Two cataclysmic events have shaped Dr Lucy Hone’s relationship with grief, and resilience.

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Today in the Academy of Imperfection, we welcome Dr Lucy Hone. Dr Lucy’s work focuses on making sense of the senseless, and helping others to do the same.

As a legitimate expert in grief, resilience and wellbeing, Dr Lucy is able to blend the science with her own lived experience.

This episode explores living losses (divorce, estrangement, infertility), grief comparison, as well as the research around post-traumatic growth. Guided by questions from Dr Lucy’s latest book, How will I ever get through this?, Hugh, Josh and Ryan ask Dr Lucy why grief feels so lonely, how you are supposed to accept loss, and will you ever be happy again, amongst others.

This is a special one.

0:00 – An Unsuspecting Saturday Morning 
12:11 – Grief comparison 
21:25 – How am I supposed to accept this? 
31:14 – How do you keep hope alive? 
35:48 – Why do I feel so lonely? 
50:20 – Will I ever be happy again? 
56:36 – Letting the other children live 
1:03:44 – Do you know your strengths? 
1:09:12 – Who and what do you want to live for? 
1:14:59 – Who and what is good in your world?

To full this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - https://youtu.be/Zyb7kELxFxI 

🫖 Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode
Dr Emily - Grief Lightening - https://bit.ly/3ZPVNmO
Dr Emily - Other People Matter - https://bit.ly/3Oku8b4
Dr Emily - Goals For Your Goals - https://bit.ly/4rAK3AF

📖 Things to read
How Will I Ever Get Through This by Dr Lucy Hone - https://bit.ly/4bAWO9w
Resilient Grieving by Dr Lucy Hone - https://bit.ly/4kpkf8g
Oscillation Grief Theory - https://bit.ly/4qZ5WK1
Michael F. Steger - Meaning and Purpose Work - https://michaelfsteger.com
J. William Worden - Four Tasks of Mourning - https://bit.ly/3NTGPcU

💻Things to check out
Dr Lucy’s website - https://www.drlucyhone.com
3 Secrets of Resilient People TedTalk - https://bit.ly/3Zguj9S
Dr Lucy’s ‘Look Forward To’ Calendar
VIA Strengths test - http://bit.ly/4h2KYFJ
Coping With Loss community on Facebook - https://bit.ly/3NTnDvT
Welcome to Holland poem - https://bit.ly/4kgB0lH
Will Arnett + Conan O’Brien on Grief - https://bit.ly/4a06320

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Two cataclysmic events have shaped Dr Lucy Hone&rsquo;s relationship with grief, and resilience.
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Today in the Academy of Imperfection, we welcome Dr Lucy Hone. Dr Lucy&rsquo;s work focuses on making sense of the senseless, and helping others to do the same.
As a legitimate expert in grief, resilience and wellbeing, Dr Lucy is able to blend the science with her own lived experience.
This episode explores living losses (divorce, estrangement, infertility), grief comparison, as well as the research around post-traumatic growth. Guided by questions from Dr Lucy&rsquo;s latest book, How will I ever get through this?, Hugh, Josh and Ryan ask Dr Lucy why grief feels so lonely, how you are supposed to accept loss, and will you ever be happy again, amongst others.
This is a special one.
0:00 &ndash; An Unsuspecting Saturday Morning 12:11 &ndash; Grief comparison 21:25 &ndash; How am I supposed to accept this? 31:14 &ndash; How do you keep hope alive? 35:48 &ndash; Why do I feel so lonely? 50:20 &ndash; Will I ever be happy again? 56:36 &ndash; Letting the other children live 1:03:44 &ndash; Do you know your strengths? 1:09:12 &ndash; Who and what do you want to live for? 1:14:59 &ndash; Who and what is good in your world?
To full this full episode on YouTube, follow this link - <a href="https://youtu.be/Zyb7kELxFxI">https://youtu.be/Zyb7kELxFxI</a>&nbsp;
🫖&nbsp;Other Imperfects episodes mentioned in this episode
<ul>
<li>Dr Emily - Grief Lightening - <a href="https://bit.ly/3ZPVNmO">https://bit.ly/3ZPVNmO</a></li>
<li>Dr Emily - Other People Matter - <a href="https://bit.ly/3Oku8b4">https://bit.ly/3Oku8b4</a></li>
<li>Dr Emily - Goals For Your Goals - <a href="https://bit.ly/4rAK3AF">https://bit.ly/4rAK3AF</a></li>
</ul>
📖&nbsp;Things to read
<ul>
<li>How Will I Ever Get Through This by Dr Lucy Hone - <a href="https://bit.ly/4bAWO9w">https://bit.ly/4bAWO9w</a></li>
<li>Resilient Grieving by Dr Lucy Hone - <a href="https://bit.ly/4kpkf8g">https://bit.ly/4kpkf8g</a></li>
<li>Oscillation Grief Theory - <a href="https://bit.ly/4qZ5WK1">https://bit.ly/4qZ5WK1</a></li>
<li>Michael F. Steger - Meaning and Purpose Work - <a href="https://michaelfsteger.com/"></a><a href="https://michaelfsteger.com">https://michaelfsteger.com</a></li>
<li>J. William Worden - Four Tasks of Mourning - <a href="https://bit.ly/3NTGPcU">https://bit.ly/3NTGPcU</a></li>
</ul>
💻Things to check out
<ul>
<li>Dr Lucy&rsquo;s website - <a href="https://www.drlucyhone.com/"></a><a href="https://www.drlucyhone.com">https://www.drlucyhone.com</a></li>
<li>3 Secrets of Resilient People TedTalk - <a href="https://bit.ly/3Zguj9S">https://bit.ly/3Zguj9S</a></li>
<li>Dr Lucy&rsquo;s &lsquo;Look Forward To&rsquo; Calendar</li>
<li>VIA Strengths test - <a href="http://bit.ly/4h2KYFJ">http://bit.ly/4h2KYFJ</a></li>
<li>Coping With Loss community on Facebook - <a href="https://bit.ly/3NTnDvT">https://bit.ly/3NTnDvT</a></li>
<li>Welcome to Holland poem - <a href="https://bit.ly/4kgB0lH">https://bit.ly/4kgB0lH</a></li>
<li>Will Arnett + Conan O&rsquo;Brien on Grief - <a href="https://bit.ly/4a06320">https://bit.ly/4a06320</a></li>
</ul>
🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, (with the new cards!) purchase here -&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz">http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz</a>
🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel)&nbsp;My Imperfect Life,&nbsp;click here -&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz"></a><a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuW">http://bit.ly/4lyuuW</a>
🩵To join our subscriber community, A Little More Imperfects, follow this link - <a href="http://bit.ly/4mqunxu">http://bit.ly/4mqunxu</a>
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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you&rsquo;re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.
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We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

Interesting people, allowing themselves to be vulnerable, sharing with us, their imperfect lives.