Brandon sits down with Curly Velasquez, co-host of The Super Secret Bestie Club and VP of Development at LatiNation Media, for a funny, spiritual, and deeply messy conversation about grief, sober sex, ancestral rituals, chosen family, and the ways our bodies remember what our mouths are still learning how to say.

The conversation also gets into the idea that messiness is not new — it is inherited. From vulgar grandmas and Bible stories to queer lineage, family lore, and the people who taught us how to survive with humor, desire, and spirit still intact, Curly and Brandon unpack how the mess can be sacred and hilarious.

From altars and grandma stories to intimacy without numbing and the truth that “the only way to get through grief is to grieve,” Curly helps Brandon unpack how messiness can be inheritance, healing, and a practice of staying present.

Brandon sits down with Curly Velasquez, co-host of <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-super-secret-bestie-club/id1588446856">The Super Secret Bestie Club</a> and VP of Development at LatiNation Media, for a funny, spiritual, and deeply messy conversation about grief, sober sex, ancestral rituals, chosen family, and the ways our bodies remember what our mouths are still learning how to say.
The conversation also gets into the idea that messiness is not new &mdash; it is inherited. From vulgar grandmas and Bible stories to queer lineage, family lore, and the people who taught us how to survive with humor, desire, and spirit still intact, Curly and Brandon unpack how the mess can be sacred and hilarious.
From altars and grandma stories to intimacy without numbing and the truth that &ldquo;the only way to get through grief is to grieve,&rdquo; Curly helps Brandon unpack how messiness can be inheritance, healing, and a practice of staying present.

Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it’s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!

Don’t be shy baby, tell us something messy! 

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Tell Me Something Messy is your unfiltered companion for relationships, adulting, and defeating shame! Each week, writer and comedian Brandon Kyle Goodman invites listeners (aka Messy Patrons) to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wonderfully unhinged world of dating, personal growth, and getting comfortable with disappointing your mom! (Seriously, it&rsquo;s okay!) With candid guests and plenty of messy giggles, BKG spills the kind of piping hot tea that compassionately emboldens listeners to say the quiet things out loud and embrace their messiest truths!
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Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Tell Me Something Messy: Relationships, Mental Health & Personal Growth

Brandon and Curly Velasquez, one half of the The Super Secret Bestie Club podcast, get into grief, sober sex, altars, ancestral mess, and what it means to stay present in a world that keeps teaching us to numb out.

God Is Freaky: Bible Stories, Sober Sex & Ancestral Mess w/ Curly Velasquez

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