facial features. Yeah, yeah, they look like the most that'll be the new twist on the game. Yeah, I love it. Look just like your daddy. And the name of the show is gonna be that ain't your daddy. We say this though. Marie had a great run and he looks great old. He really really does. Thirty years Wow. All right, coming up in twenty minutes after Tommy needs you to help him out with something. We'll be back right after this. You're listening show. All right, Tommy, what is it now? Okay? I got a problem and it's you know, it might it might be mine of the y'all, but it's a big problem to me because I've been going through for the last moment, Tommy. Yeah, should I come in first or last? Probably? I don't know. I mean, you ain't never went through this. You don't go to stuff like this. Okay, this is something I'm going. Okay, this is something I'm going. All right, this is a problem I'm had for the last month. And it's a simple question. How do you throw away a trash can? I just I just listen to me. Now, ain't nobody helping you with that? I didn't If I put it on the street, they leave it on the street. Now I didn't took the trash can, they just leave it down. Now, I didn't took the trash can. I didn't put it inside a bigger trash can. They take it out and still leave it there. And I'm asking, how do you get rid of a trash can? Okay, it's a big problem. Okay, here, last thing I did, all right, I wrote trash on the side of the trash can with a sharp I be damned garbage man still left it there, and I'm standing in the driveway trying to figure it out. How in the hell do I get rid of a trash can? Now here's what I did, Nick hook the trash can next door to the neighbor's house and put it by his trash Do you know I come home that evening my trash is that trash can is in my driveway and it's a note on it saying I don't know how your trash can got Nick Dough, but I brought it over here, signed uh GM garbage man. I said, I cannot get rid of the trash can. So if anybody can just help me figure out? High on the hill do I get rid of a trash can? Because I don't know how to throw it away? Out and try five times? Any suggestions, Uncle Steve, I have them. I have a question. Yes, how bad do you want to get rid of the trash can? On a scale of one to ten? Hen I've been trying for a month. Then I have the perfect solution. Put some money in it, just gonna take and then what yeah, the cat shout of there? What girl? Ain't nobody dain't nobody from the run the risk of taking the cash out. They're gonna take that trash can, put it up in the front seat with them. They don't have a thing on their Labna wait till they get somewhere, because they don't want you to see him taking that money out, because they ain't the end of the day, you ain't never seen nobody taking no trash out the trash can. That's some value without taking the whole thing. And that that right there, give me some money in the trash how much? Well, you know a happening on how bad you want it gone? That's why I asked him. How important put the right amount of money in there? Trust and believes it's gone, that trash can go. All right? See how that works for you? Now? All right? Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, the Senate Judiciary Committee hearings for Katangi Brown Jackson are underway. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to the same Harvey Morning Show. The Senate Judiciary Committee's confirmation hearings for Katanji Brown Jackson are underway, and if she's confirmed, she will be the first black woman to serve on the Supreme Court. Democrats have enough votes on their side to confirm her with no GOP support, and a few Republicans could cross party lines to support her. Black women, of course, are in support of her, and they've traveled from all over the country to support her confirmation, and several women led groups have held rallies in front of the Supreme Court to bolster support for Judge Katanji Brown Jackson. The National Women's Law Center Action Fund, She Will Rise, Black Women's Roundtable, and other organizations hosted rallies pushing for the Senate to confirm miss Jackson. Well, you gotta be careful of that hill billy out of West Virginia mansion. Oh yeah, the so called Democrats. Yeah, he'll flip. Then you gotta watch that scared. They gotta scares woman that flips too, So then you gotta throw in. Let's see who else. Yeah. But if you would think, because if it was Republicans that didn't need to vote, that they would day in like that. But Jim Democrats, man, they scared me. They scared me. I'm concerned about Oh no, we got together at all, man. We got some cowards in this thing right here. You already, No, Ted crews ain't gonna vote for yeah, yeah, no himself. He flipped on his wife. Yeah himself. Yeah, call your wife ugly and talk about your daddy boy, And you got your head stuck up his behind so far, you man, dog. Every time I see you, they had to pull me off your ass. He was flying back from spring break trying to get to DC for them. Always on a plane, he always, and the flight was booked, and they showed him at this airport and he was going off talking about do you know who I am? And they was like, yeah, but getting on this plane, yeah, who you are, which is the other reason we're not looking too hard for. Yeah. Yeah, Now, if you want us to strap your ass on this wing out here, I'll be molded happy to get some electrical duct tapers. Yeah. A mess, a mess, A mess, a mess. So yeah, I'm we're rooting for to come out. But these Republicans, I don't put anything past them. They're gonna try to, you know, go low. We're watching and we're voting. Call your senators and call your house, call them, make sure they confirm her. But so first she's holding her own. So first, she is definitely holding her own. I think she's a woman for the job for sure, well as we always. Hey did you see on Instagram? I think it's Tyrese's Instagram. Uh the young brother that got accepted. Yeah, did you see that? That young guy that I think he got accepted at college and he got the acceptance letter and his mother and little sister was standing next to him. When he opened up the letter, he started screaming, I'm proud of you, black man, I'm proud. He just kept saying it over and over. Old man. I couldn't stop watching that thing, man, and boy had me till he had me tear up. And I wrote in the comments he'd been running his marathon with an eighty pound weight vest owned and Timberlands right because whatever he did to get that ladder right there, he'd been running his marathon with an eighty pound weight vest and Timberland's own. So that boy, he was encouraging himself. Yeah. I couldn't stop watching it, man. That boy cheered me up. Man, I couldn't stop watching self self encouragement proud you know, yeah, yeah, if nobody else roots for you, make sure you root for yourself. You know. I was saying that to know that. Uh, this sister gonna do fine at the hearings, cause she's she's already. She didn't already you know what she hadn't done to even get to this hearing. Hearing is qualified. Yeah, listen to me, over qualified? You believe that? So boy, the hearing is a piece of cake. He got. The next coming up next to it's a prank phone call with the nephew. Right after this, you're listen Stave Harvey Morning Show coming up at above, four minutes after the hour. It is today's Strawberry letter, the subject I need both of them, and don't judge me. Don't judge me. Tell you how many times I said that before. We're gonna we're gonna just got it. We're gonna get into that in just a few because right now the nephew is here with today's praying phone called nef what you got. There's a group of people that you you really should never really mess with. Okay, there's a group of people that you just don't mess with in the black community. Okay, okay, all right now, of course, why not let's cross the line. This right here is the church Ussher. My fingers are, I'm out of here. That's that group you don't fool with right there to chug users. All you ushers out there, stand up. This is for you. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach your sister. How you doing? Good? Good evening to you, ma'am. I don't mean to be giving you a call this late in the evening, but I I am the new youth minister. I haven't. My name is Sean Williams over at Missionary Baptist Church, which mine is new youth. What happened, Um, he's no longer with the church anymore? Man? No, Well, I'm not at liberty to speak up on that. But but what I was doing is getting around and making sure I met everyone because I haven't met everyone yet and I wanted to reach out to um everyone at the church. But listen, let me let me get down to some more business. Because I've spoken with the pastor. Uh we spoke yes, Bishop yes, manop okay. I spoke with him on yesterday, and we have narrowed some things down over a few changes we're going to be making at the church. And what we want to do is um. One of the major subjects that have come up to us to please that we're wanting you, if at all possible, and the deacons were in on this meeting as well, but wanting you to change your attitude when people are coming in and you're seating them. From my understanding, it's gotten to the point where they think you're wait wait wait wait wait wait wait a minute, wait, thank you, I've had a meeting on me. Well, it wasn't a meeting. I don't understand. Listen here, I've been ushering on that on a usher board before the seven years. I am the sitting the usher on that usher board, and I fally I've been trying to be naught about it. But I don't understand how y'all don't have a meeting without me. But now you won't call him and tell me that you having a meeting on me about me being nice, always nice, Well, ma'am, that doesn't seem to be unders old as you twenty seven man and then some bar to call me this don't make no type of what is it? Well, what that's actually my call, man, is that maybe we figured if I would call and speak with you about the matter, that maybe we can get to some type of rectifying this situation to where we can we gonna rectify here. I'm gonna recotify. You calling me this time of night taught my some meeting. This don't make no time. I don't appasionate you calling me any time a night way is Bishop, I need to speak the bishop. Bishop. I've been at this church for part of seven years. I've been saved. Oh my life. This don't make no type of sense. You calling me here with this mess. Y'all going to make me cause I'm trying to be a Christian. But y'all not gonna ask me to be a Christians. She just gonna just gonna agitate me with this mess for telling me about something. Be nice, remember that saying that they have a problems when you're seating the people, and that's all that we're trying to get rectified. People don't want to sit down. They want to go over here, they want to go up there. They want to have the children runner too and through. It's like a bunch of demons a while he just bucking around in a church like they ain't got no sense. And I'm not going to have it. In my sextion. My section is gonna be straight, and I understand it. Let you know what, since the I think if we did this if you would do me a favor and hold your phone, and if you would just bow your head right now for me, maybe we can come to get to get the man up. What am I bound my head for. I'spital and a clean baby. If we can get your lords. It's clean, it's hospital corpet it don't make no if I bound my head, if you could, maybe if you could close your eyes, since I want to close my said you call me a wok here boy to my fleet with this mass t I'm meeting. I am very annoyed at this, and I don't appreciate it. I'm gonna tell you right now, I'm gonna speak to me now. Father. We asked that you look down. I want Si stick. We asked that you look down upon her right now, right now, asking that you put a smile on her face on Sunday morning, ask him that you put some joy in her heart on Sunday morning, asking let you draw all the pain that she in the angles that she might be going through, whatever demon there is inside, We asked that you draw that demon out. We asked that you pour that demon went away from sister right now in your name. We ask all of these blessings to come, because I don't appreciate this boy. I don't even know who you eat high number. A pastor gave me the number one and asked me to call I am like I said, I'm Sean Williams. We haven't met yet, and I am the news. He don't, he don't, he don't act that way. And it's Bishop. For the third time. I've told you, boy, Bishop, be respectful of the folks. That's let me. Let me let me say this right here, sister, and maybe this will shed some light on things a little bit clearer. I'm ten you ahead. This is nephew Timmy from Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by sister who is also an usher at the church. A mission there about this. This is yes, don't make no sense, Lord him. This is embarrassing. Oh my god, this is bad Steve Harvey Show. Yes, ma'am, that's that's that's my uncle. This is just a joke, though, man, Yes, oh lord him much. How you doing, Army? How you doing? Sister? Am so impious? I am in the I am in Do you listen to the show? Every I never would have spied myself, Oh Lord Jose Oh my god, got me on this radio actors sister did this here to you? You? Well, how about it, y'all call me back and we get to how we do that we do We would do a plank on her bills and a couple of bills, you know, because you show a little her business. What is the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Hardd Morning Show, and look to it and Hardy Mother Love Cherma love Devil. She is so cute. I love her love. This is so y'all. I'm so sorry. Please forgive me Jesus love Wayne too much time, don't appreciate boy. Wow, you got usher board number right there. You got your rare form. It's Bishop for the third time, Bishops twenty seven and they didn't some little boy. How about a week over her prank her and her talking about her bills and was closed to you call it? Woke me up? That was a good all right? The next the next few next stop is Nashville, Tennessee. That's Zany's that's the show to Friday to Saday one Sunday. And what can I say? They are what? They are sold out? Yes, they are so congratulating the nephew. The nephew gonna add a show Sunday night at seven o'clock. I'm planning the head. I'm already planning that I might not see y'all that money. I'm not, at least I'm a honey, all right, right, listen, thank you. Coming up next Strawberry Letter. The subject is I need both of them. I need both of them. We'll get into that right after this. You're listening to morning show. It is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and you can click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay, we could be reading your letter live on the air, just like I'm gonna read this one right here, right now. You never know. It could be yours. It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. We guide it for all you here. It is Strawberry letter. Subject I need both of them, and I need to do a disclaimer before we read this letter. If you have small children, you don't want them to hear this. Cover up their ears. Okay again, the subject is I need both of them. Dear Stephen Shirley. My husband and I have been through hell and back in our four year marriage. He cheated on me first, and then I cheated on him. When I cheated, I got caught in the act, and the guy I cheated with writes motorcycles with my husband. How it happened was crazy. We went to a biking event and my husband got drunk, so his friend brought us home. His friend helped me get him into bed. Then we went outside to smoke some weeds. I hadn't had sex in months because my husband cheated on me. I got so high. I started telling his friend all of our business, and then some kind of way, we ended up on the side of the house, naked from the waist down. I was hooking up. I was hooking him up when my husband started calling my name, and when he came to the side of the house, we didn't have time to pull our pants up or run. We were busted. I told my husband I was sorry, and then he surprised us by telling us to finish because he wanted to watch. We couldn't work under that pressure, so I got dressed and when it died and he encouraged his friend to come inside and finish me off while he watched. I think this is something they've done before. Because they were both too comfortable. We started having sex, and then my husband joined in. This was my first threesome with two men, and I can't believe my husband allowed this. A few days later, he decided to bring it up and asked me to be honest with him. I told him I need the both of them every once in a while to keep things interesting. He said it was fine and he'd be he'd he'd bring a female over some time so that he can have some fun too. I shut it down and said, I only want him and his friend. Now he's acting jealous, so why did he start all of this. That's what he wants, don't you see it? That's what he wants. I mean, some kind of way. We ended up on the side of the house, naked from the waist down. I thought that was really like the craziest line in the letter. But there is more. I mean, there's a lot of them in here. Your husband asked his friend to finish you off so he could watch. Then, I'm thinking this is really working out for your favor because hubby is on board with all of this and he's joining in. And he didn't kill you, guys. He didn't kill his friend, he didn't kick you out, he didn't divorce you, he didn't give his friend a beat down any of that. Nothing, nothing normal happened in this letter. So I'm thinking, since both of you are cheaters and you like threesomes and all of this, and your husband likes watching and all of that, although you know he can't bring females in because you shut that down, it just sounds like you guys are in some sort of open marriage and you don't know it. You know, you just haven't named it yet. This is what swingers do. They share their mates with others, and that's what you guys are into. So I just say, go ahead, put a label on it and own it, because that's what this crazy marriage is, okay, and it is what it is. You guys are into sharing, period. Steve, you know the problem with this letter, it's at the question at the end, and it's at the answer to that question at the end. It is also how the letter begins. The question at the end is so why did he start all of this? Why did he start all of this? Is the question. Well, let me tell you what happened at the top of the letter. They've been in are back and forth short through hell and back relationship from four year marriage. He cheated on me first, then I cheated on him. When I cheated, I got caught in the act. And the guy I cheated with rides motorcycles with my husband. That's a lot of information. We didn't even out of paragraph one. This letter is packed with facts and we not even matter. Did you hear me? So that when you go back to the end of the letter and it goes, so why did he start all this? What? He cheated on me first? Then I cheated on him. Then when I cheated, I got caught in the act. And the guy I cheated with ride motorcycle with my husband. That ain't all he ride or it ain't just motorcycles. He's a rider. He just a riding. He read it up what you want to do. He ride bikes, He rides trailer holmes, he rides on He do sidewalling on side of houses. He uh, he shrieks. Oh, he do service calls. He got a tuck in service at night for drunk men that need to be tucked in bed. This this is just an amazing letter. So when I come back, I want to share with you. You know, because like I told you, y'all, y'all went to a biking event. Your husband got so drunk that his friend bought y'all home, and his friends helped me get him into bed. See that's a service. That's a nice friend. Then y'all went outside smoking weed. See that right there, her plug. He helped you get your husband in bed. He got weed. She was high, dud, she was so high. I ain't never been that high. Steven's response coming up at twenty three minutes to be our strawberry letters subject today. I need both of them, all right, we'll be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. I need both of them as a subject. This letter so crazy. Uh. This lady been been through hell back and forth in a short fold year marriage. He cheated on me first, then I cheated on him. Then when I cheated, I got caught in the act. The guy cheated with riding motorcycle with my hook. That sounded like that movie is Smoking the Bandit where Jackie Gleason was describing how he was chasing bird ryhams cross the country. He got charges on him. He was eating that sandwich. Give him my give me that the blue sandwich. He'd a cross state line to guid him for ki napping, high speed chasing, distraught police property. So this is what I left with the lady husband. See how this sounds that that's a funny part to me. So now let's move on down the letter. So they went outside after he tucked the husband in bed who got drunk at the bottom at the motorcycle riding event. His friend got your husband. Your husband got so drunk. He helped you get him in the house and tuck him in bed. Then y'all went outside to smoke some weed. You ain't had sex in months because your husband cheated on him. I got so high, I started telling his friend all our business. And there's some kind of way to hit the part right here, like you don't know, right, some kind of way. We ended up on the side of the house, nked from the way down. What you got to take them down? Motorcycle boots off, you got to take them chaps off. You gotta get them tight and jeans off. You gotta get that motorcycle vest off. But you from the waist down. So you got the honor your club. So you gotta keep your vest onf on it, so you got your motorcycle patch on it. You can't disrespect the patch. That's like burning American flag to a heel bit. So now y'all neck it from the waist down. I was hooking him up when my husband started calling my name, and when he came to the side of the house, we ain't had time to pull our pants up or run. I've never been in that position ever. I can't run, so you're so comfortable to took your clothes off and folded them up on the ground in a pie. I got to have a lead one leg in something. So now we didn't have time to pull our pants up and run. We were busted. I told my husband I'm sorry, and then he surprised us by telling us to finish because he wanted to watch. That was a surprise. You surprised everybody in the letter with that one. Yeah, we we went. We couldn't work under that pressure. So I got dressed and went inside, and he didn't carriage his friend to come inside and finish me off while he watched. I think this is something they've done before because they were both too comfortable. Wait a minute, that was your takeaway. Your lugs were told another man to come in the house and finish you off. Your takeaway is I think they've done this folk because they comfortable and you wouldn't, right, pants are so now we started having sex? What? Yeah? Yeah, lady, you go along with all this. We started having sex and then my husband joined in, joined it in, Ye man, somebody doing my wife? And then I tap in like you had a dance with white people, welcome, tap them on the shoulder, my turn. You one of them white dances now where they tap in? You had the bowl regard ball or something. I said, that was my first threeson with two men, and I can't believe my husband allowed this. A few days later, he decided to bring it up and ask me to be honest with him. I told him I need to both of them every once in a while to keep things interesting. He said it was fine, and he'd bring a female female over sometime so that he can have some fun too. I shot that down. We ain't doing all that. I don't know who you think I am, what type of woman you think I am? Bring another woman? Up in here. I just want uses. That's what she drew the line. Yeah, draw this line up in here. There's gonna be three people in the verage, gonna be two minuses and meat. That's weird anyway, because once I'm naked, I could be the only one with a body part that looked like mine in that room. I'mna talling that right now. And yeah, it can't do two people in here with zippers. No, so have several people in here with a dress on, but it can't be one. Dude, didn't hear with no damn zipper if we talk about getting naked. So, lady, I ain't got no advice to you. Your question is why did he start all this? The question is why did you finish all this? Yeah, that's the question. Thank you all right, Steve, Thank you leave your comments today. Please on the Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey at FAM and check out the Strawberry Letter podcasts on demand. They're coming up next. It is Junior with Sports Talk. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What you got Junior? Here we go. You know the Sweet sixteam Man, I'm gonna tell you right now, nobody's bracket should be together by that sixteen. It's twenty two. They say, yeah, it's somebody's Brackett should not be together. Oh, I thought you was talking about de Shaan Washing My bad. Yeah no, no, but you know, man, the Cinderella story team or this year, man, it's Saint Peter's University. Man, they have knocked off University of Kentucky. They knocked them off. They was a two seat Timmy. They go, yeah, you check it out by Saint Peter's and they are fifteenth seated. They the lowest seeded team in the sweet sixteen. Now one of the number ones. They are already Gonne you're in No, Baylor's outshode. That leaves Gonzaga, that leads Arizona, and that leaves Kansas as the only number ones. Duke is in it, number two Dukes. That duke is in there. And my man, Juwan Howard a Michigan, Michigan is in the sweet sixteen. Yeah. Man, so in the sweet sixteen they got they go, how are you doing that? Man? Yeah, they got Bill Nova is in there too, tim Yeah, man, it's gonna be a good game. So all that starts tomorrow. Sweet sixteen kicks off tomorrow. But in football news, let you know that Matt Ryan, Matt Ryan had been traded since he didn't go to Atlanta. They traded Matt Yeah to the coach and gets some who the Falcons didn't. I know Falcon on how problems is because gets who they did tick now for their quarterback. They no, Marcus Mariota signed a two year deal to be the quarterback for that lant of fact, Well, the Falcons shouldn't have no problem with this because they and Mattie Ice is a good quarterback man. He could, but they can't win with him. Also, Jameis Winson, I know he didn't went back. Now they gotta they didn't get Deshaun was he called all these problems. Jammes Winston has signed a new deal with the New Orleans Saints. I know Tosh probably over there having a heart attack. He's been six since Deshaun with the Cleveland and that's said, no, they don't. They don't look out there Deshaun's houseway on him. Start packing teams trying to get footage of that. I've already offered to pay five hundred thousand for the folds. I want to make sure he coming. Man. So, man, that's pretty much what's happened to the sports right now, Matt Ryan. Now tell you something, man, Why I can't watch old sports? They don't can't remember nothing though to have old sports sports? Why huh? Socket? And you watch a camel race came, which is all right, thank you, jer And you're coming up. At the top of the hour. A Seattle man moved into his cubicle after he couldn't pay his rent. We'll talk about that, we'll talk about living at work. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. In a techtok video that is more than twelve million twelve million views, twenty eight year old Simon Jackson explained that he had to move into his work cubicle since he doesn't earn enough money to cover his rent increase. He can be seen unpacking his clothes and other belongings at an office cubicle and putting them away into workshelves and drawers. Uh. Simon stated, I'm moving from my apartment into my cubicle at work. They do not pay me enough to do both. So as a matter of protest, I am just going to live at my job and we'll see how long I can get away with this. He so he was, Yeah, it says. It turns out his cubicle he's black. No, Simon Jackson is black. I thought by the name Simon Simon Jackson. There you got the millions of views on TikTok or first of all, twelve million, twelve million, Well, first of all came about to green. Your black ass is trying this. Yeah, but they're not gonna let you stay that side. Now. I don't know what you do in this fault. If you're trying to find the right bed at the shelter, I don't know what its fault, but you know, good in hell, well, your ass is not fit to stay in that damn cubicle. No, he's been fired already. Yeah, and no one is there. Yeah he's been fired. Yeah, he's been fired. No one is there. Everyone is still working from home. TikTok, TikTok. Yeah, he's someone he think he ain't have enough money off that check, the payment that you fire. Yeah, I think right now that unemployment check that couldn't need me some living. Well, his cubicle stay only lasted four days and three nights before his employer uh forced him to pack up his things and of course they fired him. Now this is a common problem since the average rent for a one bedroom apartment has risen considerably this year, so he can't do both. So he decided to live at work and just didn't work out for him. Where was he washing it though? This lecture of him ironing at the job. But I'm I'm gonna tell you something else that's gonna start a trend because there's a lot of people called he's gas pricing, don't feel like they can drive in no mom, So there's gonna be a lot of people staying in their cubicle cause they can't afford to drive in because of these gas prices. You know. Yeah, but I bet you Hr called him said listen here, I know. But the twelve million views though, why did he put it on TikTok? That was stupid, I guess yeah, monetizing it, Yeah, twelve million views. That's that what we're gonna do next since we didn't did this, now we got to do that. Now what we do, We're gonna try to buy a house. No one is gonna hire him a market live in your cubicle. Somebody sitting that to me, let me see the tiptok million. Oh you're gonna be twelve million in one view. We can we make it one week in a cubicle? Can we make it one week in a cubicle? Did three years in the car? I probably can't now. Oh, but now that's gonna be way different because I got I got so many people work for me. Now, what's the one thing the cubicle? What's the one thing you can't do without? Though that you would have to have it in your cubicle, A like so aware from my chef to cook kitchen chef in your cubic. I don't know. I don't know where he gonna bring this Hot Play then that Stevie used to cook your own food at work. Look at you now, sure Shirley knew I had. They gave me a little office out at your beat in La Well. I turned that office. I put a sofa in there, I had flash screen TV, I had hot Play electric. It was so small. It is your desk. It was only big enough to put a love seat in it. All right, A desk coming up in twenty minutes. There's there's a dating app for single parents. It's new. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to show. Well, apparently single parents are having a hard time dating and popular dating apps have failed them. So a brand new app for single parents launched on March second, which was National Single Parents' Day. The new dating app, it's called Stir, will cater to the specific needs of single parents who aren't finding love on mainstream dating apps. Studies have shown that single parents naturally gravitate towards each towards other single parents. I think that's natural because they didn't have to explain their constraint, and as they are in the same stage of life, so I think it should be interesting. What do you guys think? But what if they both have like, you know, seven kids, like Steve or something, and they're trying to make a love connection. What do you guys think I need to if I'm single, I don't know how many damn kids. You've got enough? You got five, six kids, and that's not I need to Can we feel that out when we when we type in our information, we need to know that datable. Is that what you're saying she has from me? Yeah? Okay, yeah, Well, well what if you have five or six kids. You want somebody to date you, but I'm not looking for somebody that have got well, we don't need is another five, not as teen, So you get someone with children. Yeah, I can date somebody with children, but it can't be six. What's your limit? Dog? Yeah? By by one? Two? Okay one, We're not doing buddy. We're gonna date you guys. All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll play a round or wouldn't you rather right after this? You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now for would you rather? Would you rather wear pajamas to a radio studio your job? Or would you rather work from home in a suit? I'm going to the studio. No in pajamas. I want to be home. I put on anybody's gonna see me. I'm just gonna be suited from the waist up. June. Just from the waist up. That's it. I'll get you in trouble. Don't stand up and draw right there so you have naked people. That was now Strawberry letter to day just on the side of your house with your pants. It don't really matter to me. I'm that worker, wear to work or wear the super over. Hell, I'm comfortable leaven keeping, sexy keeping, rocket or slides. All right? Would you rather be five inches shorter or have two left feet? Tommy? You know what, I'm starting to feel like all leaves are written for me. I'm sick of this. What Hey? What they said? Yeah? Five inches shorter? Just five inches? Or would you rather have two left feet? I'm gonna go with them two left feet, ain't I'm can not get a sort of shit. Hey, I'll just be walking left circles. I don't care whatever. Yeah, two left feet, okay, Um, I'm gonna take twenty left feet and then I just tell people I'm slew footed, walking like a spike lee. What about your junior? I had the two left feet? I mean, I can't afford to give a bite. No, all right? Would you rather be widely famous and wealthy or an unknown billionaire? Unknown? Be Yeah, that's here, mister Richard, famous famous and wealthy you're already bad. Or an unknown billionaire? Yeah you gave me that billion you can kiss him out black behind. What happened to Steve? I don't know, Yeah, he fell off he ain't doing good no more. I saw him and Marjorie and the south of France on Somebody's yeah, that's mine. All right? One more if we can get to watch convention in Geneva. I think some people took him over there. We flew ourselves. I might be an unknown billionail, but by the time you give me this billion, y'all gonna know me. Trust me, I'm gonna make myself very well known. That's our round of would you rather? For today? We'll be back with the last break of the day and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening to Steven Show. All right, guys, here we are our last break of the day and Steve. Before we get to your closing remarks, we do want to graduate congratulate you on yet another outstanding episode of Judge Steve last night. As usual. Yes, Steve, thank you. We also we also want to let the Steve Harvey nation know that Judge Steve Harvey is looking for case is for season two. If you have an issue with your sister, your friend, your co worker, or anyone and you want Judge Steve to settle the matter, see him in court. Okay at Judge Steve Harvey Casting dot com. Judge Steve Harvey Casting dot com and of course Judge Steve will see you in court. Okay. Congratulations, that's the way I see on another. Feel good at being caught on the other side, don't it? Lord? Good point? Tell you what mat behind that desk is easy. You're behind one of them tables. Who is different? Best of you? The defended. I've only man, seriously, I've only been in court, Lawnson, been a playing really always the defender. Oh that crazy, Thank you Lord. In closing to that, I would like to share something with you. I was listening to a friend of mine online in a motivational speech he was giving Denzel Washington, and I was listening to him, and it prompted me to thinking, and I was had just watched a short clip of I was telling people that you've got to understand that when you're in the process of succeeding, in the process of going through the changes of life and then and the flows of life, not to get too frustrated because God is processing you. He's preparing you for everything you ask for and in getting the things you want in life, the things you ask for, You're going to have to pass a lot of tests because after you get to what you ask God for, you're going to be faced with challenges to maintain it, to continue to hold onto it, and to go even further. So what happens is this thing called life causes you to get experienced. So when you're facing challenges and setbacks and hardships, you have to understand something, y'all, that you have to go through these things so you become experienced. You can forget wanting it to go smoothly, because that's not the experience of life. Experienced people of value are experienced of value because they know how to survive hardships. Anybody can go through the good times anybody. Anybody who you know can't handle fund, who you know can't handle sunshine. Nah man, you got to survive some storms before you are of value to anybody. Because don't nobody come to you, man, I'm just having too much fun. My life is going too smooth. What should I do? Nobody ever came to you with that. People come to you with problems, people come to you with situations, people come to you man hurting. Ain't nobody coming to you man? Because it's going all right, and just want to know what shud they do next? That ain't how this work. So in order to become a valuable person to anybody, you're going to have to be able to advise them, to give them suggestion, give them the techniques, teach them how to get through it. Talk to them about what you did. That's the only way. So now forget about this perfect existence because that doesn't exist. Stop trying to play it safe because you're never going to be that if you if you don't fail, that simply means you're not even trying. And if you hear anybody talking to you about man, I've done this and I've done that, and they make it all look like it's gravy and it's smooth, they lying. They are lying. I didn't go through none of that. You know, I just hung in there, man, and it all worked out for me. That's a lie. That's a lie. If they're telling you that story, you need to take real close look at who they are, because they are not who they say they all and they do not have what they claim to have. I promise you that, because if you have anything, you have failed to get it, because failures are part of the process. I assistant to Denzel. He said his wife, Paul Letter told him something very valuable. He said that she said, to get something you never had, you're gonna have to do something you've never done. I can't tell you how true that is. To get something you never had, you're gonna have to do something you've never done, period, period. It just leads me to what I understand. Whatever you want in life, you got to go through something to get it. You can write this down. Whatever you want in life, you're gonna have to go through something to get it. It's not just right there. Whatever you really want, it's not just right there. It's not in front of you on the table in a box with some paper on it and a ribbon. That's what you want. You think it's gonna come in a prepackaged box like it's sitting under the tree waiting on you. That's what you think. Are you kidding me? That's not how it works. Man. The things that you want in life, you're gonna have to go through something to get it. God does not put things of value in a box with a ribbon on it and set it under the tree all year long. That's Christmas homie. The rest of the years work. Those are my clothes. Remarks to get something you never had, You're gonna have to do something you never did. Thank you, Paul Letter. Y'all have a great thing. Hey, listen, talk to God. He'd love to hear from you. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void ware prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. You're listening to Steve Show.