When emotions feel tangled or words won’t come out right, God invites you to pour out your heart to Him as a safe refuge. Psalm 62:8 reminds us that whether we speak freely or sit silently, God listens closely and welcomes every concern we bring before Him.

Highlights


God invites you to pour out your heart—without fear or filtering.


Whether you process internally or externally, God can handle your words or your silence.


God is a refuge, not threatened by emotion or overwhelmed by honesty.


When words fail, the Holy Spirit helps express what’s on your heart (Romans 8:26).


God bends down to listen, drawing closer rather than pulling away.


David modeled honest expression through prayer, music, and worship.
God can communicate what you cannot find words to say—even to others.

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Pouring Out Your Heart 

By Cindi McMenamin

Bible Reading:
Trust in Him at all times, you people; 

Pour out your hearts before Him;

God is a refuge for us. (Psalm 62:8 NASB)

Do you ever long for a safe place to pour out your heart? 

Some people are internal processors. They run thoughts through their minds and at times find it difficult to verbally express what’s on their hearts. 

At times, I wish I were that way. To the contrary, I struggle with keeping it all inside. As a verbal or external processor, I repeat instructions aloud to make sure I understand them. And I express my thoughts verbally as a way of sorting through them. To my husband, who is an internal processor, that’s exhausting at times. For me, it’s essential. To hold it in is to put a stopper on my heart, and I feel I will suffocate. Until pent-up feelings eventually blow, like an eruption of emotion that can be overwhelming to those I love the most. In the aftermath of a gush of words, there can sometimes be regret.  

But God is not threatened by my words—or yours. And He’s not irritated by our silence, either. He tells us, in His Word, to pour out our hearts before Him, and then He tells us He is a refuge, a safe place—we don’t need to fear what we said or the words we withheld. He knows, and can handle them all—or none at all. 

And if you’re one who struggles with how to verbally express how you feel, or when you do, you choose the wrong words, Romans 8:26 tells us His Spirit will communicate with yours and express your very heart to your Heavenly Father. I love how the Contemporary English Version renders Psalm 62:8: “Trust God, my friends, and always tell him each of your concerns. God is our place of safety.” 

Intersecting Faith & Life:

Could you use a safe place when it comes to bearing your soul? Do you need a refuge, a place to hide, when you’re not ready to express how you feel? God is there for us whenever we need to process our thoughts and feelings. He is the Ultimate Listener and the Perfect Communicator. He is the Quiet Encourager and our Comforting Presence. 

Psalm 116:2 in the New Living Translation says: “Because he bends down to listen, I will pray as long as I have breath!”  I love how that verse indicates He will come near us, rather than walk away, when we have something we need to say. He will draw closer—in order to listen carefully—when He knows we struggle with how to express what’s on our hearts, or how to filter our words. As a father with an ear bent toward his loving child, our God will listen. So, pour it out. Or keep it in, and just close your eyes and reflect on being in His presence. He knows exactly what you need to say. He can hear your unspoken words, too.

I tend to think David, the psalmist, needed to write music and lyrics in order to express his heart. And I believe he counted on God to help him find words for what he felt, so he could express those words to God and sing them back to Him. In doing so, he experienced God’s strength in the midst of his weakness. 

What do you need to express to someone today, while you struggle to find the right words? Can you tell it to God instead, or ask Him to search your mind and thoughts and help you convey what you need to say to someone else? Many times, when I’m at a loss for how to say something to someone at just the right time and in just the right way, I’ve asked my heavenly Father to convey to that person what’s on my heart without me having to say anything. He has an amazing way of touching someone’s heart and making them “hear” what I really wanted to say to them, but never found the words to do so. 

Oh, the overwhelming, astounding love of God. All His ways are perfect, says Psalm 18:30.  And through His help, we are strengthened. 

The next time you need to speak up or hold it in, praise Him for being a God who listens. And then pour out your heart before Him. Your words are safe with Him. 

Further Reading:
Psalm 139:1-18.

For more on connecting more closely with God, and with others, see my books, The New Loneliness and The New Loneliness Devotional. 

When emotions feel tangled or words won&rsquo;t come out right, God invites you to pour out your heart to Him as a safe refuge. Psalm 62:8 reminds us that whether we speak freely or sit silently, God listens closely and welcomes every concern we bring before Him.
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God invites you to pour out your heart&mdash;without fear or filtering.
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Whether you process internally or externally, God can handle your words or your silence.
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God is a refuge, not threatened by emotion or overwhelmed by honesty.
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When words fail, the Holy Spirit helps express what&rsquo;s on your heart (Romans 8:26).
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God bends down to listen, drawing closer rather than pulling away.
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David modeled honest expression through prayer, music, and worship.
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Full Transcript Below:
Pouring Out Your Heart&nbsp;
By Cindi McMenamin
Bible Reading: Trust in Him at all times, you people;&nbsp;
Pour out your hearts before Him;
God is a refuge for us. (Psalm 62:8 NASB)
Do you ever long for a safe place to pour out your heart?&nbsp;
Some people are internal processors. They run thoughts through their minds and at times find it difficult to verbally express what&rsquo;s on their hearts.&nbsp;
At times, I wish I were that way. To the contrary, I struggle with keeping it all inside. As a verbal or external processor, I repeat instructions aloud to make sure I understand them. And I express my thoughts verbally as a way of sorting through them. To my husband, who is an internal processor, that&rsquo;s exhausting at times. For me, it&rsquo;s essential. To hold it in is to put a stopper on my heart, and I feel I will suffocate. Until pent-up feelings eventually blow, like an eruption of emotion that can be overwhelming to those I love the most. In the aftermath of a gush of words, there can sometimes be regret.&nbsp;&nbsp;
But God is not threatened by my words&mdash;or yours. And He&rsquo;s not irritated by our silence, either. He tells us, in His Word, to pour out our hearts before Him, and then He tells us He is a refuge, a safe place&mdash;we don&rsquo;t need to fear what we said or the words we withheld. He knows, and can handle them all&mdash;or none at all.&nbsp;
And if you&rsquo;re one who struggles with how to verbally express how you feel, or when you do, you choose the wrong words, Romans 8:26 tells us His Spirit will communicate with yours and express your very heart to your Heavenly Father. I love how the Contemporary English Version renders Psalm 62:8: &ldquo;Trust God, my friends, and always tell him each of your concerns. God is our place of safety.&rdquo;&nbsp;
Intersecting Faith &amp; Life:
Could you use a safe place when it comes to bearing your soul? Do you need a refuge, a place to hide, when you&rsquo;re not&nbsp;ready to express how you feel? God is there for us whenever we need to process our thoughts and feelings. He is the Ultimate Listener and the Perfect Communicator. He is the Quiet Encourager and our Comforting Presence.&nbsp;
Psalm 116:2 in the New Living Translation says: &ldquo;Because he bends down to listen, I will pray as long as I have breath!&rdquo;&nbsp; I love how that verse indicates He will come near us, rather than walk away, when we have something we need to say. He will draw closer&mdash;in order to listen carefully&mdash;when He knows we struggle with how to express what&rsquo;s on our hearts, or how to filter our words. As a father with an ear bent toward his loving child, our God will listen. So, pour it out. Or keep it in, and just close your eyes and reflect on being in His presence. He knows exactly what you need to say. He can hear your unspoken words, too.
I tend to think David, the psalmist, needed to write music and lyrics in order to express his heart. And I believe he counted on God to help him find words for what he felt, so he could express those words to God and sing them back to Him. In doing so, he experienced God&rsquo;s strength in the midst of his weakness.&nbsp;
What do you need to express to someone today, while you struggle to find the right words? Can you tell it to God instead, or ask Him to search your mind and thoughts and help you convey what you need to say to someone else? Many times, when I&rsquo;m at a loss for how to say something to someone at just the right time and in just the right way, I&rsquo;ve asked my heavenly Father to convey to that person what&rsquo;s on my heart without me having to say anything. He has an amazing way of touching someone&rsquo;s heart and making them &ldquo;hear&rdquo; what I really wanted to say to them, but never found the words to do so.&nbsp;
Oh, the overwhelming, astounding love of God. All His ways are perfect, says Psalm 18:30.&nbsp; And through His help, we are strengthened.&nbsp;
The next time you need to speak up or hold it in, praise Him for being a God who listens. And then pour out your heart before Him. Your words are safe with Him.&nbsp;
Further Reading: Psalm 139:1-18.
For more on connecting more closely with God, and with others, see my books, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/0736989641/?bestFormat=true&amp;k=the%20new%20loneliness&amp;ref_=nb_sb_ss_w_scx-ent-pd-bk-d_k0_1_18_de&amp;crid=78LFQ00QV3CW&amp;sprefix=The%20New%20loneliness">The New Loneliness</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/New-Loneliness-Devotional-Closer-Connection/dp/0736989250/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2S9YRHB4MSKZR&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.TmMnSOVvCMTwhHlx85y3XjGXf3_3YngV6Aac9qHg--TC22sSLZWj6K5tsD_Nn8bGKOq6RQ9vX9-WoB69FeJrtS4-v-oYNbRh8WrQ2Fy1ZoQcfajvANjvlhX">The New Loneliness Devotional</a>.&nbsp;

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