Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all back, I don't have a suit on looking back to back down, giving them move like theming buck bus things and its cubs. True good it Steve has listening to together for STU. Please, I don't joy joining me. You gotta turn, you gotta turn to turn, got to turn out to turn, turn the water the water. Come come on your baby, uh huh, I shall will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice? Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man o man o, man I just I have to tell you this. How good is the god I served? How amazing is he here? It is? It is your determination and your effort. Listen to me carefully. It is your determination and your effort. I think that the average person, and I'm not knocking you, I just want you to hear me out. I think what stops the average person from becoming successful is that we don't realize the effort that it takes. And that's just truth. I found that to be so true in my life and my talking to people and meeting people, and people aren't asking me questions about it, and me trying to figure out the way myself. I don't think that you really can comprehend the effort that it takes to become successful. This is the thing that you have to wrap your mind around very quickly if you want to be successful on any level, in any area. The dream is the beginning. Good Lord, let me tell you something. The determination and effort is massive. You cannot be overly concerned with sleep. If you are a person who is always concerned about sleep, get success out your mind. A fit to happen partner is not fit to happen. You cannot be that concerned about sleep. Now listen to me. You have to get your rest. But this was my philosophy. I'm just sharing you with what how I did it. My philosophy was I stopped being concerned about sleep. I got my rest, but I got just enough to get back to it, and I got back on the grind to hop into hustle. I got just enough rest so I could go and put forth some more effort. But listen to me, you cannot sleep a third of your life away and expect to become successful if you're not already successful. If you are asleep for eight hours, that is a third of your day. You cannot be asleep a third of your life and expect to get successful. Not after you get successful. You know, you learn as you go to work smarter, not harder. So as you get successful, you may have eight hours available to you. But the way up there, I don't see how you can do it, I promise you. I don't now, I don't. Maybe somebody can come forward. I did it out. Yeah, probably lying, But okay, tell your story because everybody I know that's successful that I've sat down ahead real talks with they wasn't concerned with sleeping. You cannot be concerned with sleeping if you want to be successful. How how can this happen for you? Listen to me. The effort that it requires is massive. It's an all out of salt on your dream. Now you got to make an assault. It's requires and all out of salt on it. And you can't be sleeping. Fight at the same time. You can't fight when you sleep. Man. I wish I could get y'all understand this right here. Understand that the effort that is required to be successful will take everything you have, and when you think you've given your all, it's gonna require some more. The quality of your chill is amazing. See that's okay. Listen, what is sitting around having a bill every day? Fault? What? What? What are sitting around smoking weed for every day? Fault? Come on, man, for real, But if you took that beer, drinking weed smoking chill time and apply it to progressing yourself towards your dream. When you do carve out a vacation, guess where you be able to go. Guess what part of the world you can go? See guess how you can chill now? Now I'm instead of you just driving every year your family to the family union, sit at the same picnic table. Everybody pull their money in. Two ten families don't never pull they money in. They down there eating like y'all eating. You got attitude because the day or they side don't ever chip in, And no they down they eating the extra potatoes are making place. You're not not harguing about this every year for real? Man, they ain't got the T shirt money. You know they got to say a T shirt, don't They ain't put it in? Really, man, so so so so so you want that to be it every year? Or do you want this year I'm taking my family to New Orleans or I'm taking my family see the Grand Canyon. I'm taking my family down to the beach this year, and me and my family gonna go sight See. We're gonna go ride a coup the river on Chicago. Me and my family gonna go skiing this year, and me and my family going out to La Man, we're gonna we're gonna go out there for the weekend. You know, you know it can happen like that. But if you ain't working, listen to me. Average effort gets average results. See. Ordinary effort gets ordinary results. But if you put forth an extra effort. See, the only difference between extraordinary and ordinary is one word, that's extra. If you do extra, you can take ordinary right on over to extraordinary. Do you understand you have to have a massive assault on your dreams. Quit sitting up in here, man, trying to chill all the time. I'm sorry, man, I wish I could tell you another way, but it ain't one. I didn't talk to jay Z about this. I wouldn't talk Samuel all about this. I didn't talked to said about this. I didn't talk I have talked to the President of the United States. I've had a conversation with him about his effort. You look at this. You cannot become successful with our effort. You cannot be concerned about sleep. Here's what I did. Now. You can take it from me, or you can try it your way. But when you get through trying it, this is what you're gonna have to do. I wasn't concerned about how much sleep I got. I just had to get my rest. And once I got enough rest to get up and get the task done, I got up. Somebody sent me a tweet the other day, a partner of mine. He's someone to see if I can pull it up while I'm talking to you. But he just sent me a little sign, just what, nothing, just a little something to say, Hey man, I ran across this, I thought about you, and I sent it to you. It said, no alarm clock needed, My passion wakes me. He said, no alarm clock needed, My passion wakes me. That's what you got to be about. You gotta take that dream. You gotta get passionate about it, and you gotta get awake, and you got to get up and get at it, and you gotta put it forth. A massive assault on your dream. Your effort has got to be extraordinary. If you put forth extraordinary. If you put forth extra effort, you go from ordinary to extraordinary. That's the deal. You think it's another way, If you got another way, could you please email it to me, Steve Harvey doctor, let me know so I can slow down. So I don't know no other way. All right, you're listening show. Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your attention please, I said, ladies and gentlemen, man have your attention please. The message you're about to hear is real. This is a Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is Steve Harvey. It is morning, this is do show. Welcome. Why that's how you start a show? That right there? So you know what they call it? You know you know what that here? Huh? What's that? That's original? That's what that is. Boy, that's agin not a copy. That's not a copy. Ain't nobody ever thought or that? That's mine? Yeah, that's mine? Ain't oh mine? No one else is allowed to think of anything I thought of before, because if you do, I'm annacuse you as some ladies and genial Steve Harming Morning Show Show, Welcome, Welcome, Good morning, Steve Ain't nothing happening? What's up? Cal? What up? Crew? What's happening? Thirty eight million? Won the Other World? Junior? Morning, everybody? What's going on? Ladies and gentlemen, do believe it's time to announce the feel this one? Jay Anthony Brown? Can't you here today? Silence? Si? Tomar Oh? I thought I heard him say what's up? Everybody? Tom? He'll say that with Junior Junior sounds like Brown now too, damn Junior? From you to all? What's up? Anybody? They've gmin the food? Nephew tell me yea, yain't in the build? Mm hmmmm. Well okay, so what's going on? This impeachment? Surely go ahead? Go ahead? No, no, okay, the impeachment? Yeah, okay, whatever that's gonna be going on for a while. Godfather of Harlem. Okay, I finally finished it. Not that you went from the TV show. Definitely that's going on. Whatever. Mister Forrest Whitaker sing good, it's dum it is, it's good time. But I'm on if so too. So I've only watched four or five. I think, no, you gotta watch all ten. Okay, I'm gonna watch it this Weekend watched you watched all them too. Humph. He finish the season before us. When, Yeah, it's so good. That's why total about it, told me. And then I watched. Oh yeah, it's so good. Guys. You guys have got to catch up. You have to. It's so good. We love Forest Wit. Yes, who ain't seen that? Yeah? All right, anyway, congratulations to Forest Wit because that show is phenomenal. And coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour is Steve's favorite segment. We're going to do a little bit of Ask Steve right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, this time for Steve's favorite segment. You know what it is. It's Ask Steve, where we get to ask Steve questions, he answers them. And I would like to ask you, Steve at this point to please keep your answers a short as possible so we could get more questions in. Yeah, and once again, you can ask all you want. I asked Donald Trump not to be president, but he is. You can't get it. You can't get everything you want right right, right right? Yeah, it just happens. All right, So Steve, we're starting out. You ready, what's your favorite room in the house. Okay, what's your favorite room in the house, The kitchen or the bedroom. No, kitchen or bedroom. You have to choose between those two. It's not in there, kitchen or the bedroom. Bath room ain't in now, no, sir, I'm justsappointed to be exact. The toilet area. Oh goodness, all right, come on, junior, you got a question. So the quick kitchen or the bad room? Yes, yes, your favorite room, well, then it would be the bad room. Bad room. Huh? Care to elaborate? Well, you know, because when I'm not sleeping, I'm trying to get put your sleep. That come on, all right? So you know, at last week you went on the ram about the movie Joker. You didn't you didn't really care for Joker. You know, you didn't really care for the movie Joking, worse damn movie of the year. But I want to ask you if you was a superhero, what would be your superpower? M but to be invisible? Oh? I like it? I like it? Yeah? And why why? You know how many people I want to just walk up to and just haul off and slap their ass and they wouldn't know it was you? Me too? Oh dog, I don't want to be able to fly. None of that. You don't off Paul building. I don't give a damn about going under water for eight days. I ain't gonna do none of that. If I could just walk up to you, you see it's me being blink and become invisible and slap your ass and walk off background, and you saw it was me. Thank you. Come on, Carl, like you got a question for Steve, we're doing. Ask Steve if you could change one thing about your upbringing, what would it be? I didn't get no whippers? Oh yeah, who you are though? Life without beatings? Right? Well? Who we got to Tommy? I'd have just been somebody else then. Kids today don't know how good they have it. Yeah, what's your question? I'm just kidding about the spanking that that ain't the one that I would have done. I wouldn't have picked spanking, really, but I just thought for complety purposes it would have made sense. But not really. No, Oh, what's your inc I don't know. I think probably you know probably I don't. They're not short like I didn't. I didn't think I had to be it. I don't think I had to be as pole. You had a chart and another little you know, i't mind. I ain't mind a little bit of poverty. But yeah, but you know, but what we was doing thought but look at you now I did you Now? Yeah, all right, I got one. This one been on my man because I'm just curious when a black woman can make a man move out of his grandmama's castle, renounce his throne, move to Canada. What did she say? What did this black woman say? No, it ain't what she said. No, it's not what she's saying. What is it ain't gonna do what she said? Right, it's what she said after she did what she did? What did she did? What she do? What all? I make it radio friendly? In the words of my daddy, put don't you grandmama? That one word tell you something? And it's and it's this. It's one word. P u t o n y a putnia. That's all it is. Answer. This is kind of a similar question. But uh, I wanted to ask you, Steve, how would your life be different if you were born white? White? Steve Man, w Steve, that's an impossible question. You can't you can't be a white Steve Harvey. You just came on. It's too much, too much rich. Oh, you can't furst of all. You will be dead because there's no way you could have lived sixty three years as a white man and ben why being and saying what I said, thank you possible? There's no way. Do you know the stopings you would have hand to take? You can't be a white meat. You don't want to stop out and say, you know, places out of being and shid it. Man, the deep dog dirty parts of the hood, talking trash. Can't do that. Man, I've enjoyed my life. One of my great joys of my life has been being black. Okay, okay, all right out head and that thank you gee, all right coming up and the nephew in the building would run that bread back. And that's coming up right after this you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment news. We're gonna tell you about music's biggest night, the sixty second Annual Grammy Awards this Sunday, hosted by Alicia Keys. And there is also drama with the Grammys, including ugly allegations with a lawsuit pending. We'll get into that. We'll talk about all these stories at the top of the hour, but right now, it is time for the nephew to run that prank back what you got for his nev Your wife is fine as hey, it's crazy god. Your wife fine? Is hey? Yeah, yeah, one more time? Your wife fine it? Hey off? Oh running Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Daryl. Yeah. This is Darrel hor is this and tell how you're doing. My name is Alonzo man Um. We're for liquor distributing company. I do a distric liquor distribution. How are you doing today? I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good man. What can I do for you? Hey? We're putting together a big, bigg event man with vodka and they're throwing They're throwing a huge pool party. And like I said, I've been I'm in the liquor business man. I've been doing it for for quite some years now. And you know, we're always trying to do different type of publicity and really get to hype up. And what we're trying to do, man, is really get people to come out to this fashion party because it's the first quarter twenty twenty. We wanted to be a one to remember. And uh, I know no no, no, no, no, no no no no, You're I go to the bank. I go to the bank where your where your wife work set Kindred and Okay, what we're trying to do is have I mean, we want our fire and slash poster to be something really, really memorable, something that's going to really draw people in. And you have this. This thing is gonna be all over social media the whole nine yards. So we're trying to see. You know, buddy of mine told me that he kind of knew of you or had a had a number on you, and I was like, cool, let me reach out to him. He was He told me you were Kendrew's husband. So I want my husband. So I don't understand what my wife's got to do this thing. Okay, what I'm trying to do is see if you were cool with Kindred being on our flyer. Man, I mean, because your wife is finish, so we want to put her on the flyer. And what you mean my wife is finish? What you meant You're gonna call me up and talk about my wife? Vin, it's wrong with you, brother, brother. It's this It's a respect thing I'm giving you. I'm giving you crops, it's crowds I'm giving bumping out what you need man, because it don't sound right. Dude, we're trying to get your wife. We want to give her through a photo shoot in a porkini so we can put it how No, you ain't using my wife and no porkini to put on no flyer you want your damn mind. It's my wife's man, respect me. Okay, okay, okay, okay, hold on man, hold on man. Why are you tripping like this? Brother? Why are you tripping like little wife? My wife ain't gonna be no damn no the flying for no the party man with the you think this is what's wrong with you? Okay, bro, bro, you know what, Man, I try to call you and give you to respect. I mean I didn't sound like what well Okay, look I didn't call it from no argument. I just I just talked to Kendal when I go to the space depart and see if she want to do. Oh oh, he's gonna throw to my wife's job at the bank. That's what you're gonna do. Okay. I'm just ain't gonna do that because I'll be there too, and I don't make a deposit with my foot, you know, go ahead, okay, okay, hold on man, we paying. We're playing five thousand dollars for the photos. Okay again, what you paying? No amount of money's gonna let me put my wife, the mother of my children on the posted and no for kinny, I don't care how much you can kiss my ass befall, let you do that, okay, Okay, bro okay, So this I ain't gonna really go back and forth with you. Man. I was calling you trying to be a man. Same Okay, Well, I'm trying to be man to man with you and just you know, throw the opportunity at you. I'm now you throwing it back up. He was with disrespect. I wasn't showing me for my wife's to be a side na. No, I don't want none of that. Okay, man, No, your wife fining his hell? People are you need to quit telling me how fine my wife is? Okay? Who gave you my phone number in the first place? I've got? Hey, man, evidently that's all nulling forted Just all right, I don't even matter. Just one the boy do. The issue on the table is I want to take some pictures of Kennedy. Let me know when you plan on going to my wife's job at the bank. Let me know when you're gonna bring your black down there so I can be there. Okay, nobody calls another brother a fuck about how fine it's wife is. Okay, I told you no. Now you shouldn't get stopped right there. But you're gonna keep all talking thought my wife. Okay, So let me say this dog. Tommy is the one that said your wife was fine as hell. That's the one brought all into our attention at the meeting. Tommy is the one that said your wife was fine as hell though frommy just Tommy, Tommy said your wife is fine as hell. That's what Tommie get here too. Who is Tommy? You don't you take your wife to work in them? Let me know when he's gonna bring you black down there? Okay? And I wat, y'all wat. Y'all be listening to on the way to work? What radio stakes? And y'all be listening to? We be listening to timing. Baby, you wouldn't about to get your hey, man, your wife kinder got me to prank you, bro. Wait till I see my wife see got my blood fressure up? Oh man? She told me, she said, we listen to y'all every morning on the way to work. He drops me off and he goes to work. He said, Tommy, you've got to get it. I said, you can't let me know what what do he love the most? She say me, I don't know about that right now? It's a man. Oh man, we love you back, baby. Keep listening to Steve Morning. So tell me this problem. What is the baddest radio show in the land? Man? What is it? Darrel? It's Steve Harvey with Nephew talking. How do you feel about that? I feel nervous, But that's what I feel like. I feel nervous or good words, Junior. Yeah, always does. If I don't go too far, then we're not doing anything right right your wife aside as, Hell, ain't too far. That's right there where we need to be. That's actually Is that not a compliment? Exactly? Man? God Donson, I mean you can talk somebody. I want you to continue down this road. Why in twenty twenty, because it's gonna be the year right here, just stay right for you at this nice start for twenty twenty. You're talking to me about their talking to me and about their wives. This is the perfect start to twenty twenty promise you won't see twenty. That brings me to another quarter. Since we just finished, asked Steve, not too long ago. Can I just ask you one question? How long should you date somebody before you meet the spot? Wait? What stupid, I'm gonna do that one more time. How long should you date somebody before you meet the spot? Yeah? Now you, they always say, asked Steve. I'm asking as try to meet the man as soon as possible that day so you can get a clear understanding of what they hell. All right, listen coming up at the time of the hours and entertaining and national news and maybe even more, asked Steve, right after this, you're listening. Meek mill Old, John Legend, and DJ Khaled are just a few of the artists who will be part of the all star tribute to the late Nipsey Hustle at the sixty second Annual Grammy Awards this coming Sunday. Also, the night is shaping up to be one of the one of music's most memorable nights. Performers include Lizzo, Errol Smith, Her Camio Cabello, Camio Cabello, and Uncle Charlie Wilson. Yes, Yes, Lord, did you hear Okay, Uncle Charlie. Okay, Grammy's time you guys, Okay, Grammys, do you know? Okay, Uncle Charlie Wilson. They're all set to perform on music's biggest night, the sixty second Annual Grammy Awards Sunday Night, hosted by Alicia Keys, live from Los Angeles. It'll be on CBS CBS. I hope they give Charlie Wilson time, ample time, yeah, because if they give him time, yeah, yeah, they are about to understand what one of the best living performers really does. Charlie Wilson is one of the best living performers alive today. People have no idea, but they're gonna put their ball on a national stage. And I hope they give him time. It ain't just a snippet, yeah, because you know, the Grammys don't really get Charlie Wilson. Yeah, yeah, Grammys don't. They don't really get him. They don't know that they will be showing one of the great living performers of our time. But you know, long as they don't blay him short, mister Wilson. Yeah, and he has a new single, Steve that we're supporting call Forever Valentine. So I wonder, like you said, is he just gonna do that song or is he gonna do a whole set? I would love to see a whole set at the Grammys with Charlie Wilson. You're right, Stevenyne. I wish they would. I wish they would. They'll learn something. Yeah, you're gonna get right. They better keep this lineup just like surely read it. Okay, let him with and and and with his voice. And because I don't know no dude, I don't know no dude that they could put in front of him today that canuse sing it. I don't know him. Yeah, well I'll be watching, Yeah about a living legend. Who yeah, somebody tell me what man could they put in front of him, just living that canuse sing it? No, I don't know what I don't know. I mean yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, he's performance Julo, Mars, this group them some bad boys them some bad boys right there, but buttle artists. And he's an original. I mean he's just such an you know. Yeah. Yeah, that's now okay, they can't do It's gonna be a moment. Mean you say, life change not American, Ain't nobody So you say, juniors should be Lizzo Arrowsmith, her Camillo Cabello and then clear the stage for Charlie will What what what what? Lizzo Arrowsmith, her Legends, Camilla Cabello, and then Uncle Charlie Wilson. That's right. That's better that anything else is gonna be a disaster, not a disaster. Better make sure it's an all white audience. That's he gonna get them, and he gonna get them too up they love Charlie. Yeah, well that's it. Good luck Grammys. All right, Steve. Time now for today's headlines. Ladies and gentlemen, miss Anne Tripp, thank you, thank you, thank you very much. This is a trip with the news and yesterday's Senate inpeachment trial, prosecutors from the House sought to outline what they say was Donald Trump's corrupt scheme to abuse his power and obstruct the Congress. Congressman Jason Crow says the whole case the reason for the two articles of impeachment based on Trump's alleged pressuring of Ukraine's president into investigating his expected rival for the reelection bid Joe Biden, and also Biden's son by withholding badly needed military aid and represented. Crow says Trump was deliberate with it. The President personally made this decision even after his own appointed advisers warned him that it wasn't in our country's interest to withhold the aid after overwhelming support in this Senate and against longstanding policy even in his own administration. By the way, Crowe is reportedly one of the congress persons who pushed hard with Nancy Felosi to start an impeachment investigation. The President's lawyers, now, by the way, get to tell his side the story later this week. Each side has twenty four hours I tell you that a couple of days ago, spread out over days though, to present their case, and Leading House Manager Adam Schiff says he knows that's a tedious amount of testimony for the American people to wade through, but Shifts said, while I'm maybe overwhelming, it's necessary. I recognize there'll be times during the trial that you may long to return to the business of the Senate. The American people look forward to the same, but not before you decide what kind of democracy that you believe we ought to be. The Trump administration reportedly preparing to expand his travel ban by adding restrictions to seven additional mostly Muslim countries and a formal announcement to be made on Mondays that would be the third anniversary of the Donald's original travel ban, where it is the new restrictions will target Nigeria, Sudan, Sanzania, Eritrea, me and mar Kurgistan and Belarus. At the same time, BuzzFeed and Box report that a draft of a State Department cable marks sensitive but unclassified, suggests that they're going to be guidelines going into effect to keep pregnant illegal immigrants from coming to this country on short term visas to have their babies, so their babies are US citizens, black and brown English citizens finally speaking out in articles and on the radio and TV about what they said was the mostly racist coverage given to Megan Markle, Even actors like Hugh Grant said enough is enough. I'm rather on Harry's side. I have to say, I think, if you know, the tabloid press effectively murdered his mother. Now they're tearing his wife to pieces. I think as a man, it's his job to protect his family. So I'm I'm with him. And when they say in those articles a close friend says or a palace insider. There's no such person and no such person news speaking, Andy Cohen. By the way, finally you know, Wendy Williams is officially unhitched now. She and her husband Kevin Splitt last year, which he found out he had a child with his mistress. Wendy's selling their Jersey mansion. The proceeds will be divided down in the middle. She gets the couple's joint bank account, a total ownership now of Wendy Williams production. So what can I say? She's single, single, single. Now back to the Steve Harvey Mourning Show. You're listening to show, all right, some trending food news. We are here. We here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Love food, all of us. But there are a lot of foods we think are from other countries that are actually invented in the good old USA. And those are some of the most famous ones. Like Fortune cookies invented right here. Yeah, it was actually invented in San Francisco by a Japanese American baker. Did not, Steve, I did taste good? They don't taste good. I like them with chocolate, white chocolate on them, then they're good. They don't. Surely, surely excuse me. Chocolate is the worst thing you could put in your body. I absolutely know that. But it tastes real good. That's all I'm saying. I'm sorry for you a very wonderful health reason, and you just do it. I know that. I don't eat it now, but yeah I used to, and it's delicious. Orange chicken. How about that one? That's good? Yeah? It was created in Hawaii in nineteen eighty seven by Panda Express chef Andy Ko or Kyle. I didn't know that. Wow, I didn't know who came up with them, that crustation. Who came up with them? The copy German chocolate cake German? My mama, My mom, Yeah, my mama. I don't know who made it before. I don't know who made it before. Anybody make it? Like Hurdle it lost Vera Harvey, greatest piece of German chocolate cake on the planet. I have German chocolate, but anyway, it has nothing to do with Germany. Uh. It's because of its name Samuel German that it's called German Blad. People that perfected it. Oh, yes, hello that coconut. Yeah, we've had a lot taken from us so hey, ride of that. We took we took the cake. Okay, okay, we love German chocolate cake, all right. English muffins, English muffins from England, from England. They were actually invented in New York City in nineteen eighty four by English immigrant Samuel Bass Thomas. They were rich, they were. Let me give you some real dishes that was created right here in America. Okay, come on, what's you guys? Shitless? YEA work it out boy? Whether they want to be a not fried spram, yes, hot dogs and parking beans American dish. All right, there you have it. Coming up At thirty four minutes after the hour impeachment hearing, its marathon continues. We'll tell you about the sleepy senators fell asleep during the trial right after this. It was all night long. We'll be right back. You're listening to show well, the marathon of the Senate impeachment trial is a very long one. Yesterday we saw opening arguments and President Trump's counsel had twenty four argues to argue, twenty four hours excuse me to argue their case. Members of the Senate had sixteen hours to ask questions and vote on whether they want to call any witnesses. Now, this impeachment trial is all day and all night long. We noticed the sleepy senators. First to doze off was Republican Senator from Idaho, Jim Rish. He cradled his head in his hands and shut his eyes. Steve, Holy thing was missing was a hair wreck. Yeah, I didn't say if people do that at church? Right there? He shut his eyes. Then Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell closed his eyes several times, and his body started to lean forward, but he caught himself. I'd been just shelted back. Democratic Senator Kristen Gillibrand uh dozed off and then startled herself and started writing something. Then she got up and walked out for a minute and get herself to get there. Okay, she went outside to get a pepper. Mit, my girl, Steve, I already know the answer to this, but I'm gonna ask it for the people who don't. Have you ever fallen asleep at work during an important meeting? He ain't got to answer that me and you can ask Vegas what year was? I don't know. I remember the year we was in his booth. No, we were on the air line we were on the air live interviewing stairs upstairs in the booth. Yes, Steve had the microphone in his hands downstairs. We upstairs. All of a sudden we heard this big the mic and him Fellow he was on the Apple time he remember, remember he remember Timmy. He didn't have any shoes on. He was leaning rubbing his feet together in his showed up or Junior when I woke up them too, white men were interviewing him. When that mike hit the float and startled me and I looked at him, and I didn't have a mic in my hand. I thought it was FBI. My past had finally called up to a minute. Don't tell you was that the tables All night I was rolling, Julia, I was killing and then we had to be I think I told Sherlon them I was up about twenty six thousand. Yeah, whoa, So I was rolling. Yeah. So I couldn't come. So I gambled all the way to three am, and I was time to go on the ALP. We had to go to work at three am in the morning. I left the table at two party old time that got on the AD three you had here for the interview you had in that white out pack of coat because it was a little chilli and Aaron think he had on a white hat and but no shoes though. Junior just sucks rubbing his feet together. I love that you've been Junior. She Junior, My feet was tied because I had been at that craft table all night, standing up standing up. Gators were starting to painch oh man, oh man, it's crazy. I've never heard this. Lord. So now when we watched the impeachment, here is we're gonna live time and we used to go hard in Vegas. Man, he said that Mike hit the flow. He listen to this two very agent sitting there things of doing them gym and when that when the Mike hit the flow, I didn't know who we two white dudes wom to talk to me so embarrassing. I said that a lot back in Carla. Go go to Stave Harvey FM on Instagram or Facebook to make your comment and they're coming up next. Nephew Tommy is in the building with today's prank phone call coming up. Right after this. You're listening to Stry Morning Show coming up at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today's subject, I'm doing wify things without a ring. That is the subject. Okay, but right now, nephew, here with today's prank phone call check out for US Navy right one hole? Tight? Nah? What already ahead? Mecha? Make America great again? That's the prank. Make America great again? All right? Might want to pull over just twenty twenty baby, Yeah, got during impeachment time? Yeah, yeah, all right in the middle of that's right. I am. I'll be falling asleep on this, that's for sure, not at all. Here we go. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach you'll Jason, Jason Murphy. Yeah, this is what's going on. Hey, how you doing. My name is Carl Bruce Sorrd. I'm giving you a call. Um. We're actually reaching out to several people trying to see, um, you know, which way people are actually voting for this coming election. I'm with African Americans who want to make America great again, and we want to see if we can count on you to vote Republican this company election. No, no Republican like for doctors. Well yeah, I mean, you know, like I said, there's quite a few of US African Americans right here who are fond of the Republican Party, and you know we're reaching out, we're doing quite you know, making phone calls and wanting to see can we count on certain people to be at the polls with us? You can't count on me. No, I'm not about to be an Uncle Tom. No, I'm not voting for Donald Trump. That's not gonna make you on Uncle Tom. Sorry. That just means that you you like the Republican Party and you support what they're doing. Yeah, I don't don't. I don't support I don't support racism. So like that's a black dude. Why would I vote for someone who that doesn't have my interest? Like, no, I'm not voting for Trump. How do you even get my number? Who would even think? No? Con down? You know, maybe I can persuade you to thinking and look at it in a different life. You know, the Republican Party, they're doing some great things. They're doing some great things for African Americans or employment is up. I mean, you got to look at the positive side of things, you know what I'm saying. And not only that, you don't even sound like you believe that. You sound like you're reading the script right now, Like do you reason to believe that. Well, Jason, let me tell you this, Not only that you know if we can count on you, if I can get your verbal that we can count on you, We're also gonna send you a T shirt and make America Great Great Again hat. You know we're gonna send you that. What is like wearing Amica a Great hat in my neighborhood with a goofy ass T shirt? I'm not about to know if you're trying to bribe my vote with a T shirt and a stupid at All I'm saying is man, we're reaching out to African Americans across the country, and we'll just keep saying that. But like, you're not gonna get the black vote just because you're black like that. No, Like that's how that works. I'm not voting for Donald Trump. Have you given it a chance? Have you thought about it? Have you? I haven't thought about it. I know I'm my vote for Donald Trump, but I don't know who is in the battle. I don't know who's gonna be election. I know when I get into the voters booth, if I see Donald Trump name, I'm not checking it, I'm not marking it. I'm my circling it. I ain't vote for the man, Okay, so you don't want to hurt I'm gonna do a hat. No, I don't want your stupid hat. I could order a hat. I don't want a hat with with Donald Trumps stupid name. No, Like, do you not get that in my vote for Donald Trump? But I mean it's a real pompular hat though I think you'd like to make that. Yeah, you gotta be I give about the stupid hat, dude, Like, do you not get that hat? Is that? That's your selling point? You're trying to sell on Donald Trump, and your selling point is a hat. You know what? I knew it was a boy. I know it's gonna answer this damn phone up, but I never answer phone on them from people. I know you really, man, how much already paying you to see her and call other black people and try to sell them on Donald Trump. Black man, you're the dude in the back of Donald Trump, the one block to the audience to sitting there with your goofy ass hat on trying to make America great again. This is a bullshite. Man's the damn phone. Okay. Sure, all I'm trying to do is to get you to broaden your your your vision on this whole thing. I want you to, man that I'm done, like you're goofy is out and I hope they're giving you a fat track for this stupid that you're doing, because this is ridiculous. Okay, well, you know, to be honest with you, man, I thought that you would like the hat. I thought you would like the shirt. You know, I think that you're not giving it a fair shot. You know, I think you're just listening to all the naysayers out there, because honestly, you're not. You're not giving it a shot made. It's a black out here that that want to make America great again. We wear the hat with pride, we wear a shirt with pride. We don't need to rally up more of our people and let them understand that. You know, the Republican is not a bad part. Get the dude, get the You're literally your selling point is a damn hat and a T shirt. You met to those hats and T shirts nineteen times. I talk about their hats because I'm fond of the head. Okay, y'all wear them all the time, all right. I'm just trying to I'm just trying to get you to look at Trump in a different light, and look at the whole Republican Party in a different light. You know what I mean. That's all I want you to do. I'm not vote for Donald Trump unless you're about to send me a check. I'm my vote for Donald Trump. I'm wherever he's paying. You pay me that, and then I might think about wearing that stupid had, but I might vote for Donald Trump. So just to call whatever the black persons on your list talk called Tyrone or Tachika, whoever else is next, and panted to them, you like Donald Trump, kems for starting this blast war, setting our kids over thy rackings that and everyone else. The list that you have for the people that you have, call it and take me off this goofy ass with that stupid hat. I got a room full of hats, and I would be damned. I'm aware that stupid ass rad one. So a matter of fact, take my number and draw a big extra it and don't call me no more with your boy, because I'm done, Donald sir. So you were recommended by Tommy. He said you would be on board Tommy who's Tommy? But you don't you don't remember. Tommy said that you would be on board. He said you would wear the shirt, he said you would wear the hat. He said that you would probably you know, staying behind Trump in the nixt rally. Okay, well he's Tommy. Don't know what the he's talking about, because i'd be damn. I don't know know who who named Tommy. I'm not wearing No, I'm not wearing that hat. I'm my boat with this man. So take me off the list and stop with me. Like I'm done. Donald Trump is not getting my vote. So whatever Timme? He told you was some boy. Okay, do you want to talk to Tommy? Sure? Why not Tommy? Who's Tommy wears Tommy? This is tell me. I'm telling me baby nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morten Show. You just got Yeah, dude, you gotta me so hot in this is cargeing lot. Man. Really, I really didn't think you was gonna pick up, but you know I got your baby, I got Damn. I never answer unknown cause dude, I never did. So he checked us out. So you work with it with this white guy named Brian. You know Brian Henry, right, I didn't know Brian. Brian got me too, crank phone call you man, okay, damn, he got mad. I don't know what, man, I don't know what the temperature is in your office, in your workplace. But Brian said, you've gotta call my guy. Okay, all right, So white people got jokes now, I ain't. They can call the commy on me, you know what, Nah man, it's not. It's on though, right because if I I'm gonna have some a call damn about some democratic and see how they take it all white people, if anyway, people at my job or listen to this right now, because I know you guys all laugh at the office right now listening to this. Just no, I got ya. I'm getting all office, that's for sure. All right. Tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show into playing man? Steve Harvey wanted so many Joe want to show ya want to hear man? I'm not. I don't want no damn hat. I just couldn't get him to get d He didn't want the hat. You know, I didn't understand. Come on, nobody would have wanted to hatch blanketed Blake had God, that was certainly a butt whipping. If you face to face that that's that's well. It ain't gonna happen this weekend. This weekend June. Your Sunday night. I'm at the end prov in Houston, Texas. Yes, third annual post Office Night. I'm with my boys. That's at least Deacon Dave lost and we're putting it down for the post office. All right, Yeah, that's what we're doing. Ain't gonna be Congratulations Dave and Alie. All right, we gotta get out of here. Thank you, Matthew. I know. Coming up next it is the Strawberry Letters subject I'm doing wifey things without a ring. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're going to read this one right here, right now. Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for you here. It is every letter subject I'm doing wifey things without a ring. Dear Stephen Shirley. My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years and we moved in together with a plan to get married and start a family. I'm thirty years old and he is twenty five. After a year and a half of living together, he bought me an engagement ring, and I found out because he was dropping hints about it. Then one day in November, he admitted to me that he had bought the ring, but he's not as happy in this relationship as he should be. He told me that he's having doubts about marrying me. I asked him what made him feel that way. He told me that a minor things, but I needed to work on them before we got engaged. He told me that he would like for his dinner to be ready when he gets home on the days that I'm off work. He says he does not want me to wait until he gets home to ask what he would like to eat. He also said that I don't send him as many nudes as I used to. I told him I could work on the cooking thing, but I stopped sending new picks to him because I had gained a few pounds and wasn't feeling very sexy. Most days he said. Other than that everything was fine with us, I couldn't help the thing. There was something more that is bothering him. He has made a few other suggestions to me about things I should do to make him feel like the man of the house, and each time he says they will make me a better wife. While I'm not playing the role of wife without a ring on my finger, and he does not understand that. I've been walking on eggshelves to keep him happy because I want my ring and I want to marry him. As time goes by, I'm starting to have a change of heart. I'm doing wifey things without a ring. I feel like he's up to something and he's playing games because he's not ready to commit. Should I give him an ultimatum or should I be patient and let things progress? Well, I mean, it depends on really, really what you want. You say you want your ring and you do want to marry him, so I say, do what you feel, and you feel something. You say he's having doubts and you think he's playing games and he's not ready to commit. That could be what it is. I mean, he could be you know, getting cold feet or deciding since you guys are living together, that he doesn't have to marry you. He can get you to do all these things without you know, the benefit of marriage or whatever. I mean. I agree with you. You shouldn't be doing WiFi things without the benefits. So how about this, Why don't you stop? Why don't you stop doing those things? Um? That means a lot of things. It could mean moving out, It could mean, you know, you guys separating for a while. It could mean putting him out. But if you truly want to marry him and you want your ring, do you want just want the ring and the marriage or do you I mean the wedding or do you really know what it takes to be a you know, to be married to him? Him telling you, wait a minute, is this the nineteen fifties? I want my dinner ready when I get home, girl, Please, I want my dinner. Who are you talking to? Yeah? You know? Uh? Anyway, you know you're you're thirty, he's to a five. It sounds like, you know, he's a little more old school and older than his years allowed than his twenty five years. So I just say this, if you really if that's really what you want from this man, sounds like he's starting to take this whole living together arrangement for granted. So you're gonna have to make a move. You're gonna have to make a move if that means giving him him an ultimatum, look marry me or I'm out, or getting you know, let's get engaged. You probably never should have moved in with him without becoming engaged and having a date and all of that. So now you got a backtrack and do that to make to let him know that you're serious about what you want, and then after that you'll see how it goes. But yeah, you're probably gonna have to make a major move like leave to get what you want. See, you know what, I feel sorry for this lady because this is so atypical. I know exactly what this is. So let me put you on gay Glad you called Uncle Steve. I know exactly what's happening. Your boyfriend, y'all have been dating for three years, moved in together with the plan to get married. Start the fan. I'm thirty twenty five, pumped the brakes. That's part of the problem right there. You're a little bit older. You have a biological clock that's ticking. A man has no biological clock. He has a financial clock, and at twenty five, neither one of those have gone off yet. This is truth. His financial clock hasn't gone off yet, and he doesn't have a biological clock. Your biological clock is going crazy. So now you've moved in a man, moved in with a man that has different ideals than you do. You've heard that he was gonna he bought you an engagement ring. You find out because he was dropping hits. One day November, he admitted to me that he had bought the ring, but he wasn't happy with the relationship as he should be. He told me that he's having doubts about married me. That Shirley has absolutely correct. It's called cold feating. I asked him what made him feel that way. He told me that there were minor things, but I needed to work on them before we got engaged. He told me that he would like for his dinner to be ready when he gets home on days that I'm off for work. He says he doesn't want me to wait till he gets home to ask him what he would like to eat. Let me show you exactly how minor that is. Here's a guy that expects you to have dinner ready when he gets home on the days that you're off work, which means you have a job. Also, he doesn't want to wait until he gets home to ask him what he would like to eat, so he thinks he posed to walk in the house at twenty five, slide his ass up on the table and just start eat. Well, what are you supposed to do? Guess what he wants? So you did a very decent thing to ask him what he wants. He also said that you don't send as many nudes as I want, as you too used to. I could work on the cooking, but I'll stopped sending new picture to him because I gained weights. No, you stop sending new picture to him because y'all lay together here every night. He sees it. The hair you need to picture of this is stupid. Hey, I'll be back. I got the rest of them. Okay, hang right there, Steve. Part two of your responses coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour subjects of today's strawberry letter. I'm doing wifey things without a ring. We'll be back right after this. You're listening morning show, all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap Today's Strawberry Letters, subject I'm doing wifey things without a ring. Oh, this is such an easy letter for me, because boy, lady, I feel for you. Thirty years old, he twenty five bought the engagement ring. Then he admitted that he had bought the ring, that he wasn't happy in the relationship. He was having doubt. Shirley nailing on the head as called cold feet, asked him what made him feel that way. He told me some minding things I needed to work on before we got engaged. So he told us he wants his dinner to be ready when he getting home on days then I'm off work and like I said, early, which means that she works too. But he says he don't want to wait till he get home for you to ask him what he want to eat. Well, what is she supposed to do? Dog? Guess what you want? That's the cool thing to do. Then he said, you don't send as many new pitches as I used to. I told him I could work on the cooking, but I stopped sending a new picture to him because I gained a few pounds. It wasn't feeling sexy most of the days. Hold On, Lady, you live with him. It's why you're not sending as many nudes he dare every night. Take your own. Damn it, you're tripping with me, fall dog seeing he has turned this thing around on you, and what he's done is the reason he doesn't understand what you're saying to him is because you're not helping him understand. You so desperately want this ring that you've allowed this man to turn this into all one sided request. Everything is what he won't shoot to do, what he won't pitchers, he won't cook it, he won't fool he said. Other than that, everything was fine. I couldn't think, But that was he said that I couldn't think, but he was something more than that bothered him, made a few others, suggesting to me about things I could do to make him feel more like the man at the house. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. First of all, the dude is not understanding this because you're not helping him understand. All this is is a bunch of one sided requests. You can't be totally one completely or during this boy. It's something wrong with him, but you ain't making no request of him. Your desperation for this ring is allowing you to let this man make all what's wrong with you ain't nothing wrong with him. He perfect. So you are trying to be engaged to Christ. That's the only thing I can think of, because that's the only perfect person out there ever lived on this earth, and he not here yet. So now why you got this boy propped up like he all of that winning thing? Now? Now you walk around on eggshells to keep him happy? What keep him happy? Here's the line in there. You got to do some things to make him feel like the man at the house. That's not your job. If he is the only man in the house and he don't feel like the man of the house, then what inadequacy does he have? If he don't feel like the man at the house, it's because you must be doing a lot of stuff that he no he should be doing, but he got all these requests heaped on you, lady. As time goes by, I'm starting to have a change of heart, and you should. I'm doing wifey things without a ring. I feel like he's up to something and he's playing games because he's not ready to commit. He ain't ready to commit. He's not going to commit, and he got you thinking that the reason he's not gonna commit because it's all your fault. He the one don't feel like the man at the house. What they got to do with you? So here we go. It's hard cooking what he wants. Some seal, have a fowl of lucky charms. Won't on his ass when he comes in the house. I'll tell you what, cook old ass food for me, real old ass food. Make him feel like, you know, man's man. Have some chicken feet and just and just uh crock pot with none but beans and rice in it, cone bread, old ass meals coming to the house. Have him some fried spam sitting there with some tripe and some scrambled eggs. Cooking some real old ass grown man like it's coming there with some hot water, corn bread and and just some red eye gravy, No damn meat. No, let's make a pot of aving, give him a straw, tell him that what we're eating today, Tell him gravy, old country ass meal. Come home. Ain't number damn just a bowl of slough. Yeah, just come in there, ain't nothing but some greens, just greens. All that on smoked turkey, Damn that ham hock. Yeah, greene with a big ass hock in it bowler, lisal bea feeeding his ass like an old ass man. This is blood pressure, lady. That's there's nothing wrong with you. It's something wrong with him. Yeah, it's not you. And the second thoughts you're starting to have is because you're starting to realize you're walking on eggshells in your own house. That little boy ready to get married and you're gonna marry somebody that he ain't a man because he's messed up bout your age anyway, because of Mama said a couple of things about it. Gone send him back a lunch next time you go, got buy him a lunch box with superhero Happy All right, listen, come home, have a happy meal. Both your comments on Today Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and don't forget to check out the Strawberry Letter on the podcast on demand coming up at forty six after the hour from the Talk, it will be Our Girl and Republican Cheryl Underwood. Right you're listening show coming up at the top of the hour, it's Carla's Reality Update, but right now Our Girl please Steve introducer Suirlo, Thank you, Steve hirrate and I'm gonna need you to do a little uh little Steve Harvey deep voice for me, and soon you get together on my date. Yeah, because we need a love Verry coming up very sill. The thirty million one of the World Junior Boys meeto was one of the old pros and sh that's right of my old pros with Steve Harvest, Ladies and gentlemen, this date is gonna be Esther from Good Time and Mighty morphin Power. It's a love fest. It's going to happen. Matter of fact, Julia, I call it gravy because it's good the second day. Hey, hope you like grave. Hey dude, wake, But while I'm fantasizing over my life with Junior, can I just vent just a little bit? Call I need for them take the damn impeachment off my TV and stop messing with my soup operas and my reality shows. Don't nobody wants foolishness? Listen, nobody want to see no neck a Batch, McConnell and all them suck. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Nobody want to see that. Nobody want to see that. Nobody wants to see that. We already know what time it is. They tried to shake them down. They tried to shake down to Ukrainians. They would needed to probe. Then they were trying to knock Joe Biden out of the race, but smoking Joe Biden would be in the race. It's happened white. The most ignorant thing I heard when Hillary Clinton say nobody like burning Sanders, like nobody who listen to me? I ain't never heard nothing like when white people talk against each other. It's inn to see black people do week because you know what I'm saying, White people, nobody likes you. Nobody ever likes you. They didn't like you when you were like Fiamn Man Bernie Sanders, I mean he I he all right? And then Bernie Sanda didn't even cry. He ain't got no feelings. You know what I'm gonna need them to do it take the damn impeachment, stop doing gave the gave. Don't nobody call. We already know it's a hustle. We already know the dude ain't gonna be put out of office. All we need to do is participate in the primaries and the caucus participant. That's right. Shirley we're gonna participate in the primaries and the caucus. A question, Yeah, ask me a question, Steve Harvest, Who do you think is the three top candidates in the Democratic Party? That could be truck Joe, Biden and mayor Bloomberg President and vice president. Um, but that that's my ticket right there. You gotta do old white man or old white Man and Bloomberg. Got that money in that pocket? Son, that's who I'm looking for. That big bakes son, you know that's what I'm looking at. We gotta go Sky as always, we love your girl. Coming up next, it's Carla's Reality Update at the top of the hour, right after this. Yeah, she did me. She just knocked it right out of my mouth. Shirtless. You're listening, all right, Tommy, here we go, introduce our girl. She is here, she's waiting, she's ready. Let's go. Let's go. She's here. Colin Ferrell with what reality update? All right, thank you, nephew. Okay, guys, let's talk about it. Let's go with Real Housewives of Atlanta. Let's talk about that. First. Let's address the rumors. There's some rumors out there. I don't know if you guys heard about this. That Ninie Leaks is quitting the show Real Housewives of Atlanta. Did you hear that? Yes, girl, this is a new rumor. Yeah, I love it. Julia, Now I don't want her to Yeah, well listen, listen. Wendy Williams on her talk show, she claimed that she got a text message yeah from Ninie they're real close friends, saying that she is leaving the Real Housewives of Atlanta. However, Ninie posted a picture of herself on Instagram with the caption who said that hashtag shaking my head. So you don't know what to believe with that, So anyway, let's go and talk about the show. On the latest episode of the Real Housewives of Atlanta, the girls were hanging out They're back from Toronto. Tanya said that Kenya left the package in Toronto and asked her to bring it back and she did. And in the package, what Tanya was saying was that her fiance was like, look, when being bringing a package over, you know, out of the country without knowing what it is, So you need to open up this package, yeah and see what it is. So in the package there was a wig hair wig. So you know, Tanya is I guess she was telling all of the ladies this to pay her back from the shade that Kenya was trying to insinuate on the cool that Tanya's man flirted with another girl or she was cheating with this other woman. So Tanya tried to get her back by showing the ladies, Yeah, your girl is rocking a wig while she up here spreading rumors about me and my relationship or in Senya this she never said. Kenya never said Danyan, but she kept looking at him when she was talking about it. I thought that was really really foul about that. So anyway, that was wig gate. So now Kenya knows Candy told Kenya, and now she knows that this girl pulled out the wig and so not Kenya's on the roll to get her back. You know how Kny is. She don't play so and you know Marlow love that moment, you know that, because you know, Kenya put shade down, you know, the whole thing when Marlow launched her wig line, remember with the band and all that, the drum line that came in. So anyway, so Marlo loved that. So moving on Porsche and her fiancee and Dennis, Dennis, they are trying to keep their family together. Dennis meant with Porsche's mom and her sister Lauren. He invited his mom, he tried, he apologized to them for infidelity, you know, cheating on Porsche. I'm breaking her heart and he knows he has to earn their trust back. But now that's on the show. But the other day, Porsche was on Watch What Happened five with Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen, and there are new rumors that porsches man Dennis was out at a diner at four am with some women. So what it's going on. Ain't nobody gonna see you food? Yeah, I know, I know, with a group of women. So Porsche's you know, she's playing all of this. You think they're gonna see you. You know what I'm saying. You think baby, Oh yeah, a little baby Pollard So cute, so cute. So that's that. So you know, Porsche's asking everyone to you know, pray for her family play. You know, she's still trying to work on her relationship and keep her family together. You know, they have a baby together. So we're rooting for you, Porsche. Hopefully it can work out and before we run out. But everybody does. Well, you know, I don't get it. It's not a big deal. You know, but Ya's all natural hair. That's her thing. So you know, they're like, oh, but you're rocking a wigdow. Oh, you know, is that kind of thing. But let me get to this before we run out of time. Let me tell you about the scripted TV show We Love Power. Who shot ghost? We're narrowing it down, okay, so yes, yeah, it wasn't Angela's sister. Pause, it wasn't her, and so now we just found out it was not Tommy, but Tommy kill Vinny and then he shot and kills spanking. Yeah you know, yes, yeah, all right, hit me up on social media. Look, spark Carlo. We gotta get out of here. Talk about more of your favorite shows. Yeah, shout out there. You're listening, all right. So Bernie Sanders has responded to Hillary Clinton. You know, she said, no one likes him. Uh, take a listing as he address she said, no one likes him, no one wants to work with him. He's a career politician. Take a listen. As he addressed reporters, secretary said was about your supporters and criticizing them. Look, look look, Secretary Clinton is entitled to, uh, you know her point of view. My job today is to focus on the impeachment trial. My job today is to put together a team that can defeat the most dangerous president in the history of the United States of America. Why do you think the secretary is still talking about twenty sixteen? That is a good question. Ask him shade and clap bag and he handled it. He handled it. Yeah, a good question. Why don't you ask, right? He said? Meanwhile, I gotta go to this impeachment trial. Yeah, this is unbelievable. But well, you know what, I don't think to say. I really don't think that they expected to be in there all day and all night. I just you know who expected that. That's why they were falling asleep sleep. Yeah, but they weren't gonna let it go, you know. So they shout out to Mitch McConnell because he fell asleep and jolted in head back. Boy, All right, coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show and some trending news at thirty three minutes after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to show. All right, guys, this time for Steve's favorite segment, you know what it is. It's ask Steve. Where we get to ask Steve questions, he answers them. And I would like to ask you, Steve at this point to please keep your answers as short as possible so we can get more questions in good luck. Yeah, and once again you can ask all you want. I asked Donald Trump not to be president, but he is. You can't get it. He can't get everything you want, right right, right right? Yeah, it just happens. All right, So Steve, we're starting out. You ready, what's your favorite room in the house, The kitchen or the bedroom. No, kitchen or bedroom. You have to choose between those two. It's not in there. Kitchen or the bedroom. Bath room ain't in now, no, sir, I'm disappointed to be exact. The toilet area. Oh goodness. All right, come on, junior, you got a question. So the quick kitchen or the bedroom? Yes? Those yes? Your favorite room? Well, then it would be the bad room. Bad room. Huh? Care to elaborate? Well, you know, because when I'm not sleeping, I'm trying to get put to sleep. All right. So you know, at last week you went on the ram about the movie Joker. You didn't. You didn't really care for Joker. You know you didn't really care for the movie Jokers, damn movie of the year. But I want to ask you, if you was a superhero, what would be your superpower? But to be invisible? Oh? I like it? I like it? Yeah? And why why? You know how many people I want to just walk up to and just haul off and slap their ass and they wouldn't know it was you? Me to oh jog. I don't want to be able to fly, none of that. You don't jump off Paul Building. I don't give it. Damn about going under water for eight days. I ain't gonna do none of that. If I could just walk up to you, you see it's me, then blink and become invisible and slap your ass and walk off background and you saw it with me? Thank you? Come on, Carl, like you got a question for Steve. We're doing. Ask Steve if you could change one thing about your upbringing, what would it be. I didn't get no whippers? Oh yeah, who you are though? Life without beatings? Right? Well? Who we got? Been somebody else? Then? Kids today don't know how good they have it. Coming up our last break of the day, and some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after Right after this, you're listening to Steve. We're here at the last break of the day. Just one more thing. You're closing remarks. What do you have for us today, Steve? Well, I think I should talk about dreams because it's such a major component to your success. Dreams are such an important component to success. You can't underplay dreams. See, let me tell you something. Education is necessary for certain fields and professions. You want to be a doctor, a lawyer, a dentist, a pilot, a scientist, a teacher. Education is so necessary for me any professions in this world. But there is nothing, and I repeat, there is nothing more important than your dreams. Your dreams have value. Your dreams wake you up in the morning. The dreams give you hope. You know, I'm not saying education doesn't do that. But education don't wake you up in the morning. It's what you dream and hope of becoming with the education that wakes you up. It is your dream that causes you to even get an education. If you want to fly a plane and that's your dream, your dream will cause you to do the things necessary to accomplish the dream. That's why I tell people educators in all, if we spent more time talking to our children in our school system about their dreams and visions, we could reduce the dropout rate. But what we're doing is we keep talking to kids about the education, and we're not talking about the kids for the reason for the education. You gotta get your education, because you gotta finish school. Finish school for what we have. Got to take time out to talk about the dreams and visions. I tell parents all the time. If you're not talking to your kids about dreams every ninety days, that's a mistake. Man, that's a mistake because young people change more often than you think. But if you're not revamping your dreams every ninety days as an adult, you're making a mistake because guess what you change also now you know may not change as often as your children, because you become a little bit more subtle when you're older. But you've got to refurbish these dreams. You gotta dust them off. You gotta keep reminding yourself or what the purpose is, because the dream provides purpose. You wake up in the morning because of what you dream to be. You get excited when the lawnclock get all goes off because of what you dream to be. Man, don't let nobody fool you. Now, listen to me. I'm gonna say this again. Education is important and it's critical to certain things in life, but you can actually make it in this world without one. Now, do you need to have some basics under your belt? I strongly suggest you do. And I'm not saying at all that you don't need school because you do. School offers you a way to become well rounded. That's the thing that school does for you a great deal. It not only educates you, it gives you social skills. It teaches you how to be well rounded. It teaches you now to adapt. It teaches you the tool of memorization. So I'm not knocking it at all. But what I am saying to you, if you are like me in any way and you're just not a school person, what you're gonna do? You can still be something. If you've blown your education opportunity in life, you can still be something. If you just don't feel like you can do school again, you can still be something. Because the scripture says a man without a dream or vision shall perish. I've old the Bible inside out. I don't know it. I didn't go to theology school anything, so I can't quote it like people can oftentimes. But I don't really don't recall ever going to Sunday School or any service I've ever been to and read a scripture about how necessary your education was. But I have seen repeatedly that a man without a dream or vision shall perish. See the reason You'll die without the dream of the vision because without the dream of the vision, you'll give up hope. You've heard that so many people saying, keep hope alive because it's necessary. The dream, the vision. What you see for yourself, your hope for tomorrow, that impossible thing that nobody else can see except you, that thing that floats around in your imagination, that keeps pushing you to make you think that's something out there other than this. For me, if you wake up in the morning and you keep saying yourself, man, that's got to be more to my life than this, that's because it is. That's because it is. Your visions and dreams are out there. And let me tell you something else. You got to make your dreams and visions so big, so big that it causes you to overcome all of your fears. See the fear of failures in number one cause of failure in this country, because people are afraid to fail. But you have to have dreams and visions so big that it just overcomes all of your fee is. You've got to want something so big, so dynamic to happen in your life. Man, that you've got to make this happen, and the fear is secondary to all of it, and it will cause you to push through. You've got to dream of something so outstanding that an order for it to have to in order for it to happen, you absolutely have to have God's help. If you're dreaming of only stuff that you can accomplish yourself, I got news for you. You ain't dreaming big enough. Start dreaming big, increase your dreams. They would change your life. It would change your perspective, It would cause your hope to grow. All right, those are my closing remarks. All right, Steve, All right, Yes, y'all have a good one. Hey, And can I say, have a great weekend. I'll be working all weekend, but y'all have a good one for all. Steve, Every contest. No purchase necessary avoid were prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.