It’s our last episode of Summer School, and today we welcome back clinical psychologist (and “clinical cousin” of Hugh and Josh), James van Cuylenburg.

In this episode, James tells us EVERYTHING we need to know about our relationships… well almost everything…there’s a lot to cover.

From attachment styles, to breaking trust, to learning how to own your feelings and navigating coupledom through life’s changing seasons.

Getting into the nitty gritty, Hugh asks James about intimacy and what happens when you’re not…. having any. And how to start a conversation with your kids about pornography.

Relationships make life worth living and whether they’re with an intimate partner, a friend, or yourself, they should be cherished and treated with care.

James, we thank you for your guidance.

If you liked this episode, and wanted to do some further reflection on it, each week our Vulnerabilitea-mail newsletter shares a question to get you thinking deeper. We’d love to hear from you, so please send your reflections in to the link provided. Subscribe here!

If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - https://bit.ly/3WwDguJ

 

🎧Things to listen to
James’ new podcast (that he makes with ANOTHER van Cuylenburg) You’re a Good Kid - https://apple.co/3E54MZR
James van Cuylenburg - Love Your Wonky Bricks - https://apple.co/3UYXmgt
Esther Perel - Let’s Be Better Lovers - https://apple.co/3Af9OB6
Chanel Contos - Consensual Healing - https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm

📖 Things to read
Attached by Dr Amir Levine and Rachel S.F Heller M.A - https://amzn.to/3EeVDhe

💻Things to check out
Teach Us Consent Website - https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0
Three Sided Pillar (triangle of happiness) - https://bit.ly/42kntmc

🚨If you, or someone you know, has experienced or is at risk of domestic violence or coercive control, call the 24 hour national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you’re feeling unsafe, call 000.

 

It&rsquo;s our last episode of Summer School, and today we welcome back clinical psychologist (and &ldquo;clinical cousin&rdquo; of Hugh and Josh), James van Cuylenburg.
In this episode, James tells us EVERYTHING we need to know about our relationships&hellip; well almost everything&hellip;there&rsquo;s a lot to cover.
From attachment styles, to breaking trust, to learning how to own your feelings and navigating coupledom through life&rsquo;s changing seasons.
Getting into the nitty gritty, Hugh asks James about intimacy and what happens when you&rsquo;re not&hellip;. having any. And how to start a conversation with your kids about pornography.
Relationships make life worth living and whether they&rsquo;re with an intimate partner, a friend, or yourself, they should be cherished and treated with care.
James, we thank you for your guidance.
If you liked this episode, and wanted to do some further reflection on it, each week our Vulnerabilitea-mail newsletter shares a question to get you thinking deeper. We&rsquo;d love to hear from you, so please send your reflections in to the link provided. Subscribe <a href="https://www.theimperfects.com.au/#subscribepopup">here</a>!
If you would like to watch this full episode on YouTube, click here - <a href="https://bit.ly/3WwDguJ">https://bit.ly/3WwDguJ</a>
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🎧Things to listen to
<ul>
<li>James&rsquo; new podcast (that he makes with ANOTHER van Cuylenburg) You&rsquo;re a Good Kid - <a href="https://apple.co/3E54MZR">https://apple.co/3E54MZR</a></li>
<li>James van Cuylenburg - Love Your Wonky Bricks - <a href="https://apple.co/3UYXmgt">https://apple.co/3UYXmgt</a></li>
<li>Esther Perel - Let&rsquo;s Be Better Lovers - <a href="https://apple.co/3Af9OB6">https://apple.co/3Af9OB6</a></li>
<li>Chanel Contos - Consensual Healing - <a href="https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm">https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm</a></li>
</ul>
📖&nbsp;Things to read
<ul>
<li>Attached by Dr Amir Levine and Rachel S.F Heller M.A - <a href="https://amzn.to/3EeVDhe">https://amzn.to/3EeVDhe</a></li>
</ul>
💻Things to check out
<ul>
<li>Teach Us Consent Website - <a href="https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0">https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0</a></li>
<li>Three Sided Pillar (triangle of happiness) - <a href="https://bit.ly/42kntmc">https://bit.ly/42kntmc</a></li>
</ul>
🚨If you, or someone you know, has experienced or is at risk of domestic violence or coercive control, call the 24 hour national counselling service 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732). In an emergency, or if you&rsquo;re feeling unsafe, call 000.
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We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

Interesting people, allowing themselves to be vulnerable, sharing with us, their imperfect lives.

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