Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a married associate pastor and my wife is a stay-at-home mom. Two months ago, I went to Africa on a mission trip and when I came home, my wife was acting weird. She would be either really happy or really sleepy so I thought she was having a nervous breakdown, until one night I leaned in to kiss her and I noticed a strange smell in her hair and breath. It was weed! I asked her if she had been smoking and she denied it and got irritated with me for asking. After that, I started watching her closely and I snooped through her car...........