Mary called Marriage Unhindered from San Francisco, California, because she needed someone to hear her story and to help her find a way forward.

This January 28th will mark 10 years since Mary was struck in a crosswalk and pinned beneath a car. A trauma nurse and disabled veteran, she described how her mind went into “high gear” as she fought to survive. The injuries left her in constant pain and, at times, confined to bed. Through tears she admitted, “I don’t want to die. I want to live."

Guest Dr. Joyce Michael Flynn didn’t offer quick fixes. Instead, she urged Mary to focus less on the “why” and more on the “how”— the next faithful step in front of her. Start with the basics, she said: stable housing, safety, and the small daily choices that make endurance possible. Little by little, those steps can open new doors for purpose and spiritual strength.

Host Doug Hinderer then brought Mary back to a distinctly Catholic truth: suffering can become fruitful when it is united to Our Lord. He shared one of his favorite Bishop Sheen quotes that says “the greatest tragedy in life is wasted suffering.” Doug encouraged Mary to offer her pain to Jesus for important intentions like the souls in purgatory, the unborn, and loved ones who need grace.

Mary’s response showed that her vocation has not disappeared; it has changed. Even without internet at home, she uses the library to research and help fellow veterans navigate medical questions.

Mary’s cross is heavy, but her love is still active. And in Christ, no suffering offered with faith is ever wasted.

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