Donnell Rawlings Brings Baby Oil During His Sit Down With The Breakfast Club, And Explains His Diddy Party Memories. Listen For More!
Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club.
Morning, everybody is d J N V, Jesse, Hilarry, Charlamagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Just as on Maternity Lead. We have a special guest in the building. Lola Ulsa is filling in for jests. We have a special guest that hasn't sit down and just walking around here.
Look at seeing yourself? Look look you see yourself?
Did you see that that's that's that's not himself.
It's no way that's him.
If y'all think we're just showing him his picture on the wall.
I'm here to play with y'all today, Well god damn it, I'm not let me show you.
I don't want to see ship.
They gave us questions, No, you don't have questions.
I gotta ask your question.
Did you okay?
Okay, no no, no, no, no, no no no, just one a special like that.
Just want to you m.
To let you get this from because it says see you at the car show?
Who got that?
The street told me?
The street told me that baby oil is how Ashy Larry became not ashy Ashy Larry. Did you ever use baby oil instead of lotion?
How many bos how many a weekend supply for you guys?
These are old where I know these are old?
You know when you got this, you get me? Somebody brings his hand towels in here? Nick, I want you to put this picture in here, right. You see the picture in between diddy legs on the yacht list, that was time between between Diddy's legs on the yacht. You think he got all of that baby oil?
Let me explain. That was the day party. That was get that. This was in the gift backs.
That was your day party. I got the history behind that. That was the day party. And I'm not first off, it's a very interesting situation. Even bring this up right, and I will tell y'all and everybody knows, and I know I'll be criticized for this. You know, did he throw some of the best parties you ever go?
You know what we gotta know?
I was between his leg r Kelly flew you in Wait, wait, wait, wait, no, get closer.
You've been trafficked traffic.
You ain't been traffied. You ain't been trapped, you haven't been traffic. All right, did you get trafficked or not?
Have you been groomed? Since that's the storm? Are you are you? Have you been groomed? Asked your question?
I got my question?
Who that was better, Diddies or Wendy?
I don't know what you're talking about.
What I did sit on Wendy's with that charlamagne? You did sit on Wendy's lap.
You're trying to You're trying to You're trying to skip the subject. What did you? Okay? What is the definition of trafficking?
What is definition when somebody flies you out or put you on a boat with the.
With the intention of what sex? Okay? I don't know that's the case with you. You got flood?
Yeah, we were doing a mixtape.
And what did did? Did you ever see him?
No?
Did he have you in a special room didn't have a hotel? No?
No?
Did you ever see him?
No?
So you so you you're a victim. You are a victim. You got traffic. They said you got traffic to much? You like a crossing guard. Now, sir, yo, what I'm saying, how you get what song was playing you? What song was playing when you was waiting in the room for No?
What flew me out to do it? Don't say flued? No he didn't you know what you were doing the next time bomb Bob, you know what flew with me? He was mixing it up. Did you complete the mixtape?
No?
I did not.
But question, was you sitting in between Diddy's legs before it was too slis you posed slipped his hands smiling?
You slipped?
I was a trip in Saint Martin sat Bart some years ago and he does a holiday party every year. You were there and I was there. I was there with with a lot of other people. That wasn't people, Oh yeah it was. It was Dave, I don't know, Simmons.
Squad.
No, it wasn't no snitch. Just you gotta understand. You got this party. You got that party, and that party was a great party. My son was. My son was on that yacht with me. We had a great time. So I understand. Like now, if you say you went to any party, you just assume it was the freak off that's what. It wasn't the case, and we had a good time. I will say, I don't know what was in that vodka because it felt like I had a hole full of headed hair on that yacht. I don't know it was something special in that vodka I was. I felt light skinned for a second.
So that's why he started like rubbing the faith. No no, no, no no no. I didn't sit there. He was bringing your face.
You felt like you had something. This is his me, right, you were leaning on his. These are his two knees.
It's one that you're talking about me in your hand.
This is okay. So these are the knees.
That's somebody else. That is not me, hands on somebody else.
But I'm just saying, okay, we can assume that every party he had is not a free part. And I will say that event was dope and I had a good time. And I'm not going to say free Diddy or anything, but a friend, just what you're doing. Just got the conversations. Just don't don't don't do that.
And I stand by you had a great time. I'm not judging you. I said some stuff with Jew and then you know, I'm.
You know, take your brother though, you know what my brother said. I will say my brother called me. He said I'm mad at you. No, he didn't say, he said I'm mad at you. And when he talked like that, you talked to him back like that. He said, I'm mad at you. I said, what you mad at me? Right? He said, why you ain't? This is what my brother said. He said, why you ain't telling me about the Dinney party? He said, I would have signed the paper and I would have brought my own oil. That's what my brother said. He's about that life, about that life. And he said he wanted flew you too. You want to since you getting flew out here, since you get flew, why we can't talk about that?
We just did flew you too?
What you.
Want to ask some questions?
Your own questions, because I ain't never said how, I.
Only questions.
Okay, here's a question. The only way for a person to truly.
Grow is is to feel small first, because when people truly keep it real with you, it's going to touch your inner child and bring you back to the feeling of fear and failure instead of taking criticism as an attack. How can you, and this goes to anybody in this room, how can you take that honest feedback and learn from it? How can you create an environment where those in your inner circle aren't just telling you what you want to hear, but what you need to grow? And that question is for you, Charlotte, how do you answer that question.
Let's discuss he.
Wasn't listening to you. He definitely wasn't listening to you.
I want to talk about you and doctor Umar.
You had Doctor Umar on your podcast.
I did have. It was a great interview.
He tried to do an intervention with you, but no, doctor because you love nobody.
First first off, on Easter, I've been known to hop. I'll just tell you, I tell you yo yo to hop on Easter. But doctor Umar did do my podcast.
It was good. It was a good interview.
Did you have to pay him? No, I didn't have to pay him. Okay, no, it was good. I think you had something to do with that too. You got a relationship with him if you did my God. But it was a conversation. He didn't have an innovation. And this is what every interview, every platform, and this is what I wanted to do. Everybody has a sense of humor. But you didn't know if doctor Umar has a sense of human He's one of the most fun And all I see him is this part of his face being wrinkled up and yelling at somebody. Right, pan African American, what is it? Pan Africans happy, pan Africniicanism, whatever, it is African niggas is whatever, mad tomato tomato. But I did have conversation with I was like, do he have a laugh? And the first thing when he now you could go and if you subscribe to my YouTube page that Donnaie Rowland show, it comes out this week. But I had a very good conversation with him because every time you see him, it's always being angry. Why can't you create dialogue with people that you don't necessarily agree with or disagree with without being upset?
And we had a great conversation. Uh, it was a great conversation.
And it's going to be on my show to Donnall Rowlin show on YouTube that you don't subscribe to you describe to?
Yeah, no, you don't phone. Put your phone on.
What's your next question?
Please, sir? Next question?
You still so you happen again?
Okay, here's a nothing one. Dj Envy, Oh boy, you've been silent about car shows lately. Do you have any intent on doing another car show or dabbling back into real estate?
Let's discussion.
I just had a car show about a couple of weeks ago, had fifteen thousand people there.
You did, yes?
Okay, next question? How is flipping New Jersey. I don't this will be cut up. I know, I don't know. All right, just see this is what go to the DONNAE. Rowlings Donnie Rawlings show and subscribe.
Did it?
See this's a different one. I was subscribed to this one.
Yeah? Do that?
Yeah, do that serious question. Yes, it's been seven months since your Netflix special.
Yeah.
Now, as some time has passed, how it change your career at all? I don't think it's changed my career. But I do think that's it gave people opportunity that wasn't familiar with me as a stand up comedian to see that I'm a good stand up and you never know. It's like it's hit and miss with that some of those specials. It may be something that it pops the next thing you know, you're a household name or you're being introduced to it. But it's hard. I noticed the difference in my ticket sales. Also know, when I go around people, you know, show me a lot of love and say I really appreciate it. When you're gonna do it, do the next one. But it was something that just said to my career. But and I tell people even before the special drop I was in a good place with selling tickets, people being familiar with me as a what do you want to say?
Actor? Comedian?
So it was another little notcho and the belt and I'm already working material if I have that situation again to do another one, because I did learn. I did learn a lot. But that's special. People always say, well, I seen them being funnier. I saw so and so. But in that moment, that day, in that moment, I thought I was the best that could be. I thought it was I thought it was pretty funny. Did you see some of the reviews that were out there?
No, because I.
Seemed like, for instance, rotten Rotten Tomato gave you, uh three tomatoes, right, and.
Three tomatoes tomato three?
Yeah, three out of uh three out of five, actually three out of five.
You know, I don't go about that. I guess who guess what Rotten Tomatoes.
No, I just want to say this, Rotten Tomatoes gave Tyler Perry's last movie horrible reviews, but guess what it did in the box office, and guess what it did for the people that know him. So, you know, I can take that with a grain of salt, but I'm here for it.
Yeah, somebody they said, not do stand up. His jokes are probably taking from AI chat box with bad instructions.
I laughed barely once.
You that, but no, but but to say I loved it. I thought it was great. Continue what other comments there was?
Somebody somebody said that it might not win any award to hit top ten.
But I will say this, and this is I know you fully ship. Okay, here's the thing. What's wrong that that my Special charted for three weeks on Netflix? Also not that I wanted anything but the special. And this might not mean anything tobody else, but it made the nomination ballot for Emmy This so next it didn't win. But the fact that here's the thing. People like this, you're not gonna win. It didn't make your next joint in this business. First thing you want to do is be in a conversation with other people. If I could be in that conversation, that means somebody else is introduced to me and I can move on to it. Next question.
Like that, I've seen it stand up?
You know I go to all his specialis I go to all this stuff?
Charge I ain't seen you when you have chivalry lip?
Someone you was like.
When you was like, Oh, what's gonna happen? Man, I gotta I got I gotta remove myself from here.
Man.
We started.
Yo, you sounding like Woody in the wire, Sa trout Son. You sound like women any morning.
You sound like the more up here, come here and show you have.
But that was before you know, you almost caught that charge. So you know what I'm saying. When it was when it was got that pressure time, so you just disappeared.
You said on your.
Yo, you okay, no, you caught that on your I'm gonna get you. Don't do that. I'm gonna get you. That's that's Woody. Don't do that.
And I'm gonna get you because i' gonna see you. I' gonna get you.
Go ahead. Yo, wood the.
United say something that is hilarious. Yo, he said, I look just what he would be like that. If I see you the car show, I'm gonna get you. I'm gonna pull up and I'm gaeint you. I aint gonna play with you. I'm gonna get you. I'm gonna get you. I'm gonna see you. I'm gonna see you.
I'm gonna see you. I'm gonna get you.
Go ahead, Laurie.
Next question down Now too white. That's the thing people say, that's too white.
Yeah, you know what. I've heard that, and I'll tell you why.
I'll tell you that. This is the reason why and this business. When we first started, specially deaf comedy jam circuit, right, we did not have a lot of outlets to showcase your stuff. So we had to create rooms Terminal D, the Manhattan Propers, the other club in Jersey. We had to make our own black pocket of comedy. We didn't wait for white people to say, oh, you come in here. And then a lot of comics in my era got labeled as a deaf jam act, just completely deaf jam. If you did death jam, it was hard to get booked in mainstream rooms can be like this, Oh he's a deaf jam act. He's be doing He's only gonna be talking about this. But I've been lucky enough that when I started, I realized that I need to do the chilling circuit, I need to do the black circuit. But I always was interested in doing mainstream and doing other stuff than just for black people. And once in my community, once a comedian does that and he has the crossover ability, I didn't say sellout crossover ability.
They assume that you are a white comed.
They assumed that because I have relationships with Joe Rogan, Burke Krasers and those people from it.
They're as soon that.
But anybody that come to my show, you go to my show, you can't tell where my base is. When you go to my show, you'll see black, you'll see white, you'll see Asian, you'll see handicap, you'll see he she days and them's and I and I've been able to do that, And a couple of years ago you got guys like I mean, like Earthquake, some more, DC, don Kerry. These are legend legends and they've been doing this circuit for a while. They've been making a lot of money doing the circus. You know, you see these concerts coming around. You always gonna hear her names. And I Extal promoted once and I was doing one of those shows. I said, how did they miss me? You know, how do they keep missing me? He was like, well, Donnelle, I pitched you for this show, he said, but a lot of the promoters think you're a white comedian. And part of that is because I'm sure of it. My association with Dave Chappelle. If you go to a Dave Chappelle concert or a show, it's a mixed group of people.
But people don't remember Dave was Dave was.
Everybody thought he was the white comic and tell Chappelle show.
I tell people all the time, no discredit. I was like Dave.
He was ahead of everybody when he started with Robin Hood, Minnites, whatever, right, he was like the chosen one with Goldberg, Male Brooks. There was a fan and for the most part, the black community they didn't know him like that, but the college community like the Knaka and everything. He was one of the biggest names on the college circuit, right and then killing me softly, but really what broke them? And you know, it's a credit to the team that he put together. I would honestly say the Chappelle Show is really what gave him street creds when everybody saw that he was a beast and you got talent that go through that. Chris Chris Rock example, when Chris Rock was on SNL, he I think he felt kind of similar to what I feel. Like, Wait a minute, man, I'm black. You know what I'm saying? Like, yes, I appeal to these white people in mainstream. But that's why I wanted. Chris Rock's biggest specially was bigger than black and the reason why he had something to prove. That's why he chose to put it at the at the at the apot, That's why he chose to come and let y'all know, motherfucker, I can do this shit for white people. But I don't care how crossover you are. As a black comedian, nothing's going to ever make you feel as good as being able to entertain your own people. Shared likes the stuff that resonates, the stuff that you talk about growing up, the cooked house and all that type shit. That shit feel good, but it's also something to be said that you can cross over. When I started working in New York, the Comedy Seller like one of the best. It's one of the most prestigious clubs in the country, and I wanted to get passed in that club, not to be a dude that hang out there and take the picture in the back. I was like, if you guys say, this is where the best comedians go, that's why I want to be there.
As soon as I got past, I stopped sucking.
With That's crazy though, because I've seen a lot of comedians white and black, and even the stuff that you touch on the show, I came to remember I told you, I'm like, it was when the Diddy Cassie stuff first happened, and I will hit it right off the rick, and I was like, if he don't touch that, he's not the essence of like, was it funny? Well, first of all, I was surprised that he did it, and then when he did it, it was so funny. And I was watching the crowd. I was like a little nervous because it had just happened, but.
I was laughing.
It was I forgot. I said something about, I know one thing. Did he want to throw the towel in right then? I did that.
When I.
Was saying, I'm like, they're gonna get him. Somebody here gonna record this. But they were and they were having a great time.
I was like, and the reason why I did it, you know my brand I hit you all the time too soon with down there rawlins. I said to myself, you know, like the raws comedians are the ones that hit it right out the gate, And whenever there's a joke that I'm nervous about and I'm like, oh man, there's a chance that they may not fuck with me. I'll get canceled. That's the one I'm gonna go to because that's the one nobody else is gonna do. But also there's a fine line of telling the joke and being disrespectful in out of pocket, you know, like I didn't make fun of that situation because I know that it was a bad situation, but the fact that this motherfucker ran out of all and didn't drop that tie and he went and by dexterous, he went from one hand to the next hand. That in that moment that was funny. Next question and the Kim Tumble died. Really, Oh my god, Wow he got a bran cancer. So you mean tell me you're not really paying attention to somebody talking about how are you checking your mother forucking text in the middle of my show?
How do you feel like that every time.
You come up with me, I feel like he has no respect for me like that?
How do you feel is the Donelle two white thing the reason you fired your whole crew and hide an all black crew.
No, I didn't fire that was part of If you go to the podcast, subscribe to the Donnie Rowland Show. It wasn't that, but this is what it was. I was feeling like, wait a minute, there's a lot of white people around here, like.
A lot, and I said, let me make a change. He fired your all white crew. No, they're still there. They still work for you. You know them niggas get you the money over there. Yeah, oh yeah, w yeah, I don't. I didn't. I didn't. I didn't fire everybody. Oh okay, okay, they don't want to don't say that. I say that.
I just moved in and I wanted to be experimental and moved in a different direction. White people do it, and by fire note, we're gonna move in a different direction.
That's what it was. Next question, I'm.
Looking on them Rolins show. You said a toxic man is worse than a toxic woman.
I said in that show, I said, what's worse than being in a toxic relationship with a woman is having a toxic relationship with a man that you work with. And I know that, Envy and Charlotte Magne, this is where you guys can connect with that. You mean, the toxicity in this room. Y'all don't always get along. And the worst thing is that you're supposed to always get along. I know, but I said, the worst thing is like having a toxic relationship that should be reserved somebody that you're in love with, you dating married or whatever like that. But when you start having that type of relationship in the workspace, that's when it's crazy, because then you'd be like this, what the fuck are.
You?
Ain't toxic?
And you said, we don't agree, but it ain't toxic.
I mean, I beg to differ. I don't know.
I got to suit on up and want to say that I said that you should not wear a suit and I say, I bet you. I can't wait to say And you say that to say what?
And your point is all right? Continue with your comment? What did you say? I saw Teddy swims Hi he was half lose, come roll when I'm not next to you. I love that song. He saw you singing about Diddy? Anybody sing about Diddy?
I said this something kinda controlling me lately, And I don't know myself any more. Feels like the world is all closing it and the devil.
Is knacky that high heart in my mind? How many times.
Did I tell you? Because I'll give a fun. This is my last time up here, swift One said. Teddy said that was the top five moment of his life. Was what you singing that song on stage?
You ain't see that? Yeah, I mean yeah he did.
I want to say he's splitting my damn, but he communicated for me with somebody.
But it was good. I liked the song.
The funny thing about it, black guy singing uh uh. Being a fan of Teddy swim and most black people don't swim, so that's very ironic.
But I like his music.
It's very passionate. And if you listen to that album, I think that I might need therapy. I forget the name of it, but it was that album reminded me of It put me in the mindset of when Usher did Confessions, when Anthony Hamilton did.
Like his Joint.
Somebody that's actually going through it in their life and it resonated through their music. He's a dope artist. I think that that album only came.
Out like last year. I've tried everything but therapy, and I know you're like that because you're on that therapy ship.
That's perfect. You'll like a lot of those songs. You'll be like this, Oh my God, this is my life.
Are you still a swifty? I don't fuck with that bitch now.
I mean, queen, they're about to put that picture, they about to take that picture running all through social media. I think it's.
I just jokeing.
It was just a moment. It was we had a moment. We had our time, we had our time. The song h what was the song? I like, Oh no, it wasn't now it was anti hero. It's me, Hi, I'm the problem because that's when I was going through a point in my life where and you noticed as a mental head, motherfucker, sometimes mental health, nigga, whatever you call yourself. Yeah, you know, sometimes you have to look in the mirror and ask myself, is it me?
Is it you?
Am I the problem? And even the relationship like you was talking about on my podcast. I talked about toxic relationship with a guy that you work with. And this is why I had to self check myself because I one particular person I work with. I said, I'm going to do everything this person needs to make them happy or get what they need to get done. I had, Yeah, I did everything. I did a pre production meeting, I just did a lot. I was like Okay, it was an idea he had. I didn't like the idea, but I said, you know what, I could be a guy be like, man, fuck the idea, or I could be the bigger person to say, how can I contribute to make them happy? And I said, it's a wad idea, but I can still make it work. I did all that. Then I came to work and we still had an issue. And that's where the toxicity came in, because I'm like, I did everything I'm like, and I snapped. And one thing I say about this podcast, I don't like this what I'm doing now. It's not the traditional podcast. I call it a reality show about a podcast because some of the interesting things are the things that we talked about before the show and after the show. And I didn't want to have a podcast where and on this week we got so and so I wanted it. It's sort of like somebody said, it's like like almost like Curb Your Enthusiasm and Chappelle's show. On a podcast, you don't know if it's really I don't know if it's fake. Sometime we have some praanks, sometimes we have sketches, but it's different, and I think the pivotal episode is going to be.
A sum the pivotal.
Don't do this, but I think that this episode that features doctor Umar think people get to see me in a different light and doing some other things.
I got it.
Why are you all so me m?
You know.
That's what said, crafting a whole situation because that did like all that stuff has happened right now right I'm listening to everything he just said, and I'm watching you look and I said, did you know to get the statement from this is crazy? But I'm listening to you and I'm watching how the only thing he looked up to say was I doubt that.
Well, nobody's paid attention looking at you.
Fan. Let's talk about your tour dates.
Yeah, I got October fourth, I'm being an n J pack Victoria Theater, New Jersey.
Yeah, and then.
October the twelve and prov and I got a whole bunch of days. If you go to Texas at the weekend after Yeah, if you go to downiell Rawlings dot com, it's all my days I got. I'm booked up until twenty twenty five. And I will say, because the question is always already just did a special? Will it be any new jokes the minute the day that my special drop, I was already thirty five minutes into a new set. So if you come to see my show, you're not gonna get any repeat jokes. And it's gonna be It's gonna be fun, that's what.
And I'm gonna do you let your son watch your stand up?
Yet he come he performs? Oh man, he got a job. I gotta tell you. You know, every kid loved that song.
Uh, they not like us. I don't care how old a y'all. They just I don't know if they know what the song means.
And they they got a version of something like they ride the bus or something like that.
I don't know that though. My son and his friends they say the real song and their favorite and I like the song. I'll be one around house.
They're not like us. And their funny part, favorite part is say Drake like young you better never end up here? What is it about one?
That's their fuck? Their favorite part? And that's one of my parts. So my brother, my son was with his friends. You know, my my baby mother's a lot younger than me, and they were just having a conversation, right and one of the little mathematician. Motherfuckers said how old is your daddy?
A r.
Wow look, and the other one said how old is your mama? Right? And they start you know when kids.
Start adding up on their fingers, they start counting their fingers. They did like this and looked at they said, oh, we know why your father like that song so much.
Right.
And then the kids said, hey, uncle, we heard you like them young. And then my son said, hey, dad, we heard you like them young. And I was say, if you don't get your lass out of my face. But he goes, he'll go on stage. He'll go on stage.
Who keeps funny? You're the Jaral Kelly?
I can't really Jered Kelly's kids are more polished and they take it serious. I think my son, when I'm on the road, he goes to me. I think he likes the idea of like, I want to do what daddy does. He's not taking it serious, and I'm not pushing him in that direction. You know, anybody you would think, especially if you got a son, you your every daddy's feelings like this, Oh I want them to follow my footsteps whatever. But I and I tell him one time, I said, what you want to do. He said, I want to be in entertainment. I'm like, I don't do that because I know when it comes with job. I'm like, you don't want to do this. And I was like, why do you want to do this? And he said, can y'all pay attention to you now? They're not looking at want to do this?
Because I'm sitting here trying to figure out why you didn't let him be. Man, you be trying to push me to get on stage because I.
Think you're funny, no disrespectful.
I'm listening.
He's in his folk had the reason why I'll tell you why I want to push you, and the reason I won't push my son because my son doesn't have no excitement about it. And when I asked him, don't let me explain, he don't. He's just like, Daddy, I want to do He's not like that. He'll be I was like, why do you want to do entertainment? He said, Daddy, because you inspire me. But the thing is, I told him because my son sometimes he get emotional, right, And I tell him, I said, listen, if you're gonna do this, you gotta have tough skin, because I said, ninety five percent of the time, you're gonna get rejected, people gonna hate on you, they're not gonna support you. So if this is something you really want to do, you got to have tough skin to do it, or don't even think about do. I tell anybody that if you can't handle the beginning of it, if you can't handle being broke most of your career, you then don't do it, you know. And that's why I don't encourage him, but I support him. Sometimes he wants to go on, sometimes he don't. He just cares about being in the green room ordering chicken fingers and and Charlie Temples with with with extra cherries, and you're selling so yeah, that's crazy.
Because you barefoot in the pictures with So did you start wearing socks because because it was slippery on the boat.
I know you're like this color, that's for you, pinky.
Can you tell us which rooms were slippery on the boat?
I don't safe from?
It was a safe from, all right, it's a quality socking. You go to Donnan Rawlins dot com and you'll get it. But I will just like weed, Oh it was in my bag.
I know you enjoy that.
But the reason why because I know I've been around you. You had a funny sense of humor, and I just lord, yeah, yeah, she always and she called me, she'd be like, she's really excited not about standing up, about doing improv. And I ain't mad at death. But certain people I just think they have a natural ability and they should give it a shot. And I always and I'm not gonna do it, even tho. I told her to come to my show in Jersey.
And I come, yeah, I did. Why would I get on I'm not a stand up Comedy is so different. Yes, wanting to I wanted to improve improv. It goes into so many different things. It goes into like wait here and reporting into like just things but what I'm not on stage. But I think comedy comedians should be very honest with people who should not.
Be convinced hard things comedy like I can talk.
We have a good time, especially if we're drinking.
But I hear you, I hear you. I'm listening.
I hear that's what you do the black women and this is but now I know, I didn't know you have every other Eastern But that's aggressively.
Are you not aggressively?
Because everybody thinks you're angry, Donelle, And this is why they don't let me tell.
Me why because you said everybody and I don't tell everybody that I don't tell everybody. And the reason why I said the position when you and I know you said you host things right.
It don't require jokes though, Like what I'm saying is joke.
When I told you, don't think joke, Just be funny, just be likable.
What me to give she single? What advice would you give it? The fact that she's single right now?
Single? Why she don't know? To shut up? No, I'm just want to.
Listen to my face and shut the fuck up. Just go up to them and shut it up. You know how you get a mean? You want to mean, You want to get a man shut even if you don't do it all the time. Lord, know the science in the art of knowing.
It's not a real shotting because you know I can't wait.
Look at your face, you like it's this is how you maintain relationship.
Someone want us to sit and shut up?
You're about to make me cry like Tyresa up here. Don't do that, all right? If somebody don't take that nigga phone, please, man, you're so sick of this. Nigga.
Okay, men cry for every other minute. Nigga, you gotta cry for everything. There's no reason for it. Man man grieving.
The man was talking about his mom, passing, his sister, passing Paul Walker, John single, then he has his divorce, his the voice the man's grieving, cut it out, done, cry about everything.
Black people can't have feelings, express their opinions.
I don't even cry once, you know.
I even suggested we come up with a cry day like my Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday cry day when men get together and just cry. But you can't just be crying every other day, anytime anything. You don't even have a reason. Just get together, have a couple of dreams and just cry and get it out. And the reason why because if you don't. When you finally cry, your face looked like ty Reese's face when you that was a cry He should cried years before that.
That What more do you want for me? Cry? Come on?
So he got mad at me. He got mad at me so crazy, you know, he d m me. He was like, yeah, I expect that from people. I don't know because I did a meme. You know that face, right, to Michael Jordan. I did a meme with it, and he took it personal and he said, take the post down.
And I was like, did you take that?
He wrote you?
What does that make a difference?
I want to know.
No, it was a it was a voice. No, it was a it was a text, the demon Take it down now, I ain't take it down for what?
For what? Please?
Have you seen him?
Nig fuck with me?
Cry?
But I know men, black men we cry?
We do?
He sound like Sidney Portier cry.
He looked at angry. Black men don't cry and black women need to shut up?
You know what?
And guess how many better situations if men cry and women shut the fuck up?
Your face don't want.
To do it?
You like holding it?
He like this?
What you look like?
What movie do you want from me? The only think I went last time you cried?
Done?
Hell?
It was.
What something with my son? I did something with my son that reminded me of a relationship I didn't help.
With my father. Oh, con you don't never stop getting nigga and you be fucking with niggas mental.
Yo, Yo, you got on record, y'all, ain't ship talked about my father dying y'all laughed at me, Yes, you did, and then we went viral because I said, when I grew up? Did y'all said, we're not gonna laugh at you and immediately fucked with my childhood trauma. Immediately all your mental health ship went out the goddamn window.
Well, what, you're a comedian, you funny. That don't mean I.
Don't have him.
I can't cry. That don't mean I don't have emotions. But what what that you do with your son? I don't know. I can't remember you said you.
Your dad.
Yeah, I could talk, I talk. I just this is okay.
I don't know exactly when I cried, But this is when I get the most emotional when I look at my son at the age he is right now, and we have an experience that I didn't experience with my dad. You know, That's one of the reasons why I'm so so much into my son's life, because I look at him, my son at seven, at eight, at nine, I was like, where was my dad?
Then?
My dad was locked up then, So I get emotional about that, but I don't really. I ain't fucking crying on tape. I ain't throwing no tissues up and crying for everything. And I just think that I do Black men cry, but you ain't got cryd all the time. But we know you burger can't line. If the burger can't driving through his closes his clothes, you're gonna cry about that.
I wouldn't have it my way.
You don't have to be Brooklyn tough for all your life.
I'm not that. I gotta suit on it. And I beg your pardon? What are you talking about?
We love you now?
I don't like to use that word so long? How many do That's how you pronounce it in Korean? Next question, that's what I.
Love you so long? Homney? Do you don't like we love you down?
Now?
No?
No, no, I understand that where I don't want it from is from y'all. I know for a fact when you were going that y'all with Diddy, he wanted love. That's how he is. He like, give me a He gave you some. But I remember from that yacht and this is going back what you remember what wow? He said?
What I know is that what I saw was like our kids playing with his kids. I saw a family connection. Again, I don't know what happens and like I told you on the phone, I don't know what happens at three cold clock in the morning, right, he was, God, I wanted to stay three coke clock in the morning. I mean that's I mean, you got to leave before three cold clock, three co clock. You'd be having that body brown after that.
Jesus.
But what I know, and I know people like this, yeah, but you're defending anytime you say anything that's a positive, like or how you knew a person, They saying you support that whatever. But I know the event that we went to and the people that was there, it was all positive, family or it.
Was a good time. That's what I know.
We appreciate you for.
When you leave, that's I bet you won't be here tomorrow morning. I bet you got to and here save one for just we should come back.
I'm gonna say what he told you.
Put them on your ankles, man, I know you ain't coming here with Ashynkles telling me I know.
See what I'm talking about.
Your life.
And they like real Ashley in the.
Corner part because let your tap down. No, not.
On them tomorrow, No, not now.
We appreciate you. You didn't for your picture up there. We put your picture on the wall.
No, no, no, no, put your picture on the wall with all the greats that's up here and you no, sister, no.
No, salon, Why can't.
It's not a lot of ship on this wall. Us be quiet, it's not a lot of stand ups. Look, you got eighty five.
You got me bending over. Pause.
You're definitely bending over.
Who you painted that? Didn't you give me? That was your part? You got that far. You said give me the pen.
You got baby on your baby in your head, and we did just way.
Before the baby is the level of disrespect, he continues, in this room, I just want to say in close it chuck.
You know what that means? Shut up down that way for joining. I don't know, I don't.
Don't worry about my trust me. I'm not the only one not worried.
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God, damn, what the hell, what more do you want from me?
And don't put the mic on your forehead like that again.
Y'all had that politician making niggas go to sleep up in here. Cut it out, somebody was bored and ship wrap that ship.
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