Y'all know what time to y'all don't know y'all baby all sung looking back to back down, giving them mo like themaking buck bus things. And it's touble y'all to be true. Good to tea Steve hu Yeah, listening to me each other for stoo barn quickly to Moby, why don't you join yea? Moby joining me said do go turn to go? Yeah, you got you gotta turn you to turn at the time, lobby got to turn out to turn the water the water go. Come come on your back, Uh huh, I sure will come on and everybody you are listening to the voice, come on dig me now one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay, here we go. You know what's important. What's what can be a huge part of your success is if you if you find a balance, if you find a balance in your life. That's that's been very important for me. And I've really never phrased it this way until now, but I was kind of thinking about it after my wife and I mean, we set up one night recently, man for hours. When I tell you, we talked for hours. Now listen this. The conversation started as an argument. Well, it started as a conversation that turned into an argument that turned into a therapeutic conversation. You know, we just had one of them and and it was ours. But but my wife and I we have a very unique way. Uh. If one of us starts to raise our voice, the other one just says, hey, okay, now, we're not gonna accomplish anything like that, so so we go okay, okay. Then that's usually me, because you know, I'm a man. The one anger that we that we gravitate too quickly more than the other ones. Instead of their loving, caring, sharing anger, we can we see see me and know how to deal with anger really well because we know what it means. I'm mad now if what I am. Out of all of that, what I what I really learned was you gotta find a balance in your life. You know. I often come on here and this is kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I I try to remind people about that most important relationship between you and God. And that's that's the apex of it. That's that's the that's the top of the crown. You gotta form the relationship with God. If you don't everything else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband without God. It's hard to be a good family man without God. It's hard to be successful without God. Man, it's hard to be hard to get through this thing called life without God. So that's clear. But at the same time, you can't talk about God. Twenty four seven. You got to go to work. Come on, man, let's just be real. I ain't going I ain't your past, and I ain't at your church. But let's just be real about it. You know, people tell you gotta keep your mind stayed on Him and all like that. That's that's a true statement. You gotta keep your mind stayed in that area. I don't not here to tell you how to live, but you gotta keep your mind stayed in that area of God, of doing the right thing, caring about people. That's what I took it as. Now I could be wrong. I apologize if I'm not saying it the way you've been taught. I can only do me now. But after that, you got to go to work. You gotta have some fun. You gotta take care of your business, and that's the balance you have to find. So it once you focus on shooing up your relationship with God. You gotta you gotta balance this now. Now, you got to allocate some time. I don't care who you are, for your family. If you're gonna have a family, you got to allocate some time for him. See, we can't just marry these women or make these kids and then neglect them and fellas, especially if I'm talking to me and out him. Ladies, you can listen to. But listen. If you find yourself struggling in your life, man, and you can't seem to get it together, Let's just go over a couple of things. The first two things. If you find yourself struggling, you can't seem to pull it together and reach your goals and get the where you want to go. Let's let's just do a check. How is your relationship with God? And then next how much time are you taking to allocate for your family? Now, your family don't always live in your house, but if you made them, they yours and the responsibility to them is never lessing because you don't stay that no more. Because you and the girl broke up, you and the woman don't speak that a man that don't ever release you from the obligation. Feel me when I'm telling you this now because I'm not telling you something I'm wondering about. I've had to live through them years. So two things you can start looking at. If you're not where you want to be, and you ain't, you ain't really solid. You can't figure out why you keep spending your wills. Have you just done a random inventory, man, If you just checked on your relationship with God? Have you checked on the time you're spending dedicated towards your family, your children that you've created. If them two things is out of saint man, that I can tell you right now, you can go on and get to explain in yourself away just like that. Hey man, how come you ain't where you want to be? Comes? Man? I really ain't. But if you really ain't, then you really ain't. The third thing is you got to allocate the necessary time for your business. You got to handle your business. All of this, man, is the way it works, and the order. The order is God first, family second. Then you got to handle all your business. But as me, and this is what we do. If I don't handle my business, I can't take care of my family, true statement. But if your business is in front of your family, you out of order. Now, that's all we're talking about now in it. See, that's that's all we really saying here now, fellas you know, you know I mean, I mean, come on, man, you know, let's let's have a real conversation about being better. You know, if you have created these children, you gotta handle your business. You may not like the girl no more. You and the woman might have broken up, y'all might go your own way, But what that got to do with the child though, Man, you got to handle your business. They got to know who daddy is. That's your obligation, man. And God ain't letting you off the hook for that. Try go ahead and try and and thank you. Gonna get off the hook with that because you're not man, You're just not. I'm sorry, man, dog Steve, Why are you coming like that? Because I did it like that. I did it, man. I was over here trying to reshape my life, getting myself up on my feet when I was homeless man, and trying to come back. Man, I thought I had to take care of me first, and then so I neglect it cared about them kids. Man. That ain't high work. Man, God, keep us knee on my neck for a long time for that one right there, until I finally learned the lesson hold up, man, put these phone calls in and go spend some time, do something. And then it started turning around for me. You know, I can't be there all the time because I am out here on the ground in the hustle. But at the same time, man, some more phone calls, some more letters, some mo ha ha he he's something. Then take care of your business man. You got to work hard to be successful. You know. Sometimes I don't put that in there. I just live in and I expect my sons to emulate that. But I gotta talk to him all the time. How hard you got to work to be something. It's all out of salt on it. Man. If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You gotta wake up every day trying to get there, and you can't get tired of it because it's it's it's it never ends. You're gonna always be this way. That's how life is designed and set up. You got to be a hard worker. Man. If you're always looking for some time to chill and man, I wanna go do what I want to do, you ain't gonna make it in order to be successful, you have to do a series of things that you're uncomfortable doing, and work is the thing that most of us are uncomfortable doing. It's so much easier to chill, man. I wish I could kick back with a cigar man all the time, but I can't. Ain't man, I can't because I got to work. Then, the last piece of the balanced balanced pieces. You gotta take some time out to enjoy yourself. But if you ain't where you wanna be, you ain't got a lot of time to enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, that this balance is even. It's a whole lot of God, a whole lot of family, a whole lot of business, and a little bit of chilling. The chilling can't be equal to the family, the business, or your God. If the chilling is equal to any of them, you ain't gonna make it. Quit chilling, man, and go to work like a man. Do what you're posed to do. Work on your family, work on your relationship, work on your God, work on your business. And then when you chill, you might not chill is long, but your show gonna chill bigger. You're gonna ball bigger babies. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and that means that's the buffoonery views right there. Start it out real, strong man, Yeah, just say work little fell off. You want to do that kid called the buffooner? Rem that is when you hear that somebody about about picking people but to get out of a car. Yeah, whenever you boy, joy of my life. Short people too talking about keep Tommy jumping out Shirley Strawberry. Hey, good morning, Steve. How you doing. Let's sound frustrated. Okay, we have plenty of reasons. Well he's not here, so he gets the jokes. Call it for real. Hello, good morning to the crew. Baby watsa video on Tasha? Tasha with flippers so damn hard? I said, the white kid? Is this? What a little Tasha? Man? Tasha? Really she's up man, she'd be dancing her back. Yeah. He's gone to get a gun. Yeah he goad. It hurts us to the girl. We'll see right there that statement you just made. We're getting the gun. Yeah, the gym every day, every nothing. Yea, here they come, they're gonna be full of you know what, we be as we fit to put a stop to this kill morning up. Yeah we didn't. Jeff Brown up, Steve, how that what's going on? Did letter? Yeah? Tommy's on the way, folks here, Tommy's here. All right. You made it, I made it, Just got d Why bother to slice you up like a turn up? Why was you gonna do me? No? Man, you know if you're not here, you know the rules. Tommy. If you're not not, hear you, the jail the whole town. You was on that ship. I didn't let him do you. First of all, you don't want to say that he was on the ship. He did you? Boy? Oh? He did? Did? Somebody said, well, damn? How long is the ceremony to be a prison? You said that not only is your principal, she's teacher of the year. Also what oh congratulations, congratulations. That must make you feel really good. Yeah, with my dumb behind, is that what you're saying? No? No, no, no, that's what I said. How this girl became and teaching any words of I said what I shad? Al Right, listen, it is time for something funny. Uh. You know Steve always has a funny story to tell us. Over the weekend. Family feud started over the weekend, so we'll hear from Steve and the crew when we come back at thirty two after the hour. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time for something funny. You started at Steve the new season of Family Feud. What's going on? Okay, let us have I don't know how much of this is gonna make the air, but Lord, Hember said, got a Google? Are you? I go over to this family. I don't even want to say their name, just because I don't want no trouble because I don't know how that's gonna go. Uh. We got two identical twins on the ends. One is the captain and one is the number five player. They were about my age, I would assume, because he was born in the fifties and kept telling them. Then that was her brother, the twins brother next to him, and then it was the twins brother's wife, and then it was this girl that was their niece. Okay, so I'm going down the line. I meet him. She introduced herself. She team captain. I said, introduced your people. She introduced, and that's my twins sister on the on the end. They look alike. They're identical got no problem with that. But come to find out. Now, let's go down the line. I go meet the brother next to him. He trains Tennessee walker horses. I've never met a person who trained Tennessee walks, those high stepping horses. Yeah, yeah, he trains them. The woman next to him was his wife. They like me and Margie. They're blended family. Uh, but they've been dating for twenty six years. What quiet Jake. So finally they're getting married four years ago and together their kids is like thirty seven, thirty six, thirty twenty nine the youngest one is. But then here coming nine year old. Okay, so we got start out. I didn't get into that. It just got out of hand. So I go down to the end to meet the twining system and I couldn't pronounce her name. Now listen, now, you know it's gonna be good because I I remember how to spell it l A v A l e r I A l A v A l e r I A. Oh man, that's her name. So now I'm down now. Yeah, So I'm struggling because with my public school education, I'm trying to sound out lava l a v A lava Leria Lava Liria. I got it, no, Steve. So I go back up on the end to her twin sister. I'm reading her twin sister name. Her twin sister name Valerie, just Valerie. H I know Valerie. Everybody know a validate everyone. So I go back down there and I go, I don't understand, and she says, well, were identical twins. I said, what's your name, Love Valerie? I said, Love Valerie? What and your sister name? Valerie? Got sick of this mess. I'm not trying to come up with no name for these twins. You're gonna be Valerie, and you're gonna be love Valide. But now, what is the Valerie? Is v A l e r I E? Valerie? No, this is l A v A l e r I A. But no, it's Valerie. No, no, no, I'm telling your skip what you're saying. They have told me. It ain't no damn no Valerio, it's Valerie, said, I got to tell y'all something wrong. So I go back up to the top find out that the one up top name was spelled Valerie v A l e r I E. Got it, she said, But I changed mind. Steve she said, I changed it to I E because everybody was doing to me what you was down are doing to my sister, saying I was Valeria and my name is actually Valerie. I'll be there, I'll be there. Oh, but the story go deeper than y'all. Do I have time? Y'all got three minutes? Okay too? Oh I need a little bit more. All right, let me try. Okay, here we go. The niece says, I said, how you doing? First of all, she had a voice of boys, like a baby. So I asked him was that her real voice? She said, yes, this maybe a voice. So I said, okay, here or they's laughing, I said, so. And I'm married with eight month old and the man in my dreams, I said, okay, man, and you dream How did y'all meet Steve? It's really a god, the god sin. So this is how she met her husband. She was dating a scumbag man. By her own admission, he was a scumbag man. Her best friend was telling her you need to drop him and stop dating me, and like that, her best friend is a man, got it go, begging her to leave him, leave him, leave him. She he said, I'm gonna find you somebody, so you can quit dating them types of man. Okay. Seven months after, he made a statement, I can't finish this story. Do we come back? Yeah, this is the most incredible story you've You've got to hear this. Can we come back and tell it? Okay, we can do both, but listen to this. Though she's a nurse. He just to set it up for the next break. Her best friend dies from complications. The dude. Yeah, her best friend dies from complications. It's like comet hangar for sure. Coming up next to the end of Steve's story. We'll be back to hear it. That's all I can say. Right after this. I can't wait. You're listening. Here we go, Steve, come on with this story. All right. Let me reset the story for you. Pretty little girl got eighteen month old baby, oh baby voice. She's a nurse. She's dating a scumbag. Her best friend tells, so, why do you date men like that? I'm gonna find you a man myself. The man she was dating, the scumbag, is still in her life. The lady is a nurse. Seven months after the boy, the man who is her best friend tells her, I'm gonna find you a man he quote unquote dies from complications. Okay, okay, I'm on TV complications, Tommy. That's what she said, which is, Oh, you're gonna get real curious in a minute. I'm good at storytelling now, because this is how I got there from me, she says. He passes. Now the artist is going, Oh, but I ain't going all because I'm looking at this like. So she has to go to his funeral. His family ships his body across state lines so she can be buried closer to where he was born. The body goes to a funeral home where her now her husband works. Okay, she got her husband. Now, remember she was dating the scumbag, the man the best friend tolder. She got to meet somebody he got He want to introduce her to somebody. He died seven months later. The family, having the funeral closer the way he was born, ships his body cross the line. Her now husband, he works at the funeral home that the body got sent to. She walked in the funeral home. Now we're supposed to be grieving. She looks across the room and sees this gorgeous hook a man. But he wanted the funeral director, so he goes back outside and asked her girlfriend, who is that over that girl? She says he worked at the funeral home. She says, go in there and find out if he married. Her girlfriend goes in there and find out he's single. She tell him to give him her phone number. Now listen to me. Listen your best friend dad laying up now him starting in a direct man. Yeah. So now I'm sitting up here here in this story and the audience is going, and I'm going, what is y'all see that? This It's just a case case a man dies from quote unquote complication. She happens to be a nurse. Happened to it all the gin't know each A year and a half later day May I said, girl, I told that Ordence. I said, I don't know what y'all. So I leaned in close to it, and I said, the camera took take close up and she said, why you want to do that, Steve, I said, in case there's a reward for you. I know that I found you own family feeling. The audience is holly. Then I walk to the front of the stage and I said, and let me tell y'allself, if y'all don't think that this death by Complications is under investigation. Y'all is crazy, I said, and I am here to let you know that I am officially re launching the investigation. It's the craziest man. And she was just upset with me. Why are you saying this is God's intervention? God, I had nothing to do it. You're not gonna blame this. And what did your friend die from? I told you, complications, girl, I said, what we're gonna do is I'm gonna start a petition. I'm gonna get this body exuded. I learned all this on for HISIC signs. Your ask don't know who you play the girl because I watch it for ENSIC five. We're gonna this body. What the name complication? Now hold up? Finishing story. The man is now the funeral owner of the business and has just opened up his second funeral parlor. So the audience started clapping us. What is y'all clapping for? Now? He got all these bodies because guess why she somewhere serial? She just picking up the phone. Hey, you need to get up here. And I ain't looking good keep the business. That's crazy crazy. It was the funniest a nurse, A nurse and all of a sudden, he got opened up to femeral homes. Business is good girl, Yeah, opened up another fly, worked down normal now. He told them he got a change. Like how you said she get down there and it all said, they know each other. I went to high school with this girl that her family owned funeral homes. Man. She looked dead every day, every day. Her makeup was just never the right, never the right. You're they're using everybody. Yeah, people homes don't laugh at all. I have no emotion like the I R s. Don't find nothing, or you find one that laughs a lot. You're like, wait a minute, why are you so happy? Right? How are things with you today? Yes? And those are the women. How is your family? Yeah? How's everybody's else? You don't give me your damn call, dog, I don't shake hands. I had somebody came on Harvey's hundreds one time on my talk show. He came down. He was all excited, little yoga black dude, What do you do for living? I'm in the business of all business. I'm a mortician. Took my hand away from him, and I couldn't stand. You can just give him. You just gave him the money. Hunt. You're not playing I thought about using a hurse for a punk. What you playing go out to a barber shop and take the body out and take it in there to get a hair culled. Yeah, now you've really gone too far. I got a funeral in the hour and a half because somebody cut his hand. Here to knocking out, here to knocking WHI is it? You taught me that's what's going on. Take the body, it's going down. Just stop abody to get that hair cut right. But we're going to the funeral. Can you talk about the morning while it's pat to the whole shop? Hey, Tommy, but get some people to bang. Bring the casket in Lord and set it in the floor. All right, guys, coming up the top of coming up in the top of the hour. Now that Mother's Day is over, people are thinking about summer vacation and all that. But we're also thinking about church complaints, you know, because yesterday was Sunday. It was Mother's Day, and the reverend and the deacon will be here with church complaints right after that. You're listening to the Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, it's Monday, yesterday was Mother's Day. Church complaints. You excuse me today or church complaints will be of the iditant version because of the fact that it was Mother Day yesterday. I'm assuming there should not be much to complain about. A good head or deacon. I don't know if you are aware of it. Yesterday passed it. But yesterday here at the church we had DNA family testing done on Mother's Day. Um, brother Cyrus Austin has father fifteen children, and I don't know if you realize it or not, your younger son Darneill belongs to Cyrus as well. What so there is a serious he has fifteen children in this church that he that he has father that we are just now finding that due to the DNA family tested. We were trying to do family trees, but it went a different direction. Well, I have news for you. If you think that almost see here and let you tell me that my youngest boy done Neil. It's another man's son. D DNA has taken on the whole new meaning because DNA now standing for Darnielle needed another damn That mean that that's similar as that. Alright, don don there, Daddy gonna have to reimburse me for all the money out of lot done that really? Head you don't have to get inline. It's other till than along with yours. Ah, that's all my hand fast I think. No, no, no, no, it ain't all you had. You ain't doing no. Let me invite my brother in here, Riverend nor do you have an enough we might have what we can play over there, because we can't played none of those not what. So there's a meeted in meeting rooms seven meeting rooms seven white grandparents, Black brand babies will meeting meeting help coming demonstration, White parts, black brand babies. We we want to thank you for that. We found that a necessary thing because some of the white grandparents bringing the black grandkids over here looking crazy, hello, wild and so they don't know. So we're having a very special how come and demonstration, very well needed. Several key or ex members have been there. Angelina Jolie and Brad Pit came to some one time. Brad gave up and just said I'm out to hell with it. Madonnad has participated in the class and so it's a wonderful class. Oh it's being hit it up by Vidal stand Bullock will also be there because he has and they are. What they've done is they've gotten up, Vidal says, soon grandson Jerome, the members of the people who work at Duke's hell Grist and Company on Sufa eight for coming up. So the Sufa people have stepped in now that now we've had some problems with the Sofa eight sponsor because all the white grandparents kids cannot get the smell and they don't understand it. They fight me. Give this in a minute. We have to move on. Guys, Steve please introduced him and it is time lend and gentlemen, she's here. Without further du the lovely and talented ms and trip. Thanks Steve. Good morning everybody. This is entered with the news. Well, today is the official opening of the US Embassy in Jerusalem, the new one. A US delegation arrived in Israel yesterday in advance of today's ribbon cutting, and among them the President's daughter Ivanka, her husband Jared Kushner, as well as Tragedy Secretary Steve Manuchin. Now, Palestinians opposed the relocation from Tel Aviv, calling the Trump administration's controversial movie illegal ever since President Trump made this announcement last December, it's time to recognize Jerusalem as the capital of Israel. Now there have been widespread protests by Palestinians. Israeli troops have reportedly killed at least forty nine protests, the latest a teenager, and more than one hundred thousand protesters are expected today. The Palestine claims the east side of Jerusalem and that that is the problem, and they wanted that as part of their capital in a two state resolution. That's the problem. Jerusalem is sacred to Jews as the side of the ancient temples. It's sacred to Christians because it's where Jesus spent his last stays, and it's sacred to Muslims as the site of their revered Dome of the Rock shrine. It, of course, to a campaign with a campaign promise, President Trump has announced his plan to help Americans pay for their medications. The Trump says that he also wants to increase competition while reducing regulations so the prescription drugs can get to the market quicker and cheaper. Housing Over a week after the Killaway volcano erupted on the Big Island of Hawaii, scientists say that another fissure has opened up, spewing lava and raising the possibility of explosion. So more evacuations over there are in order. UH United Airlines in the news again, this time because of the report of a lawsuit brought by a Nigerian woman who was taken off a plane in twenty six because a white man who was sitting in her assigned see by the way, said he couldn't not fly with her because she smelled a white. Alpharetta Georgia copp has resigned after he was seen and heard on video screaming and cursing at an elderly black woman as he pulled her out of her car after she'd been pulled over on the traffic stop outside Atlanta. They were five other cops involved, but Officer James leg was most disrespectful and rough. There's an old saying that says, treat others think you want to be treated. That's the bottom line again. James Lug has resigned from the force. The Alpharetta Department conducting an investigation. And Tops of the Box Office this weekend no real surprise. Avengers Infinity war to bring together a group of remarkable people to see if we could become something more. The Avengers made another sixty two million dollars more entertainment ahead to today's trending topics as well. Twenty minutes after the hour of Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, But just last week, you know, we talked about Childish Gambino, his latest music video, which confronts the reality to being black in America. Here's some of the just a few of the latest racial racial incidents that we've seen splashed across our TV screens and heard about on the radio and things. The Starbucks in Philly incident. Remember that the police were called because, uh remember that one. The police were also called because the young black female Yale college student. I know you guys heard about this fellows fell asleep while studying in the common area and uh that was crazy. How about the three black women staying at an Airbnb in California, They were detained by police. Yeah, that was horrible. Police said that the neighbor called because the guests didn't waiver or smile at her as they were leaving the airbnb. The president of North Stroom rap Rack department store has apologized to three young black men for racial profiling and accusing them of shoplifting in the St Louis area while they shopped for prom outfits waffle house in Alabama when the employees called the police when the women refused to pay for plastic utensils. And now uh Dr Bernice King, the youngest daughter of civil rights icon Martin Luther King Jr. Is a calling for Americans to boycott waffle House after a video posted to social media showed a young black man and prom attire being choked by a police officer and slammed to the ground outside the waffle house location in Warsaw, North Carolina. This is ridiculous, and this is every day, every day, every day, every day, just like a special time to isolate every day. What's what's happening is I don't think there's an increase or anything. I think this has been happening. It has happened repeatedly. It's just now we have the power of social media and camera phones and technology. Technology is reporting the dark underside of this country to everybody who becomes shocked to see it. But it's we've we've most of us have known this. And now if this stuff is gonna have to this stuff at waffle houses, you know, man, it's it's got to be something because I'm just gonna tell you too. You know, you don't have to be trained or the You know, most waffle House employees are really kind people, you know, most of them are. But there's I can assure you, there's no training at waffle House is about to do. And if you're gonna bring these under qualified people into your establishment that is now going to represent your brand, then y'all need to start doing some type of racial sensitivity training for these people. I got your paying minimum wage and all like this, but minimum wage you're gonna bring in thoughts? Oh wow? Yeah? Alright, well hold that thought. Steve More on racism and just being black in America in about ten minutes at thirty or four after the hour you're listening, She's Steven Show. All right. We were talking about the realities of racism, um and being black in America, all of these recent racial incidents that have been happening like at the waffle House, at Starbucks, at Airbnb, Nordstrom, rack and on and on. And now Dr Bernie's King, the youngest daughter of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Is calling for Americans simply to boycott waffle House. Well, look, you know this is gonna make everybody start thinking because a few things here. First of all, there's nothing new. It's been happening. Like I said, technology and phone cameras have exposed it and social media to the masses. It's just like the first time when America got to see from television Connors to television cameras exactly what Bull Connors was doing two people down in Alabama that they didn't know. Well, once they know that became this outcry. Well, this is something that we've all already known for quite some time. So this is nothing new for us, but now we're being exposed to it. But these companies are gonna have to get into some training program for these under qualified people who don't qualify to work any other place, or because the job conditions are so bad that they take these jobs. There's nothing wrong with walking walk working at a waffle house. Most people I've encountered a waffle house have been really, really kind people through my years of experience at waffle house, they're very nice people. But you're also dealing with the class of people also too, who are not trained to do much of anything else. So now they bring their low uh thinking sales to work and now here they go, and now all of a sudden, here come a black person. Oh we got trouble. No, we don't have trouble. No we don't. And so now we've got to address this about the sensitivity training, just like Starbucks is doing. Now. Also, do I think that there's a slight rise in everything because President has created a climate for now all of these right bart right at right groups to come forward because they man, as they claim it is now in the White House and they've risen up. And it's brave and a cool thing to be a skinhead white or an right white person or white power white person. Look, I ain't got no problem with white power. You can have all the white power you want. You've been headed. So I don't, I don't. I don't see the need for a damn group. Really, you got everything. But but if if that's what you want to do, that's fine, but it cannot be at the expense of people who are non white. And that's the problem and this whole thing that we're doing. See how country, just this freedom of speech is too much freedom. You can't freely get a permit to come down a street that I pay taxes for to tell me how much you hate me because of my color, my sexual preference, or my race. I'm sorry, but you can't get to permit to come down a public street. But they get these people permits to come down and spew their racial racial bigotry and they walk down the street that we pay taxes for. That ain't right. And so Seemen, we got to readjustice her and regardless, that's what our president said. That are not good people on both sides. I'm sorry, but you cannot be in a hate group and hate a person because of their sexual preference, their race, their religion and then call yourself a good person. You're not. You're not a good person. And I don't care what he said. But he's made them feel like because they're playing his tapes at these organizations. Man, that's the ugly part about repeat. Mm hmmm. Yeah, I'm glad you said that, Steve, because a lot of people are saying that they feel empowered now, these racists because of who's in the White House. They feel empowered to um, you know, take these advantages and take these liberties because he won't say nothing against it because they are part of his base. Mm hmm. And nothing is bigger for a man than his power and his money, and anything that attacks either one of those things, he's gonna have a problem, And anything that aids him in getting that power of money, he's gonna side with dus. We have good people on both sides and we don't. All right, you can go to all social media, uh Steve Harvey FM if you want to comment, And coming up next it is the Nephew with his braink phone call of the day right after this. At this you're listening to the Steve Coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after, it's today's Strawberry Letter, the subject can't judge a book by its cover. But up next it is the nephew right here with today's pring phone call. What you got now? Don't over here? You know you know how you go through your albums? Can you go through you songs? You know you're trying to figure out what you want to hear. That's what I'm doing. What you're feeling calm? I don't know it's you. I'm still not have old triosity. What you're not gonna do is hate on my favorite prayer all time. Do the security guys have you done that one sleeping security guard. You know, let's go sleeping security guard, security booth. Man, help you? Uh this circuit, I can barely het is this? Is this a security booth down by the by the gate? Yes, sir, this security booth. Yeah. Listen, man, it's some people next door to me. They keep I'm hearing a bunch of scuffling and stuff going on, but I ain't you know, I ain't really show what's happening. I know, I know I'm heard this lady scream or something. Man, But I just okay, so you can give us the unit number that you're in. We could have somebody come right over there and check that out. Hello, sir, sir um Hello, okay, yeah, I gotta I gotta sleep in this auto. Man. So I'm honest. People next door to me, man, they was I mean, they were sitting there. I heard this lady screen and I just I ain't wanta know about this, you know, start nothing, because I know they was aging pretty pretty heavily that I heard it. I know they must have been fighting because I hear I understand, sir, Sorry, what the unit are unions? Hello? Sir? Are you there? Hello? Hello? Hello, yes, I'm here. Are you okay, you're security guy, right, Yes, sir, you called us about ten minutes ago and we've been trying to find out what unit you're well, yeah, man, the people up here, man, they are and I'll be I'm hearing mold people over that night and they're fighting. Man, I know, I hear too. It's gotta be too mean and they're fighting. This lady over but the un sir. He some kids over that to it. Sir. We need to know the unit so that we can come out and investigate. Hello, hello, sir, Hello, Hello, hello sir. Hey, hey, look, I cannot do this all day. I am trying to work. I cannot be around with you on the phone. Could you please give me your unit numbering over that they argument? Man? I know, yes, you have said that they don't argue. I heard you when you said that they will arguing, Sir. If you just give me that unit number that either you're in or the union number you hear the no it's coming from, we could have somebody to come over and check that out immediately. So what unit number are you in? Again, sir? Hello, sir? Do you hear them? Argent? See let me put snort. I need the unit number. Let me listen. I'm gonna put the phone up. Do you hear yes, sir, But I don't hear the unit number. I need the unit number. Without the unit number, we're just having a conversation. Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello, are you there? Yoh yeah, oh An you checked on the people, No, sir, we have not checked on the people because we have not been able to get the unit number from you, sir. Ll sleep. Every time he gets head of telling something, fall sleep, Come tell you you got to hit it, keeps following the sleep. Hey man, come here, dude, this guy follows sleep on the phone. I think it's unit out of him to keep falling the sleep. Hello, sir, Love, Sir, Sir, Hey man, I don't know what unit he's in. Keeps following a sleep. Every time I asked you something if he falls asleep. He keeps telling me that over that fight. But I don't then he won't tell me to you. I don't sorry, I don't know you what the would you wake up to sleep? Hey? I got a guy on the phone and he says if they get to hear some screaming over it by his unit, but he's following asleep. I don't can't get him on. Get him to tell me with the unit number. Hey, dude, come in, listen to it. Listen Hello, I'm gonna need you to wake up, sir. Sorry, could you please give me the unit? Yeah? I gotta ask you something. How come y'all all y'all doing? Just sit on y'all to watch cars come in and out that door, and of helping people that need helping like you want you shut your housing at me. You need to do your damn job. You read a cop. I'm a read I'm a red cop. Fall asleep? Give you don't number? Please? I give you the new or number. You're ready for the unit number? Are you? Are you listening to me? Yes, listen to you, sir. Death isn't a few timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got crank by your co workup y'all crazy. Yeah, it's not funny, man, It is not funny. Y'all got me out here walking around this conflict looking for people hollering and screaming. You're sleeping second, put it out, Okay, let me let me ask you something man. What is what is the baddest radio show in the Landing Shore? See it really ain't the security guard that sleep is me falling asleep? Yes, yes, while he trying to get to what's going on and keep falling asleep too much. But I got this made, walking all over them, try to figure out what's happening, don't matter what taking baby drink alicious, I'm prinkinglicious, feel good. Nothing, Hello you Tommy, can't wait to come in here with your one. I like what They don't even as you. They just go stomach boom, prank bruises. All right, well, listen. The Prince Estate has made a deal with Title Can release new music from Prince's vault. The streaming service co owned by jay Z, of course, will release an exclusive album I've Never Before Heard Material next year two thousand nineteen. The plan is for the album to stream on Title for fourteen days, with downloads available seven days into the period. The album will be available at a later date in physical media. Jay Z will work with the Princess date on song selection. He says, our only goal is to share Princess music with his fans, as the Prince has an album ready to be released and we're still waiting on Kanye's music alright. Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letter. Today's subjects can't judge a book by its cover. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, right now, it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationship, on dating, on work, on sect, on parenting, and more, submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. H Steve, you have anything you want to add to that? Oh, you know, just go ahead and click cleans. It's not like your song. Just go aheadad and click. Just go ahead and click old real damn click buckle up here it is the Strawberry Letters. All right, thank you? Enough subjects can't judge a book by its cover. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been dating the six four tall Drink of Water for a few months. He is honest, generous, humorous, and fun to be around. We decided it was time to take the next step in our relationship since we have been flirting and making suggestive comments to each other for weeks, so we did the deed. If you get my drift, and let me tell you, you cannot judge a book by its cover. With all of his tall and chocolate and goodness, he is not packing a thing. I mean, he couldn't even hurt a fly. I couldn't use any of my normal tricks because he couldn't stay in the game. Every time that I tried, I knew you would love this letter, Steve. Every time that I tried my swivel and the hip move, he slid out of bounds. My boyfriend is from the Motherland, and some stereotypes, some stereotypes are very true, so it's hard for me to go from an anaconda to a garter snake. Uh. And another thing. He talked NonStop while we were getting busy. Whose whose is it? Do you like that? Did you did you want me when you first saw me? I mean really, only men who are bringing it are allowed to talk it, are allowed to talk smack and ask questions. Stephen Shirley, I need you rolls advice? What do I do with little fella? How? How important is great sex in a relationship? I cannot fake it again, but I also don't want to leave him over something so little, no pun intended. I think it was. It was pretty loud, pretty clear. Yeah, uh, you know what. It depends on what your plans are with with this man in the future, if you if you have you guys have future plans like him. You say he's honest, generous, humorous, and fun to be around. Is that where you want to keep it? I mean, do you want to keep it at the fun stage? You haven't mentioned catching serious feelings for him, or love or anything like that. Uh so what is it that you want? Just the sex? And to answer your question, yes, sex is very important in a relationship. But you're not in a relationship or are you? I mean, I'm not really clear. You've known this guy for a few weeks. Uh, you all are having relations though you I don't know about a relationship, but you are having relations Uh So, if you decide to stay with this guy, you know what you're in for. You know, because you've already taken it for a test drive. So you have to decide if that's what you want. You'll have to weigh in if having a good man with a small package can satisfy you in a relationship. And uh, you've got to stop and if you can, please stop comparing him to your ex with the anaconda, because that's not gonna make this relationship last. You know uh when you guys are getting busy, Steve, Well, well here we go again. I've been serious for a couple of letters. Brother, well it's over you back. Yeah, here we go, fellas subject. Can't judge your book by a cover, the letter titling. The letter should be how do I get this over You? Just need to take the sea off of this cover. Oh and change the how do I get this over cut? This ain't gonna la Stephen Sherley, I've been dating a six folk tall tall Dracob war Honest, he's generous, he's here us. He got to be funny, is just about to begin. See that's how you know you believe he's honest, generous and humorous. Yes, he's humorous, and the jokes is just beginning. And he found to be around like a short clown jumping out of votes wagon girl. We decided it was time take the next step, because we've been flirting and making suggested comments for weeks now, so we did. Indeed, if you get my drill and let me tell you, you cannot judge your book, Bries, come with all that is tall and shocklate the goodness he ain't packing a damn than ready. Yes, because he ill go. He ain't packing a damn thing. I mean, now here where to let her get good. He couldn't even hurt a fly. You are in here, illy quipped with a woman who wants to be hurt, put something on me. Ain't me hot lot, But he couldn't even hurt a fly. And then she tricked because in the next statement, she said, I couldn't use any on my normal tricks. She got tricks. Tricks is for kids, selling rabbit for not in the bad room, tricks for growing for this ain't a boxing seal, this growing as woman tricks who wants to be hurt. You can't hurt a fly. And she can't use normal her normal tricks because because she got tricks growing women, tricks ain't for kids. This ain't sill this bad room at she got tricks you and he ain't got nothing to handle the tricks because she said, because if she did her tricks, he couldn't stay in the game. Because see here was wanted the tricks. Every time I tried my swivel in the hip moved you know, pop popping, moving round, boom boom, he fell out the game. And we know what that means. Yes, he's off the field. Yeah, he out of box over there by the gator y tablet. Put the pop pop slip slip. Move on him. That his is over here where you're helping it. Alright back on the field. Well I didn't call you out to hang on, Steve, I know you're excited. We'll have part two of Steve's response to Can't Judge a Book by Its Cover coming up at twenty three after the hour. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's go with part two of today's Strawberry letter. Can't Judge a Book by its cover? Is the subject k judge a book by his cover? She'd a met old big six fold black palos what she can I'll be dead black, hemful is hell six foot folk, tall, generous, honest, humorous, very funny. You're about to find out how funny he is. All y'all finally decided it is time to go on and do it. It starts popping off and you discover he's not packing a damn thing. He couldn't hurt a fly. Once again, we're talking about a woman who won'ts to be hurt. But you can't make no, can't't no, what none of that? What too watch too much? Too much? None of that? Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait hold up, hold up, none of that, but slow down, none of that, none of that. It's been a minute. Boy, I can't I can't breathe. That ain't none of that. So now she's so disappointed. She couldn't even use none of her tricks. She got tricks. Every time she tried my swivel in the hip move you know where you're going to the right, to the left, he slid out of bounds. He out the game. Little tator can't stay up? What is tat like Tater tott as in Tater tott little junior man. Wow. So now she's so hurt and disappointed. She don't know what's going on. It didn't got to the point now where she then wrote this letter into us, and it's say because she wants this relationship, but he can't try this now. Her problem me is she's using comparison because her ex boyfriend was from the motherland Africa, and some stereotypes are very true. That's hard for me to go from anaconda to a garden state and another thing here the part where he got good. See this is where the humor come in. There you said he was humorous, So here we go. He talked naw stop while we was busy, nah stopped, and he was at whose is it? Do you like that? Did you want me the first time you saw me? I mean, really, why as you're talking? Only men who are bringing it are allowed to talk, smack and ask questions? Right? Well, what you should have did was answer, I'm not answered, So let's go, Oh baby, whose is it? Well? Who's hell? Anybody help? When you get in the house, let me know whose is it? I wanted it to be you? Whose is it? I'm not really shot. I didn't hit the knock at the dough. Whose is it? When you get in there, I let you know. You gotta start answering, Chris, do you like that? Like? What? What are you doing? Do you like it? Are you doing something? Do you like it? I let you know. Soon as I feel something, do you like it? I shall won't to man. You must start answering questions. Did you want me the first time you saw you? Yes? But not changed her mind? That wanted you when I first saw you. I still don't want you see and then she says only people who are bringing it should be allowed to talk smack and ask questions. Stephen, shall I need y'all's advice? What do I do with little fellow? High? Important is great sex and relationship. I can't fake it again. But I also don't want to leave him over something so little. No pun INTI, Well, you ain't got to leave him over something so little. There's a solution to this. There's a solution to this because he's six folks, but little fella ain't packing. What should I do? I don't want to break up over something so small. Well, ma'am, here's a deal. I don't think your love with this guy. I don't know how this is gonna work because sexy is important to a relationship, So right now, I don't I don't know what to tell you. Tommy, huh do you have any suggestions for this woman? But I cannot believe that's your go to bird to Tommy, your nephew. If you want me to come out of retirement, I mean, you know what I mean. I mean you know what I would say if he's married now, he's coming out of retirement. If you need him though, Uncle, I have a suggestion, Steed, what do you have? You don't have to step this man down and have a little talk with him. Yeah yeah, alright, look, we gotta get out of here. Email us or Instagram. That's your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at my girl surely joined me this Thursday one pm Eastern Time for the Strawberry Letter Live after show on Facebook. Okay, coming up in ten minutes. Today's comedy segment, Steve is here for It's uh. He's gonna have rules for when you live with someone until you get on your feet. Okay, yeah, what of everybody? This your boy James and Brown for the Steve hobb In Morning Show. Will get back to the ignorance in a minute. It's going down. TUSI at the Jason Bon Comedy Club fifty five eighty one West Benchester Avenue hosted every Tuesday night Taco Tusay with your Boy Jay Anthony Brown. This Tusday my man in the house, Graaty. Make sure you check out the Jay spot on the weekend, two shows on Friday and two shows on Saturday the Jay's Five Comedy Club. Get all your tickets on event right. Watch your there now you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, yesterday most of us celebrated Mother's Day, and it seems like a lot of millennials won't have to travel far to spend the day with mom, alright, because they're still living with their mom. Okay right now? Yeah. A report by Zillo finds it nearly twenty two and a half percent twenty two point five percent of US millennials, that's age, it's four to thirty six, they are living with their mom, which is about twelve million young adults. And why haven't millennials moved out on their own? Well, according to the report, twelve percent of them are currently unemployed. No, he got a job. Does he live with you? Yes? With millennia, what range is debt? Well, since he has the most kids, I think we should defer to Steve on this one. Steve, you have some rules for when you live with someone until you get on your feet. Now, this is not for millennials, anybody, anybody, So I don't want to make that I don't want millennials to feel that way. This is for anybody. You've had people stay at your how I had people come live with me college? College rulemates, stuff like that. It's some stuff. Now. These are Steve Harvey's rules for living with someone until you get on your feet. These are dudes and don'ts. Some things you need to keep in mind. Here's one right here. Your goal every day is to make it seem like you there but you're not. Yeah, that's your goal. That's when you wake up. Get it in your mind, Bill, but look like because I get asked to me. Now, you don't want that. Here's an another one. This is very important. Your car should never block me in I can't want to go out and I go out there and your car in the day and where you in that sleep? In fact, I got news for you. Your car shouldn't even be in front of the house. Talk up the street and walk down to where you rent free round the corner, park at the up the street, at the parking lot, at the grocery store. That man. Try to make it look like you ain't even got no car. If you're watching TV in the other room. Yeah, your laugh should not be what I can hear laid down. Don't just good bucket. This should be learned how to laugh like this. Let me show you how you laugh from your other people. You can't be enjoying their TV and all this thing. Just how you lat what is real funny? That's gonna be hard. Yeah, Steve has put me out. That's it. I don't give a damn what you want. Here's another one. Don't let me walk in the house and have to tell you to get out of my chick. You should only sit. I'm gonna tell you the areas you are to sit in kitchen, your bad rum and occasionally in the bank. Don't be taking read material and that what you have focus focus, stare at the toilet tissue role. How do your business? Get up, get out, get out. You better count the little preforation holes on the toilets like that in there. Okay, another one. Hey, you didn't put it in the fridge. Don't touch it in the that's the man. He bought one color. That's all you're reaching the touch. Don't be shifting stuff around looking all in the back read labels. You didn't. You didn't put it in there. Get your hands off. I like it. When you come over work, go right to your room. Nothing in here. Straight to your rooms. But it's all down the hallway, looking at all, look at where is this in the picture. That's my damn grandmama. Quit asking about it? Why are you roaming around? Right? So what is this Steve ruth for living with someone rules? If you got to stay with somebody until you get on your feet, I'm just giving you some dudes, and don't so you don't stay there the whole time. Listen to me. If I'm watching TV and I get up, walk out that room, don't change your damn chum, don't mean I'm gone, Don't change that damn sitting there watching it together, not doles off. Watch what I was watching for ours. Let me on my eyes and natural geographic is going your ass in here watching all loring all I should wake up to when I went to sleep. Right, Let me like, here's one moment so serious, Yeah this has happened, not a matter of fact. Let me make this to laugh. You can only have company where the company leaves come over here. You and I have a company. Hell yet wherever they stay, you go and be in the company of your company all you want, But your company can't come hell over here, not in my house. Everybody drinking glasses all right, coming up in the top of the hour. Actor Chadwick Boseman delivered a powerful commencement speech at Howard University on Saturday. Howard Forever. All right, right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Actor Chadwick Boseman, We Love Him, star of the Box office smash Black Panther, returned to his alma mater, Howard University on Saturday to urge his newest graduates to find purpose in their lives and persevere even amid adversity. Chadwick also applauded students for their victory and on campus protests, and describing his early struggles as a black actor. In front of an audience of more than eight thousand family and friends, Bozeman encouraged the graduates to not only exceed in their next steps, but also strive to achieve their life's purpose. He spoke about making it to the hilltop, which represents the culmination of the intellectual and spiritual journey you have undergone while you were here. Take a listen. I can think of no better place to be right now. After the Black Panther in Avengance care and pains that to return and participate in these graduation ceremonies with you. It is a great privilege graduates to address you on your day of day, marking one are the most important accomplishments of your life to date. This is a magical place. Almost anything can happen here, ain't you. Howard University has many names, the Mecca, the Hilltop Students. Your protests are also promising because many of you will leave Howard they enter systems and institutions that have a have a history of discrimination and marginalization. The fact that you have struggled with this university that you love is a sign that you can use your education to improve the world that you're entering. I was on a roll when I entered the system of entertainment, Dada, television and film. I stand here today knowing that my Howard University education for far me to play Jackie Robinson, James Brown so good, Marshall and to Challa. Wow. It was powerful. Yeah. Yeah, he's such a just I just love him. Yeah he really is, Steve so talent talented to play anybody man, Yeah, yeah, man. Jackie Robinson was really yeah, yeah yeah. J Brown was really good because I didn't think he was going to hit that James Brown, man, what he Ke's dancing and everything they tell about him doing the Steve Hart story, that's what they're talking about. If anyone can do it. He yeah, something he's got broadened his nose and picking his lips to start. We didn't get with your skin tone. That don't matter because I've always acted dogs. I've never I've never been put in the in the high yellow box. I've always acted very dog skinned. I take that directly after my daddy. He's doing the Steve history. Yeah, yeah, he can do it. Yeah, he would be believable too. He's done third good Marshall can't do to Steve Harvey story. Tommy. Tommy can act as well. If he can act, What do you mean he can't do He can't. You don't think I'm tall enough, but everybody looks tall in the movies. What else is it? Like? Everything limited to his height at it you weren't even thinking about that. I hadn't even gone that yet. Now that you're bringing up and it would be a major stomaching and you're doing the Steve Harvest store. How many courtroom dramas as we're gonna have you? Now that that's gonna throw you off too. But you ain't gonna be living in Carcker. You didn't really grow up that pope. You can't always had a little bit wasn't in the project. That's just wasn't in the project. You ain't get none of that. So if you think I got to live your whole life to do your life store, well you got. I mean, you know, man, like you always said, you're a method actor. You gotta draw from experiences. You draw from your past experiences. And what are you gonna do all the masks whether you took you ain't want no fights. Chadwick ain't really keen to what county? What is it? But I just said that how it was a magical place and magical things happened you. You went to Texas a and m hell. Yeah, yeah that college Timmy went to. We had to go down a couple of times. Wow, oh yeah, the Texas Atties. Tommy was the first black theater arts major to ever graduate out there. That right, then, Tommy asks, ain't that old the fact he the first, he the first black anything. Don't try to tell y'all now, it'd be harder time and play me I can play, I think, Yeah, I really don't y'all give him a chance seping him. He's got he got the cussing. He can do that. Got that all. You're cussed out by the same person all your life. You have some of his mannerisms down. When you do your comedy show, I mean you you still open up though with Steve. Really he did it on your Yeah, ain't anybody Fen sent through on ninety minutes of that's if I'm a I'm gonna cut off. Let me ask you out, yea? Would you let it be your entire story? Though he don't know you cut something out? You have to cut a lot out. It's unbelievable. It's my daughter Morgan told me one time. She said, Dan, really, you're making that up. Marge looked at him and said, no, he ain't. Sweet like yeah, yeah. Marge told me. She said, Steve, stop telling the kids your life story. They from a whole another world. That's they can't even Steve. Just stop telling it to him. I used to tell him stuff, man, my kid, Danny just making up. Okay, I'm saying y'all stupid punk as rich kids on my last All right? Uh, coming up at twenty after the hour wedding, jitters for that. Yeah, for the princess to be for not you jaces Megan marco Um, Yeah, we'll talk about her wedding day, jitters when we come back. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. There is this public fascination over Prince Harry and Megan Markle. The TV network Lifetime made a movie about them, and according to Entertainment Tonight, the mother of Mark, Megan Markle, arrived in London to help calm last minute nerves. Megan has been married and divorced. She has experienced walking down the aisle, but never before of course with a prince. Uh this wedding she's been married before yes Day in England going well anyway, Yes, he has done this before. But the wedding is just one week away now, and she stood for a final dress fitting last weekend. The inevitability began to set in. Megan surprised herself with moments of intense Jitter's source told Entertainment Tonight quote Doria Ragland is here to help Megan relax in the last days before she becomes royal. Doria being her Mom's sources also tell us US Weekly magazine that during the craziness of the coming days, Megan's mom will be meeting the family. Yep, she's going to have tea with the queen. Okay, yes, yes, Prince Charles will be there, Prince William and Kate Middleton his wife within the next few days, so she'll be all over the place. We know, yeah, we know. Megan is nervous. She's about to be a princess, but we're so happy for her, a black princess. They're they're from California, her mother's African American. Her dad is the one and the family. No, Mon'm gonna go there. Cooler down, bring some of that lad. He's gonna give her away. I mean it was some talk at first initially if he was going to do it or not. But yeah, he's coming to the wedding. So they'll be married. Prince Harry and Megan Marko will be married this Saturday, May night. You're going away to a prince. You damn right, I'm coming, and everybody related girls are married, like like like the principal condor kinda forever man. Come in on a giraffe. You got it off like your draft. I come in on a giraffe hanging on it, and Big Tall and Nick have on a limpert sequence jacket and where you get out off the giraffe. You just turn around, just slide down off the backs ass and pop down, poop and hit it. Let him have it. Somebody get to the giraft hold out you wow. Uh yeah, that's got to be exciting about prices. Yeah, the first pretty Yeah, she's gorgeous. Yeah, she used to be on that show suits, but you know she quit. Yeah, soups don't pay that right now. Yeah, I'm going in. We're talking about Megan. It's your highness kids. Yeah, yeah, she decided not to. Um, they're not gonna invite like, um, the Obama's or the Clintons or anyone like that. They just want, you know, like a family and friends. Yeah. Well yeah, Prince Harry says he's not in line for the throne anyway. Anyway, there's no need to be political with the invitation and stuff like that. Yeah, but we'll be watching. It's gonna come on real early in the States, but we'll be up to see it. I'm sure I can't wait. All Right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You started at Steve the new season of Family Feud. What's going on? Okay, let us have I don't know how much of this is gonna make the air, but Lord Helmer said, got a good one for you. I go over to this family. I don't even want to say their name, just because I don't want no trouble, because I don't know how it's gonna go. Uh. We got two identical twins on the ends. One is the captain and one is the number five player. They will about my age, I would assume because he was born in the fifties. That kept telling them. Then that was her brother, the twins brother next to him, and then it was the twins brother's wife, and then it was this girl that was their niece. Okay, so I'm going down the line. I meet him. She introduced herself. She team captain. I said, introduce your people. She introduced, and that's my twin sister on the on the end. They look alike. The identical. Got no problem with that, come to find out. Now let's go down the line. I go meet the brother next to him. He trains Tennessee walker horses. I've never met a person who trained Tennessee walks those high stepping horses. Yeah, he trains them. The woman next to him was his wife. They like me and Margie. They're blended family. Uh. But they've been dating for twenty six years, so finally they're getting married four years ago and together their kids is like thirty seven, thirty six, thirty twenty nine. The youngest one is twenty five. Okay, but then here coming nine yeo, okay, So we got start out. I didn't even get into that. It just got out of hand. So I go down to the end to meet the twining system, and I couldn't pronounce her name. Now this is now. You know it's gonna be good because I I remember how to spell it l A v A l e r I A l a v A l e r I A. Oh man, that's her name. So now I'm down now. Yeah, so I'm struggling because with my public school education, I'm trying to sound out lava a v a lava real lava Liria. I got it, no, Steve. So I go back up on the end to her twin sister. I'm reading her twin sister name. Her twin sister name Valerie, just Valerie. I know Valerie. Everybody know a Valerie. Everyone. So I go back down there and I go, I don't understand, and she says, where we identical twins? I said, what's your name? Love Valerie? I said, love Valerie, and your sister name Valor. Got sick of this mess. I'm not trying to come up with no name for these twins. You're gonna be Valerie and you're gonna be Love. All right, coming up Steve's closing remarks. That's all I can say right after this. I can't wait. You're listening to show, all right, our last break of the day. Right before we get to your closing remarks, Steve, I wanted to say thank you to Tommy. I didn't tell you guys this, but Tommy did something really nice for for Nesto and I. He Um had tickets to a play and he Um gave it to Nesto and I for a date night. So Friday night we went to see the Fabulous, Fabulous, Fabulous Vanessa Bell Calloway starring in Lettuce from Zora. She was at the Waco Theater. Nice. Yeah what it was opening night. It was a one one woman show and uh she handled her business. I say, Tony Award. Do yourself a favor, go check her out. Yeah, Letters from Zora starring the beautiful and talented Vanessa Bell Calloway's girl. Yeah she is, Yeah she is. Yeah. Let's see what. Well, it's about the author Zora Neil Hurston and her It was her life story, all the things that she went through. How I didn't know that she was best friends with Langston Hughes. I mean they were like this like a brother and sister relationship. I mean she had a fabulous life. Yeah, really fabulous. And you know, some of her greatest heartbreaks, and I don't want to give everything away were the was the criticism that she got from other black authors and other black writers. You know, she was telling her story and writing it the way she wanted to it, to be, writing her characters. But she got a lot of criticism. You know, somebody sitting over here, ain't doing what you're doing. You get it acclaimed for, and all of a sudden they got problem with Yeah, I'll man, that's gonna tie right into my clothing remarks. Real good. Alright, alright, so again, go check out Letters from Zora, starring Vanessa Bell Callaway is at the Waco Theater Center. She'll be there until Cuentia. That's Beyonce Mama Theater. He was there, by the way, I sat right behind them. It was great. Well, let's go. You know what, this is really good to hear about Vanessa Bell Callaway's success with a one woman play. What's it called again? Sherlan letters from Yeah, and that's really good. And you were just talking about how this playwright was a writer and one of her most hurtful times where she was being criticized for her writing by other writers, other black writers. And that really ties into what I wanted to talk to everybody about today, that it is perfectly, perfectly okay to be you. It is. It's perfectly okay to be you. People get tripped up all the time in the process of just being themselves. But can I tell you something. It's perfectly okay to be you. You should be you. See, God designed you specifically to be exactly who you are. Now. Listen, You're gonna have to improve along the way. You will make improvements of the version that you are, but who you are God designed you that way. I'm talking about the goodness that's in you now. I'm not talking about when you veer off and you do something wrong, and you dave everybody got to accept when you do something wrong. That's not what I'm referring to. I'm referring to the goodness in all of us, the good parts about us, the caring side of us, the determined side of us, the imagination side of us, the exploring side of us, the curiosity side of us, the willingness to help side of us. All these sides we have these unique gifts and talents that we have. God designed you specifically to be you. You are fine just as you are. You can't please everybody. You can't be everybody's somebody. You can be somebody somebody, but you will never be everybody's somebody. That don't happen in life. Everybody not gonna like you. I don't care what you do. That's just not realistic thinking. So what you gotta do is you just gotta get with the core group of people who do like you the way you are, and that's a lot of people over the scheme of things. Don't get so hung up when one person can't stand you are, one person find you unacceptable. You were not designed to be everybody's somebody. You were designed to be you, specifically you. God created us all to be ourselves. Everybody don't like me. I'm perfectly okay with that. I'm used to it. When I see some haters typing something about me or blogging something about me, I'll let him go head on because I wasn't designed for them, and neither were you. You weren't designed to fit in with all your co workers. You weren't because some of your designs are just not compatible. But it's okay. That's what makes the world go around. Everybody wasn't designed to vote for Hillary Clinton, Rock Obama, or anybody else. Some people were designed to vote for Donald Trump. You might as well get over it. People are designed different ways, but you are perfectly fine the way you are. You are not made to be them. You were made to be you. And let me give you some advice. If you keep adjusting yourself to try to be everybody's somebody, if you keep adjusting yourself trying to be everybody's somebody, you're gonna find out that you're gonna lose who you were created to be. That God designs you specifically to be who you are. You have all you need, You don't need anybody's permission to be you. As long as you stay on the righteous side of who you are, you have every right to be exactly who you are. You are absolutely fine. You were designed to be different, and so was I live with that because that's who God designed you to be, specifically you. Those are my closing remarks. 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