Good morning and welcome to the ride! This is The Steve Harvey New Day Morning Show. "Joy cometh in the morning!!!" The CLO has to remind us about honesty not being the best policy, especially about "real attraction" and there is no disagreement. Trailblazing actress and legend Cicely Tyson passed away at age 96. Harriet Tubman on the $20 bill has started a trend. Fool #2 goes there!!! Former Seattle Seahawks player Chad Wheeler has been charged with first degree domestic violence. We wish Oprah a very special Happy 67th Birthday. Inside Comedy Roulette, we have the things you say when you know you messed up dinner. Today in Closing Remarks, Steve talks about erasing 2020 and focusing on 2021.
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Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all have a sun giving them like the million bucks things in the stuff, true good of the listening to the other. For I don't join join me. You gotta use turning. You are you gotta turn to turnout turn You got to turn them out, turn the water the water go. Come come on your tha uh huh. I show will a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a radio show, Man on Man on man. Wow. I think about all the things God has done for me is overwhelming at times. And I want everybody to have that feeling and to sharing that feeling of completion and satisfaction. And the only reason I got this, and it's the thousandth time I've said it, is because I formed a relationship with my creator. Period. That's it. That's it. That's it. I can't tell you as anything else else. You know, I've always had a strong work ethic. My father put that in me. My father's conversations with me growing up was always constantly about work hard, don't be lazy, be a man, do what you say you're gonna do YadA, YadA, YadA, YadA YadA. Man, I was so tired of my father at times. I was going, Man, what is with this dude? Right here? Man, every time we have a conversation, it's got to be about work. It's got to be about you know, man, doing your best, trying hard, you know, working, being honest, do what you say you're gonna do. But that was his mission. I can't tell you how much I appreciate that now. I can't even I can't even put it into words when I think about my old man and what he was to me, and I just saw, Man, I'm so grateful for that balance I had in my life. And then my father was a fighter. He fought on the weekends. You know. My father used to come home with his with his clothes toe off of him. He put a fresh shirt on and he go back. My mom used to talk about my father fighting all the times, Nick, why you're always fighting? You know a little bit of that rubbed off on me too, you know that that kind of got into me and I didn't understand that either. But then on the same turn, my mother was a Sunday school teacher for forty years, so her conversation was never about fighting or anything. It was all about love and understanding and doing another that you would add them do under you. My mom was a Sunday school teacher, so I learned about faith. I had to go to Sunday school, prayer meeting, Bible study, young people meeting, choir rehearsal. You know, I was a churchman so much I was actually looking, that's got to be an alternative to this, you know, I want you know, And I was a little kid even I was thinking at one point, maybe all the looking all because it's got to be something cooler than this going on every day. It got that crazy for me. But the balance between those two people created who I am today. And I want you to understand that the things that you are in your past have helped create who you are today. If you view it the right way, everything that has happened to you in your past has happened to you for a reason, and as you usually for the good if you view it that way. But if you, on the other hand, or a type of person who can't move forward because you are allowing your past to stop you from having your future, then you, my friend, are doing a disservice to your life. You are not honoring God's blessings. You are not taking advantage of the gain, knowledge, wisdom, and experience of your life. Example, if you are a woman and you are always talking about a formal relationship, what he did to me. If he had not did this to me, I wouldn't be in this place today. I thought I had a man. Now I ain't got no man. A la la la la la. If you know, he came along and I was doing just swell, he just came in and he just lied to me. He lied to me. Now that he did this to me. Then he cheated, then he left. All of that that you're saying can very well be true. Have you thought that maybe maybe somewhere in God's infinite wisdom, that he knew that you had made a mistake in picking him anyway? Maybe he knew you had made a mistake in saying yes or I do to him anyway, or come on move in? And so what he did was based on your decision now to say yes, I do or come on let's move in together. That was your decisions. You ain't go to him about this one. You made this decision based on that decision and all the negative things that started happening. He allowed you to get away from it. Now how you got away from it? It's always not the choice of ours. See, you stuck on the fact that he left, that he walked out. But let me share this with you. When he was there, How good was he to you? How good was he for you? See, you got to you got to stare. You got to look at the blessing. The blessing is. Now you are on your own. Now you walk in your house. Ain't nobody in there with a disruptive spirit. Now you go home. You could take your clothes off, walk around like you want to. Now you go home, you can sit down and look at TV or catch your breath if you want to. Your kids don't have to see y'all arguing all the time. Have you looked at the blessing in it? But now, if you're gonna keep looking at the negative, then guess what. Now you can't move forward because you keep allowing your pass to keep you from moving forward. If God has bought you through it, why don't you move on from it? Look, you got through it. He gone, He ain't coming back. He got somebody else, So you're gonna sit there and just keep tripping costs. He gone and he got somebody else. Ain't pick yourself up. Thank God for the blessing. It didn't feel like a blessing. Why you was going through it, and all the pain of him leaving and the divorce and all that messed you up? Got it when you get through it, all of that. You ain't the first one being left. You ain't the first woman been divorced. You ain't the first one been in a bad relationship. Pick yourself up, Thank God for the blessing, and move forward in your life, because maybe when you quit complaining, maybe you'll find out that God has something in store for you that he wants you to have, but he cain't give it to you if you ain't grateful. So God gives you a blessing, but because you don't see it as a blessing, you ain't grateful for it. Now, guess what, You steady asking God to do something for you, but you ain't thanking him for what he's done for you, but you steady wanting him to do more. How does that work? How does that work? Man? That He should keep on giving you things when you ain't even working with the stuff he didn't gave you. And I don't know, And I'm just I'm just using that one example. It could go for me and too, vice versa, and so on and so far. I'm just using that as an example. Now, why I laid on that one so long? You take that out with God. That's all just three. I ain't pointing fingers that nobody in nothing because I've been guilty on both sides of the coin. Who am I? But I'm just sharing with you what I had to do. I had to learn to stop allowing my past to interfere with my future. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen. It is upon us. It is called morning. It is something that we look for faithfully on a daily basis. It subscribes us and beckons us to begin a new day. Morning symbolizes a fresh beginning. Morning means that the darkness is gone. Ladies and gentlemen, This is the darkness gone, symbol of a new day morning show. There Steve Harvey, New Day Morning Show. Well you better come on preaching, ladies and gentlemen. Whoa Lord? Whoa Charley Strawberry, Hey, Steve Joy cometh in the morning. You know that weeping may endure for a night a man, but joy coming in the morning. Hey, Yes, Colin Farrell, you bout a minister up in here, up in here, good moaning, lady and gentlemen. Kill the junior spakes sevent two days hospital free, thank Lord. Yes, joy in the morning. I get joy what I think about what he's done for me. I get joy when I think about what he's done for me. I get joy when I think go bo. That's all you now, sir, Well, and now that's it for now. J Anthony Brown, he's here. I've had joy. I've had joy. Leave in the morning, and I told Joy, I'll call you later. What up? She He didn't do it? I can't. He's not here. A whole lot top top Friday morning, Baby, the day's a new day. Welcome back, Shane. What's up? How y'all doing? How's everybody? What a week? What a fool? What you've been doing this week? Jake? Not so glad, Steve, I'm so glad I've been I've been working so hard. You exhausted. The day is Friday and you can finally take a break. Who I'm putting the hours in He asked, well, I don't have you Oh what you say, Steve? He was He just wears his ass out known Friday, didn't he get in here? How to Tuesday? Wednesday? And it happened gradually because at first it was every day, it was Monday through Friday. Then it dwindled down, I think to three days a week. You're really throwing him und no, no, this is the truth. Now. That was such a free I don't even know if I'm gonna make a call of today after the hour, asked the CLO. Right after this, you're listening to show. All right, guys, it is time for ask the CLLO. The Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey is in the building. Are you ready, sir, Let's go oh yeah, oh yeah. This one is from Talia in Atlanta. Talia says my husband and I decided to spice of her sex life after being married for almost twenty years. Back in the day, we'd have sex anywhere, so he had a brilliant idea to have sex in the backseat of our car in the parking lot of a Best Buy. The sneaking part was fun, and we were almost done when someone yelled on a knocked on the window and it was a parking lot security guard. He yelled, hey, you can't do that here. The security guard is my son's friend. What have I recognized me? And tells our son, how do we explain this? Whoa, that's what you worried of her? Well? Yeah, I mean it was what your husband you're problem with? Be If that wasn't your husb, you can always say, boy, you know good hair whar We wasn't doing nothing in that damn park a lot. I had dropped a French fry down in the crack of that seat and was trying to get down and then get that thing. That's all that wolf, damn French fry. And I still when I found I found French fry from last summer. That just say that. You know you ain't got will about them. But she was naked though, okay, moving mama, It was almost well, I got hot, you know, I was trying to find it French FRIEDA he got hot his hell in there because took me so long to find it, damn French fry. So I just took my clothes and what was daddy doing? Who daddy? He was naked? Two looking? You know how your daddy is all right, moving on Ronnie and North Carolina. I'm not using my real name because I would be in a world of trouble if my friend finds out I'm messing with his oldest daughter. For the record, she's thirty six and fine. I'm only forty two and my friend is much older than me, so it's not like I'm a dirty old man. And I have a real attraction to his daughter. And sex is the best because we've known each other for so long. She's ready to be honest with her dad, but I need more time. How do I tell my friend this, You're gonna get your ass, boy, Yeah, this ain't none but just ass whipping on the horizon, you know. But she wants to be honest. Well you know now, Okay, let's let's do a little bit of math. She thirty six. Let's assume he's fifty six. Let's say she had him he was father at twenty. Dad, let's say eighteen. Let's say he's fifty four. You forty two to girl thirty six. He ain't gonna handle it, right, man, He just ain't. He just because he doesn't want his friend. Yeah, and the friendship, well, you know, being uh being honestly, Now come, he keep telling y'all, where is this? Honesty is the best policy? Where do they keep coming from? How many times have I told y'all about that? Why I keep proving this to y'all over and over and over. Honesty is not the best policy. I am a proponent of this. Don't don't do this? So they should just keep cat Is with you to your grade. Yes, huh, what if it turns into something? I mean it has turned into something he turned into? What a real relationship? That ain't way saying it is? He says, just the best sex, that's all. He said that he is. He said he has a real attraction to her, and she wants to tell him a real attraction to y'all. Huh, do you know how many real attractions listen to this, y'all? And all of y'all notice is true? Do you know how many real attractions you got to keep to your damn self? Oh? Yeah, that's where the line stuff comes in. Okay, okay, cloth, yeah, keep yeah. Why are you looking like you disappointed in the team? I don't, I don't. What is this a damn discussion for? Yeah? All right, so your attractions come in the room. You got to lead, you know what I mean. Out of the big in Birmingham, we've moved on. Steve says, I've been driving trucks for ten years and I'm ready for a career change. I am trying to lose weight and stop smoking, but it's hard. The reason I want a lifestyle change is because I met a special lady recently and I want to see her more. She says. She gets lonely when I'm away, so it causes her to date other men. She said, if I'm home, she will be all about me. My kids said, I'm falling for a garden tool, and they told me to get advice from uncle Steve the Cllo before she breaks my heart. Is she worth my time or not? Cllo? Well, surely did he give an age? No, but he's been driving trucks for ten years. Okay, okay, you've been driving trucks. Your name is Big Daddy. You're trying to lose weight. Yeah, you're trying to lose weight because you got this girl you like and stop smoking because you got this girl who's like you. And when you away, she says, she misses you and it causes her to date other men and if you was around all the time, she could be about you. You want to get into relationship with a person like this, because see this, if you were here, I could be all about you, could be you for right now. You driving off too many times. It could work his way into just here where you went to the store. I was sitting here, so I wanted to date. Took your ass down to that store and took forty minutes. He was just sitting on the punch talking, so I entertained a gentleman. I don't know, man, I don't know. I would lose wait and quick smoking so I could be health and meet the chicken my dreams. She may not be it dog, she may not be it all right, clo, good advice. Good advice is always coming up. Next. The nephew would run that brank back right after this you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour. Miss Anna's standing by with national news, and we'll all still have today's entertainment news. But right now the nephew is here, would run that prank back. What you got for is nev girl Scout cookies. Everybody here, Come on, girls Scout cookies, Come on, kay doctor, Hello, Hello, my three day. Who's this? Um, how are you doing? Man? My name is Glenn Man. I work in I work in building too. You work for media? Right? Yeah? What what's fun? So we probably met a couple of times. Uh do you have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh? Why what's up you guys? You guys live together? Or what? What is this your business? Like? What? What's what's what's the deal? What's what's what are you asking about? My girl? Well, let me ask you this here. What's what's what's going on with you and at the job? Uh? What what do you what do you mean? What's going on? Like? Like I mean you you know you know right? I mean? So what like? What? What's what's the deal? What? What? Who are you like? Who? Who the are you? Like? What? What? What the what? What is this for? Like? Why are you? Like? I don't even know your I just calmed down, bro, just climed down, Like I say, my name is saying I work a dealer too, you know, And I know I just tell you now, I know you. I know what you want doing, Okay, I know what y'all doing at the job. I already know and a couple other people know what's going on. And I know you got a girl. I know you got a girl at home. I know that. What so so what what? What? What the what? What is this about? Like? Why why do you call my pholt trying to harass me about the book? Like? Who are you? Like? What? What? What is your problem? Like? Hey? Man, hey, hey hey, calling down man? I finished. I ain't trying to tell you a little secret or nothing like that. I ain't trying to do that, all right, But but but I'm gonna be real with you, okay, all right, Like I said, you know, I got one of your names. I got your number from one of co workers. Okay, I got your number. I say, I want to I want to give the car and you talk to him about something. That's how I got your number. So yeah, who gave you ten? We'll get to that later. Okay, we'll get to that later. But let me but let me say this though. I know what's going on with you and to the job, all right, and I ain't going to say nothing about it. You know, that's just our little secret or whatever. But I do have something I want you to do. Though. What do you want there? But what do you want? You call me? Bugging me about all this book, like what do you want? What do you want? Well? Here it is, man, listen, I ain't gonna say nothing about what you got going on, all right, That ain't that ain't even I don't even care about that. But here here's what I do want you to do. I do need some help from you. All right. Listen. My little girl is selling girl Scout cookies and I want you to buy fifty boxes of them all right, will be a cash out because she got to have them sold by tomorrow morning. Are you kidding me? Bro? You Okay, so you're on some blackmail's books and listen to who gave you my number? Because you want to call me asked me to buy them some cookies and you should just bet a man and ask me about it. Like, don't be calling my phone trying to give me that book, Like come on, man, like I ain't got no time for this. Like I'm asking you to do is buy todaymn cookies. Man, that's it. You know what I'm saying. I'm just saying, I do want you to buy some cookie. I need you to buy fifty box you little girls Scout cookies? Can you do that? No? No, no, no, no no no, no no, no, no, no no, no, no. You ain't gonna call and try to manipulate me and defying like you're you're talking? Are you trying to make me fight? Ain't but you're nothing for you disrespecting me, calling my phone, trying to act like you like, just trying to manipulate. I ain't down with that, bro. I ain't done you. You don't want to buy my cookies though, so do you want me to call your your girls and ship ship on my cookies? So you gotta say the away from my throw man like, don't don't come near her, Okay, you don't call her, come get her, come near me. You just get get the out of here. I'm about to start this ninety figure out who you are, and come right after you, man like, because I ain't playing, bro, I ain't all right. So I'm gonna tell you what, man, I ain't gonna argue with you. I'm gonna argue with you, but I'll get off the phone right now. I'll get off right now, and I'm gonna your girl. I'm gonna call your girl and see if you want by some No no, no, no, no, you ain't call nobody. You just get you get I try to. God, I'm gonna find out who you are. I'm gonna find out who gave you that number. I'm gonna call you up like you know, you'na call me trying to write me? Okay, hey, man, hey, hey, you know what angrean cool, we're still talking about it, all right. I'm gonna get the right like you so so so I'll get off the phone like you want me to, Adan, I'll do that. But let me let me ask you this though. Let me ask you this though. You sure you want me to call you? Sure you want me to do that? And right, ain't isn't that her name? Man? You something individual? All right? Look how much of these cookies? How much you want? And man, Tommy told me you would buy the cookies, Tommy, Yeah, Tommy told me you would buy the cookies, Tommy, Tommy, Amen, Amen, check it out. This is nephew tom Me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your co worker got me to pray for call. Yah my God, I'm gonna kill him, Damn. I was so so oh God, listen, so listen, Adrian. We have beat we have beat all the names, so nobody knows the things at all. Okay, you're good, bro, You're good a man, and I you got me. Oh God, I'm I'm gonna go. I'm gonna take a nap. Man. I just used up all my Yeah, I'm done. Oh God, Like, hey, where you go? I am going off? You up? Man, I can't believe you got me on this little Tell me this man one more thing before you go. What's the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the land, The Steve Harvard Morning till Man, which is why he got played every morning. Kill me, bro, little black mail ain't gonna never hurt nobody. You know what I'm saying. You gotta do what you gotta do everything. No, you're messing round with this lady at the job. But let me tell you something. I ain't gonna say nothing. If you buy something, girls got you get these sales up you That's all I want. I ain't gonna tell what you're doing. I know what you're doing, though. Man, you're getting cooking now about some cookies? Now? Wow? You know he broke when he said, how much is the damn cooks man? How much? Mad? Yeah? They can do what it do. It's time to start buying them again. Too. You know the lovely little girls? Is that outside the supermarket? So it's time cooking because they've grown people cooking. I ain't damn cooking. It should be grown ass people cooking. We'll be eating two or three boxes. Yeah, why are you even in this conversation? You can't have like six boxes of them? But yeah, cooking you girls? All the girls couts out there. Yeah, Carl used to be a girls cot You want me to sing the song girls Scots to Wow. Look at the time coming. No, you ain't cooking. I'm listening to my ear coming up at the top of the hour. Entertainment and national news. You're listening to show in today's entertainment news, some very sad news out of Hollywood. Iconic and legendary actress Cecily Tyson has passed away. She was ninety six years old. Her manager, Larry Thompson, released a statement yesterday saying missus Cecily Tyson has made her peaceful transition. Please allow the family their privacy. As we all know, Miss Cicily Tyson had roles in theater, film, and television, including the autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman, a woman called Moses. The King, MLK story Sounder, and so the list goes on and on. Miss Tyson was married, Yes, yeah, she was married, of course, to Miles Davis from eighty one to nineteen eighty eight. Throughout her career, she refused to play drug addicts, prostitutes, or any type of role that was demeaning to black women, and she gained so much respect for that. Miss Tyson was also one of the founding members of the Dance Theater of Harlem. In twenty sixteen, President Obama presented Miss Tyson with the Presidential Medal of Freeman Freedom, of the nation's highest civilian honor. Miss Tyson passed away just days after her memoir was released. It's called just as I Am a memoir. Wow to get that, Yeah, yeah, you know, in in today of social media and in all um, you know, we really we you know, we really know how to pay homage to to our current stars, you know, people who are are socially relevant to day, and sometimes we missed the legacy of our treasures that made us who we all are today. You know, this woman was a trail blazer in every sense of the word. I mean, if there was no Sicily Tyson, I don't know if you understand this. You you getting no Oprah Winfrey, You you getting old Maya Angelou, You getting no, You getting no Beyonce, You getting no this. This is really how relevant of a figure this woman was, and and and black women in this industry know this about her, and I hope that they do it right, even though it's tough, you know, because there's a lot going on. But I hope people don't miss her real contribution to us as a people, because she was doing it at a time where being us was not popular, cool or allowed, right, And that's what when you could become a black star, when she was a black star. Yes, yes, you better know your ass was doing something, that's right. M h. So she was special on the whole other level, man, just a whole other level of grace and style and dignity. The way she carried herself now, Yeah, Tyler Perry, even in her later years, Man, Tyler used a lot I liked and I was glad to see that. Viola Davis she played her mother and How to Get Away with Murder on tv UM. Yeah, yeah, man, queen, just a queen. Yeah, we lost a great beautiful spirit. Reverdy my favorite, Cold Cold Yeah, that's one of my favorite movies of all times too. Yes, yes, um yeah, Arcndola and deepest sympathy going out to the Tyson family. Rest in peace, Queen. All right, Steve, we're gonna move on now. Time for today's headline, ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Trimp No, thank you very much, everyone, Okay. President Biden signed two more executive orders yesterday, this time dealing with Obamacare, undoing basically what former President Trump did to it, so access to health insurance. So the Affordable Care Act is back on. It's expanded again, giving people who may have lost their jobs in healthcare due to the pandemic a chance to sign up for coverage that they may need now more than ever. There's nothing new that we're doing here other than restoring the Affordable Care Act in restoring the Medicaid to the way it was before Trump became president. The President says that the executive orders are going to protect reproductive rights, expand access to abortion, and re examine Trump administration policies that actually undercut protections with people with pre existing additions. The enrollment periods opened from February fifteenth. That's when it opens and it stays open for another three months. A federal grand jury hasn't died of three individuals associated with the far right group called the Oath Keepers that's a militia that recruits her military and law enforcement, on charges of organizing the DC insurrection. The indictments accused the extremists of coming with a plan and ready to provoke violence. Me and my LOVERA thirty House members have sent a letter to House Speaker Nancy Pelosi and House Minority Leader sent Kevin McCarthy asking for more flexibility and using their congressional allowances. Why well, they say, in light or recent events, they say they need to surround themselves with more security. They need to surround their families and more security. Speaker Pelosi says the situation is just shameful. While it's appropriate that they use their MRA for their security, they shouldn't have to because that money is there for them to meet the needs of their constituent. The Speaker says, though in the meantime security measures have been ramped up, they're still being stepped up, and in the meantime, a Lieutenant General Russell Harnaree is investigating the failures in Capitol Hill Security. Okay, so he's looking into and they're gonna continue to adjust and readjust to make sure she says that things are safe. You know when the old folks say the death comes in twos and threes, but this is more like fours, because we've now most recently lost Hank Hank, Aaron, Larry King, Chloris re Leachman, and now the legendary Cicily Tyson. Cincilee Tyson was born in New York of Caribbean parentage. Your parents were from Neivas, and in a career that spanned over seven decades, Tyson became best known for her roles as strong, elderly Black American women. Cicciley Tyson the recipient of three Emmy Awards, a Tony and Honorary Oscar, among other things, and she's mostly remembered for the portrayal of Miss Jane Pittman. I'm gonna call you something besides ty See. Tyson's a slave name Helloise, Sophie Marguerite Jane. I like Jane. Now from now on, your name is Jane Jane. Cicilee Tyson was ninety six years of age. The cause of death has not been mentioned. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show listening. All right, Steve, go ahead, take it away. Introduce your friend. You hired him, glad to have him here all day, Ladies and gentlemen, with deep sadness and regret. I introduce to you somebody who may be here or may not be here. We don't know, Ladies and gentlemen, Jay Anthony Brown, you might you might get all of that today. But what I'm about to say, you might get all of that. There's gonna be some upsetness before I say what I have to say. Okay, just know, okay, we are all excited. I know I am. That Harrod Tumming is gonna be on a twenty dollar bill. I'm excited. Yeah, it's great. Hear me, it's great. Don't stop there. Put Charlie Wilson on the five. Put him on the five. Don't stop there. Put Sultan pep Up on the three dollar bill. Now it's three people in the group, Salt and Pepper, and the three dollar bill came out in eighteen twenty four. I did the research the hundred dollar bill. Put um notorious, b I G. Let's get some black people on this money. But hear me, hear me when I say this to me, Listen to what I'm about to say. Before you put anybody in black on some green money, Before you put anybody black on some green money, we gonna need a hell of a campaign to let people know this money is coming out. We're gonna need billboards. We're gonna need it on the side of it. Were gonna need t shirts. Were gonna need it inside the airplanes. We're gonna need it on patch of sugar. We're gonna need it the football field. We're gonna need bands to spell it out. Black money is coming. We're gonna need people to know about it. When you're watching your favorite show, whatever your favorite showing. We interrupt these messages to let nothing that money anybody in black. Alder twenty Now back to our program, because I'm here to tell you you can't just throw this money. I didn't like that. You can't. You can't. Look, she's a great lady, what she did was great, but you can't just put this damn money. I didn't like that. And people don't know. I can tell you who're not gonna take it. I can tell you who no gonna take this money. Dope, dann no, donpe deal it in the world. What I know, and I know a couple they're not taking this damn money. You've got to have a campaign to let people know. And lestan I tell you who else strippers ain't taking this gonna have it. They're gonna look at you like sugar, sugar, sugar, sugar, sugar, You gonna sugar, You gonna who no Sugar, No, when sugar win doing us tonight? That's my ja ja what about? Yeah, he just got his money out there, like all right, coming up, Black soul food restaurants ain't gonna take it. We'll be back right after this. You're listening Steve Morning Show. Okay, Jay, before we went to break, you were talking about Harriet Tubman on the twenty dollar bill. Your thoughts leave, go ahead, And I just said that a lot of places, not for instance. For instance, Steve, I'd like you to do a reenactment. The pastor has taken up collections. Somehow he found five of these Harrod Tubman twinnies in the plate. Nobody gonna hold him about him. I'm gonna need the organ here we go. We want to bring something to your attention. First of all, we are grateful for those in attenders and who have dug deep into the pockets and gave or what you had. I have noticed during the count that that was about that team bills in the trade that we need to discuss. Don't come in here passing county fit money up in here because we're not gonna have it. I don't know because I ain't seen the smith on Bill Bolls. I ain't seen no T shirts. I ain't seen no we interrupt this regularly scheduled program to make me a well that they didn't put somebody new on this twenty dollars bill who decided that they was gonna put this on the bill. And have we told enough people I can't cut his money down to Bank of America and laid this up here. And these white folks don't know what I know. I'm gonna slap the first white person that tell me they don't know who the hair she eats? Look ill, since the High Rock has done for us, I appreciate the underground reil. I appreciate the billy did get up out your sleep in the middle of the night and carry on. I appreciate you're going back and free. And everybody, what have you told the white people that we gonna put our ass on a Twitter called right now. I cut it down to the bank and one more white person say to me, who the hell is sheet? I don't snap. The first white folk that don't know her name is the late great Harry Tubman. I didn't ask you who Benjamin was. And I ain't never seen it procast, but I take it down dare anyway. I don't ever know what Andrew Jackson did. I don't give a damn about Abraham Lincoln. After I saw the movie five hours, I sat there, Wait, I'm to sign the Emancipatient Propertation, sign this damn paper so we can be free. I'm trying of watching this program movie. Abraham Lincoln took five hours to sign the paper we're holding eighty nine. That ain't fair, y'all. I want some announcements me. I need more, more, an awareness campaign. I needed to be bought to the forefront. I need for people to be talking about it on Fox. If Fox don't mention it, we find the kitchen there, we eat it. Contons of milk we needed on Conn needed everyone. We need it on milk cottons, Yes, we need it. On baby food. We need posters and walk. Oh mark you on toilet paper, you don tilet paper? All right, thank you? Pastor Hey man, Hey man again man, all right. Coming up next, the nephew with the frank phone call right after this you're listening to show coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today. The subject my side piece lives with us. Okay, we'll get into that and just a little while. But first over there over there, they do that over there over there, Yeah, not over here over there. The nephew is here right now with today's frank phone call. What you got for us? Next, we're gonna pick it back Uncle Steve, you know head him took him to church on that last break. You know we're gonna run on, slide on into the praise dance. Let's slide right on into the praise dance. Yeah, praise dance. Hello. This is the day that the Lord is made. Let us rejoice and be glad in And how you doing? I'm looking for uh since Tania. This is Stania Satia. This is brother Fuller from the church. How are you. Oh, I'm with brother Soul. How are you? I'm good? I'm good. Um, we wanted to give you a call about the about the praise dancing that's at the church. First of all, I wanted to really show you how much you're doing a great job over there with the praise dances and you you definitely do a great job on uh every third Sunday that you guys actually perform. Everybody seemed to really like it. Well, thank you, thank you. What can I do for you today? It was a bit of a situation with um, you know, it's been brought to our attention. We actually had a small gathering, a little meeting about it and wanted to I've been elected to actually give you a call. And who is this king? I'm sorry, who are you again? Brother Fuller? Uh huh and and who had a meeting uh some of the brothers at the church and uh path to actually sat in for a moment on it. And I was actually elected to actually just give you a call. That nothing that I don't think we can't get rectified, and you know, move on slowly as we normally do. But I just think it's we wanted to reach out to you and kind of make you aware of it. If it's if you don't mind, okay, um, and what things are those? Well? Since a Tania has any of the praise dancers before they became praise dancers? Was was was any of them strippers? I beg your partner, was any of the praise dancers that at the church that you have on the praise team right now with any of them strippers in the past. I'm sorry, sir, I don't I don't really know who you are, um, and I don't really understand this line of question. But like I said, i'm brother full I don't think we've met. But uh, like I said, I've been elected to give you a call. Not now. It seems like what happened is this past week when you all actually danced, it seemed like a couple of the girls was actually gyrating during the praise routine. Hey, what jat raiding? Brother Fuller. I don't know who you are and I don't know what you saw. None of my girls with gy rating. They were dancing for the Lord. And I think if you look through your Lord's eye, perhaps you would see them better instead of maybe you were looking through the jar rating. Aye, look, a couple of the girls, we can point them out a couple of them have uh, strip girl tendencies of it. Then, because some of them has been strip girl tendencies, you know what, sir, I think we need to complete this call. Perhaps I need to call Bishop and speak to him myself, because you know, I don't know what you do all days, but I have a real job and I'm sitting here holding a conversation in my office about gyrating strippers in the church. Are you kidding me? Man? Listen? Now here's a couple other things that they're talking about. Because some of the girls feet a real ass you when you all a performing and they wanted to see it, maybe you can, you can. I don't know. I don't know if y'all need to grip or whatever that y'all don't. Y'all don't put lotion on. We're not sure what that is. As well as the totalail pilot, everybody has three, four, five different designs and everything is it? Any way, y'all can be in unison with your totalail polis. But the most important thing ill the ji raton doing the dance routine. I don't know what your feet look like. I don't need you calling me talking to me about my girls. Their feet, their nail pilots. Perhaps your man should be on Jesus instead of on them. How about that man? From my mind, I don't have time. I don't have time, and to be on Jesus when somebody shaking them. But at the church, now that's the problem. I know what. Look, I'm at work now, I'm trying to keep a work tone. You're gonna make me curse up in here. Now let me tell you something. Don't call me anymore. I will deal with pastor. If he has something to say with me, he can say it to me personally. But I'm done with this conversation. Are you gonna deal with the ji raton? Is what we want to know? Maybe you know what? It just hit me. Be you one of the ones that's doing the genre. Look, let me tell you something. My girls aren't doing a rating, and neither am I. Now I am done with this conversation. Do you understand you? But listen, I'm done all You're done with the rating? That's what we want to stop so we can We can't praise the Lord if the boot isn't shake you know what, church, Look, I gotta go to work. I gotta go now again. I don't know what your issue is. It sounds to me like you have an issue which I reading booties and I heard so much gy reading booties in one conversation in my entire life. Now my mind is set on Jesus. I don't know what your man is set on? What's to tell you? Before you was a praise then a ministry over the ministry? Did you l used to strip? Yeah? I didn't do no striping. Now did your wife do any stripping? What did your mom gonna do any stripping? What mean you heard what I said you? How do you like to somebody call? You would ask you if your mamma get some stript? And how do you like that? I'm you know, and I want to know when is the next rehearsal. That the way I can come and pick out of who it is that's doing this time. Well, you don't have you don't have any businesses that my rehear. So I don't want to see you at my rehearsal. I don't want to. I don't want to see any part for you in my rearse If I see you near one of my girls, That's why I'm coming up for you myself. Do you understand me. You need to find out who's doing that job. You don't girl thing you need to say your body yawn high and I'm glad y'all ain't this And when the latists being paid because I ain't not telling her? You at with the ones coming through it? You know what? That's it. That's it. You call me disrespecting me. I'm at work. They can't even have thisen more. You know what. Don't call me no more. Don't look at my girls no more. Man come to the church and see what I got for it. I don't want to know. Is you're gonna stop the job? Rating is gonna do it? Gonna do it? Who they you talking to like that you're supposed to be. I'm gonna stop you say yea, lees have done listening to tell you now I'm getting ready to get when I got one more thing to say to you for your lead Now, you ain't got a thing to say to me. I said I was telling, and I said I got one more thing to say. It is you listen. You know what, man, get out of my phone. I'm gonna say it anyway. This is nephew Tommy's from the Steve Harvey Morning show, your entire prayers, ministry, congregation, all your girls, got me the frank phone call you. Oh, I'm a shoot for Oh I think I'm tursing on the radio. Oh oh, oh, I think I'm don't have a show. I got one thing to ask you. To tell you what it is, the baddest radio show in the land, nobody else with the Steve Harvey more on the show. Wow, man, I'm through talking to you. I'm gonna make me work. You're gonna yeah, perhaps you should have your mind on Jesus word like that, And I'm at one, I'm world and I'm trying to talk to you in a in a at work tone. Yeah, but you're gonna make me you You're gonna make me yep. Yeah, you know what. Maybe maybe you wanted the one. Maybe you wanted. Yeah, I'm my baby. When the money came out. That was funny, Tommy, We're supposed to praise a little all this booty shaking. How do you think of this stuff? It's crazy. It's the left side. The left side is on the side. It's over. The geniuses are on the left side. That's what we reside. It's on this side of the show, right where the genius reside. Yes, I didn't know. Quiet you know, I've never been attracted to any praise dances ever, Ela el elver praise dancers at our church. No, all the praise dances in our church, that's what they needed to be. That's what they need to be. They couldn't have danced nowhere else. Nearly the praise dances at our church was just was just why remember wonna bees? But they couldn't sing. That's all they was at our church. All right, Thank you, nephew. Coming up next to this is my Strawberry Letter of the subject my side piece lives with Us. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationship, stating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read this one right here right now. Buckle up, hold on time, We got it. Put you here. It is the Strawberry Letter, Thank you, nephew. Subject my side piece lives with us. Dear Stephen Shirley, I need some real, honest advice because I'm in a serious situation. I've been married for fifteen years to a very beautiful and wonderful woman. Lately, the sex has gone from two or three times a week to once a week. About a year ago, her sister went through a bad divorce and needed a fresh start in a new city. So my wife and I invited her to move to our city and stay with us until she got her own house. Her sister is a great woman, and she is a good head on her shoulders, so it was not hard for her to find a good job. Shortly after she moved in with us, the COVID pandemic hit and my sister in law started working from home. My wife and I are essential employees, so we had to work daily. I used to get off before my wife, and when I got home, I'd sit and talk to my sister in law until my wife got home. We realized we had a lot in common and I opened up to her about my lack luster sex life with her sister. She admitted that she hadn't had sex since her divorce, and she's about to explode. My December of last year, we were satisfying each other sexually, but not going all the way. My sister in law is very sexy and seductive and I want her so badly, but I can't do that to my wife. I need to get this temptation out of my house without my wife being suspicious. How should I handle this? Please? Please help? Okay, Well, why are you even thinking about this? I mean, I know because it's right there in front of you. And yeah, it's in your face every day. And lust is real, I know that. And your wife is not performing, you say, like she's like she used to. But I am glad you wrote to us for before you actually slept with your sister in law, and I couldn't agree with you more. You definitely have to get her out of the house. You gotta do that because you will have sex with her if she doesn't leave. Now. I have to believe what you said in this letter about not going out all the way, because you said you can't do that to your wife. So you do have feelings. You love your wife. You said she was beautiful and wonderful, and it doesn't take away from the fact that you've already cheated on her in your mind and almost everywhere else, though. Look, you got to think about what's at stake here. I'm sure you thought about it, but maybe you haven't thought clearly about it, you know, with your brain. I'll say that if you do your wife's sister, you can really kiss life as you know it goodbye. You can do that, especially if your wife finds out the trust will be broken. There will be unimaginable, unimaginable hurt to the beautiful and wonderful woman that's your wife. You're gonna break a family up. You got to think about these things, and you could get killed if your wife catches you. Think about that too. Is your sister in law worth all of this? Is she She's right there in the house. I know where I'm assuming that it would all go down, so I don't know. You got to get her out of there. And as for sister in law, she definitely needs to find another place immediately. She's working. You said she had a good job, so she can afford an apartment or something. She doesn't have to stay there any longer. Her sister has been really good to her, and this is the way she pays her back by trying to sleep with you. It's foul and you know it, so tell her in no uncertain terms. But of course she's got to make it sound convincing, like you said in a letter, like it was all her idea, so your wife won't suspect anything. And this is just a big mess. But the main problem is to get her out of there a sap. Steve, Well, you know, I think before I offer any help to this brother, we got to have a real talk me and Dog in this letter. We got to have a man to man because see, when you write into Steve and Shirley, Shirley's gonna give you a very good perspective. And Shirley's gonna come from her perspective right what she has. But when a man writes a letter, I have one advantage over Shirley Strawberry. I happened to be a man game recognize a game. So now, Dog, before I help you, and I'm going to help you, let me take your ass back down memory lane so we can so we can understand what happened here. I've been married fifteen years to a very beautiful and wonderful woman. Now that right there, when you open the letter, right there, what you're saying to uncle Steve, is I really she did nothing wrong. You're opening the letter letting me know she ain't did nothing wrong. You ain't said that, but that's what you said. And in this letter right here, right right off that line, sound like you are to be satisfied. And if you got a beautiful, wonderful woman, what's wrong? Now here we go right after that. Lately the sex has gone from two or three times a week to once a week. Your asss been married fifteen years. You really thought y'all were gonna keep having sex three damn times a week? Dog does happen? And you really thought that dog? You thought, after fifteen damn years a marriage, that you're gonna keep on crawling up in that bed, all over that kitchen three damn times a week. Pottinger, after fifteen years. Oh, I ain't saying it don't happen. It could, but you usually don't, you know, because this thing come along called life, they call bills and responsibility. It's just called I gotta go to work. I'm tired. You're just saying you only sent your workers. Hey, you've been in the pandemic. You're not trying to save lives and all this here you're tired. When you get home, I got something for your ass after this breakthough, Hang on, Steve. All right, we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up in twenty three minutes after the hour of the subject my side piece lives with Us. We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject my side piece lives with us with us well as a reminder of last time. I'm gonna first share with you brother that you wrote into Uncle Steve. You know I'm a man, so I read between the line. Shirley gave great advice. I'm gonna help you at the end of this, but first I gotta break you down a little bit. You've been mad for fifteen years to a very beautiful and wonderful woman right there, sounding me like y'all to be satisfied and happy. Okay, But you said lately the sex has gone from two or three times a week to once a week. Well, fifteen years. I guess you thought this would go last fella. I guess you thought that you s been to have sex three times a week. Just the rest of your damn life. If boy boy stop and it didn't just happen all of a sudden. It went from three times a week not jazzed down to once. It got cut to two, then one, and it gradually happened. I got news for you. We've been to be talking about how many times in a month. In a minute, I just need you to understand that we're gonna be talking about We're gonna have to mention most in here in a little bit, all right, So here we go. Yeah, ago assistant got a bad divorce, move in with y'all. So your wife invited her to move to y'all city. She needed a fresh start. Stay with us till she could get her own house. Then here you go. Her sister's a great woman. She got a good head on the shoulders, so it wasn't hard for her to find a good job. Shortly after she moved into COVID pandemic hitting. Now this means round February, that's what everybody started having this home February. You know, we started getting places closed down in March and all this hill. So you got that and your sister in law started working from home. Now you're walking our central employees, so we had to work daily. So y'all had to work all through the pandemic because some type of important work. Y'all do essentral, got it. You used to get off before your wife, and when I got home, you sit and talk to your sister in law until your wife got home. Doing all of this conversation, you say, we realized we had a lot in common. Nah, here is where the man comes in at ladies. And I want you to understand this. And I opened up to her about my lackluster sex life with her sister right there. Okay, dog, let's admit this. You did that on purpose. You've been sitting there talking to her, looking at her, and you threw you threw a feeler out. You started feeling around, see where it would go. You initiated this whole thing on purpose. This didn't accidentally happen, dog, You did this on purpose. Let's just be real. Your lackluster sex life. You threw some chumming in the water, some fee and some bait, tried to see if you could pick up your Yeah, you know what I'm saying. You you tried to pick up your lackluster sex life. She admitted that she hadn't had sex since her divorce, and she about to explode, and your ass was overjoy See, dog, all you had to do was never why would you talk about your wife to any other woman? Any other woman? Dog, You know the rules of manhood, homie. You know the rules, pretty tony. You know them, and you broke them in violation because your answer was trying to see what was up. As soon as she said she was about to explode, you was over joyed. Now here's the timeline, y'all. By December of last year. This is twenty twenty, so she been at the house since last year, and then February hid in the pandemic. They've been in the house by December. They started satisfying each other sexually, but not going all the way. Hey, dog, you can take the butt. Not going all the way out. Once you started satisfying each other sexually, you had already done enough to lose your marriage. Because you think if your wife knew y'all was sexually satisfying each other, that that's okay because you didn't go all all the way. Dog, you're talking to another man here, but you ain't got to go all the way? Do you home me? Oh? That's how it start, and you wanted it to start like that, and you was cool with you. Okay, I don't want to do no more. Okay, cool because you know what's happening for you and you know what you're doing to hug so y'all cool. But guess what it got good to you? Now? My sister laws very sexy and seductive and I want her so badly now here, you're trying to be righteous on me. But I can't do that to my wife. Boy stop, boys stop, if you couldn't do that to your wife, you wouldn't do that to your wife. Dog, you can do that to your wife. You're doing it now. Dog, listen to me. If you're crazy enough to sleep with her sister in y'all's house, you think, Uncle Steve, don't think you would tap something else side the house? Are you kidding me? Come on, dog, just too grown. Ask me and talk. If you will do this with her sister under her own roof, her sister, you won't tap a strange chick outside. Man, miss me with this letter right here, Dog, you bought this on yourself, and now you're talking about but I can't do that to my wife. You're not already done it to your wife. Now, here's the only fix you got right here, I'll tell you what I want to do. Here's what you gotta say. I don't want to hurt your sister, and I'm sure you don't either, So we should end this now and and you should prepare to move out. I will agree to how much ever time you need. But can we please agree to end this because I'm ashamed of what I've done and I don't want to hurt her, and I know you don't eat, So can we please? I'm big end this? Please? All right? We'll be back with Sports Talk from Junior right after this. You're listening Morning show. All right, guys, Junior is here with Sports Talk Junior. What you got for us today, Shirlette. This is a serious story here, I mean, this is this is this is something I can't even believe. This man, I don't even know how he's Let me just tell you X Settle. Seahawks player Chad Wheeler has been charged with first degree domestic violence, assault, domestic violence, unlawful imprisonment, and resisting arrest after he choked and beat his girlfriend. Now, after we were beat his girlfriend, she told her thoris. He yelled, oh you're still alive now. Wheeler has been placed on home arrest with the GPS ankle monitor until his arrayment on February ninth. This is absolutely yeah, but why are you in jail? Right? She's black, she's a sister. He's white. Yeah, yeah, yeah, she's Her name is Aliah. I think her name is Aliah and beautiful. He post bail and so that's why he's at home. It turns out that she was unconscious when this happened. When she regained consciousness, she called nine one one. So when the police came, she was screaming. So the police had to bust the door and they were trying to hear where her screams were coming from. This is just according to different multiple media outlet reports that I was reading that they bust the door in that's how they were able to find her and you know, to get to her. And she told the authorities that he was bipolar, suffered from bipolar disorder, and he had not been taking his meds. I know several people who take meds. Bipolarism. That's it's real. It's not nothing. It's something for me, and I may not know everything I need to know about it, So just excuse me for that. You got no business beating a woman, period. I don't give a damn what's wrong with you at all? So I don't, I don't, I don't know. I don't give a damn about you missed your meds and all this here? What mad stop? Ask? Well, I ain't I'm not familiar with it. Because I ain't familiar, Let's keep it all the way one hundred. If he had been black, come on now, yeah, you know this story would be entirely different than what it is. He would be locked up. He would be locked up, Thank you absolutely. If you if you know someone about three years in league, offensive lineman junior offensive. Yeah, all right, we'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time to switch gears here and put some smiles on our faces this Friday morning. Time to play comedy roulette. Come on, Jay, It's a very simple game. You take three subjects, put those subjects on a wheel, spun the wheel around where it stopped. Because we did it. Just we'll make it funny. Do it s? All right? Today's categories are thank you Jay. Things people say when they think there's a ghost in the house, okay, really black people, okay. Things you tell your neighbors when they're having a loud party. And then we got things you say when you messed up dinner. Really okay, you put sauce on that. I've never done that personally, but anyway, all right, let's spend the wheel guys comorrow. But it'd be better than that. Whatever, man, whatever things you say when you messed up dinner. Things you say when you know you messed up dinner. Anybody else with some popcorn? I've actually said that, all right, ain't even go Things you say when you know you messed up dinner when you wasn't complaining last night, when I was in the bedroom cooking. Things to say when you know you messed up dinner. You know what they was out of chicken bread? So I guess that raccoon wasn't a good substitute, wasn't it was? Yeah, that didn't work out. I'm sorry, yu, Come on. Things you say when you messed up dinner, it's a new O. That's yeah, yeah, all right. Things you say when you missed up dinner. You know, what you can scrape most of that off? Okay, most of that off. I think we've all said that. Everybody, yeah, even knows can cook. Yes, yes, I know a lot of these. My mom might have missed him a few meals. But it's what she would say. Those things she was saying when she missed up dinner, go home and for all. I can't. Yeah, things just say when you know, you know, sed up dinner. I got corona, so I can't taste what y'all taste. My all, my taste budge is gone. I just I can't taste what y'all taste. But really, I said, that's that edge, that's that edge, that's that line. That's all right, come on, Steve. Things you say when you messed up dinner. I left my glasses at home. I thought it said chicken, but I guess theseus chittens what you chicken? That's how bad? Yeah? Yeah, things you say when you know, Things you say when you know you messed up donner. Ain't nobody touched nothing, I mean nothing, damn thing you say when you know you messed up dinner? Did I look like I knew how to make a keys? Get off me? Yeah? You know they just say when you know you messed up down to look, we got by ten minutes. All the piece of y'all. Don't like that we got about ten minutes, all right, Steve, come on, close it out. Things you say when you messed up dinner. Things you saying when you messed up dinner. Ask your mama to make it that Ladies and gentlemen is comedy roue letts. We'll have more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show twenty minutes after. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, we have to say a very special happy birthday today someone we love. Happy birthday to Oprah, winfree. Oprah is real good Oprah today looking great? Yeah today? Yeah? Game? What you give her for U birthday? I mean, what what's question? Which? What do you get Oprah? She has everything in the room. The happy birthday and that's it. Happy birthday out. Don't em bash yourself for damn show what you can't do with people that got a billion dollars. It's sake it. Sit there and give them a gift and then wait on the opening like you fitting seething cauld I make us something, though, can I make Have you ever had people like have you ever had people give you something then sit there while you opening like yeah, looking at you, top of you open on top of it. They know it wasn't a damn before you open it. Yeah, consider the source. No way you can match their expectations or what's it anyway? Happy birthday to Oprah Winfrey. All right, coming up, coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three minutes after red. After this, you're listening. In today's entertainment news, some very sad news out of Hollywood. Iconic and legendary actress Cecily Tyson has passed away. She was ninety six years old. Her manager, Larry Thompson released a statement yesterday saying, missus Cecily Tyson has made her peaceful transition. Please allow the family their privacy. As we all know, Miss Cicily Tyson had roles in theater, film, and television, including the autobiography of Miss Jane Pittman, a woman called Moses, the King, MLK story sounder, and so the list goes on and on. Miss Tyson was married, yes, yeah, she was married, of course, to Miles Davis from eighty one to nineteen eighty eight. Throughout her career, she refused to play drug addicts, prostitutes, or any type of role that was demeaning to black women, and she gained so much respect for that. Miss Tyson was also one of the founding members of the Dance Theater of Harlem. In twenty sixteen, President Obama presented Miss Tyson with the Presidential Medal of Freeman Freedom, of the nation's highest civilian honor. Miss Tyson passed away just days after her memoir was released. It's called Just As I Am a memoir. Wow, have to get that, you know, and so BEAUTIFU Yeah, yeah, you know, in in today of social media and and all um, you know, we really we you know, we really know how to pay homage to our current stars. You know, people who are are socially relevant today, and sometimes we missed the legacy of our treasures that made us who we all are today. You know, this woman was a trail blazer in every sense of the word. I mean, if there was no Sicily Tyson. I don't know if you understand this. You you getting no Oprah Winfrey, You you getting old Maya Angelou, You getting no you getting no, Beyonce, you getting no this. This is really how relevant of a figure this woman was. And and and black women in this industry know this about her, and I hope that they do it right, even though it's tough, you know, because there's a lot going on. But I hope people don't miss her real contribution to us as a people, because she was doing it at a time who being us was not popular, cool or allowed, right, And that's what when you could become a black star, which she was a black star. Yes, yes, you better know your ass was doing something right. She was special on the whole other level, man, just a whole other level of grace and style and dignity. The way she carried herself. Now, yeah, Tyler Perry, even in her later years, man, Tyler used a lot I liked, and I was glad to see that coming up. At forty nine minutes after the hours and closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey and uh, it's our last break of the day. We'll talk about that as well right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, here we are, last break of the day, last break of the week, first full week for a brand new president. He did doing well, he's done more than that the other one did in fo so yeah, yes, yes, yes, yes. What did he do? Every day? We tweeted and play go Yeah, that's it, that's it, and plotted on how he was going to win a second term. How that work out for you? Yeah, m all right, See if you can send us off on a good weekend with your closing remarks, well, I mean, you know, I just uh, it's it's pretty much the same thing for me. I'm on a real tangent right now with staying focused on on twenty twenty one, erasing twenty twenty it's done. It was a lot of challenges for a lot of people, for a lot of people. That were some great moments in it. And the one thing about it is what's even right now for all of us, no matter who you are, is that we all can have the same level of hope for twenty twenty one. Because no one knows what the future holds. That's a guarantee. No one has promised tomorrow. No one really knows the exact day that they'll be called home. I mean not really for the most part. You know, of course, I'm not talking about people who are terminally ill and things like that. But even I've seen those situations get turned around with faith. But I'm talking about all of us starting today, have the opportunity to view twenty twenty one with the level of expectation and realizing that the law of attraction is in full effect. Whether you realize it, lived by it, understand it, know it, or acknowledge it, it does exist, and that you can start right now living your life in expectation that twenty twenty one can be the best year of your life. You there's nothing that requires you to drag whatever happened to you from twenty twenty into twenty twenty one. There's nothing that there's no law in place that forces you to drag any negativity along with you. Remember this, y'all. If something negative has happened to you keyword has happened, that means it's in your past tense. You have the ability if you choose to to move forward away from what has happened, and you have the right to fixiate your mind on something happening positive in your future. You have that right. You don't have to drag negativity along with you. No one forces you to pack the bag of negativity and take it with you. You have baggage because you won't let it go. I'll tell you what I do it when negative things happen to me, and they do happen to me, and God moves me past it, meaning I got over it, meaning I survived the attack, meaning that I got over the hurt, meaning that I live to see another day. Once God moves me past whatever it is that has happened in my life, I'm done. I'm done. I have learned to stop dragging my baggage throughout my life because life is already challenging enough and has its difficulty. What you don't need to do is keep dragging the other years you survive along into the new year. Why would I take twenty eighteen into twenty twenty one. Well, I got a divorce in twenty eighteen, and I thought I had met my soul mate. Okay he was, he wasn't. But you're gonna keep bringing him, his memory, his legacy into your future in twenty twenty one. You're hurting yourself. You're hurting yourself, y'all. Stop dragging the baggage of your past. It interferes with your future. You can't jump as high as you can in twenty twenty one. With all that weight from twenty twenty, twenty, nineteen, two thousand and seventeen, you can't jump as high in twenty twenty one. You'll never get into the orbit God has for you if you keep dragging these old bags with you. If God has gotten you over it, if He has gotten you pass it, if He has gotten you through it, that is a gift to you. You should leave it where it was, stop bringing it with you. You don't have to. I'll give you another example. Let's say if you're a woman and you had a couple of bad relationships, and you know how they say, you know, you bring the baggage from your old relationship into your new relationship. Okay, so now you meet what could potentially be a man or a person who can give you a great relationship. But because you won't let go of the two bad ones you had, you bring that into the relationship and you put it on the table for this new person to have to deal and grapple with all these issues that he or she didn't commit or didn't add to, and now you're asking him to solve it. He don't even know what caused it. Stop doing this to yourself. Remember sometimes the breakup is the blessing you got to move forward. You lost your job in twenty twenty. Your company closed in twenty twenty. It happened to a lot of people. That company's not opening up. You're not gonna get that job back. Oh woe is meet? Yes, but could that door have closed simply because God wants you to walk up to hall and he got another door for you to go through. You better start recognizing and living your life in the expectation. In twenty twenty one, Hey, y'all, for all the doors that have closed in your life, do yourself a favor. In twenty twenty one, walk up the hall. It's some moods up the hall. I suggest you go up there and go through one of them. Thank you very much. My closing remarks right there on a Friday. That's how you shut the week down. Dropped by Baby. For all Steve Every contests, No purchase necessary, void ware prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening Stay Harday Morning Show