Gratitude is more than thanking God for your blessings—it also means thanking the people He uses to bring love, encouragement, and support into your life. When someone offers kindness, helps you through a difficult season, or inspires you to grow, their actions can reflect God’s love at work. Yet it’s easy to appreciate people silently without ever telling them how much they mean to us. Philippians 1:3 offers a powerful example of putting gratitude into words, reminding us to thank God for the people who have made a difference in our lives and to express that appreciation directly to them.

Highlights

• Recognize God as the source of love: Learn to see the kindness of others as one way God’s love reaches into your life.

• Thank the people God uses to bless you: Discover why gratitude should extend beyond prayer to the people who encourage, support, and help you.

• Learn from Paul’s example in Philippians 1:3: See how Paul expressed thankfulness for others even while facing loneliness and hardship in prison.

• Understand the power of appreciation: A sincere thank-you can encourage someone who feels overlooked, tired, or unsure whether their efforts matter.

• Build stronger relationships through gratitude: Expressing appreciation can deepen trust, strengthen friendships, and help relationships grow.

• Notice God’s goodness in everyday life: Practicing gratitude can redirect your attention from stress and problems toward the blessings around you.

• Put biblical gratitude into action: Find simple ways to thank family members, friends, coworkers, and others who have made a positive difference in your life.

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Full Transcript Below:

Thank God and People Too

By: Whitney Hopler

Bible Reading:
“I thank my God every time I remember you.” – Philippians 1:3, NIV

I visited my high school journalism teacher, Margo Tyree, years after high school – when I was working as a professional newspaper reporter. God had worked through Mrs. Tyree to show me my career path. Not only that, but Mrs. Tyree encouraged me to overcome my shyness and grow to become more courageous and confident. She also taught me important journalism practices and inspired me to do my very best work. So, I returned to my old classroom to thank her and speak to her class about what it was like to work as a journalist. I also thanked God that day (and many other days) for bringing such a caring teacher into my life.

God is the ultimate source of everything good in the universe. Every single act of love begins with God. When a friend is kind to you, for example, that kindness is ultimately a reflection of God’s love reaching out to you. Recognizing God at work in those experiences helps you remember where your blessings come from.

Most of the time, God chooses to work through his people. God’s love flows through people’s lives, inspiring them to help, listen, or share when other people need something. When people step up to care for you because of love, they’re serving because it was God who led them to do so. Wherever real love is in action, God is the reason, because God is the source of all love.

Because God works through people to bless us, it’s very important that we don’t stop at thanking God alone. We should also thank those people, too! It’s easy to assume people know we appreciate them, but even if they do, we can bless them powerfully by writing or speaking words of gratitude to them. Putting gratitude into action matters.

In Philippians 1:3, the Apostle Paul shows us how to put gratitude into action well. He was sitting in a dark, lonely prison cell. But when he thought of his friends in the church at Philippi, he felt grateful. Paul made sure to tell his friends directly: “I thank my God every time I remember you.” He said he was so thankful for them that every single time he remembered them, he thanked God for letting them be part of his life.

Think about how much good it does when you thank someone. When you let someone know you appreciate their kindness, you give them a wonderful gift. You encourage them to keep doing good things to shine God’s light into the darkness of this fallen world, where lots of people don’t feel appreciated. Many people around you work quietly every single day without knowing if anyone actually cares about the good work they’re trying to do. They might feel tired and discouraged. When you thank them for the positive difference they’ve made in your life, you can remind them that their efforts are truly seen and valued.

Expressing gratitude also changes you. When you make a habit of looking for things to thank people for, you’ll then start noticing the wonder of God’s work in your life instead of focusing on your problems and stress. Gratitude can turn your ordinary relationships into close, lasting friendships built on love and trust.

Today, look around at the people God has placed in your life. Thank God for sending them to walk beside you, and then take the next step: go tell those people how much they mean to you. Send a text, write a short note, give them a call, or visit them in person to thank them for who they are and for what you appreciate about what they’ve done. By thanking God and thanking people too, you can help God’s love flow through your life and into other people’s lives!

Intersecting Faith & Life:

As you consider why it’s important to thank God for the kind people in your life and to thank those people too, reflect on these questions:

Who is one person in your life that God has used to encourage or help you recently? 

• Why do you sometimes forget to say “thank you” to the people who help you every day? 
• How does it make you feel inside when someone takes the time to thank you for something kind you did? 
• What are some simple, creative ways you can express gratitude to your family, friends, or coworkers this week? 
• How does praying for the people who help you change the way you appreciate them?

Further Reading:

Philemon 1:4

Ephesians 1:16

Romans 1:8

1 Thessalonians 5:18

Colossians 3:15