Think back to when you were a kid. Were you the “easy” one? The polite one? The kid who never caused trouble, never talked back, and always tried to do the right thing?  Many of those so-called “good kids” grow up to be adults who struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and being way too hard on themselves, often without realizing where it comes from. Maggie Nick is a trauma therapist, parenting expert, and author of the new book Good Kids: Why You Suffered in Silence and How to Break the Cycle, she spoke to Andrew Carter.