Best Of Full Interview: Jasmine Guy Talks Relationship With Tupac, Jada Pinkett Smith, Freaknik, Hollywood + More

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Wake that ass up in the morning. The Breakfast Club Morning.

Everybody is DJ en vy Ess hilarious, Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club and we got a special guest in the building, the legendary Jasmine Guy. Welcome back, Good morning.

How are you feeling.

I felt great.

I love doing your show the last time and I got a lot of positive feedback.

I love you. Yeah, come on.

It was a different kind of interview though than there. You to My daddy was like, you were a little too comfortable. You act like they were at your house. Champagne, right, yes, champagne whatever that was. I didn't even like it, and I was drinking that. But my father said that you would put more in when I was looking at Kadeen.

That's what he said.

He said, whenever you looked at Kadeen before, more in there. So I'm I'm thinking, I'm just drinking one glass.

Were probably have four.

Swanty whatever, but I'm drinking anywhere at seven o'clock in the morning.

Embarrassing, is that you talking? You was just sitting back there just laughing.

No, No, it was good because you ask questions that people don't usually ask. You know, we get the same questions over and over, especially about a different world. And I just like that it went into other areas of my life and my career and his too, because anybody can look at any interviews we've done and get those answers. It's the same answer, you know what I mean? So can we talk about something else? You know, can we bring it to another element that hasn't been explored with us?

And you've done so much more since since, absolutely, like right now, you want your first Emmys went.

For the Chronicles of Jessica Woo. Yes, that was a trip.

So I was going to Mexico to hang out with my girlfriends, and I land and I get all these checks from people saying congratulation on your Emmy nomination, and I really thought people would messing with me.

I didn't even call them back. I said whatever.

I wasn't even And then when I realized I really had been nominated, I thought it was for the show Harlem.

Okay, okay.

Chronicles of Jessica Woo. I had done two. It was before COVID. It was a long time ago, and I only worked on it for a day. It was a very interesting project to me because the production company was a couple a small black production company. The superhero in the in the p had autism, but her powers that whatever put her on the spectrum made her a superhero. Their daughter had an autistic child anyway, So I said, well, I'll do it because I know after this they're gonna need distribution.

And who knew that's what you know.

What I'm saying, my love for them and what I know about you know, pitching ideas. You're gonna need a name. I know I've heard it all. And I said, well, I'll be your name. This is gonna be good. And it was a short series, like a wepisode series. The other Oscar nomination I got was also from an independent black company and it was my nephew Emmett, and I played im mitills aren't on the night that he was taken from their home, and I was like, oh shit, I do not want to go to Mississippi.

And I'm telling you.

We stayed right down the street from where he got abducted.

Mississippi still got that same energy.

Thank you change I was gonna say, I felt ghosts, yeah you know, And I did it, and they got nominated for an Oscar night. When the director called me, he was a graduate student from NYU Film School. His mentors with Spike Lee and Casey Lemmon's right Beautiful Brother, and the and the crew and everybody. I had a great artistic experience. But when he told me we, you know, we got nominated for an Oscar, I thought he was messing with me.

That saunds a lot though, like about how you know.

I guess black actors and actresses are conditioned in Hollywood that when they get told that they're even nominated, they don't believe it.

Well, when you ignored long enough, you got the message. I got the message. If you're not nominating a different world, Debbie Allen, Susan fails our wardrobe department, any other actor on that show. I stopped focusing on y'all giving me my props. I know who gives me my props. And I told the actors, I said, we just gotta be good, you know, forget all these accolades or whatever.

They obviously do you.

Know how many times they said to me, even on I think I did Dennis Miller, remember Dennis Malanta talk show. He started with, so how does it feel being between number one and three? And I was stunned because I just sat down, you know, you come out all cute and whatever. And I was like, he said, that wasn't a good lead in question. I said, no, it wasn't.

You're talking about Cosby and Tears.

Everybody said we were number two because we came between them, Okay.

And that was the first question. That was the message.

That was the message that we got this actors as you know, performers, and we never got our props for not not just the acting, but it was Debbie Allen, Susan fails me.

Three black women in charge of that show. You know what I mean?

We could have been on the cover of Essence, and I just knew who really saw us and who really understood us?

Why when that worked?

Fight for that's the same white motherfuckers said.

Cold up to date, you came to the right shows.

You can't say that word, so you can go back here the same white motherfuckers make sure you forget.

It's the same world. Just look, okay.

So Carcy Warner, our producers also produced a show with Whoope Goldberg called Bag That Cafe, Grace, under Fire in The Roseanne Show and the Cosmic Show. Right, so we're one of five. They never asked us to do anything. They asked Roseanne bar to sing the national anthem, in which she grabbed her crotch because she can't sing. But we got five singers on our show. You could have had don me kree. You know, never when we got offered things that would have.

I don't know. I just got things.

We got things on our own, and I never felt a part of that network. Then when I saw what happened with Friends, I was like, Yo, that would have helped us. It would have helped us with work after the show. It would have given us some props, you know that we could have used for future projects.

I pitched a lot.

I have my own production company After a Different World. All of my projects were rejected, but then I started to see them that was which ones.

Yeah that.

I had a TV idea about a young woman that inherited a sweatshop in the garment district from her gay friend that died of AIDS and but she still saw him as a ghost.

I had even talked to Rue Paul about being my ghost. You know.

They was just everything was a reason not to do it. But then I would see a white girl do it. Then I had this idea about what was the name of that spy show.

It was a.

French movie, independent movie, Anda Okay, So I thought this would be fierce well Robin Givens. So I wrote up a treatment for a pilot version of it. No Robin Givens, but a white American girl doing it. So I was like, well, I know my ideas are valid, but I just started divorcing myself like a bad relationship.

Stop asking for what you know you're not gonna get.

I didn't have a parking space like Don Johnson after Miami Vice.

You know, he was the star of the number two show on the network, one of the biggest shows on television. On it too, right, no o, I thought you reduce on it. No, but even even still a star of that show can't have.

A parking spot.

I had a parking spot, but he had a production deals.

When I'm saying, after you did Miami Vice, he had a production deal, you know.

And I don't know.

I just thought that we were we were ready and well equipped to move on into other areas. I definitely wanted to be a producer because I had met so many people on a different and I wanted to bring this writer with this director, you know, and the ideas that I had were not being done. The Dorothy Dandrids story, I pitched that for years. I had to educate first, who's the arthy dying dry? I told them it wasn't condescending. And I didn't want to say the black Marilyn Monroe because that's all they understand is a black version of what we already know. So I don't use that term when I'm pitching. And the movie got done. It just got done without me. And after a while, I said, Okay, I understand, you know what I mean. It's like a bad relationship. After a while, you gotta understand, Okay, I ain't what you want.

This is, and this is, and so is all of this and other things.

I'm sure as what leads up to Uncensored Jasma God like, Yeah, you know what's steel?

Like?

I did uncensored because I did Intimate Portrait on lifetime. I did Unsung, but they were in different decades of my life. I mean, Intimate Portrait must have been in my forties and then fifties, and now I'm in my sixties. And I said, I may have a different perspective on my truth. The same things happen, but I feel differently about them. I have a different perspective and I'm not I'm trying not to be so precious about my private life because I really do this. When people get like, you know, that's mine. I feel like I do enough with my work for the public. That is my gift to the audience, That is my way of communicating. You don't need to know who I'm sleeping with their business, don't need to be in the street.

You from that era, though, Like that era was you didn't really see your favorite celebrity, favorite actress, favorite actor, and when you did, everybody went batshit crazy because you never did. Like our favorite celebrities growing up as a kid, we didn't know who they dated. We didn't know where they went to, we didn't know where they lived, we didn't know any of that. And that was part of the mystique of them being a superstar celebrity.

But it's also private.

I don't feel like I didn't understand why celebrities were saying private things.

When nobody even asked you.

That you'll make you talk.

I'm like, why are you nobody asked you? Nowadays, I so with the oh, and I also get an Instagram.

I mean I've had an account, but.

My makeup artist said when he went on my social media that it was vented, not the V word that I had not post. I said, I don't know what to post. I don't know what's interesting because work fulfill so many parts of me. If I'm not working, I really don't have nothing to say. What I did today, I colored, I did crossword puzzles.

People are into that, They're into your life outside of just acting into what does Jasmine guy do?

What does she enjoy?

What is she like?

You know, because we know.

Who you are on.

Like a fumous boring people want to see that.

They want to understand that. They want to see what your life's like. If you just sit outside and you knit all day, what.

Are you knitting? Why?

And to be honest with calms you down? Because maybe what calms you down will helped calm me down. Maybe something that you do can help guide me through my life. So people are into what people do.

And now we need some boring shit because like everybody's wilding out here I'm talking about So.

I'm interested in what you be knitting. I want to see my next Afghan.

No, but it's kind of like that I like calm. I love my friends. My favorite thing in the world is when my friends come by my apartment. And I live in Midtown in Atlanta, so I'm accessible because in New York I used to have an apartment on seventy eighth Street between Columbus and Central Park. Everybody come through there. If you lived in Queens, if you lived in Jersey, You're gonna come by my and I love that, and so that's one of my favorite things is having my people over.

And I've been cooking to I've been watching TV.

People like to see what does Jasmine got cooked? What's your favorite meal?

Well, I'm trying to make the perfect chicken wing for me.

No, I've made them and make them every week, but for me, other people eat them and they're okay, but I want a certain consistency I think. I'm I can't get a deep fryer because of my apartment. I can't have it on the on the patio. So I've tried all different kinds. They're good and I've done the marinading and everything.

Also, I've learned meatballs.

I got a good meatball let people like and.

It's a it's real and port.

I'll make you some turkey, Teresa, No, chrisa sport too, I make you some.

But I gave a cheesecake.

So I'm using my mother's cheesecake recipe and I'm just doing them over and over until I get it.

My daddy is my guinea pig.

He has to try out my food and give me notes, tell me if it's dried, you know.

And my friend Jamala loves my cheesecakes.

So I made one for the house, gave it to her and I was like, you know, let me know how it is or whatever.

She gave her mother one piece and she ate the rest of it.

That's because she's had three whole cheese cases.

Yeah, she love anything.

I'm like, okay, Jamala, let me tell you what's in this because you can't.

So she wrote a book about her daughter.

It's a children's book called Mommy, I Think I Have Diabetes. She found out her daughter as diabetes, but it was from her daughter.

This was a true story.

She made a children's book, and I said, your second book is going to be Mommy. I think you got you beating whole cheesecakes, right, I'm glad you like them and whatnot, But you know, you can't beating the whole one.

Yeah, I gotta ask you.

Know you mentioned earlier that you know when you do these interviews, people ask the same questions about a different world. Are you tired of being of talking about a different world since you had I mean that was thirty years ago, but then I stirty seven thirty seven?

Wow?

But then I see you on the HBCU tours going from school to school. I see you having those conversations. Are you just done with talking about that part of your life?

I'm not done with that part of my life because people are exploring, they're asking me the same things. What's your favorite episode? They want me to see the wedding show. That wasn't my favorite episode, that's your favorite episode. I love when the kids ask questions. So we go to these schools, we have a moderator. This past when we did spell them in Morehouse and Clark, we had seven of us.

I love that too.

Usually it's no more than four of us. And when the kids get to ask the questions, their questions are different. They're not asking those same things. I mean, really, you could do your research and know the answer already, of course, but the kids are like when you were nineteen blah blah blah when you first left home. What did you think about your character this? I mean intelligence, especially them Spellman girls. First of all, they acted like we were rock stars. They were just after shame when we came out. Then one girl said, Miss Charnell, Miss Charnell, I want to thank you for being a presence for dark skinned girls. Miss Jasmine, thank you for showing me confidence. And Miss Cree, thank you for being the odd ball.

That was her.

There you go. Thank you.

Yeah, she was saying, I see you and you helped me see me. And you don't know you're doing all that when you're just playing your role, you know, But I know Debbie knew.

I knew Debbie knew what she was doing when she hired Korea and Seanell that second season. It was very deliberate.

I was just talking about Sean.

I was, yeah, what were you saying?

We had a whole conversation about who was the most beautiful on a different world, and you know, he turned into that.

I was like, man, Kimberly Reach was the one.

He was the one.

You think this should you think there should be another show or maybe they should relaunch it? And the reason is last time I tell you the reason I went to college and HBCU and Hampton was because I seen a different world and I wanted that experience coming from Queen's right, I was like, I want that. I don't know if people see that anymore, if they see what a college looks like and the experience and not just you know, the partying, but real life, real situations and everything going on.

I think that's missing.

It is not there.

And I thought when we did, you know, because when I did a Different World, we were coming off school days and it was you know, months in between the projects.

So it felt like we're a part of a wave.

I didn't know that it crested and was over because Fox started with Rock Dutton show, some bad show even you know before Martin, and once they got launched, they dropped those black shows.

Same with c W. You saw what happened with the Game.

But I thought we were part of a new, I don't know, a new entertainment phase for black people.

It wasn't renaissance, but it was over.

After Cosby left it. They just snatched everybody off. They couldn't wait to get our time slot.

Yeah, I've had a lot of conversations about that. I feel like after the nineties it was an intentional It was intentional and strategic by Hollywood to change the image of black people.

I really feel that.

We think so too, Charla Mane.

It went from great scripted shows where people had jobs and Caribs to reality television.

Wait, they don't have to pay nobody until you make it big or whatever.

And now even with Harlan and I loved that show and I love doing it, and I don't understand the streaming thing. Amazon had us for ten ten episodes of first season eight, the second season, this season six. So what you're doing, I don't know. We have to do twenty two episodes a season. What you're doing is you can't give anybody long enough work, right, So the writers on a series, they're given up four or five months. They're getting paid, but now six, that's two months working. I don't know, And I don't know why they're doing it with Harlem because people like that show, you know what I mean, And it shows Harlem in a beautiful way. It's vibrant and alive, and it's not gray and boarded up like the Harms like you know, it ain't coolly high and cornbread early in me Harlem. It's a celebration, So I don't know why they're not committing. I find it selfish that you don't give a show enough legs to succeed.

And let Tracy oli her do what she do.

I had so much influence, you know Jamaine du previous here yesterday really and that they did.

A Freaknik documentary. Oh have you ever.

Been a Freaknick? No.

I was in LA during that time, but I've heard about it. They shutting down nine twenty. There were a lot of babies made during that sure.

They said that actually Different World made Freaknick even bigger. I guess you had an episode where the girls talked about going to Freaknik and not telling their parents.

Oh yeah, the younger crew like Jada and them.

Yeah, And they said that amplified it a thousand. So many people watching.

Different World, it was like, we're going down to freaking you call some people to get pregnant. Day's Child's question is God, you find a sense of vindication in this award at this stage of your career.

No, you know what I felt.

I was really surprised at how happy I was when I when I got it. I really felt like I won that award for a different world in Atlanta.

Wow.

And I say Atlanta because when I got to New York, I had been trained that I had been poured into, you know, with my dance schools, my teachers and performing our school, I went to my.

Church, you know.

And then I also knew that even though I was glad that the show won, you know, Jessica Wo, I just felt like it was for a different world.

It's for what nobody you know.

Got back then you dedicated your award to a different That's the reason why, just because you felt like, yeah, I.

Was like, this is ours.

Because I know what made that show good, and I know we didn't get our props.

That's right from white people.

I have six Image Awards to Soul Trained Awards.

Because they know what that does.

It gives you power in the Hollywood system. We're not giving them that. That's so disrespectful to me. It's not like a person I could cuss out. It's just a cloud of white people, like white Hollywood. Because if that show would just look what they do with friends and what they did with living single, just look at the publicity, how much money they made, They were at the Golden Globes.

They got movies power.

We are no less talented and the writing was awesome on the Different World because they're doing deep subjects and they have to keep us funny because the network wanted us funny. They said, well, if we're gonna do this age show, how are we gonna make it funny? Well, maybe Whitney's gonna lose her virginity during what's the B line? That's gonna not make it so heavy? You know, they have to do that for everything the Riot show that they have to still mix in the humor. And I think we did that well and that Susan fails Hill. I'm so proud of lean A Wade and Easta Ray to see them as showrunners and starring and this and that. I'm like, Oh, they are fierce, and I hope they get their props.

But I wonder, how do you think this recognition of the award contributes to the broader conversation about diversity and representation in Hollywood, especially for like o G veteran actresses like yourself who've made significant contributions.

Over a decade.

Okay, so what like what does this do?

Like the award has to do something being that Javelin I can still be so good at this stage in her career that she's still Oh.

Yes, it does feel validating. And I even said when I accepted the award, you know, thank you for keeping me in this community, because the creative community is my world, whether it's in the New York or LA or Atlanta. You know, valid my people, and you know, with the pandemic and then six seven months on strike, I'm like.

I need to work. I need to be with my people.

You know, I need other creatives. I need stories at lunchtime. And that goes for everybody that goes for him makeup, wardrobe. Everybody is expressing themselves and there's a virtual connection to that.

So I did feel that way.

But it has been good to see my peers like Regina King, Victoria Mahony, Sally richardson the Girls that I was like acting with doing like directing and killing it like that, and Tasha Smith directed the last episode.

I did a Harlem.

That's nature of nature.

As my girl.

We needed it. It was a very long day. It was a long shooting day, and her energy was and what I was so impressed was was her technical acumen. She really knew her cameras, you really knew what she wanted. She had to map out a ten page scene, which is very long for you know, anything from movie or TV scene, and I don't know, she just did a beautiful job. It was the only episode I've done on that show where I saw other people, because all my episodes that were Gray Spyers. She's my daughter, well i'm her mother, I should say she's and everybody was there at this event, so I got to see Bebby Smith was there, Whoopy was there. I don't know what was exciting. I was kind of fanned out too. Yeah, it's amazing.

I've seen a clip that was released from You Uncensored and it talks about being a mixed child. Was that very difficult in the industry going at that time where you're going up for auditions and people are saying, well, she's not white or and then well maybe she's.

Not black enough. Was that difficult?

Well?

I always defined myself as a bla black, but I didn't get roles because I was too light sometimes or I got like the my first after I left Alvin Ailey, I did musical theater Broadway and whatnot, and then I started taking acting classes and going out for auditions, and I played three hoes before I go with Ley. I'm just saying, I asked my agent. I was like, is this normal?

Yes, I played a prostitute.

On the Equalizer, I played a hoe on Loving, which was so a soap opera back then.

And then on my third when I said, okay.

Is this and I was nailing them whatever it is about.

Ship before I got back to my formare, I was like, okay, but.

Yeah, you tap into to be able to like really play a hope.

The way they write it, they usually write I usually do sarcasm well, and they're usually snarky.

You know.

Now the other activities the I mean on the Equalizer, I was the whole that they bought for the guy that just came out of prison. Oh my god, this scene was nasty and I'm like surprised, and I come out and I'm supposed to do him because he's just been in prison. And then in the scene he starts coughing and I say, you catch something nasty where you've.

Been and he grasps me by the hair and slams me on.

Trauma.

I got a little too snarky, but I didn't know that that should have been blocked.

I didn't.

It was one of my first acting jobs. So because I'm a dancer, I was able to go, you know, slam myself down. All you have to do is, you know, and make it look like he was just and then fall and I did it over and over in The director was like, are you okay. It wasn't until after that I talked to some of my actor friends and they were.

Like, nobody blocked you.

Nobody.

I said, no, it was just like a you know, a dance move or whatever.

But yeah, then when I auditioned for a Whitley, first of all, they didn't even have her name yet. It was Sydney slash Whitney, a black Southern bell. I'm like, things that make you go a black Southern bell, you don't know say anyway, she was hitting on her professor for an a in the scene.

Another horror.

Yeah, we're ruffles.

But when I got on the set, now she's a virgin and she doesn't know what's going on in the world. It's just interesting because you play things based on who they tell you you're supposed to be, and then as actors we often do backstories and you know, make up something that got us to this point, so we have something to lean on. But yeah, I was thinking, Wow, I guess I'm just gonna be. It wasn't that I was playing a horror prostitute. It was just that I wanted to play all kinds of characters. Yeah, I've always wanted that.

Yeah, got to ask a question, This is a personal question. When you started off dancing as a child, right, did you know what direction you wanted to go into? So I got two girls that dance, right, and then I travel all over the country, damn with these these little babies. And I mean they are amazing. One one first prize overall seven year old or one thousand girls first prize.

But what Yes, they get busy. They take it serious.

Six days a week, four hours a day, gymnastics, flipping, backflip dancing.

Whoa, it's a lot.

But I've learned to love it, like really enjoy it. But you know, as a dad, I always think, like, well, what's next after dancing? Like what do you do as a dance Like when you get to high school and college, Like what happens from that? Did you know what you wanted to do going into Alvin Aley.

And Okay, So when I was a little kid, I thought I just kept asking for more classes, like once a week. Saturday turned into three turned into five.

You know.

And when I saw Alvin Ale and I saw revelations, I realized that I could do this as a job. I didn't realize that you could dance as a job other than be a dance teacher. That's all I was seeing. And I I told my daddy, I said, I think I have my calling. I want to dance with Alvin Ailey. So from twelve to seventeen, that was the trajectory, kind of on a level where you are with your girls, because I danced every day. After that, I went to perform in arts high school, I joined Atlanta Ballet. I went to North Carolina School of the Arts over the summer because I knew that I was not technically proficient enough to get into the Ailey company, but I was also performing. I played Anita in Westside Story and I was young. I was like thirteen, and I could al already act and I could sing.

But it was that.

Because you know, you can't fake dancing. You could either dance or uk. I mean, it's an athletic.

You know.

So that's when I knew do they want to do it as a profession.

They don't know right now. One is seven, one is ten, and they just enjoy it and they want more. And it's not just ballet, it's not just open for and mad. It's just it's everything. It's it's jazz, it's it's tab it's now they just started getting in their hip hop. But for me, it's like I enjoy it because I know where they are right I know they're not gonna want to go to their friend's house. I know they're not gonna want to go to the mall because they enjoy so much. School's over at two forty. From three to seven, they dancing, seven, they come home, do homework, They tired, And I enjoy it because I like watching them like I'm the There's not too many dads out there for some reason, but I'm the one that's I know the routine and I'm spinning with them because I if they enjoyed it, I enjoy it. But it's I feel like more people, more kids should get into it because it's it's it's a it's a great art. Yeah, it's a great art.

And they gave me my foundation for everything, Discipline, being on time, confidence, Like even when I got a different world. I remember one of our our script ees, she came up to me and she said, are you a dancer? And I was just standing there and I was like, yeah, Like what gave me away?

I'm not what?

I was always on time. I was always there waiting for everybody else. I did not understand the way they did it and all the breaks they take.

I'm like, what are we breaking for? We ain't done nothing right. Dancers are the mules of the business.

Wow.

If the actors are coming out every now and then, if we like when I did Fame, we were in rehearsal or performing all day, ten hours, actors going to trailers and coming back when we did school Days, you couldn't be in that movie if you couldn't dance, sing an act first of all. But that meant we all came from theater. We shot, we filmed the Uh well, I mean we recorded the song I Want to be Alone tonight after we filmed that day, and then they said, okay, now you're going to the studio and we went and we learned the song and did it, and then we learned the choreography and performed it. But that's how we do, especially in New York and especially in theater. All my dancing friends can sing, and that all my acting friends can dance to sing. We had to be triple threats to continue to work. You think them divers from Dreamgirls, Loretta Divine, Shirley, Ralph, Jennifer.

Lewis you built for it, you know?

So when we go out there, we're not even asked to work at our full.

Potential, you know what I mean.

And your babies are gonna be like that too, in whatever they do, because that kind of training is like an athlete.

I want to talk about another training you've probably got because you know, you carry yourself with a certain sense of legalness, right And when you look at Debbie Allen, when you look at fore Lisha Rashad, they have that same regal energy.

What did those two teach you?

Oh my gosh, everything. I mean, Debbie was ahead of me. So every time people told me, well, you're mostly a dancer, we don't know about you acting, or you're a comic actress, we don't know about you doing drama, in my mind, I go Debbie Dead. I just let them tell me what they thought I couldn't do. And it wasn't just that I knew I could. She's already done it. She just did it.

She had two.

Lines in the Fame movie when you see her next she's directing, choreographing the show she's producing.

You can't let other people tell you what you can do.

You don't know, and the other mantra it's had, especially like when people were certain choreographers. You know, it's not a nice world, the dance world, so they're reading me or cussing me out, whatever, and I would say, you don't know, you're not God all in my mind, so I wouldn't cry because I was like, don't you you know, don't you stand up here and let him make you cry, because he's saying, you know, you think you're something, you'll never be anything.

And I was like, you don't know, you're not God.

That's right.

How you gonna proclaim my destiny? You know?

So you have to be able to talk to yourself. And Debbie is the same way, Felicia is the same way. They have a sense of self. Because Debbie told me about how they rejected her at North Carolina School of the Yards because she didn't have a body for dance because she got a booty in whatever. And she said, and I took this booty all the way to Broadway, Darling. You know, Okay, you don't want me in your school, Well, I'm gonna go to Howard and then I'm gonna be on Broadway and then and then and then. You can't let other people tell you what you are and what you're not. Yeah, And I refuse that. I refuse that on just a general level. Like there were little dancers in my class that were great dancers, but a little chunky or whatever. And I heard how the teachers talked to them, you know, destroying them. How dare you? How dare you take your responsibility and do that to her. You'll know what she's gonna be, and you're only gonna go with skinny, tall people.

I just don't like that.

If you're gonna teach kids in art form, don't add your bitter two cents to it because you didn't with your fat ass.

That's not that's not politically correct. The political correct term is big back.

No, it's not just do women say that? Or is that a melt discovered? I'm not.

Due term, dude. They didn't think I'm gay. He discovered I'm no that baby got big bag.

Soundright coming from us?

That's heard you.

It just comes up every now and then, and if they don't see me with a man, like when I was I was at an oscar party of Georgia's and I was dancing with Debbie and all the fame dancers were there, like, you know, she keeps all her people. They got me, you know, photo of the week, me and Debbie and they're talking about.

Me and the hair salon. I knew it.

I think they together, and Norm calls me he loved it. I said, well, I'm single. I don't like that. He said, yeah, that's some funny sh I said, funny for you because you're like, yeah, I'm with Debbie and she's with Jasmine. Then it came up when I was at a last you know, I don't know what it is. I don't care, but it's just I don't want to have to undo it.

Yeah.

And then you know, in New York it was I got hit on and stuff and I was like, okay, but what made.

You think that I like bother me? You know, I was just developing into my womanhood.

Stuff.

I didn't have.

Caf and it was funk night, and I would go there by myself. Sometimes you can't always have somebody come with you, you know, and so some sometimes I think it's because I'm alone. And then, you know, my best friend at a Lea's, we were walking through the park and unbeknownst to us, we were walking in the.

Wooded gay area.

The valley, the jail.

Okay, somebody's eyes there and you didn't know we were in a certain area or whatever, because I don't know.

And then when I got back to the school, they were like, you know, they're saying that you and so and so. I was like, I don't even have a boyfriend.

How can I have a girlfriend? Okay, like I can't even work. You know, it doesn't bother me.

But when I was younger, it did because I was still developing.

And they was pulling up on you.

I was developing as a young woman. Yeah, would you ever do a memoir?

I know, I mean you know you got done since it coming out this weekend, But would you ever do a memoir?

I would need I would need some help, you know, I would just need some help. I can't write it myself by myself.

Oh yeah, yeah, most people get help with them memoir because I loved reading Jada Pinket's book Worthy because like you know, and we were saying early and you were saying it was such a privacy.

In the nineties.

So to get those stories from that era when she talks about you and you know, Pock and just your friendship, just that friendship of black Hollywood, it's just like man.

And now I was like.

Privileged enough to hang with them because there's so much younger than me, you know, and it was just easy. You know, her birthday party and we went to The dragon Fly, which was funk night that night.

I like me some funk.

Obviously, I'm like, it's funck. Now you're a Dragonfly. But and you know, accepting of me because.

So I think, hold is Jada fifty?

I don't know, let me look it up.

I think, well, I'm sixty two.

So when I'm on the show, I'm twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven.

They eighteen nineteen. Yeah, so now it's not a big deal.

But back then, I wasn't hanging out with no you know. I remember I went to a restaurant with Cree and as we're walking to the restaurant.

She said, do they card?

I said, card, I mean I never I had never been carded because eighteen, you know, I said, how old are you? She said, I just turned eighteen. I said, what the hell am I doing hanging out with?

Are you kidding me? Condemed too.

I saw them as kids, I like grown ass men when I was young, thirty thirty two, so that you know, it's like eighteen.

Yeah.

But now that they have embraced me, I appreciate it because they kept me current and kept me interested because they, Jada and Cree are out the box thinkers.

You know.

They bring creative ideas to the table that I never would have thought of. And I love that. And and of course you know, keeps me laughing Park.

And I would like that too. He always had ideas.

I felt so unaccomplished, you know, because he would say something and then do it.

I would tell him an idea.

And not writed and not finish it, or it's still like on my shelf. Mostly I wanted him to know that I felt he was a great actor. And I heard the murmurings of, oh, he's just being himself or whatever. They're just writing on his fame as a rapper. I said, everybody that raps ain't acting on there. There were a lot of rappers that had movies that man can act.

Yeah, I mean.

His performances were after change. And I just wanted him to know that and not listen to that. One time in news week, they used to have.

A little blurb like.

Star of the Week or Celebrity of the week, just a little blurb, and they said and surprisingly handsome rapper.

I said, what the fuck? Is surprised? How insulting he was? Find of shit?

It was, why is that surprising? He's supposed to be ugly because he's a rapper. I found it racist. Then when I got to when I won one of my Image awards, and I go to the press tent, there were two little white girls there and all they did was ask me about what I felt about Tupac getting an Image award. Now, meanwhile, I have my award, it's my sixth one, and I'm not even prepared to you know how they like to bring up dirt when you had a bread carpet, and.

I was thinking, what are y'all doing here?

This is our party, you know, and you're crashing our party and asking me to tell some dirt about somebody else here, so I wasn't in the most receiving way. They kept asking me if I thought he deserved an Image Award, and I said, well, I don't know what the controversy is. Well, you know because of Dolorus, Tuck Her and this, that and the other, and I didn't know. And I said, well, can you tell me which songs you're referring to? At the time, I had only heard Dear Mama, Brenda had a baby and keep your head up. I honestly didn't know what the controversy was about because these are all uplifting female And she said, well, I don't know which song.

I haven't heard the CD.

I said, well, why don't you do your homework and then come to me and ask me.

I was so mad. And in the back of the house there were two brothers like this. They were from Jetton Ebony.

You know, because I'm like, how dare you come to our party, insult our guests and don't even know what the hell you talking about?

But I'm supposed to know.

They were on the radio those three songs and they come in like they well, we just are bad.

We just aved that may hell Oh my god. I was so glad. So the next day was in the La Times.

I have my ward up like this and my nostrils and I don't know what they said about my publicists called me and she was like, you know, there are there are white actresses that don't get hired because their breasts are too big.

I was like, first of all, I don't have to run everything by.

You for me to speak. You know, if you wanted to be by my side, you should have been by there. But what was she gonna do interrupt me? You disrespecting us, You disrespecting.

Me and they and the faint. He saw that article and heard that I.

Stood up for him, and she never forgot that. And I think that's part of why she was cool with him staying with.

Me after you got shot.

Yeah, because she didn't based on what they knew about me and seeing me on the show, she didn't realize that.

I was like that, you know what I mean?

And they are very much soldiers in that. One of her friends said, oh, you a soldier now, and I was like, I'm sorry, are we at war?

I didn't know what she meant by were you afraid during that time? Like when you took pokin after he got shot. Did you feel like, what if they come looking for him in the.

Yeah, there were times because of the the regularity of my going in and out of my apartment, I felt like it would be easy if I had been on the radar for anybody to you know, follow me or come up.

And so there was that.

And I didn't live in a secured building like a doorman building, and I was scared of but like I had never seen a real bullet wound, just you know on TV like NYPD Blue and when I played a.

Badass in this movie.

But I was concerned about that, you know, actually caring for the wounds and making sure he was gonna be okay. N Yeah, he should have been in the hospital for at least two or.

Three more days on antibiotics.

Everybody has walked out.

He signed himself out, so you had to help him out and help meet and help him get himself back together.

He when he left Bellevue, he went to his girlfriends and he realized it was equally accessible. He just felt like a sitting duck in the hospital. But everybody knew who he was at his girlfriends. Nobody knew that we were friends, So him coming to my apartment was more diary of Frank and just put food under the bookcase. But yeah, it was on the down load. I didn't know what kind of publicity might have come from that, but it wasn't anything I was interested in publicizing. So I just shut the family down. I was like anybody those you knew, you know, because I didn't do that for that reason.

It was a personal reason.

And that was one of those moments where you know, y'all don't get that, and they they respected it all these years until the documentary they've been wanting to, I guess, thank me, but their love and I'm part of that family now has been enough. I don't need public thanks for what I did on a personal level. So it's interesting the documentary said, Okay, Jasmine, you can talk about that part of it now, because I really thought, well, just you know, I'll go to my grave with certain things. Not because I'm ashamed, but I don't like the exploitation factor of things that you do in your personal life for your kids or for people you love or whatever.

You know, it was your.

Story, I mean, he said in the doc Jaya talks about in her book. Yeah, this is all your story.

She called me and tell me what was in the book. This is all I said. I didn't talk about this.

I didn't talk about that.

And I really was calling her more for support because when I wrote a fane's book, I didn't know all the other stuff you have to do for a book fist, the book tours, you know, and I just wanted to make sure she was And there was a kind of loneliness to her story to me, No, jaj, there's a loneliness like the bigger and richer and you get more isolated, you know, there's more things you can't do, and you always have to. I don't know, so I just I just didn't want her to feel that loneliness. She could talk to me about whatever, because that was some It was a lot of personal information. Her gauge is way past mind. That's what I mean about the younger ones. They showed me that I don't have to be that old school about my press.

That's good.

So you you didn't say, you know, when Tupac stayed with you, you saw that like you ain't gonna go in it like that.

I didn't tell nobody.

Yeah, I mean, when my family saw the documentary. My best friend said what I told two people and they both lived in New York, because why tell somebody that can get to me?

Because I did.

I was worried that anything could happen, you know, and those two people, two of my friends that lived in New York, that was it.

So all my other friends, I just because two.

Weeks it is on a long period for me not to call you, and I wasn't missed yet, you know, maybe had It's been a month, right, Yeah. So now when that documentary came out, a lot of my friends were like.

When did this happen? What were you staying? How Come I didn't.

Know hit his girlfriend at the time. I have a problem with that, I mean, because that's part that was my guy. So you know, I have no idea child. I wasn't doing I don't care.

Twenty one, you know what I mean. I'm not like your girlfriend. And it was dire, it was I mean, he was in trouble.

Yeah, and he was still open, like it wasn't healed yet, you know, So I wasn't.

Thinking about that. Yeah, they got back together a thing, they got back together.

Yeah, I'm sure you talk about this on since this is my last question, like when's the last time you spoke to him, like before you die, do you remember the last conversation in your head or the last time you saw him.

I was visiting a Feeny and Stone Mountain when they had a house there and he came through. Now this is after he had been in prison for eleven months. I've seen him for a while. Yeah, so I saw him at the house. That was the last time.

M you remember the conversation or you don't, that's personal.

It was just like hey, you know, and he was like, I'm strong now because he was. He was, you know, infirmed. So he wanted me to see his you know, little prison push up muscles, knuckles were all black from doing it on you know, he wanted I was like, yeah, you look good. And then he went out with his friends and you know, I hung out with a fainting The thing that really hurt my feelings about him getting shot like that when he was with me, I thought I was.

Helping him go to the next part of his life.

Like g.

I was like, you're gonna get You're gonna go to prison and then get shot again. And I knew that second shooting wasn't the wounds he had the first time were in his appendages.

Not in his lungs.

I'm so disappointed.

Yeah, and he told me he was gonna it wasn't gonna make it past twenty five.

I always thought he was just talking shit all the time.

That's legend. Put that in the book. I was like, yeah, I'm not writing a book about you. Stop telling me that. I'd be like, I'm never telling anybody anything about this experience. Nah, you need to you know, blunt in the bathtub, Like you need to put this in the book. What am I your fucking now, I'm you're a chronicler. Yeah, and he kept telling me he was like twenty one, and I really didn't understand that world he knew. I wasn't from it. I thought it was ridiculous for him to say he wasn't going to live past twenty five. I treated him like I treated my little cousins that make these statements about life.

You know, so that hurts.

I can't wait people to hear your story.

You live the life this guy. I gotta watch him since this.

Sunday, March twenty fourth. You need to write a Central TV one.

You gonna make me.

I'm gonna take my lashes off because I'm going to know ye going with lashes if you.

Take them off and put them on ebit, I got I got you.

I don't watch it.

They going make sure they know it's not roaches or a spider because they likes and you just put them on.

All about my less for Jazmine guy. Ladies, always the.

Pleasure when you come.

Guy.

Love you so much.

You are a cultural We appreciate you so much, we value you.

Just thank you always.

Now thank you. It's Jasmine guy. It's the Breakfast Club.

Good morning. Wake that ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club.