The Nikki Glaser Podcast#391 Droopy Face?, Nikki is in her ‘Calling Out’ Era & Going Back To Your Alma Mater
Nikki is knee-deep in preparing for her upcoming special, and having to scrutinize herself is painful! She and Brian share similar feelings about seeing themselves on camera, but only one of them has 'civil war face'. Brian provides a spoiler-free review of "Killers of The Flower Moon." While Nikki excels at understanding other people's experiences, beware—she is in her 'Calling Out' Era. It's not cool to remind someone that you've met them before. Noa has a unique way of measuring distance, killing with kindness actually worked, college football is often considered the best time in some people's lives, and Nikki describes what it was like performing at her Alma Mater.
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The Nicki Gliser podcastser here's Nikki. Hello, everyone, Welcome to the show s Nick Glazer Podcast. Here I am I'm Nicki Glazer. I am here alone in my studio, studio apartment, studio almost at studio apartment. That's a different thing, it's a different lifetime. I am here in my studio, in my apartment in Saint Louis alone. Chris is going to get our rental car. Usually I'm joined by someone here. It's a long time.
Nobody across from you.
Feels a little actually feels the same. I'm really fine with it. Chris is getting a rental car. We're driving to Arkansas today for two shows. Truly, Chris is helping me with my special, you know, like he's producing it, and I'm doing so much more work than I've ever done on a special in my life. And it's not even that much work. I'm failing miserably every day, like the goals were setting. It's not even that much. And it's just like we might like he you know, watching tape, like going through all my set, like going through my set and then picking like reading the transcript that we get transcribed and then listening to it along with it and picking out what we like what we don't like. It's complete as hell. It's hell because I just am so disappointed in myself the whole time, and it seems so insurmountable the amount of work I have to do to be what I want to be. And I get bogged down with like why are you so bad right now? And it's not enough time, and I just start kind of like I just get in the worst moods imaginable when I have to do this. It's like and he's so sweet, like he will get me anything. He like puts a ZV next to me, He'll put on Taylor Swift like in the background, softly, like he'll get the foot massager next to me. Like he tries to make it as comfortable as possible for me to do this process. And he's like in a really good mood because he's trying to like bolster my bullshit mood. And it's really sweet. But then I but then I start to feel like a burden and like such a problem because I see all the effort that's going into like keeping my little beach ball in the air, you know, like it's just like why can't And then I start getting down about that, Like, why can't I just be a normal person that doesn't get like I'm a widow baby moody.
It's just because the goal is to have like a special that surpasses your previous specials, that makes you a sense to comedian.
No, I don't need to ascend anymore. I'm so tired. I like the amount of theaters I'm doing. I like the amount of people I'm performing for. I don't care. I like being someone who people are like, you should be more famous. I like that. I don't want to be more famous because then when you get there, you let everyone down.
I like, I think you famous, I think famous.
Yes, that's what they do, so they.
Do if you can just hover in the cut, lay in the cut.
I just don't know how people have kids. I'm like packing today for I have to pack for Arkansas this morning, so two shows in Arkansas and then I go to New York on Wednesday to do a Bob Sagat tribute thing that God damn you, Bob. This is not the right time of year for me. But I love you, and so I'm doing it for you. But it's just because I was supposed to do it last year, but I went through my vocal cord things so I couldn't do it. So I wouldn't be doing it this year because I'm just so swamped. But I you know, when you push things away and you go, i'll do it next time, then you have to do it the next time, and you don't know if your life is going to be more complicated then right, which it is. But I'm actually it'll be fun. It's just a short set on a show. I keep thinking he'll be there or something. I'm like, oh, I'm but he will be in spirit, so that'll be nice. And then Thursday, I'm yeah, and on video probably they'll be a montage. And then Thursday I'm still in New York City. Yeah, which is today. I have a I am like so depressed about my face lately. I can't handle it. I cannot. I see pictures of myself every week, and my right side of my face is sliding off. If topologists or like geologists, we're studying my face, they would say there's a landslide coming soon on the right side, and it's all, do not build on that side, stop putting things on the side. It's all I wish I had microphone or I wish I'd had phones that pulled me up like this. I wish I could do this the whole. This is what I want.
Our phaologists, we're looking at your face for history. They'd be like, there was an ice age around the nose.
Yes, yes, they something's happening structurally to the right side of my face. And it's undeniable. It's not just like lighting. It's like it just started happening, like probably in the last two months. I think I may have said this on the podcast. But one time during f Boy, my makeup artist Lea was doing my makeup and she does like a winged eyeliner, like Taylor Swift style, and that's just like what I like to do with my eyeliner. And I was looking in the mirror and I was like, it's so uneven, like I thought she was drunk because it was so I go, look at this. One is like shooting up at a you know, ninety to like a twenty. I don't know what degree it's shooting right up, and the other one is like kind of you know not, and I go, I was really like kind of disappointed in her, like how could you get this so wrong? It's supposed to be symmetrical. She was like, it's I'm trying to actually make your face look symmetrical with it because one side is a lot. She was trying to be nice, but she was like, one side is your eye is a lot lower than the other. And I was like, oh my god, you're fucking right, dude. She was like, I do your makeup like this every time. You've just never studied it this hard, and so she's she put it in my head. It's not like she put it in my head. It was already there. I was starting to see stuff. And it's just I don't mind if both sides were just sag at the same time, but one side. It's really hurts my feelings every time I see a picture and and other people don't see it, or they just don't you know, people that are taking my pictures or sending them to me do not know what's happening, so they'll send me these pictures and it's so I get so sad. It's so out of my control. I can't do anything about it. I can sleep on the other side of my face, but like I shift in the middle of the night, so I'm I'm now sleeping on my left side of my face to like make that one go down, because there's no making the other side go up.
It's nearly impossible to stay in one position while you're sleeping.
No, I can't, and so it's.
Just or you can get no sleep.
You can force yourself to slay there like a mummy and then have a shitty night's sleep, and that.
Will definitely sag. It just looks so much like Marjorie Taylor Green. Every single day my face is Yes, I already look like her. We have the same kind of eyes, and like, if I just gain a little bit more weight, it's gonna it's gonna be so undeniable. People are gonna be making the comparison. Guess what, I beat you to it. If you compare me to her, you're not original because I already said it and you got it from me. Come up with something better.
I'm just say, Oh, you don't look I'm going on Thursday. You look at least like Sarah. How could be Sanders?
I do kind of look like her too, like I have those those weird, deep set, beady crazy eyes. But I'm going on Thursday. I'm going to this very expensive doctor in New York City to just see if there's anything she can do because I can't get surgery before my special, just anything she can do to even out my face. Like I just don't know what to do anymore. And it's just like I'm just so upset about it and I can't live like this. It's if I if I wasn't in the public eye, it would be fine if I didn't have pictures on myself every single weekend and I didn't have to film a special where I have to be in the edit and watch it. If I could just have other people edit it. If I could just not look at pictures of myself and have an a I bought post them, I would be okay, and I would be a happier person. But I have to review these things and look at myself, and it's it's terrible. It's just so And I'm tired of looking in mirrors. I'm tired of people doing my makeup and then holding a mirror right up to my face, or like doing something to my face and then of a sudden holding a mirror. The other day at the dentist, he just held me a mirror and was like, look at is that I'm like, don't make me look at myself. I hate this. And I know everyone at home saying, wow, she has such low self esteem. You would too if you had to look in a mirror for so much of your life.
And and then you have to critique. Yeah, sorry, you need to critique what you're doing. That's this, that's the part that makes it challenging, Like you have to like look at yourself and critique and accept or like, you know, I don't like this. Make changes here. Yes, it's like you're you're scrutinizing your own self.
And you have to do my makeup every day, which is intense looking in the mirror.
Well, Matt, those Pantom of the Opera mask covers.
That, honestly is the perfect She would want that for sure, for me to cover up the right side because the left side is still holding on, it's still got a little life in it. The other side it is, and my right side is like a old professor that's been at the school for over twenty like, has tenure given up, just does the same syllabus every night.
It's like moments away from getting kicked out of his tenure for saying a racial slur.
Yes, accident rightide of my face is the beginning of Jonathan in the seventies. I was allowed to say this, yeah. But also I've been posting ugly pictures of myself on Instagram because like, whenever there is a a series of photos that comes out and I'm making like a really bad face and some I post those because that gives me control again over the narrative, like no one can say she thinks she's so hot or because I don't like and Anya and Matt were talking to me about, like you should post like hot pictures, like we take pictures of you every week where you look great, and I'm like, but I don't think I look great, and I don't want anyone to think I think I look great. It's so humiliating to put those out there and have someone be like Nikky thinks she's like looks so good. I'd rather just post a really ugly picture and be like, I'm going through a phase right now. I don't fit in any of my clothes. My face is falling off my head I I have I don't have time to get my hair done, so my roots are like black.
It's just like, I like, this is bad. As an experiment.
If you just started, take a week, and then every one of your posts should just be you shit talking yourself. I would like to see. I'm sure most of the reaction would be just like, no.
You're wrong, No, it's yeah, you can't do that.
After a week, what'll happen.
If I'd probably get uglier because of manifesting it.
You know when Apple sends you a photo gallery and it's like when you were in the woods or beach time.
Here's you ten pounds ago, when you were a lot happier. Exactly, here's a montage when you were so hot. It was picked three and a half years ago, enough time that you can't get it back. But you were thrive, like right before COVID, I was fucking killing it.
It's like, remember when you were happy? And then it shows you five pictures.
Yeah, it's just one of those weeks and I'm just under such Yeah, yes, why did they do that? And they always said it to a song that's like it is like a song that would play at your funeral. It's like the Bob's whatever's gonna play for Bob Saget. Probably Apple made it three years before he died, and they were like well, I'll choose this when I was younger. Yeah, I hope at the time of your live and I'm like smiling with no Crostby.
It's like a little memorial every time it is.
It's so rude. I really hate those Really, did you just see your c Oh? Yeah, I don't like looking at the past. I don't like what a great time to be alive within like the seventeen eighteen hundreds. I mean, there was like plagues and stuff, and you know, rape was probably legal. But I do think not being able to see your reflection anywhere or having images of you, like someone would just paint a painting and you could be like, ah, he's just like a sloppy painter. I don't really look like that. And I bet they weren't as vain, but they didn't. They didn't talk about their looks a lot.
Did you see Killers of the Flower Moon in the new Scorsese movie with Leonardo DiCaprio.
No, but I am interested in Leo making out with a woman who's over one hundred pounds. I'm excited. Yeah, they bang all they forced him.
Yeah, yeah, well she's young though she's pretty young. But in that movie, that movie is set in the nineteen twenties, and Leonardo DiCaprio made an acting choice in that movie to purposely like shape his face so that he's ugly, like he'll be. He's like frowning forcefully the whole movie. And I think I think back then, even as early as then, just like people were ug and everyone was ug and the top hot.
One was dead.
There was no moisturizer, No there was. It was it was like cow semen or something like they would they they didn't. There was There was just sun. There was no spf. There was constant smoking, constant like being in cabins where there was smoke in elation.
Yeah, he looks like it's however, looked and every man looked in the nineteen twenties and below.
But you know something, I bet people you look like you really do. You do look like you were on the battlefield. Yeah, god, Brian, you have such civil war face right now.
Yeah, this is the nineteen twenties.
Oh my god. But I do have no self awareness though.
Yeah, well that's great, I mean that.
But they still have like sartorial choices that were pretty like specific, you know, they all dressed they were like those wigs. Yeah, but they wore top hats and stuff, and women had to wear like these big flowy skirts. You know, they had to like cover up a lot, and like you would think they would just wear whatever. Their version of athleisure was whatever's the easiest thing, because life was so hard. But I think because they had life was hard back then and they're constantly probably working, And but I bet there was a lot of downtime too, because you got to like let water boil and like you gotta let plants grow.
Yeah, imagine there's always something to laying down on.
A porch, But then there's also less downtime because you have to do so much work just to get by each day, like if you have to go out sweep farm or sweep Yeah, what's with people sweeping the porch and getting the dust off the porch, Like you don't really need to do that.
Because it's gonna get inside, it gets on everything.
Oh yeah, I guess I didn't think about that.
They are always was Killers of the Flower Moon so good?
I'd say it was fine. It was fine as a forest Scorsese I liked, For example, I like The Irishman better than Killers of the Flower Moon. There are parts I mean, I don't want to get into like into trouble here, but like there are parts of Killers of the Flower Moon where I asked the question, why is Martin Scorsese telling this story? Why is not a Native American telling the story. It's as if Martin Scorsese like read a book or interviewed somebody. I don't know if he has a personal connection to it, but it's like this movie has real moments of cultural significance for the uh oh O Sage people, and I just don't understand why Martin Scorsese is making this. And then at the end of the movie, Scorsese makes a little cameo where he does like a speech.
Yeah, it's there's some strange artistic choices.
Do you do that a lot?
No? No, no, he does not.
So it was just some strange artistic choices that made this movie a little bit more artsy than I'm used to in a Scorsese movie. And then also I just felt like he's trying to make a statement about how difficult it was for the O Sage people of Oklahoma in the nineteen twenties and how the white man, the white devil, came and stole their land. And stole their oil money and stole their women, and then they all died off from alcoholism and suicide. And then he like makes this like heartfelt speech at the end, really profound, and I'm like, why are you doing this? Shouldn't there be an O sage person making this speech?
They can't get funding from a movie like that.
Well, so then Martin Scorsese should. Okay, I'm the director. But then it just is strange.
It's just it was.
It seem insincere to me, Like, I don't believe him that he really is empathizing this much with the osage people.
I believe that, really we made a whole movie about him.
I think he thinks the story is good and has and it's very mafiosa esque, but still, Ah, Robert de Niro, Leonardo DiCaprio, they're the white devils. They're truly the main characters, except for the woman who is the oceage person, who is excellent. I think she was the best part of the movie. But like, I don't know that once they got to this cameo at the end, we really find her. That's a good question. I would like to make a joke offend anybody. I think yes, Craigslist.
Yeah, I mean I love when she I love when they have like one person. I hope she has an illustrious career ahead of her. Yeah, but there's always these art these movies where there's like a huge star studic gas, and then there's one person that looks kind of normal, yeah, that like has to fill a role that is just uh, you know, like the the I don't know, the guy on death oh, or the old janitor who finds the crystal. I don't know, just there has to be some kind of character character that they put in normals and they kind of like they go, look at me claw machines. This person out of their horrible life and now we made them a movie star for one movie. Yeah, and then they maybe do like a Super Bowl ad or something, and then they kind of disappear.
So she's been in a bunch of stuff, Okay, I got Yeah. Her name is Lily Gladstone, and she has been in.
That sounds familiar, actually.
Reservation Dogs for two episodes, which is also about Native Americans.
But then she was also in Billions for six episodes.
Oh yeah, wow, okay.
Yeah, a couple of other things.
She's got a great do you know what I mean. I'm she's like a great speaking voice.
Yeah, like she could she could do voiceover for sure.
Oh my god, I recently heard. Oh there's this like woman who I'm have jealousy issues over not jealousy and be sorry wrong, one that I just like kind of want her life and she just like is has the body that I want and has like just like the Instagram I want, and like the hair and like the clothing and just like the happiness and like just has it all together and is like killing it. And then I heard her talk and I was like, thank you God, you granted her one horrible thing.
Her voice.
Like it's so bad that, like any you just you can't deny that it's a bad voice. And it really delighted me that she just had a really like cause I was dying for a video of this woman because I know people can look amazing in images pretty easily. You can just edit that stuff and just pick the best one out of a thousand, but video kind of shows the truth. And boy did it ever. She's still a pretty person talking, but her voice was rough.
Man.
Oh yeah, yeah, voices everything.
And you see a really hot person and then they have this like deep thick Eastern European accent, and you're like, what the fuck?
Oh, you know, it's like, what the fuck is going on?
Dub. I don't like when the women talk at all. That's why I oftentimes search ballgag porn because I'm just like, I don't want to hear anything you say. You need to be quiet. I want to hear you like struggle not to make noise, and I want to hear the guy talk more and so that that voice actually turns me on the one that you just made if it's going it, because.
It's like a man, what do you want the guy to say?
Just take it, bitch, not bitch, but take it like do it? Like just like I want the guy to be like good all right, yeah, like other guys directing the guy. Yeah, yes, I want other guys to be directing that guy, to tell him what to do and to like. Oh. I like when they tell her, arch you're back, Arch You're back. I like when they like yell commands in her.
I logic pop sugar videos.
What is that?
It's like exercise videos on YouTube. It's the same thing. Arch your back, Like kind of maybe it is. Yeah, I just like them to be challenged. I want everything to be a challenge. I want anything that anyone, anything that I like watching. It's something impressed. I'm challenging you, so okay, So how come you can't apply this to your special reviews because you're you're very You hate that challenge, but you love because watching so much.
I get bogged down by how bad I am. I just I can't get it out of my head, I.
Said, Brian, I think you figured it out. Instead of Chris being so sweet to you and putting on Taylor Swift low in the background and getting you your he needs to shout commands at you, arch your back.
I'm gonna text him. Honestly, it wouldn't be a bad idea for him to make it, because he tries to make it so enjoyable, and I'm like, try it. I don't want things to be enjoyable. I want things to be tortuous, so that when I complete them, I feel like good job, and like I don't. It doesn't help me to have things that are really hard be set in like a beautiful setting or something on your hand and knee.
You can put on this pig mask.
Guess honestly, I think that idea for me. You've done, I'll tell him that. Noah, I'll break that that news to him. Okay, because that's a really good idea. All right, Uh, we gotta go to break. We'll be back with more after this. We're really figuring things out. Okay.
Really sounded like you believe that. Well, no one knows what we're talking about. No one knows what we're talking about, because because I keep forgetting that when during the break, people listen to like two minutes of commercials unless you're a Diamond Player, Club Network special guy or girl.
Wait we're back. Yes, I'm keeping all that in Okay, great, yeah, oh no, I I do consider that people listen to the commercials and then they are kind of like not exactly where we were. No, they're not unless you're Diamond players.
Unless you're Diamond Players, then you're we gotta we gotta look out for them because they're just going from one to the other.
Must be very This is a.
Thing about me. I have to say. There's a lot of things I get down myself about. I am one hundred percent more aware of other people's experiences than most people are. I think that I am someone who is extremely aware of how other people interpret things, and I get it wrong a lot of times, but I'm always constantly trying to understand another person's perspective. So I don't think there is a single example of me on this whole podcast where I have come back from a commercial and not reset and like, because I know I would never assume like everyone else is just living my experience right now. I really do think from other people's perspective quite often, yes, And I think that's a quality I wish more people had. It's one thing about myself that I actually like because people all the time. One of my biggest pet beaves is when people think talk about their shitty, stupid, mundane lives, like you know, all the players and characters in it. They'll be like, well, and then Dave told me at work And then Dave at work was like lost his sweatshirt. A get I'm like, I don't know who Dave is. Like the other day it was like I don't know who I always say this, I go, why would I know who Dave is? Can we just go back? Why would me you know who I am? How do you think I would know who Dave is? And then they kind of are like at a loss for words, and they I don't know, I just some people. But I realized that I'm not being very empathetic and thinking about some people are stupid and they don't consider other people's experience, so I do need to make that extra leave. But like there's like examples whenever I took it to a hotel, they'll be like, and so he goes and you're gonna and you're gonna what did he say? There was a guy the other day that goes so and the elevators are gonna be that way and across the rotunda and then you're gonna go through, And I go, what is that? What is all of that? I don't know what any of those words were. He described how to get to it, and I was like, but it didn't even make sense. It wasn't like I wasn't trying.
To be difficult. It's like, I don't know where you found that desk.
Yes, yes, it was like that. There was something I remember on You kind of looked at me because it seemed to be rude what I was saying, But I was just calling him on the fact that I don't speak your hotel language. I don't know what any of that stuff is. And people know me listening to this. I would never want to be escorted to my room by a front desk clerk. I don't want to waste people's time. I don't want If I can find the elevator myself, I will one hundred percent go. I'm not one of these people that likes to hang out at the front desk and ask a million questions and feel like really important. So the breakfast tomorrow does that start at nine am or ten am? I know any information? I will just look at it when I get to my room. In the book on the desk, I don't. But this guy was describing how to get to the elevators, and I go, none of that would make any sense to anyone who is patronizing your hotel for the first time. Y, I go, I haven't been here before. I literally said to it. I go, why would I know what that means? Because he was like a young kid, right, I go? And he was yeah, kind of looked at me like.
The room and it's like, what the fuck is the an deck?
That is exactly it? That's exactly it? Bright, I go, why would I know what the Adirondack room is, and so then he was either Chris or on Your kind of looked at me like easy, Nikki, like this is just a kid. But then I was trying to have a little fun with it because I was I was trying to say it in an acute way of like come on, man, like, let's like to talk about this for a second. Why would I know what that is? And then and then he goes, he goes he And then I was just being a little bit more playful just because either Anya or Chris was kind of like I could tell they were like kind of upset with how I was acting and not upset, but just kind of like trying to be super nice to the guy to make up for me. But I'm like, no, I got this under control. I'm not gonna be mean to this kid. Believe me. I'm gonna leave this interaction find. I just need him to know not to do this again with customers because no one knows what the Adirondack room is. So then he go he was I was kind of playing, like playing with him a little bit and just being like, come on, man, you know, and then I go, oh, or I made some other joke about something. He's like do you want, you know, one key or two keys? And I'm like make it three. Like you know, I was just like playing, you know, just trying to get on his good graces again, so on your or Chris wouldn't be upset with me. And then he goes, you know what I gotta say. I had a feeling I would meet you today. He was like, you're Nicki Glazer, right, and I was like, yeah, I literally just gave you my name. It's I said Nicole. But I think, yes, you could you probably you figured it out and I go, oh really, and he was like, I just had a feeling. I go, is it the poster behind you that says Nicki Glazer show tonight at seven pm? It was like at a casino who I was performing at. He was like, no, I just you know, and I go, I'm sure you don't meet everyone that performs here, so yes, I guess this is very special. But then he walked us down and he quickly confessed that he was off drugs and he was doing good for himself. His name was Austin. Shout out to Austin, that guy that worked at the front desk. But there was another time this weekend that I called someone out because I just couldn't help it. There was someone that was like and I felt bad about it afterwards, But I don't because people don't need to be okay. I love that you're going through your calling out era.
I am kind of is.
I just want people to be more aware like it, like I have. I had a friend who was I was introducing to another friend, and my one friend was a pretty is a fairly well known person and the friend I was introducing that friend to is not well known at all, like you know, which is just is fine. There's no judgment there. I'm just saying what it is. So the friend that's not well known said to the friend. So the well known said to the unwell known, nice to meet you. And what did the well known say? Let's all take the not well known say, let's take a guess.
You never met me before.
We've met before, before, we've met before. Yeah, and the And I'm monitoring this because I'm very I don't like we've met before. I don't like when anyone tosses that out. But if they like hung out all weekend or something I've done, I've done, nice to meet you to someone who I was like on TV shows with like did panels with and they were like, Nikki, we like worked a whole day together, and I like completely forgot. So I understand it. Sometimes it is you like we slept together or whatever, like it's constituted that you should call it out. But so I was moditoring this, like does this person have a right to call my friend out for not remembering them we've met before. And then he goes where they say at Montreal just for laughs already, I'm like the context of that is not fair. Oh yeah, when you're a just for laughs, it is a festival of hundreds and hundreds of people that you're meeting.
Yeah.
And then to further it, if you're listening to this and you and you're don't be don't be mad that I'm calling you out because this was a really adorable But then furthermore, they go, I met you already and he's like, oh really, I'm so sorry, And where Montreal? And then I'm already like calm, well, like I didn't say that, but my face is getting ready to make that thing. Yeah, And then they go in an elevator, what the place where everyone's facing forward and there's literally a thing called an elevator pitch because it's it's it's it's you're trying, it's it's less than two minutes, like it's seven seconds to make it an impression on someone because you're in a box in which there is no impressions to be made at all. I was like, I go, calm on, you can't expect him to remember you at Montreal in an elevator where you are constantly getting on. It's like, imagine for the listener, Montreal is like a conference of hundreds of comedians, hundreds of agents, hundreds of producers, hundreds of comedy bookers, all in one hotel together for a whole weekend, sharing elevators. The fact that anyone remembers anyone, even famous people, is yeah, I've met people at Montreal that I'm more famous than, and but I like know them from something, and I would never expect them to remember meeting me, because it's just not I mean.
Yeah, I was all in twenty fourteen, and I could say that not a single person remembers me from that.
And I just felt, yeah, well, when I went in two thousand and seven, I'll believe me, no one remembered me. There's fucking rough. I think we talked about it before. It's such. It was a bad time for both of us. But I just I called this person out and then I felt bad because I didn't want to make them feel bad about it. But I go, don't expect anyone to remember you from an elevator in Montreal. And I wasn't saying that because she isn't someone that is to be remembered. It's absolutely the opposite. But in that context, I've met Larry David twice and didn't remember meeting him the first time. People don't have massive memories for meeting people, and sometimes you just it's not it's not important enough.
There's not Sometimes you just go nice to meet you. But yeah, and you're like, this is.
What leads people saying to saying, nice to see you.
Got a bunch of bullshit. I hate but it's safe.
I always no, nice to see you is stop it everyone stopped nice.
To see you.
It is indicative of the fact that you you do not need to feel bad that you don't remember meeting this person. If they were memorable enough and if you didn't have a drinking problem, you would remember them. But you do, and they're not, so just stick it. Say nice if you don't know, if you've met him before, say nice to meet you. If they do the i've met you before, say sorry. Don't feel bad that you don't remember them. No one should feel bad. You can't help what you don't remember. My dad is constantly making my mom feel bad about stuffing. You don't remember that, Julie.
And I go.
If she did, she would. It's not her fault. She's not choosing to not remember something, So just do away with it.
Nice to see you, nice to see you.
When people say that to me, I know for a fact they don't give a fuck that they've ever met me. They definitely don't remember meeting me. They think I'm unmemorable. Accually, Now, if you say nice to see you to me, I not only think that, I think for sure you've met me before. Yeah, And even if we haven't met, you think I'm not memorable enough right now that you possibly have met me before and didn't remember me. So it is it is an insult. Actually, when people say nice to see you to me, I really yes, nice to fucket you, Yes, nice to meet you. If you don't remember, if you've met them, say nice to meet you. It is not a crime to not remember someone. We are very busy people that meet a lot of people. Stop apologizing before you insult someone, and stop apologizing when you do insult someone. You can apologize and say I'm sorry I hurt your feelings, But don't think you're a bad person because you don't remember someone. For God's sakes, not everyone is memorable, and if you're not a memorable person, that's okay too. It doesn't mean you're a bad person. It just means that you don't even know what was going on in that person's day, how many people they met, if they were hung over, if they were drunk. You know, you don't know, so it doesn't don't take it personally. People need to stop going like, oh, you know, this whole thing of if you tell your friend I can't make it to something, oh no, making them feel bad about it. That wasn't me saying noah, oh noah. Just just let them off the hook. People already feel bad enough that it is. It is just being humans and having to be around mirrors. Let them off the hook for disappointing you when they are when you know they already feel bad. Don't double down and make them feel worse.
Yeah, I hate that about movies. You haven't seen Back to the Future. What I don't like that. It's like, no, I haven't, don't. I'm not a monster.
I didn't. I also had a childhood Jesus Christ.
Well, I've said that to people before, but it's just because I won't say it like what's wrong with you. I'll just be like, oh my god, I'm so excited for you to see it. Wow, Like please see it. Sometimes I'll be like, you have to see it, please see it. But I do understand when people haven't been exposed to certain things. But there was something recently, God, what was it. There was someone on girls chet that didn't know about Oh one girl on our girls chat has never heard had never heard of NEPO babies. Ah, And that to me is kind of inexcusable.
Wait, Bill Clinton or something like no, no, no, Bill Clinton.
No, no, no offense. But if you have never read or heard about the term NEPO babies, you're not well read, you're not engaging in cultural life the way that you should be. And that is just my judgment. I'm passing judgment on you. And you could say, Nikki my life is really hard. I don't look at the same things you look at. I don't care about show business. But if you miss that, you're you're kind of your horse blindering yourself. Yeah.
I want to say, though, this happened to me this past week, so I want to I want you to evaluate this scenario.
I'd love to. I'd love to pass judgment on something that I have no right to do.
So I, uh, I went to this.
I went to this meeting and there was this guy there who I had met the day before.
Okay, that's right.
I talked to him at this I talked to him for like twenty five minutes, and I think he even watched me do stand up.
You're allowed then, you are allowed to be like we met yesterday.
Yeah, that's what I said.
You're allowed to give this guy shit.
Yeah, I said, oh we got yesterday at that thing, and he's like.
Oh, you're allowed to be offended by that.
Brian, all right, all right, what the fuck was his excuse?
He's drunk?
Because he didn't have an excuse it. No, he was definitely not drunk. I know that for a fact. He just he said he just did. He's he might as well have said, oh, I didn't give a shit. He might if he said that, I would have been like, yeah, that's the truth. And then I asked him to get me a room tamp water and he had to So what he had to give me a room tamp water?
Why was he working?
Like, yeah, he was working. He was like an assistant or something, not an assistant. But and I was like, yeah, how do you not remember me? I talked to you for thirty minutes yesterday and you saw me do stand up.
It's just like, get I gotta say that.
Sometimes I'm like that, like I won't remember people that I've spent I'm starting to really worry about my memory because there's yeah, I will spend in faces and facial recognition, and it's I just have to say though that people can't help that they don't remember. It doesn't mean you can't give them shit, especially if it's something that you know.
But it was insulting, yes, because I remembered them and I did not watch them perform, and they were just like somebody, you.
Are smarter than them. You have a better brain than them from remembering, you know, like they not everyone is you. If he had your brain, he'd remember you too. You have a good brain for that kind of stuff and he definitely doesn't. And that's probably why he's getting you water.
Yeah, yeah, routine because.
Sometimes and this is going to sound really insulting, but I do not mean it in an insulting way. Please know that when I say someone is less intelligent or they are. If someone's less intelligent, I don't think they're a bad person, and I don't think they deserve less in this world. It's not a moral judgment because animals are less intelligent than us, and I still think they deserve all the rights that we have. So in saying that another human being is not as intelligent as me might sound like I'm being judgmental, and there is a level of that, but I'm taking it. There Sometimes is a part of me that's like what an idiot, you know, and I do pass judgment. This is not that Sometimes, and I think I've probably shared this before, you are being weighted on or being having service from someone, let's say an Uber driver. And I'm sorry if I mentioned this before, but I think it's a good point. You will get upset that the Uber driver is driving and they will stop. They will start looking for the drop off location about I don't know zero point one miles from the like a block or two away, even though the dot on their screen and they've been driving Uber for a while, the dot on their screen is clearly their car is here on the map, the dot is up here, the dot is clearly where you drop off. And yet they'll start like stopping and breaking like a block before the dot. And this is not Noah's distance blindness that you have, because Noah and Carlisle both have. They don't know what mile edge is. So you'll say like it's point two miles away, they will have no concept what that means. I would think that's right away, point two, so it's twenty percent of a mile. Do you think twenty percent of a mile is right away? I would think it's like really close, and.
A mile it takes, it's a one minute. It takes if you're driving sixty miles an hour, it'll take you one minute to do a mile. So if it's point two of a mile, if you're driving sixty miles an hour, it's a harder way twenty seconds.
Can I do an easier way? A mile is four laps around a track, so so that one lap around a track is point two five miles twenty five percent of a mile. Okay, so if point two miles, it's almost one.
Lap around the tracks me the distance in my head, but not the time it takes.
Well, I'm talking about the Well, the distance is what you need, because whether you're in a car or on foot, a distance is going to be like what you need.
I just anyway that my GPS when it turns into feet after the mile, then I I better get ready to break fast.
You're so crazy.
Wait, I'm not kidding you. Her and Carla. Her and Carla are both they don't understand like point eight two miles, but eight hundred feet. You know that eight hundred feet. You know how tall people are, so it'd be it'd be one hundred tall, it'd be one hundred and twenty. Tell you how I do that?
Okay?
Yeah, let me know. My tallest friend. His name is Rob, and he's six foot three. That's like around six feet.
Should get some taller friends. That's not that tall.
That's that's pretty side tall.
Should have at least sixty So.
Let's just say he's six feet right, Yeah, so it would be one hundred Robs. Yeah, one hundred plus robs for eight hundred feet, it'd be like one hundred and twenty robs.
Yes, how is this easier for you? That you're thinking about Robs laying down?
Because I know his measurement, like I've seen him in real life, So.
I know your brain is going to be able to calculate one hundred and twenty of your friend laying down on the road.
It's not easier.
And then I just okay, I let me. Can I just do that quizy a little bit more? Okay? No, we I think you get it now. I just explained the point too. We have about point two miles to walk. When should we leave to get there? How many? How many minutes should we give ourselves to walk there?
Oh?
No, now you're adding time? Yeah I am, I'm adding time. We're we're doing a leisurely stroll where like we're walking a dog, so like we're just like we're and we need to be there. Uh, it's four o'clock and we need to we need to be there at four o'clock. What time should we leave to get there?
Right on the dop I think I would say twenty minutes?
Oh that is it takes about twenty, depending how fast you walk.
If your dog is like incontinent, yeah, and like really struggling to shit, and we want to stop for a Starbucks, that's another two point miles point two miles away. So what's the answer. How If it's two point two miles away, I could get there in four minutes, yeah, four, like very easily. I would probably I could do two and a half minutes. If if I was walking fast.
You can walk a mile, and depending on who you are, between twenty and thirty minutes somewhere around there. Usually it's for younger people's closes.
For a mile, I could walk a mile in sixteen minutes. I have a brisk walker, I know, not speed like just my regular gate. I think sixteen and if I'm running nine minutes, okay, I guess you're right, No, it be it would be a minute.
You're in the range. So it says you're a normal person. According to Adidas, it's.
No, don't even do normally because whenever they decide to sit, tell me how long it's going to take to walk somewhere, I can always take out a fourth of it.
Yeah, well no, that's because we walk fast.
Where we lived in New York, where we got long legs, where brisk we like to do things fast. If someone asked, if someone did, how long does it take you to unpack a suitcase? You'd also be like half the time for Nicki Glazer, but you're just packed one.
It would be it would be one eighth of the time. No, it would be honestly one thirtieth of the time. It takes most people to pack a suit case. If it was unpacking, it would be thirty times the amount of time because I never do it.
Okay, so how long?
According to Adidas they did a scientific study in twenty nineteen, there's a range of seven minutes. What do you think the range is or how long it takes someone to walk one mile?
Wait?
A range of seven minutes? Oh, I would say for two walk one mile, I would say eighteen two and then seven minutes more, eighteen to twenty five minutes.
That's that's very close. What about you? Now, how long did it take to walk a mile? According to the Way scientific.
Study nineteen to twenty six?
Wow, you switched it.
Yeah, now I'm going to nineteen to twenty sex Okay.
No, what do you have a guess?
Well, six hundred I guess the way that I would think about this was when I used totobs.
Think about it in rob, how many robs will take?
Well, I can't think of him in time, but I do remember when I was on the treadmill, it used to take me like twelve minutes to like complete a mile jogging. Okay, so I guess if I'm walking, I would double that and I would say, like twenty four minutes.
So you go twenty four to thirty one, you would.
Split twenty four. Probably that would be the median of that number.
Okay, it's like twenty three to thirty minutes. Yeah, twenty two to complete a mile. Okay, the correct answer is fifteen to twenty two minutes.
That's what I'm saying. I really do think I could get it done in like sixteen minutes. I think that's my mile. Yeah, that's interesting. Okay, we got do we have to go to break? Okay, we used to go to break, and then we're gonna talk about, Oh, I have I killed someone with kindness? You guys on my DMS, I got a nasty DM and I did it. I really did it. You you won't believe the results. Okay, we'll be all right, back up with us. Okay, we're back. So on the I hope you guys got a good walk in in between during the commercial break, Like, how much of a distance did you do? Tell us it was probably a four minute point three miles during that commercial break. Yeah, I think so too. Okay, Yeah, used so because it was probably four minutes long, so you could probably walk zero point three miles. Okay. So yesterday's episode, I was sharing that I really loved this meme where someone was talking someone got a really nasty uh DM from someone and then they just killed them with kindness by like commenting on their profile. So most of the time I get dms that are like mean, and it's from someone and I can't see their profile. But last night, like mana from Heaven, it dropped into my lap this person who tagged another person so they wrote me as a group hate that and someone said team Canadian French. I don't know if the girl on Selling Sunset that I made fun of on the episodes, because this is what I'm getting a lot of hate for is like I made fun of a girl on selling Sunset who I don't know, she's just whoever's dating when Jason Oppenheim, and so Chrischelle used to date Jason. So Chrishelle and I are hanging out on the show. I don't know anyone on the show. By the way, Like I met Chrischelle for the first time, like at the office, Like, I'm guessing, yeah, she's Canadian French. That sounds like it's dating, Okay, So I made fun of her. I'm was even making fun of her. Oh oh no, that's Mary's I think that's Mary's husband. But anyway, so they wrote team Canadian French. I'm guessing she's Canadian French. And then again they wrote you're a cunt and just oh god, but it's fun. How do you think they spelled.
Your cutka with a K?
No?
Okay, see it's the best way.
Y Oh you are bingo? No, sorry, you're you're a cunt and so I wrote. So then I was like, I'm just gonna check their profiles to see if they're not private. They weren't. One of them wasn't private, and I'm like, okay, I'm going in. So I found they have a really cute son that they had all these Halloween pictures of him dressed up. It's just crazy to me that someone would write your a cunt and have a son. It's just to a stranger. It's just this person should be sterilized. But that's how I truly feel. So I wrote, Hi, your son is adorable. Love his Halloween costume. That's what I wrote back to your a cunt? Okay? She wrote, ha ha ha ha ha love your stand up and hosting an fboy Island.
My god, it worked it because you just that. What was so great about that is what that you just gave her the out that you're joking. So you went, ha ha ha, You're so funny. Is that what you said?
No, they said that. I said, Hi, your son is adorable, love his Halloween costumes.
Okay, So so you didn't even comment on the fact that they called you a cunt.
No, No, maybe I should do that next time. But this work is.
Like the next text next friendly crazy.
They wrote, ha ha ha ha love your stand up and hosting an F boy Island, and I wrote, thank you, and now we're good.
Yeah. Wow, this is a this is magic. This is this is how you turn. This is a magic spell where you turn trolls into regular people.
It's really fun. It's I mean, honestly, I think like everyone just needs to be approached with more kindness instead of when you instead of calling them the pilot.
All those signs that Bath and Beyond were right, That's what they were right the whole time. I think I found her name, Marie lou Nurk. Okay, she's like, yeah, she's twenty five, she's she's a white lady.
I don't say anything mean about her. I just said, I was just making jokes about how she's young. Yeah, you know, like I was doing like old soul jokes, Like it's just funny to me that someone I can upset people so much from making jokes about someone being young. Yeah, Like there's so much awfulness in the world and so many horrible people. Yeah, people are so upset about me. No one's called me an ugly cunt yet, Like you can call me a cunt all you want, but no one said anything really that hurts my feeling yet. And that's great because I truly look like a goblin next to everyone on selling sunset, because they are all I saw, so perfect looking, and I look like just me, I look fine, like I look pretty, but next to that the pieces of work they are, And I'm saying that with respect, like they're just like they're are there are art pieces, they're they're literally they literally have been worked on by doctors who are like at the top of their game. In fact, Krishelle is someone I now text for all of my beauty needs. Whenever I go to LA, I'm like, who's your tanning person? And I'm also going to go to her plastic surgeon when I'm ready to snip it up? Yeah, because he does great stuff. I mean, she's one of the prettiest people I've ever been around in my life.
Who is she?
Christelle Chrishelle Strauss. She's like the lead girl. Yeah, selling Sunset. It's really fun.
I actually saw the guy from Selling Sunset, Jason Oppenheim, at a restaurant.
Maybe it was his brother. How do you know it was Jason?
I don't know. He was short. Are they both shorty?
They're twins?
Well, I have no idea who it was. I don't know. If you wait for it would take you about fifteen seconds to walk away.
Where did you Where did you see him?
Craigs?
Oh? What were you doing at Craigs?
It was just dinner after a show at at the improv nice. Yeah.
I always feel intimidated going to celebrity hotspots like that. I would I would feel like, what am I I'm not allowed to go here? I go there with David Spade or when like, I have friends that are celebrities that invite me to go, and that's pretty much my only celebrity.
I no idea.
I didn't know it was a celebrity hotspot, and I didn't know who any of the celebrities were. And people were like, oh, that's the person from selling Sunset, and I was like, Oh, if you weren't here, I would not have known that.
I just saw the person from selling Sunset.
Oh yeah, well that's a place where like Harry and Meghan go.
Oh really Well, they had armed security guards in there, and this is a trend across LA now because somebody came in, people came in with guns and robbed a bunch of NBA players that were there like two weeks ago or something. And so now they have like at Craigs, Yeah yeah, and so now they have like like uh, like artillery, like real security guards that are like infant tree like military.
I can't think of that.
I've seen this. They had it at Starbucks in Memphis. Was the first time I ever saw like with like machine guns. Yes, they're like what are they called? When what are those big? Yeah?
What are those guys called? When you hire like a I can't think of the word. It's body get besties. There's a word for like it's like what they're like a Russia will hire a group of militia and they're blanks.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about?
But they're they're cops though they're not. They're not well, they're secure.
They're private security bodyguards maybe.
But they're not allowed to be armed. Private security is not allowed to be armed with Like no.
They have machine guns and guns and they're just garden craigs and they.
Have like one that has like a rifle, Yeah, rifle. They they were in the hotel this weekend. I was in where was I the Baltimore at the Hyatt. We walked in. There's two huge armed security guards at eleven o'clock at night at the Hygatt in a really nice hotel, and I'm just like, what is going on?
Because this because of looting, everyone's getting robbed.
But also I went to Ralph it's just a supermarket and they're.
Safer with it. To be honest with you, I feel great. I know that it's not like a good look, but I feel so much better that we can't.
Go to a fucking grocery.
Every grocery store, every place that anybody goes, needs to hire a vigilante, machine gun bound uh, army man.
It's not. It's private security.
A private vigil who's out there on his own, trying to get vengeance on the court criminals. Yeah, this supermarket, it's batman standing by the front door just so that someone doesn't shoot up the place.
And how annoying is it? Like, I think stores obviously lose a lot of money from having to deal with people shoplifting and there be no consequences for it. Obviously that is becoming a huge issue. But if something is locked up, I will not wait for someone to come unlock it.
I will just get the product.
Yeah, I just don't get it. They wait. They lose so much money from just me not having the patience. Do you guys agree, Like, if something's locked up, you'll just get a cheaper version that isn't locked up.
Get on Amazon.
Then if I have to sit there and press that button and then listen to the loudspeaker, go help want it an aisle seven and then because it's.
Gonna take you know that at least zero point three miles for them to walk over and help you. It takes for Noah to walk point three miles. It can take the ten minutes for no one's working. If you have stuff locked up, you should have a person per aisle that helps you. But they can't afford that. And here's my point about if they can't tell you, like if someone if someone that's CVS is incompetent, or if someone at like I understand that people need to get jobs to come up in life, and like, you know what I made this point about is dry Bar. When I went there and they burnt my hair and I walked out with like a flat sad mess. I was like, what the fuck? And then I was like they work at dry bar? Like what am I? Why am I expecting excellence from the McDonald's of a hair song? And I should because I paid eighty dollars for that blowout. But that's because their prices are inflated. That's not because it's actually a good service. Final thought. So when I'm in an uber and I'm like, why is this guy the dot is there? Why are you slowing down and trying to drop me off, you know, eight hundred feet from the dot. Because he's an Uber driver and it's not he might be doing not that. If you're an Uber driver, you're an idiot, because not all Uber drivers are idiots, but sometimes that's all you can do, yeah, because you can't get a job elsewhere because you don't have the intelligence or the training.
It's not like he's like concierge where like you know, like you pay for like luxury where they don't talk to you and they drive you right to the spot and they open the door for you.
It's like different tiers. But if you're an Uber driver, you should know how to follow a dot on a map. It just should be a kind of a requirement. But it doesn't have to be because there's no real check to be an Uber driver. You just have to have a license. Now, maybe this is something I should take up with the state to not give people licenses that can't follow a dot on a map. But also, why am I getting mad about it? He is making no money, He is not being compensated for his Like, don't get mad at people that aren't being paid a lot. I'm not allowed to do that anymore. Yeah, because no one's getting paid a lot. Everyone's making what is minimum wage now?
Well some places it's fifteen dollars an hour.
That's not a lot. No, and in today's society at all. No, that is, you can't even get a salad for that much money. No, like a little salad you shake up.
You have to work two hours to get a salad these.
Days, you do. It's ridiculous, And that's why tipping is so important. But it's also like we're not supposed to tip because we're that's the only way to get rid of a tipping culture.
And we should matter, right because like we're all we're doing is subsidizing billionaires by help by so that they don't have to pay their fair wages.
Every Uber eats order, Well, yeah, we have to.
Do it because it's not fair. But all we're doing is that money is going not to the workers. It's going to the billionaires who are saving money, who own the company, who are saving money.
But I come, I sometimes feel like there's nothing I can do about it. Am I supposed to just make this Uber Eats drivers starve because I want to mistick.
It to the man, it's like craped.
Yeah, like what do you do? What do you do?
You have to vote for Bernie Union?
Yeah, well, over and done with.
I ordered an number this weekend and I was leaving. I went to the USC homecoming game this past weekend.
Oh, you have alterally fun. I saw your pictures on Instagram.
Mine or Alleys. I don't post any pictures Ali's.
Sorry, sorry, oh Jesus, I.
Don't post any personal pictures on Instagram if you want it, okay, So.
It was literally impossible for me. You know that I saw Alley's. You don't need to be like mine. You know that I saw.
Before.
That is what we've met before. You're talking about they weren't yours.
Yes, is offensive to me personally that you would assume.
No.
I went to it. So we ordered an uber to get out of there.
That's what we've met before. The new is it? Okay?
We've met before me and so there were six of us. We need an Uber XL. Okay, Okay, we ordered uber L.
It's a little money for Uber XL.
Six is a lot for Uber XL.
I feel like you're pushing it's I.
Think it's like five six is gonna make him go. He's gonna be he's gonna get it tuned. But it's it's okay, should show up.
If uber XL.
Uber XL, you should get an s u v XL Okay.
So guy shows up in a Tesla, a Tesla Tesla sedan No, and he has the front seat push all the way up, and then he's got the back seat somehow pushed up, and then there's like trunk space that I guess I don't know what it is, like a third row for little babies.
And there were seats.
Did you all get in?
No? Four of us got in. The other two ordered another Uber because they're like, this is not gonna work. We're not gonna you can't fit a human.
Yeah.
Back here, the lines are blurred for that Excel bullshit.
Yeah, and the Excel is like way more money. But we're glad we got out of there.
I love was the game. Fun.
It was one of the best college football games of the season. USC lost, but it was an amazing game to be at, really exciting, high scoring game. It was like fifty two to forty two was the final score.
Fun. Oh my god, is that like a record.
No, but it was a high scoring game.
And the two quarterbacks are also one of them is like the lead for the Heisman Trophy and the other one's probably gonna be the number one draft pick next year in the NFL. Exciting, you know, in USC homecoming, so there's probably there was like a bunch. It was like a big fanfare. The band's great, The marching band is fantastic. Lots of celebrities stuff like that.
What celebrities? I couldn't like craigs like Oh, so it was just people from reality shows on Netflix.
Are you a little sweetie? I don't know like people like that.
Okay, yeah, that's fun. Did you have good seats? Where was it at the where.
The Colisseum and USC? Just yeah, we had really good seats. Ali went to go with I went with Ali, who's a USC alum, and then her friend Dana who you met at my wedding, and her boyfriend Sean, and and then my good pals and yours, Rob Stern and Meredith Packman.
Did you paint your faces?
No? No, I wore a USC hat and a USC shirt though I'm not a USC fan per se.
But was it cold?
It was warm?
It's really going to a college football game is really fun.
It is.
It's just it's like a little bit more fun, i'd say than NFL game because the atmosphere of college students all there, although they're.
All drunk and so excited whenever I see them. It's one of my favorite things is to watch the crowd at a college football game, because I'm just like, that is the greatest time of life.
Yes, exactly.
Nothing else matters except getting wasted, cheering on your team, trying to get laid that night, maybe having a quiz the next day that you didn't study for. But who gives a shit.
Gives a usc Your parents are.
Paying for everything, and I know that's not everyone's experience. Don't get mad at me, but you're in a bubble. Life is so fucking good in college when you are a crazy kid that's whipping around your shirt at a college game and you're all packed in there and you're all flirting with a bunch of girls and you're like drinking beer. Like I never experienced that because I would never want to because I don't like football and I don't like loud, like drunk boys screaming in my face. But if you're into that kind of stuff. There's no better time of life.
Oh yeah, And I know we have to wrap, but I want to ask you. How was going to Kansas to do your show?
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It was that town. It's so nice to be in Kansas because it makes you feel you're going to your college town. Makes you feel young because the last time you were there, you were young, and so it made me feel twenty again. I was like, I feel exactly how I felt in my twenties, Like I know this feeling. I was listening to Yankee Hotel Foxtrot on my on a CD. Driving around. Everything still like looks the same. They do a good job in that town of keeping things like looking the same and preserving this kind of like cutesy college town atmosphere. And I performed at a center that was like a place I'd never even been on campus. It's like the Lead Center. It's like where I did a joke that someone said this is where Bob Dylan performed. I'm like, Bob Dylan performed here, and they're like, no, Bob Dole performed here. I'm like, what did he play? Is Bob Dole has been there before?
Wow?
And the it was a Sunday night and people really came out for the show and that was really sweet. It felt great to be there. But yeah, it was really I just I love that town so much. The hotel was not that great. I felt like I was a reporter, a journalist that was studying a crime on campus and I was just visiting from the big city for a weekend. That's how I like kind of interpreted being in that hotel because it was it was like so not good. And then I ended up leaving that night and I went to my friend Kristen's house in Kansas City, so I didn't have to stay at the hotel.
Did you do the bit where you drove around going yelling at the studio?
We did. We Mamas Home to a couple people, I think, or we were no, we were looking to Mama's home people, but we kept because Britta, her sister, was like, please do Mama's home. So we were looking for We're stalking the campus before my show. My show was at seven thirty and it was like seven fifteen, and we were driving around on the way there looking for people to scream Mama's home at. But we didn't do it. Because it was all individual people walking home and we didn't want to bully anyone. And you have to have two people at least, you have to have a friend to go. Was that person say Mama's home? Ye? So yeah, but mama came home and it was really fun. I went to my Middle Eastern restaurant I worked at as a young person and visited that family and got delicious food a Latin cafe. Shout out Massachusetts street Lord, Kansas. Sorry I'm yawning, Okay, I gotta go drive to Arkansas. You guys a great show. Thank you so much for joining us. We will see you this weekend. I am going to be in Rehoboth, Delaware and Atlantic City, and then next week I'll be in Tempe for two shows Thursday and Friday. Maybe it's like three or four shows, but two nights in Tempe Thursday and Friday, and then Portland on Saturday. I hope you guys can make it out to the shows. Thank you so much for listening to the podcast. As always, I love you so much, Don'tika? And did you just walk a mile in no is shoes and take four hours to do it?
