Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 46 year old married woman and I am having an affair with my pastor. He’s new to our city so I was chosen to show him around and help him get acclimated. He’s a married man with 2 children but his wife and children decided to stay put until their oldest daughter graduated high school. So, he was new in town and bored out of his mind. We started hanging out a lot and he let his guard down with me. I found out he uses profanity, drinks alcohol and smokes weed when he’s around his fraternity brothers.....................................