Brandon sits down with Erica Chidi, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica’s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!

 

More about Erica: https://www.ericachidi.com/

Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779

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Brandon sits down with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ericachidi/?hl=en">Erica Chidi</a>, writer, producer and health educator, to talk secret trysts, and the thrill of keeping one bedroom a clean, always-ready zone for erotic fun. They dive into Erica&rsquo;s four-pronged framework for keeping the urgency of intimacy ablaze: letting go of the extra partner in bed, reset your environment, manage pain, and set goals in the bedroom. On this episode, talking it through is the kink, baby!
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More about Erica: <a href="https://www.ericachidi.com/">https://www.ericachidi.com/</a>
Submit your anonymous messy stories and game ideas at SomethingMessy.com or call 669 696 3779
Comments and suggestions email TellMeSomethingMessy@gmail.com&nbsp;
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It’s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.

It&rsquo;s time for a messy kiki about relationships, love, and sex! Tell Me Something Messy is an educational comedy podcast hosted by writer, actor, and sexual/mental wellness advocate, Brandon Kyle Goodman, henceforth known as Messy Mom! Each week Messy Patrons are invited to leave perfectionism at the door and wade into the wild, wonderful world of dating drama, pleasure pursuits, and communication breakthroughs. With Messy Mom activated, BKG steers the kiki as unfiltered guests and callers unpack entanglements and embrace their truths. Tell Me Something Messy is a no-judgment zone where communication is currency and showing up fully is law.

Tell Me Something Messy with Brandon Kyle Goodman

Brandon and writer, producer and health educator Erica Chidi explore the ways kink can mimic intimacy, and how keeping one bedroom clean and pristine is a secret recipe for getting busy.

Resentment, Environment, and the Blueprint for Great Sex w/ Erica Chidi 

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/5da84959-776c-4256-92bc-b36b01299633/transcript

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