Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 40 and my husband is 44 years old. I work from home and my husband is a nurse and he works four days on and four days off. He’s got a part-time job giving COVID tests one day a week. He was working late the other night and I was in our backyard smoking weed and I heard my husband pull into the driveway. I walked around the house to surprise him and I ended up stopping to watch him because he was searching his car for something.............................