When discussing sex within relationships with clients John has found there is often problems with who initiates it, how often it takes place and mismatches in the level of sexual interactions. In this episode John discusses differing sexual motivations and triggers, the misconceptions of sex and the different types of arousal that most of us experience.
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‘This portrayal can lead us to believe there is only one type of desire, but if we look at the sex life of most people it is nothing like this at all.’
‘Learning which kind of desire that you lean towards and which your partner leans towards can help in creating a sex life that works for you both.’
‘You either have a body that is sex ready, or a mind that needs to be in the right headspace for sex.’
‘The reason most people struggle with arousal and get performance anxiety is because they are in stress, fight or flight mode, and your brain can’t do both states at the same time.’
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Having spent a life choosing unhealthy relationships and self sabotaging my own success, I now coach people to live a life they choose.
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