A declining follower count or an unexpected unfollow can stir up feelings of loneliness, rejection, and insecurity. But our value is not determined by social media approval or by how others choose to treat us. God sees us, loves us, and invites us to bring our hurt to Him.

Matthew 7:12 teaches us to treat others the way we want to be treated, both online and in person. While we cannot control other people’s choices, we can choose how we respond when their actions hurt us. Instead of returning rejection with rejection or allowing bitterness to take root, we can seek God’s comfort, practice kindness, and remember that our identity is grounded in Christ. When social media leaves us feeling disconnected or discouraged, God offers refuge, healing, and a love that does not depend on followers, friendships, or approval.

Highlights
Why being unfollowed or unfriended on social media can trigger feelings of rejection
How social media approval can influence the way we view our worth
Why our identity and value come from God rather than other people’s opinions
What Matthew 7:12 teaches about treating others with kindness online and in person
How to bring feelings of hurt, loneliness, and rejection to God
Why responding to hurt with kindness is more consistent with following Jesus
Encouragement to find comfort in God’s unfailing love when relationships change

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Full Transcript Below:

Unfollowing Social Media
By Vivian Bricker

Bible Reading:
“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 7:12). 

Each time I see my follower count go down on social media, I automatically feel like the little kid I was in sixth grade. My feelings get hurt, and I start feeling bad about myself. Depending on who the person is, it can hurt even worse. Recently, I had someone I thought was a real friend unfollow me. Their unfollowing caught me off guard, but I figured that, like everyone else, they didn’t like me much either.

Even though this person chose to unfollow me, I didn’t choose to unfollow them back. Clicking the unfollow button is intentional, often with the thought that you don’t care about the person anymore. Since social media is one of the main ways we connect with others today, unfollowing someone can feel similar to leaving their life and choosing not to engage with them anymore.

Even though I am an adult and I’m doing better mentally than I have in a long time, I cannot shake the pain it brings when someone I thought was a friend disconnects from my life. However, while talking with a wise friend, she told me that they were never really my friends to begin with. This was the second time someone had said something like this to me, which showed me that God was trying to tell me something.

We don’t need to seek approval from humankind. Instead, we must remember that God already accepts us as we are. If other people don’t like us, that’s okay. And if they are offended when we share our honest feelings, then that’s okay, too. However, that doesn’t mean what they did didn’t hurt us. In truth, when a friend unfollows us, it can make us feel worthless.

Bring these feelings to God and set them at His feet (1 Peter 5:7). Tell Him how their words and actions hurt your feelings. It is enough to say, “Lord, my friend unfollowed me, and it makes me feel awful.” God will meet you where you are and cover you with His support. As the Bible says, “He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart” (Psalm 91:4).

Intersecting Faith & Life:

The Lord tells us, “So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets” (Matthew 7:12). This passage is now known as the “Golden Rule.” It is often taught in schools to help children learn how to treat others well.

As followers of the Lord, He doesn’t want us to hurt others with our actions. He wants us to extend kindness, love, and support. Even if other people hurt us, we must turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:38-40). Just because they are mean and hurtful toward us doesn’t mean we need to return the pain (1 Peter 3:9). If we don’t want others to be mean to us, unfollow us, or unfriend us, we don’t need to do those things to others. By filtering our actions and words through the Word of God, we will be able to truly shine brightly for Jesus.

Has anyone ever unfollowed you? How did that make you feel? How can you start treating others the way you want to be treated, both in person and online?

Pray with me: Dear Jesus, other people have unfollowed me on social media in the past, and it is very hurtful. It makes me feel like I’m worthless. Please help me to remember that my worth is in You and that You will love me always. Help to turn my heart away from evil and turn it toward You. Equip my heart with the ability to treat others the way I want to be treated and to repay evil with blessing. In Your Name, I pray, Amen.

Further Reading:

Psalm 34:18

Psalm 55:22

Matthew 11:28-30

A declining follower count or an unexpected unfollow can stir up feelings of loneliness, rejection, and insecurity. But our value is not determined by social media approval or by how others choose to treat us. God sees us, loves us, and invites us to bring our hurt to Him.
Matthew 7:12 teaches us to treat others the way we want to be treated, both online and in person. While we cannot control other people&rsquo;s choices, we can choose how we respond when their actions hurt us. Instead of returning rejection with rejection or allowing bitterness to take root, we can seek God&rsquo;s comfort, practice kindness, and remember that our identity is grounded in Christ. When social media leaves us feeling disconnected or discouraged, God offers refuge, healing, and a love that does not depend on followers, friendships, or approval.
Highlights
<ul data-spread="false">
<li>Why being unfollowed or unfriended on social media can trigger feelings of rejection</li>
<li>How social media approval can influence the way we view our worth</li>
<li>Why our identity and value come from God rather than other people&rsquo;s opinions</li>
<li>What Matthew 7:12 teaches about treating others with kindness online and in person</li>
<li>How to bring feelings of hurt, loneliness, and rejection to God</li>
<li>Why responding to hurt with kindness is more consistent with following Jesus</li>
<li>Encouragement to find comfort in God&rsquo;s unfailing love when relationships change</li>
</ul>
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Full Transcript Below:
Unfollowing Social Media By Vivian Bricker
Bible Reading: &ldquo;So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets&rdquo; (Matthew 7:12).&nbsp;
Each time I see my follower count go down on social media, I automatically feel like the little kid I was in sixth grade. My feelings get hurt, and I start feeling bad about myself. Depending on who the person is, it can hurt even worse. Recently, I had someone I thought was a real friend unfollow me. Their unfollowing caught me off guard, but I figured that, like everyone else, they didn&rsquo;t like me much either.
Even though this person chose to unfollow me, I didn&rsquo;t choose to unfollow them back. Clicking the unfollow button is intentional, often with the thought that you don&rsquo;t care about the person anymore. Since social media is one of the main ways we connect with others today, unfollowing someone can feel similar to leaving their life and choosing not to engage with them anymore.
Even though I am an adult and I&rsquo;m doing better mentally than I have in a long time, I cannot shake the pain it brings when someone I thought was a friend disconnects from my life. However, while talking with a wise friend, she told me that they were never really my friends to begin with. This was the second time someone had said something like this to me, which showed me that God was trying to tell me something.
We don&rsquo;t need to seek approval from humankind. Instead, we must remember that God already accepts us as we are. If other people don&rsquo;t like us, that&rsquo;s okay. And if they are offended when we share our honest feelings, then that&rsquo;s okay, too. However, that doesn&rsquo;t mean what they did didn&rsquo;t hurt us. In truth, when a friend unfollows us, it can make us feel worthless.
Bring these feelings to God and set them at His feet (1 Peter 5:7). Tell Him how their words and actions hurt your feelings. It is enough to say, &ldquo;Lord, my friend unfollowed me, and it makes me feel awful.&rdquo; God will meet you where you are and cover you with His support. As the Bible says, &ldquo;He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart&rdquo; (Psalm 91:4).
Intersecting Faith &amp; Life:
The Lord tells us, &ldquo;So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets&rdquo; (Matthew 7:12). This passage is now known as the &ldquo;Golden Rule.&rdquo; It is often taught in schools to help children learn how to treat others well.
As followers of the Lord, He doesn&rsquo;t want us to hurt others with our actions. He wants us to extend kindness, love, and support. Even if other people hurt us, we must turn the other cheek (Matthew 5:38-40). Just because they are mean and hurtful toward us doesn&rsquo;t mean we need to return the pain (1 Peter 3:9). If we don&rsquo;t want others to be mean to us, unfollow us, or unfriend us, we don&rsquo;t need to do those things to others. By filtering our actions and words through the Word of God, we will be able to truly shine brightly for Jesus.
Has anyone ever unfollowed you? How did that make you feel? How can you start treating others the way you want to be treated, both in person and online?
Pray with me: Dear Jesus, other people have unfollowed me on social media in the past, and it is very hurtful. It makes me feel like I&rsquo;m worthless. Please help me to remember that my worth is in You and that You will love me always. Help to turn my heart away from evil and turn it toward You. Equip my heart with the ability to treat others the way I want to be treated and to repay evil with blessing. In Your Name, I pray, Amen.
Further Reading:
Psalm 34:18
Psalm 55:22
Matthew 11:28-30

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Unfollowing Social Media

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