British pop singer Lily Allen has admitted that while her children 'complete' her, having them 'totally ruined' her career. So John Cowan joins the Weekend Collective to answer the question - can you have it both ways?
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John Cowan: Teaching your kids to drive
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Dougal Sutherland: Does telling your kids to 'be yourself' just lead to bullying?
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Sara Chatwin: Psychologist chats parents' sideline behaviour
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