Oren Jay Sofer leads retreats and workshops on mindful communication and meditation at retreat centers and educational facilities around the United States.  He is the founder of Next Step Dharma and Mindful Healthcare and he holds a degree in Comparative Religion from Columbia University. In this episode, he and Eric discuss his new book, Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication. In it, you’ll learn an updated model on how to skillfully communicate – especially in difficult situations. Practical strategies and helpful perspectives are what you’ll get in this episode. 

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In This Interview, Oren Jay Sofer and I Discuss…
His book, Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication
That we’re not stuck, our minds can learn and it depends on the choices we make moment to moment
The three steps to create effective conversation
Lead with Presence
Come from Curiosity and Care
Focus on What Matters
How most people live with fragmented attention and it takes training to be fully present with another person
That you can feel whether a person is fully present with you or not
Bringing awareness and attention to the body to come into the present moment (the body is always in the present moment)
Bodily sensations happen in the present moment
The power of pausing
How our rate of speech is connected to our nervous system
That when we are present, we have a lot more choices
That our intention shapes our verbal and non-verbal communications
The intention to understand
The intention of kindness and care
How you can practice kindness to someone you don’t like
Kindness can be about protecting your own heart
The phrase “Let me see if I’ve got it…”
Listening for what matters to the other person – what do they need?
The difference between needs and strategies
The Nonviolent Communication Model
Observations, Feelings, Needs, Requests
Communicating in the workplace

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Oren Jay Sofer leads retreats and workshops on mindful communication and meditation at retreat&nbsp;centers and educational facilities around the United States.&nbsp; He is the founder of Next Step Dharma and Mindful Healthcare and he holds a degree in Comparative Religion from Columbia University. In this episode, he and Eric discuss his new book,&nbsp;<a href="https://amzn.to/2Vemij3" target="_blank">Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication</a>. In it, you’ll learn an updated model on how to skillfully communicate – especially in difficult situations. Practical strategies and helpful perspectives are what you’ll get in this episode.&nbsp;<a href="https://oneyoufeed.net/2019" target="_blank">Need help with completing your goals in 2019?&nbsp;The One You Feed Transformation Program can help you accomplish your goals this year.</a>In This Interview, Oren Jay Sofer and I Discuss…<ul><li>His book, <a href="https://amzn.to/2Vemij3" target="_blank">Say What You Mean: A Mindful Approach to Nonviolent Communication</a></li><li>That we’re not stuck, our minds can learn and it depends on the choices we make moment to moment</li><li>The three steps to create effective conversation</li><li>Lead with Presence</li><li>Come from Curiosity and Care</li><li>Focus on What Matters</li><li>How most people live with fragmented attention and it takes training to be fully present with another person</li><li>That you can feel whether a person is fully present with you or not</li><li>Bringing awareness and attention to the body to come into the present moment (the body is always in the present moment)</li><li>Bodily sensations happen in the present moment</li><li>The power of pausing</li><li>How our rate of speech is connected to our nervous system</li><li>That when we are present, we have a lot more choices</li><li>That our intention shapes our verbal and non-verbal communications</li><li>The intention to understand</li><li>The intention of kindness and care</li><li>How you can practice kindness to someone you don’t like</li><li>Kindness can be about protecting your own heart</li><li>The phrase “Let me see if I’ve got it…”</li><li>Listening for what matters to the other person – what do they need?</li><li>The difference between needs and strategies</li><li>The Nonviolent Communication Model</li><li>Observations, Feelings, Needs, Requests</li><li>Communicating in the workplace</li></ul>Oren Jay Sofer Links<a href="https://www.orenjaysofer.com/" target="_blank">OrenJaySofer.com</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/OrenJaySoferPage/" target="_blank">Facebook</a><a href="https://twitter.com/orenjaysofer" target="_blank">Twitter</a><a href="https://www.instagram.com/orenjaysofer/" target="_blank">Instagram</a>

Embark on a transformative journey with "The One You Feed" podcast, hosted by Eric Zimmer. Drawing wisdom from the old parable of the two wolves within us, this show explores growth and well-being. Through insightful interviews with thought leaders and experts in development, Eric delves into topics like mindfulness, resilience, and positive habits. Gain practical advice and reflective insights to navigate life's challenges and nurture your inner strength. "The One You Feed" is a valuable resource, offering inspiration and actionable strategies for a more fulfilling existence. Join Eric as he shares wisdom, fostering the growth of the positive wolf within you. Feed your curiosity and embark on a transformative path with "The One You Feed"!

Embark on a transformative journey with "The One You Feed" podcast, hosted by Eric Zimmer. Drawing wisdom from the old parable of the two wolves within us, this show explores growth and well-being. Through insightful interviews with thought leaders and experts in development, Eric delves into topics like mindfulness, resilience, and positive habits. Gain practical advice and reflective insights to navigate life's challenges and nurture your inner strength. "The One You Feed" is a valuable resource, offering inspiration and actionable strategies for a more fulfilling existence. Join Eric as he shares wisdom, fostering the growth of the positive wolf within you. Feed your curiosity and embark on a transformative path with "The One You Feed"!

The One You Feed

Embark on a transformative journey with "The One You Feed" podcast, hosted by Eric Zimmer. Drawing wisdom from the old parable of the two wolves within us, this show explores growth and well-being. Through insightful interviews with thought leaders and experts in development, Eric delves into topics like mindfulness, resilience, and positive habits. Gain practical advice and reflective insights to navigate life's challenges and nurture your inner strength. Every episode is a valuable resource that offers inspiration and actionable strategies for a more fulfilling existence. Join Eric as he shares wisdom, fostering the growth of the positive wolf within you. Feed your curiosity and embark on a transformative path with "The One You Feed"!

Embark on a transformative journey with "The One You Feed" podcast, hosted by Eric Zimmer. Drawing wisdom from the old parable of the two wolves within us, this show explores growth and well-being. Through insightful interviews with thought leaders and experts in development, Eric delves into topics like mindfulness, resilience, and positive habits. Gain practical advice and reflective insights to navigate life's challenges and nurture your inner strength. Every episode is a valuable resource that offers inspiration and actionable strategies for a more fulfilling existence. Join Eric as he shares wisdom, fostering the growth of the positive wolf within you. Feed your curiosity and embark on a transformative path with "The One You Feed"!

Oren Jay Sofer on Mindful Communication

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