In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss:
Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach
Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian
Why dominance is a skill
How to explore kink without pretending to be someone you’re not
Consent, negotiation, boundaries, and safe words
What to do when partners have different interests in kink

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Amanda's Links:
Website: https://www.amandadames.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920
Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1
BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist

In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss:
<ul data-md-block="list">
<li>Amanda&rsquo;s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach</li>
<li>Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian</li>
<li>Why dominance is a skill</li>
<li>How to explore kink without pretending to be someone you&rsquo;re not</li>
<li>Consent, negotiation, boundaries, and safe words</li>
<li>What to do when partners have different interests in kink</li>
</ul>
Get the <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/product-page/ultimate-sexual-wellness-bundle">Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle</a> (all my resources/ebooks!!)
Want 10% off <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/category/all-products">store products</a>? Use code thatsorgasmic10
<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">Submit your anonymous question for the podcast</a>
Anonymous question link: <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast">https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast</a>
FOLLOW US on Instagram&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thatsorgasmic/">@thatsorgasmic</a> Send your comments, questions and stories to: <a href="mailto:emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com">emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com</a>
Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call&nbsp;<a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/booking">HERE</a> with Emily at <a href="https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/">The Sexual Wellness Centre</a>
Amanda's Links:
<ul>
<li>Website: <a href="https://www.amandadames.com/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amandadames.com/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw24jI45-3tCO6Phk36IMcO8">https://www.amandadames.com/</a></li>
<li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw2TrnHCqIOluEgVFOw-vqwR">https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/</a></li>
<li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw0NGtQOtD6ssS1HBtx_DLTt">https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/</a></li>
<li>TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw1iv_RSdvDJSWyKLScx5SW6">https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant</a></li>
<li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw18RCkiK4qTM3dJ1ejxu1-g">https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant</a></li>
<li>Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw37O-ZgQqZ9MFTF5MJ7SRkA">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920</a></li>
<li>Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: <a href="https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw2YW9ulaoEumeqe1BR2X9Eh">https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1</a></li>
<li>BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: <a href="https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist" data-saferedirecturl="https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist&amp;source=gmail&amp;ust=1790787493986000&amp;usg=AOvVaw3WwGGyhyWaLI5JMZ576ALy">https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist</a></li>
</ul>

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