Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old engaged female and my fiancé is 34 years old. I work as a school administrator and he is a mechanic. We met when he fixed my flat tire and then offered to detail my car for free. He is a tall, thin man with pearly white teeth and a nice afro. I could tell he was a hood dude the minute I saw him and that’s what attracted me to him. He plays basketball at a community center and he invited me to a game..............................