Elise and Tom discuss love around Valentine's Day as Tom reveals the ways he had his heart broken. You can email Elise and Tom at ELLIOTTEXCHANGE@NINE.COM.AU.

In Season 2 (Episode 4) of The Elliott Exchange...

• Messages to ELLIOTTEXCHANGE@NINE.COM.AU: Sylvia wants to know if men still need to ask for a father's permission before popping the question.
• Love is in the air for Valentine's Day.
• Divorce: Tom details the ways he had his heart broken over the years and how you should break up with someone.
• Tom's checklist: Tom goes through all the measures he will go through to find the proper suitor for their daughter.
• Elise explains why she didn't drink alcohol at a recent reunion. Tom cannot understand why people drink alcohol-free beer, wine and spirits.
• What Elise and Tom learned in this week's episode.