Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all bag a suit looking back to back down, giving the mos like the mozing buck bus things and it's coble y'all to me true good to Steve hard Yeah, listen to move to other for stoo bar quickly, hobby. Don't you join yeah by joining me said do go to turn love go? Yeah, you go. You gotta turn you to turn the time lovey got to turn out to turn water wanter, come come on your back at it. Uh huh. I shall will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, okay, here's one for you today. This is one that's deep inside of me. So this one right here, I know this one very very well. I want to talk to you today about success. But I want to talk to you about it like I usually do in terms of a principle of it, but I want to share something with you about it. And I was talking to my daughter about it. I've talked about my son in law about it, talked about it with all my children, and I'm really starting to express it to them now, because I mean mine range from age thirty one down to sixteen, so I'm talking to a wide range of people constantly. But I want to share something with you, and this is very, very real, and there is no way around this. If you have any aspiration of being successful, if you have any inkling that you want to change for the better and become successful in that change, I want you to realize, starting right now, the effort that is going to require. And that's why I think it stops a lot of people. I think a lot of people are never told or don't understand the sheer effort that's that it takes to become successful at anything in any area of your life. You know, I think people think that if they do their best they can that that will cut it. Well, that's not enough. Here, here is the lightbulb. That's not enough. If you think that doing your best is enough, that I got news for you. It's not. Well, Steve, what if you've done your best, though, and your best ain't good enough? Well, let me ask you that same question. Hold on. If you want to be successful and you've done your best and best isn't good enough? What you threw that's it? But Stephen was my best. No no, no, no no. It was the best you had at that time, in that particular day. But tomorrow add something to it. You've you've never done everything. There is no you can't go no more, you can't add no more. I've seen marathon runners end up crawling across the line. I've seen triathlon people man just staggering in the street and didn't want nobody to help him because they knew that would disqualify him from the race. You got more? Have you ever did into your reserve tank? That's what we're talking about now. See, all of us have a reserve tank, you know. I you know, on my ranch, I like to ride four wheelers. I have all terrain vehicles and all of them have a gas tank on it and a gas tank and most of mine, let me see all of them. All of them have gas tank needles on them, and it lets me know. When I get down towards eat, there's a little lane that's read that lets me know. Okay, Steve, you're in the danger zone. Now you're riding into the lowest part of your tank. But if I keep riding and I forget to get some gas in there, guess what when it runs out of gas. All of my all terrain vehicles, all of them, Honda Polaris, all of them. Those are the makers. There's a button on the gas tank itself that I can click and it says reserve. That means they know that for the hardcore riders, they're gonna ride somewhere, they're gonna get themselves in a situation and they're gonna run out of everything. They're gonna run out of road, they're gonna run out of gas. They've prepared because they know for the hardcore rider, every hardcore rider needs a reserve tank. And so there's a button that you can click on the gas tank that clicks it into a reserve and it will give you about fifty miles or twenty miles worth of gas in that Now, guess what in that reserve that maybe all you need to get you the where you're going, or get you back to safety so you can refuel. Don't tell me you've done your best. When your best don't cut it. What you're gonna do. See when best is possible, then good enough ain't enough. See you you you can flip that any kind of way you where you want to. But if but if the best is possible, then good enough. And it ain't enough. Man, See that's good enough. But if the best is possible, why would you not shoot for that? And you you are all capable of making it. You are all capable of being successful if you change your mind set. But you've got to change your mind set and realize the effort that has to be put forth in becoming successful. You've got to do it relentlessly, over and over and over and over and every day. I try to do something to progress my life for the better. I try to do something every day. I wake up every day with the plan. Some phone calls, some meetings, some some some some interviews, something. Man, that's going to advance and move the brand forward. Because here's what's gonna happen. You are Let's say you reach your goal. Let's say your goal is to make me um a hundred thousand dollars. Well, I got news for you. Listen to this. When you the one hundred thousand dollars, you can't go on noway and go on vacation and put your hand behind your head and say I made a hundred thousand dollars. Guess what you got to do? You got to find a way now to maintain that a hundred thousand, to keep it coming in. So you can't just get there and stop and rest and whoa, it is harder to maintain your success that it is to get successful. See let's say, let me let me show you that supposed it takes you five to eight years to find a way to make fifty thousand dollars. Let's say it takes you five to eight years to find a way to make an extra fifty dollars, and you finally, through work and effort, you get to the fifty thou dollar mare. That's that's that's it's only just begun now, because guess what, in order to keep the fifty coming in, you got to duplicate what you did to get there. And then, oh, here's what you're going to have the audacity being a human being. You're gonna want another fifty because you're a human being, because you gotta have something else to shoot for. Now you're gonna want another fifty. Well, now, I guess what you gotta do. Now, Now you gotta do what you did before, plus you gotta come up with something else. Then after that you're gonna have the audacity, because you're humans, you're gonna want another fifty says how this works, and see that that's the that that that's the importance of your relationship with God because you're gonna constantly need it, and another point where you're gonna be through needing it. But there ain't gonna become a point in your life where you're gonna through, won't be through, won't nothing unless you just gave up. And if you don't gave up, who wants that? Come on, y'all, this is going to take quite a bit of effort, and if you think it will come to you any other way, you're sadly mistaken. Because of all the successful people I know, I know that the effort they put out on a daily basis is daunting, and I think that the average person just doesn't understand the requirement of time and effort that it takes to get that and willingness to put it out. You gotta cut a lot of monkey business out your life, all that hanging out, all that late and all that club and all that drinking, all that. You gotta cut a whole lot of monkey business out to be successful. Man, if you're planning on being successful, get up early, stay up late, work, try, think, meet, great, smile, attract. It takes a lot, let's go, but you can do it. God has pressed to plassing our blessings all day long. Why are you not in line for yours? I'm telling you right now, I want everything God got for me, because what he's shown me so far cool if he got some ore Man on man? How good is God hunts? Ladies and gentlemen. My name is Steve Harvey. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This show would be nothing without the following people, Ladies and gentlemen. Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, Steve, Good morning, call it for real. Good morning Crew. Cure Spates better known as Junior Morning j Anthony Brown, better known as bitter Man, what Man, Ladies and Gentlemen. Thomas W. Miles, better known as the Fool, a K eight Nephew, Tommy Slash lot Man, Good morning everybody, and the little Man is just for aggravation purposes. He's really not that small. We know we know how to push each other's buttons. Though we've worked together. Everybody knows everybody, but we're worked together for so long. Yeah, we don't have a button. We found it yet. Oh you have a button. Yeah, he's marriage. Yes, it's what. Oh his button is called marm marriage. Right, you bring it up? He started, Oh the last time I brought it up, he snapped at me, remember, went in, Oh, and I know another button, but I'll only use it if you piss me off. Well, because you know you've known him the longest. Yeah, you got some. He got another, but he's being read. It's the one same size. We'll see no truth. It's nuclear man, when you're just talking about you know what it is then? Yeah. Yeah, we've been together a long time. Being my boy right there. Boy was the best thing. Putting him on this show. Man kind of gave me like a balance punch, you know. You know when you see how I talked to me when I come into work like that. Yeah, no, but you all have history. Man. Oh he talked to me so crazy when I come to world. If we didn't know, we would, yeah, we would think you hated each other. The way you talk to each other. That's just us. I don't do it on the other job. But that's love though, that that's that's junior. He lied right now? What did he say when he doesn't do it anywhere else. He comes in there on the day, he come in there and give us a gift. Wow, it's mont you're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right, it is time for something funny. Steven. I'm just gonna let you take it away right here. You and Jay with your reenactment. This is for all me and listening today. We're going to give you how it works when you're trying to end the conversation with your wife or girlfriend and you're trying to find a way to end it or not have it at all, or not have this conversation. You're gonna have it, but somehow it just goes on it. You don't want to talk. Basically, you don't want to talk at work day quiet. You just want to come in and not talk to nobody. You don't understand that, man, how come you don't want to talk? What I'm saying? Here's had go? What's wrong with? Here's how it go? You just walked in the house. Hey baby, how are you doing? I'm doing good. How was your day to day? I'm tired, I'm beat up, man. It was a rough out there to day going to it and nothing. It was just a long day. Baby, you know I get sometimes I just gonna sit down and chill, get my thoughts a minute to myself. What happened? It was just a long day, you know, just long, long like long like what I mean, long like how like? But I've been down there all day. No, I just been there all day. If it been that all day working, I got two jobs and just got home. You're just a long day. I'm just tired, that's all. What happened the first job? Just tell me that. Ain't nothing in particularly happened, you know, it just was so you were that all day and you're telling me nothing happened. No, I no, not nothing meaningful. So something did happen? No, baby, listen, listen what I'm saying is it just it was just a long day, was just you know, you know, just the day to day got in the way, and it's just tired. So something happened that you don't want to tell me about. Ain't nothing happening that I ain't wanna tell you about. I'm just trying to tell you ain't nothing really happened, but just what I'm just I'm tired. Well, you know you sound like you're yelling. I mean, you listen to him. Right, Look, I ain't I ain't trying to. Look, I'm not yelling if I did forget, I just want what happened to the second. Hey, look I'm tired, I didn't have a good day. I'm just gonna go on in here. I'm watching a little TV and he So you don't want to talk. That basically what you're saying, you don't want to talking. You all day and you come home and now I want to talk. You want to talk to me? Is that? Is that basically what you're saying. You don't You've been talking to all other people all day when I bounds at work though I'm on at work, Well, I just want to check by, just want to chill work at the house. There's no talk. No, I just want to cheer, not just want to cheer for a little while. Don't you have a talk show? You have two shows that you just talk if you come home, it's just no talking. That's well. I got a radio show to do, radio show, dinner do to talk show, and I got a brief in and I do meeting. You're talking to meeting, y'all talking to meeting. You're talking the show. Yeah, you're talking to radio show. Yeah, but you can't talk home. But I'm tired of talking loud. Okay, now you're getting loud, you get loud now, yeah, well you ain't listening. I'm listening. I'm trying to talk. Now you ain't hearing me. I'm my voice raising because you're not listening. You know what, Forget it, just forget it, just to get the whole thing for get asked. Get it all right? Now, I don't want to talk to my mom. Okay, I'm going in here, simper, I'm going to I'm not talking to you no more. You don't have to worry about me talking to you. Okay, when you coming from now, I will not be talking about Okay, let's see how you like that. If you don't want to talk, then I don't want to talk. No, no, no, no no no. I tried to talk, but you didn't want to talk. Now you want to talk. Talk baby, I'm going in here and just sit down the chill because you can't talk to me. All right, baby, just just look look look, just whatever you said, I didn't even know are we talking? All I was going to hear you said you want to talk to me no more okay, then forget it. No, wout to talk. Let's stop. You don't talk to me, and I won't talk to you. All right, that's good, it works fine for me. Ever talk to you? Now he walks away under his brow and he so he thinks and he said, husband's crazy, and then she follows him in the room. Yeah, she says, I just have one question. I just I just had one more question to ask you. Why don't you want to talk to me? What did I do? Yeah? What did I do? Because I didn't do anything to you? No, you ain't did nothing. I just told you I had a long thing. And then you said you didn't want to talk. I said, I'm going to hear the chill and you to follow me and asked me again one more thing. I got one more thing to ask you, colombo ya come on? Well, okay, so one more time under my breath. And I don't think she can hear this. So I said to myself, this is helpful. Cz Oh, I'm crazy now, I'm crazy. Now I'm ready want that one. You've been crazy, but I'm crazy. No, I ain't say he's crazy. I an't say who's crazy. I'm crazy now I'm crazy. No, I said what I'm gonna show you crazy, Steve, I'm gonna show you crazy. No, I don't know what I said. I ain't say this crazy. And now I'm gonna su you know I said this crazy. You you want to see it, I'm show it to you. Well, I'm looking at wait what he's already looking at him? Every man who's winning way with good friend? Laugh when you get at work. Okay, oh my god, that's it right, there were pretty much coverted. Huh yeah, good job, Jay. Yeah, you played wifey very well, very well. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show right now. It is for the reverend and the deacon. They are here with church complaints. Wasn't wasn't really ready for that? Don't weary about don't have regular deck or regular or motown voice, motown have would win a little Lord Sony Empy Columbia on them, and really whoo. He heads out the best of I can. But we are here again Calvary for church complaints. But what is it, dear? I passed that to day we have since the vera. Jean Gladmore is finally getting her beard cut. He has gotten tired of the members calling her Deacon Vernon, instead of verya passor he is request in five cases of magic shave to get the entire beard off. I was thinking more of a fund raising event with her. Oh, I was gonna put it in a cage in the basement of the church and help people pay two dollars to see the bearded lady. Well I'm not that's that and raised money for the building fun at the circus. Or we could have a black black or like like doing car wash, have her at the end behind a drape. Yeah. I can bring this up to it, but she's really focusing on getting the magic saved, only getting the beard out. But that's we'll run that by first. Before we're spending money on the magic shade. We're not gonna get a case. Well, now she needs more than a case pass to get all that hell off. Well, see, first you have to shave it or nephew, then you you magic check. You don't put it over me. That's deacon. It's not nephew, it's beacon. H Okay, Well get it together, Reverence. Here's something that you need to know. Pastor. Our sister Deaconda Jenkins and brother Lavon Terry Rivers Scarcter to be married in three weeks. Instead of you doing the wedding, they are requesting Bishop Carry, who just did the raw weddings for Prince Harry and making Marcael. They won't him as well as third of men on hearts escort him to the reception as they ride in a carry. Well, well, well look like I won't be doing the wind hu will will. I'm just saying this, good luck in getting outside or help with this wedding. You might didn't get the preacher that did. Oh yeah, maybe Marco with man you might be able to. I don't know him, but you made you maybe a brutal train come up with the necessary feet. But I tell you what, you're not gonna have thirty damn horses that I bet you don't have money for that. Alright, I passed the wearing on pastor. I listen beyond say just about eight new thirty dogs. I don't, nobody won't. That's not elegant, damn Pastor. The elegance is when the horses, and elegance costs money, Deacon, and I understand, I'm just telling you what they wanted, but they quit what it was. Well quit um now listen Beyond just by the church in New Orleans for eight hundred and fiftif thousand dollars. The members have had an emergency meeting and want to put the J p j J up for sale for a cool million. But they're also throwing you in on the deal as well. If the sales. I'm just letting you know, I'll be starting my own church with the money, and the members are going with me. Well, let me liken you to something. If they throw me in the deal and pay the million, I'm gonna get the million. They can clothed it ragged, and you want to wherever you want to. You let somebody pay a million for this hell and see them on our ticket. All right, man, I'm just saying we're gonna be calling Beyond Faith about buying the check. I don't think Beyond gonna buy another one. Well some people have, you don't think. Just think of something around with having a chain of churches. Chain. You're trying to act like we're fast food. That's not what we are. U can't franchise churches. They did it with the kicking, But all right, we don't have chicken. I know, I know. Here's something you need to know passing the trips the church roads have now been converted with the pens in them. The choir would be singing a marathon concert to raise money for their summer trip to Jerusalem. Members are complaining. They're saying, this concert is going to stink. It's up to you to fix this one. Pass once again. Well, I understand no need for the quad to have a marathon count. Do understand the application of the pens inside of the route being now hard? Do you? Now you step into the road, You step into the road when you actually you're stepping into the the pen as you ride right right right, kind of like a jumper. Yeah, and you zip it out. Okay, well that's gonna be interesting. System Burton, he needs help with pro assist to the step down and hust him. And you know that woman, Lord, she thought off creator of doing. I'm not talking about the war down that out back. I'm talking about the original bloom on you cry, put tears in your all right pastor just that Glinda Fraser will be doing how sug avery song and dance. He's asking it all the men come out and making rain This Wednesday night at the juke joint around the corner. She said, you gave her a hundred dollars the last time I gave a whole hundred dollars to stop. She might have been doing the shoe gave it, but she looked just like shoes like I just learned something that we shoot avery this over time. I swart. God, I thought it was shooting night, not death death roll shoes like look just like it scared me to death. So that hen that I gave her was to stop. Get out right girls, just like it, Lord, before we go pafter we had one quick announcement from I know it. You're going to start or let me know when you change your announcement. Yeah, I'm sorry that was out in my tears complaints that that was. I only give you think you so much to let me have that. There'll bill beating, they'll bill beating. Read after service, blonde hair, black roots. If you'd like to participate, blonde hill, black roots, it'll be beating rooms five. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, you you started telling us about this woman. I met this girl and in college, Lord, she was fine creole girl. My brother told me how to get him and he gave me some money to take out, so I told her pick a restaurant. She picked a creole restaurant. I'm seventeen. I ain't had no creole food, so I'm in. I go in there. She didn't order all this spicy stuff there to faye, all this but spicy though. Yeah, yeah, I'm eating stuff. Man ain't never been in my system there, f So I'm taking her home and my stomach is turning. So we get at the front of the house. I'm a walker to the dough. She said, come on here for a little while. My mama and I'm gone. My mama had told me when your stomach is tolk, try to go home. Yeah, but that didn't nobody else house. But she was so fine. I just said, well, man, let me go in here for a little while, because I what kind of man would I be? Fine? Chicken? Bite you in and mom and dad ain't there. Let me leave, go on in here something but your stomach. I mean, really, Shirley, that's a girl and man would have went in there. I'm sitting down on the couch, We're watching TV. My stomach turning. I can hear, so I said, can I go to the bathroom? She said second dough on the left. I go in there, and Lord have mercy the walls of Gibraltar. You know what's coming the walls. I didn't grabbed the tie rack in front of me to just try to hang off. I'm twisting the guest tile in my head like I'm bringing it out. I didn't knock the toilet tissue holder off the wall screws out everything. I didn't kicked over the trash. Can you can hear this right? I don't get he wasn't feeling what I was feeling. But I'm using the bathroom so much that is alarming to me. Yeah, I've actually put more in there that I've ever put in there in my life. Briar too, I think I didn't know what you don't stop my story shooting. This is for junior and time. So I'm feeling the bowler. So finally I'm done. To my relief, I'm but I'm sweating though. I'm talking about my shirt wide. I put my whole shirt. It's wide. I had hung my past up on the back of the door because I used a bathroom like my daddy always hate my pants and draws up on the back of the Yeah, you don't ever use the bathroom. But I got my shirt on, but I didn't open it up because it's hot. I got just just water coming down out the front. So I stand up and I flushed the toilet. Now I'm putting my clothes on. But you know how you're waiting to hear that sound that all I hear is to swirl it. And I turned around and in this rise, I'm asking God not just do the is to me today. I'm asking God, don't not today, Lord, We're not in here. We have to have a part three. This ain't the time for Lord, stop this swirl from rising. In your name Father, they never now o God, Steve, we have to go to Miss Anne's. I will, but Jesus real in stop this swarl. But INSTEADY coming good. Part two right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show. Here we are, Steve, just catch up. I'm over this fine girl house stomach toe up in eight gree old food seventeen. Should have went home and used the bathroom. Fine, Now I'm in here using the bathroom and all held and proclusive. Here. I'm in here, neckid, sitting on the just my shirt on because I like the ship whine. I like to be open and free, and I need it because I had to brace myself a couple of times. But she never came in there. Not yet she coming. That's coming in the store. So I get up. I finally get through. But I've noticed that I'm putting more in the bowls and never been, so I'm a little bit concerned with them, ship argue. So I flushed the toilet as I'm putting my pants back up on me, and I'm waiting to hear that. But I don't hear it. And I look back. That's going in a slow circle. So I go in. I go to my heavenly father father dog boy, Now long stop this rising time. Wow, somehow, don't let this swirl get up by the top. But he didn't hear me that ding. I guess it wasn't let the next thing I know, it's at the very top of the tarlet. Oh my god, and it's about to flow over. So now I don't know what to do. So I looked down and it's a trash can. So I dipped the trash can down in it, and I got a trash can full of it. Yeah, So I pulled a shower curtin back and throw it in the bath too. When here comes some moat. So I had to take another trash can full of it and throw another trash can in the bathtub. And here comes some damn moat. So now I realized they call it is broke. The backed up and it started going back down. I say, I gotta get some water and put it in here. So I started running water in the trash can to pour down there and make the water go clean. So I finally did that, and I said, thank you Lord. And I looked over and the damn bathtub right shower Kirk, it's trap. I look up. It's on the wall. Wait, wait, hold, it's on the wall. Four part four, Hold on, this is this is r Kellys in the closet, and this is Steve Holly in the barn food trapped parts, Folks coming up right over, trap in the brown food part. Folk, it's on the walls, the shower curve and the bathtub coming up. More of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty four after the hour. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Steve Trapped in the bath in the close part. Folk. Yeah, I didn't bailed out three buckets trash hands a pure mess, then throwed it in the shower so without get all of the water back in the tarlet where I got it upside in the water clean, I said, okay, cool, I look over the damn bathtub and strike. So now I cut skis, people shower on and I'm washing down the walls, the shower curtain with the shower. The girl comes up to the girl because I've been in here now about the minute all time, so she said, you O came down everything fast. She said, it sounds like something wrong in that to get away from the dun said, well, otky the house. So I'm in there's this too late. But I noticed they got a candle in the bathrooms. I light it. I light the candle, start striking matches and running tapwater. That's when my mom always told me, strike some matches and run some tap water and to help you get rid of older. So I've been there, but now I'm washing down shower curtains, walls, the bathtub, getting up stuff off the floe. Now now you've probably saying, Steve, what is you washing it down with? Yeah? What paper ties in there? But that tie rat that I had grabbed when I first sat down and was twisting it. Yeah, they guest house there with the lace in the Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's what I washed it down, not my good towel. That is tie is brown. I can't rising all because the color wasn't when it started that was pink. This is awful now that tis it's running. I don't wash all the walls down. Everything I'm in that sweat has been on a construction site. So I've been in there total about damn near hour. So I pulled fastened my clothes, I look at the bathroom. I got everything up, but I got this big nasty ass tie, and I don't know what to do with it. So I take it, put it in the waste paper can that I've been bailing with, and stuck all that under the sink. I figured this ain't gonna be good, no how ye. But at least when they come in here, they're gonna they's gonna take a moment, because I know when you're going there, you're gonna have to say what they happened here. Because I couldn't remember how the shower curtain was of none of that, and I got I look, I'm taking I got everything off, so I walked in the hallway. She's sitting on the couch with the attitude of folding. Then she looked at me and she said, why are you pitting that so long? I had a little accident this, She said, Oh my god, look at you. What was I didn't realize when I was barely all that mess into the shower, it was splashing on my pants below my knee. I ain't had time to look at this because I'm too busy cleaning up their damn house. Now I looked down, It's just specks, splash marks from my knee down my pass was trying. I looked at huh. She looked at me and she said, oh my god, look at you. What have you been doing. I looked at her, said you ain't got talk to me like that, and walked up the fourth got in my car, had to ride home with all my wonders. Dad, I spank. I smelled sitting in that call. That girl saw me on the campus next day and all her girlfriend was looking at me act like I had never met him. And that was my seve hobbies. Wow, trapped, trapped claulton. I will put some music to that. Alright, alright, nephew, tell me coming up next with the prank phone call. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show, all right at the top of the hour. Coming up right about four minutes after the hour, Today's Strawberry letter. You do not want to miss that, But up next the Nephews prank phone call. What you got surely is football season. Getting ready to jump on this right here is tailator to man man, I'll speak to t Rock speaking. Is this t Rock? Yeah? What's up? Hey? Man? Let me ask you something. All last year y'all was h tailgating here in the parking lot at the apartments. Are y'all doing that again this year? Yeah? Always, that's what we do. Hey man, Hey, listen, man, I just move here about a year ago. Let me tell you something. All that noisy y'all be making down there, Man, I need to go to the cot to get you'all some money for the game. Man, Hold on, hold on, man, hold on, hold on, hold on. First of all, I don't know you want. My thing is that we we would do out here, man, we all get together rather go to work. Man. At the end of we want we want to get together and throw a little barbecue whatever, that's what we do. Let me calling with that, dude. You anyway, come, y'all making too much. I don't want who are you? I live here in an apartment too. Man, y'all making you want to tell you what I tell you? We want to talk all that noise about you doing out here? Man, I say you buy your bucket down here and say it to my place for you. Man, don't don't worry about who I am but one man first. Man, I'm trying to have a good day, and I'm gonna hear some like, come on, man, who are you supposed to be? Man, I'm t rock down. Come down, and we do what we do. We all get together. We try have a good time with it. And you want to come with this? Miss my day up? Gone with that? Do came? Man? Man? You know y'all all that noise, man, disturbing people? Water in there? No man, But let's say look here, I'm at the end of the week, man, brother, get together, put the money together, man, and we get together and we try to have a good time. If you want to come down to join us, man, you more than welcome. I'm trying to tell you more than welcome brother, come down to drive a play man. But man, please don't try to miss my day of don't dot please don't man, please, man, I'm trying y'all missing month day up with all that thing I'm noise. Man, Come man, Look, this is what we do. You want to join, you to join, You ain't gonna join. Shut the hell up. Man, Let me do what you're gonna do. But let let us do what we do. This is we're doing the weekend. This is how we are. We leave our fifth We're gonna try to do something, get together and have a good time. You wanta try to mess that up? Make all that man, Man, all I'm staying is man, if y'all tell game, won't y'all call y'all down to the stadium man and watch the damn Cowboys play. We can't go there, man, We don't want to go down there. We want to get together where we are right. This is what we do, man, this is what we do. Ain't nobody ever complain now one time. Now, I want tell you the first time to ever complain. We've been doing this spree is and the first time we ever had a complaint. You know, you know what's driving your mother down of white white white. Why y'all don't buy y'all some tickets to the damn game? Man? What want y'all go go to the game? Why the game to be in my my parking lot? Well, un feel like this. You know we can't afford a ticket, man, So we do. We should get together. We do what we can. We put our money together, we get together, and that's what we do again. Like I said early, man, you more the well, come down? You want to bring this old monkey now? Yeah, man, gone with that doctor, gone with that. Man. If you ain't no cowboyna fan, move around, let me let me, let me, let me to tell you this right here. Man, if y'all find up the pit on Sunday, I'm coming down there and turning it. Don't trying what over you know what y'all want on, I'm turning y'all y'all find it picked up, and I promise you I'm gonna turning the damn bob que Pito, and I promise you'd be staying at the top of the church. You will be staring at the top of church. And that should me to pick the flow. You're gonna hit the flow and Man, you're gonna hit the don't don't find and pit up Sunday you hit me, do not find this, you can't. It's gonna be no fact. I'm looking for the pit now, I'm looking for them that it's gonna be out there. It's gonna be out there. I'm turning your mother there told you that you're disturbing people, and you're disturbing me more than anything, you know. And y'alla here, I'm like all last year, y'all tell get you right here in the damn apartments. Man, that's crazy, you know what, dude, I would apologize you, but let me say like this in Man, you don't y'all, I don't say you come down and get a plate. You come down and joining you know, we're just getting together, trying to make it a family down here. Just what you want to bring with me. Man, you don't out the hoppen. I'm on the other level. Now, come on that other level. I don't know my mont. I was on the other level midway through the season. Last years went on that day, I'm noise, man. Man, Oh my god, man, look, let me tell you something. My men hit the show or somebody come boy in disturbment. What we do. When we do, it's gonna go down. I'm gonna tell you like that. We ain't trying to have no wish on. They have no problems. We're gonna get down like that. We try to have a good time. That's all we do. We're we're doing it for three years. We got the chids out here playing. We got the big screen out where everybody to watch the game. You know, extended my some love about to come out half play with us. But you're gonna talk about coming knocking my meal as long as I want. I promise you matter me touch the ground, You're gonna touch the ground. Come on, man, I'll go there with that. Many don't do that. Okay, look at him, man, I'm telling you right now, y'all. Soon as I swar that bard q pit so when I smell a little charcoal, I promise you I'm turning it. So, y'all ain't doing this this year. Man, y'all ain't doing it this year. You do, man, I'm won you lit doc you, but the bunch you present yourself to me? Man, what you do that? You know what I mean? You can meet me up at the leasing officer I'm at leasing. I will start walking right and after LEAs off right now far, I see who the hell I'm talking to. You need man listen. Okay, well you need to see who's gonna turn this pit over. Y'all ain't going that? Ye man, I want to see that. I want to see that apple because Susan sis you touching my pit. They thought that mean hit the flow. You don't hit the flow. Quicken in the meat will I'm trying to have a good challenge or black you're trying to get together? Man, everybody comes and drinking bill. Nobody's saying nothing, but I do want to get your monkey's gonna come out. Okay, I'll tell you what. Ring up to the leasing office and I polish you. I'm I'm in ahead. I'm in ahead. You need you need to bring somebody with you. That's what you need to do. Okay, I'm about I tell I'm a brain with me. I got two PM a brain with me. It's gonna be me, myself and I and I've been through this. Here. You wanta putting on meat on that grill comes sunday, Okay, I won't putting all right on that crib. Tell what you and them damn cowboys. Man, you know I'm talking about the cowboys me like that, Doc. Now you rid me off, we'll all Cowboys fans. You're gonna need met. The leasing office is on. I'm a beat, and don't put a Tony Romo short on your I promise you. Do you want? You wanna be a fan of mine? Okay? Okay? But do you know who you? You? Do you know who you're playing with? No? I don't, And I promise you when I find you, you don't know who you're playing with? Let me let me let me tell you who I am. Yeah, tell me who you are? For you, I am nephew telling from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got prank by your boy box? Uh yeah? You y'all, y'all, y'all still each other? Man, Man, I'm nephing you lest you ma'a. I'm sorry, man, you if you will fired up? I am sorry. It says hot out here anyway. We don't care. We're gonna we can take it. Man. Yah sunday. Man, that's what we do. Everybody pitching in and we all get together. Man. It's a it's a family thing. Oh man, you could man, you could let me ask you, what's the baddest radio show in the land, Man, Steve Harley Morning Show Brother, I think I might tellgate at least a couple of times this year. What yall think you'll get out a little bit. Yeah, And people go to the game. Two different groups. But the tailgators getting their fights out there, they do a lot of a lot of he go up against subpark competition people, decent looking people that but you know what section you got the party you've been that park over there in a good looking So they got an ugly tailgate right over there with all other people, got the biggest grial set up because they need a lot of moke around. Stand back. Then people are looking at ignorant. So if you go to the tailgate, you already know to just take yourself over to the ugly city. That's why I'm going right on over there. That's why. But your situation is different. See, because you're rich, So is there a rich ugly not at all? Yes, they're fine, but whatever. My strawberry letter is up next at four minutes after the hour. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, If you need advice on dating, sex, work, parenting, and more, you can submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. And thanks to everyone who's been um, you guys have been really writing and well we may be reading your letter live on the air like we're doing this one. You never know, you never know. Up hold on type We got it, Paul you here It is a Strawberry let us subject why is my son in law watching me? Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm writing you for advice and a family matter. When my daughter had her first child, she and her husband asked me to move in with them to help out with the baby. I was thrilled to be there to help with my grandchild. After living with them for about five months, my daughter came to me and said that her husband had been watching me move around the house. I thought she meant that he was watching me to see how I handled the baby. I didn't think anything about it. Once again, my daughter came to me and said that her husband was watching me and that she felt some type of way about it. Now she had my full attention. This was no joking matter. She told me that my son in law had been watching me in an inappropriate way. My son in law has always said that he doesn't like big women, and I'm a big, curvy wop girl. So I took my daughter into the living room with me to confront him about his inappropriate behavior. He said that I wear tight pants and leggings to entice him, and I'm doing it on purpose. I moved out immediately to remove myself from the situation. I've always dressed decently and leggings are in style, so I never thought about my clothes. Uh. I never thought that my clothes were a problem. Since I've moved out, my relationship with my daughter is rocky. I can't help but feel like she blames me for her husband's attraction to me. This really bothers me, and I'm sad because I don't get to see my grandchild that much anymore. I don't know why my son in law will come up with this mess, but it seems like he's turning my daughter against me. What can I do to make things right? Please help? This is crazy. I really don't believe my eyes and ears. I mean, either they want you gone immediately and that's what you did. Um after five months of being there with them, or they're just playing crazy. Um, you haven't done anything wrong. You you asked what you know? What can you do to make things right? You haven't done anything wrong. You came there to help them, you know, because they requested that you do, so you did that. And now somehow it's turned on you because your son in law uh finds you attractive in tight clothes. This sounds crazy. And then some for some reason, he's gotten his daughter, your daughter to his wife, to get on board with this foolishness. Um. Uh, And what is wrong? I don't understand what's wrong with your daughter to even go along with this. You're her mom. Of course, she you know, is one with her husband and everything. But you're her mom. And again you came there to help them. So um, now your relationship with her is rocky. You're gone, So why is there still a problem here? Uh? You don't get to see your grandchild. You lose in this situation, But the grandchild does too because they don't get the benefit of seeing their grandparents anymore. Because your son in law is attracted to you and your daughter feels some kind of way. This letter is crazy. If they wanted you to leave, they could have asked you. Uh, just asked you or done it differently, not this crazy, ignorant way. Um. I don't think you have anything to feel guilty or badly about except for not seeing your grandson. Maybe you and your daughter can sit down and talk about this. But she doesn't sound reasonable either the t This is actually a bogus, really ignorant letter. To tell you the first of all, this lady says, uh, why is my son in law watching me? Well, that's the question, why is he watching me? But this dude is wrong on so many levels. I question. All of my questions revert back to the motive of the son in law. What is his objective? Because it serves no purpose man, unless it wall us to to to put some distance between you and your daughter. And he didn't care how he go about it. That are manipulative men in this world, and I think that this kid happens to be one of them. So she said they needed some help out with the baby. I was thrilled to be there to help my grandchild. After living with him for about five months, my daughter came to me and said, that her husband had been watching me move around the house. I thought she meant he was watching me to see how I handle a baby. I didn't think nothing about it. Not all that's real. Right there, you can hear the truth in this. Once again, my daughter came to me and said that her husband was watching me and she felt some type of way about it. Now she had my full attention. This was no joking matter. She told me that my son in law had been watching me in an inappropriate way. Now right here, then we gotta address what the hell wrong your son in law? Because she said clearly that my son in law had been watching me in an inappropriate way. So this is all on him. He looking at this girl's mama in an inappropriate way. That's him, that's him. See, fellas, don't nobody make you. Won't there. You have a choice, you cannot want them. So this woman wasn't trying to do nothing to you. This is something you drummed up. Not with all of that said, then she told me that So what she did was my son law had been watching me inappropriate way. My son in law has always said he doesn't like big women, and I'm a big curvy woman. So I took my daughter into the living room with me to confront him about this inappropriate behavior. Now, this woman going, hold up, let me bring you in front of him so you don't think I'm doing something to him, and that we can ask him right now? What have I done to you directly to make you have my daughter in here talking to me about this? So we can just come on in here right now talk to this little boy. Well, she went in there and a little boy didn't have nothing because he was lying. He said that I wear tight pasts and leggings to entice him, and I'm doing it on purpose. Maybe she just had the clothes on. It wasn't thinking nothing. She in a She figured she at home, She had her daughter's house. She figured she welcome. Now you're tripping My whole thing is It's not you, ma'am, it's all him. Why would he? First of all, why would he take this to his wife? You've got to understand the motive behind him. What good are you trying to accomplish by bringing this to your wife? He watching? He watching you? She she she'd be doing stuff. I'll be I'll be looking at her some kind of way. Baby, I can't I don't even know how he said it. All right, Steve, hang on a second. We'll have part two of your response coming up at twenty three after the hour subject why is my son in law watching me? You're listening, but right now it's your turn against Steve. We're part two of your response to today's Strawberry letter, Why is my son in law watching me? Once again? This woman been living with her daughter and her husband and five months baby for about five months, trying to help him out. The daughter says her husband came to him and started saying, you know, I've been watching your mama move around. She takes the information to her mother and go, my husband is watching you move around. The mother thinks she's talking about the way he handles the baby. He comes back, double's back again, you know, and tells her now, like you know, she'd be just in front of me baby, and I don't know what I'm doing with it now. All of a sudden, the daughter says she's feeling some kind of way, so she confronts her mother about mother think thinking nothing of it, does the right thing takes her daughter into that to her husband to just lay it out on the line. How have I done something directly to you, Dwayne or whatever Punk's name is, and then you know, just to get it clear, he's sitting up in here talking about something. You'd be wearing tight pants and leggings to entice me, and I'm doing You're doing it on purpose. So lady said, I moved out immediately. No, she said, this ain't the game up, and I move out immediately right now. I've always dressed decently and and legings is in style, so I thought my clothing was wasn't. What was a problem since I moved out, My relationship with my daughter's rocking. I can't help but feel like she blames me for her husband's attracting to me. This really bothers me, and I'm sad because I don't get to see my grandchild that much anymore. I know my son in law would come up. I don't know why my son in law would come up with this mess, but it seems like he's turning my daughter against me. What can I do to make things right? Please help? I think it's time for reenacting with Shirley. Yes, I want you to be not Jake. No, No, he don't be a little too much. I won't won't. Well, let me see what I'm trying to react. I don't think I'm gonna bring the information to you about your mama then, Jay, I want you to be the mother. But now surely I'm gonna bring this you my wife. I'm think to bring this information then we're gonna take it in there to Jay who is the mama? Yes, yes, honey, I need to talk to you about something. You got a minute? Oh yeah, of course? What's up? Hey? Look, you know it's I don't know what's up, but you know your mom. We should be walking around and everything. It's like crazy, you know what I'm saying. No, I don't know what you're saying. What do you mean crazy? I mean it's crazy. You know I'd be like sitting up watching TV and ship like walk right in front of the TV. Well maybe she's just trying to get by, honey, what are you talking about? Look? I know the how small and everything we ain't got too bad, but damn, I mean, you know you couldn't go outside walk down the driveway to go around the house. You gotta walk through the house. No, honey, she's where else is she gonna go? She's not gonna go outside just to walk around the house. That that, yeah, I think. Fast forward two weeks later, baby, what's up? I need to talk to you. Get your mama's talked to you a couple of weeks ago about your mama. Well, man, I mean she's really going and she's throwing it at me. Now she's throwing what at you? Honey? You know that thing? What? What do you man? Your mama? Man? I like, I know. Look, look, I'm grown, man, I know when I'm getting hit on. You know, your mama justin came up in here were all these tight aird pants, leggings and stuff. He's just moving around in front of me, and you know, I'm trying to be everything I can be from family. Well, honey, leggings are in style. I think you're wrong with this. No, no, no, what did you talking about leggans? What leggans got to do with bouncing in front of TV? Well, she's you know, my mom is not a small woman, so you know, she's just walking normally. I don't really know what you're saying about my mom here. No, your mama got on heels and everything. You know, Well, you know what ending over big picking up bottles in front of me and everything. I just want to bring your attention because you know I'm trying to be I told you you know I'm trying to be everything I can be. Well, I appreciate that, honey. I don't think that's the case, though, But I'll say something to her if you want me to. Mama. Yeah, uh, you aren't going to believe what Dwayne says. I don't believe Dwayne says. Dwayne says, you're enticing him, and yeah with the clothes you wear, you know, your leggings and everything. He's saying, you know you're doing it on purpose, doing what being sexy in front of him? I'm being you know, he's my husband. I'm surprised you won't, Wane, that's what makes you think I won't waite? Well, now, Mom, you know we've been together for quite something and I love Dwayne, and he's surprising party. Now he's told me this, and I'm starting to feel some type of way. Is this the truth? Are you trying to entice? Do I look like I won't Dwayne? Well, I don't know. I'm telling you I don't won't Dwayne. I don't want nothing, Dwayne got I don't won't Dwayne at all. Let me say that you can watch my lip I don't won't Dwayne, Well, Dwayne things you want him, Dwayne like Dwayne do all the time? Wayne do nothing. But let's go and talk to don't get his as bring him in here, honey. Hey, so you were saying, what about my mom? Because I just asked her about it and she says she doesn't want you. He has no idea what you're talking about. Hey, you don't know what Dwayne. You know, I was explaining to Rolanda. You all. You know you've been You've been pressing upon me. You're pressing up only like one you know, just all in front of me with your little take close. I'm a big woman. I I walk, i'ma be in front of you. I'm a big as woman. I can't hide, not three well, you know. But you know with all that being said and done, you know, when I'm watching TV, I'm just trying to I'm a three X. You know, I can't disappear. I'm just trying to be a man. Don't miss gladders and you up in here shaking and moving all around. I think you're trying to knock me off my game. Now you have your game. You ain't had a job in two years. You off your damn game. You know what, y'all came in here to me. I was in my room watching my stories. You weren't watching the story the day you was trying to make a story. Nobody won't you tell them? Y'all rolling, Miss glad you don't know me like that's earl satisfies me being earl. All right, we gotta take a short break more with Ms Gladys, Dwayne and Rolinda. So right after this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, here we are back with part what is this three of the Strawberry Letter Today? Subject why is my son in law watching me? A young a woman wrote in she's a grandmother. Her daughter and her husband asked her to come and help them with their newborn child. So she came. She's been at the house for about five months. All of a sudden, her daughter came to her and said that her husband, her daughter's husband, her son in law, has been watching her, and uh. The grandmother didn't know what she meant by that. She thought she was just watching to see how she took care of the baby. But come to find out. No, he's been watching her in an inappropriate kind of way because supposedly she wears tight leggings and stuff and tight hants sou So the mother, grandmother and the daughter confronted the husband and asked him, why is he saying this? You know what I'm saying, though, listen to me, miss Bladders, so we could be clear about that. Yeah, but no, listen, see the way you're in my face, you know, like that is I just felt like it's disrespectful to Roland though. That's me. Well, I tell you what I can do. What is that? I can do this right now. I can call Earle to come over here and get me my boyfriend, and I can get about this man because I don't need to let me call you. Hold let me call Earl right now. Hello, whatever, Hey, what's going on? It's foolishness going over here? What's going on? It's foolishness, it's fooling it. I tell you, when you come over here, come over here, bring some boxes. I'm ready to go. I don't want you to hurt nobody. Hold on, hold on, hold on, don't hold on, but you want to be telling nobody. I just no, no, no, check him. You bring it all over if you won't to, I just hold on. What's going on? Hold on, hold on, hold on all that old man, hold on, hold on, hold on. You couldn't hit me. I'm the radio. He can all that old as talking about some damn Honeywell you'll get on the phone. I don't care if I came here. I just heard you, all right. Let me let me take the phone on speaking phone on Bluetooth blue tooth. I'm on earl. Just come and get me. That's all I'm on my I just need you. I'm on my way because say't nothing but fooling it over here, and it's running my pleasure, and it's all in my spirit, and I don't need just got his nest in my spir But I will whip somebody that I do need to. Nobody's nobody. Hold on, hold on, hold on? Who in here? Keep talking about with somebody in Dayne house. He can't get me this Dwyane house, Well it's my house to Dwayne Rolando. Look if your mama had to come in here with all these tight ass pays over everything I put them. I'm a big ass one, what I'm a three as well? Maybe you need to start buying some five. Oh, hold on, hold on, hold on, let me answer the door. Yeah, who is it? He is? Zero? Is up? Oh you will you damn right up? Don't tell me what's going on. I just need you to help me move. That's all I need doing. Do we need to move him? No, you ain't. Dun't. Dn't put your hand on don man, Oh man, you don't come up in, Dwayne. You call moving nothing round? You calling old. I'm calling your ass old, old man. Don't don't. Just let's get up out here and leave. That's all we get. And Dwayne, are not enough for you? Why are you looking at my mama? And what are you talking like that? My pocket knife? Pocket knife? Don't make me grab my pocket? I lose your life. Brought the nie from being here. Let's jimmy rollingda. What are you talking about? I only wants you, That's why I told you how she would well? Why are you looking at her? To I can't she big? She said? She big? She came. We asked her to come so she could help us with the baby. Him with the baby. She can't help herself to me, you don't want you, nobody want you? Wait a minute, Wait a minute, hold on, hold on, it's glass, Mr. That's Mr. Okay, let me play something to you. You. You're in my house sick, understand, and we're about to get at your house, and you need to be a little bit more respectful to the problem. Me is you like my baby and husband. That's what That's what the deal is. That's what the real deal live. And she hypnotizing, that's what it is. That's that's how she got you. That's how she got me. So I know exactly what's going on. You're like, what I see what was happening right here? She wasn't happen with your old earlier. You ain't trying to bacon like you used to. Thank you. You're looking over the young man like you wanted the handless clip. The problem, the problem You want some of my banker that wanted is that's too that's too much woman for you. Gonna player, that's what that is. I'm be game me to some characters and some stuff because Junior, I wanted to get in there because I want to be Rolanda's sister. This man looking at your mom, Mom, I'm gonna be the baby. Just something. We are crazy. But you know what that that argument has happened somewhere a bunch of a lot of But I just, you know, the only thing I just didn't get how the wife was in with the husband on it. But that's what that happens all the time. You never get in a couple of arguments because they're gonna side up and be against you. But with her mother, her mother, it happens. Oh that's the thing I didn't get. It happens. Yeah, I was mad at her. That's your mom who can't who you asked to come? And then it helps with me admitted doing it. You know what, ste Come on, come on, no, you know y'all going to try to put all this for meeting? Yeah, finished your head? Oh all right, you guys can email us to tell us how you felt about today's Strawberry Letters subject why is my son in law watching me? Got? Is Steve Harvey FM. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show. Steve, you are the relationship expert on the show. H and I have a list of things that what women really want and what we want from our men. Women love to be protected. Women of course like men who smell good. We like men who surprise us galore. We love surprises. Women love surprises. We don't care if it's chocolates, if it's love notes, if it's gifts, or even bouquets of flowers. We love flowers. We love everything. Transparency and that's what we love from our men. We love honesty. All you liars out there, that's still the best policy. Never lie. We like when you dress well, when you look nice. We like when you're okay, like when you dress well. Nothing turns off a woman. Let me tell you the top three things the women wontay security absolutely, women want a future. Ye, women won't loyalty. If you give a woman some security, provide her with a good look at a great future, and you give her your loyalty, she writeed that for you, man, security, future and and flowers and chocolates. Don't leave that and love and give and transparency. We don't want you to lie to us. Where was that honesty? That is, if you're loyal, loyal to cover but in your honesty. The loyalty is honesty. Loyalty is honesty, and they want honesty like honest gonna be all over. You can't you can't tell everything. Okay, I agree, with that, you can't tell everything. But we're saying, don't lie. That's what we're saying. We don't want you to lie to us. Sometimes we have excuse me, sometimes we have Why would you have to protect you from the truth. We don't need protecting from the truth. Wants the truth. No, that is not true. That is not why I'm late. Sometimes will require a lie. No, you're protecting yourself. Down my car broke down? No, no, what was her name? No, the time you can do that. I can't go home to you, my wife. But here's the deal. I'm home, so I ain't. Now. Back in the day, you were the best at it. The lie is for the protection of me. It's protection of you, not of the woman. Protection of you too. No, it's not it's not protecting me. No, no, no, from the truth. You don't. We need to hear the truth. We can handle. You can't handle our reaction to the truth. The lie is for you, not for us, for you, because I don't want you to have to go off. No, it's okayka, No, No I won't. Oh yeah, well know if I don't go off, that'll mess right there. When they tell you tell me the truth I'm not gonna be upset. That's okay, that's want to look like the bad guy. We have to say that, yeah, and we have to fix it. Yeah. We have to lie to you guys so we can get the truth out of me. And we know that we like lots of gifts, flowers, you know what about those things, Steve? Yeah, we love all in the yard she's seating. When she pulled in and pull up cheap car, she would go with the B words, so sham thing. J What do you have to say? Three times they didn't work out? I'm done, I'm out. Well did you do any of these things? And I still ended up in court? Now? What y'ellse she got a lot of stuff on that list. Did you give her chocolate? Love notes? Yes, give me an example of one of your love notes getting caught. That's love notes right there. What about honesty? Were you honest? Very honest that one? Where were you lasting? Where were you last night? While you come in so late? Yeah? I don't like that. I don't like questions. No, I don't like when you in your relationship you have to answer to people said, I don't like questions. I don't like them either, But Most men don't like questions. They will not ask me where you going? Honey? You look all nice. You know you got all dressed up, you're smelling good. Where you going? It's nine o'clock, you know, the late in Europe. Oh, you're going to where we live in New York meeting? Where are you meeting? Perhaps I can join you. It will only take me a few minutes to get ready. Now we've meeting at a club. Oh, I love clubs. Oh, which one? The new one? No, it's Oh, it's just a men's club. No women allowed. There will be no women in the club. Hey, well, I know how you are. You don't like men serving you, So I'm surprised you're going to this club at all. Well, they got a shift. They just stick the stuff out to one. Can I ask you a question? Can you tell? Can you say this at home? What you just said? I'm going to meet nine o'clock at night? We're just men at the club with it stick the food that the win. Yeah. I could say that, but the club. You know what's different If I said the club, because you know I don't go. Yeah, but I could. I could say I'm going to a late meet. I got the lives right there after ten o'clock. I could say what, but I'm in a different place in my life now. Yes, I told you settle down. Yeah, going to meeting the nine o'clock because that's the day. I'm oh, that's a raw chicken on your on your head, across your forehead, rack, chicken, you don't cook? Where are you getting? You know he's been hit with one, but it would never have been for me. You're right, and he was by and chicken. You're right though, And the fact that hang off the little tail kind of went in my mouth if I got take slapped out of my mouth with the potential Simonella poet. All right, we gotta go, We'll be back. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, it is time guys for comedy rouelette. You pretty much know the rules, right, Jake, explain it quickly? You want to run it down? Man, just we already done this. Damn people new if you get new lists here wasting time with your nerves, nerves and that bad that needs to be one man, your nerves and day. Give us subject wheel, the subjects on the wheels, fund the wheel. Wad stop. We can do the damn thing. All right, here we go. That is on the wheel man, All right, here we go. Number one there in jail again too. You always take more food than you can bring from a party. Three whatever your uncle is, your daddy that for Look, dude, it's time for you to cut all of that off now. And number five, Man, your nerves are bad. Rolling wheel and do the last it stops. Yea, oh, Man loves you. That's your nerves are bad. Yeah, that's what we do. And we're gonna see. Now we're gonna find out who's really funny. Go ahead, jake. Man. When you say hello to somebody and they go hello, what you mean by hello? Hello? What man's got to be hello in the morning? Why can't it be in the afternoon. I'm tired of people speaking to me here in the damn morning. I ain't got started on my day yet. Every time I look around, somebody, good morning, good morning. What's so damn good about it? Come on, come on, I'll tell you. I'll tell you. When you know your nerve bad. When any sound you're here and you jump fars like a call backfire with you up to this table. Your nerve is bad. You ain't sounds scare you. Come on you when you at the funeral and you asked the pass holl you're gonna be man, We're gonna be with this man. Put it down now, all right? Come on, see your kids walk in the room and go, oh my daddy, and you turn up. What bad hell? Calling me fault? When you have people standing outside your office going no, you're gonna ask him? No you ask No, You're going no, you gonna ask him. I ain't gonna ask if you ask him. We're playing comedy rolettin stuff. Man, your nerves are bad. I'll tell you. You know your nerves bad when you're sitting there shaking, smoking a cigarette. I don't know what you're going through, but your nerves is bad. I don't know what the evidence is, but your ass is shaking. Let me tell you something. When you were at your house and you buy yourself and ain't nobody else in there but some ice moving the glass in the sink, and your ass run through the pit of your dough. When I opened your nerves, this is an honor of our fearless leader, Steve Hardy, that you're talking about, Steve Man, your nerves is bad when you think all your co workers is lying on. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. When you know it's time to go back to church, it's time. You know when it's time to church. Okay, when you know it is time to take yo, but that the church. Somebody needs to lay hands on me right now. Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, How did I get here? When you wake up and you went somebody and you don't know their name, it is time? Who you talk about backsliding? Yeah? How long we've been laying I got handcuffs. You try to go back to church when you wake up in this bike box. You can't explain nothing. Who I'm doing it too much? I'm doing too much. You know, it's hard to go back to When you wake up and you got her phone home? What the hell we have? And it's backwards? You in the back and in the back put in the front. That's a crazy, crazy visual right there. It's time you to go back to church. When you're starting to look at your boys grandmama and starting to feel some time. Yeah back, who is that youth? I never felt this way? Let you know it's time to go back to church. When you see spake marks on your behind and you don't know how they got that. Yeah, you can't excuse me, did you know? And it's a man hand. It's pretty rough way. You know what's time to actually happy day? When your lights watering gay get turned off the same day you can't do nothing. It's time. You know it's time to go back. When you wake up and your whole chest is peer, I need time for you to go back the church. You've been arguing with this fine girl for on ahead, trying to convince hard it ain't no way can be cause it's seven ago. We're not really cousin's now, Come on, how you figuring that? We right down to the fifth? The fifth? It's time to go back to church. You know it's time to go back to church. When you wake up with a tattoo that says Veronica and you don't know about name, run, it's it's time to go to church. When you start stalking anybody, oh little women talking about every way they coming up. Steve's closing remarks at forty nine after the or gather around everyone you're listening to give your closing remarks, are back what you got for us today? You know what I just want to remind people because it's it's a tough thing to cut people out your life. It's a tough decision for people to make because the average person, uh you know, that's a positive nature. They like positive things around them, positive energy, and it it's difficult when you, as a positive or decent or caring person, has to be faced with the decision to cut somebody out your life. And I've had to do it many times, and I'm faced with the decision again even this stage of my life, that are people who I really should not have around me now. Because I have a sense of guilt, I continue to keep them. You know, I come up with excuses for them. You know what they're gonna do? You know, if they're not here, what would they do if if if I remove them, what happens to them? Well, I mean that's because you're caring person, But can I tell you how much that ain't your business. It's really really not. It's not your business, nor should you make it yours, because what will happened is if you guilt yourself into holding on to this person, you will continue to possess that nagging, gnawing feeling that you have every time you around them, because they actually bring no real value to you. Oh they bring you a lot of promises. Oh they bring you a lot of Oh man, this is man. I got something big I'm working on. Oh you hear that all the time? Or I shall appreciate you. Lord, I don't know where I be without you. You've been You've been such a blessing to me. You know you're gonna get it all kinds of ways, and that makes you feel even worse about the inevitable decision that you know you have to make. But let me help y'all understand something right here. People can be manipulative. People can be very, very manipulative. And when a person know they're getting over on you, they say the things because they know you're a decent person, so they say the things to you to keep in the forefront of your mind. And how decent you are. God, bless you. You've been a blessing to me. Lord, I don't know what I do without you. I thank God for people like you. Well, when do I get to thank God for you? When do you become such a blessing to me? When at the point in this relationship where every relationship should be give and take. When do I get to take something out? Because right now, all I'm doing give it. I'm telling you, y'all, I know how you're feeling about cutting these people out your life, but you have got to because if there's a person in your life that's just on the receiving end of your friendship and give you nothing in return, they are on the receiving end of your paycheck and give you nothing in the return. They are receiving end of all your goodness and favors and give you no goodness and favors. You no longer have an obligation to that person. You really don't. And I remind you of something that Bishop Jake said. Sometimes you have to let people go so they can be freed up to their own destiny alone. See, because they keep tying their destiny to yours. But see, God didn't give them your destiny. They got their own destiny. You know, unless you're with your wife and your children, their destinies ain't tied to yours. And once your children get a certain age, your destiny don't belong to them no more. They have to they, as Marjorie says, their wings work. You gotta let them get out there and get the flapping so they can fly. So as you make your list of people who bring you nothing but bad news, they have to go. When you make your list of people who every time they call you they just won't something, they have to go. They have to go because they're slowing you down. They dead. Wait, they're sitting on the wagon and they ain't pushing. They ain't getting out the wig wagon to remove no rocks and debrie out the way. They ain't trying to fill a pothole for you. They don't even repair wagon wheels. They just own your wagon, sitting there, legs up and just chilling you out on a rope, just pulling. You got to get rid of them people. The other people you have to get rid of is sometimey people because you know what's so hard about some timeing people, because you don't never know when their time gonna be because they's some timey. So sometimes they're cool and sometime they ain't. And on the days when you need them be cool, that's what that's one of them. Some days where they are. So now you got on these sometime people in your life and you've been going, well, they're cool over here, but they ain't cool over there. If the people in your life ain't cool everywhere you take them and every time you talk to them, you got to get rid of them too. I'm sorry. Now that's gonna shorten your list, But what good is the list if it ain't a good list? Stop just trying to have a list. It's like people in a bad relationship. So you're gonna stay in the bad relationship just so you can say you're in a relationship. Or will you free yourself so that you can be freed up to your destiny to possibly be in a good relationship. But you're never getting a good relationship if you're gonna stay and sit in the bad relationship. What you's proven year after year after year to be of no substance and no just no goodness for you. It just does nothing for you. But you're gonna stay in it just so you can say you in a relationship. That's crazy, man, that's crazy. So y'all think about it. Those people that you gotta cut loose, You got a tough decision, but you have to do it. God to bless you for it too. And guess what, you have more more free time, You have more money and everything when you let them go and you don't even have to deal with the aggravation to them anymore. That's an amazing thing. So it's my clothes remarks. Just want to remind you all that have a great weekend, everybody for all Steve every contests. No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey fm dot com. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show.