After another explosive night of MAFS, Adam joined the show to tell his full side of the story. Adam goes through the truth behind Claire's lies and deception, the snake of the group that isn't what they seem and so much more. He spilt the tea! Listen for all the juicy details.
And there was more drama surrounding the Maps cheating scandal last night, because it was the dinner party where all of the couples came together and some of them, well most of them actually were just so anti Adam, who was the one that cheated.
Did he ask the chick?
They did just kiss, but there.
Were some people who refused to even acknowledge his existence.
They were Adam Burr.
So they all get together and they become so insulated in this world.
Yeah, I know.
It's interesting because that when the dinner party came around, they sat down at the table.
Janelle the girl got cheated on by Adam.
She decided to address it straight away, and Adam had his say about what happened.
Have listened, So.
Let's start off by hearing from Adam and Clare. So when we were out that night, me and Claire lied about it, said that nothing actually did happen. We had a kiss downstairs. It wasn't planned. I can tell you right now, there's nobody at this table that has taken this harder than myself. There's a lot of stuff that happened with me and Janelle that started our relationship that none of you know about.
Janelle doesn't even.
Know about it.
It wasn't a real relationship. The last two weeks has been a real relationship.
Yes, I kissed Claire, but I wasn't cheating.
Sorry.
I kissed him goodbye before he left, and he had sex with me that night.
Did you sleep with Janelle the night that you kissed Claire with Janelle?
Oh my god?
Did you kiss Claire and then went home and had sex with Janelle the same night?
Yes, no question?
Yes, what's wrong with that? He rooted his wife, that's fine.
Yeah, so what if he rooted the other chick and then didn't wipe it down with at least a wet wipe and then rooted his wife.
Yeah, have a problem, he does. He kissed a girl, big deal.
No pashed.
How do you know?
Because they said it, they were specifically asked, They admitted it.
They were to each other's mouth and squeeze each other.
But I don't know. Ask Adam. I've got him on the phone for you if you like.
See I'm trying to defend think God is here to defend himself. Adam bro Hey, good morning, I'm your only ally in this. That sounds like, so you kiss one che and then you're rooted the other cheek.
I think that's fine. What's the problem there?
You know, it's it's called cheating, guys.
It's an experiment, Jackie. It's not real life. It's a TV experiment.
It's real life. It's not.
They are neighbors pretty much.
Sorry, Adams, you should have your say, But I've got to say watching the show, you come across as very shady.
I know, tell me if.
I'm wrong, though, Are you shady or are you're not shady?
Of course I'm not shady. It's just like I got myself into a little position, and you know, I feel like super sorry for even trying to cover that little thing up. And also gas light and Jesse was really the worst part about all of that, you know, making him feel like, you know, he's going crazy and stuff when he sort of had a feeling that something was going on.
We've all done that before, We've all done And I hate that word gas lighting.
It's some sort of like revenge word. Women of invasion.
Why did you Why did you make him feel like he was such an asshole for calling.
Because he's trying to get out of it. He's trying to get out of it.
That's when you have just pulled it back a bit and just gone it's all good man, it's fine. But you actually made a point of going him.
Yeah, yeah, I really, I really did it. And that's what my deepest regret is. It's just, you know, it's something that you didn't see, like, like, I have got like nothing but love for Jense you know, we are on the mend and everything like that since since all of this has sort of come out, you know. So I do have deep regret in in my decision to kick that night and for going at him. But yeah, he came to my room. You didn't see anybody came to my room because he thought I was on the phone to Claire, And that's what I was sort of writing on because at the time he didn't know about the kids. And that's why I was like, mate, you'd come storming into my house. You want to look down my phone because you heard someone another fellow talking to her, and you're trying to say it's me. Like, So I was writing on that, you know, and I know that that was the wrong thing to have done, because only myself and Claire at that time knew what had really happened.
So yeah, okay, yeah, are you sure?
One thing I noticed after that night when you kissed Claire, but we didn't know it at that point. The very next day, you guys had a phone challenge where your wife could look through your phone and look at anything she wanted to, and you said, I don't think we.
Need to do that, do we?
Like you know, I remember that, I remember that.
Was there a text between you two where you guys said, Hi, I'm sorry about what happened or anything?
On that phone? You definitely look worried.
Yeah, yeah, I know, but I'm not going to say too much about about that right now, but that for sure was was was not the case. You know, like I said to Jamlle that she looked down my phone. I know that that's how we got out. Was made to look but it got made to look like that because in the end I ended up coming out like it came out that I had kissed Claire. So you know, that was a perfect exempt made that.
First move, Adam? Was it? Did you want to kiss her? Or did she try and kiss her? Did she make the move on you?
I've got some tea for you, guys, So that wasn't the first time. So when we went down and had that babe, when when Claire got me to come downstairs with her, she tried to get me away from the group at least three or four times throughout that night. You she she really was, Yeah, she really was. And like I do actually have text screenshot text messages and stuff from what Claire's said, and you know, she's lying through her teeth right now, but you know, she's very cunning, so I have to like just watch what I say. But you know, I'm more than happy to sit down and take it. There's a lot of he said, she said going on right now. I'm more than happy to sit down, get me on a lighter textive test, actually, get us all because I'll tell the whole truth and nothing but the truth. And I'm sure that Janelle or Claire wouldn't want to sit down on that lighter tective test.
You know, let's talk about these text messages. What kind of texts are we talking?
And when you say that she's not what she seems Claire at this point.
Look, I don't want to come too much shade on Claire, but after seeing and listening to her, she's trashing me in the media and trying to make it out that it was me that was into her, Like, you know, that's all well and good, but everyone's you know, he's got to own up for what they've done. Yes, she's the one that told Jesse about the kiss, but tell the full truth. You know, what's the fust text messages from after that night with brook Claire trying to make advances or maybe asking me to go and meet her.
And what do you think you're saying?
She's been texting trying to like make you slip out, slip out somewhere and have a sneaky catch up.
How do you respond in those messages? Are you shutting it down? Are you kind of.
What time and where is?
No? No, No, I didn't. I didn't say what time and where, Like, I'm not going to lie. I did sort of lean into it a little bit, but you know, nothing actually happens. You know, she was making a few advances on me, you know, but it's just it is what there's nothing actually happened, you know, and then happened.
Then if you if she was wanting it and you were, why didn't you go?
No, it's just it's just where we were both at. Because you've got to remember like when the kiss happened, it was within you know, the first few days of moving into Skry Sweets. You know, she was in a bad place with Jesse, which I didn't know anything about that. I wasn't in a good place at all with Janelle, which you guys didn't see because that didn't make it to edit. But we had a huge, big blow up Janelle and I, and she screamed at me saying she's leaving and I'm leaving as well, and then we patch things up off air, and then she's basically convinced me to stay in the experiment for I'm going to say clout and yeah, basically that's why. So on the night that I actually kissed Claire, in my head, I felt like I was a single guy. So it's gonna sound a bit ridiculous, but that's exactly how I get that.
I'm totally getting, like, see the clarity when someone gets to explain the whole story. Because we are only seeing one hour television show or one and a half hours, they're not.
Showing every little thing.
They're actually trying to make a story out of other little bits and pieces of stories, and you don't get the full but what happened?
Ye?
Can I ask what happened between you thinking you were single and kissing Claire to like a few hours later having sex with it.
It's still single. Of course you're gonna throw it up. Of course you're going to throw it up the wife.
You're wondering when you had the kiss, But then what happened between that and having sex?
We got hard?
Let's hear it?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, like that night. Yeah. Just going back to Janelle and I at that moment, basically we didn't even line from jokes about it because at the end of the time, like we discovered pretty early in the piece that we were in each other's people, right, So we had an idea that this was not going to be a thing. And and pen on heart, give me a Bible, get me on a loaded textive test, I promise you. Janelle would say to me, like, we just got to stay in this for for for whatever. No one's going to remember the first couple that leaves. If you leave this week, this was before the first commitment ceremony. If I leave, then no one's going to remember the first couple of Ye are.
You saying, did some people are in this experiment for same and not for love.
Can you can you can you? Can you imagine? Can you believe it? I can't believe it. I believe exactly that. I'm having a hard time trying to deal with the fact that I know what I did was wrong. I shouldn't have kissed Claire that night. I should have Gassolt Jesse, you know, and I should I should have been open and honest about it. You know, at the end of the day, I'm not despite what was said and all the rest of it. I know what I did was wrong, and I'm for sure not trying to stand behind anything. Like I know what I did was wrong, and I know who I heard in the process, and yeah, I apologize.
Do you feel like I feel like the real genuine one that had proper feelings is Jesse?
Like there's not big on that front, one hundred percent.
And that's what I stand by, a hand on heart. The one person that I feel terrible about terrible four is Jesse one hundred percent, because because out of the four of us, he's the only one that I feel was genuine and therefore the right reason in that moment, and he was the one getting strung along, you know, And and that's why my heart goes out to the guy. You know, have you met him? Like he's enough?
I love him. I think he's oneful.
Yeah, I've watched him.
I know, I've watched him enough on the show to know it looks like.
He's got greasy's skin if you ask me, but nice lot of grease gun.
I think Jesse is one of a kind mate, Like he's honestly, Like, this is why it just does not sit well with me. You know how I've even made him feel and even watching back listening to him on the show and how you know, what he was dealing with and everything like that, Like it just hurts me even more, you know, just to see like how how how hard he really took it.
Yeah, there is a message, there's a message here from all this. Don't be a soft cock in life hard enough, don't let your feelings pour out on the first down on television.
Can I ask who's the biggest snake on there that we should be watching out for?
Male or female?
Look, I really, I really don't know.
It might be a harder word to Maybe that's too hard.
Yeah, there's a few people to watch. Let's just say that there's definitely a few people to watch. But I mean, you could say snake. How many people are calling me a snake right now for what I did? So for me to or someone else's snake wouldn't be right.
Yeah, well who's who's not? Not what they appear to.
Be, all of them? I don't know. It could be. I really don't didn't want to speak on that. Actually, you don't want to get.
In the feud, I get it. Yeah, okay, kiss me.
Think I could say, I could say Janelle?
Yeah, right, okay. So it sounds like, yeah, this is this heartbreak is not real?
That's you kissed? What's that name again? What's the good? Claire Clear?
Yeah?
Did you ever sing your nude photos?
No? No, she never seen me any new photos. No, just just no, there was honestly nothing. There was none of that. No, none of that.
And you haven't had sex with her since the show or anything like that.
We've had no contact, like since the show, the last of that, Like we saw each other at the reunion obviously, but there's been nothing since then. And magazine she's what's that? Sorry?
Did you ever have sex with her? Even during the show?
I can promise you right now it was just that kids that night. That was it. There was nothing more to it, Like I know, I would like to sound like that, Oh yeah, it was just it's been blown way out and I'm getting label to cheat and all this sort of stuff. Like the worst thing I've ever done in my life was cheat on my partner who I was engaged to ten years ago, you know what I mean. And I was writing my vows for.
I'm joking at him.
Yeah it's fine, it's fine.
J expense, He's put his hard on the line.
I mean, it makes me look like a fool, right, But like as if I'm going to go on national TV put in my vows that you know that I've cheated on a partner, And that's was what was the hardest thing that I had to deal with and I'm still carrying that around, only to then.
Be in a position to go and cheat again. If I was in a love and committed relationship, or if I was matched with either other of the girls in the experiment that were there for the right reasons, there's no way I would have ended up kissing Claire. Do you know what I'm saying.
And listen, don't worry about what people label you when you get old that you realize you look back at your life and you realize, I only ever cheated when I wasn't really happy, and when you are happy, you don't cheat. That's just that's just the mechanics of life.
So don't brush all that shit off, the cheating or anything like that. Like I mean, you know, I yeah, I was, I was on. I was on, you know inside the experiment. I've known this person for a week, you know what I mean. We had a tough time. I had to deal with the family. I had to deal with all of this stuff, and there was no emotional feelings at all towards you know, vice versa. It was. It went both ways. And you know that's what I'm saying. I'm more than happy to sit down, take a light detective test, and be up any question.
Someone drive out the storage Someone drove out of the storage area, and that's that light detector off it.
That's all right, get mister sheen on it.
Adam thinks you man, if you ever need anything to say, ring here, we never edit it.
We put it on live. Everyone gets to say whatever they want, snow bullshit. I appreciate it.
Good my piece, because I mean I'm getting dragged through his bloody whatever, and I do deserve some of it. But yeah, the truth boy comes out right absolutely man, that's.
Right, thank you, Adam.
Look at Jesse.
We thought he was a weirdo in the beginning and he wasn't very well liked.
Women love a damaged man, so he can scoop him up and take care of him and mold him into the beast you want him to be.
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