Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I don't know. Y'all have a suit on the don giving them like the million buck things in it to me through good to other. Please I don't join join me. You gotta use that turn you're going to do. You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn. You haven't got to turn them out to turn turn water the water go. Come, come on your thing, I show will good morning everybody you are listening to the voice, Come on dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show partickling me this morning. Steve Harvey got a radio show feel with nothing but joy and hope about it too. You know, it's a great thing to be able to wake up in the morning with peace in your heart and joy. Peace and joy is is immeasurable. It has a value attached to it, and I have no idea what it is. It's invaluable. It is worth so much more than any amount of money you can make. Peace and joy. I have not always had that. I have not always been a peaceful person or a person who lived his life in a joy spirit. It took an arrival at this moment. Some people arrive sooner than others. I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, but I think it was necessary for me to learn a few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned about life is that instead of reflecting on your past incidences and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the negative and calling them bad times, I look at them now as experiences. I had to have those experiences that were negative, that were good, positive, wrong, even I had to have all those experiences to become to shape who we are today. We all have to have them. If you look back at all the negative experiences you've had, all the things that you called failures, all the businesses I started that went under, all of the jobs I had that I was fired from, all the show that were canceled, all of the times I thought I was gonna get something happened in my way and turned out I didn't get it at all. When you look at all of it, all of it, hopefully along the way, what you have done as a person is you've taken those negatives and those failures and you've used them for what they actually are. They are experiences, and they've now created in you an experienced person and you know that is worth something. That's then it becomes a positive. But what too many people do is they let the negative things that have happened in their life. They allow the failures that have happened in them lives never to manifest themselves as experiences. And you sit up there and you dwell on it, and you dwell on it until you have this woe is me attitude. Stop looking at it like that, y'all. You go through things in order to become the person that you are today. I'll tell you who you sometimes have to sit down and talk to. Sometimes you are to sit down to an inmate that really gets it, an inmate that says, man, I've actually heard inmates say it to me and write to me, and they've said things like, man coming to prison, save my life. Now, those of you have never got how can he say a thing like that? But some men, no, Man, I was so far out there that if I had stayed out there, I wouldn't even be here today. This actually allowed me to stop, spend some time with myself and learn some things about me. Now does that happen for everybody like that? Now? But here's a person who was taking an experience that could be considered a failure or a negative and turning it into a positive and using it to enrich their lives. You can do it no matter what your set of circumstances is. I recommend to everybody that you try changing your outlook in order to change your outcome. Everything that happens to you that's negative or you can said a failure their experiences. You've got to go through these things in order to have the knowledge that you have today. So I wish that I had come to this arrival, that I may now this place of peace and joy. But then guess what, I would not know what I know. I could not share some of the things that I'm able to share if I had not gone through some of them. And sometimes that's the purpose of them, is to teach you a lesson because you know, God has a plan for you, He really really does. And eventually he can use you no matter how old you are, and he can use you no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay, I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God, what do you want me to do? That's why I say every day Steve Harvey got radio show, y'all. Because man, I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming. I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I ain't seen it. Half of the amazing things that are happened to me, I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, man, asking God for some direction. And then I got smart enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker. Now because faithful, our works is there and it came. And I'll remind you of this. God has given all of you a gift. Every last one of you listening has a gift. God has never created a soul that he did not provide a gift to. God gives everyone a gift, and a gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. The richer gifts are much more than that. Teachers are gifted people who really have the gift of sharing information. That's a gift, you know, and in that you can become great. You know a lot of people people think that successful and greatness is the same thing. Cornell West said it at my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. He said something so pointed. He said, don't ever confuse success with greatness. The two have nothing to do with each other. See, people determine success about money and fame and all this here, but greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing to do with your money. It ain't got nothing to do with your fame. It's how you conduct your life. It's how meaningful and significant you become in your community, at your church, on your job, to the club scout unit that you run, to the little girls lives that you change that that little center in the hood. Who are you just one place of hope to so many people and they come back. And I used the example of lou Danzler who passed away in LA who had the Boys and Girls Challenges Club out in LA. And he wasn't a rich man at all, and if you walk by him, you wouldn't even know who he was. But if you look at all the people who have gone on to become politicians, who have gone on to become CEO's, who have gone on to become athletes, that have passed through this man's small building in the hood in La, he was great. Trust me, man, prad changes things. I said all the time. But when you see people become successful or great, that somebody praying somewhere may not even beat them. Maybe it's day Mama. You know, I think of Tiger Woods and all the greatness he's accomplished. You know, they always talk about as farther than all this here, somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods. I got cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama is a praying woman or something. My mother was. She prayed me into this place because she ushould call me all the time. Praying for your boy, and prayer changes things. It really does. Try it today. It can change you. It has changed millions of people. Open up yourself to the greatness that's in you because God is giving you a gift that the fact that you ain't using it. Who fought you think that is? I'm just telling you you got one, and if you start praying about it, it'll manifest itself and you can become one or two things, successful or great or both. You can make the decision. Today. Good morning show, ladies and gentlemen. It is here another great day and we start this day. We are involved in a friendship with Roscoe Wallace, helping him bring down one of the largest industries in the world, the entire music industry. Roscoe Wallace is involved in a three trillion dollar lawsuit against the entire industry for every hit that he has ever written and never received Walty's publishing rights or any funds at all. Ladies and gentlemen, Here he is with another hit, I got him Baby I one day, the rocking ready hit. Here I go, Here we go three to one hour. Oh yeah, do you remember whenry Fairly Love? Will you won young innocent day? Do you remember how we used to be all? It happened way back when? Uh? Do you remember we was on the phone on it on old Do you remember? I said? Do you remember the time? No? You don't, huh Fairly Love? Do you remember the time when when we first met? Girl? Remember time all Roscoe? They can't remember because they stole the song for me. Boy. I know, hell yeah, I remember, I really I knew all that time. I get that song. The Joe Joe know that musical genius Roscoe Michael daddy and I knew Joe's daddy too, Ella Jackson jack Love be the Little Church and get never heard of that? Did you clan burnt that downty? Not only not only just a lawsuit? Did black history? Yeah? You know what I'm saying. Thank y'all. Let me come on share that right there. I love Michael Lord, Don't get me wrong. I loved him. I love him dealing, but they hold me that right there. I talked, y'all, gotta get on out of here. He's sooning. Teddy Riley, Teddy Riley broke. Wait on, Teddy Riley, what car Remember the time he was one of the composers, Holy Holy, holy old star didn't get it? Hold up, wait a minute, who did I? You say? Wrote member of time, Michael Jackson, Teddy Riley Riley, right down right there? See that where you want? You ain't listening, listen, I wrote, Remember the time? Yeah, they tried to get cute talking about some damn Do you remember? That's where the damn lawsuit come in? Right? The hook changed, the hook took my balls. Roscoe who talked like that, Good luck in your lawsuit. Coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour, we're gonna start the show off with Nephew Tommy's run that prank back Right after this you're listening to show It is time to start the morning off with run that break back from the Nephew, which you got nef. You're not gonna like me on this one, but I'm gonna do it anyway because it's in my heart, it's in my soul to crush you, prankqu and then't bring you back when you need to be all at the same time. This right here is relationship departure. Relationship departure. Okay, everybody, buckle up, don't be mad at me. Just listen. I make him love her more. That's what I do. I make him love her more. Let's go, can't though glove? Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I was um, I was calling to tell you baby. Look, I just I just can't do it. Huh oh, hello, Bryan Brant. Hey, this is Greg. I know, I know you was just talking to vow, but this is this is Greg talking to this bang Greg. Oh, yeah, this is Brian. Greg. I was just talking to my wife. Did you put her back on the phone. Uh No, I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna be able to do that. Why can't you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain something to you. All right, there's some things, you know, long conversations about this. Oh well, well, how you know my wife on the first name basis like that? Man, how you who are you? Like I said, man, my name is Greg uh all right? At the airport? Okay? Well airport? Which the airport? And why were you at the airport with my wife? Sport? Hey? Let me Hey, all of this is complicated. Okay, it's really yeah it is. Yeah, make it simple for me. Okay, So what I want to explain to you? What? Let me explain to you mann. We've got a lot of long conversations about this. It's something that's when When was this? Why? Why are you at the airport with my wife's with me? And why is leaving with me? Okay? What we're leaving? And what do you mean leaving? Leaving me? Oh? Hell no? Put it on the phone. And I don't even want to talk to you, man. Put her on the phone. Put her on the phone, man, and look, you need to put her on the phone right now, leaving. I don't believe that. Now. I want to hear her say that you want to talk to me? Oh here, you're staying. Let me talk to my wife, man, because you you feed maybe baby? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, what's up? What's this dude talking about? To tell you this phone? While? So you think everything, but it hasn't been Okay, why are you telling me this phone? Why can't you just come home and sell me this? Can't you just tell me this to my face? Hey? Hey, hey bro, come on man? Why my wife? Hey hey hey bro, I know this is painful moment. Now you don't know, you don't know nothing, but I noticed. Look, okay, the ladies just put my wife on the Oh did you you got any ounce of a man? And you just put my wife's back on the phone. All right, bro? Let me, let me let me say, let me can I say something to you man? Sitement less my wife on the phone, but you ain't got to tell me. I'm gonna put it on in the second. But let me say this to you man, say same man and wrap it up because I need to talk to my wife. I just want you to know this, Brian. This is let me know something. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mary Show. Got me to prank phone call you. What's your hold on? So? So okay, if you point to me, what's up with the airport and stuff in the back, then where y'all at the airport? No, bro, your wife is here at the studio. Man, ain't not happening. Man, your wife hold on, I'm gonna let you talk. Yah, you all right? First of all? Are you all right? Man? Oh man? It was about to be a murder sing man. Look at now, who's the I got you? Finally you could have been a little bit more. I'm you and y'all. Who your brother? You think? Y'all the only ones can pranking people? So you and your brother be branking all the time. Man, man, it's life stuff. Girl. You at happy birthday? Baby? Oh you got a birthday coming up? Happy birthday, Brian? This yeah, man looking great? Gifts great? Yes, man, let me tuck my wife. Man, I got ain't got no dude, your wife hold on, please? But what woman? You got me? All right? Don't don't you ain't gotta go this far right? Every time supposed to be funny. I did feel little bad, but you kind of started tearing up. But I'm glad to know you fight for me like that fight. It was gonna be some fights. It wasn't, oh girl, just a bring your black home. Don't even see how I did that? Feel how I did that? It hurt you, hurt and hurt Bryan a lot, And I get it. You know, if you hurt the show, you know the show you got Tommy ready to look. Yeah, you know, y'all gonna have a new episode. What's that gonna Because it's gonna be ready to get your ass well, and it's gonna look a lot like cheetahs because the camera gonna be funny. I might have gotten to do with it. Forces you to love your baby a little strong. But you know what I mean, this is still y'all don't know what he's doing lately, but this is still an offshoot of praise and worships. Oh I'm sorry, um, as we were, ladies and gentlemen. I'll be in Dayton, Ohio this weekend, Okay, Saturday night. Uh, tickets are on sale right now. I'm at the Convention Center. It's Nephew Tommy a Friends comedy show. You don't want to miss it. And um, you know, uh, as we move forward to the holidays, uh, you know we're gonna do bigger things as well, so get ready for that. Nephew Tommy will be with Frederick the Entertainer, Um Eddie Griffith, the earthquake d l hugely. Oh my god, So you know, go to my website Thomas Miles dot com. All of my dates are there. We won't talk about the prank anymore. We don't want to. You know, the haters are in the building. Let's just put it that way, all right, Thank you, nephew. Coming up next, it is asked the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building. Right after this, you're listening to show Coming up at the top of the hour, the US Surgeon General will be our very special guest. He's going to talk about COVID nineteen vaccinations, booster shops, children's vaccinations. Get the facts at the top of the hour with the US Surgeon General, doctor zvec Murthy, and we will let you know. We will keep you informed. But right now it is time for Steve's favorite segment, asked the seats. Oh all right, Steve, here we go. This one is from Lisa and Beaumont, Texas. Lisa says, my husband is a great man, and he's good on the grill, but he sucks at cooking anything besides barbecue. I'm tired of him wasting good food and making concoctions that I'm afraid to eat. The sniffles and he made chicken soup, chicken noodle soup, and he had some of everything in that soup. I was chewing corn, opra, bacon bits and other stuff, and it tasted like tortilla soup, but with noodles. Today he grilled lamb chops and finished them in the microwave. They were tough as leather. Do stop this. See if you're good on the grill, dog, stay on the grill. So I don't come in the house cooking. I really don't I do what I do. You want lamb chops, you want steaks, you want ribs, you won't kill bossy, you want chicken, you want fish. If I'm outside and my outdoor kitchen, I'm caying out there. I don't coming out. It ain't what I do. Marjorie can cook everything and grill. That's bad girl. And I ain't just bragging. I'm this girl country girl. She can really cook. I ain't that good in the kitchen with all this stuff. I make my eggs and go sit on sitting my ass down. But now you come outside on that grill. I can't say this to her. She can't hold a candle to me out there on that damn grill. No, hell no, why whispering. You think she's gonna you don't think she's gonna hear this. She does. Listen, show thank you, that's what you'd be telling me. Listen what you're saying food. Yeah, that's why I'm whispend time right here, right here. She's not gonna hear this part right here. Okay, so that's to stay your ass only gal time. Alright. Moving on, Nina and Tallahassee says, I've been with my boyfriend for almost four years. He's twenty seven, and he has a great job working with older black men that he looks up to. He started smoking cigars and he drinks alcohol more often. What's really shocking is all of the new stuff he's doing in the bedroom and the new brand of condoms he uses. Now. He told me that the old men give great advice and put him up on game. Is it the old men's advice or a new woman. No, it's it's the old man advice. I mean, look at what he's doing. Ain't no woman coming in here tell me y'all to try this new brand to condom. That's old dude conversation. That's an old dude he telling you the truth. The cigars that look at he getting that from an old dude. You ain't got nothing to worry about. What you're what you're trying to make something up for, he said, Man, got great advice. Well what you're in there? Or you ain't old? I see what you're doing. Oh you ain't an old Oh oh oh, I see, or you don't know the hill move. I called it the WILLI coochie. You ain't never tried to WILLI couch you, Hi boy? Sit down over that limit ted so or you put that WILLI coochie on him. I'm trying to tell you something now that you haven't come back mote and then any time. And then young boys sitting there going wow, Man, these cats know because old dudes know something. That's how the old dudes turn boys into me. Take advantage of this. Enjoy yourself, all right. Moving on to Claire and Indiana. Claire Rights, I was dating a guy for a short period of time, and it made me feel like some kind of nasty woman because of my sexual preferences. I am abstaining from intercourse now, but I absolutely love providing a little oral situation for a man if it gets to that point. My X got hooked up almost daily, but he said it wasn't enough and he needed a better connection with me. I feel bad for even trying to please him. Should I abstain from that too? Wow, Claire, I ain't trying to well, seeing it's how you know, I don't really know. You know, I ain't got nothing to base it on. You know, I can't say it. I don't know what you want to say to you, laid him. I got nothing against it, but I'm I don't know how you want me to tell you to go about it. I don't know. You know, maybe you know, maybe you ain't what you thank he is. You know, you know you got to reconsider. Maybe I don't well. Next question, Yeah, let's move on, all right. Trendity in Milwaukee, it says six months ago, I got a mommy makeover and I'm building up my self confidence again. My husband and I are in our mid forties, but my husband acts like an old man. I dressing more trendy outfits to show off my flat tummy for the first time in many years, and he can't stand it. He said, I need to dress more tastefully. I told him he needs to makeover so we can both be fly. He got mad and won't speak to me. He can dish it, but he can't take it. How is this all he does is critique me? Should I apologize? Any dish it and can't take it? Male ego is so damned fragile. But if he gonna dish it, got to be able to take it. If you're living in a glass house, don't throw those stones temptations. Now, I know that temptation didn't write there, but they got held us all. If you're living in the glass house, don't throw those stones. Come on, if you're living in the glass high house, don't throw no stones. Are you answering her? No? He got very to take it. Keep wearing your office girls, stay, fly, fly to your dad. He acts old, don't say all. A lot of dudes just letting it come get him. I'm not doing that. So congratulations, we're looking flying and he's mad, a little bit jealous. I don't know what to tell you, but don't keep laying that. But you gotta tell you man. Your man can't give you constructive criticism, and you not be allowed to give him constructions constructive criticism right now. I know what a mommy maker is, but I haven't really heard of God's getting makeovers. Well here it is. You know, fellas you get up in age, hair growing places in your nostrils, in your ear, buy that little thing that target, the little tweezer thing that shave you, and run that thing in your nostrils. Quit letting have grow in your damn nostrils. I'm looking up your nose and see all this gray hair. Get that out of here. You're shaved, your bushes down out your ears. Just make you look old. Now, look, man, here's another thing you could do. I do it for TV, for my brand. I use just for me and on my much dask because I got a brain. But you don't have to do that. You don't have to. But if your gray ain't coming in right, and you got two three strands and always look like you got something on your face, get your ass a little bit of just for men and just touch it. That's all dog until you get a little more gray, because they look bad when it's gray every three inches, because now I look like you got stuff on your face. Great different advice, great advice. Coming up at the top of the hour, the Surgeon General of the United States. We'll talk about COVID nineteen vaccinations, all of that right after this. You're listening. Hey, I'll distinguished guests this morning. Everybody's the twenty first Surgeon General of the United States and he's joining us because we want to discuss the new developments in the COVID pandemic and whether or not we should be concerned about a spike in COVID cases over the holidays. And we're happy to have him join us because we have questions. So let's get to it. Please, welcome to the show, doctor Vivic Murthy Is it Vivic? Did I get that right? Lake? Oh? Oh? Vic? Hey man, We're happy to have you back, man and tell you five year old son Uncle Steve said hello, Oh, I will tell him. You're looking at me right now about all right? Hey? Hey, sorry, So tell us, man, why do we staying right now in the COVID pandemic? Are things getting better? So I'm glad you asked you so, because we've been at this for about twenty two months now going on, and I know folks are tired, but we have come a long way and I want people to know why. So if you compare now to where we were last year. Last year we didn't even have the vaccine, but now we've got over one hundred and ninety million people who are fully vaccinated. That means that one hundred ninety million people whose chances of ending up in the hospital or nine from COVID are dramatically lower than those who are not vaccine. That's a good thing. We also have two oral medications that could be taken by mouth that are on the horizon. They haven't been approved yet more authorized by the FDA, but they're in the process, in the pipeline, if you will, and the early results have been promising, so that's good news as well. And the other big thing is that our kids are back in school. And you know, I say that as a dad who's got two kids who were home with me the entire pandemic last year, and now they're back in school like millions of other kids. So that's a good thing for our children, for their help and their learning. But we're not out of the woods yet. You know. We've come down certainly from the peak of cases that we had with the delta wave, but we still have about between seventy five to eighty thousand cases a day that we're finding, and the cases in the especially in colder weather regions where people are going indoors are starting to tick up. So that means we've still got to be vigilant. We still have to get vaccineative or not. If you are eligibly get boosted, you absolutely should because that will help protect you during this winter. Hey, let me ask you a question about something you just spoke about. This all medicine. Is that a form of vaccine or is that something to fight the symptoms of COVID. Yeah, I'm really glad you brought that up. So the oral medicines are there to help you if you get COVID. They don't prevent COVID. It's not something you take just david off. But the other important thing to know about the world medicines is, you know, one of them has shown that it reduces your chances of ending of them the hospital dying by fifty percent, and other the other medicine showed that it reduced those chances by eighty nine percent. That's really good. But there's one hundred percent way to reduce your chance of getting in the hospital or dying from COVID, and that's not getting COVID in the first place. And that's why getting the vaccine is so important. Taking these precautions, it's so important. We would rather people prevent the illness than get it. Hey, before we get into this about the children, let me ask you a question. What do you say to people who still don't want to get vaccinated because they say they don't have enough information. They think something's in it that hurt, that's harmful. What I'd say to all those who have questions is, you know, I get why your questions are important to answer, and I get why you might have them. But I'm also worried that there's a lot of misinformation circulating on social media and other channels that's leading people to worry about side effects and are real. For example, we know that there are a lot of folks out there who are worried that the vaccine may cause infertility, or that it may cause mutations in your DNA where that it may cause COVID itself. None of those are true, but we've seen those rumors. They've been kicked up on social media, but they're not true at all. They're not based in science. Well, here's what we do know, and keep in mind, it's not just a couple of people gone this vaccine. Now we've administered more than four hundred and twenty five million doses of the vaccine in the United States alone and billions of doses around the world. What we've learned are two really important things. One is that the vaccine is really effective at preventing the worst outcomes from COVID. It will save your life. And the second thing we've learned is that the vaccine has a remarkably strong safety profile. You know, as a doctor, I prescribe many vaccines over the years to adults, our kids, certainly my kids and other kids get many vaccines, you know, as they grow up. But you know, overall, as far as vaccines go, this is one of the most safe and effective vaccines you know, that we've got out there. So I want people to know that, and please, you know, talk to your doctor if you have a doctor, you know, to understand more about the vaccine. If you've got questions, or you know, talk to another credible source, your local health department, your local children's hospital. But don't don't trust the random articles that you might see floating around on the internet, because they're not always true. Let's talk about the vaccination for kids. For children, specifically age five and oh, why is that important for eligible children to get vaccinated. This is a really important moment. It's a landmark, really moment in our fight against COVID. Finally we've bet a vaccine for kids side through eleven. No one of my kids is in that range. He's five. He's landing right in the right next to me at this moment as I'm talking to is holding my hand, looking at me and uh and you know, I love him to death and that would do anything for him. And that's how all parents are about their kids. They want to really ultimately look out for the best for the help to their children. It's number one in the studies that we're done with thousands of children. The clinical trials, they showed that this from vaccine worked really well. It was more than ninety one percent effective for around ninety one percent in terms of its epic is in preventing symptomatic COVID. The second thing that was a safety profile was really good. The side effects that kids primarily had were a sore arm, fatigue, a headache, a fever that lasted maybe a day or two. And then we're left with protection against a vaccine. That is a really big deal and especially as winners is coming. It's here in many parts of the country already. The virus is easier to transmit when there's cold, dry air, and you know, we know people are getting together an indoor settings. Families want to get together for the holidays. So getting your child vaccinated is a way to reduce their risk during this winter season. And if you do it actually this week, you'll be able to get your child fully vaccinated in time for Christmas. Yeah. Hey, well listen, stay right there, Doco. We're going to come right back. We'll be right back with more with the Surgeon General right after this. You're listening, all right, everybody, We're back in our special guests this morning as a twenty first Surgeon General of the United States, doctor Vibic Murty uh. And once again, for those of you that don't like the pronunciation of his name coming from me, it is because my Slovenian accidents are not I'm covering all the bases in the Eastern York thing you want to cover out do that. But this this brother right here is fantastic. Hey, we were talking about when we left, we were talking about the pandemic as a getting better. There's been some improvement. Over one hundred and ninety some million people in this country have been fully vaccinated. That's a great step. Well, you know something, doctor, I think this was important to hear from you, from our surgeon General. I know it's people out there still got there. But like you say, if you get your information from credible sources, that could help you. Please everybody, get off the internet and talk to your doctors, talk to your medical professionals who do this for a living, who are basing this around science. So and now I'll help us all. You know, I really appreciate this because people want to know about their kids. That's a vaccination out there available for kids between five and eleven, ninety one percent effective rate. We've had over one hundred and ninety some million people vaccinated fully in this country. We're on our way to getting our hands around this thing. If we could get everybody to participate and stop lying. But I also am fully vaccinated, absolutely seeven if I could see one last thing kids, the folks who are listening, that last point you raised about making sure you're getting information for the right sources is absolutely important. You know, I wouldn't ask my electrician for medical advice and I certainly wouldn't ask my doctor for advice on my electrical system in my house. But if you've gotten if you've got a relative out there who's trying to tell you what you should and shouldn't do about the vaccine, and there they've got misinformation there, just remember, you know, you can love your relatives, but you know, it doesn't mean you got to trust everything that's coming from them. And unfortunately, we do have well intentioned family members in my family too, who are sending messages out over text threads and emails and on social media because they think they're trying to warn their family, but actually information may not be accurate, So you know, don't I don't blame people, you know, necessarily for inadvertently spreading this, but just remember before you click share, you know, on an article on social media, just ask yourself, is it really coming preto credible source? Do I know? And if you're not sure, don't share. We put out a community toolkit for people to understand a little bit more about how to identify misinformation went's out there, how to talk to family members about that. People can find that at surge in general dot gov. But bottom line is we want you to be safe. We want you to have accurate information to protect your health in your family, and the SEEN is one powerful step to We're protecting all of us between COVID. Absolutely. Thank you so much, ladies and gentlemen, Our Sergeant General of the United States, thank you for calling, sir, Thanks so much. Steve gets to talk to us always. He all right, my brother, Yes, sir, thank you, Doctor Murphy. The Steve Harvey Morning Show is here to give you only the facts, ladies and gentlemen. Now coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we're gonna check out Steve's voicemail right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, it is time now to check your voicemail. 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Don't do my timing like that. Okay, And this is Lee Andrea tacking all the way in from Jackson deal floordal baby. First of all, I'm just based on the name Leo Andrew. We're dealing with a certain age group. So once a person is old, you know her vision is in paid sound old ain't gonnahead sounded, Lee Andrew? Wait, wait wait wait, wait wait wait wait Lee Andrew wait, listen who starts stop stop? Who started a conversation? Listen? Stave who you know? Listen, Steve, who honors this? Y'all stopped taking me? See I listened real where y'all didn't hear that she didn't sound old. Start the tape again, Dave, stop that isn't Then they try to pick it up when they get go old, then they try to sound you listen, scab, that is not sexy about hearing me sexy? Who? What the hell is sex? Sessy? Sexy? You're not gonna die set because speech like that. I'm just telling you, c SS why you ain't sexy? Timmy? You set sessant? Ball head? Man, You're gonna leave my time alone. 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We'll get into that in just a bit, because right now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call. What you got for us? Enough? Thanksgiving is upon us. We all know it's around the corners. Time to get ready. You got people coming in family members. This right here is Thanksgiving with cousin Benji. Oh, Thanksgiving with cousin Benji cat dog. If you hello, Hello, who is this? Miss Glendon? Who is this this benjy? I'm college is missus Purvis there? Um? You know she's not here right now, but this is our daughter? Um? Is there a problem? Oh? No, this this this bends you. This Mama, Mama, Lord's nephew. Who is this again? It's Blenda Mama, Mama, Lord, Mamma Lord. Joh Ain't it ain't it correct? You? Mama? Lord's mis pervis sister. Okay, I'm beings you. I'm I'm gonna nephew from the other side of the family. You say your name? What no blends? Okay? What tell y'all supposed to get in and we used to meet there by the afternoon. Okay, Uh? Is missus purvis? Is she is your mama making the the dresses? Yeah, she's making enough for about forty five people. We actually, um, this was discussed about a month ago, right y'all on the y'all they had the U conference call, the conference good family had the conference call, right yes, sir? Okay, Nah, listen, what reason why they got me to call? They wanted me to go in and call and and I was trying to give me this pervious she's not there. You know she's not here. What's wrong? Uh? Okay, they're not gonna they're not gonna need her to do them to do the dressing. And why wouldn't they need to do dress She's been making it for ten years. We just we just discussed it. So what do you mean they say that they got somebody down here that's gonna do the dresses, espially since y'all traveling y'all ain't got to bring it, you know, and be traveling with it. But they got somebody gonna do the dressing. Okay, Well, first of all, how are you you're you're Benji? What is your name? That was not my name, Benjamin, but they called me Benji. But but but like I say, uh, I'm on the other side of a fam I ain't on y'all side. Okay. Well, I'm still trying to fig out why are you calling me? Because she's been making a dressing for ten years, like I said, and I mean it's been discussed. So I don't even know why why you're calling me. I don't even know you. Okay, Well, what I'm trying to explain to you just right here is that they got something y'all. Y'all, I all ain't got to worry with bringing the dressing. They got somebody gonna bring They got somebody down here that's gonna cook it. So and don'twhere with you know, if you can tell Miss Pervi ain't got to worry about the dressing this year. I'm so you want me to tell my mama after she'd been making dressing for ten years that y'all say y'all ain't worried about she shouldn't have to make it this year because we're driving there. We drive every year, So I'm not gonna do that to her. So, I mean, I don't I don't even know who you are to be calling me anyway. Why didn't somebody calling me that I don't know regarding it? Okay, okay, you're good the right, I am blended? All right. Listen, let me say this because I don't mind saying what everybody thinking, but most people don't want to say. Let me just say this right here. Really, what's going on is just right here. A lot of people in the family you know, don't really don't don't really lighten Miss Prayer of his dressing. Dni Benjamin, who you're supposed to be, Let me spot this up. Need my mama gonna make it dressing, you gonna keep it, and we ain't bringing that home with us. So you can tell your family that I said that because you understand me. I mean, for first of all, you got to understand that I'm bringing news that that people didn't don't voted on, and this is what everybody want to do, don't nobody, Well, why didn't knick house. We had a meeting from dressing. She been making it ten years, ain't Nobody had been saying nothing and against what one of them up to the house. Nobody did not be walking up and through that. I'm talking about my mamma either, And you know I'm gonna eat it. Okay, we'll see right there. Why why if people don't like the dressing, Glenda, why do you want to make submit everybody to have it to eat it? If they don't like it, you don't eat That's how I don't know. I don't know. You want to call me, well, I don't know, no Benjamin Benjie who I I mama Lord's nephew from the other side of the family exactly, And they don't know you, okay, And it really really to the bad all that I don't really know you. But I'm but I'm but I'm man, a man another car you and tell you what we're gonna do, what we ain't gonna do, what I know I ain't. I say it wasn't I repeated again. She gonna make that transfix. You gonna eat it, and we're gonna rod my name, Okay, okay, right there, listen, and I know this might be hard for you to understand what you grew up with liking everybody else might not like even say what you want to. I ain't gonna even you be white, so you read it like it because you ain't done around. But she make it dress it now. First of all, when y'all get down here, it's gonna already be some more dressing hill okay, okay, and she gonna make cuts her and sense and we're gonna see down and we got I'm gonna eat. And he didn't say it's not even many means discuss my friend and that I said, I don't like say because your name's gonna hurt my mama feeling. Okay, there ain't nobody to try that. Why I'm trying to tell you to tell her don't make it nah, so she won't even bring it down. We aren't gonna get anyway. Hey, look, I'm gonna say this hell because every dealer you are really understanding what I'm saying to you. I'm gonna say it as clear as I can say. If y'all come down here with that dress, I'll promise you we already got dressing. Mate, we're throwing that dressing in the trash so everybody can get the dressing that we made fun of him. Floy Blake, that's what we're doing. Please let me splay something in you. I'm gonna be undressing Patroll and if I find out you then through my MAM's dressing in the trash, it's gonna be something and we're gonna set that out. I'm not playing with you. That's what's too funny to me. I'm gonna call ain't tell me we don't hid the coll ain't knowing well enough to call us. I'm telling us to bull. But now they're gonna set She'll stupid because for me, I don't even know she'll tell I can't they feeld like you? Like you the bad in the world. But beji Beneam, I don't even know you're wrapping. I'm telling you now, I'm tilling that playing with you. I'm telling you every hurt my mama feeling, it's gonna be some and then and I'm telling you all, y'all gonna be yeah down there. But I'm call me, y'all have one. Let me I say something else to you. I wish you would. Can I tell you what else they were saying they wanted me to tell you this, Glinda, this is nephew. Tell me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your cousin Sheila got me the plank phone call. You tell me fine, you about to make me? Said it off? What that man, this same gibble will see it wasn't gonna be. No, he remade it because I'm gonna have my brother's warm. Then you yeah, play to me, Hank, give me a thing of me. Cancel, man, ask question before I let you go. What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land Steve Harvey Morning Show, Arca carr ain't till ain't nobody say nothing on the She was I'm gonna come up in here, said this, blanketed blank off. She was this, I'm feel to be on blanketed blank dressing blanking blank patrol. Not dressing patrol, though, man stupid. Yeah yeah yeah. She got tired to your stupid to talk to me. I don't even know Benjamin, Benji by folks, what is your name? I love man, you know, no hurt our mama's feeling, you know feeling. I don't like the dressing. You better swallow. I tell you what. We're gonna bring that dressing down there. We ain't bringing none back home. We're gonna make and y'all end's gonna eat it. Man, I love it. See right there, right there, and see you not that right there? Why would we see? I'm gonna just say to see why See things you grew up on liking might not be what you boyce your stupid, but with your stupid ass, they know how yo, I'm gonna be most stupid than this this weekend at the Dating Convention Center. Tickets own sale, Nephew, Time you Friends Comedy show. You don't want to miss it. Tickets own see a red now all right, thank you, nephew. Coming up next Strawberry letter subject She's way too comfortable. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 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I'm a twenty nine year old man and I was dating an almost perfect woman until recently. We met at the wedding of one of my oldest friends, and my friend had lots of great things to say about her. That would seven months ago, and we were taking time to get to know each each other. She's two years older than me and further along in her career than I am, but she's never made a big deal out of it. We started attending church together right away, and I've met her family and friends, and she's met my mother. My mother didn't have much to say about her, and that bothered me. A few weeks later, my mother called me and said, my girlfriend has mannerisms of a trifling woman. She told me that my kitchen should have been clean, and there should have been the basic things like an adequate amount of bottle of water and liquid soap in the kitchen and both of my bathrooms. I didn't know what that meant until recently, when I started leaving my girlfriend alone at my house when I go on work trips. I came home one day to find her dirty clothes in a pile on the floor of my closet, and she said she didn't know where else to put them. The bed looked like it hadn't been made up since I left, and she said she intended to wash the sheets before I came home. That's not the half of it, though. She now comes into the bathroom and uses the bathroom while I'm in the shower or brushing my teeth. She's spend every night at my house since then, and whenever she goes back to her house, she brings more clothes to my guest room. My mother was right, and I wish I had paid more attention. I want to be with her, but she's too comfortable and taking over my home. How do I slow things down a bit and get her back into her own house. Okay, I'm trying to assess what the problem is and what you really want and why, because at the beginning of this letter, when you guys, you know, met and everything, and you didn't have an issue with this woman, you said she was almost perfect, almost perfect until your mom stepped in and said she had trifling ways. Your mom had a small list of wrong things in your house that she held your girlfriend accountable for, things like soap in the bathrooms, in the kitchen, no bottled water, and the messy kitchen too. I agree that if your girl is staying there, she should at least make sure she cleans up after herself. I have no problem with that, But it sounds like your girl is thinking she's a guest. She's thinking herself as a guest, not the woman of the house. Right now, you know what I say, don't be a mama's boy. Here, have your own grown man conversation with your girlfriend and discuss these boundaries in the bathroom and stuff that you don't like, you know, meaning her staying at your house too much. All that. Discuss everything with her. Remember you said you were taking time to get to know each other, and that's a process, and talking and communicating, it's all a major part of that. See how she receives this conversation. If she receives it negatively positively, and then go from there. And by the way, have you been to her house because you didn't mention that was her house clean. If it's a mess and you like a clean then you guys have a real problem. The point is you should handle this situation, not your mom, Steve, Nope, Shirley, I appreciate it. This young man has a different problem. This boy right here, Lord him moving too fast? Boy, We're just moving too fast. Twenty nine year old guy the Tyler letters, she weighed too comfortable. Oh boy, I will watch How to Teach You Something Sun. Twenty nine year old man. I was dating an almost perfect woman. Keyword, I was dating an almost perfect woman. There are none of them, so there are none. There are no perfect men, there are no perfect relationships, there are no perfect people. When you thought that, you was only setting yourself up for the let down. So let's go on and start. Met at the wedding of one of my oldest friends. My friends had a lot of great things to say about her. That was seven months ago. We were taking time to get to know each other. But watch this. She's two years older than me and further along in her career than I am. But she never made a big deal out of that. We started attending church together right away, and I met her family and friends, and she's met my mother. My mother didn't have much to say about her, and that bothered me. A few weeks later, my mother called me and said, my girlfriend has mannerisms of a trifling woman. Oh, you casted you. That's gonna Perkerman's kids back when her mama, when a man's mama made that assessment. It don't make you a mama's boys, just her assessment. Now, I could have called this to Mamma, just don't like and she hating, she over protective. I could go there, but that's not the case. She called and said that after a few weeks, and then the reason she told us what I didn't agree with. She said the kitchen should have been clean, and that should have been basic things like adequate amount of bottle water and liquid soaping the kitchen on both of my bathrooms. I ain't know what that meant me either dog, I don't eat, so what do they ain't No, damn bottle water isn't there. I got a big ass house and pay people and sometimes ain't. No, damn bottle water isn't now here's will roll because of this, But that's neither here nor that. Okay, I got hang on. We'll have part two of your response coming up in twenty three minutes. After the subject of today's strawberry letter is she's way too comfortable. We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject She's way too comfortable. Well, let me. I'm gonna teach you something about being a young man. So listen up. This is gonna be good. You're twenty nine year od dude. Day knew woman a couple of years old, and you you met out of way and everything was going to God. You've met her and you thought she was at almost perfect woman, which was setting yourself up for this letter because there are none of those out there, and there are no perfect men out there. So now that she was looking for near perfection and you found out it ain't there. Now you're gonna write into the radio show. So well, here we go. But you wrote in Uncle Steve. So that's good because I'm gonna teach you something. Man, she makes more money than you. Never made a big deal out of it. Y'all immediately started attending the church and everybody you met her family, you met your family. That thing to Ball that you was. Your mother didn't have much to say about it at Ball, that you and I understand. But a couple of weeks later, your mama called and your mama said that your girlfriend has mannerisms of a trifling woman. Now that perks a young man's ears back when his mother says that because he loves his mother. Most men are looking for their mama or traits like or inner woman. So when your mama said your girlfriend got mannerisms of a trifling woman, that's different. So and she told me that your kitchen should have been clean and should have been basic things like adequate amount of out of water liquid soap in the kitchen and both of my bathrooms. I don't know what that meant well me either, Dog be honest with you, I don't either. You can come over my house and not bring no damn bottle water. I can deal with that. You ain't got to put soap in the kitchen on the bathroom. Hell, wipe your hands off, run them under some water, wipe your hands off, come on back in here. But that's neither hear nor that. And then he started figuring out when I started leaving my girlfriend alone in my house when I go on work trips. I came home one day to found dirty clothes in the pile on the floor in the closet. The girl told you she didn't know where else to put them, but the bed looked like they had been made up since I left. She said she intended to wash the sheets before I came home. And but that ain't the half of it. She now comes into the bathroom and use this the bathroom while let me in the shower or brushing my teeth. This where the latter took a turn. What was that sound? That's a cost slamming on break what I'm in here brushing my teeth. You're using the tarlet, I'm in the shower. You're using the toilet. That ain't comfortable. You're doing too much. I don't want to hear this while I'm in the bathroom. I don't want to see this side of you. We ain't that cool. She spent every night at my house since then, and whenever she goes back to her house, she brings more clothes to my guest room. She's moving too fast, she's trying to move in. You're a good dude, man, and she see it. She seeing she trying to get all her stuff over that marker territory. Y'all been spending every night together. But when she go home, she brings more clothes to your guest room because it ain't a guest room no more. You know why, because you ain't fit to hand no more guests. Your guest room stands for guess who was the last person in? Now that's what your guest room is. Now. My mother was right, and I wish I had paid more attention. I want to be with her, but she's too comfortable and taking over my home. How do I slow things down a bit and get her back to her own house? Now, Son, this is where I'm gonna help you out. This is Uncle Steve talking to you. See. The problem is, young man, you don't know how to analyze your own feelings and situation. That's the problem you're having because you like her, and you thought she was perfect. You trying to work through a couple things. But some of these things that you're trying to work through, I don't think you're gonna be able to tolerate this. A messy woman is hard to deal with, just like a messy man. It's hard to deal with. But I for me, and you can call it sexist or whatever you want want to. I can't date a sloppy woman. I can't do it. I can't. I can't do that. I cannot date a woman that that don't keep herself up in the house. I can't do it. I can't do it. I can't do it. I'm not that great when it comes to keeping things around the house. Cleaning. Now, both of us trifling. So now I'm sorry. You can call that what you wanted, but my girl can't be trifling because I already know I'm sitting my trifling when they come to the house. See right there, right there. Now, you say what you want to say about me, but I'm making a car and they't her job to keep it clean. It's really ain't. I understand that it's a pitch in and do it both ways. I got all that and that's what we do around here. I pitch in, I pitch you, I pay for somebody to do my part. Yeah, that's how I pitch in. And you can do what you want to do. But I don't know how you're gonna handle it. But just coming in this damn bathroom, I'm here trying to brush my teeth. That's what you ain't gonna do. You definitely pull your drawers down, leave around your ankles to be sitting there making sounds and noise. I'm in here brushing my damn this is gonna stop right here. You got to go back home. Now. You say, now heting that not that's what? What do? What you think? Using the bathroom? And she and that champn? Now how do I slow things down a bit and get her back to her house? Dog? You don't know this, but you got to break up with this one because let me explain something to you. It's more of this. You just seeing this, You just get scratching the surface. Dog in seven months, if she using the bath room in front of you, it's some more behind curtain number three. I promise you that dog. You don't know how to analyze these feelings you have. And I break up at her. Thank you, she's not fit to stop being triping dog. I break on today's Stritary Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Okay, check out mother right, check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up at forty six minutes after the hour Junior and Sports Talk right after this, you're listening to show in today's trending headlines, a lot going on in the world. First, in the trial of Kyle Rittenhouse, the judge rips the media, saying that he'll think long and hard about allowing televised trials in the future. Also, when he referred to jurors from a previous trial, he referred to the African Americans as a black or the black. I mean, come on, judge, that sounds crazy, Okay, I heard. I mean it sounds like the racist that this judicial system is and has always been. He's a judge and you're referring to blacks as the black, a black. But they can't help it. And see the problem is he's having with live televised things is now people get to see what he'd been doing, Yes, sir, behind Clau's doors. See that's what problem is because now it ain't. It ain't the media. It's you see, see what happened with social media. It allowed us to take a peek behind the curtain because they've had the curtain up for years. See all of these, all these killings of blacks and all this heath. I've seen this mind tome sixty four. I've seen this mind entire life. I've seen blacks get killed by the police in Cleveland. It don't even make the paper. I saw it before, So this ain't nothing new to me. But now the curtain is back, and they don't like that. The curtain is back. That's right, you're right. Also in the Ahmad Arbery murder trial, we have two murder trials going on at the same time. The man Travis McMichael, who fatally shot Ahmad Arbery, describes a life or death encounter. Did you see they had the gun? You know, normally you don't see defendants take the stand right right, because it's self. But they know they have to do a desperate measure because this right here, they taking the stand so he can try to create something. What this man said was he grabbed my gun, and if that had if he had taken my gun, I feared for my life. That's a favorite thing. Wait a minute. First of all, why you got a gun? You chase this man down? He jogged and then he had to nerve this say, because I assumed he was a guy that had been breaking in a black dude running down the street. I said, man, you murder him on an that's your damn defense. You're a murder yes. Yes. Also in today's trending headlines, our condolence is going out to the family a rapper, young Dolph. He was shocked and killed at a bakery in Memphis yesterday. Our condolences definitely to his wife, his children. He was a beloved rapper. Wow. You know, I'm gonna be honest, I don't. I don't know much about him at all. That's not my lane. But the tragedy of it is, look this this violence. Man, it's out of hand. Yes it is. It's stam Shane kill this boy liked it all right. We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This family Travel portion of the Steve Harvey Morning Show is brought to you by our good friends at Walmart Family Mobile Stay a Step Ahead with Walmart Family Mobile with nationwide five G coverage powered by T Mobile. Plans start at less than twenty five bucks a month. Walmart Family Mobile Stay a Step Ahead five G service requires five G capable device availability, coverage and speed barring. Steve we know has been working very hard trying to plan a really nice trip for us during the holidays. We're so grateful. However, it's not done yet, but it could happen anyway. It's been a while since all of us have gotten together on the Morning Show and travel together. Okay, we always have fun wherever we go, but it's been a minute. Yeah, so, um, Carla came up with these questions for the crew. Uh, if everyone morning come on, if everyone on the Morning Show was at the airport, who would get pulled aside by TSA? Sure? Surely all that all that you need to fly? With all this here masking, I covering, I have come on. A man's got metal all on bluetooth speakers, trying to calm your nerves. Where you get on, I'm not hot blood pressure cuff? She got a high blood pressure cuff. Taking her blood pressure room and set your hands down somewhere. What's the next question? Here we go? Who would take the longest in the security lines? Tom surely fly through all this stuff, man, Tommy to be having a lot of stuff, clear everything right on? All right? Who would be which one of us would take his or her shoes off on the plane. See, I gotta take my damn I got to get the damn shoes off there anyway. Hell, I'm flying all that way over there on which I got. I gotta old, I gotta separate them. You know. It's a very rare that they spend time away from each other, but they enjoy the freedom sometimes. So I got spread these toes out little, not touched like like I can't like if I spread my toes like wild as I can like that second and third toe have never been away from each other, the one next to the big toe on the one right next to that, the tallest toe. He has never been away from his friend. They've never Yeah, dog, they damn this Simmese twins. Damn did they? I ain't never opened them up. But they might be webbed. They might not be able to separate. But that toe that's next to my big toe and the one next hit. They never separated. Now, Baby told him been off on his own. And I had a manicures, a pediculator that had a whole fifth round my big toe. One time I couldn't even breathe. I was hyperventilated. Help, if you don't get my toe ich your hand like that, just hold just five on your toe. They'll put that divide where it separate all of them. Well, Tommy, that's what if you're doing nail polish. That question isn't on here lacked up. Let's see, I don't. I don't polish my damn toad jail all right? Who would get their way too early? Julie Junior because he's scared I'm there. Who would get their late? Monica gonna get their weird? I'm getting there early. Who's who's gonna get there late? Late? Tommy probably Tommy. Yeah. Who's gonna get drunk before getting on the plane, Tommy, Julia, it's Julie want he gonna get drunk before you get on plane? On the plane, so let's get off the plane. All right. We'll have more of today's trending stories coming up on The Steve Harvey Morning Show. A twenty minutes after the hour right after this. All right, we'll have more of of the Sea Harvey Morning Show coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Congratulations to seventy six year old prostitute Beatrice three Dollars Thompson. Beatrice has retired after a fifty four years career. Huh. She left over five hundred thousand customers satisfied, including four American presidents. Beatrice three dollars Thompson is nicknamed three dollars for the price of a sexual act. When she started working in the sex industry. I mean, you had to work so long three dollars. Damn Inflation didn't nothing take the price up. You know, some people enjoy what they do. They love their jobs. I mean. The Sex Workers Union of Nevada named her sex Worker of the Year seventeen times. Okay, sex work of the Century. Her old ass was seventy six. Yes, she got six Worker of the Year of the year seventeen times and between check this out, Steve. Between nineteen sixty nine and nineteen ninety two, she was honored with her count for her contribution to the profession with a Lifetime Achievement award, and her very last customer was a thirty four year old man from Germany who made a trip to see her fifty four hundred miles. He wanted to see her and no one else. He said it was the best experience of his life. She has God given skills and over fifty years of experience. Wait a Minute's all right, turn her old ass somewhere, Steve Harvey three dollars. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now to play would you weather our round of would you rather go as like this? Um hm For the guys, would you rather have people admire you for the good things that you do in life? Or would you have rather have people respect you for your power? So you want to be a good person, to be a powerful person, basically, okay, would you rather have people admire you for your good deeds or would you rather people respect you for your power? Want to respect? I'm abo you want to be admired or respect Yeah, I'll just be admired. Yeah that's what I would you say, Junior, I'd rather be admired because that's what I'm doing. Now I'm doing at currently don't know. Would you say, m r. Spect you want people to respect you for your power? I really got no damn power. So what how you choose beating? I guess I'm hoping for the power, you know, I really ain't got no power. You want to see what they feel like. But at least he came to its own conclusion. We didn't have to help him out. Well, it's hard because I've I've felt both of those things, you know. But I think it's more important to be admired for the good things that you do. That's probably the most important respective power. I don't I don't like having to flex that. I don't um limited in certain areas, you know, But any you know, And yeah, anytime you're in the position of authoritative position, that gives you a certain amount of power, but you got to be careful with it. You have to be very very careful with it. And there's nothing you should I'd rather be liked for the good things that I do. It's power can work, all right. Here's another one. Would you rather live to be one hundred years old and you're out or would you rather live to be five hundred years old? Like they used to be some Bible and stuff, one hundred or five hundred, one hundred. I ain't gonna know nobody. We just walk around talking. Ain't nobody to talk to my lad free and dad for one hundred and ninety seven years ago? What the hell about to be doing? You? Ain't nobody gonna want to talk to me? Well, I remember when they they ain't had them with cell phone, y'all flying ride and all these cars and everything right here, and you know, do you know we actually walk somewhere? All right? All right, coming up, thank you guys, coming up with forty nine minutes after the hour. It is our last break of the day, and we'll get some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this. You're listening to show. All right, guys, here we are our last break of the day on this Thursday, Thursday. Yes one thanks from dressing. Wow Y, you know I'm eating a Keto diet right now, you know, Keto eating program. And uh my wife asked me, says, so, how do you want me to do Thanksgiving for you? I said, like I've been doing it for the other sixty three day. Change give me not changing damn fitting to go out of katosis, is all I'm saying. Yeah, that's right, all right. Before we get to your closing remark, Steve, we want to let the people know that the Steve Harvey Morning Show is back again with our annual Turkey Giveaway. Yes, now, this year's Steve Harvey Morning Show Turkey Giveaway is happening on Monday, November twenty second and Tuesday November twenty third. It's an honor and a privilege from all of us here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show to help those less fortunate, So please listen to the station for more details. The Steve Harvey Morning Show Turkey Giveaway is sponsored by our good friends at Walmart Family Mobile Stay a Step Ahead with Walmart Family Mobile with nationwide five G coverage powered by Team Mobile. Plans start at less than twenty five bucks a month. Walmart Family Mobile Stay a Step Ahead five G service requires five G capable device availability, coverage and speed varies. Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving. You know what, Steve, we have? We really really do. I think I think sometimes we as human beings have a tendency to lose sight of what we have to be thankful for. Because we are always on the hunt and the quest for something new, something more, something bigger, something better, and in our quest to get more, we oftentimes forget there's so many things that we should really be grateful for, because really, it doesn't have to be this way. I was on the set of the other day and we were in a briefing for my new show. We were all in the group talking. I don't really know these people, you know, that part of the show team and stuff. I've just met him for formatter a few weeks and I just said to them. We were all in the group talking and I said, you know, man, we all fortunate. You know, this is not how it really goes to be able to do. If you have a position or a job that allows you to do something that you enjoy doing. Do you realize that the average person does not really enjoy their job. The average person doesn't really enjoy their job. So I said, man, this is not regular. This ain't how it's supposed to be. I'm supposed to really be back on one of them jobs. I had living my life in complete and utter misery. But now you're also very fortunate if you have a job at all. See, and so instead of complaining about it not being the ideal job you want to have, what about the fact that you do have a job. And let's just think about the things that that job does provide. It may not be paying everything you wan't, but guess what. It provides a comfortable place to live, It provides clothing, it provides shelter, food, it provides some types of comforts, cable TV, car notes, gas money. It provides something. So even if you don't have a job you enjoy. How about the fact, where's the gratitude and just having the job? See, we lose sight looking at what we want, hope for, and aspire to, and we lose sight of what he's done for us, because remember when you didn't have a job and you just wanted a job. I remember setting them saying, man, I don't care what I do. I just got to find a job. I gotta get some money in him. And the other day it was kind of fool for me and me and my wife were having a conversation and she says, Steve, I know you're tip, She said, Steve, I noticed is a lot. She said, I really appreciate to where you work to keep your family together and all you do for everybody, for everybody, Steve hard And then I was sitting there, going, I'll steal a little kind of tying down and everything. And then my wife looked at me and she says, Steve, I just have to say this to me, because I know you can handle it. I said, babe, what is it? She said? Heavy is the head and wears the clown. And I knew that because I told it to her. But she's smart enough to remind me, and she know I'm the man that can handle that statement. She said, I'm sorry, but I have to tell you this. Heavy is the head that wears the crown, she said, and you wear it well, she said. But there ain't nobody gonna know how heavy this one is but you, because you only want to got this crown on you the king of this castle. She said. Now I'm the queen. I got some stuff on me you don't even know about. But she be you the king and heavy as the head that wears the crown. And then she looked at me and she said, and what's that other thing you always tell me about your plate? And I had to remind myself of this one. I said, you can't complain about what all's on your plate when your whole goal was to eat. And I went, oh, my goodness, And you know what this was the other day when I was a little tired and exhausted, or wearing the crown, when I was a little tired and exhausted of everything that was on my plate. And when I got through, I realized that I had the crown. So I got grateful, and I realized I had a lot on my plate, and I got grateful. So instead of worrying about what you ain't got, how about praising God for what you do? God? How that signed? So I like a winner to me. Y'all have a great day man all see y'all amarg wining peace for all. Steve Harvey contests No purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.