Mid-life crises have a bad rap.

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Joined by our resident psychologist Dr Emily Musgrove, this emisode is for everyone, but especially for those who’s back goes out more than them, and who are trying to fill the void with purpose (or a ponytail, or a sports car).

Technically, you’re in your mid-life from about the ages of 35-70. Which would be quite bleak, if we didn’t have Dr Emily in the studio to reframe this period of our lives with hope, meaning and purpose.

Tuning into what our soul is yearning for, Dr Emily discusses how we can intentionally look at generating legacy, combat narratives which suggest “we should have it all worked out”, and maybe even turn our intelligence into a …. um, butterfly.

And then we hear from Josh, who’s right in the thick of it. Cue tears. Cue hugs. Cue sending Josh all of the love in the entire world.

Dr Em, you’ve hit the nail on the head with this one.

To watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link: https://youtu.be/r6tdU-r5k4o

🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode
Elizabeth Day - The Me-est Version of Me - http://bit.ly/3HTMKMi
Lauren Zonfrillo - Grief: The Shittest Greatest Gift - http://bit.ly/4fYJonW
Dr Emily - Compassion of The Self - http://bit.ly/45BW9kU

📖Things to read
Unstuck, by Dr Emily Musgrove - http://bit.ly/4mAhUaA
Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Your Life, by James Hollis - http://bit.ly/41oMED0
From Strength to Strength, by Arthur C Brooks - http://bit.ly/4lFObvD

💻Things to check out
Erik Erikson’s psychosocial theory of development - http://bit.ly/4oV1knq
Jungian Therapy - http://bit.ly/3JyslNh
Chip Connolly - Modern Elder Academy - http://bit.ly/4fZUN70
Kristen Neff - Online Self Compassion Practice - http://bit.ly/4mUIs68
Chris Germer - Mindful Self-Compassion - http://bit.ly/3Vj5d82
Paul Gilbert - Developing Self-Compassion - http://bit.ly/4fYN74U
Regina Gurlach - Self-Compassion - http://bit.ly/3HO1Xi2
U-Shaped Curve of Happiness - http://bit.ly/4p0m5hQ
Ron Siegel - The Disillusion of Living - http://bit.ly/4fYO11i

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The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.

 

Mid-life crises have a bad rap.
💌&nbsp;subscribe to our newsletter, my imperfect email, here - <a href="http://bit.ly/45NyQDy">http://bit.ly/45NyQDy</a>
Joined by our resident psychologist Dr Emily Musgrove, this emisode is for everyone, but especially for those who&rsquo;s back goes out more than them, and who are trying to fill the void with purpose (or a ponytail, or a sports car).
Technically, you&rsquo;re in your mid-life from about the ages of 35-70. Which would be quite bleak, if we didn&rsquo;t have Dr Emily in the studio to reframe this period of our lives with hope, meaning and purpose.
Tuning into what our soul is yearning for, Dr Emily discusses how we can intentionally look at generating legacy, combat narratives which suggest &ldquo;we should have it all worked out&rdquo;, and maybe even turn our intelligence into a &hellip;. um, butterfly.
And then we hear from Josh, who&rsquo;s right in the thick of it. Cue tears. Cue hugs. Cue sending Josh all of the love in the entire world.
Dr Em, you&rsquo;ve hit the nail on the head with this one.
To watch this full episode on YouTube, follow this link:&nbsp;<a href="https://youtu.be/r6tdU-r5k4o" data-token-index="1">https://youtu.be/r6tdU-r5k4o</a>
🫖Other Imperfects episodes mentioned on this episode
<ul>
<li>Elizabeth Day - The Me-est Version of Me - <a href="http://bit.ly/3HTMKMi">http://bit.ly/3HTMKMi</a></li>
<li>Lauren Zonfrillo - Grief: The Shittest Greatest Gift - <a href="http://bit.ly/4fYJonW">http://bit.ly/4fYJonW</a></li>
<li>Dr Emily - Compassion of The Self - <a href="http://bit.ly/45BW9kU">http://bit.ly/45BW9kU</a></li>
</ul>
📖Things to read
<ul>
<li>Unstuck, by Dr Emily Musgrove - <a href="http://bit.ly/4mAhUaA">http://bit.ly/4mAhUaA</a></li>
<li>Finding Meaning in the Second Half of Your Life, by James Hollis - <a href="http://bit.ly/41oMED0">http://bit.ly/41oMED0</a></li>
<li>From Strength to Strength, by Arthur C Brooks - <a href="http://bit.ly/4lFObvD">http://bit.ly/4lFObvD</a></li>
</ul>
💻Things to check out
<ul>
<li>Erik Erikson&rsquo;s psychosocial theory of development - <a href="http://bit.ly/4oV1knq">http://bit.ly/4oV1knq</a></li>
<li>Jungian Therapy - <a href="http://bit.ly/3JyslNh">http://bit.ly/3JyslNh</a></li>
<li>Chip Connolly - Modern Elder Academy - <a href="http://bit.ly/4fZUN70">http://bit.ly/4fZUN70</a></li>
<li>Kristen Neff - Online Self Compassion Practice - <a href="http://bit.ly/4mUIs68">http://bit.ly/4mUIs68</a></li>
<li>Chris Germer - Mindful Self-Compassion - <a href="http://bit.ly/3Vj5d82">http://bit.ly/3Vj5d82</a></li>
<li>Paul Gilbert - Developing Self-Compassion - <a href="http://bit.ly/4fYN74U">http://bit.ly/4fYN74U</a></li>
<li>Regina Gurlach - Self-Compassion - <a href="http://bit.ly/3HO1Xi2">http://bit.ly/3HO1Xi2</a></li>
<li>U-Shaped Curve of Happiness - <a href="http://bit.ly/4p0m5hQ">http://bit.ly/4p0m5hQ</a></li>
<li>Ron Siegel - The Disillusion of Living - <a href="http://bit.ly/4fYO11i">http://bit.ly/4fYO11i</a></li>
</ul>
🩷To host your own Vulnerabilitea House, purchase the Vulnerabilitea House Cards here -&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz">http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz</a>
🩵To purchase our journal (or your novel)&nbsp;My Imperfect Life,&nbsp;click here -&nbsp;<a href="http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz">http://bit.ly/4lyuuWz</a>
🩵To join our patreon community, A Little More Imperfects, follow this link - <a href="http://bit.ly/4mqunxu">http://bit.ly/4mqunxu</a>
🩷 AND you can subscribe to A Little More Imperfects through Apple Podcasts too, here - <a href="http://bit.ly/4mq5BO5">http://bit.ly/4mq5BO5</a>
The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you&rsquo;re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.
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We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.

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