If Somebody Unfollows You On Social Media, Will Your Real Life Relationship Be In Question?
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List listen, attention. Let me tell y'all just something. If you ever want to unfollow me and I'm following you, please tell me you're following me so that I know so that I can on follow you back. It's no pressure, but I'm not going to be sitting around following somebody or don't follow me back then when it's like we're supposed to be cool, is what I'm saying. So that's just the heads people are y'all. People are weirds. Please give me your heads up, please, because I have no problem I'm following you. Mother is back. I follow too many people anyway.
All right, So the question is eight hundred five eighty five one oh five one. If somebody unfollows you on social media, does that put your real life friendship in question?
That is the question. Let's start with you on sanity.
That is crazy.
I hate that we're in those days and times you want to follow somebody and you can't get no gravy at things giving everybody acting all funny. It's ridiculous. I told my own story. I wanted to focus a little more on social media. I tried to unflower everybody. I made it halfway through and I was getting facetimes three am or I didn't know.
We had beef.
Just because you're gonna follow somebody, just people take.
That as a sign of like the relationship.
People take that as a way to figure out how do you feel about a person, instead of just texting saying yo, are you good?
Is everything? Okay?
It's the strangest thing in the world, But that's the world we live in nowadays.
Charla Mine, I could care less if you unfollowed me right now, I wouldn't even notice, you know.
What I mean.
And the reality is there's a lot of people we follow and they not even our friends, you know what I mean. So it don't matter to me either way. It's just social media. At the end of the day, we don't care.
Yeah, I'm with you. I don't care.
Like Charlam they said, there's people that I follow that it's not my friends. I just find things interesting, Like I like cars, so I meant I follow people that own cars or talk about cars. That's things that I'm meant to, you know. So I really don't care if you have to unfollow me. I'm not following you because you follow me. I'm following you because you know something that you put up is of some kind of interest to me.
Yo, you know what just occurred to me. The people that know when you followed them right away, it's because they have the app that watches that.
So they're freaks already.
Yeah, there is.
A why would you know? How would you know that somebody checking? I don't have no clue.
Honestly.
If I'm telling you why I followed people in about three am, I'm not joking about that. They were calling me. It's because they have that app. So the fact that you even downloaded it shows that you're a freak.
I haven't even I don't know if I've ever unfollowed a person, because there're people that I don't even deal with anymore that I still follow.
I don't know. Maybe you know what. That's a good question.
I deal with you.
I never thought about that.
I think.
Have you on the mute button? Do y'all use the mute?
I use block, I use block on the block, I do block.
Okay, I'm more of a muter.
If you're constant selfies as she faced too many memes, I'll mute you, right, But I cannot stand the like over sexual post like you know, those guys are just Every.
Meme is just and it's nine am you know what I mean? Or the cartoon kinky stuff. I mute those kind of people.
I don't if you know what, I'm not that kind of person. Like if I don't rock with you know what, that's not the first thing I think of.
I gotta go and find. I don't think. But if you if you.
Pop up on my I don't want to see.
I don't want to.
I'm with that.
Especially when you acidentally go in somebody's story. You don't rock with no more.
You look at it, you like I made a mistake again.
If you check your story views, I think you're a freak. I think that's strange to me. What are you looking for?
If you check your story.
If you check your watch your story, especially us.
Do you know what I mean?
Story views we get you know how hardest to find out who's to that's kinky. You ever watch my story and they call you, it's because you're watching Veronica.
Hey, good morning mama, Good morning morning.
Now, if somebody unfollows you on social media, does that mean that they're not your friends in real life?
Of course? Of course. Social media is how we connect and like support each other these days, like you want to accept it or not. It's like a main point of communication. If you don't want to follow me or support me or like what I have going on, there's no way you mess with me in real life.
Well what did this person support you in real life?
Like?
What if this person comes to your birthday parties and they text you and they call you just because they don't follow you on social media? You going dead in the real life situation.
Yeah, they like you, but maybe that they don't want see you in your kids.
If somebody followed, if I don't follow the audience because I don't support what they got going, I don't like what they post, see you on my timeline, So we gotta we gotta trap that first like, why am I solf irritating to you? Where you got to follow me?
Whatever? The thing too?
Right?
If I'm somebody friend in real life and I see you on social media and I know that's not you, I'm gonna unfollow you. I al gonna say something to you, like why are you acting like that on social media? That meant even how you act in real life?
You know what I mean. I may not like you on social media but might like you in real life.
But I will say this, Like I said when we first started the Breakfast Club, I used to DJ probably six nights a week, right, So every night I'm posting a party fly and people be like, look, no disrespect MV. I don't want to see them flies. Especially I used to do the stript clubs all the time. I don't want to see all the strict club I get it. I understand. I never took things personal.
Is it better?
Hey?
All right, guys, good morning everyone morning.
So somebody unfollows you on social media? Does that means you're not friends in real life?
I'm a little bit because social media's has something to be taken seriously. But if we are.
Friends on social media and then you unfollow me.
It's obviously for a reason. And if you don't have, if you're able to tell me that reason in person, then obviously we're not fined.
Now, Isabelle, Maybe I disagree.
Maybe you got maybe posting pictures with your man and your friend just lost to man. She ain't got no man. She singles lonely and every time she sees you.
Her problem.
But that's her problem.
She should be happy for me, you know, I think I never did with friends, So you should be like clopping.
For me and happy for me that I'm doing good in life.
Y'all take social media way too serious. Man.
If you my peoples in real life, I don't care how we get down on social media. There are people that I love, genuinely consider family, and they do what Mona was trying to do. Don't follow nobody. I don't take that personal. Why they might follow two or three people, I don't take it personal.
I don't either. Eight hundred five eight five.
One of them talking about just hllarrus too. By the way, that out just follows five people.
I've been I've been up followed just for that.
Why did you? Why do y'all do that? I meant to ask just why she do that?
For just Jesse, if I'm not mistaken, just follows her businesses. So in that way is a way to promote, because people want to know who you're following. So when you press that following for Jess, you get to see everything she has glasses to yours, you know, a podcast, whatever.
Right now, you're just why you don't follow me? You Jess, why you don't follow me?
She followed eight people, but she's been like that for years. My point is that's on following you now, Jess. That don't bother me, is what I'm saying.
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Mobby Lights said this on social media yesterday.
Attention. Let me tell y'all just something. If you ever want to unfollow me and I'm following you, please tell me you're following me so that I know so that I cann't follow you back. It's no pressure, but I'm not going to be sitting around following somebody that don't follow me back then when it's like we're supposed to be cool, is what I'm saying. So that's just the heads up. People are y'all, people are weirds. Please give me your heads up, please, because I have no problem. I'm following your mother back. I followed too many people anyways.
We're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If somebody unfollows you on social media, does that put your real life friendship in question?
I don't care.
You have right now there you have. I think it's an age thing. I think for the young people they grew up on social media. A lot of us are introduced to social media in our twenties, so it's like with them, it's a different kind of pressure for them.
I mean, for the love of God.
All the young criminals, their crime doesn't even count unless they post it.
So that's right, that's the fact, you know what I mean.
So they think differently, So maybe that is the reason.
But it was grown people calling me about I'm following them and I'm not going to say any names, Jason, but people call me at three in the morning.
I didn't know we had b Do you got BP? Jason?
No?
I love Jason, and I don't followed them.
You follow them back?
I had to.
It was on what was on a wire? Baby?
That's crazy, that's real.
Hello.
Who's this Hi?
This is Bonnie.
Hey Vonnie.
Now it says this happened to you yesterday. You want to follow somebody?
No, him followed me.
He hit already, damn like, it's not No, it's not You're right.
They heard her feeling, so he smashed and hen followed you.
No, quite some time?
You said you watched quite some time. Yeah, we've been well, y'all been hunching.
But y'all broke up, obviously, But y'all broke up.
Correct?
He said that on.
A break from Hello.
How long was y'all together?
We've been best friend.
He probably don't followed you because your phone is trash. You probably got tired. You've been trying to.
Have these conversations with you while the phone keep going in and out.
If he don't followed, he probably moved on, Mamma. He didn't tell you they.
Were best friends for years. They've been dating for months. Yes, yeah, he moved girl.
No, he didn't move on. He's just doing that to make you mad. He just doing that to see if you still feel.
He absolutely did.
That's all. That's all.
But he might have a new girl, and this new girl said, I know, you.
Know, you know he don't got no new girl. He just doing that to fish you off. And it probably just happened yesterday.
Can't Hey, So just on the topic of the day. No, I don't think it means that somebody's not your friends, but you don't because you follow them. I mean, I got a homegirl. She posts nothing but news. She's still my homegirl. I love her the same, but I don't want to see all her lady parts on what I log in the I G you know, it's kind of like what, don't call me white girl said? The cool people don't follow anybody. It's like an energy you see when you log on social media, certain things you just don't want to see.
That's the first thing I thought, kimkh person, I know that can do that.
Well, Brandon out one of our producers up here and said, if she's posted news, what's her.
I g p.
Man going on with it? Got it?
I wouldn't know what it looks.
Man.
It's a lot of people on Twitter and no, but Twitter is the place for all the salacious stuff.
Twitter is porn poring on Twitter?
What somebody else?
You know, as you get on Twitter, you want to see some kind of sex scene or something.
I haven't been on Twitter since like twenty eighteen.
You're just missing porn.
That's it.
That's about it.
What now Twitter?
I never see porn, so they say it's usually what you watch. So if you're a porn watching what you're trying to say, I'm saying, if you're porn watching, not me all the time?
Sometimes orgy.
I don't know, mona, No, So why is it just in all the porn for you?
I couldn't figure it out myself.
It's crazy.
Now look you see this, you see rumors, you see no, that was Brittany Twitter.
Now it's Twitter right here.
It's actually she looks no pawn will pull on you, pawn, No pawn.
He's skimming past porn. We'll just pretending that or not.
I don't got Twitter is not good for my mental health.
I ain't been on Twitter since twenty nineteen. Twitter is what you watch.
I go on to Twitter and I try to like talk to my people, but I'm off immediately because Twitter's rough.
Twitters rough, especially Elon Musk Twitter, because.
It's a totally different thing.
Elms Twitter Musky exactly.
He's stupid man looking at porn.
Porn not shut Yeah, i'morroll of the story is. Man, if you know that just your people in real life, you shouldn't care about what happens online.
You know what I'm saying.
If I can pick up the phone and call you, text you, if you're showing up for me in real life, I could care less.
You know what you do on social media personally.
All right, Well, when we come back, we got your room report. We gotta talk Young Miami people are hollered at her dad and she ain't She ain't really feeling it. We'll discuss when we come back. It's the breakfast Uggle morning