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I listen to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because Rod and.

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All right, it's time to shout out the people that leave us five left us five star reviews. Okay, we got.

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I believe three new ones. I believe. Oh let's go three.

Looking at this right, I think it's three new ones. If not, it's two new ones and I'm reading one again. The first one is take all of the stars. This show is pure gold. It's from Miss zero Chill. This show is pure gold. Don't know what's going on with politics? Roder Karen to tell you have no clue who the latest celebrities are. That's okay, because neither this Karen and Rod Willi's funny to all of us. Seriously, thank you say you get me. I never know who any of these people are. Don't know what the white's are up to. They got you. Want to test your knowledge on racial tendency's names, actions, locations? How about a friendly game against the race? Not sure what book to read, show to watch? Cozy game to play? Rod and Karen has some suggestion for you. This show has everything you didn't know you need. It's like listening to that friend or family members that actually stays up on current topics and wants to make sure you do too. No hot takes, just well thought out opinions, observations, predictions and facts. Open your third eye because Rid and Karen a hoigh everyone's favorite play cousins.

Looking at this right, I think it's three new ones. If not, it's two new ones and I'm reading one again. The first one is take all of the stars. This show is pure gold. It's from Miss zero Chill. This show is pure gold. Don't know what's going on with politics? Roder Karen to tell you have no clue who the latest celebrities are. That's okay, because neither this Karen and Rod Willi's funny to all of us. Seriously, thank you say you get me. I never know who any of these people are. Don't know what the white's are up to. They got you. Want to test your knowledge on racial tendency's names, actions, locations? How about a friendly game against the race? Not sure what book to read, show to watch? Cozy game to play? Rod and Karen has some suggestion for you. This show has everything you didn't know you need. It's like listening to that friend or family members that actually stays up on current topics and wants to make sure you do too. No hot takes, just well thought out opinions, observations, predictions and facts. Open your third eye because Rid and Karen a hoigh everyone's favorite play cousins.

Oh that's sweet, thank.

Oh that's sweet, thank.

You, miss zero chill.

You, miss zero chill.

That was a really nice review.

That was a really nice review.

You took the time on that one.

You took the time on that one.

Yes, thank you baby.

Yes, thank you baby.

Now we don't ask that you take the time. Okay, If y'all just want to leave like a full word review with five stars, we'll take that too.

Now we don't ask that you take the time. Okay, If y'all just want to leave like a full word review with five stars, we'll take that too.

Longs it's nice, we take emojis.

Longs it's nice, we take emojis.

What a vibe?

What a vibe?

This is?

This is?

By Charison one five to nine or maybe c Harrison one five to nine, Rod and Karen our whole vibe. I loved them and won a full relationship advice show. They'd be amazing. I need that content hard emoji. All right, you're like the third or fourth person that's asked about that. I don't know they would do something behind the paywell one day. I have to think on it. I think of a way to make it kind of original, not like a copycat of so many other relationship advice right, it would be different, so funny and on point five stars. It's from cheesy Mack who says greetings riding carrying and Rod greetings carrying a rock.

By Charison one five to nine or maybe c Harrison one five to nine, Rod and Karen our whole vibe. I loved them and won a full relationship advice show. They'd be amazing. I need that content hard emoji. All right, you're like the third or fourth person that's asked about that. I don't know they would do something behind the paywell one day. I have to think on it. I think of a way to make it kind of original, not like a copycat of so many other relationship advice right, it would be different, so funny and on point five stars. It's from cheesy Mack who says greetings riding carrying and Rod greetings carrying a rock.

Shit. Now I'm in front.

Shit. Now I'm in front.

Your segment on job. Your segment on job potlucks was so hilarious I could totally relate. Many years ago, I'm talking decades. I worked in the financial industry. In the day after Thanksgiving sucked because New York Stock Exchange was open and I had to always work the day after. My manager wanted to make it more tolerable by having us do a day after potluck. I would bring my own leftover from home because I was the only one in my department that looked like us anyway. See, that's another thing. I didn't even bring up the cross racialness of the prob. Look, I didn't even want to get that whole.

Your segment on job. Your segment on job potlucks was so hilarious I could totally relate. Many years ago, I'm talking decades. I worked in the financial industry. In the day after Thanksgiving sucked because New York Stock Exchange was open and I had to always work the day after. My manager wanted to make it more tolerable by having us do a day after potluck. I would bring my own leftover from home because I was the only one in my department that looked like us anyway. See, that's another thing. I didn't even bring up the cross racialness of the prob. Look, I didn't even want to get that whole.

Can of worms. That's the whole thing all in itself.

Can of worms. That's the whole thing all in itself.

Yeah, eiing a can of worms. You know, you go in there be a can of worms, and they'd be like, this was my family ate back in you know, the old country. I'm like, no, no, I'm from I got an old country and it's called the Old Country kitchen.

Yeah, eiing a can of worms. You know, you go in there be a can of worms, and they'd be like, this was my family ate back in you know, the old country. I'm like, no, no, I'm from I got an old country and it's called the Old Country kitchen.

That's where I go to come on own country kitchen.

That's where I go to come on own country kitchen.

Anyway, in addition to my coworkers having suspicious, questionable hygiene habits, we had a coworker that was visibly affected by HIV. We told him to only bring package paper products or soda. Nevertheless, I never got sick because I was extremely selected by what I selected to eat from my coworkers. Your right ride, they sure police your plates. They really do be all on your plate. And I never thought about that. I mean, decades ago, the stigma around HIV and also the medicines that.

Anyway, in addition to my coworkers having suspicious, questionable hygiene habits, we had a coworker that was visibly affected by HIV. We told him to only bring package paper products or soda. Nevertheless, I never got sick because I was extremely selected by what I selected to eat from my coworkers. Your right ride, they sure police your plates. They really do be all on your plate. And I never thought about that. I mean, decades ago, the stigma around HIV and also the medicines that.

We did not have, right, it was very different.

We did not have, right, it was very different.

I can't even imagine what that person was going through. Right, That's another that's just another element of this of just why we need to just get rid of the pot look like it's just it's it just invites more problems. Who knows what shit was said to that person, how people were acting, because it's already was stigmas and stereotypes around that in general. I remember when people didn't want to play with Magic Johnson because they thought shaking his hand and sweating it on you was going to give you HIV?

I can't even imagine what that person was going through. Right, That's another that's just another element of this of just why we need to just get rid of the pot look like it's just it's it just invites more problems. Who knows what shit was said to that person, how people were acting, because it's already was stigmas and stereotypes around that in general. I remember when people didn't want to play with Magic Johnson because they thought shaking his hand and sweating it on you was going to give you HIV?

Like just stupid shit.

Like just stupid shit.

Why are we inserting a pot look into this already fraught situation. I love anything about your show and I look forward to ride on Fridays with Karen Hunter. You both are terrific and I love Karen's laughter and authenticity. Thank you for both putting in the work to deliver outstanding content and levity. Many blessed to you both. Death, Thank you, dev thank you, We appreciate you. Oh man, that was nice. Well, you know what, Let's get into the comments on the website and YouTube next. Our first episode of last week was episode three thousand. We made it to three thousand last week.

Why are we inserting a pot look into this already fraught situation. I love anything about your show and I look forward to ride on Fridays with Karen Hunter. You both are terrific and I love Karen's laughter and authenticity. Thank you for both putting in the work to deliver outstanding content and levity. Many blessed to you both. Death, Thank you, dev thank you, We appreciate you. Oh man, that was nice. Well, you know what, Let's get into the comments on the website and YouTube next. Our first episode of last week was episode three thousand. We made it to three thousand last week.

Think of me, Look at me? Who would have thought? Who would have thought? Who would thought?

Think of me, Look at me? Who would have thought? Who would have thought? Who would thought?

We made it? Look at us, look at us?

We made it? Look at us, look at us?

I had no idea. You'd asked me, I'd have.

I had no idea. You'd asked me, I'd have.

Been like, well, ride gonna go ahead and boot me off. I'll be doing something else with my time.

Been like, well, ride gonna go ahead and boot me off. I'll be doing something else with my time.

Three thousand episodes of this bullshit right right, y'all still listening, just making it up as we go along?

Three thousand episodes of this bullshit right right, y'all still listening, just making it up as we go along?

Ain't we making it up as we go along? Sorry? Or congratulations? Right? And we don't know, just long, just.

Ain't we making it up as we go along? Sorry? Or congratulations? Right? And we don't know, just long, just.

Breaking every rule of podcast. Episode's long as hell, rambly.

Breaking every rule of podcast. Episode's long as hell, rambly.

Yes, we do multiple shows, they yeah, And it's hilarious because every time when we used to go traveling more, we go to these like speaking comferences, and people in front of us have all these rules and regulations and ship like this, and then when it's our turn, we'd be like, yeah, we hear what they saying, but we ain't follow none of them rules. Everything they said, we did the fucking opposite.

Yes, we do multiple shows, they yeah, And it's hilarious because every time when we used to go traveling more, we go to these like speaking comferences, and people in front of us have all these rules and regulations and ship like this, and then when it's our turn, we'd be like, yeah, we hear what they saying, but we ain't follow none of them rules. Everything they said, we did the fucking opposite.

We made it somehow at us. We made it the power of blackness.

We made it somehow at us. We made it the power of blackness.

Yep mm hmmm.

Yep mm hmmm.

Apia says, good explanation about the POC for Trump because they don't want to be victims. I got that from Jail Cove in this podcast. Rain on Your Parade is a great podcast, a good podcast. I listen to it every week and he dropped some gems on there sometimes, and when he's not dropping gems, he's at least trying to be funny and entertaining and that and I value that in my comedy. Uh I don't value that anymore, but I still like uh humor, and I like to laugh at stopfulness and so, uh you know, I listen to that, and uh, you know, I've been trying to crystallize in my mind what it is about these minority, marginalized groups that fuck with Republicans knowing that their policies absolutely are against them as a group.

Apia says, good explanation about the POC for Trump because they don't want to be victims. I got that from Jail Cove in this podcast. Rain on Your Parade is a great podcast, a good podcast. I listen to it every week and he dropped some gems on there sometimes, and when he's not dropping gems, he's at least trying to be funny and entertaining and that and I value that in my comedy. Uh I don't value that anymore, but I still like uh humor, and I like to laugh at stopfulness and so, uh you know, I listen to that, and uh, you know, I've been trying to crystallize in my mind what it is about these minority, marginalized groups that fuck with Republicans knowing that their policies absolutely are against them as a group.

And uh, I think Jail just hit the nail on the head.

And uh, I think Jail just hit the nail on the head.

They're reverse engineering victimization, and they're like, I can't be a victim if I'm supporting Trump. The rest of you are victims. Are you black people who won't get off the plantation? You're victims?

They're reverse engineering victimization, and they're like, I can't be a victim if I'm supporting Trump. The rest of you are victims. Are you black people who won't get off the plantation? You're victims?

All? You know? That kind of thing.

All? You know? That kind of thing.

I think they think when I'm in this corner, he will be in mind and see that I'm not like the other victims. It's like when poor people vote for parties who promise lower taxes, especially for higher incomes poor white people mostly here here too. They don't want to accept that they are the ones who need to support paid by the taxes. They vote to make the tax my taxes go down. I mean, thank you, but I'm good. Even the image of me as the queen of white women seems like a great photo opportunity. I'm so glad it didn't go this way. It seems dangerous, you know how some of us are. And also I'm already very busy work, family, dogs, yoga, writing them good comments. The list goes on and.

I think they think when I'm in this corner, he will be in mind and see that I'm not like the other victims. It's like when poor people vote for parties who promise lower taxes, especially for higher incomes poor white people mostly here here too. They don't want to accept that they are the ones who need to support paid by the taxes. They vote to make the tax my taxes go down. I mean, thank you, but I'm good. Even the image of me as the queen of white women seems like a great photo opportunity. I'm so glad it didn't go this way. It seems dangerous, you know how some of us are. And also I'm already very busy work, family, dogs, yoga, writing them good comments. The list goes on and.

No good comments.

No good comments.

Is this even something you can refuse? Seems also dangerous. Yeah, never accept the queen of the white women labels. It's a trap.

Is this even something you can refuse? Seems also dangerous. Yeah, never accept the queen of the white women labels. It's a trap.

The trap.

The trap.

Ronan Raphael says, Yes, what an amazing start to the week. Week congratulational episode three thousand. Congratulations to myself for six years of podcaster, So I finally get to say this to y'all. I love you three thousand. Well, congrats to you on six years of podcasting as well, Ronan Raphael, that's dope. Brother in Arnold Sarzenegger voice, I still have easta baby or in English, I'll be back with a brand new multi universal hustle. Since we're celebrating, I won't make Rod speak Arabic today I'm not. I'm not a nice am. I not a nice guy. Also, I love my fellow the black aut tiest nation. Three thousand, y'all get a holiday discount. Sorry, I can't offer a military discount yet to the next big event on the horizon. It's gonna be so great. Harry claimed your offer before October thirty first two first class tickets to two for two anywhere. Just say you're a guest of insert my government name, which I don't think he's told everybody see a scamming to the end, Matt Nashville, right say he's he wrote in about his dad voting for Trump last year, yeah.

Ronan Raphael says, Yes, what an amazing start to the week. Week congratulational episode three thousand. Congratulations to myself for six years of podcaster, So I finally get to say this to y'all. I love you three thousand. Well, congrats to you on six years of podcasting as well, Ronan Raphael, that's dope. Brother in Arnold Sarzenegger voice, I still have easta baby or in English, I'll be back with a brand new multi universal hustle. Since we're celebrating, I won't make Rod speak Arabic today I'm not. I'm not a nice am. I not a nice guy. Also, I love my fellow the black aut tiest nation. Three thousand, y'all get a holiday discount. Sorry, I can't offer a military discount yet to the next big event on the horizon. It's gonna be so great. Harry claimed your offer before October thirty first two first class tickets to two for two anywhere. Just say you're a guest of insert my government name, which I don't think he's told everybody see a scamming to the end, Matt Nashville, right say he's he wrote in about his dad voting for Trump last year, yeah.

Last week, and in short about my dad.

Last week, and in short about my dad.

Yes, he's all of it to get long, please skip. If you're not feeling about hearing about racist white people, listen, listen, Matt, let me tell you something I love to hear about.

Yes, he's all of it to get long, please skip. If you're not feeling about hearing about racist white people, listen, listen, Matt, let me tell you something I love to hear about.

Racist white people. We're here for the story. It's just what I meant to Okay.

Racist white people. We're here for the story. It's just what I meant to Okay.

If you looked at my Kendle book collection, you think I was just just a stand of racist white people of the books. I just be wanting to know the stories. They're not gonna skip my history. I'm not shamed of they racism, tell me more. Okay. The anti government sentiment is what my dad likes to lead with. It's what he's convinced himself as a lifelong Republican who voted for Obama once. Is the reason he's all in for Trump. The full truth is he's always been comfortable with xenophobia, sexism, racism, et cetera. He raised me to be anti government. Never trust the politician. If you don't vote, you can't complain. I only retained the last. And he'll tell the anecdote of finally getting a raise while Trump was in office as a reason he's pro Trump, as if somehow Trump personally told his boss to give him a raise, ignoring the fact that it says more about how greedy his bosses were, because you know, they raised what they were charged charging for labor. But you see, Trump's a businessman, He's not a liar like the rest. And when you push, he deflects to, well, what good of the Democrats done? And no matter how long the list is, it's never good enough. My dad is easily swayed by the dog whis was in fear mongery, mostly I presume due to a lack of education, introspection. When I've challenged him indirectly on this transphobia, I thought I had made some headway, but when we discussed Trump, he was like, we're back to square one. So I'll keep working on him. He is my dad, after all, and was there for me more than his father was for him. He raised me to be better, and I'm working to raise my kids to be even better. Sorry for unloading this here. Dad never really came up in therapy and mom and other shit. Well, in a way, there's no need to apologize. I mean, we're having a dialogue. This is the feedback show. It's not like, yeah, get me to absolve you of white guilt or justify your dad. You know, I can only be honest about what we discussed, and so last week I just had to be honest, and you know, to be too fair. I some people would have taken the way I was talking and took it very personal and been like, fuck y'all show, I'm not listening anymore. This is really racism against white people. I'm not saying you obviously you didn't, you wrote back in, but there are those types of people out there that do that, and you're not one of those people, So I appreciate that.

If you looked at my Kendle book collection, you think I was just just a stand of racist white people of the books. I just be wanting to know the stories. They're not gonna skip my history. I'm not shamed of they racism, tell me more. Okay. The anti government sentiment is what my dad likes to lead with. It's what he's convinced himself as a lifelong Republican who voted for Obama once. Is the reason he's all in for Trump. The full truth is he's always been comfortable with xenophobia, sexism, racism, et cetera. He raised me to be anti government. Never trust the politician. If you don't vote, you can't complain. I only retained the last. And he'll tell the anecdote of finally getting a raise while Trump was in office as a reason he's pro Trump, as if somehow Trump personally told his boss to give him a raise, ignoring the fact that it says more about how greedy his bosses were, because you know, they raised what they were charged charging for labor. But you see, Trump's a businessman, He's not a liar like the rest. And when you push, he deflects to, well, what good of the Democrats done? And no matter how long the list is, it's never good enough. My dad is easily swayed by the dog whis was in fear mongery, mostly I presume due to a lack of education, introspection. When I've challenged him indirectly on this transphobia, I thought I had made some headway, but when we discussed Trump, he was like, we're back to square one. So I'll keep working on him. He is my dad, after all, and was there for me more than his father was for him. He raised me to be better, and I'm working to raise my kids to be even better. Sorry for unloading this here. Dad never really came up in therapy and mom and other shit. Well, in a way, there's no need to apologize. I mean, we're having a dialogue. This is the feedback show. It's not like, yeah, get me to absolve you of white guilt or justify your dad. You know, I can only be honest about what we discussed, and so last week I just had to be honest, and you know, to be too fair. I some people would have taken the way I was talking and took it very personal and been like, fuck y'all show, I'm not listening anymore. This is really racism against white people. I'm not saying you obviously you didn't, you wrote back in, but there are those types of people out there that do that, and you're not one of those people, So I appreciate that.

Can you never really.

Can you never really.

Know until you You never really know until you have an exchange on the show. And then how people respond is when you find out like, oh damn, they really were not here to take an exchange. And there's some I think genuinely well meaning white people that just haven't dealt with the fact that black people are.

Know until you You never really know until you have an exchange on the show. And then how people respond is when you find out like, oh damn, they really were not here to take an exchange. And there's some I think genuinely well meaning white people that just haven't dealt with the fact that black people are.

Aggrieved, marginalized, all this stuff.

Aggrieved, marginalized, all this stuff.

And sometimes we're gonna say, shit, that is true for us, and it is inconvenient for the person hearing it. Yes, as a man, a straight man, this happens all the time when I listen to other shows, and I just personally, I just don't take it personal. You know, if I disagree, I disagree, that's fine. I'm not telling somebody that I have to agree with everything comes out of our mouth. But it's never personal for me in that way. But I think it's a It says a lot about a person if they can listen to somebody kind of unload and be like, nah, this is why you know. A great example is like five six years ago, at this point, there was a lot of podcasts talking about street harassment, and women were giving their perspective on men talk cat calling and shit, and I know so many men that took it some type of fucking way like, well, how I'm supposed to get I can I can't get nobody.

And sometimes we're gonna say, shit, that is true for us, and it is inconvenient for the person hearing it. Yes, as a man, a straight man, this happens all the time when I listen to other shows, and I just personally, I just don't take it personal. You know, if I disagree, I disagree, that's fine. I'm not telling somebody that I have to agree with everything comes out of our mouth. But it's never personal for me in that way. But I think it's a It says a lot about a person if they can listen to somebody kind of unload and be like, nah, this is why you know. A great example is like five six years ago, at this point, there was a lot of podcasts talking about street harassment, and women were giving their perspective on men talk cat calling and shit, and I know so many men that took it some type of fucking way like, well, how I'm supposed to get I can I can't get nobody.

To know, you know, that kind of shit.

To know, you know, that kind of shit.

And so I'm glad that this exchange didn't turn into that.

And so I'm glad that this exchange didn't turn into that.

You know, so uh from my perspective, because just you know how we how we are, and we we say things, and we we joke and and go back and forth with our audience, particular people on the feedback show. A lot of times you can tell how the relationship is going to go based on how to respond back because the quote unquote conflict on the listeners in would and how they respond will determine how, you know, the relationship moves from forward, because like right just said, we've had people where we've said things joko jokeo jokefully and or we said things that are that we feel that are truthful that they might not like and instead of them writ and back and just more going into more details so we can quote unquote have a conversation. A lot of people paying the gonna shut shit down because it's not what they want to hear, and or they'll blame us for whatever insecurities that we might tap on the rises within them and they'll either just stop communicating with us at all, which is fine because that's the right to uh or or the right end want confrontation with us, like we're just flat any wrong for every thing we said.

You know, so uh from my perspective, because just you know how we how we are, and we we say things, and we we joke and and go back and forth with our audience, particular people on the feedback show. A lot of times you can tell how the relationship is going to go based on how to respond back because the quote unquote conflict on the listeners in would and how they respond will determine how, you know, the relationship moves from forward, because like right just said, we've had people where we've said things joko jokeo jokefully and or we said things that are that we feel that are truthful that they might not like and instead of them writ and back and just more going into more details so we can quote unquote have a conversation. A lot of people paying the gonna shut shit down because it's not what they want to hear, and or they'll blame us for whatever insecurities that we might tap on the rises within them and they'll either just stop communicating with us at all, which is fine because that's the right to uh or or the right end want confrontation with us, like we're just flat any wrong for every thing we said.

Yeah and uh yeah, that happens all the time, or not all the time, but it happens sometimes. And you know, the one thing I've just decided for the show is is I'm never gonna get on here and why I'm not gonna pander. I'm not gonna, you know, just say shit, this is people want our opinions. I'm never trying to offend people. But you know, so I'm glad that that it. You know that it worked out because we it could have you know, I was taking a chance, could have been worse. Thanks again for the show and all that you do. I hope to come to a live show when we stabilize our lives. Sorry for getting deeper air of my family laundry in space. Don't apologize fucking white people. That's it. That's what I'm saying that I mean, Aia says, I'm glad you did. She's replying to him. My father isn't as bad, but he can fall into the ones up there unclear what this means.

Yeah and uh yeah, that happens all the time, or not all the time, but it happens sometimes. And you know, the one thing I've just decided for the show is is I'm never gonna get on here and why I'm not gonna pander. I'm not gonna, you know, just say shit, this is people want our opinions. I'm never trying to offend people. But you know, so I'm glad that that it. You know that it worked out because we it could have you know, I was taking a chance, could have been worse. Thanks again for the show and all that you do. I hope to come to a live show when we stabilize our lives. Sorry for getting deeper air of my family laundry in space. Don't apologize fucking white people. That's it. That's what I'm saying that I mean, Aia says, I'm glad you did. She's replying to him. My father isn't as bad, but he can fall into the ones up there unclear what this means.

Not the ones up there.

Not the ones up there.

The politicians are millionaires, a bad explanation, isn't given are stealing from us and lying us hard working people.

The politicians are millionaires, a bad explanation, isn't given are stealing from us and lying us hard working people.

And he has fear that other immigrants.

And he has fear that other immigrants.

We're also immigrants here, even if I married a German Man who works for the German state will take away everything that we have, or the Chinese even without immigrating. What doesn't fit into his worldview is that happier family is doing pretty great. He is happy, is also confused how can it be? But he is helpful with the kids, an extremely reliable family orient it's that that's good. Yeah, and I always that's another thing like because I've seen, especially over the last eight or so years, especially once social media really rolls to prominence, there's been a lot of bombastic declarations of people telling folks like, but fuck your family, don't even talk to your family, to cut them off or whatever. And maybe that will work for some people. Okay, I'm not denying that there's some people you need to cut off. Yes, there's some people that thrive after cutting people off. There's some people that never regret or feel bad about cutting people off or whatever that there's no hole in your heart, there's no wound dead for you. But there's a lot of people that can't slash, won't slash, are willing to work with people that are flawed, yes, and so in those cases that voice has become so silent in our conversation where we're like, but I think it's the silent majority of people, and we're attaching the level of shame to something that I don't think needs to be shameful. I think most of us have an understanding of why, especially you know, it's like the people mad at Diddy's kids, I don't even understand like either. We all know what that is like to have somebody that you that did something that it wasn't to you, and it's hard to believe and it's hard to it's hard to pull that vision together with how you've been treated. It does a head trip on you and it may take time to work through that. It's not an immediate thing. We don't know these people that are celebrities to us, they're not family members. They never burked us, they never fed us, they never bandaged our knees. We don't have any head trip confusion for the most part when it comes to something like this, we're just consuming this. These people like products. But I would say even in those cases of just parasocial relationships, how many people can't reconcile when you know a podcast listen to does something fucked up?

We're also immigrants here, even if I married a German Man who works for the German state will take away everything that we have, or the Chinese even without immigrating. What doesn't fit into his worldview is that happier family is doing pretty great. He is happy, is also confused how can it be? But he is helpful with the kids, an extremely reliable family orient it's that that's good. Yeah, and I always that's another thing like because I've seen, especially over the last eight or so years, especially once social media really rolls to prominence, there's been a lot of bombastic declarations of people telling folks like, but fuck your family, don't even talk to your family, to cut them off or whatever. And maybe that will work for some people. Okay, I'm not denying that there's some people you need to cut off. Yes, there's some people that thrive after cutting people off. There's some people that never regret or feel bad about cutting people off or whatever that there's no hole in your heart, there's no wound dead for you. But there's a lot of people that can't slash, won't slash, are willing to work with people that are flawed, yes, and so in those cases that voice has become so silent in our conversation where we're like, but I think it's the silent majority of people, and we're attaching the level of shame to something that I don't think needs to be shameful. I think most of us have an understanding of why, especially you know, it's like the people mad at Diddy's kids, I don't even understand like either. We all know what that is like to have somebody that you that did something that it wasn't to you, and it's hard to believe and it's hard to it's hard to pull that vision together with how you've been treated. It does a head trip on you and it may take time to work through that. It's not an immediate thing. We don't know these people that are celebrities to us, they're not family members. They never burked us, they never fed us, they never bandaged our knees. We don't have any head trip confusion for the most part when it comes to something like this, we're just consuming this. These people like products. But I would say even in those cases of just parasocial relationships, how many people can't reconcile when you know a podcast listen to does something fucked up?

A celebrity whose social media.

A celebrity whose social media.

They beyond says something fucked up? How many of us still can't handle that? How many people did it take them a long time to cut off R Kelly's music? How many people still listen to, you know, Michael Jackson or something. I know some of y'all think he's innocent, but I'm just saying there's a lot of people that don't, and yet you still play that music. How many people listening to James Brown. It's not as cutting dry as people like to say, but I think, especially once you had the racial little akning, not the George flood and shit, you ended up with a lot of people acting like, you know, you better cut through to go to your family and Thanksgiving. I don't actually care about that. What I care about is the stuff you do with you know, your rote, the shit you can't control. You can't control, what the fuck your daddy do, and you cutting these people off isn't actually going to change their opinions, is not Typically it's not going to change their opinions normally, it's actually not going to bring them to the table. And different people as different ways. So sometimes you get people to come around because you do hang around, and no one wants to talk about that. It's like that's gone away in our society, Like no, we're all polarizing. You just believe what you believe until you die. No one ever grows of changes, and I refuse to believe that.

They beyond says something fucked up? How many of us still can't handle that? How many people did it take them a long time to cut off R Kelly's music? How many people still listen to, you know, Michael Jackson or something. I know some of y'all think he's innocent, but I'm just saying there's a lot of people that don't, and yet you still play that music. How many people listening to James Brown. It's not as cutting dry as people like to say, but I think, especially once you had the racial little akning, not the George flood and shit, you ended up with a lot of people acting like, you know, you better cut through to go to your family and Thanksgiving. I don't actually care about that. What I care about is the stuff you do with you know, your rote, the shit you can't control. You can't control, what the fuck your daddy do, and you cutting these people off isn't actually going to change their opinions, is not Typically it's not going to change their opinions normally, it's actually not going to bring them to the table. And different people as different ways. So sometimes you get people to come around because you do hang around, and no one wants to talk about that. It's like that's gone away in our society, Like no, we're all polarizing. You just believe what you believe until you die. No one ever grows of changes, and I refuse to believe that.

So I can.

So I can.

Absolutely see why people are like, look, my dad's conservative, and I don't really fuck with his politics, but he's not a bad dad to me, Like he's a good person to my kids or whatever. And we're talking about race, which makes it hard for people because they're thinking, like, not fucking racist white people, which is typically what I think as well, but take away race. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to gender ideology. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to religion. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to sexual orientation. A lot of y'all have conservative parents misogic and when it comes to uh immigrant, when it comes to like immigrants, misogyny. As you said, care, a lot of y'all have parents that don't align with your values on every point. They raised you and you figured it out and hopefully what be on what they thought was capable. And sometimes it's up for the kids to bring them along, you know. Sometimes that relationship is it changes as you grow. And look, if you need to cut them off, cut them off. This is not me advocating for y'all to like to change their lives, but I'm just advocating for the fact that I understand when people are like, yeah, my pops he says some eye rollly shit every once in a while, but I still fuck with my pops. That's my pops. And I think that went away on the internet.

Absolutely see why people are like, look, my dad's conservative, and I don't really fuck with his politics, but he's not a bad dad to me, Like he's a good person to my kids or whatever. And we're talking about race, which makes it hard for people because they're thinking, like, not fucking racist white people, which is typically what I think as well, but take away race. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to gender ideology. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to religion. A lot of y'all have conservative parents when it comes to sexual orientation. A lot of y'all have conservative parents misogic and when it comes to uh immigrant, when it comes to like immigrants, misogyny. As you said, care, a lot of y'all have parents that don't align with your values on every point. They raised you and you figured it out and hopefully what be on what they thought was capable. And sometimes it's up for the kids to bring them along, you know. Sometimes that relationship is it changes as you grow. And look, if you need to cut them off, cut them off. This is not me advocating for y'all to like to change their lives, but I'm just advocating for the fact that I understand when people are like, yeah, my pops he says some eye rollly shit every once in a while, but I still fuck with my pops. That's my pops. And I think that went away on the internet.

Yeah no, So I think that the internet. And once you realize this, you will view things differently and you have compassion, but you have a better understanding. A lot of people go on the internet and they do a lot of projecting of their anxiety they do. They do a lot of projecting of their hurt and their pain. So a lot of is loan something that's happened to them in their lives where either they wish they would have did it and didn't do it, or either they did it and they may regret it, or either they did it and they felt like, because I did it and it.

Yeah no, So I think that the internet. And once you realize this, you will view things differently and you have compassion, but you have a better understanding. A lot of people go on the internet and they do a lot of projecting of their anxiety they do. They do a lot of projecting of their hurt and their pain. So a lot of is loan something that's happened to them in their lives where either they wish they would have did it and didn't do it, or either they did it and they may regret it, or either they did it and they felt like, because I did it and it.

Worked for me, it should work for you.

Worked for me, it should work for you.

And the thing is, average person, like you said, does not function like that. Most people, most imperfect people live around other imperfect people.

And the thing is, average person, like you said, does not function like that. Most people, most imperfect people live around other imperfect people.

You know what I'm saying. So you go through your life.

You know what I'm saying. So you go through your life.

Trust it's somebody you let down, you disappointed, you heard it normally unknowingly, you didn't live.

Trust it's somebody you let down, you disappointed, you heard it normally unknowingly, you didn't live.

Up to the expectation of whatever the case may be.

Up to the expectation of whatever the case may be.

It's something that has happened that you did to somebody else. And sometimes I think people have a tendency to forget that they impact the world as much as the world impacts them. Everybody always look internally, but sometimes it's external shit that you do that you kind of overlook. And most people want compassion, empathy, sympathy and understanding for all of all of their actions. They want to explain that, they want to sit down to the table and talk and tell their side. But if somebody grieves you, you don't want none of that shit. You like, No, we ain't talking about shit you and the reason why I know because I used to be that person, only his shit. You have done something to me and this is the end, you know, And I had to learn me personally. I had to learn how to have more compassion and also had to learn how to not let others pick up other people's anxiety and let it become my reality because those things are not the same.

It's something that has happened that you did to somebody else. And sometimes I think people have a tendency to forget that they impact the world as much as the world impacts them. Everybody always look internally, but sometimes it's external shit that you do that you kind of overlook. And most people want compassion, empathy, sympathy and understanding for all of all of their actions. They want to explain that, they want to sit down to the table and talk and tell their side. But if somebody grieves you, you don't want none of that shit. You like, No, we ain't talking about shit you and the reason why I know because I used to be that person, only his shit. You have done something to me and this is the end, you know, And I had to learn me personally. I had to learn how to have more compassion and also had to learn how to not let others pick up other people's anxiety and let it become my reality because those things are not the same.

I think it's interesting how you went to a place of someone doing an action, like someone did something to you, and you know you've done things to other people. Because I'm not even really talking about I don't think the listeners talking about that. I'm not even talking about like an action. I'm just saying like a person has a certain attitudes and values that are whether you consider an old school conservative whatever, that you would not operate your life by. And there's like this. I think on another level, there's this societal impost that has been growing since social media came to prominence of cut everybody out of your life, and not because they did a thing, but because they have a either a belief system that is not perfectly aligned with yours, or because they have values that you know that that don't align with yours. You should cut them off because it is immutable they will never change.

I think it's interesting how you went to a place of someone doing an action, like someone did something to you, and you know you've done things to other people. Because I'm not even really talking about I don't think the listeners talking about that. I'm not even talking about like an action. I'm just saying like a person has a certain attitudes and values that are whether you consider an old school conservative whatever, that you would not operate your life by. And there's like this. I think on another level, there's this societal impost that has been growing since social media came to prominence of cut everybody out of your life, and not because they did a thing, but because they have a either a belief system that is not perfectly aligned with yours, or because they have values that you know that that don't align with yours. You should cut them off because it is immutable they will never change.

Being around them will never they will never grow.

Being around them will never they will never grow.

That kind of attitude is what I'm talking about, less so of a this person did.

That kind of attitude is what I'm talking about, less so of a this person did.

A thing, and I understand, but that, in my mind, that comes from somewhere. That doesn't that that action for you to get to that point doesn't just happen out of the busk.

A thing, and I understand, but that, in my mind, that comes from somewhere. That doesn't that that action for you to get to that point doesn't just happen out of the busk.

But that's what I'm saying. It's not about getting to that point. I'm saying people are advocating for you to do that, whether you've gotten to a point of not. It's like, don't go to Thanksgiving. I remember that, don't go to Thanksgiving. It did to tell someone to do that. Now the persons not coming to you and saying, my uncle did a horrible thing and I don't want to see them at Thanksgiving. People are saying if if your folks are Republican, don't go to Thanksgiving if you're that kind of.

But that's what I'm saying. It's not about getting to that point. I'm saying people are advocating for you to do that, whether you've gotten to a point of not. It's like, don't go to Thanksgiving. I remember that, don't go to Thanksgiving. It did to tell someone to do that. Now the persons not coming to you and saying, my uncle did a horrible thing and I don't want to see them at Thanksgiving. People are saying if if your folks are Republican, don't go to Thanksgiving if you're that kind of.

Thing, And and I understand that, but what would cause a person to just after blue tell you to do that, like like like them, that person that's telling you to cut that person off.

Thing, And and I understand that, but what would cause a person to just after blue tell you to do that, like like like them, that person that's telling you to cut that person off.

That stems from something.

That stems from something.

Right you're saying. It seems from somebody doing something. I think it's cultural. I don't think it's that's my point. I don't think it's about somebody did something to me. I think it's about the fact that I'm telling you what to do. I'm not doing this in my own life.

Right you're saying. It seems from somebody doing something. I think it's cultural. I don't think it's that's my point. I don't think it's about somebody did something to me. I think it's about the fact that I'm telling you what to do. I'm not doing this in my own life.

Necessarily.

Necessarily.

This might not be how I operate. But I'm telling you person whose parents I don't know, a person whose parents didn't raise me. Fuck your parents. Don't go see them. If you're miserable, if you're depressed, if you're crying, I don't care about that shit. If you see some light of hope in them where you might be able to like bring them together as a family and y'all grow and heal from these things, fuck that shit. Just be militantly against them, and and just stay online with me.

This might not be how I operate. But I'm telling you person whose parents I don't know, a person whose parents didn't raise me. Fuck your parents. Don't go see them. If you're miserable, if you're depressed, if you're crying, I don't care about that shit. If you see some light of hope in them where you might be able to like bring them together as a family and y'all grow and heal from these things, fuck that shit. Just be militantly against them, and and just stay online with me.

That is that is the real truth and measure of.

That is that is the real truth and measure of.

You as a person. That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's I think it's even worse. We're not waiting on people to do a thing. We're preemptively saying fuck those people.

You as a person. That's what I'm saying. I don't think it's I think it's even worse. We're not waiting on people to do a thing. We're preemptively saying fuck those people.

And I agree like like like, and I do agree with that, and and and maybe I should have phrased it differently, but I did not mean that for some people that statement, I say, it's true.

And I agree like like like, and I do agree with that, and and and maybe I should have phrased it differently, but I did not mean that for some people that statement, I say, it's true.

But for some people.

But for some people.

I never said you were wrong. I just said I said, it's interesting how you went to a place of someone doing a thing. That's all.

I never said you were wrong. I just said I said, it's interesting how you went to a place of someone doing a thing. That's all.

Like.

Like.

The conversation wasn't about someone doing something to people. It was just I got conservative parents, and sometimes they say some shit and and I don't agree with it. But you know, I'm still trying to work this out. I'm still trying to figure this out. So they're not It's not like some act necessarily that they did to the person like this, Like, but in your mind, you went to an act. I think that said something about the tone and the tenor of this culture is that we are treating people like they did the act right. We're treating people like like if someone said, my parents slap me in the face at Thanksgiving, that's an act that we go. I'll see why you wouldn't go back to Thanksgiving. But I but if someone said, my dad is watching Fox News and I'm trying to show him, you got to get off of this ship, there's a lot of people like, nah, fuck your dad, get get away from him.

The conversation wasn't about someone doing something to people. It was just I got conservative parents, and sometimes they say some shit and and I don't agree with it. But you know, I'm still trying to work this out. I'm still trying to figure this out. So they're not It's not like some act necessarily that they did to the person like this, Like, but in your mind, you went to an act. I think that said something about the tone and the tenor of this culture is that we are treating people like they did the act right. We're treating people like like if someone said, my parents slap me in the face at Thanksgiving, that's an act that we go. I'll see why you wouldn't go back to Thanksgiving. But I but if someone said, my dad is watching Fox News and I'm trying to show him, you got to get off of this ship, there's a lot of people like, nah, fuck your dad, get get away from him.

Get it.

Get it.

That's terrible. Don't let him be around your kids.

That's terrible. Don't let him be around your kids.

Da dah dah.

Da dah dah.

And I'm saying that's that's a reaction that comes from like a disattachment from that person and their real reality. Like I don't have to deal with the consequences of your kids never knowing your grandparents of their grandparents. I don't have to deal with that. So I can just tell you fuck them and walk away. And I think it's very performative.

And I'm saying that's that's a reaction that comes from like a disattachment from that person and their real reality. Like I don't have to deal with the consequences of your kids never knowing your grandparents of their grandparents. I don't have to deal with that. So I can just tell you fuck them and walk away. And I think it's very performative.

Okay, okay, and and and I agree, and I do also agree for and I feel like some people do do that part on the internet. And I also agree that for those people, I think sometimes it's just social pressure, social media pressure. And that's that's what I say. That's the reasoning is social media. Like for me, it's a reason why they're doing this. This in my mind, this ship don't happen out of the blue.

Okay, okay, and and and I agree, and I do also agree for and I feel like some people do do that part on the internet. And I also agree that for those people, I think sometimes it's just social pressure, social media pressure. And that's that's what I say. That's the reasoning is social media. Like for me, it's a reason why they're doing this. This in my mind, this ship don't happen out of the blue.

Maybe like I think it does happen out of blue. I really do think that's So that's what social pressure is. You need to act like this if even if nothing's happened to you. This is the code of our social media performance. So yes, so people take on things that they don't truly believe because it's the most popular sentiment at the time. So all of us constantly overreacting or constantly going at people and being like, no, fuck that motherfucker. Yes that is you don't actually need to have had a thing happen anymore. That is the code of the streets. What what is weird now is when someone says something like our listener just said, like happy in this and this and Matt are dealing with where it's like, yeah, my parents can be a bit conservative, or they can be iron cringe worthy. Sometimes I still love them. I'm showing them that the things they believe are not necessarily true, right, but they're in my life. They're not like these are. I'm not labeling them as just this piece of shit, irredeemable motherfucker.

Maybe like I think it does happen out of blue. I really do think that's So that's what social pressure is. You need to act like this if even if nothing's happened to you. This is the code of our social media performance. So yes, so people take on things that they don't truly believe because it's the most popular sentiment at the time. So all of us constantly overreacting or constantly going at people and being like, no, fuck that motherfucker. Yes that is you don't actually need to have had a thing happen anymore. That is the code of the streets. What what is weird now is when someone says something like our listener just said, like happy in this and this and Matt are dealing with where it's like, yeah, my parents can be a bit conservative, or they can be iron cringe worthy. Sometimes I still love them. I'm showing them that the things they believe are not necessarily true, right, but they're in my life. They're not like these are. I'm not labeling them as just this piece of shit, irredeemable motherfucker.

Right that, I'm just going in the trash, right.

Right that, I'm just going in the trash, right.

And so that's what I'm saying is like that type of sentiment it kind of died out in our in our social discourse. That person stopped existing for a while because we started associating it with the worst of the worst. We're like, your daddy's calling people the N word, and then you coming on Twitter and complaining about it, and we're supposed to just act like, well, it is your daddy, you know, what.

And so that's what I'm saying is like that type of sentiment it kind of died out in our in our social discourse. That person stopped existing for a while because we started associating it with the worst of the worst. We're like, your daddy's calling people the N word, and then you coming on Twitter and complaining about it, and we're supposed to just act like, well, it is your daddy, you know, what.

I'm saying, and and and and and and that that part I one hundred percent agree with.

I'm saying, and and and and and and that that part I one hundred percent agree with.

I think we're saying the same thing.

I think we're saying the same thing.

I think you just caught up in the fact that I'm going even the social pressure is a reasoning for me, and you're going, no, that's not a reason.

I think you just caught up in the fact that I'm going even the social pressure is a reasoning for me, and you're going, no, that's not a reason.

I'm going, Yes, that is the reason in my mind.

I'm going, Yes, that is the reason in my mind.

That's not well, no, I'm not. I'm not caught up on anything you you said it was like specific things people did. I'm clarifying. I don't think people have to do a specific thing anymore to have people tell you fuck them, cut that person off. I agree, yes, Like I think the idea of someone doing a thing is always a valid thing, like if someone if I take my uh fuck.

That's not well, no, I'm not. I'm not caught up on anything you you said it was like specific things people did. I'm clarifying. I don't think people have to do a specific thing anymore to have people tell you fuck them, cut that person off. I agree, yes, Like I think the idea of someone doing a thing is always a valid thing, like if someone if I take my uh fuck.

I'm not trying to be funny right now, guys.

I'm not trying to be funny right now, guys.

It's gonna sound funny because it's around this time of the year and everybody brings this ship up. But I really this isn't trying to be funny. But like what happened with Elon White, which is gonna come up, he's gonna probably have to get off of social media for a few weeks again year because Thanksgiving and these motherfuckers do the ship every year. Yes, they do forears, but like I do understand people that felt like strongly like no, like they did a thing to you. You her black fiance. You come to your white wife, white fiance's house and the parents are making you sit outside, or they're being so rude that you're sitting outside. I forget the exact thing. Once again, I'm not joking. It's not just an example. Yeah, but that is a perfect example of what I'm talking about of how big that guy. It's been year, Yes it has.

It's gonna sound funny because it's around this time of the year and everybody brings this ship up. But I really this isn't trying to be funny. But like what happened with Elon White, which is gonna come up, he's gonna probably have to get off of social media for a few weeks again year because Thanksgiving and these motherfuckers do the ship every year. Yes, they do forears, but like I do understand people that felt like strongly like no, like they did a thing to you. You her black fiance. You come to your white wife, white fiance's house and the parents are making you sit outside, or they're being so rude that you're sitting outside. I forget the exact thing. Once again, I'm not joking. It's not just an example. Yeah, but that is a perfect example of what I'm talking about of how big that guy. It's been year, Yes it has.

I don't even know how long it's been. It's been years. It's years.

I don't even know how long it's been. It's been years. It's years.

The social pressure of mocking him and being no, that is a real thing. That it's none of our real fucking business. They could have worked it out behind the scenes, that could he Maybe she shouldn't have shared it because people aren't capable of handling it.

The social pressure of mocking him and being no, that is a real thing. That it's none of our real fucking business. They could have worked it out behind the scenes, that could he Maybe she shouldn't have shared it because people aren't capable of handling it.

No, they are not.

No, they are not.

They that family could be happy and together and everything could be fine right now are but the point being, but we would always look at him like something wrong with him for that. We'll always look at her like something wrong with her for that. He shouldn't have married her. All this type of shit, right because we don't want that to exist. Anymore, this idea that maybe they grew, maybe they changed, right, maybe right.

They that family could be happy and together and everything could be fine right now are but the point being, but we would always look at him like something wrong with him for that. We'll always look at her like something wrong with her for that. He shouldn't have married her. All this type of shit, right because we don't want that to exist. Anymore, this idea that maybe they grew, maybe they changed, right, maybe right.

People don't look for that.

People don't look for that.

People only expect that in themselves. They don't that in other people. And whatever happens online is a time frozen. Is the moment frozen in time and you are nothing beyond above or you will always be that thing. But that's not people people, that's that's stupid because if somebody was to take your worst moment and say you are your worst moment for the rest of your life, you couldn't function.

People only expect that in themselves. They don't that in other people. And whatever happens online is a time frozen. Is the moment frozen in time and you are nothing beyond above or you will always be that thing. But that's not people people, that's that's stupid because if somebody was to take your worst moment and say you are your worst moment for the rest of your life, you couldn't function.

That doesn't make sense.

That doesn't make sense.

And so in that case, they did a thing. So I understand how people can get to like this, this anger, Like I get why people get angry about that a thing happened.

And so in that case, they did a thing. So I understand how people can get to like this, this anger, Like I get why people get angry about that a thing happened.

Yes, right, we have transferred that to.

Yes, right, we have transferred that to.

Your parents, said an opinion you don't agree with, Fuck them, get rid of them, right. That is the part I'm discussing. And that's why I said it's interesting you went to someone did a thing, because I think that's what the internet has done to us, is we are now treating everything is a thing like you know, okay, like we're going we're The treatment is as if you made my fiance sit outside, but it really might be that my dad doesn't understand, uh, the terminology for transgender people yet, right, put it on the internet. They gonna get they want to doc your daddy until you stop talking to that motherfucker.

Your parents, said an opinion you don't agree with, Fuck them, get rid of them, right. That is the part I'm discussing. And that's why I said it's interesting you went to someone did a thing, because I think that's what the internet has done to us, is we are now treating everything is a thing like you know, okay, like we're going we're The treatment is as if you made my fiance sit outside, but it really might be that my dad doesn't understand, uh, the terminology for transgender people yet, right, put it on the internet. They gonna get they want to doc your daddy until you stop talking to that motherfucker.

Agreed, Right, Yes, it's it's it's it's like the the from that perspective, every because the Internet, everything's on ten and there aren't levels of infractions, and sometimes something might be a one or two or you can work it out and everybody act like like you said, as simple infraction has has to be the most extreme thing ever because the Internet, the machine has got to be always be angry and put somebody or something in it.

Agreed, Right, Yes, it's it's it's it's like the the from that perspective, every because the Internet, everything's on ten and there aren't levels of infractions, and sometimes something might be a one or two or you can work it out and everybody act like like you said, as simple infraction has has to be the most extreme thing ever because the Internet, the machine has got to be always be angry and put somebody or something in it.

The idea that a person with a good heart can make a mistake has died.

The idea that a person with a good heart can make a mistake has died.

Agreed, It's just die.

Agreed, It's just die.

And I refuse to believe in that reality. Say so, that's why if you you know, right in here and you're like, my dad does my mom that whatever, I'm not doing the like, man, fuck them unless you tell me they did some egregious ship. It's got to be egregious. It can't just be we've you know, this motherfucker believed in this or thought that.

And I refuse to believe in that reality. Say so, that's why if you you know, right in here and you're like, my dad does my mom that whatever, I'm not doing the like, man, fuck them unless you tell me they did some egregious ship. It's got to be egregious. It can't just be we've you know, this motherfucker believed in this or thought that.

That being said, I stand by what I said last.

That being said, I stand by what I said last.

Week and I'm just I'm more I think I'm just being more honest than a lot of people are about these things. I can throw your parents away because they not my parents.

Week and I'm just I'm more I think I'm just being more honest than a lot of people are about these things. I can throw your parents away because they not my parents.

Right, That's that's I'm not giving here.

Right, That's that's I'm not giving here.

I'm not giving you advice. I'm just telling you why I'm not gonna go through all the like, Hey, he say it's just about this and maybe that. I don't need to give him a benefit doubt. For my own self protection, I gotta go. Motherfucker. Seemed like a bad person to me, and good luck if you can figure that out. I can be wrong.

I'm not giving you advice. I'm just telling you why I'm not gonna go through all the like, Hey, he say it's just about this and maybe that. I don't need to give him a benefit doubt. For my own self protection, I gotta go. Motherfucker. Seemed like a bad person to me, and good luck if you can figure that out. I can be wrong.

I hope you can. I can be wrong, right, I don't know them agree.

I hope you can. I can be wrong, right, I don't know them agree.

I did not see anything else other than what you wrote, So that's what I mean. I didn't even want to get caught up in this so long. But whatever Pamela says, congratulations on three thousand hours.

I did not see anything else other than what you wrote, So that's what I mean. I didn't even want to get caught up in this so long. But whatever Pamela says, congratulations on three thousand hours.

I like our conversation. People talk about we always agree on shit, Okay. I wasn't disagreeing you keep putting this out here.

I like our conversation. People talk about we always agree on shit, Okay. I wasn't disagreeing you keep putting this out here.

Like I said, it was interesting. You took it to a to an act and that's it. I'm just you was the one being like, know what I'm saying is I didn't disagree with you.

Like I said, it was interesting. You took it to a to an act and that's it. I'm just you was the one being like, know what I'm saying is I didn't disagree with you.

I know what you said, okay, because I wanted to be sure that I completely explained myself in a way that you could understand.

I know what you said, okay, because I wanted to be sure that I completely explained myself in a way that you could understand.

I understood it perfectly from the beginning. At no point was I saying you was wrong or misquoting you. I think it's interesting because I think that's a paradigm shift we've witnessed in our lifetime. It went from people have certain attitudes too, they did a thing, that's it.

I understood it perfectly from the beginning. At no point was I saying you was wrong or misquoting you. I think it's interesting because I think that's a paradigm shift we've witnessed in our lifetime. It went from people have certain attitudes too, they did a thing, that's it.

That's all.

That's all.

And I don't think you know, most people would argue with you if you say someone did something to me, Yeah, man, what the fuck? Who who's doing I mean, I shouldn't say most people. There's some people that will continue to argue with people where you're like so and so sexual abuse me. It's like, did you know that's your daddy.

And I don't think you know, most people would argue with you if you say someone did something to me, Yeah, man, what the fuck? Who who's doing I mean, I shouldn't say most people. There's some people that will continue to argue with people where you're like so and so sexual abuse me. It's like, did you know that's your daddy.

I'm not. We're not that. Obviously, we're not, and we're not advocating that.

I'm not. We're not that. Obviously, we're not, and we're not advocating that.

I'm actually kind of glad that it came up, because someone projecting on our conversation would probably be writing in next week, like y'all said, it's okay for people to smack your children.

I'm actually kind of glad that it came up, because someone projecting on our conversation would probably be writing in next week, like y'all said, it's okay for people to smack your children.

And you just got that. I got to deal with it.

And you just got that. I got to deal with it.

I did not say that we didn't say that, so don't project.

I did not say that we didn't say that, so don't project.

No, we did not say that. We just voicing our opinions.

No, we did not say that. We just voicing our opinions.

Pamela Ma says, congratulation only three thousand episode. I continue to listen as long as y'all want to do it, Pamela, Thank you, Sean says Roder Karen three k episodes.

Pamela Ma says, congratulation only three thousand episode. I continue to listen as long as y'all want to do it, Pamela, Thank you, Sean says Roder Karen three k episodes.

Congratulations, Apia. Good to have you around.

Congratulations, Apia. Good to have you around.

Whenever someone tells me that they are thinking about Trump, I say, you mean the son of a Nazi, which sometimes gets them thinking. I even had a student say that Elon supported him, must mean he's not all bad, to which I said, you mean the son of an Apartai lamb Bard. It doesn't work every time, but I like to set the frame that these right wing racist nut jobs are not people we should consider legitimate anyway. Neither of them fell far from their rotten racist trees, and they are both nuts. Yeah, that's an interesting tactic. I think the thing about attaching someone to their parents is interesting here because we do know there's a lot of people with fucked up parents that go on to be perfectly you know, uh, great people to society that that look at the example that parents sit and say I will not be that. But Yeah, Trump and Elon Musk did not decide to do that shit, so fuck them.