Y'all know what time of y'all don't know y'all have a suit looking back the back down, giving them more like the Millian buck bus things in the cobles. Me true good it Steve har guy listening to the movie together for stum, Please, I don't join join me? You doing men, you gotta turn you, you gotta turn to turn them out. You got to turn them out to turn turn the water the water go. Come come on your fat h I shall well a good marning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on dig me now one it only Steve Harvey got a ready of show. Okay today you know this week I've just been on it, so today is no different what I'm trying to do. I'm telling you, I've just reinvigorated myself. I'm more determined to share the principles of success. I'm more determined to help and guide and teach as many people as I can the things that I've learned. And I mean, man, I've been through it. I have really been through it. I kid you not. You know. I used to say, okay, god, you know, why is all this happening to me? But as I've gotten older, I understand that was the ingredients. I needed the ingredients to be this cake. I needed all those ingredients stirred up. I need all of that different flavors, the stuff that I didn't think tastes so good. All that stuff had to come into the bowl in order for me to get to where I am today. As much as I did not like the taste of the ingredients, little did I know, God was making this cake, not me. But what he did was and you've heard you the old saying God could turn lemons into lemonade. Well that's what he was doing now. At the time, it all had a little funky lemonade lemony flavor to it, with some other stuff in it too. I didn't care for it. But little did I know, Little did I know that I needed everything that happened to me to happen to me in the exact order that had happened, in the exact array of things that happened, for me to have a knowledge I have today, the experience, the attitude. But so I could turn around and share that information. Okay, got that out the way. I learned this. This is what I want to give to you today. I want you to understand something that discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You've heard me say this how many times on the show. Okay, here we go against Eve. I got it. Faith without works is dead. But let me tell you something. To be a hard worker, you got to be disciplined. That's one of the hardest lessons I'm trying to get through to my sons that an undisciplined man is headed to a life of justice. I can't even tell you, man, you've gonna throw yourself down a cliff if you're not a young man or a man that possesses discipline. Because they got something for undisciplined people. They got some street laws for undisciplined people, and they got some federal laws and state laws for undisciplined people. That's why them signs is outside on the freeway, We're gonna let you go fast. But seventy is the limit. Seventy fast enough, really, really, if you're disciplined enough of a person to leave your house at the time you're supposed to leave your house, seventy miles per hour is absolutely enough. But if you're an undisciplined person, if you don't have the wherewithal to leave your house on time, to make to get ready to go where you want to go, see the desires where you want to go. The discipline is how you get there. You know, you understand. You can want to go to see your family in California all you want, but the flight leaves at one to eighteen. You leave your house at twelve thirty. They told you you must check in one hour before your flight. Now, if you ain't got the discipline to get to the airport to check in one hour before your flight, leaving your house forty five minutes before the flight departs, what you think gonna happen? Your desire to go see your family in la is going to be thwarted because you lack the discipline to prepare yourself and get yourself ready to do the things that you have to do to make your desires come true. I'm telling you discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You can write down a list of stuff you want to do all day, but if you don't produce and show the discipline necessary to get there, what you think gonna happen? Huh? Okay? I want to be rich? Okay, I want to make four hundred thousand a year. Okay, I want to be the best player that there is. Okay, but you don't want to practice. See the cat that's disciplined enough to show up at practice, the shooting jumpers when everybody gone home, that's the guy that's gonna be the best. The guy that puts us and that's never late for practice. The guy that's ready to playbook, that's the guy that's gonna make it. That's the guy that's gonna make not the guy that's talking crack, I stalking that smack. I'm gonna make the Pro Bowl. I'm gonna make the All Star Team. I'm gonna be All American. That's that's just what you're saying. Hey, you know, you just say a lot of stuff. But discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. So now let's talk about this discipline. What is that really, Steve, that's your work ethic, that's your hunger, that's that's your will that that's what you do. That's how hard you're willing to demonstrate. See it's a live demonstration. Now, discipline is how hard you're willing to demonstrate. The Attributes and the traits to be what you want to be. Did you hear me? It is your willingness to conduct yourself in a manner that is above and beyond what they what they say is necessary. Okay, let me see if I can come up with an example for that. So I was watching the NFL Combines on TV. Now, this is a good example right here. Now. You can want to be in the NFL all you want, but they got this thing called the NFL Combines where they bring in some of the top players at every position to come in and they're gonna run a forty yard dash, They're gonna do a standing broad jump, they're gonna do a standing vertical leap. They're gonna do drills, running drills, cutting drills. They can determine if a linebacker got stiff hips by making him back pedal, point him in one direction, and throw the football in another direction. How does he turn his body? Now you can say you can tell everybody at your college you want to play pro football. You tell everybody your high school, you tell them in Peewee you won't play pro football. But they got tests for you though. It's called the Combines. Now you get out here and you have a bad combine day. Ain't nobody trying to hear that. See, let me tell you how excuses don't work with people when they just trying to get when they're trying to win. In the NFL, the fact that you had a bad day at the combine and you don't run your best forties and you keep telling them you could do better, they don't want to hear that, because see, what ain't nobody gonna pay you for is to play on Sunday. And that's one of your bad days. Now, were paying you to play on Sundays, But because you keep having these bad days, because you ain't discipline enough to put in the work to make sure that your maximum can be put can be called upon at any time. Now you had to combine with some slow times that go on your record. You had to combine you don't jump as high as you did when you was at the gym class. Well, hold up, man, this is day now in the NFL. Sunday is show day. What they can't run the risk of is paying you your money and your bad day happen to be on Sundays after we didn't cut your check. No, no, no, we're looking for people who limit them bad days, who got the discipline to work hard, to make an effort for it. You understand what I'm saying to your folks. Please understand this discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You can, you can want it all you want. But if you ain't working, if you ain't grinding, if you ain't greeting your teeth, if you ain't hurting, if you ain't sweating real bad, if you always somewhere got to chill, you got to have a cold, one, you got to smoke one, you always, you gotta do all them. Things. Can't tell you something you ain't gonna make it. Discipline determines your destiny, not your desire. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, might have you undivided attention. Please, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Now listen, folks. Um, I don't know what to tell you about today, but the world crazy. So I figured the best way to offset this crazy world. You just act like you crazy up because it ain't gonna change. Politics is crazy, everybody crazy? Why not us? This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Good morning, shut I'm crazy, stay good morning, surely surety listen, let's just let the people who are really crazy say that. Okay, what don't nobody believe you're crazy? I'm crazy, Steve. Now we're starting to get towards crazy. What's up calling? We're working out? Oh she tried to act like she ain't. Oh but caller d everybody good? Junior, Hey, Mickey, let me come you down. Hey morning, right now, it's only cracking. He talking to Mick Mickey Mouse. Yeah, him and Junior got close this week at Disney, Tom and Tom fur to five cra crazy, crazy, crazy? What did it do? What happened this weekend? Who's going on? Were and Monica? Miss Monica's down here at Disney? What a matter of fact, we're still here right now. So yeah, wrapping things up? How Disney Dream Academy. M hmm, what what did you say, Steve? No, I was just saying, Junior is a star down here. The kids loving because first of all, the kids think he wanted him. Then Junior didn't. They found out he damned near forty and throwing there or something. Forty kids, they found out. So you ain't really here for the cab. So yeah, yeah, I gotta car, You gotta car. Yeah, what you road, aren't you rosing ry? Oh? I love the old one. How's the new one? The new one? Tell us? Let me tell you something. If you're not used to three D bold D eight K, get your ass on there. I'm telling you. When the elephants through that dust up, I could have squatted. Dust was in mind. You know? You know you go around the world. Yes, right, when you go around the world, it's it's different. You go to see the taj Mahal, you see the Eiffel Tower, you see a desert. You go to Africa, you see the ocean and like to da or something like that. You go clam outsh the mouts. You go to the Great Wall in China. I was scared the Great Walk, and I thought we're gonna run into it the boarders, damn or shammo come about the water the whale, but he died right at you. I tried to climb up out that damn. I know you were scared. All right, listen, Steve, we'll be back with more of your story about soaring and all the fun you had at Disney World, and we're gonna talk about Disney Dreamers Academy as um as well. Okay, we'll be back at thirty two after the hour, that's right after this you're listening. Happy Monday everyone, So Steve, you gotta finish telling telling us about Disney Dreamers Academy at Disney World in Orlando, Florida. And you were talking about the new Soaring Ride as well. Well, you know, the class of two thoy nineteen was in great group of you young people again, a fabulous weekend of learning and you know, growing and dreaming and educating, and you know they had a lot of fun too, and and the parents were really nice this year, man, were your nicest group of parents. I mean last year was good too. You didn't get into it with anyone, Is that what you're saying? No, no, no, you know this is the first one or two dead mamma's or something you know in here telling me how special your baby is. Hey, everybody baby and special. Don't what you think about how special your child is. Put them around some of these smart ass kids. You might find out just your childie especially see I know you said you're gonna be crazy. Okay, y'all cussed two time after your graduation, said no, I tried chill. It was Sunday morning, I tried. I was giving it all, but I didn't come all the way out. I said pucket and not call thatself. But everybody knew who it was. The kids was in the day flow lad, here's you know, the kids have a good time. You can see the Christians tightened up a little bit. You know. I'm scale of one to ted. All right, what level Christian you on? Scale? Going to ted five? I could turn any moment by six point five. Oh that's nice, right down. Yeah, you were where you were. I think I'm saying that's about the whole show. No not me, No, no, not sure you about seven? Well, thank you all more than all of Cargoyd, Cook gold on me and teusly right, there's no collusion. Come in. I'll probably come in by like a two five or so. But that's all it is, baby Christians, and then you grow and we all fall short. Yeah, everybody falls short. I heard the minister say this. If you're on the boat. Three Christians on the boat and christ is on shore, and first Christian dive in the water and he swim a hundred yards and he's sink and he drowned. The next Christian dive in the water, he swims five hundred yards, he's sink and he drowned. The last Christian get in the water and he swim, he swim five feet from shore. He sink and he's and he drowned. Who the better Christian? Uh? Another one? I mean they're all yeah, I think I want to come shorter tol Yeah, right, see you all gonna come right nobody. You ain't feeling to make it. Yeah, so now you get it. Hit on, I'm better Christian. I swear you're dead. Yeah, well, I swear five you died, right, I got all the way to you died, though, But two five, two five, I stay on the boat. Ain'tn't need me die two five. As soon as I dive off the boat, I gotta get right back here. Okay, So back to Disney's and what happened now? Disneyama, you said you almost cuss. That's where we were trying to get at, but you didn't try, not try. I said, punking, and I called him so punk And then I tried to turn it into so funking heads anybody. I tried to turn it into a kidid joke. All them kids just on the floe laughing. Yeah, them kids just on the floor. Thank you Jesus. Did you play some golfer? Yeah, yeah, yeah, I played golf. Oh you know, we did our first We have a tournament called the knick Knack and uh normally would have me yeah, yeah, and me too, and I don't get scared. Yeah, it's it's just it's name of our golf tournament, nick Nack. Yeah, but it was just the way you said it. Yeah, and usually me Blue Brandon and Calhoun. But you know, my best friend Calhoun passed, so we played the first time without him. Oh, we took our hats off for him. We took our picture with our arms round each other, but the space between us where calhouna normally stood. Yeah, and coming up this May, I'm throwing my first golf tournament. It would be the Great Calhoun Memorial Golf Tournament. And yeah, that's my man, that's my man. So you know, we played out first one and I won. So you know, oh, okay, all right, you humbling, yeah, humbling. You did say no because when you lose, everybody had to go in there with the winner to the pro shop and he buy whatever you want, get whatever you want out the shot which you get. I got some shirts, a couple of new Hassle flip flops. M You know, they can't all get what you lost. Sounds like you hit him over the head a little bit. Hey dog, they got you, Big Blue dog, Yeah, old dog. Oh Big Blue can out drive me now? Oh, hey dogs. Sometimes Big Blue twenty thirty yards in front of him, then er nine and then I get one out there a little further than him. He got the miss hit though, Yeah, yeah, but that ain't the game. You know, the next shot, we're going for the green on the faux pas the You know, if I'm off to the side of the green, I don't make a lot of greens in regulation. But if I get off, decide to green my chipping and putting good Blue Blue could possibly three put five times around. I'm not going three put Some got to go really bad for me to three put a three put it once today? Are you enjoying yourself? You're having a good time, girl, Girl, I'm down here. I'm having such a good time. You know, it's just nice down here. You know, we stay in a different hotel when we come down here. Uh huh, you know. Okay, it's on the Disney property, but it's set aside. Okay, what's the kids to still here? Ball? All right, look it is Monday. You're not gonna say it, right, it's Monday. Yesterday was Sunday, of course, so get ready for church complaints with But can I tell you something else? What? Well, I'll tell you who we come back, Reverend Motown Deacon Death Jam up next right after this you're listening, coming up at the top of the hour and entertainment news. We're gonna tell you about the twenty nineteen Sand and Soul Festival. Yes, yes, yes, that is coming right now. Though it is Monday. Reverend Motown, dickon Death Jam in the building with today's church comes place. Let's go well when we get the music. Well, all right, hello, Danny, we we wait, we contemplate, we manipulate custom, me jowlry what and hold the place until we hear music. We are here today, gavel yeah, amongst ourselves and others as well to hear him. Now, what complaints this church has? Deacon Death jail? Let us begin, all right, pastor, we have an issue here Crowbar Davis. Crowbar Davis is out of jail after fifteen years. His mother, sister Maddie Byrd, Davis says it's still in his system. Son. When as he got home he crowbar the screen door and the refrigerator opened, which was already both unlocked. He says he's coming to church this coming Sunday. We do better about this taking the doors off before he get hit. Well, let me be clear back, if he pairs up one of these doors on this church, crowball is just gonna be ball, as in back behind balls, because I will have his ass aarrested. Wow, turning up this here church hard as we've been working. We ain't got that many members trying to pimp. I'm excuse me, trying to get about it. Get this money you're talking to sister Matt it bird just talk to about the ball. It's it's we don't want to sing him back after being in their fifteen years back. But he didn't pick up a trade while he was in there. I don't know. He don't know how to make bread. He didn't take in front of you. He can't saying the car down. He can't be no jail. How lawyer were he there doing? He knows how to make shanks of it? Didn't they passed it? He just didn't get a gd I'm not quite chilling. Hmmm, I don't know that. No, well, let's send it back so we can get into progress. Nick will work on it. I will, I will work on it. We have another issue. Let's move right along. We have a dying witch past his sister, Leona Hayes, who is blind and eighty two, wants to sow her wild oats one more time before she leaves him. She's asking that to grant her one last witch and send her nice thirty are farted, some year old buck. The men are calling her are shelly and refused to participate. Well, she's eighty two in shield blood. Yeah, we can find a book, oh, Kenny, when she won't when she wants, but we can get the book for well here to check. No, nobody has stepped forward. That's because you all are not listening to the request. She said a book. No, I know the police that brings in raindeers every year for the Senate claus to get it down at the mall. Let's just get them books together, pull them up to a slate and give them one last ride. She ain't gonna know. I don't think that's what Well, that's how I interpreted let's move on, all right, Where we got a problem. Snagger tooth Richard, as you know us, whistled precious Lord this past Sunday and everybody on the front road got all the clothes stained, and they are asking for the church to pay the bill. Bro, you don't. I don't know how snagger too, Richard. You're gonna have to talk to him. But the bill is high. It was about eight people that got their clothes hour from him whistling precious Lord. Who's that? Is that? Him? That Richard Riche Richard Richart. He focused Richet. I know you, Richet, feel like Gale King was saying Richet, Robert Robert, Yo, Wow, he won't what now pick your pick your part back up. I'm sorry, so sorry, I lost character. Oh and I I was driving. I couldn't whizzle whistle good. I got these I got salt on my lips from eat knees salted almonds, and they got a little washab it dust on them and it just swelled them. Can't I can't get the holding them to stay open. Lord, So I got a cloth clothed lip whistle Wow. All right? Did you have any respond to about slack to the Richet. Let's just move on. Blacker talk is wonderful. We're gonna have it. Whistle all the Christmas sales Carl this year. Move on that boy ain't got two vinted heads, all right? I said, they are complaining about the chicken dinners that were sold yesterday after church over wit. They say that they was fried in fish greens and some of the members I complaining and want their money back to me would get some very good catfish chicken, but I don't. I'm not the one complaining. You're gonna have to decide if you want to give them their money back. Well, I'm with the members on this because I want my damn money back. I had the fish that taste jet, I had the chicken take just like fish. Who wants a catfish flavored way? A catfish flavor? Hello? I said, who wants a catfish flavored way? That? It ain't end up? That was a question you have. You have dropped out staff of time doing this whole excourgion. Are you all right? He Let's say that dude damn near loss le brawl and left Cleveland. Now he ain't in the playoffs. You're just all held with you this is a jag harden on the state farm commercial Keim and Chris Paul getting shot at on the statement on what hell going on? Wow? All right, listen, guys. Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening show. All right, Steve, let's tell everybody about the twenty nineteen Sand and Sell festivals. Y'all better tell y'all going. Y'all better get with this thing because it ain't gonna be strong saying and soul y'all. Two thousand nineteen. We're waiting on y'all to come join us. Ask anybody that was the last year had a wonderful time. It's gonna be in the Dominican Republican Punta Kana. It's all expenses, everything included. You ain't got to buy our drink. You ain't got to leave your wallet at home, you don't need no food, you ain't even got to tip all less in now everything one nothing, just like it's down, but it ain't nothing. Okay, Well, when is it, Steve? October the oh ten through the fourteen birthday weekend? All right, my wife's is the ten. Carla and Marjorie Harvey. Man, I got to come up with some real tricking by the island. You can do it, he can do it. Then we can go whenever we want. You get an island and you get man. I got to work that out, man, because I'm gonna be coming from all well, I can't tell y'all that chick wait. Oh god, I have to wait. I might have to fly back over here do that, then fly back out somewhere. Let me tell you something saying the soul is crazy. It's gonna be deliciou y'all, It's gonna be absolutely delicious. We're gonna have a good time. Man up, gambling, drinks, chicken beaches five thousand. It's got a five thousand dollars giveaway on the phone party. Each person at the pool event was gonna receive a raffle ticket and one of the one that's gonna be selected by the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and it's gonna be cash. We've been to give you five thousand dollars cash, not a check, cash in hand money. So if you at the pool party, the phone party, you get to raffle ticket. Somebody gonna be standing there gonna get five thousand cash. So make sure you with a group of people, Justesse and Cage one of them hit that's dud. Listen to y'all. We got everything. Shirley's gonna be, that Call is gonna be, that Junior gonna be. Marjorie Harvey gonna be there. That events party at the c Day Cruise showtime at the Apollo Night. We got that big five thousand dollars cash giveaway, you know, Tears of Joy comedy show with an as Jay, Tony Roberts and Dog Gonna Killed. Yeah, we got the Red Light District Concert with the one and Only Lord Hammercy Anthony Hill, Anthony Hamilton. Yes, y'all ain't listening to me, man, Anthony Hamilton. Man, y'all get y'all tickets and come on man. All you can eat and drink for free. Twenty four hour room service, free, limitless resorting credits, twenty four hour casino on property. You can find me there. That's the casino. I Tony Mouth our last time. All right, we gotta go, guys. Over one thousand room sold already. This event will sell out. Reserve your room now at Steve Harvey Have I had a great, fantastic wonderful, excellent time, Steve Harvey, and you know it because you saw me. But I'm not focused on the team standing soul. All right, Steve, Time for some headlines. Let's go, ladies and gentlemen. Miss Anne Trip, thanks folks, good morning everybody. Attorney General William Barr has now released his summary of that long way to report on Donald Trump's presidential campaign by special counsel Robert Muller. However, a summary of it may not be enough. In a four page letter, Attorney General Barr conclusive there was no collusion between the Russian the Russians, and Trump or any of Trump's people. However, the question of obstruction of justice, Barr says, while the president did not commit a crime, he's not exonerated. Of course, President Trump sees things differently. There was no collusion with Russia, there was no obstruction and none whatsoever, and it was a complete and total exoneration. Of course, that was not exactly right, but bars undergrowing bipartisan pressure anyway to make that full report on Russian interference in the twenty sixteen election public, like from ranking congressional lead to Haakim Jeffries, who spoke about it on CBS's face to nation. We don't want to say simply crib notes. We don't want to see an outline. We don't want to see an executive summary. We need to see everything so that the American people can draw conclusions on their own. Parts of the Midwest are beginning to dry up, allowing residents to clean up and rebuild after melting snow and torrential rainstorms left cities and towns along the Missouri River under water. Papa John's Pizza is trying something new to pull up its sales. Papa John's popularity began to tank, especially with minorities, after its co founder, John Schnatter first warned that if President Obama was reelected, he'd be forced to fire all his black employees, and later on a few months later, Snada later claimed that his company wasn't doing well because it was linked to the NFL and that the fans didn't like Colin Kaepernick and the protest against police brutality, and after a year about after that, Snada then used the N word and a company conference call as he reminisced about how things were when he was growing up. Well, now he's been thrown off the company's board. Papa John's now has made Shaquille O'Neill. Their spokesperson was Shack Dealz, who promising to buy a bunch of Papa John franchises. So we'll see if that works out. By the way, the President will welcome the leaders of the Bahamas, Dominican Republic, Haiti, Jamaica, and Saint Lucia to his Moralogal Club in Florida on Friday for policy discussions. The White House says the meetings would hopefully give the US a chance to reaffirm the US commitment to the area. China, you know, has been investing in infrastructure and other development projects in many Caribbean nations. No real surprise at the box office this weekend. The new horror movie US took the top slot from Captain Marvel. There's a family, I drive one. It's probably the Neighbors, which I'll schedule Family. How can I help you? Scary US reportedly course twenty million to make and made seventy million this first debut weekend. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, there was no winner on Saturday nights Powerball Jackpot drawing lottery officials. Yeah, lottery officials say the powerball jackpot for Wednesday's drawing has ballooned to an estimated seven hundred and you ready for this one stave seven hundred yees, seven hundred and fifty million dollars. Yes, what is it? What is the take home? One dollar one cash? It will be the payout will be four hundred and sixty five point five, four hundred and sixty five. Yeah, Okay, here we go, Junior, four hundred and sixty five million. What you're gonna do? I came, okay, I ain't got time for sixty five What you're gonna do? I'm buying Cupid. I'm gonna You're gonna be broke. And when you buy Pop, then what and if everybody comes see your stupid ass sitting over there with driving them old ass calls you tell us what we should buy? No, you're experience. Four hundred and sixty five million, asked me. Okay, four hundred sty five million immediately three hundred million, three hundred million immediately goes into an account, getting me at minimum twelve percent. I know how to talk to the right people to give me twelve percent on the money. At twelve percent, my money doubles in seven years. So when seven years I'm gonna have six hundred million, I'm not gonna touch it now. At other one hundred and sixty five million, I'm gonna give Marjorie hen that she could do whatever she wants to and I need fifty what girl? Okay, listen, girl, I got to swallow real hard. I'm gonna take out a full page ad in the USA today. It's gonna be aye. It's gonna be a large black and white on my butt, just the whole front, just a middle Section's gonna be nothing but a full page. And right in the crease of the page is my crease. So on each half of the news, just booty. And on the booty that will be a list of people inside some lips, and on each lip it will be a name. It's just read along and see if your name made the pay. We're just gonna USA today. Coming up at thirty four after the hour, more on celebrating the music and legacy of the Queen of Soul on what would have been Miss Franklin's seventy seventh birthday today. Right after this, you're listening to show well today would have been Aretha franklin seventy seventh birthday. Aretha's music and legacy lives on right here at the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Of course, we loved the queen. We love the Queen. Yes, yes, yes, my favorite. So, Steve, we want to tell Aretha fans the movie Amazing Grace, which stars her. Of course, it's a documentary. It's going to be released next month. The movie was filmed back in nineteen seventy two. It was filmed at New Bethel Baptist Church in Watts, LA, when the Queen of Soul recorded her top selling hospital album of the same name, Amazing Grace. The footage was abandoned for decades, but now it has been produced and restored and will be released next month. So, Steve, I mean you loved Aretha. You guys were friends. She loved you. You know she loved you. Well, what do you want to say about Aretha. I just think, man, that when you look back over time and you think of the great forces in music, Aretha Franklin is right up there. She was one of the great forces in music. As her father told her when she was young, one day you will sing in front of Kings and it turned out to be true. How prophetic was that that her father would say that and it would turn out to be true. Aretha Franklin sang for Kings, she sang for presidents. Aretha Franklin Man was one of the powerhouses in music. Now. You know, look, time got away from us and we switched and we went to hip hop, and we went to neo soul, and we went to you know, boy groups and all this here. But let me tell you something. When it came down to pure star power, pure vocal, excellent, that dog on Wretha Franklin, who Lord Have Mercy was a bad girl. That was a bad woman right there. The original reread, yeah, yeah, what what no hour singing? Go sit out? Yeah, come over here if you want to, Yeah, get one of them out notes you ain't very familiar with. Get somewhere and sit down. Also, if you missed it, we want to play back some of the celebrities who played paid tribute to the queen on our show, like Judge Greg Mathis from Detroit, Stevie Wonder, missus Landa Adams, revend Al Sharpton and more. Taken listen, good morning, see Anthony Man Anthony Hamilton. Aretha was a bigging tune on my music, just her delivery and the passion she had. I remember one time I was supposed to have done us a tribute to her, singing her song, and she requested that not only I sing, but that I sing my own music. She wanted me to sing Charlene and Can't let go. And I was like, wow, here it is a tribute for her, but she understands the importance of an artist being an artist and delivering their own songs. So it was really touching to know that she wanted that. And you know what's up, Steve, And this is uncle Charlie, Aretha Franklin, the Queen queenland soul. I'm just gonna miss her a lot, not only just the vocals. And you know, she taught us all how to sing, you know. And if she's the best that ever touched the microphone, hands down, female, male, doesn't matter. She's just the greatest man. She do anything with a voice. She couldn't outdo her period. I gonna miss her a lot. Stevens Nass lostday Morning, one of the Eighth Wonders of the World, which her voices. When President Obama stated in his message about her. I got to meet her at the Borgata in two and eight. She came to see me perform. Almost lost my mind. I couldn't believe that in the audience, and she was and we got a chance to talk backstage, we took photos. It was the beginning of a friendship and a connection that I never thought would ever come my way. I mean, keep her alive. We keep her alive due her songs, all the things that she did to make this world so beautiful with her music. We missed she releas Hey, Steve Tyler, ferret here man, you know, just celebrating Areta. I gotta tell you. I was at one of the last performances that she did, and I was sitting up in the balcony with Barack Obama and Michelle and he turned to me and after she finished singing Natural Woman and bringing the house down, he turned to me and said, that's why she's the queen the soul. And I never forgot that Areta is gonna be miss man. God bless you, God, bet you see for what you're doing today. Rest in peace, our Queen Aretha. Now it's time to switch gears. The nephew is on deck. He's gonna make us laugh with the prank phone call. Right after this. You're listening morning show coming up at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's Today's Strawberry letter. The subject all eyes on me. Okay, yeah, all eyes on me. But right now is right Strawberry? Right now the nephew is in the building with today's prank phone call. What you got now? Brand spaking new shirty Shirley, I got media ministry? Who shirty shirty Shirley Strawberry. I'm sorry, media ministry brand spanking y'all ready? I think? Hello? How long I'm trying to reach Dre Andre? Yeah, Dre, you're the person that runs the media at the church. You over the sound system and everything and all the um the screens and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, I work with the church. Okay, how long have you been at the church? Man, I've probably been at the church for like five years now, about five years? Okay, okay, listen, my name Doug Man, Doug Newsom, and uh I haven't. I haven't joined the church yet, but I've been coming because my cousin, you know, my um uh my cousin them go there and they've been going there for quite a bit. My cousin, Uh I got I got one cousin that's in the choir. Uh Latrise. You know who Latrice is? Right? Yeah? Yeah, I know, Doug. You ain't a member of the church yet. No, No, I'm not a member of the church yet. But you know, I've been in there. You know, I'm liking the service and everything. So you know, it's just a matter of time, you know. Uh uh when I feel like I'm ready to actually join. But I I ain't gonna lie. Man. I'm calling you because I got a bit of an issue of about about something I've been noticing for the last three weeks that's been going on in the church, and I wanted to uh you know, I had to ask around who was over the media. Yeah, that's that's okay. So, uh man, I don't know what's happening, and I ain't gonna lie. I gotta be real with you. It pissed me off. But for the last three weeks. You know, when my cousin get ready to sing, you know, I don't know why when she get up the sing that the mic just go out, you know what I mean, The mic just go completely out? Was she getting ready to sing? And I'm like, wait, what this doesn't make no sense? You know, So, man, I ain't been. It's not like I'm timing it. I don't know. I mean, we don't have the best equipment at the church, you know, we we just got to work for what we got. I mean, it's not like I'm sitting there trying to sing about your cousin. Sometimes the mike's get a glitch. Man, but see but see that. But see that's my problem though. The problem I'm having is the glitch happening every single time my cousin get the mic. You know, that's that's the problem of him. I'm like, okay, so every time Latrees get up there the same then you know, the might go out. I came three weeks straight. I ain't hearing my cud saint nothing yet. So I'm calling you bro on you know, on some real man the man stuff, Just letting you know, bro, I'm coming to church again this Sunday. I'm coming. Nah if Latrees might go out again, hey dog, somebody gonna get the You're gonna bring that energy to church, say whatnot? You're gonna bring that energy to church? I told you, man, it's just a college. Ain't nothing I could do about it. Okay, what I'm saying, oh bro, what I'm saying is this right here though, And I'm being as real as I can, which if if Latrese might go out on Sunday immediately after that service is out with somebody getting the ass wood. I don't know why you calling threatening a member of the church. Man. Like I said, I ain't got nothing to do with it. I try to keep everything running cool, you know. I try to keep the running smooth. I can't tell you when a glitch is gonna happen. It's electronics, man, it's only quimmen. Now, I'd love for you to be a member of the church with us, but I can't. I mean, why are you calling up here threatening me? Hey, bro, because because I came up there three times? Three times? I he came there and see my cousin saying. You know, my cousin been saying since we was kids, we all love to hear hussying. We love a voice, you know. We you know, we grew up listening to Latrise. So what I'm saying, I'm gonna say this here though, and I said it I didn't say it twice already. I'm coming up there Sunday if Latrese might go out, bro let me just cut you off real quick. Ain't no way that you're gonna come up here and whoop nobody's ass. Man, That just ain't gonna happen. Like I told you, it's a glitch. But you ain't coming up to the church talking all this and then gonna whip somebody's ass. Okay. So I see where we are now, So so let me just going on direct it this way. So let me say this, from Doug to Andre, from me to you, I'm letting you know right now, come Sunday, if Latrese might go out, not know, somebody, I'm whooping your ass, Drake, I'm whooping yr ass if the day I might go out. Okay, First off, ain't nobody whipping my ass, especially no punk dude named Doug. He ain't gonna come to the church. What my that is gonna happen? Okay? What? What what makes you think you can't get your ass whip on, Drake? What makes me you over here threatened somebody over here with the media. You want to come test these hands and come test the hands man, you know what may the fact when y'all next rehearsal, I can't just come on over that end. Come on over there, man, Why don't you come over right now? I'm over at the church right now. Oh so you're at the church right now. I'm at the church right now. Okay, right now. If you want to catch the school, you're gonna need the church after you don't get this as Okay, Hey, Bob, tell DJ then we're going to go to the church out No, no, tell him. We've been to roll up there to this damn church. Okay, come on, call all up, call all up. Now you're fren to get your whipped out so you don't push it up on the wrong one. Now you're gonna pushed up on the wrong one. So all this little talking cool, you're gonna have eight dudes right now. So Douggie, you can bring Johnny, you can bring Billy, you can bring whoever you want. But it ain't gonna happen, okay, okay, cool and real dog, Doug, you don't call me talking to all this book. How you about to come up here and whoop? And now you need like seven eight other guys back in the day. We used to just handle this one on one. And now you want to come up here talking all that. You're gonna bring every cousin you've got in your house. If you want to do this, man, come up here, let's do it one on one. Oh oh oh oh, you you're scared of something. Ain't nobody scared, but you're talking that, you whooping mind. And now you want to bring up every disciple you know? Man, you know what, Bring whoever you want. Just don't bring nobody you want back because I'll put you all down. Okay, Well, I'm gonna tell you this here. I'm gonna bring Tommy with me, and Tommy gonna be the one. It's gonna act a damn fool. Which I'm telling you that right now, Tommy. So you don't know Tommy. Nah, I don't know Tommy. Okay, dude, you know nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey More on the show. Are you kidding? Number? Hey man, Latrese got me to prank phone call. You might the fact the whole choir is in on this and they know that I am pranking you. Drake man. Now you got me turning up on the radio. Now I gotta go ask for forgiveness that smack. I don't talk now, I'll come Sunday. I'm turning everybody's mic off. Okay, man, I gotta ask you this, drake, what is the baddest that I mean, the baddest radio show in the lay you know, it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. And YO, tell me if I could turn your mic off, I turn that. He wasn't stand wasn't he Come on, it's gonna it's gonna be a real situation. He was a nurse kid. Oh give me your cousin name. So when he come out watching, let it happen again. It's jumping off, y'all. Saturday. I will be in Glenside Saturday, April to thirteen, Glenn's Side, Pennsylvania. That will be Me and the beautiful some More. That's right. Tickets are on sale right now, Glenn's Side. We're at the Kesswick Auditorium. You do not want to miss us Me and some More. We got two shows, one at seven, one at ten. Tickets on sale right now, and then a week later April to nineteenth, Me and Bruce Bruce Knoxville, Tennessee, Knoxville Civic Auditorium. Tickets are on sale right now. I'm on the road. I'm on the road, and sooner or later, I want all y'all to hear this. I'm gonna put I'm gonna put the I'm gonna put the band back together. It's like the Blue Brother I'm putting the band back together. Day Jay, Steve Junior, Tommy, I'm putting the band together. We're gonna see if we can go out. Listen to one day. Hey, listen one day and listen to me. Whenever you make a line up that we in. Don't ever put your name last over man, just I just like to fast see it. I got to eat it. One I'm gonna make your dream come true. You're gonna find out scream out at all. All right, listen, Thank you, nephew. Good luck with that. Coming up next to the Strawberry Letter subject all eyes on Me. We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationship, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey f M and click Submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read this one right now. You can just keep your problem to youself. Buckle up and hold on tighte we got before you here. It is called BERRYLETTA subject all eyes on me, Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a thirty three year old married woman with a great body, pretty faced, long healthy hair, and a lot of confidence. I got married four years ago, and my husband works hard to make sure I'm well taken care of in all ways except for one. My hobby does not give me compliments anymore or comment on my hair and nails like he used to, so I have been getting my needs met at work, the Jim and via social media. It's not what you're thinking. My husband and I have a great sex life. It's his attention that I so desperately crave. I love dressing up and turning heads when I walk in a room, and I love it when I post pictures on Instagram and a bunch of racy compliments come pouring in from men. And the only problem is my husband does not like it, and he thinks I'm insecure and pathetic. But when my twenty six year old sister comes around and her cute, form fitting athletic wear. He has no problems with giving her compliments. I have told him that it makes me jealous when he does that. And he told me that it's fine for my sister to push the limits because she's under thirty, single and has no real career. Yet I think he does it to irritate me. I have told him I can't go on for too much longer without being wanted and appreciated by him. What's wrong with him? Or am I the crazy person in all of this? I'm trying to get where you think he doesn't want you or appreciate you out of this? I think he does you. I mean, you said it. He takes very good care of you. You said that, and I think you're his wife. Now. Your husband does not want you posting pictures on social media for other men to look at you and lear at you and all of that. No man wants that. And when you say you like dressing up and turning heads when you go out, just exactly what are you wearing? I want to know this. I mean, I really really hope you're not dressing too sexy or you're not dressing too sexy. No, I don't, Steve, And I mean I can guess, and with too much skin showing, Okay, I hope it's not that because you know that can get you the wrong kind of attention. I don't think you want that kind of attention, but sometimes the way you dress will bring on that kind of attention. All right? Is that wrong? Yes? It is, But you know, just keep that in mind. The kind of and the kind that your husband will have a problem with. He already has a problem with it, I'm sure with you know, with you posting these kinds of pictures, you're his wife, he doesn't want to see that. He doesn't want to see you on social media looking all sexy. You know, if if you do it in a classy way, I'm sure that's okay. But it's just I'm getting vibes from this letter that that's not what you're doing, all right, So just keep that in mind. Real it in you can dress sexy without showing everything, you know, leaves a little mystery for your husband and all of that you can do that. And about him complimenting your sister, I mean, I think there are clues in there, you know, when he says she's under thirty, she has no real career yet maybe he's trying to, you know, encourage her. Let's say, but you're his wife. You already have the man, and he's taking care of you, So why can't that be enough? Steve? You know, surely changed my mind a little bit because I was really gonna go the other way. But you're absolutely right with what you said. But still I must address a few things, do you boo? You know that's probably, like now, the biggest problem in this letter. She thirty three, her sister twenty six. Seven year difference them seven years have made all the difference. We'll get into that thirty three year old married woman with a great body, pretty face, long healthy hell, and a lot of confidence. I got married four years ago, and my husband works hard to make sure I feel taken care of. Except for one excuse me. My husband does not give me compliments anymore or comment on my hand and nails like he used to. Okay, now this is a little bit misleading. Your husband don't give you compliments on your hand nails. Now, these pictures you putting on Instagram, it's the men that you say is calling in because see you say you love posting pictures on Instagram and and I love posting pictures on Instagram and a bunch of racy compliments come polling in from men on your hand nails. Lady, are you are you trying to trick me? As you said your husband. Don't call me on your hand nails and racy comments just be pulling in from me in on your Instagram about what your hair and nail. Girl. It ain't a man on Instagram looking at hal or nails. So now what are you really doing? Like Sirley said, what are you doing? You? And then I've been getting my needs met at the work, at work, the gem and via social media. Oh it's not what you're thinking. My husband, I have a great sex life. It's his attention that I so desperately create. I love no he go again. I love dressing up and turning heads when I walk in a room. Girl, what have you done to your damn hal? I just know what your heads looks like? Can you please send us pictures of your head with your hands showing, because you don't turn heads when you walk in the room with your hell, you don't. We might eventually see your hair, but if the first y'all ass is in hell clown, and I think I know what's going on now. I was gonna tell you that your husband is jealous. I was gonna tell you that he don't get it, and I was gonna tell you that he wants ownership with his wife. But I think it's mold to it that I'm so nervous about all this head turning. What hairstyle? Could you possibly turning? These heads like this? Polished on that bab the bun on? Will you look at the ponytail walking in him? That's just not look at the we look at the weed. All right, Look, hang on, Steve. We'll have part two of your response coming up at twenty three after the hour, right after this. The title of the subject is all eyes on mate. Right after this you're listening to show. All right, let's recap today's Strawberry letters, Steve with part two of your response, subject all eyes on Me, thirty three year old woman and sick of her horse. He don't compliment her no more on her hand nails, so she didn't went to Instagram in the gym and start posting. And now I just drives her crazy when she gets all type of unruly and why our comments from men In other words, she says, oh, when she gets racing comments come pulling in from me and on Instagram. Now she tried to trick me and sherlo she thinks she's talking about her hand nail. We don't give a damn about your hand les. It ain't one woman getting comments from me and the little fire sign the little hands praying right, we won't you you want hunted, We don't give you that. For hell, we get that from our girls, but not from guys. No for your hello, what the hell you have only on instagrams? Right? Girl? You love turning heads when you walk in the room. I got news for you. Ain't causing your hair. Now, when your sister come in, your baby's sister, who's twenty seven, your us, it ain't got no problem. She come in her cute form fit and athletic wear. He ain't got no problem giving her compliments out and told him that it makes me jealous when he does that. He told me, now listen to this last. He told me that it's fine for my sister to push the limits cause she is under thirty, single and has no real career. Yet, now do you hear how men think for your sister? To come in here with this skin tight clothes. Or it's fine, she under thirty. She ain't got no career yet what you want her to do? She don't dress like that? That's got you jealous? Or now what you're wearing on Instagram? Can we have your Instagram? Give us a name? Who is you? Hot pocket Kitten? No cut Linda? Who are you? Big booty? Brenda? Who are you? Because you're doing something other than fixing your hair and painting your nail. Monica and Shirley and Carlins nails always look nice. You always these girls keep their hair right. You don't never see these girls hand right and these girls nails. It's always done every now and then I say, girls, y'all hair a little nice and y'all nails. Why that's nice right there. But that's what I see first though. Yeah, that ain't turning no heads. No, you want your head turn? You gotta do some men. Yeah, you got to have a v cut. Damn there down to your neighbor. Now you have our attention. I think he does that to irritate me when he talks about my sister. I've told him I can't go on too much longer without being won't it and appreciated by him? What's wrong with him or my crazy person in all of this. Well, what you're doing now is you're seeking attention from other men, which is now ticking him off. So since see, ma'am, you're getting what you want. See, so you on Instagram not for your husband. You're walking in the gym, not for your husband. You walk into work turning heads, not for your husband. You're doing all that for yourself. So now, yeah, you know why your husband quick complimenting you because he figured you're getting enough of it any way else you're trying to get it. So see, you're really sabotaging your own marriage. You're really sabotaging your own marriage seeking the approval of other men, racy comments. So system, I was gonna talk about your husband or what's wrong within me? Jealous, But like Shirley said, it's you. You're fast. You're just fast. You somebody wife, don't. Yeah, your husband used to compliment you until you start losing your mind. Now you all on Instagram, couple, your butt showing the little the little brown on your chest is showing that little circle, just the beginning of the circle. You got that out on the picture because she huh, she didn't say she was getting compliments from men. She said, racey, racy comments, racy comments, right right. See, these ain't compliments, So you're going past the compliments. See Monica, Shirley call it. They get compliments from us often. Don't not compliment you all from times time. Yes, yes, you do something different with your hand. We notice it. We pay your comments. We love your nails and girls they keep their nails and toes done. These ain't no shabby crew up in him comes up in here, and you know why they ain't shot because I don't allow it. I can't come in here, Canda. But then you know what, we don't come in here looking any kind of the way. We don't allow it. They don't allow where you going, right, But they ain't even get compliments outside their husband. You know, it's gonna only so far you can go with Calor called Tasha hands over there, so I'm wrong with it. It's only so far you can go with Sherlan called the Mexican he over there, but really old is over there? Or really old really? So I don't know what to tell you, lady. You got to slow it down. You're gonna mess, you lose your family trying to get some attention, and let me tell you something, men to pay you all types of attention with racy comments. The fact that you ain't deleting the comments. People on Instagram ain't stupid. They know that's what you want. And she is who wife entertains that while and maybe that's why your husband complimenting your little sister. Yeahm so, so now what should show you how that feel? Yeah? Uh huh, how I feel with somebody you love getting compliments? Yeah? All right, listen, we gotta get out of here. You can email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey f M coming up in ten minutes, NCAA March Madness, and then political news, the Muller Report, New Collusion. We'll be right back. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. Special counsel Robert Muller ended his nearly two year long investigation into Russian interference into the two thousand and sixteen election and possible collusion between Trump campaign and associates and the Kremlin. Mueller found, imagine this, no collusion, but yeah, right, but that doesn't exonerate the president completely on the obstruction of justice issue. Mueller has brought charges against at least thirty four people and three companies. That includes guilty pleads from Trump's former national security advisor, his personal lawyer, the one time campaign chairman, and deputy chairman. Mueller has left the decision to charge the president with obstruction of justice up to the new Attorney General, Bill Barr and the Department of Justice. Over the weekend, mister Trump played golf with Kid Rock and tweeted, have a great day. Happy Yes. Now, keep in mind the US Attorney's Office in the Southern District of New York has also launched investigations into the presidents and the Trump organization, and they don't have any restrictions or investigate on investigation. So, um, will the president and his kids be in the clear. We just don't know yet that as a question. We'll have to wait to find out. What do you think? It depend on what you know if you're waiting on Bar to do anything. Bar is the same guy that's on records saying that this, uh, this whole investigation is a which hunt. He thought he agreed with Trump it should have ended a long time ago. So now he is the new attorney general. So now what do you think he's gonna say. You know what, I'm at the point where really politics has really gotten on my nerves a bit. I mean, it's just so political and there's so many things that we can't do anything about that. Yeah, that's political, man, it ain't and it ain't really nothing we can do. We have nothing to say with the DJ know, we can't change any the laws. You know, we sit up here and vote. The popular vote don't count no more. It's the electoral vote. You know. They just got a game set up that they're playing amongst themselves. You can't leave us out. You can't die of sitting president. So you know, so this dude just getting away with whatever you want to get away with. So here's what's happening. We have to turn out in twenty twenty in a record number. We've got to get out and vote so heavily that the delicates they have to go with the masters. That's the only way that's gonna work. But let me tell y'all something. Y'all, they are planning on winning it again, especially with the report anger that they're gonna have man towards I just we've got to get out and vote Trump in record level. Yeah, he could take a victory lap on, but what does it say. Who's he taking a victory lap saying I'm not a criminal? I told you. I don't say post too. But your crew is around you. Yeah, everybody you bought around the White House and in the White House is indicted. A bunch of them doing time. Yes, they were all bought in by you. But the Trump supporters are not gonna see this sto. Yeah, even if he even if the Muller report had come back Steve and said that there was collusion, his base would still be with him very anyway. Yeah, it was. President Trump is very smart, but he's dangling in front of not only his base. Don't don't y'all think it's just his base. It's the people in power who have jobs, titles and position and money, jobs, position and money. He's got them in a position where if I'm in this place, you can stay in your place. So they're gonna go along with him because they're not sacrificing their job, their power, or their money for the good of the country and for regular folk. They're not going to do that because they are of the firm belief if the rich state richer, they are the ones providing opportunities for the everyday man. That is their solemn beliefs. Don't you think it's any other difference. If we are not who we are, hiring, who we hire and doing what we do, what would happen to this country? So they not fit. That's what the Republican parties really say. That's what all these politicians are really saved. If it weren't for us, what would you do? But they're protecting themselves and they're not gonna sacrifice themselves for y'all. They not, So we've got to get out to the polls in massive numbers. Their job, though, is to make you think there's nothing you can do. Now. They are counting on complacency in two thousand and twenty, they are counting on black people sitting this one out because they're getting away with so much stuff. They want you to think that you'll vote doesn't matter. So it's a trick, y'all. It's an ugly, nasty trick. Please be aware. It takes nothing for you to vote. Yeah, go down there, you can vote, You can early vote. You ain't got to wait till them lines look man, y'all have got to vote. It's a trick going on. Yeah, and if y'all fall for the trick, they're just go, hey, we won, we won. Yeah, I know I know we can. Yes. Please y'all don't get depressed about this. Don't don't let that bother you. I figured it was gonna come down to this. Yeah. If every listen to me, every time you thought right was gonna get done, has it been done? No? They let police go shooting these people. Yeah. They do what they want to do, and they make it a okay every now I and they'll serve one up all right, now I'm dead. But really, don't let that bother y'all. Man, they don't big deal. It's just a Muller report. We got years, all right. Coming up at the top of the hour, we're gonna talk about this video that's gone viral about this Dallas bartender who beat this woman up so badly over a parking space. We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, I don't know this video. We've seen this video. It's gone viral. It's really shocking to see. It's in Dallas. It's a bartender who beat this woman for blocking him in a parking lot. Now. Dallas police say it started with an exchange of words between a man. His name is Austin Shuffield. He's thirty years old, and the woman is a twenty four year old woman. Her car was reportedly blocking the exit behind a barbershop and bar where this man, Austin Shuffield works, and he works as a bartender serving drinks. The Dallas Morning News reported the victim told police she had stopped her car after she realized she was driving the wrong way down a street. In the video, which I said has gone viral, Shuffield can be seen confronting her with a gun in his hand. Yeah. When the victim pulled out her phone to call nine one one, the man slapped the phone out of her hand and then she hit him. Now he had a gun in his hand, remember that she hit him. At this point, Shuffield, I mean, he started beating this woman like she was a man for real. You you gotta check out this video. He delivered as many as five violent punches and upper cuts upper cuts to the woman. While witnesses recorded the video, just everybody was like gasping, just in disbelief. They could not believe it. They were saying, it's horrific what happened in the video. This is according to the owner of the barbershop. Bar He said it was shocking to see such violent behavior from what he called a very good employee. So this is when a very good employee goes bad. People help this woman, they're they're recording this on video. And yeah, because you saw he was a man, he had a gun. Here's a man who has a gun out, it's in his head, it's visible, you can see the gun. It's not smart to run over there because he hidden her. Yeah, ain't no doubt. If you a man your own round. I can't imagine him hitting you because see, most men who are physically abusive to women don't fight men. No, that's what I found to be the case from people I know who have been abusive to women. This is horrible. These are charges that have to be placed. First of all, when you have a gun out in your hand, that's not a concealed weapon. You got it out even if you got a license to carry. A license to carry does not allow you to pull it out, draw it. So it doesn't matter what. But now, and I've heard a lot of people say she shouldn't have hit him. Well, she shouldn't have hit him because of the gun. You know how mad she was. But he did the first physically offensive thing. He hit her first when he slapped the phone out your hand. Don't nobody just hit your your phone right and your hand is in it. So he in essence slapped his woman hard enough to knock her phone out the hand because she was trying to call the police. Then he hit her. Now she enraged, and she swung and she hit. Now. I wouldn't I would hope that I could talk to my daughters to get them to get away from this situation as quickly as you can with this man with this gun, because this could have been worse, but it could not have gone The best thing was somebody recorded this. Butthole this half a man, this disgrace to a male species. Hits this woman like this, I mean just that wentn't punches at this girl like she was a man. He needed to go to jail. Well not well, he's been charged with a salt okay, and he has been fired by the barbershop bar And we don't know the condition condition of the victim. We don't know her condition. Yeah, so that's so, I don't know, if you know, it's just a matter of time. Probably they watched the news too. Yeah, I'm sure it's just a matter of time. But let me tell you something. When you get to jail, boy, oh boy, oh boy, And I hope that the judge brings him forward, throw the book at him and set that bill nice and high where he gonna take him at least seventy two hours and get this money because there's some people in that man got something for him. Black and white. See, jail's is different from prisons. It's actually blacks and whites to get along in jail. It's not as racially segregated as prison. You know, if you watch ninety days in sixty days in you see people. You know, it's still gains and it's it is not a good place, but it's not as segregated as prison. As soon as you get in prison, you got to get If you're in Northern Mexican, you got to get it the northern Mexican. If you Southern, you got you go to California. Your black's gotta go over there. Northern and Southern Mexicans, they're another group, and the whites in another group. And if you Asian Indian, y'all got to pile up and get something going. Yeah, and the medium and stive you mentioned race, um, just in case you were wondering. The man was white, the woman was black. In this instance, they've protesting going on in Dallas and everything. He gonna get his ass told off, Okay, in any one of them jails. The best thing he could do is stopped by that barbershop and get that hack cut off. Don't go in there looking like you did on the video. Get you something. Well again, he has been charged in assault. Yeah that that video is so disturbing, It really really is. Yeah, it is. But in the way he was just an owner. Yeah, an, I mean, man, you hit the woman one time, she hit you once. Yeah, you hit the woman one. First of all, I'm just not a propuent. There's a cow woman. I got to ask you something. I gotta ask you something because you know, we were saying, of course he had a gun and she shouldn't have hit him. But a lot of times when someone hits you, it's kind of a natural reaction for you to hit them back, you know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, she just probably just instinctively hit him back. But oh, she definitely did that. She definitely instinctively hit him back. But I want women to be careful out here because there are men who were not raised with the thought of you don't hit a woman. And please be careful women because these men out here, man, they raise different. They're not they're not real men out here. Man, there's some dudes out hit it on. Lived. Ain't got no cold respect for women that you don't hit a woman. Yeah, you know what, I many times a woman has hit me. I've probably been hit by five women in my life. Wow, hit a woman back, Gwen hass beat my ass, slatch me off a bike, and beat my bike. Gwen was pretty big. Then all right, we gotta go, Steve. We still gotta talk about the ncuble A and um Cam Newton says he's giving up sex to make himself a better quarterback. We'll be back right after this. Yeah, you heard me. You're listening, all right? What you guys want to do? First? Ncuble A, You want to talk about Carolina Panthers quarterback Cam Newton, who says he's all right, man. Cam Newton says he's giving up sex to make himself a better quarterback. Uh he's of course, you know from the Carolina Pathers He's a superstar. Cam says that. Uh. Well, he went on the Late Show, The Late Late Show with James Gordon, and in the process of explaining why he's going vegan, he dropped a bomb, saying he's giving up sex too well for the month of March. So I'm no bet so in January. Then it carried over then, um, February vegan, yeah, so yeah, so vegan, Yeah, vegan in February. Vegan in February. Yeah seven k yes, vegan in February. So we got yeah, vegan of February and then March. I'm giving I hope this is an adult crowd. It looked like it is. No shot the front, dool straight up, No, no, I'm going through a transition right now, like oh mom, I'm gone. They should at least done it in February. You got twenty eight days in February. It's well, I tell you one thing, though, he damn show gonna be able to throw it further say that yan, yeah man, because when you give up that, you know h when you give up that, you know you give him that yikity yak you get real strong man. Yeah, he's gonna be able to throw that ball, pop the damn the eighty five yards in the al, but he ain't playing to sell. That carries over, Tommy. I got sick one time and I was in college and I didn't have sex three weeks in college. What happened one of him, Chase. I ran from my apartment to class one day, six min non stop, no sweat, without a break, pound in that pavement. My body was just jacked off. Cam Newton gonna be throwing that ball so damn fart this year? What's the long as y'all went this morning? So far? Oh y'all can answer that question? That ain't you know? What about Junior's answer? Yeah, I'll say this, Tommy, I've gone some years, not since I've been married, but when I was single. I want some year. You remember that period of my life when I was selling went, I was selling it. Yes, we talked about this how many years? But Junior, Steve, Tommy, you heard me? She did You've been married, Carly, you were married, girl, used to customer. I stress frustrations. Yeah, you could do it weeks, weeks and I'm starting to help wheel wheel prop. I get dizzy. After week, I can't see my visions there. Really, I go blind. One time I went without yeah, when I was When I was younger, I went without sex for a month. I had sea. My whole body just started slobling, had tongue out of my mouth out the side. My daddy grabbed the spoon, try to keep me from swallowing my tongue. I ain't know what the hell is really, bill, Bill, I think the boy had no sex. I'm talking to my boy. 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Um, Happy birthday again to the Queen of Soul, Aretha Franklin Rip queen. Yes, yes, all right, Steve, it's on you for closing. You know, today I want to talk to men, and I'm not saying anything right now that I don't think a lot of men are very very aware of. I'm not the only man that feels this way. I just happen to have a platform and I can say it out loud, you know, in light of this horrific video that's out of this man who has this gun drawn and slaps a phone from this woman's hand and then she hits him, and he proceeds to punch this woman like she's a man. I just want to talk to men for a second. Not once again. This isn't for every man listening, because, like I say, the majority of men that I know feel this exact same way. But if you're one of those men that you just don't get it, if you weren't raised this way. If you're one of those men who says, well, she shouldn't have put her hands on me, I agree. I agree that a woman shouldn't hit a man. I agree with that wholeheartedly. But let's just talk about manhood for a second. Even if she does her level best to hit you, just really, bra really, man, how damaging is it? Really? How damaging is it? I mean, let's think about this, man. I was raised not to hit women, no matter what. Now, Look, if you're in a life in death situation, you got to protect yourself. A woman got a gun and finished shoot you. That we're talking a different sets of stuff. I'm talking about. If a woman draws her hand back and hit you, what your response should be, and you know what it should be to walk away, to just say hey, look stop, hey, look, I'm out of here. Go ahead. I can see you blocking a punch. I can understand that. But to retaliate, Fellas, listen to me, that's not the way we were meant to treat women. Even if a woman in a fit of anger loses it. And I've tried to tell my daughters, don't put your hand on no man because all these men out he ain't raised like your father and your brother's was. But now listen to me. In a fit of anger, if she does hit you, fellas, what are you doing? Listen? Man? First of all, let me tell you how special women are. Do you know that women have a skill set that none of us have. They give birth to children, They bring life into this world. They are our mothers. They are our grant and mothers. They are our sisters, they are aunts, They are our teachers. They are our comfort. They are our source of of of of of of of of of times when we need someone to confide in. Women have been there for us since the beginning of time. Women patch us up so we can get back out here to war. Women love on us, Women tape us up and put us back together to face another day. Women are special, man, They are special. They do things for us that no one else can provide a level of comfort, healing, loving security that nobody else provides. We have got to get back to understanding who we are as men, as men. Now I'm not talking about women's live I think women should have equal pay, equal jobs. I'm talking about all of that. But after that, though, we have an obligation to treat them special that day are not targets for our anger calling them all out our name. But we didn't allow this to go on too though. And I can't really blame nobody but our generation. We got to stop being this way. Man, I've noticed a shift in the way young men are dressing now, And man, I take my hat off to y'all. I had these cats from Chicago Black Ink on my talk show the other day. This dude came out in a three piece suit man, one of the leaders of the Black Crew. This guy was so dapple, man, I was proud of him. I looked at all these Cassie's young cats that was at this part of this Oscar party we went to. All these young dudes was dapple. They had their suits on, their taxes on. I mean, man, I've watched slowly come back around where young guys are starting to dress. Well, why are we dressing? I want you to get what else comes with that? Do you know that when you walk a woman down the street that you are always supposed to be on the curb side of the street. Do you know that you're really not supposed to allow a woman to walk against the curb closest to the curb and you on the inside. And you know why because it came from chivalry. Man. It came from back in the days when that was wagons on the street and a gentleman was walking down a boarded sidewalk with a woman and for a wagon came by and splashed mud. It was splashed on the gentleman instead of on the lady. It started like that. It was something as simple as that, because that's when we started having sidewalks back in the day, So that's what that was about. But we lost that, I see women walking up against the curb, we lost that. Do you know when you get on the escalator with your woman, you're supposed to let her in the front in case she falls you can catch him. Do you know when you get on the escalator going down, you're supposed to be in front of her in case she stumbles she falls into you. Do you know that, man, that you're supposed to open doors for women? Do you know that you're supposed to open card doors women? Do you know that you're supposed to pull out chairs for women the Saint. This ain't option. This is what we're supposed to do because we men. We are men. We can't lose sight of who we were created to be. Biblically, we're created to be the stronger vessel, not meaning that women ain't capable, but the physically stronger vessels. Being corny or whatever that is. That's just real talk, man. We got we got to remember who we are. We men. For all Steve Every contests, no purchase necessary, void We're prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. You're listening to Steve Morning Show.