Come on, uh huh A good morning everybody you're listening to the voice. Come on, dig me NW one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, here we go today, folks. This is a good one. Because of today, I want to share with you something that that affects every living soul, and that one thing is your attitude. This affects everyone. It is your attitude. You know. I don't know if anyone's ever told you, but I mean, many of you who listen know this, but there are a lot of people who don't understand. A positive attitude can bring about a change. A positive attitude can bring about a change. Well, now here we go with the nay says, well, Steve, what you mean if I'm just positive being changed? My mama gonna what me being positive got to do with that? Okay, now listen to me carefully. A positive attitude can bring about change. Well, okay, Steve, I hear you saying that. But they didn't fined me. So now what does my having a positive attitude have to do with the fact that they fired me? Well, one more time, A positive attitude can bring about change. Well, Steve, I set up in here and gave eight nine, twelve years of my life to this man and he just he cheated on me and walked out. Now what does me being positive have to do with him cheating on me? How that's gonna change that? Okay, here we go again. A positive attitude can bring about change. Now listen to the whole thing. Now, the positive attitude and the change that can happen starts. This is the start. It starts within you. See, life is tempera cent. What happens is what you do about what happens. Okay, you gave twelve years of your life to this man. He cheated and left you. Hold in the bag, the kids and everything. Now what does being positive have to do with changing that? Or they came in and they fired you. You lost your job that you was a stellar performer at. But now, how does you having a positive attitude? How does that change things for you? So far, you can use any example. Here's what happens when you have a positive attitude. What it produces within you is a positive approach to life. And when you have a positive attitude and a positive approach to life, it causes you to be optimistic, to have a positive out look, to expect things to eventually turn around and and and and and turn into a positive That's very important because as the law of attraction comes into play, if you think positive thoughts, you attract positive things. If you think evil thoughts, you attract evil to you. You know, if if you want for nothing, then nothing comes your way. If you want for positive attitude, if you want for positive results, if you want for a great outcome, that's what you attract to you. The change will begin within you. So let's take the man that walked out your life and left you hold in the bag. Here's a positive attitude. Okay, two things have happened as positive here. Number one, you've ridd it yourself of someone who was obviously going to be, if not already been, toxic in your life. Cause you many restless nights, a lot of uncomfortable feelings, uneasiness, not sure insecurity. You've been going through it with this person, whoever they are. Number one, that person has been released from your life. Number Two, it allows you now to have the someone who will treat you just the way you want to be treated. That's the positive outlook, that's the optimistic way. That's when you're a positive person. You see the positive in things that happened to you, instead of burying yourself under the horse wrong with it? Old woe is Me? Now concept see a positive attitude. When they came in there and they fired you and let you go? Could this not have been just the opening you needed to finally start on a new career path that you've been talking about doing anyway? Could it possibly be a brand new chance for you to get the dream job, dream career of your choice. Could it not possibly be the perfect opportunity now for you to finally finally do something about that gift, about that talent that God gave you, that thing that you love to do. Could it not be the perfect time for you to pursue that. But if you don't have a positive attitude, then you lay there all they're finna come get in my house? Oh what I'm gonna do now? All this unemployment ain't enough? Oh Lord, when it's unemployment run out? What am I gonna do? Then I won't have nothing? And you old woe is me until you become old woe is me. But if you take it from the positive approach, some amazing things can happen in your life. I would tell you on a personal note. That's some of the most some of the best changes, some of the biggest moments in my life came after a loss. Some of the best things that's ever happened to me, some of the biggest moments that I've accomplis in my entire career came after a loss. So I don't want to go down on the list, but boy, I could tell you. Let me let me tell you something. When they didn't want me on the radio anymore in l A. When they didn't when they were it was sick of the way I did radio out there, and they wanted me gone. And on May two thousand and five, when my did When? When? When? When my deal was done? With the beat out in l A. Okay, look what happened though, y'all was gone in May. But in September nineteenth I started to Steve Harvey Radio Network with four cities. I'm now sixty some cities, you see. But I didn't go old. Wol was me? I said, Okay, God must have something else from me then, because if he didn't remove me from this, that must be something else. Same thing that happened when you lose and you and you and you break up in a relationship. Say anything can happen to you. You never know the one God God for you. Now Here you go, here you go again. Now you get put into a situation with somebody, treat you just the way you want to be treated, provide you with a whole lot of aspects of your life. You knew nothing about pride to that. But you gotta stay positive. You gotta keep looking out, You gotta keep looking to God. You gotta keep believing that there's gotta be something better for you. That God has a plan and it don't coincide with your plan oftentimes, but His way is the best way. Oh. I have not liked it many times. Man, Oh man, I've had people scathed me. I'm talking about man people. I ain't done nothing too. I don't even know where it's coming from. Just go public and just try to bury me. When they got through, Man, I can't tell you what happened to me because I ain't raised my voice back. I didn't. I didn't get into that negative lane with them. I took the high road. And when you take the high road, God got something for you. So all of you out there are struggling, that's being hated on that you feel like your life and took some turns that you have no control over. If you stay positive, that positive attitude, that optimistic outlook, that that that always thinking. God got me no matter what happened to me, some amazing things that's going can will happen in your life. It's a fact. I don't know how it works that way. I just know that's what it is, because that's a funny thing existing. It's called faith, and it's the belief in things that you cannot see. And man, if you just hang on to that, sometimes sometimes it's all you got, though you understand what I'm saying. Sometimes sometimes you don't really know what it is. But that's what faith is. Is when you don't know what it is, you just kind of you You just kind of believe it, but you believe in it's something you can't case see no way out. I don't see how they're gonna get ma. Lemitate you something. I've been there. I got in some trouble in two thousand and eight. Man, that was good when I found out about it. Anybody else would have been gone from him. But I ain't let it bury me. I kept talking to God about it, me and Margie got together. We kept talking to God about it. God got me through. It took a little bit longer than I wanted it too, but boy, he bought me through though, and he bought me and my wife through and my family through. And because I just kept that faith, I kept that positive outlook. Positive attitude is everything, y'all. So get off the old wol is me negativity train because it ain't gonna take you nowhere but down, and get get your outlook up. If you change your attitude, you change your altitude. Altitude is determined by your attitude. How high you go, how big you become, how far you go. It all depends on how you think. It all depends on what type of attitude you got. Ain't no, ain't no very very successful, super negative people. It just doesn't coincide that way. If you see that something that happened to him along the way, and don't worry. You ain't gonna worry about it because you ain't gonna see him long because you can't stay up there like that. It's just too hard. All right, that's the conversation you're listening, all right, eighteen eighteen minutes after the hour. That sounds a little crazy. How does that sound? Cat? Alright, cat say good? Don't sound good? Here? Eighteen eighteen minutes afterday I welcome to the ride, y'all. We're broadcasting live again from the beautiful Cayman Islands. Uh from Choice Hotels the place to stay. Okay, And I'm not even in the promotion Comfort Sweets. I just did. It's not that. Ain't choice hotel. We're right here at Comfort Sweets. It's a choice hotel property in correct, Yes, sir, you are correct. It's Choice Hotels. Because they have so many locations. You may want to choose one of the other wonderful properties that they have and save yourself some money so you can have money for the beach, money, fuck souvenirs, money to eat, things of that nature. Come down there, winem. No, I can't go there. Yeah, Timmy talking to your mic. Your mic is off. Good morning crew, Hey, Good morning Paradise. Hey, good morning. I really want to stay a few more days, man, I don't blame you. I got a few more that I didn't know. How tired I was yesterday because I've been golfing every day. Oh poor baby. Doesn't it take a moment though, once you come go on vacation to wind down and then by the time you get in vacation mode, it's time to go home. Oh from Yeah, I guess, and another vacation. Travel doesn't really you know, I don't do jet lass. I've never done that. Even when I I went to the Philippines, I lost a day and it was twenty hours of flying and I still didn't get jet lad. I found out how to stop your feet from swelling on the plane though. It's copper fit compression socks, Tommy copperfit socks, and it stops your feet from swelling. No, no, no, no, it happens to me and too id that oh non me and spewell up too. Now you said Tommy copper and he thought you were talking about it. Oh no, that's the name of it, Tommy copperfit. If you wear those on the plane, now, ladies, if you were at a dress on it some hills, it's gonna blow the outfit. I just need you to know that damn socks on with your dress or sun dress, you're gonna look like a food. But for twenty hours it gonna take them heels off and elevate your feet. Anyway, Yeah, definitely, get the blood circulating. I've seen those infomercial suit seeds, so it really works. Well, yeah, man, I got a pair. And because I flew to the Philippine jo and uh no swelling nice, awesome. I had my feet up a lot too. I didn't know, man, swelled like that. I didn't know that. Man, you ain't up been on the plane. Took your shoe on? Yeah, woman, yeah, I told I told the whole hang nail area of my index finger off because I had to use it as a shoe. Get that shoe. I had bloodd I didn't know I could not get that. And I put that shoe on and it wasn't pinching, it was painting. Patient. Yeah, and I'm talking about man, it feels like somebody had just rolled my foot up in half real live at man, how long was that? Like? You remember? That was like New York to l a six coast coast six is the six five five something like that? Five change going and coming. Yeah, but enough for your feet to swell, enough for your feet to swell, Okay, well let's let's just move on swelling in the morning. And really, what I thought would be a great morning coach and I realized that we've been on it too long. But it's what you all do. Last night we went to the Lobster Pot restaurant. Oh my god, you know who build that world? Well yours? Yeah, well you were there, Tommy. That a question because Tommy, they use you, know, man, they use you. We were ever so grateful, Thank you, tom Yeah, he offered to go to dinnericide. You don't even know how much the lobster Pot call. Why do we need to know that? That's just information that I don't start with. It was good, Oh, it was so incredibly good. I'm going there from lunch today as you should say hello to Nils, the general manager. He was fabulous. Yeah, you should ask for him. Yeah, he asked about your lost time. He did. But we had a great meal, lobster, crab, shrimp, even the baked potatoes, the broccoli and vegetables. Everything was good. How was it lost? I'm not going to wear from vegetable, but everything prestable was good. Sweet, they got some vegetables down here, just saying the last time you picked the restaurant calls it the Vega. Even the vegetables are great. You would love it. The fish, the chicken, and the meat need to be delicious. You can't mess a vegetable though. That's some places where you get vegetables aside. It's not too mushy vegetables. And it is good at Luby's. No places overcooked. Yeah, yeah they got lost. Yeah, it was so good. It's really good. Oh, I'm dessert. They have lobster. No, but they had lobster mashed potatoes. They didn't have lots. Oh they got lobster. Yeah. Everything is good to see. You cannot go wrong. All right, I'm going there today. What's the dessert you order? Tell me the bread pudding? Butterscotch bread pudding. What? Yeah, it was good, that's great, really yeah, goop of vanilla on the side. It was good. Hey, what because I if I eat another chicken wing this week? Too much jerk? You jerked out left over from the super Bowl. If another chicken wing, you'll love it though. But see that's what happened when you go somewhere and your wife don't though. Why one? Because you know my wife, she spends time in the menu. She get into it. Care food coming to the room. Baby, I order dinner. You threw golf and yeah, I order dinner and you go up there and just be like special. You know, she let him set the table and everything. Oh yeah, take it, take it off the tray, put the cover down and walk out. Just get out, please, thank you. I can do it. You want me pull your coffeements hary, No no, I don't you want me to make you coke? No want me to do this? No, I want you have clothes on right when all this is going down? Oh yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah, I'm lost for a lossuit. Yeah yeah, there would be no lossues something my mic. You know what's crazy here though, I mean if they're used to it, but driving I could never drive here. I can't even cross the shore. I'd be so scared. Man. I just run as soon as I see it clear, I just break out running a curve and I don't know, I didn't miss jillge what side that car posted off? I cuss one dude out and I was rolled story format because they drive on the on the right side. The steering wheel is on the right side in the car like in England. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I would have so many actors. Yeah, but they they handled it well, Like that time we went to Paris. Remember driving in the circle. We said one, we're gonna get over there. Wait a minute, y'all had a car. We're in a taxi. All right. Uh, when we come back from break, it's Black History Month. We all know that. When we come back Little known Black History Month Facts. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, we are broadcasting line from Comfort Sweets on seven Mile Beach and Grand Cayman Island. Good morning, see you coming up? What the world has been waiting for? Little known Black History Month facts? Okay, special, alright, here we are. It's time for another episode of doing Black History Months of little known Black History facts. Don't tweet us, don't instagram me, don't facebook me with why are you doing this? Doing Black History Month? Because this is what God made me write, Jilkes. Now you go to CNN and d T for all the Black History Month you want. They playing roots. They're gonna they're gonna play roots, and they're gonna play roots. How many times we need to see roots? They're gonna run it. So tell me what little known Black history factor you have? Uh? Alright, now this is one that you definitely don't know nothing about. This eighteen nineteen Charleston, South Carolina. It is the eighteen nineteen plantation Queen Beauty Patch cannot come. Who is this now? This thing is hosted by Cleofas Riggins, Cleofa's Big Buck Riggins. Now Cleofa's Big Buck Riggins is loved by all the plantations in the region. He go from plantation and planet. He hosts a whole lot of different plantation events. Started out, went from twenty slave beauties all the way down to two. We got down to the last two Sassy Lula Bell Collins Works, she from the Collins Word Plantation. And the last other one was had It made gil Mo from the guil Mo Plantation. And the it got down to the last two and Cleofa's Rigging big I'm sorry, that's right. Cleos Big Buck Rigging asked for a drum roll. That's when Mandingo got on the drum and ban Joe Benjamin was on the field, and uh, that's when cleofus, Uh, somebody brought him out the card to read on who was the winner. He could read and the person that brought him out the car Uh they called him Conrod. Conro couldn't read and brought out the wrong damn card, so cleofas big Buck Riggings hollered out had it made gil mode and that when Conro say, hell no, that's wrong, he said, you didn't read it wrong. And that when Cleo say that was on there. I'm the only one around here who can read anyway. Anyway. And now when Conro said, I didn't made a mistake in the actual winner was Sassi Lula Belle Conning word from the Conning word plantation. So they put the head wrap on the wrong person and rewrapped the head of Sassa Lula Belle. I brought all this to let you know you are not the first person to make a mistake in Black history. That didn't really make a mistake. You understand what I'm saying. So that's just a little known Black history history. Most about me, all of them. Well, I read up on What's going That's eighteen nineteen Plantation Quean Beauty page. I have time for one. Charon, South Carolina for Dhlis for Dohlis Castro Fors for Dophlis. Castle was a slave who was being bought from Africa on a slave ship. Big Strong. He ate to his change. He ate to his change and escaped and dove overboard and grabbed one white woman on the way. Ove overboard and grabbed the captain's wife, swam to shore on an island. The woman in mind for Duflis to drift so much that they had several babies on the island. That island became populated. That island is currently known as Cuba. To escape extradition back to Afge for Dovelis, Castrophus named has renamed himself fide Castle. You're listen, and coming up next at the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about former nick star Charles Oakley being ejected from Madison Square Garden. He was ejected from a basketball game. He was playing. No no, no, no no. He was a spectator. But we'll tell you about it at the top of the hour. Whatever going on, I want to send a shout out to my boy. Oh straight out of Cleveland. Baby grab us if you want to grab us at the game on no public event. That ain't what we do. We cleave it went down, run that break lunchtime day. You got to lunchtime day. Hello, Hey, I'm trying to speak to UHC to Alan. It is Alan? Who is this? Hey? Alan? Yo? This Derek man took us out. Bro. You are Rachel's Rachel's husband, right, yeah, yeah, summer wrong no no, no, no, no, no no. I work at this like I said this, Derek, Now, I work with your wife, Rachel, right you you you are supervisor or something. I mean, just this about work something. I mean. She's doing a good job and everything. She ain't back oh no, no, no, everything is straight, man, Ain't nothing wrong with the job. Everything is cool with the job. This this right here, man, is like what I noticed. Man. And if you know, it just seems like every single day, you know, while she's on her lunch break, it seems like you know, you would call and and and uh and then blocked up the whole hour of her lunch break. And actually, you know, just be real, man, I'm just trying to come correct with you. It just seems like you just cut in on all the time that I have that I had with her. What what whoa whoa whoa whoa? Hold hold hold up on, hold up, hold up, broke way you what are you doing at lunch with my lady sons? Like I said, you know, we're just we're just spending time, you know, doing lunch time. But it just seems so rude. You know that rude? Rude you you? Okay, First of all, that's my lady. Okay, I can call her whenever the I feel like calling that. That's what I pay for them phone, Jill. I bought that iPhone five I could get about please all right. Secondly, you ain't got no business be in with a married woman alone at lunch. This ain't no date. You're supposed to be at work. No, we are at work. We call, like I say, we call workers. You know, it just seemed like half the whole time I'm sitting in front of her, you know, we're supposed to be having lunch together, and she talking to you the whole Uh. But what's what's your name? Beta? There? Derek there? All right, Derek? You work at the same building. Okay, you you would work right now? Huh? Yeah? I mean yeah, I mean you'll work in the same flow. Because I can't come and see you. You You games about to jump off way way different for you, straight up. Okay, So let let me ask or something. Man, what is the big deal? Understand? Okay, you're act like you don't see her. You look like you don't see her when she gets home, you know, so why is this so important that you waste a whole hour of lush and holding up and you wasted ain't I'm talking to my lady, Okay, you understand that. Why don't you go out and get and then you ain't got to worry about sitting up in front of me. Lady, that's my wife. I walked down the hour with that. We got kids, we got a house. We take care that he helped me hold it down on this you you you ain't. You know it's like you you don't ever want to come in and do but they got to always want to come into somebody else? Wife, And why why don't you do this? Take take this advice and see what it works. Have works for you. Go to club, church, library, grocery, stole, whatever, the find your dad and you get you a chick. You gave her for a minute, you called her for a minute. You romance up for men. That's what real men do. You know what I'm saying. That's what I did. That's how I got my my Rachel. That's tough. That's my heart. You're trying to sit up there in front of lunch with us every day for the past year I'll tell you what, bro, It may not be today, it may may get the mark, but soon soon you're gonna see me me. You're gonna have none of this phone conversation. It's gonna be a face to face through all of man. I ain't trying to come between y'all at all. All that, okay, Like I'm saying, I'm not trying to comment tween y'all. I'm just saying, it is every day you call him, man, what do you want wife to talk to every guy day? That's what I really, dude, you know most about that because you was You ain't no real all you know about it trying to highlight some treat. You don't know what it is to put in work like a real man, dude, to actually hold down a home, pay the bills, everything, the family, the kidding, fixing the yards and fences, and you don't know nothing about that. All you know about it, you know roach wife can't even go to work. But I like you trying to step ahead. And I don't mean no guy because but that's okay. Like I promise you I'm gonna be there. You're gonna see me, and I'm gonna see you. You know, I'll tell you what this house is gonna go. It may not be the knight, but it's definitely not gonna go past tomorrow. Between now and then, you're gonna see me, and I'm gonna see you, and I can't what's what's your site? Heard me? I would come see you by tomorrow? Son? I mean you Derek. That's your name, right, Derek name? My name is there? Yeah? You don't. I always want to keep smiling face in my wife's face. I deal Rachel when I see it. He can Please believe that. Please believe that talked to about a little friend at lunch and like the hell getting my nup anyway. I got still know how to rate your phone. But that's besides the moone y'all. Ain't that cool? I don't think. I ain't never heard of no dance before the day. And what's sudden you're calling me talking about you was at lunch every day with wife and you know I don't it's a friendly runch date. Just word it. Really, I don't know how you just do friendly? I know about all that. You ain't fueling me. You got know like you who pray on very women all the time because they like you. But that's like I said, it's gonna change issue. Okay, Doug. Here's here's what you don't know. What you all know is is Tommy Tommy be pushing off on the more than mem Tommy. Tommy is always pushing for her to only one you need to be worried about. You left Tommy. Who who the dog dog dog? Nephew Tommy. Man, check this out. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife Rachel got me to prank phone called you. Oh y'all? Did this May? He I shouldn't come down to May I am now was gonna you know, and I was like, burn that building down. You don't even know her, Tommy. Is this reprediction? Somebody gonna you up for real? Y'all? You just played much man, y'all trip it hey, man? Check it out. You gotta tell me this man, what is the baddest radio show in the lane? Only the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Former Knicks star Charles Oakley was forcefully removed from his seats at Madison Square Garden and arrested after an altercation. Uh near team owner James Dolan. Oakley shoved security guards before they pulled him away from his seat behind the baseline during the first quarter of the Knicks one one fifteen lost to the l A Clippers last night. Fans chanted Oakley Oakley in support of Charles Oakley as they were taking him away. Fifty three year old Oakley, of course played for the Knicks from helping them reach the NBA Finals. He has a poor relationship. I didn't know this. He has a poor relationship with the team because of his criticism of Dolan. The Madison Square Garden chairman. Charles Oakley came to the game tonight and behaved in a highly inappropriate and completely abusive manner, the Knicks wrote in a statement on Twitter. They tweeted this. He has been ejected and is currently being arrested by the New York City Police Department. He was a great nick and we hope he gets some help soon. What hell? What Nick? That's that's their version? Yeah, exactly, exactly. First of all, Charles Oakley is from Cleveland, Okay, And what does that mean? We different? Sixty? Why did you push the man? See? If all you gotta do is look at the video. What's you put your hands on? Charles Oakly? See not all is talking is over right? Because the security guard would up and put his hands on him. Look at his mouth, get off me. He pushed the dude. The dude come back over there and touch him again. He damned it, pushed him out on the floor. Is big, big, and and and in Cleveland we called him a big country. He played ball with the generation behind me at John Hey High School. Okay, so you know, yeah, he here and my little dude, Kiki Walker played on the same team. That's how I've been known Oakley for years. We've been cool. We gamble out in Vegas. I don't gamble like Oakley, Okay, gamble like he's trying to Hey for stuff. But that gambling just to have the crowd was with Oakley though. All you gotta do is look at it. Man. They just they always try to make it like he needs help. Man. You can't put your hand on grown me. And I keep telling y'all, y'all get to doing this the corporate way. You cannot put your hands on grown men and grown men because they don't like that. You can't put I'm sixty, you can't touch me. You can ask me to leave, they say, probably go on and go. Because I got a little big shots family on the dome. I got too much. I can't swing back, is the touching. Yeah, but I got six people with me who do swing, and I paid to spear, but I'm not gonna do. I can't go to jail right now because I'm just ever or ever. Yeah, I don't look good in jail. I don't you know. I don't like all right, introduced Msthan and after MS and we're going to find out about juniors, Cayman Island love life. Thanks Steven. I'm also gonna tell you a little bit more about that open situation. This is antributed news, Okay, Alabama, Santa Jeff Sessions has been confirmed as our next U s. Attorney General, marking the end of a bitter debate, including what happened the night before last one Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell uh silence Democratic Senator Elizabeth Warren and she was reading a letter written by Coreta Scott King back in six where Mrs King accused the Sessions of harboring racist attitudes. Now McConnell Q Santa Warren a Viole aid in this arcane a Senate rule that says you can't impugne the character of a colleague, but democratically the Chuck Schumer says, McConnell's action was uncalled for. Senator Warren wasn't hurling wild accusations. She was reading a thoughtful and considered letter from a leading civil rights figure. And of course McConnell insisted that Jeff Sessions is a fair man. Ivn't had a decision yet, but courts seemed to be so political, and in any case, McConnell insisted the Jeff Sessions it was a fair man, that he could, he wouldn't do any wrong, and everything was right with him, that he saw people as people, no matter what color they were. It was inevitable with a GOP majority in the Senate. The vote was fifty two to forty seven. The nomination was confirmed and Jeff Sessions to be sworn in later on. Today, Democrats are questioning whether Attorney General Sessions will do anything at all to protect the rights of nardis or gays. They also worry about sessions tough stance on illegal immigration New England, parts of North through some Atlantic states being blanketed today with white major snowstorms hitting those areas, leaving cumulations of anywhere from four to eighteen inches depending upon the locale. And yes, it was the opposite of cold at Madison Square Garden last night because former nick Star player Charles Oakley got so hot after it was thrown out of the garden last night, charged with assault after leisurely yelling at team owner James Dolan, pushing and tussling security. Charles. Hopefully he's a bothering something. They eat security in the big way. Security is there, hopefully now being taken off on. This is an ugly thing to see. If I was a guy who played here for over ten years who turn Quaire Oakley and then the organization have not seen eye to eye recently. Oakley very critical about them. What happened to me and four friends went to the game to night to watch Nickson and Clippers get their sit down, trying to have a good time. Next thing I know, I asked, I will ask to leave the building, that's why, And he said that's what you have to leave me because someone ordered to leave. And I'm like, I've been here four and a half minutes. I'm a Knicks fan played him in ten years. I love the Knicks, I love New York. I wish him all the luck on the basketball court. And I won't know why I'm not welcome into the garden. And that's what touched it off. They embarrassed him in front of four friends. Also, you know, you bring your friends, say oh, let's go watch a game, and they did tell you to get up after four minutes. So not only where did they tussle later, but first they started by embarrassing him in front of his friends. And Oakley, yeah, does have a contentious history with Dolan. He's been excluded from invitations and tributes reserved for former players. Apparently that team slogan once and Nick Always, and Nick hasn't applied to Oakley. He's maintained the Dolan doesn't like his honesty, his bluntness, and he recently told The New York Times that the owner has refused to even consider a reconciliation with him, had him removed. The owner needs a real problem. They touched him. Once you touched this man, I'm gonna tell y'all no more can not us. After the fight, the Knicks went on a ten oh runcause they need it. I support they lost the game, like the crowd, yeah, yeah, and they were saying it's not worth it. Old please, you know, don't worry about it. It's not worth it. Um. Phil Jackson went tried to calm it down. Chris Rock was there, and Chris Rock went back into the tunnel. He was like, what's going on here? What happened? Why are you doing this to the man? So yeah, clearly the crowd was in the Oakley's favor. Didn't know why he was asked to get up, and he didn't know either, And he said he wanted to just meet with Dolan behind closed doors, just him and Dolan. But Dolan's not gonna go for that. Cleveland, don't go back there. When you come out, you ain't gonna look like Dolan. All right, thinking and coming up the better live in the building. You're listening to morning show. All right, we're broadcasting live from Comfort Sweet since seven Mile Beach on Grand cam in Island. Good morning to you. Uh, coming up next to butterfly in the building. Who knows what he's going to talk about? Now, I haven't seen of you. We ain't. That's going to be a problem. Yeah, if you haven't seen him. I'm not just keeping well, not just black and white. Ain't that simple? It's fad to tell me, bring me out step that's that's bring bring me No accolades. You ain't got No, you ain't got no credits. What you're do? We call you the butterfly. That's it. You ain't got no accolades. Accolades are called credit. Good morning to everyone, Stephen Tommy Shirley College Jr. Very good. So I got some things for you for the Butterlock Butterfly block today in its National Chocolate Day. Okay, get you some good chocolate. But it's Eminem's Rec's snickers. Um, hey day baby, roof. It's this cigar all day in the Cayman. So you're gonna we're gonna smoke all together. Nope, pup pasts fast. We should just smoked the same one. Since I don't really smug, that's not a cigar. Okay, very well, and it's our so Junior, I wanted to ask you this. Today is reading the bathtub Day, so I wanted to ask you how you like your bath water. I don't even read. I ain't reading years I was for I was gonna read to you. That's why I want to ask you about the bath water. No, man, so do you take bath? Said I, I shout, that's not reading the shower, it's reading the bathtub day. You don't. I don't even bathe? Ye, So they had in the bathtub. So you don't sit in the tub with roads petals and the candles floating. No, I don't do that most adult me and don't know. Ain't you gonna burn yourself with whatever? So Junior, anyway, I have prepared your your day here with some floating candles and some chocolate since it's National Chocolate Day in the bathtub so you can have a wonderful time. Because it is now reading the bathtub day. So now that thing is what do you want read to him? Gene. I'm just gonna be honest with you. Man, if I get in that bath TI, I'm gonna dry. I mean, that's on the option I have. I'm just gonna have to Now. I ain't gonna be able to lead out of because I'm up on murder charge. Now, I don't don't do this to me. Lady in the red it's here from she's a probation office. I learned that yesterday and not hell nobody in front of health because she got to tell the truth. I lie jr. I can read Gone with the Wind to yell as well as um that's allowed. Buck. We're gonna be an allie. I mean you're gonna be in there by your sip the color her bolt, which is another lie one. Oh, unless you want some nursery bucks. I don't even want to do this with all your books tied to black history, more stuff for Going with the Wind black Well, they had a moment and now it had a black history moment. We hate. Yeah, I did a lot of them. But anyway, National Chocolate Day, PiZZ today as well as read in the bathtime Day, So pick one to do today? All right, thank you, Butterfly. Coming up, we're gonna hear about speaking of you Junior in your love life and everything. We're gonna hear about it, how you're faring in it here. Thank you for the sweets. I don't know, I'll be back. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Get it together, Bella, Yeah, I am happy. Valance carry it out and we have an argument with a woman from Bermuda by which Alan is the nicest. She says Caming is number two. Bermuda is number one, but said it in the Caming out of though, yeah, I've been to both of them. Well, we can probably find out from Junior because uh, you know his love life jumping. Yeah, we're gonna now from j because Junior is actually over here. Date. Yeah, thanks to conference. Sweet, stop, let's see now I can actually afford to go on the day because stay here. Let's all right, you so listening? Uh so? Uh you know it's snowing right now in the Northeast. You know, school was just closing in New Jersey and New York. We in the came and yeah, right, so I don't want them forget They can get down here and get the same look. But I've been getting thanks to conference. Sweet. Look, let me tell you something. What's happening. I'm gonna tell you right now. It's gonna be a lot of pressure on American women right now, because if you don't have an accent, I ain't interest off the top. I'm not even gonna turn around if it's sounded like English. Because last night I had a wonderful date with this wonderful lady I had met down here on the island, and we went to this nice Asian fusion restaurant called Miss Zoo Zoo. Miss Zoo. You know, I had some Mongoldian beefs. She had some flounders that or something like that. And then she fed me. Yes I'm talking about I ain't have a had nobody take a spoon to my mouth. Yeah me, dog, I'm telling you off the top now here the part that got me when I picked up When she picked me up, I walked outside. She opened the car door for me from the inside. Now, when we left the restaurant, I walked up to her dough put that in. If she reached around and opened my door again, I said, this could be the one, you know, because she opened the door. Because she opened the door for me. You know, I ain't no woman opened note dough for me. Ever, it just felt good. I did it for her. She did it for me. We went out, had some drinks over at the wall pump. I don't want to have drink the pump. Now hit a cod pop. After we find having a drink, I'm about to pay for the bill. She said no, I would leave the tips. I said, that's for you. I choked, and then she took me for a nice walked down the beach to holding hands, holding hands. I'm just out here just looking at stars and just daydreaming. All that's possible if you come down here instead to come sweet, because I'm telling right now that dinner I know for that great time. My head was about four hundred and fifty dollars American. I found that on the bill is said one thirty six. I don't know the conversion factor, but I paid a really nice time, and I could do all that because I'm at conference week right wonderful time. But if you got an accent, I'm telling you, I'm not turning around. You ain't got accent. I ain't even looking at you. You gotta have something sound odd to me that I turn around for that WK Yeah, I got that. You just say, hey, Jilior, I'm not even looking at you. Okay, So this ain't gonna get a right here, Junior, Joe, Junior angry person, Junior, Hey, what's up there? Crank phone coming up? There, you're listening, I'm here, cat my bad. Yeah, prank phone call coming up. No, we up, We're alive. No, see we up. You're down here. I just met a brother from Chicago. I'm gonna put him on the radio. Yeahla told me that's a good idea. Yeah. I just met a brother down here from Chicago Southside. Yeah, and Uh, we're down here in the Caymans and we're gonna talk to him maybe about thirty minutes. Steve, we do nothing on I'm just here. I'm here for jokes that I'm doing. If you don't like jokes, don't listen to this show right here. And I'm not apologizing to nobody else about no more damn jokes. I tell you, thank you, so if you don't like my jokes, don't listen to my show. I made my last apology to anybody about the jokes out a kid, I'm not doing it no more. Don't ask me you got a joke now or you find out something. No I got one of y'all want to listen to? Yeah, Frank dream me. Um, I'm coming up and dreaming of your wife right now. Sometimes it's true. Sometime Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach uh Winston. He wants some how you're doing. Man. If it's Kevin Man, I actually, Uh, I work with your wife writteny we we we we met a couple of times man at Uh at the job. I think you might have been taking at a lunch of somebody I work like on on the floor above. Hey, what's up, dude? Are you doing today? Man? I'm doing good? Man? All right? What's up? Yeah? Yeah, I wanted to reach out to you, man, and I had something personal. I wanted to hi, let you about you know, personal? Yeah, what personally? Like what dude? Well, who is who is this? My name is Kevin? Like I said, Uh, I work. I work on the on the seventh floor. Your wife is on the sixth. But you know we met a couple of times, right, Yeah, I know you said that. I'm trying to picture your faith. What's up though, don't mean what's up? Okay? You're uh? How how is you and Renee's relationship going? Man? What how's y'all's relationship going? What they got to do? What you do? I mean, I mean y'all, y'all. I mean, I'm just y'all been getting along and they need meet me and Renee? Fine, but what they got? Hold on, hold on, hold on. You said you want to talk to me about some person. You got some person by my wife? Well the person I'm like, what what I wanted to tell you, man, is that for some reason? Man, I've been having uh off and on man every other day, I've been having these dreams at night, see dream like what do well? Every one of these dreams, man, renee me? You them really? So? So? You you work with my wife? Right and you're calling my phone telling me you haven't dreamed about my wife? Boy, just you know you dream about my wife? Well? Is you know what? Don't work about what you're working right now? No, I'm not a word right now, but not not no, no, but nothing. Let me tell you something. Don't be calling me telling you said I have a dream about my wife. What's going with you? My wife? What's your name? Kevin? I'll tell you what. I'm on my way up there right to hell now, No, I'm not at the job. I'm not what you what you Let's let's let the get up to why do you want? Let's face to faith you you tell my number? Let you give me my number? Answer my question? No, I asked what I asked one of the guys at the job for your number, man, because doctor, you know I wanted to be man and man and just talking to you, you know so yea, I'm sitting there. I have a conversation about my wife on the job. Okay, you know what this is? Uh? The show him on my call out, d right now, I'm gonna let me call you right back. Let me hold on, hold on, nothing to hold on? You called him? Come about you have to dream about my wife? Well, man, I'm just I'm just trying to be real with you. That's why I wanted to see. Yeah, and I appreciate that. I'm gonna be real with you too. I'm but I wanted to do what you want to see how your relationship is going. Man. Man, if you got say what you gotta say, dude, Okay, because see, dog, if these dreams keep it happening, it must be faith, man, it must be to me and hug meant for each other. Down. I don't know. I don't know what you smoke. I don't know who the hell you are. But I promise you this. When I get off my job today, I'm coming to whoop your and if I fought out that you don' what have been calling my heart and hanging up? You ain't got met fact, I tell you what don't even work? Okay, Okay, well okay, look look look, let me man, why is she and all my dreams? Man? Why is she that? No? No, wyn you treat about my why fun? Because you're shouldn't listen to that for my wife? What kind of do is you? Man? He's doing that? I get to the look at a wife every day? What kind of work you do? Huh? You know you're gonna flow? Is everyone? She can't beat me for no? No, no, I'm in the accounting department. Man. No, I don't know legree were you for to be in the book department? Is? It's about five more minutes? Man, don't you don't understand that? It's got to be fake if she keeps showing up, you know, and you know what up? Hollohol? What what is your last name? Dude? I got your number? You say you work on the seventh flow or the second from before you work on? I work on the seven flour? That ain't what? You ain't got something to do? It's on last name? My last name? Well? Why is she showing up in my dream? Why is she kissing me? And my reasons? Man? I don't let him tell you something. I don't know what the hell kind of dreams your has happened? But when I beat you up. You gonna swear guards, you gonna with the mother with the king dreams? You understand me when I get to your job tomorrow morning, I don't give it. Who do you call? Let's believe it would be outside waiting for you, because making love to me. Man, in these dreams, it's just passionate man. Renee love me and I love man. Let's I'm calling my wife's name, calling my wife's name? What? What what you want me to call you? Do you know me? Do you say you know me? Right? So you know why I am right? A couple of times? Man? If you know what I'm calling, Renee, want to get up there? Call what? You tell you my number? I don't get you my number? Dog, you stop violent. I don't even want to tell you to do they gave me to do your man to kill me? That you having a dream sleeping and kissing. I'm a wife till they gave you a number? Wife? Why is your wife kissing me back? Why ain't you kissing me? Dream about my wife? And I'm for the car? She would I got up with you? We need that. You can't you have anything else? You want to say that in case so so so what I'm supposed to do when I'm sleep and she show up, I'm supposed to your wake up. I don't give what you're doing yourself For all I care. I'm gonna call you're a three way? What Renette? I want you to tell me what all the phone? Hey? Man, I don't even want to go through that. I thought we could call and talk reasonable life like me and dog. If we don't talk about there what wild? Come see me face to face right now. You're coming on the phone. Come see me right now? Come see me like the hell now where you met? I come see you. You ain't got away show gad come see you don't want to do it? Man, I'm gonna take some sleeping for your so I can get back to my dream. You couldn't take this floop because what you're about to take that I got. I got everything I need to know. I will be on the Severn floor to my way for you. I got a special delivery for your You understand? Yeah? What what? What? Let me call her first? Hey, I'll call Renee cause me. Don't you call me? How to hear you get unumber? Either way? How do you get my wife's number? And let me Rene Renee called me. Man, she calls you. Oh oh, my wife's called you. So you wanna tell you know? Okay, okay, let me say this though to you. Let me say this to you. Wants to your wife called me and she wanted me to call you. Oh my oh my wife told you to call me. Right, come right, but but but but listen to me. Whist what my wife don't call no, she she wanted me to call you. I'm nephew timming from the Steve Harvey Morning and Show. Y'all wrong for that? Y'all roll for that doll? You know now you're wrong for that. Dog you go to whoever came I'm hot to there? Dog? You? Oh man you, oh man, hey man, I got one more thing to Ash Winston. What's the baddest that? I mean, the baddest radio show in the land. You already know what the business is. Man to Steve Hardy Morning to Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Buggle up a whole long time, Thank you, nephew. Subject. How can I get my parents to break up? Yeah? How can I get my parents to break up? Good morning, Stephen, Shirley. My parents are miserable with each other. They have been married for almost thirty years and can't stand each other. My dad had an affair a few years ago, and once my mom found out, the affair ended. Shortly after that, my mom began having an affair. My mom's affair has been going on for a couple of years. When my mom's affair first started, I hoped it was just a payback for my dad's a bear, but it has seemed to be more serious now. I thought my parents marriage would have ended by now, but nope. My dad has a great job and makes great money and showed does my mother. But my dad falls short in other areas. He would rather pay someone to do housework instead of doing it himself, so when he tells my mom to hire a plumber, she calls her boyfriend over. Her boyfriend has a great job and makes great money as well, but he comes by the house to fix things for my mom. He also does things, does the things for my mom that my dad won't do, like take her on dates and trips, and according to my mom, her boyfriend is better in bed. How do I advise my parents to get a divorce? Please help? I'm shocked at everything in this letter, I really am. Yeah, you're definitely your kind of let her Steve. Let's start with the fact that you know so much about the inner workings of your parents relationship. Why are you in their marriage and their business like this? I don't get it. I mean, you know about their affairs when they ended, when they started. You know about their financial situations, how much money they make, and the fact that the plumber you know this, that the plumber is better in bed than your dad. It's just too much. Uh, it's too much to know about your mom and dad. Who wants to know about their mom and dad and who they date and sleep within all of that. I almost couldn't get past that. Uh, why do you know so much? I mean, who's telling you all this stuff? I know your mom's gotta be telling you some stuff, but I gotta ask you, don't you have a life of your own? Because they seem your mom and dad, they seem to be okay with this arrangement. They're living separate lives with people other than each other, and they probably should get a divorce. They should, but only they can make that decision. You can't make that decision for them. So if you want me to help you. I'm just telling you at this point stay out of their stuff. It's just stay out of it. There, ground Steve. Well, you know I specialize in these type letters because this letter is laced with ignorance. So once the letter has ignorance in it, the response should be of the ignorant nature. Why I justify this with therapeutic conversation, Bible verses and all this help. Let's just get to it. My parents are miserable with each other. They've been married almost thirty years and they can't stand each other. I got an aren't uncle that just like that? They hate? They don't can They can't stand each other. They hate each other. We used to go to the y'all family union and they would sit away from each other and just look over at each other and just sneer at each other and say hateful stuff. I can't stand his hands, look at him losing his hair, stomach, big stomach, he looked like in nine Moms. And we heard all of it, so that ain't nothing new. They can't staying each other. My dad having a fair a few years ago. Then once your mom find out their fair ended. Shortly after that, my mom began having an affair. Now you thought it was just paid back. It was paid back. You know women nowadays, you can't do a woman any kind of way. She got the right to do something too, So you're having a fair now, this woman having a fail the problem you think. You think your father's affair has ended. Uh, he just went and got another one. It may have ended with her, but he didn't went and got another one. He just found the slick away to hide it. Now, your mama then started home the fase she got Two people been married thirty years, can't staying each other and both of them having a fair. All right, Then you get down to the letter. I thought my parents marriage would have ended by now, but nope. My dad has a great job and great money, and so does my mother. All right, we got two people making great money. That's not good because they can do whatever they want to do. But my dad falls short in other areas. He would rather pay someone to do housework instead of doing it. I object to that right there, that you just said, because I must be your daddy, because I am not doing no damn housework. I told my wife when we got married, I said, listen, everybody, I can give you anything you want this world. Don't ask me to sweep or damn thing. Don't they ask me to wipe off no counters, don't ask me to hang up no clothes. I ain't vacuum and I don't even know where to vacuum matting the house. I don't know, don't. I swear to God, I don't. I don't. I don't understand. I was downstairs in my man cave and discovered we had a laundry room. Been living there seven years, like actually to day. I didn't know we had a damn larger room. I didn't know where they washed the clothes at. I just know I didn't you know you got clean clothes. Yeah, I discovered the large never seen it. I saw the door, but I never opened it. So you make great money so you don't have to do housework. So if she's trying to blame that on your father that he falls short in the housework, they make great money. And if two people making great money, you can hire somebody to do that. It's people who love to do cleaning self. I support small biss. My wife asked me on time, why do you lay your clothes in the cloths Because I'm producing jobs security. If I hang up the damn clothes, what is she gonna do when she gets Steve, why don't you wash your plate off? You put it in the scene? What you just put it in the dirty? What does she do? Why am I doing that? If I got do have your job, then I need to pay you half the month. Okay, I see, we don't have a problem. So now Marjorie understands that about me. My husband don't do housewood, so I have to go with that. So when he tells mom, so instead of doing the housework himself, he tells my mom at the high plumber she called her boyfriend over. Her boyfriend is diplumba right there? Let him? Now, plumbers don't just do pipes. What they do? Say something? And then we got to go to break and come back. Yeah, the almost pluge that would do it. We'll be back with part two if Steve's response to the Strawberry letter, how can I Get my parents to break up? We'll be back at eighteen after the hour you're listening, Steve Hard We're back in the middle of this Strawberry letter, the subject how can I get my parents to break up? Part two of Steve's response, what was your problem with plumbers in the plumb? All right, come on, Steve, let's go through this letter. How can I get my parents to break up? It was written by a child, a daughter of parents who have been married for thirty years. They can't stand each other. The dad had an affair that supposedly ended, then the mom had an affair. Now they're just coexisting and the child wants them to break up, and the mother's affair is currently going on as we speak. Let they think that the father's affair has ended, That fair hasn't ended. He didn't got another one. You just need to notice. Uh, the man is a plumber. He does things that your dad won't do. The mom's boyfriend, the mom's boyfriend takes her own trips and and and and dates. And according to my mom, her boyfriend is better in bed. I don't know what mother is having this conversation with their daughter, but all y'all need therapy. I recommend the Dr. Field Show. She don't come on my show because I don't. I didn't go to school for that. How do I advise my parents to get a divorce? Here's what you need. See. Sometimes you have to hear yourself. Like when people come on my talk show, I send them on dates and then I record the dates so women cannot understand why they're not getting asked out. Twice, I take a camera on the date and I let the woman see how they are on the date, and you can see the women's faces just going wild. I said that that's how it looks. You have an iPhone camera. The next time your mom and daddy is talking, record the conversation. The next time you see your mama with her boyfriend feeling well, not all of no feeling. The next time you hear about your daddy with his woman, feel me and set it down and play your parents talking to one another. Then show your daddy his wife's video with her man, and then show your mama your daddy's video with his girl. This is a divorce because some people have to see it. See some people stay married just so they can say they're married. Now you're talking to somebody who knows how to get out. Take your time. This is what we've been working up to. You, on the other hand, know how to get out. A matter of fact, a lady that stalks me all the time, she's a stalker. She's on all my Instagram, Facebook, and she just hates me. I can't stand you. She called me every day on Facebook and Instagram to tell me she can't stand me. Oh, she posted every day I can't stand you. I used to block them. She created another one. She just called me every day, tell me she cased it. Then she told me she said, I don't know how you ton wrote a relationship books and you on your third marriage. Finally, I just let her know. That means I know how to get somebody you on hand or by your damns. And if I had to get a fourth one, I could probably get a fourth because you're real cute at the bank. So now you just can't stay with a person and be miserable. You could be miserable by yourself, or you could be happy by yourself, or you just be by yourself with each other. It's y'alling putty in thirty years. People always say, well, I hate to give up thirty years. My question to you is, do you want thirty more years of what you just hate? Then go get a divorce. You ain't catholic, just go get the divorce. But that's their decision, not so it's not. It's my decision. You wrote me figures figure up to the plumber than him. Do you hear your nephews here? Big ups to the plumber. Somebody one putting in all the work. What's you from? Yes, you don't see this? Are you missed that? Yeah, you're listening to show. Oh it's almost Valentine's Day, and this Valentine's captured the wow factor that leaves a lasting impression. With one eight hundred flowers dot com. Right now, you can order eighteen enchanted roses for only that's a forty five percent discount. Go to one eight hundred flowers dot com, click the radio icon and enter code Strawberry. That's one eight hundred flowers dot com. Enter code Strawberry. Happy Valentine's Day. It's this Tuesday. I love it. Thank you? All right? Yes, okay, fellas, get it together now, you fellas. Valentine's Tuesday. Get your man right. Don't be like me the other day. Oh boy, But in your world though, it's Valentine's Day every day, Steve, really, but I know it doesn't matter, but it's always Valentine's Day in your life it is. Yeah, Marjorie, come on for me. But as a man, I can't forget the day. You can't because I still have to do something special. If I don't do something special, it's gonna be a problem. Yeah, it's gonna be a problem. Skip what you did the week before? And I was over here and I went on that trip and I bought this. Ain't got nothing to do with it. What have you done for me? Later? It's Valentine. So the other day she said, so, Steve, when am I gonna see you? I said, with Baby, I leave the came as. I gotta go straight to uh l A. Oh that's right, I said, I'm taping on Celebrity Family Feud. She said, okay, that's right, she said, So then when am I gonna see you? I said, so, Baby, as soon as I get through taping Family Feud, Celebrity Family Feud in l A, I gotta go right Chicago because I gotta do the radio show on the talk show as She said. Okay, but Steve, when am I gonna see you? I said, Baby? The whole family is doing Celebrity Family Feud the following week, So when you come out there, that's I said, Baby, I gotta go to work. She said, okay, I'm trying to help you a little bit here. But I see right now you're being stupid. So whatever my wife say that to me, I know something. I gotta pay attention. Yet, that's the baby one of my missing she said. Okay, Steve, I'm just gonna help y'all. Valentine's Day is two. Now I'm asking you before you mess up and don't see your wife on Valentine's Day or so. You worked it out, didn't you. I ain't worked it out. Check. Oh yeah, I know. I gotta get something together. I just don't know what I'm gonna do because I got a problem. Because I still don't know, I'm gonna say that's rude number one. I gotta get something too. And here my problem is I don't bother everything. I don't even know what to get it no more. So now I gotta figure out to see you. She said, Yeah, but that's that's a trick some spectacl No, I can't do too many more spectacles. Don't have to ail up alrighty, okay, she wanted to see you? Is how much of meat you want to see? Yeah? I can get it done now, all right. Listen. We are live from seven Mile Beach in the Cayman Islands. Comfort Sweets Choice Hotels coming up next. There's a couple here from Chicago. It is cold in Chicago right now. We have to hear their story. I mean, they have a fantastic story. We want to share that story with you. Chicago in the building. Yeah, I'm head, I'll be in Chicago on Monday night. Okay, okay, Well, you know how you are. You know you're on vacation. Let me tell you something. Sometimes you gotta follow your own advice when you go on vacation. Yeah, don't do nothing that you don't normally do. You always say that you ain't ever rolled the moped, don't rint or damn mo page the check you've ben takeing all the skin off your body. If you ain't never been on the boat on the kite over the ocean, don't get your ass up in that kite over that ocean. Stuff. You don't do. Good advice, You're win, sir. You don't even really swim them good. Don't rent the sail boat in back of the hotel in your ass k swim because when it turned over, you gotta situation. What about scuba diving? You know they teach it here, Well, I don't want to say nothing because they're in the water. But see you over there learning how to scuba dive in the swimming pool, and the swimming pool got sides on it. They're gonna drop your ass in that ocean. Ain't no sides in the oceans, don't. All right. We're live from Comfort Sweets on seven Mile Beach and grand came in island. We have something really special for you because couple is here and married couple. How to Chicago. You know, we talked about different things all the time, but we were sitting here at the pool doing the show and met his brother, uh and his wife there at the pool. We're just talking. So his name is Johnny O'Neill. He's from Chicago. He's from the Woods, from the Woods, baby straight out the bottom. And uh, his wife is down here and we got to talking and his name is it's Johnny and Tiffany O'Neill and they down here. So Johnny, how you doing, man? I'm doing great. Brother, that's good. So tell us a little bit about this is your first time to the Cayman, first time anywhere out of the country. It's really a blessing and a humbling experience, just to even have the experience of being out of the country. I never thought i'd be here. So this is your first time out of a trip for me was Indiana. That was me going out of town Indiana, Ohio. I'm on vacation, you know. So I ain't never been anywhere since my wife's first time even on an airplane, which was uh and we've been together twenty years. Yeah, your first airplane, right, you were terrified, but it worked out all right though. Huh you're almost pulled out. No no, no, no, no, I see you got to go. So you're over here. So this is your first time. You grew up in Chicago. What you do in Chicago? Well, right now, I remember tween jobs. I did a lot of warehousing, but I went to Barbara School, got a barbera license, and I do a little barbering. But the market there for barber is it's it's pretty competitive barber's everywhere, so you know, it really don't bring home the bacon, you know. So I do anything I have to do to play my part in the family role. You know, that's what it's about. Well, you grew up. Tell me a little bit about your child hood. How'd you grow up? Oh? Man, my childhood, I had a wonderful mother. My mother name is Mattie O'Neill, Garfia and woman. Um, but she didn't She tried to instill the fearing us and her kids, but it didn't work until we got a little older, you know, just hardheaded. Um. It was very worth what. We grew up poor. You know, we didn't know we was poor. But we had sandwiches every night. So being a kid, the sandwich was good. Yeah. Um, we didn't have meat. It didn't bother us nothing. You know, I'm not gonna sit there and act like you know, you know, growing up in Chicago it's rougher than itself. You know, I'm forty three. I'm glad to be here. Um. I've been shot a total of fourteen times in my life, pretty different times. Yeah, the Chicago streets there, it's a drug man. You know, you just don't know how bad. Like, just being in the streets is worse than any addiction. It's worse than any alcohol. That's like the streets. That's why our kids are died in the streets like they died, because they get a taste of being out there and it's no rehab for that. It's no rehab for a hell, young guy, don't do that, you know. You know, everybody like to talk a good talking. You know, it's a it's a long time thing. You know. See, a lot of people don't understand it. If you if you live in a certain condition and this is all you know, like this is your first time out of the country of the country. So now imagine if you pour, you don't have money for airplane tickets, you don't get exposed to anything else. You just live in the hood. Ain'tybody showing you nothing else. You can't see nothing else, that is nothing in the hood. And the things that you see is not You shouldn't see it. That's what they glorified in the hood. That makes sho that. Okay, it's easy to do this than work hard exactly because you know, Johnny, because what happens to a lot of people is you just adapt to your environment. And if that's all you exposed to, then you start thinking, okay, well let me make the best of this and vironment that I'm in. Right, So, now what do we do in the environment. Okay, they have some violence over here, but they have some money over there too. Okay, so now it goes together about the valence and the money. It it becomes routine. It doesn't supposed to be natural. Like the things that you think that I'll consider a normal day. To somebody, they say, man, that's not normal. You know, it's not normal. You know what I'm saying. Our kids down in the street. And you know when your friend walk up and say, hey, you know so and so got killed last night, you can't even shed a tear because the day before that you lost a friend, and the day before that you lost a friend. You don't even have a chance to mourn a friend lost. It's already February and I'm twenty friends gone already this year. You know. See. Now, for the average person, you can't imagine this. And then your solution for it is very simple. Why don't you just stop, Why don't you just get out? Why don't you go somewhere else? But you did not really understand how crippling poverty really is. And it's one thing to be to be financially poor, but once you become mentally poor, poverty becomes a state of mind. And now you exist in financial poverty, but now you're mentally poor because you know nothing but that, and people don't understand why the conditions are there. That are no jobs in these neighborhoods, that are no facilities in this neighborhood to better yourself. Now, all know local businesses, the local businesses are usually ran by families and they hire families. But in our communities, the local businesses are cell phone shops, uh, chicken joints. It's nothing productive for you. You don't have anything positive to look at and say, you know what, I want to be inspired to do that. You know, we gotta look to Steve Harvey on TV. But far as community wise, even in the community, it's shady. You know, I'm just gonna keep it in one hundred. It's shady there. You know. You can't even trust, you know, the police. You can't trust the church. Everybody have a hitting agenda or hind a hitting motive behind why they're trying to do it. You know, the police can go to the gangs and see who runs the games and say, hey, we got politicians coming in to day. We'll we will take it easier you guys for two weeks if y'all don't do no violence, you know, for the people can think it's like that. You know, this is like real talk, you know what I'm saying, Like, and people live this here every day. You know. Uh, I lived in Chicago all my life, Like I said on forty three, if it wasn't for my wife, about seven years ago, she said, hey, listen, we need to move from Chicago. You're not gonna make it. We're not gonna make it, you know. And we've been together twenty years. When I first met her, she said, you know, it's amazing to meet somebody to say to inspire you, to say, hey, you can do better, and guess what, you can also be better. And for the first ten years I was like, no, I can't be better this. You know how I'm gonna make my money. I'm gonna do this. She said, listen, I got you. You know you let all that that drug tad stuff in the gangs. Have you let that go? And I got you. We're gonna believe in God. And you know, I'm humble now sitting here. You know, I'm humble to even be here to say, you know, hey, I had somebody that believe in me. Like you know, I graduated high school. It's not a lot of people be surprised. It's a lot of educated people in the neighborhood that's smart, but don't have the that out to show their brilliance or show they to the outlets here. So they showed a talent streetwise, that's right. They become drug dealers. And the mathematics and the things that you have to do that you know to be successful in the f field. If you apply that to a fortunate five hundred company or any other business, now you will achieve greatness. But you don't have the resources of anything like that to even get it started. So you do what you have to do. Because I'm ain concerned it. I had to pay my rent, I have to feed my kids, you know. And it's not about the most expensive stuff. It's the little with stuff. You know. A lot of people see the reason we I asked him to come on, and we thought would be a good idea of caller. Say see we should put it wrong because she people need to hear this. Not here's a man and woman been together twenty years, never been out the country, the wife, never been on an airplane. Now they in the Cayman Islands. Now they're on the Steve Harvey Morning shew, you actually talking to eight point five million people. You're owning over nineties cities, telling a story that needs to be heard worldwide. People don't understand how this is. You could easily say, see, I got out the hood simply because my mama bought travel Host magazines. Some magazines used to buy kind of like travel Host, and she bought them every time. You know how they have magazines at the checkout town and my father used to get mad at my mama for buying the magazine. She said, I'm gonna let little Stevie see something other than what he got to live. And that's what I was going to the Barrier Reads of Australia when I was eleven. I was in the Caribbean. When I was well, I was I was in Jerusalem. I saw the Pyramids when I was eight, and all the magazines kept me going, I'm gonna go see something else because I didn't want to be in the hood no more. I wanted to be look man, you know I noticed. I don't want this to sound arrogant, but I was poor, and even when I was living in the car for three years from thirty to thirty three, all I wanted to do was be rich. I just wanted to be rich because I was sick of being poe. I had had enough of poe. I don't know how people find it so crazy they want to be rich when you sick of being poor, what you're gonna do? But when I was a little kid, I just wanted to be rich. I just want to have some money. Man, don't want Can I go to some of these places? My mama keeps showing me. Those magazines changed my life because it exposed me. Yeah, I just saw something different instead of just seeing the hood. You know, set out there fighting all the time. That's how I became a fighter because I fought all the damn time. But he was in fight. So you're skinny like me, you gotta learn how to fight. I was taking too many weapons, so I got in gold start fighting so I can win some of these fights. But that got me out, and the magazine's got me out and not travel all the time. And and now because of this right here, this ain't your last trip. Once you get exposed, you can't go back. Exposure different from knowledge. You can google knowledge. You got to go get exposure. Once you get exposed, you will never be the same. You can't fly first class and then walked past them seats no more like you cain't do it. Like those forces that has the blinders off, you can only see four. When you take those blinders off, you can see what's around, you know. So we're just trotting alone. Let in life passed you back because you don't you don't know nothing. You you're just trying to get everything else. And we're gonna be right back. We're gonna keep them on a little bit. We're talking, and you might even take the phone calls right at there. You're listening to the Steve Harvey morning shows. You know, we were listening to Johnny and Tiffany O'Neil. We met Johnny pool side here at the Comforty and sweets Um. We were just talking, you know, on the just we we were me and Johnny. Will started talking about cigars and I gave it one of my favorite cigars, which is a Koheba signal six. He said, wow, you know, and so we're just talking and then we just gouse, he's a man man. It's our first time out the country, Steve. And then we got talking to wife's first flight and then you've been hearing from it. You know, it's important to hear from people. See, I can tell you I'm from the hood, but I'm so distanced from it it don't even sound believable, you know, you t I tell people I was homeless, lived in the car. They see my life now they see me so far from it. You gotta hear sometime from somebody right down that's out here. Now. I got a wife, But a couple of things, he said. First of all, a woman. I keep telling dudes, man, and look, I would have done it every kind of way you can do it. I haven't had one woman. Too many women outn't I don't. I didn't. I haven't done it every which way you can do it. Ain't nothing work out for me until I got it together with a woman. Just one, just one. You just need the write one. You can stop all this foolishness. A woman can change your life, you know, guy told me, a woman is like elevator buttons. They can take you up, they can take you down if you get the wrong one, head into the base. But if you push the elevator button and it's the right one, a woman man can take you places you ain't ever ever thought you could go. And that's what happened with Johnny. He found a woman that just got him up and got him out and got him to thinking something else. So that that's one of the things. The second thing is for everyday people who cannot imagine why the hood is the way it is. You just don't know. Man, if there is no opportunity there, what do you want these kids to do? They are performing as they environment dictate, and until they can see something else or we can change something in these neighborhoods, it will remain the same. I'm so looking forward to making some changes in some areas in these inner cities to help more young people. That's what the mentoring program has been about for all these years. That's look, they at my ranch. They was at my ranch all this weekend. I couldn't be that because I had to I had to be somewhere else. I had two hundred boys out there. I had all my guys flying there, my friend brothers, all of the speakers. Because and that was one. Now guess what I'm doing another one in Junie, and this time I'm going to Atlanta with two hundred and fifty boys. So we always trying to get something done. But unless you give these young men and these young girls another view other than the hood, the hood becomes dominant. You gotta understand that. So quit sitting behind on your suburban desk talking about you don't see why they won't do this. I don't want to do what do what man, unless they're able to see something else. You know it is And it's not about a handout or anything like that. It's like, show somebody how to get it. It's easy to beg Like you see homeless people and you ask them, you know, they ask for money and you say, hey, go do something. Show me how to get how you got it, or show me how a way to provide better for my family. Some people just don't know how to get it, you know. Some people don't have the like the like we say, you know, you get a hook up once we meet somebody that show hook up. I'm not asking you for nothing, but say hey, it's a job lead over there. You know it's I passed a company that was harmed. Brother. You know, any of that can help you know what I'm saying nothing, I'm not gonna help him. Let them keep doing what they're doing, you know, just help you know, people don't understand. If you never taught the principles of success, success will elude you. I don't care who you are, you grow up in the suburbs. If you're not taught or shown the principles of success, success will elude you. You have got to be taught to principles. If your mother and father don't know him, and the dudes on your block don't know him, and your teacher don't know him, how about this, your minister don't know him well? Well, in our communities, our teachers don't care, you know, they're they're with your kids more than your with them. And when you come home, when your kids come home, you have to do the homework because they've been there all day and don't have a clue on what the teachers been trying to teach them. And you have been to school in twenty years, so how are you going to teach them? You know? So, so it's a pattern that that really needs to be broke down and restructured. Right. You know, it's easy to say, okay, this is the part I'm doing. It's easy to shove some money out someway. It's easy to just get some empty advice it's harder to get in there and roll your sleeves up and be consistent in trying to teach somebody saying, Hey, we're gonna do this together, and I'm gonna be here until you get that right. You know, you know, uh, I think it's great. I want to thank you Johnny for stopping by. Man, are we getting a lot of tweak talking about this interview? A lot of stuff coming in, so appreciate you know, Jess, you know, each one teach one. You know what I'm saying, Let's love each other. It's it's a possibility that everybody can achieve greatness together. Absolutely. But here's the key for those of us that understand even those who don't that are well meaning people who ain't spent a day in the hood. I met a lady. I'm pretty sure she from the hood. They go to Haiti to help out did and hate it, But stop smacking people's hand down when they want to join in. They may not be from the hood, but hell, if they got a heart to help, why are you you know, y'all, but he man, we we man, We're tripping. Were trippling with everybody in the White House right now. But hey, man, the White House ain't your God. President Trump is not off now if you hadn't made it thus fall, why you keep banking? Don't lie in the fall apart because we got a different time of president. I like this in the fall apart. I don't care who they put the White House. You're listening. Yeah, those chicken always around. Well, one thing about it. You ain't gonna be hungry in the Cayman because all these chickens walking around here. I got three two chickens in front of KFC the other day and they look comfortable. How would I be damned? Seriously, I took a I took a picture of two chickens walking in front of kid. They walk around. My father was living. All these chickens be dead, my father killing a chicken. I went from the kick from the country. My dad would be killing chickens and selling chicken on the street. No tissary, chicken, fried chicken, chicken, chicken lanes. These chickens just walking around, and you cannot be hungry. The only damn chickens down just walking around. They don't run from your on the golf court treating away. One week you thought it was crazy, You thought it was crazy, like Junior, you've never dated a woman that was crazy? No, not me personally, but a man. I prefer man. Yeah, a man was crazy in the sky. Seventy relationship sixty nine of them was with crazy like crazy, right, don't you crazy? Guys like ladies, You can be crazy if you take care of yourself. Know what you cannot do? Just be crazy and crazy looking? Yeah, crazy and fine if you take care of yourself. We can tolerate crazy for a little while. Then we're gonna find out we ain't got skill set for right. But so is there a limit? You know, like as comedians, you don't go over that edge of their limits. You're crazy? Oh you mean how crazy? Wan't crazy? How crazy? I had a roll when I was I had a Roman roll from under my car that would look wait yeah she rolled, yeah, roll from under the car. Where are you going? See that type of crazy right there? You're just laying You've been waiting out the Hollo ship it out there because I had to be the work in the morning. Sick in your ass, where are you going? Your life is crazy in the sky? Been under that all night? I know it was hot when that muffler came on I got it. She had been under there. She screwed it under. She rolled out. Okay, when we come back, a couple of more crazy stories. When you're listening. I was just telling her if you're if you're an alcoholic, you have got to stay at the Confident End. If you're an alcohol you got to stay here because they got a bartender. But you know, I don't really drink, and I don't know what I was thinking about. Yeah, we were all shocked when you ordered. Well, you know she's cute, so oh yeah, yeah, I'll have them looking for stuff I do drink, and I didn't see it. So I Monica drinks pineapple and vocca, so I said, let me have a pineapple voca. She bought the drink out. I took bold Wallow and I didn't know. I didn't I didn't know where we were leave back. He forgot. We were in Grand Caping, and I was, I was lost my mind. I was. I went to play golf yesterday and got ready to eat an iguana. I was just gonna eat his ass. And it looked delicious, because this vodka vodka is not what I drink. That iguana looked delicious, and I wanted. I didn't want to barbecue him or nothing. I don't want to grab his ass and bite off because you know, I eat sushi. And that's how I had worked it out in my mind, because I had just saw a swimming and I said, that's sushi. Yeah, this girl made a drink. Man. I said, no, Lord Jesus, I won't be drinking that no more. I went home. Man, when I got through, I ain't packed or nothing. Yeah, we thought, hang out with you, like have a party for us yesterday. And I went to the cigars, so well, he bought some cigars. What I don't know how I'm will get back. I couldn't have that kind of pressure. Let me tell you all about and and by the way, thank you to old Havana Cigars. And one over there one surely you know I ain't over there here, but he just want to get a story. Oh no, that's why I'm I'm on the wall down there. I'm on the wall to every major city cigar shop in the world. I'm in cigar shops all the while. I'm one of the more famous cigars other than Auto Schwarzeneck. But he don't give you none of his cigar. He's a big cheap ass cigar smoker. I will be smoking cigars and you will be with him, and he won't even offer you one. I'm gonna how much money you've got that's come back to your girl. When we're traveling, she gets so nervous, surely going through customs. Oh my god, do we have all the information? It makes me so I sweat. It makes me nervous. I don't know why. But you too, though, Shirley, and I get nervous wreck in the custom yeah, just simply because of my backdrun. But you I don't ever know when it's gonna come up, but you play it off well. Steve this one over here. I got stopped in customs in Canada one time. We have finished the Kings of Comedy, and I got paid cash because I take cash for my days and I was in That was a low blow right there. I was going over to Canada to gamble. The next morning we have finished the concert in the arena. Saturday night, we're in Buffalo, New York. I'm going right over the bridge Canada gamble. They had me in custom for six hours, six hours. Where did you get this cash? I said, I'm a comedian. Why do you have so much cash? Because I'm a king of comment. That's how much we make. They don't know none of that, dude. Man, they didn't believe nothing. I said. Man. He then he did a background check and he came back and said what is this? Uh? And then he just went down the list. And I'm going I thought I had that expunse he was talking about grand loss. Then he I had an assaulting battery charge. Oh the police officer. So he's just going down the list. I went on tour. I said, look, man, I was eighteen years old. I got in some trouble back then. What is this credit card fraud? I said? I was eighteen, I said, sir, I have kids in college. Man, he did not. We were in there for six hours. Meet and j T remember J. Between our two background checks. We was in custom for six hours. I ain't been to Canada. Sets that Carl that that's why I get nervous. But we haven't done anythnd. I don't have it. No, I've done none of that. I'm just nervous going to cutstom So just note yourself if you ever got here's the best custom story bover range. He was traveling one time. You know, Boom didn't have his glasses, so Boom can't read without his glass, so he just checking the customs form like his true or false. He going yes, no, yes, no, you gotta check no. All the way down. You ain't got nothing. Ain't seen nothing at bald, nothing on nothing. So we're in customers waiting on boomerang. We've been in custom for three hours. They have took Boom in another room. The man came out and said, okay, sir, you don't have any firearms and explosive because he had put check yes in that block. He said, you don't have any firearms or explosive, but we cannot find the chicken because he had checked the poultry block. And that customs man said, but certain, we cannot find these chickens. We was in customs because Boom had checked the chicken block farm animals. He could checked yesterday, but we was in there for the longest. Man. We're broadcasting live from Comfort Sweets on seven Mile Beach and Grand came in island. Let me remind customs President Obama has lifted the embargo o Cuban cigars and room. I'm just saying that for I get there. How many cigars do you have? I don't know how many of you post the hell, but I'm right at that. No, I don't, but you smoked a lot of them, so y'all stupid. Now you're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Alright, we're broadcasting live from Comfort Sweets on seven Mile Beach and Grand Cayman Island. We want to say, first of all, thank you to Mr Tom Mason, our host and owners, most gracious hostess always. He takes such good care of us. Thank you, Tom, Thank you, Sarah Lee. We love Sarah Lee. She arranges all of this. We love Sarah. She's our friend, she's our sister. Thank you, and Thatt. Thank you to everyone. I mean, the half here is incredible. Melissa lady, she's always I like pleasant people. Yeah, we got we gotta give it up to the fish shock. That's one of the places we ate the fish. Remember that to Night and U boat Tool six cents boat Tools. And then they came in Luxury Chard's big up to them. Yeah. I don't want to say nobody but old Havanna, thank you so much. God is good. Thank you for all Havana Cigars lobster pot from last night. Thank you and Mary Kate right here, Hey Mary, Mary, miss Cayman Island Island. I just saw her to miss You're the first pet. Yeah, I was pulling forward to and we was all pulling for you. Crap. Social media, go at Choice Hotels hashtag Choice Caribbean. Okay, that's at Choice Hotels hashtag Choice Caribbean. And let's give another shout out to Johnny from Chicago, Johnny O'Neill, and until your vacation. First time out of the country. Alexander Onion race story. Um, yes, Steve, what is it of the seventeen of the seventy relationships I've been in, sixty nine of them have ended in complete disaster? I dated a girl one time. She was real fine, but I was allergic to her. And there has somebody come around and you just started itching. That was just it, Just what you mean? We'll be sitting there, then I'll be going She shore is fine, but what's wrong with them? And I was just allergic to him? Man and all. She's beautiful, but she had a real nasty attitude. She was rude to waitresses and everything. Man's wrong with this girl? Right? Here and then, uh, I just discovered, man, you just can't I think because a woman is physically gorgeous that it's gonna be something. Because I had to learn what Boomerang's grandmother taught me that no matter how fine a woman is, there's a man somewhere sick and tired of her. Somewhere somewhen, there is a man that they had enough. So I'm very fortunate now I finally got it right. Took a long time. I have a wonderful life, think you. I had a girl and I didn't go by her how for fold as straight. She called me and I didn't pick up the phone. So the next thing I know, this girl didn't had my picture put on the back of the milk carton as if my ask is missing? Looking for you? Since you ain't been by hearing fold as you're missing, have you seen this guy? Are we topping story? I've just been telling you the light stuff. Come on, there's more. I had a woman tell a United States mail box up off the corner trying to hit me with the car, just told the whole mailbox out what she was going for me. And I had just turned the corner and I heard and I turned around, I saw the mail box just flying mail everywhere, and she got out the car said, I tried to get your ass. Okay, but we were talking about mail that we got one I didn't have. A girl didn't got herself fed ex to my house. Wow in the box with holes in the box, breathing. We're talking about mail. I'm here to day delivered. Hold on. I came out of hardware, so here we go, and then had a red dot appeal. And if I hadn't seen that dot wouldn't be today. I wouldn't be here. Yeah, because I just looked up real quick and she was on the rooftop and a beat. Didn't like that, and that's what's saying. Yeah, I was going bad. And you love honey today? Right? Oh my god, thank God for me a little crazy much? Oh yeah, yeah, fine, you love him so much. Fine. I had a woman one time. Actually was that My niece was in a girl's cop Uh. This one was so crazy. She actually got in the girl's cow uniform and everything. But she over there with the kids, like, I don't see she got not a patch on us hand, still looking at me. I see you for listen, Yeah, I try to sell you some cookie. Yeah, just coming to the dog, I see you. Wow. Yeah, yeah, thats a crazy relationship, girl Scott fishing it. When I first moved to New York five, I was coming in late night and I saw a roll of duct tape. I was coming up the steps in my building and I just saw a roll of duct tape roll across the float. Just can't be good when you know, duct tape ain't ever good to see late at night and duct table. I stood up on the stelp. Yeah. She was sitting behind the desk, dressed as the domet. She had duct taped domain. He had his coat on and everything, with her hat pulled down over her eyes like I ain't gonna see this help. She had put him in the hostage situation. She was at my damn dope. She got two shots off. I was pretty quick back then. I've been stupid. I've been stabbing before I woke up. I woke up one morning, I woke up early one morning. The only thing woke me up and and all I the only thing woke me up with. I just heard that her ass had the butcher knife. And we're going back like that, she said, and rolled out to wait that top of stamp clean through the mass and the knife got stuck in the float. That's the only thing he said. I can't wait a minute. But I just say this sounds like Lifetime, that movie. This is real, real life. What a hair rough stuff. It's really really snap. Almost drowned one time from a d No, she didn't try to drown me. I was at the pool with another girl and she walked up, so I went on the water until she left the pool. I damn gonna killed. I don't know, but I was down there longer than the breath. I I even took two short drests and just took you in water. I took too short. When I came up, my hand to get life. Mouth to the mouth. God, yeah, water in your love, little bit. I stayed down and she a food looking for the girl was fine. They over there talking. She comes for a minute. That's a nice PTI you got on and hey, you have for me to quit talking. So you were shot at you were almost dabbed at night and then drowned. Thanks love. Yeah, I'm sixty years old. Yeah, I've been in seveny relations. Sixty nine of them have ended. Did someone throw it a raw chicken at you before. I've been slapped with a raw chicken. What happened? There was in the kitchen talking, she got mad. I said, whatever, picked up a piece of chicken it was raw, and went and slapped me with a raw chicken. Damn to knock me out. You still eat chicken? Yeah, I love chicken, but he has to be fried. I do not eat it, no rotisserie cious, not like. But if I hadn't been a fighter and being able to take a shot, I saw the chicken coming, so I locked in, So I took the shot like a man. Yeah, I was woozy, though. What's the moral to these stories? What if you learned crazy lovers out the really understood ain't really know more? You know, just get on the horse and try to ride again. They like crazy like crazy. If you take care of yourself, a man will tolerate your craziness initially, if you just have a great presentation, you know, if you got your hair right, got your nails done, crazy way up under that. Yeah, you know you gotta assessing humor. Yeah, you know it sounds like describing I don't have one that stole my garage and passed by the house. Every our own out and hit it up. Yeah s out side every out. I came home and every window I had to frost all departments. I hadn't had a girl text me over and over and I finally asked where you met? You say, I mean your For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey dot com. 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